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In this episode, Kelly shares a piece of writing she's kept in her drawer for years about the power of choosing "good enough." She reflects on her mom's wisdom about saying "no" to the endless invitations and expectations that pile up in our daily lives and how learning to be selective creates space for what truly matters. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Okay, guards are down. I've been watering down my passion and mission to try and keep myself out of the "heat"- all while seeing moms drowning in the consequences of negativity. All done- welcome to my new ERA! Starting with 5 reasons to stop saying no to your kids. I'm talking about NO, CAN'T, DON'T, WON'T, SHOULDN'T... reactivity, negativity and disconnection from your kids. I mentioned my 21 day YES MOM CHALLENGE available in my membership (access it anytime) to learn the TOOLS of Yes Language. This will decrease the time spent yelling, criticizing, arguing and breaking boundaries. Sign up here! Learn from my free "Yes Mom" content .
Garage Night with Craig and Corey Bentley: Bridge, Craig's Late, FFL, Hawaii, Slide Concussion, Saying No, Wedding, Shout Outs
In this episode of PivotMe, April dives into one of the sneakiest ways we sabotage ourselves: saying yes after a string of no's. Our brains often trick us into believing we “deserve” a reward after sacrifice—even if that yes derails our goals. April shares how to recognize this moment of weakness, why it happens, and how to build the self-awareness needed to stay aligned with your bigger vision. She emphasizes the importance of being intentional in decision-making, ensuring that every yes or no moves you closer to the life and business you're building. What You'll Learn in This Episode: How your brain uses “rewards” to justify a yes after multiple no's. How to be intentional in decision-making and outsmart your brain. The power of saying the fourth no with the same energy as the first. Why awareness is the first step in stopping sabotage. Quote to Remember: “Your brain will try to trick you into a yes after sacrifice—but the true reward is staying aligned with your goals.” – April Key Takeaway: High performers don't just say no once—they say no consistently, even when their brain is screaming for an easy yes. That consistency is where the magic happens. ______________________________________
In this episode of the Move The Ball podcast, host Jen Garrett dives into the art of mastering the strategic "Yes" and the career-saving "No." Drawing from her experience in leadership, branding, and consulting with elite professionals, Jen shares actionable frameworks for making intentional decisions that align with your long-term goals. Learn how to evaluate opportunities, apply decision-making filters, and position yourself for success by saying "yes" to what matters—and "no" to what doesn't. Plus, discover resources to further your growth, including the Executive Edge newsletter and Move the Ball Digital Workbooks. Episode Highlights: 3:24 — Defining a strategic Yes: Intentional, not reactive 3:49 — The Alignment and ROI Test: Brand fit, time investment, potential upside 4:33 — The importance of alignment with long-term goals 6:17 — The right Yes is about positioning your work for the right audience 6:48 — The power of a career-saving No: Real-life examples 7:14 — Saying No can strengthen your reputation and credibility 8:50 — Your brand positioning as your ultimate compass IT'S TIME TO SHOW UP WITH CONFIDENCE, MAKE AN IMPACT, AND MOVE THE BALL:
Could saying no actually be your best longevity strategy? Blair LaCorte reveals why avoiding over-optimization and focusing on system biology, compassion, and purpose instead leads to authentic biosynergy and lasting vitality. Meet our guest Blair LaCorte is a dynamic business executive whose career spans entertainment, aviation, AI, technology, aerospace, consulting, investing & military logistics. He has held CEO & C-level roles at leading companies like PRG, XOJET/Vista, TPG, Autodesk & Oracle, while also taking startups such as AEye Technologies & VerticalNet to IPO. Currently an astronaut-in-training with Virgin Galactic & Vice Chairman of the Buck Institute, Blair continues to drive innovation, growth & global impact. Thank you to our partners Outliyr Biohacker's Peak Performance Shop: get exclusive discounts on cutting-edge health, wellness, & performance gear Ultimate Health Optimization Deals: a database of of all the current best biohacking deals on technology, supplements, systems and more Latest Summits, Conferences, Masterclasses, and Health Optimization Events: join me at the top events around the world FREE Outliyr Nootropics Mini-Course: gain mental clarity, energy, motivation, and focus Key takeaways Tech is for control, not a cure all Forgetting biology leads to problems, not progress Over optimizing health with gadgets causes new problems Step back & look at the whole picture Scientific knowledge & personal belief both affect your biology & well being more than most realize Staying healthy is better than only reacting to sickness Small daily choices matter more than silver bullets Focus on what works for you Test, observe, & stick with what fits your life & makes you feel good Relationships lower stress & boost your immune system Loneliness is a major health risk at any age Some stress helps growth Chronic unbroken stress harms your body Find ways to activate & calm yourself Knowing health tips isn't enough Build habits you enjoy, ideally with friends or community support, for lasting results No two people are alike Track your own changes & work out routines & diets that fit you specifically Modern testing makes it easier to spot issues early Keep personal health records to track your biomarkers over time Episode highlights 04:19 Why Technology Alone Won't Save Your Health 21:17 The Real Framework for Habit Change That Works 28:50 What Truly Multiplies Healthspan Results 36:44 Practical Ways to Strengthen Connection & Reduce Stress 46:28 How to Personalize Health in a Complex World Links Watch it on YouTube: https://youtu.be/U2QuhPEugq4 Full episode show notes: outliyr.com/223 Connect with Nick on social media Instagram Twitter (X) YouTube LinkedIn Easy ways to support Subscribe Leave an Apple Podcast review Suggest a guest Do you have questions, thoughts, or feedback for us? Let me know in the show notes above and one of us will get back to you! Be an Outliyr, Nick
Why is it so hard to say “no”?
Saying No to "Good" to Build Something Great | E268Highlights from this episode:Saying No to "Good" to Build Something Great (01:22)Closing Thought: Having the tough conversations (20:08)In this episode, I get real about the tension between what we want and what we need as private practice owners. I walk you through the mental tug-of-war I'm in: deciding whether to chase opportunity or stay laser-focused on building something elite. My passion for ocular surface disease and the dream of scaling RDEC into a renowned referral center help me make the tough choices with saying “no” to good things in pursuit of great ones. We also touch on leadership, hiring, and the hard but necessary conversations that shape your culture. This is for every doctor trying to build something that's not just profitable, but deeply fulfilling. Join in the conversation and subscribe to the podcast to keep up with all the great content coming down the pipe! For exclusive content, be sure to register your email on our website and I will be sending out newsletters and other great bonuses as we go. I love getting feedback, questions, suggestions, etc. so contact me atwww.theultimateod.com, on social media (click here for ->YouTube,Twitter,Instagram,Facebook) OR, just shoot me an email at drlillie@theultimateod.com and I'd be happy to chat!
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Alison interviews attorney Michele Locke, who shares her remarkable journey of self-discovery and the importance of self-care. As she pursued her dream, she became a highly regarded family law attorney and a judge, managing complex cases involving family issues, domestic violence, and child welfare.Michele discusses the immense emotional and physical toll that her legal career exacted on her. Over the years, she inadvertently neglected her own health while focusing on building her law practice and raising her blended family. She recalls how her health deteriorated significantly starting in October 2020, leading her to realize that she was prioritizing everyone else's needs over her own. This realization became a turning point in her life, as she recognized that self-care is essential and not a selfish act.One of the episode's key themes is the myth surrounding self-care being equated with selfishness. Throughout the conversation, Michele emphasizes that neglecting oneself can lead to dire consequences, affecting not just the individual but also their loved ones. She details the pain she endured after ignoring symptoms for years, culminating in surgeries that finally addressed her health issues. Michele shares candid insights about the common societal pressures to always present oneself as fine, despite the internal struggles many face.The interview also delves into Michele's personal transformation after experiencing a significant life event and reflects on the moments that forced her to re-evaluate her priorities and take a critical look at her well-being. Through discussions about setting boundaries and the power of saying no, she highlights the importance of tuning into one's body and needs rather than sacrificing oneself for perceived obligations.Listeners gain insights into practical steps Michelle has taken to prioritize her health, including listening to her body and establishing healthier boundaries in her personal and professional life. She discusses her impressive weight loss journey, which serves as a metaphor for her broader transformation: shedding not just physical weight but also the mental and emotional burdens she carried.HIGHLIGHTS:2:54 A Wake-Up Call7:38 Overcoming Challenges13:05 The Importance of Kindness20:00 Creating Healthy Boundaries24:06 A Life Transformed27:35 Tools for Change30:32 Embracing the Journeyconnect with Michele:www.michelelocke.comwww.instagram.com/attorneymichelelockeLove Lust Law podcastSPONSOR:Cellev8Discount code: THEALISONK2024ALISON'S LINKS:Website | Facebook | Twitter | InstagramGET MY FREE 4 part Pop-up Podcast Series
Luxury isn't about saying yes to everything. It isn't the crowded calendar, the endless obligations, or the forced commitments that leave you drained. The new luxury is about discernment, alignment, and the elegant no... boundaries that protect your energy without guilt or apology. In this episode, I'm breaking down how to practice the elegant no so you can curate a life that feels expansive, intentional, and joy-filled. We'll talk… • Why saying no feels so hard, and how to reframe it as an act of self-worth. • How the French philosophy of restraint and refinement ties into living beautifully. • Real-world scenarios and scripts for saying no to friends, clients, and even family, gracefully and without ever using the word “no.” • How fewer, deeper yeses create more space for the everyday moments of joie de vivre. By the end of this episode, you'll see that boundaries aren't barriers, they're the foundation of living well, slowly, and luxuriously. Because your yes means more when you've mastered the elegant no. Useful Resources:
There's a first time for everything, and here you'll hear about us actually, finally saying NO to a racing opportunity. Also, holy shit-- 100th episode!****************This podcast is comprised of entries from the journal I've been keeping since the day we got on the road in the middle of a global pandemic to go racing.Shamelessly authentic and always with a sense of humor, I hope this story gives you a look behind the sheen of social media-- the shiny posts about racing, travel, and of course, eating, and sheds light on what it's really like to be a family taking risks and living life on the road.Follow us online to get early access to our content & the latest news!Instagram // @thewholestory & @ellysium_racingSign up for our newsletterFacebook // Ellysium RacingLinkedIn // Michele & Elliswww.ellysium.co
✨ mental health • feminism • community living • relationships ✨In today's episode we're diving headfirst into the big messy questions: what does it mean to build a life outside of men and outside of society's “timeline”?I break down the Bird's Nest community (a women-only living space where companionship > coupledom), the rise of the 4B movement in South Korea (spoiler: no men, no marriage, no babies, no problem?), and how timeline grief sneaks up on us when we realize we're not living the script we were handed.We'll talk money (aka financial independence = freedom), self-discovery, and why reinvention at literally ANY age is not only allowed, it's necessary. Plus: I got featured in the Wall Street Journal (!!) so yeah, we're celebrating that too.
A few years ago, we explored The Art and Agony of No—one of the most popular episodes in the Advancing Women Podcast archive. In this episode, we revisit that topic and dig deeper into why saying no feels so agonizing for women, especially in professional and personal contexts. From social conditioning and workplace biases to household expectations, we explore the forces that keep women overcommitted and undervalued. Using research, real stories, and practical strategies, we discuss: The concept of non-promotable work and why women are asked to do it more often—and why we say yes. How prove-it-again and tightrope biases make saying no feel risky. The transformative story of the No Club, a collective approach to saying no strategically and confidently. Actionable ways to start protecting your time, energy, and opportunities, both at work and at home. A cultural reflection inspired by the movie 9 to 5, showing how little has changed in the fight for workplace balance. Key Takeaways / Manifestatement: Your time, your energy, your brilliance are precious. Saying no protects them. This episode is about being intentional, reclaiming your boundaries, and understanding that every no is a doorway to your best yes. Action Steps for Listeners: Start Your Own No Club: Set a goal for how many requests you'll decline this week or month. Keep a Log: Track your nos to notice patterns and normalize boundary-setting. Share Your Practice: Encourage friends, colleagues, and family that saying no is strategic, not selfish. Episode referenced in this episode: The Art and Agony of Saying NO! (8/2/2021) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-art-and-agony-of-saying-no/id1569849100?i=1000530813744 Let's Connect @AdvancingWomenPodcast Subscribe, rate, and share the podcast! Follow, and Join the Conversation on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ & Facebook https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ More on Dr. DeSimone here! https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-desimone-phd-mba-ba00b88/
Productivity Straight Talk - Time Management, Productivity and Business Growth Tips
I dive into the real reason you're always ‘so busy,' digging deep into the underlying beliefs that keep you in this frantic, reactive cycle. I go into how society has programmed us to believe that being busy equals being virtuous, productive, and secure, talk about why those beliefs are a trap, and divulge how to make the necessary shift from reactive to intentional. What You'll Discover In This Episode: ✔ The Underlying Beliefs Making You Feel Like You Must Always Be "Busy" ✔ How "Toxic Busy-Ness" Impacts Your Health, Relationships & Business ✔ Ways Constant Busy-Ness Is Undermining Your Expertise ✔ How Shifting To Intentionality Requires Changing Your Mindset & Business Model ✔ Strategies To Notice Your Default Response & Create Space For What Matters ✔ What True Success Is Really About ✔ So Much More! To access resources and links from this episode, click on https://AmberDeLaGarza.com/391 P.S. Want to discover what's most holding you back in business and receive a personalized playlist to help you overcome those specific challenges? It only takes a few minutes to take the Next Level Business Owner Quiz and get on the path of taking your leadership and business to the next level! And… If you want help managing your time, creating efficiency, making a new hire, reducing the stress and overwhelm of running a business, or making strategic decisions that will help you level up your business, I'd like to talk to you. Let's discuss how we can partner together to help you get unstuck, reduce stress, and determine a clear path to increased profits! Schedule your Discovery Call
This week on The Thick podcast, Michelle and Kelsey share the things we're collectively saying no to — from invites that drain our energy to the unrealistic expectations people put on us. We talk about why boundaries, both online and in real life, are essential, and how saying no is one of the healthiest things you can do for your mental health. You don't have to be everything to everyone. We break down why prioritizing yourself and your family is not selfish, how to protect your peace, and why “no” can be a full sentence.
The Art of Saying No: Why Boundaries Are A Girl's Best Friend.
How does an introverted ex-underwriter become a top-producing broker doing 300 deals a year—without spending a dime on advertising? Farhan Mahmood went from sleeping in coffee shops to building a thriving mortgage business purely by referral. In this episode, he opens up about the hard-won lessons behind his quiet rise, including how he built trust, set boundaries, and learned to say no—without sacrificing growth. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by client demands or discouraged by slow early results, this conversation will reset your perspective. We'll cover: Introvert Advantage – Why Farhan's quiet nature helped him build deep trust and long-term referrals. Saying No to Say Yes – How learning to decline unprofitable files gave him back his time—and sanity. Boundary Breakthroughs – The 3 rules he put in place to finally take weekends, evenings, and even a vacation off. Surviving the Banks – How he competes with major banks offering lower rates by leading with service and relationships. From the Streets to Success – How Farhan used rock-bottom moments as fuel—and why mindset still drives everything he does. Success in this business doesn't come from saying yes to everything—it comes from building systems, staying sharp, and knowing when to walk away. Farhan's story proves that quiet consistency beats noise every time. Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/scottpeckford/ I Love Mortgage Brokering: www.ilovemortgagebrokering.com Find out more about BRX Mortgage: www.whybrx.com Subscribe to my 3-2-1 Thursday Email I Love Mortgage Brokering is in partnership with Ownwell. To see how top brokers are keeping clients engaged and generating leads from their database, visit ownwell.ca/scott
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Join Women in Chemical for an empowering webinar that explores the transformative power of saying "no." Discover how setting boundaries can propel your career forward, enhance your work-life balance, and lead to more fulfilling "yes" moments. This session will provide practical strategies for confidently saying no, understanding its importance, and leveraging it to achieve your professional and personal goals. We'll delve into why women often struggle with saying no and how embracing this skill can be a game-changer.Key Takeaways:Empowerment Through Boundaries: Understand the importance of saying no to maintain healthy boundaries, prevent burnout, and prioritize well-being.Strategic Career Advancement: Learn how saying no can help focus on high-impact tasks, leading to better performance and career progression.Enhanced Work-Life Balance: Discover how setting boundaries contributes to a balanced and fulfilling life, ensuring time for personal interests and relaxation.Confident Decision-Making: Build confidence in making intentional choices that align with your values and goals, leading to more meaningful and rewarding "yes" moments.
Psychologists Off The Clock: A Psychology Podcast About The Science And Practice Of Living Well
Sometimes saying “yes” too much can really take a toll on you. In this episode, Jill chats with Dr. Sunita Sah, a bestselling author and Cornell professor, about her book Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes. They break down how constant compliance can affect your emotions, mind, and body, and share strategies for recognizing when it's time to push back. Sunita introduces the concept of a ‘Defiance Compass' to help guide people in acting according to their values. You'll also learn about the difference between going along with something and truly giving consent, how anxiety can arise in difficult situations, and why practicing small acts of defiance can prepare you for bigger, high-stakes moments. Listen and Learn: How can redefining "defiance" from a negative act of resistance to an alignment with true values help us better understand the balance between compliance, consent, and social pressure?Why is defiance better understood as a staged process on a continuum rather than a simple yes/no choice, and how does recognizing tension help us navigate compliance?Distinguishing between true expert intuition and bias-driven gut feelings when making decisions in uncertain situationsWhy is it so difficult for people to resist compliance and obedience in high-pressure situations, and how can practicing defiance help us prepare to say no and prevent harm?How can we recognize the difference between true consent and mere compliance, and what essential elements are needed to ensure a genuine "yes"?Navigating situations where we technically have the freedom to say no, but psychological pressures like insinuation anxiety or fear of consequences make it difficult to speak upHow do insinuation anxiety and the sales pitch effect interact to increase pressure to comply, even when consent is technically present?Overcoming the tension and fear of non-compliance to act in alignment with our values using tools like the Defiance CompassHow you can practice defiance as a skillResources:Defy: The Power of No in a World That Demands Yes: https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9780593445778Sunita's Website: https://www.sunitasah.com/Connect with Sunita on Social Media:https://www.instagram.com/drsunitasahhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/drsunitasah/https://www.tiktok.com/@drsunitasah About Sunita SahDr. Sunita Sah is a national bestselling author, an award-winning professor at Cornell University, and an expert in organizational psychology. She leads groundbreaking research on influence, authority, compliance, and defiance. A trained physician, Dr. Sah practiced medicine in the United Kingdom and worked as a management consultant for the pharmaceutical industry. She currently teaches executives, leaders, and students in healthcare and business.Dr. Sah is also a sought-after international speaker and consultant, an advisor to government agencies, and a former Commissioner of the National Commission on Forensic Science. Her multidisciplinary research and analyses have been widely published in leading academic journals and media outlets, including The New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Harvard Business Review, and Scientific American. She lives with her husband and son in New York.Related Episodes:211. Subtract with Leidy Klotz276. Assertive Communication Skills with Randy Paterson305. The Power of Saying No with Vanessa Patrick311. Nobody's Fool with Daniel Simons and Christopher Chabris394. Sunlight is the Best Disinfectant with Andrea Dunlop and Mike Weber399. Likable Badass with Alison FragaleSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Feeling stuck in decision fatigue? Take the quiz at www.bebrightlisa.com/quiz Ever said yes to a freelance project, a job, or a client and felt that pit in your stomach right after? In this episode, visionary business coach and personal branding expert Lisa Guillot dives deep into the difference between a “yes” that lights you up and one that quietly depletes you. She shares the exact tool she uses with her coaching clients (and herself) to make aligned decisions in life, leadership, and brand building, especially in those pivotal moments of reinvention.
Saying “no” isn't selfish—it's one of the most powerful tools you have as a creative. In this episode, we talk about why setting boundaries can transform your business, how to spot red flags with clients, and the key factors to consider before turning down work. We'll share real-life stories of walking away from misaligned projects, the “Yes, but…” strategy for balancing income with alignment, and four actionable tips to help you say no with clarity—so you can make space for the kind of work and life you truly want.Episode Blog Link: https://www.levelupartists.com/lua-podcast/214Sign up for our studio newsletters at: https://www.AmeighArt.com https://www.JaclynSanders.com https://www.levelupartists.com Connect with us on Instagram: / ameighart / jsandersstudio / levelupartists Music by: https://www.coreyclaxton.com Watching or listening to one of our earlier episodes? In 2022, the Art Studio Insights podcast was renamed the Level Up Artists podcast!
Welcome back to The Fit & Fulfilled Podcast. In this episode we discuss:The heart-to-heart to help you unlock new levels of abundance in your life Being brave enough to trust in the unknown even when you have zero physical evidence The inner work that completely shifts your outer realityBeing honest & authentic with yourself about what you want…versus what you think is possible Saying ‘No' to crumbs so that you can finally manifest the entire bakery Private Mentorship with KhushbuWatch The Going ALL IN Manifestation MasterclassJoin Seal The DealWays To Work TogetherTake The Quiz To Figure Out Which Manifesting Bubble You're Currently Stuck InWatch 'Be It To See It' MasterclassClick here more details & to apply for my 1:1 coaching program Uplevel Your LifeAccess the Freedom From Fear WorkshopJoin Calm, Cool & CreatingJoin School of Magnetic ConnectionWatch 'Be It To See It' MasterclassAccess the Money Manifestation MasterclassClick here to read some of the amazing outcomes my clients have manifested for themselvesFrom the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for being here. If you aren't already, come join the party over on:Instagram: @khushbu.kweighWebsite: https://kthadani.com/
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You know boundaries matter — so why does saying no still feel like betrayal? This episode exposes the deeper identity-level misalignment and shows you how to create boundaries that don't just work… but feel like you.You know the script: You say yes, even when you're stretched thin. You keep the peace, carry the load, and tell yourself, “This is just what it takes.”But beneath that over-functioning is a quieter truth: Saying no still feels wrong — not because you're weak, but because your identity is wired for performance and approval.In this episode of the Identity-Level Recalibration podcast, Julie Holly shares a deeply personal reflection on the tangled guilt behind boundary-setting — and why sustainable boundaries require an identity shift, not a time hack.You'll explore:The real reason saying no triggers guilt, obligation, and confusionWhy high performers override their own needs, even with the best boundary scriptsA powerful reframe that moves you from resentment to rhythmHow your yes might be protecting a role that's quietly eroding your alignmentYou'll also hear a faith-rooted story about The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst — and how one friend's timely suggestion led Julie to rewire her understanding of identity, boundaries, and divine alignment.—Today's Micro Recalibration:Ask yourself:“Where in my life have I been saying yes out of fear or obligation, not alignment?” Then ask: “What would a boundary rooted in self-trust look like in that space?”For leaders:“Where have we been absorbing friction instead of setting clear expectations?”You weren't meant to burn out to be trusted.Sustainable boundaries don't come from behavior tweaks — they come from identity recalibration.RESOURCES:BOOK: The Best Yes, by Lysa TerKeurstIf this episode gave you language you've been missing, please rate and review the show so more high-capacity humans can find it. Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights → Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you → Download the Misalignment Audit → Subscribe to the weekly newsletter → Join the waitlist for the next Recalibration cohort This isn't therapy. This isn't coaching. This is identity recalibration — and it changes everything.
On this episode of “Tommy Talk,” Tommy discusses the power of saying “No.” It’s one of the hardest things for us to say, but why? Let’s dive into how saying that tiny little word can help us step into our power.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This episode will explore how the simple act of saying “no” can become a radical reclaiming of your time, energy, and self-worth.
Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In this episode of the Make Time for Success podcast, Dr. Christine Li dives into the common productivity traps that tend to hold us back during midlife. She shares seven key habits that can sap our energy, add stress, and hinder our progress—including multitasking, always pushing through, ignoring energy cycles, overcommitting, letting emotional drains linger, caring too much about others' opinions, and neglecting rest. Dr. Li offers practical tips and compassionate advice for breaking free from these patterns, empowering listeners to create a productivity style that truly suits their needs in midlife and beyond. Don't miss her expert strategies for reclaiming your time, energy, and sense of fulfillment!Timestamps:00:03:29 – 00:17:42The 7 Productivity Traps:Multitasking – Focus on one thing at a time instead.Pushing Through – Don't ignore your body's limits; rest matters.Ignoring Energy Cycles – Align activities with your natural energy highs and lows.Overcommitting – Set boundaries and learn to say no.Emotional Drains – Clear up unresolved feelings to stay present and productive.Caring What Others Think – Refocus on your own goals, not comparisons or judgments.Neglecting Rest – Prioritize restorative sleep and regular downtime.00:17:42 – 00:19:37Wrap-Up: Review the traps, choose meaningful changes, and connect for resources and support.To get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/trapsTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Us!Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/lab Simply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP
How do I tell my manager no? How do I push back on a bad idea? If I cannot accomplish something, how do I communicate that effectively? These are the questions we will answer in today's episode of Dev Questions.Website: https://www.iamtimcorey.com/ Ask Your Question: https://suggestions.iamtimcorey.com/ Sign Up to Get More Great Developer Content in Your Inbox: https://signup.iamtimcorey.com/
Productivity Straight Talk - Time Management, Productivity and Business Growth Tips
In this episode of the Small Business Straight Talk Podcast, I dive into the raw, honest reasons why you might be stuck throwing good money after bad and teach you how to cut those losses. More importantly, I share the mindset shift and a powerful question that will help you finally make that call, free yourself from the emotional burden, and create space for genuine growth. What You'll Discover In This Episode: ✔ What Nobody's Telling You About Cutting Losses In Business ✔ Why This Happens & What To Do About ✔ How To Know When It Is Time ✔ Why Stopping Something In Far From Failing ✔ When To Expect The Mindset Shift Necessary To Grow ✔ So Much More! To access resources and links from this episode, click on https://AmberDeLaGarza.com/389 P.S. Want to discover what's most holding you back in business and receive a personalized playlist to help you overcome those specific challenges? It only takes a few minutes to take the Next Level Business Owner Quiz and get on the path of taking your leadership and business to the next level! And… If you want help managing your time, creating efficiency, making a new hire, reducing the stress and overwhelm of running a business, or making strategic decisions that will help you level up your business, I'd like to talk to you. Let's discuss how we can partner together to help you get unstuck, reduce stress, and determine a clear path to increased profits! Schedule your Discovery Call
In this episode of Tales from The Lane, Kate takes a candid look at a growing trend: using self-care and boundaries as default reasons to opt out of opportunities, connection, and growth. While the movement to prevent burnout was born out of necessity—helping leaders, parents, and professionals stretched impossibly thin—somewhere along the way, it became a lifestyle brand. And now, more and more early-career professionals are declining every extra task, gig, or invitation in the name of “protecting their peace,” only to find themselves feeling disconnected and unfulfilled. Kate explores: Why self-care and boundaries matter (and where the movement started) How the pendulum has swung too far in the opposite direction How saying yes (even when it feels inconvenient) can build skills, networks, and community What the most fulfilled, high-achieving people do differently If you've been wondering how to balance protecting your time with showing up fully for your life and your community, this conversation will help you reframe what it means to be both intentional and engaged. Mentioned in this episode: Thrive by Arianna Huffington Essentialism by Greg McKeown Slow Productivity by Cal Newport Grab my free Quarterly Retreat Planning Guide to help you map your year and reclaim your calendar. Want more great tips on how you can continue to pursue excellence without burning out? Grab a copy of my new book, Beyond Potential: A Guide for Creatives Who Want to Re-Assess, Re-Define, and Re-Ignite Their Careers. Let's Hang Out! Follow me on Instagram: @kkayaian
David Shands and Donni Wiggins talk about how they can better serve "My First Million Conference" attendees.Tune into the conversation to find out about how this event may happen in 2025.Subscribe to the Social Proof Podcast:Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/social-proof-podcast/id1374373035Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6GT6Vgj...https://open.spotify.com/show/5QM1w9IfjTza1wwHR06WaR?si=7c3bcc1c3b954bb9
Can a submissive say no to their Dominant and still be in service? Absolutely. In this episode, we're challenging the outdated idea that submission means saying yes to everything. Instead, we explore how setting boundaries, speaking up, and honoring your own needs are essential parts of a healthy D/s dynamic.Saying no isn't disobedience—it's a powerful act of self-awareness that builds trust, reinforces consent, and protects both partners from burnout and resentment. You'll learn why submission isn't about automatic obedience, but about making intentional, informed choices in service of the relationship.We'll also share examples and phrases you can use to say no with respect and clarity, along with reminders that you're allowed to take care of yourself and be a devoted submissive.Visit us at pinkkinkpodcast.comAffiliates - SireDonLeather.com (use code PINKKINK to save 10% on your order) Obedienceapp.com/pinkkink for a 20% discountVisit https://linktr.ee/pinkkinkpodcast for links to our Patreon, Pink Kink Boutique, Pink Kink Institute, social media accounts and more!
Did you know that 61% of women experience burnout at work? In this empowering episode, Dr. mOe Anderson sits down with leadership coach and mindset mentor Sam Jump to discuss the liberating power of saying no, setting healthy boundaries, and crafting a life of intentionality and authenticity. Memorable Quotes from Sam Jump: "When something is a full-bodied yes, you almost feel a physical pull toward it. But if you have to talk yourself into it, it's okay to say no." "Embodied leadership means showing up more consciously, acknowledging and respecting the voices of everyone involved." Key Points: The Courage to Say No: Sam Jump shares how building the courage muscle to say no can prevent burnout and lead to a more balanced life. Embodied Leadership: Redefining leadership by aligning with values like truth, trust, and mutual respect can foster more inclusive and supportive environments. Intentional Life Design: Creating a personal mission plan helps align actions with personal values, leading to personal fulfillment and empowerment. Managing Stress through Self-Awareness: Understanding and managing emotions and the nervous system can help respond better to stressors, improving overall well-being. Chapter Breakdown: 0:00:07 - Building Courage to Say No 0:12:05 - Building Leadership Through Embodied Values 0:22:13 - Navigating Personal Fulfillment and Boundaries 0:29:13 - Navigating Self-Awareness and Emotional Wellness Resources Mentioned: Learn more about Sam Jump and her services powerhouseswithpurpose.com Please subscribe, share, and comment. Visit our YouTube channel (@drmOeanderson) for video pods! Would you like to support this indie, woman-owned, small business providing free educational and inspirational content? There are three secure, fee-free ways 1.☕ Buy Me a Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/drmoeandu 2.
After months off the mic, I wasn't sure how to return. What I did know was this … It's time to start disappointing others so you don't disappoint yourself (thanks Elizabeth Gilbert). Time to stop draining your energy just to keep things smooth, so you can start noticing what peace actually feels like in your body. It's about the energy edits that don't look big on the outside but feel huge in your body. I share the simple, and wildly uncomfortable, ways I've started saying no (without the novel). And how those decisions gave me energy I didn't know I was leaking. If you've been sitting on a decision you already know is a no, and haven't let yourself make it (yet) this one's for you. Inside this episode: Why “boundaries” never quite landed for me The phrase I use now and how it softened everything Letting go of inherited rules that never felt like mine The epic healing that happens inside, when disappointing others What came rushing in when I stopped abandoning myself Need support with your own energy edits? EDGE, my brand new 2-week mini container, is now open. The space between the knowing and the doing. If you're craving your energy back, DM me “EDGE” on socials or send me an email amanda@amandaewin.com and I'll share the next steps.
Saying “No!” might stop your dog in the moment—but it doesn't teach them what to do instead. In this episode, we dive into why “No” isn't actually training and how to shift your approach to create lasting behavior change.You'll learn how to replace unwanted behaviors like jumping, barking, or chewing with functional alternatives your dog can actually succeed at. We'll walk through real-life examples, simple training strategies, and the mindset shift that turns chaos into calm.If you're ready to stop managing bad behavior and start building good habits, this episode is for you.
About Tim FerrissTim Ferriss is a category of one. His innovative approach to life and business has helped him to launch 5 New York Times Bestellers, build one of the most influential podcasts in the world with over one billion downloads, become an early stage investor in companies like Uber, Facebook, Shopify, Duolingo and more. His #1 New York Times Bestselling Book, The 4-Hour Work Week, was part of the inspiration for me to quit my job and start my own company (you can here more of that story in my appearance on Tim's podcast here). And now he has taken all of those skills and brought them to game design with the release of Coyote. We dive deep on all of these topics and learn how Tim selects and approaches each new arena he seeks to conquer. Tim deliver's on many insights that will apply to you regardless of your creative field.Think Like A Game Designer is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit justingarydesign.substack.com/subscribe
Wandering But Not Lost Podcast | Real Estate Coaching & Wandering Zen
As summer winds down, it's time to take inventory—not just of what you've done, but how you feel. If your energy is zapped, your calendar overstuffed, and your joy feels a little MIA, this episode is your invitation to pause, realign, and say no on purpose. In this reflective episode, Jan and Matt explore how setting boundaries can help you reclaim the rest of your summer. Because what you say no to now… determines what you'll have space for next. Find our show notes at https://www.wbnlcoaching.com/podcast
Running out of capacity? Learn how to let others know your limitations without saying no, never. #ThePitch #INICIVOX #VirtualMentorship
Have you ever felt that a client was not the right fit for you, yet you ignored your gut feeling and worked with them anyway? In this episode, Eric shares two examples of similar situations he experienced in his professional journey, explaining how he handled them and what he learned along the way. Trust Your Instincts It is essential to recognize when a potential client or project does not align with your values, standards, or business model. Ignoring your instincts when your gut tells you a client is not the right fit will likely lead to lots of frustration down the line. Know Your Worth Never compromise your pricing just to win business. If a client pressures you to reduce your fees, always stand firm when you know your pricing is fair and reflects the quality of your work. Let Go When Respect Isn't Mutual Walk away from clients who fail to respect your work. Even though it may feel risky, it will protect your integrity and lead to better opportunities. Set Clear Boundaries Define the kind of clients you want to work with and the fees you need to sustain your business. By filtering out unsuitable clients, you ensure your business remains profitable and focused. Deliver Exceptional Work When you commit to a client, always over-deliver as your excellence will earn trust and repeat business. Long-Term Thinking Prioritize sustainable relationships over quick wins. You may miss some deals that way, but you will build a stronger and more respected business over time. Understand Your Clients Take the time to understand your client's needs, goals, and expectations. Always ask the right questions upfront to ensure your offer aligns with their objectives and avoid future misunderstandings. Communicate Your Values Be clear about how you work, your expectations, and what your clients can count on. Transparency helps to establish trust and discourages potential clients unaligned with your approach. There Are Always Better Clients Do not hold on to difficult or undervaluing clients out of fear. There are many respectful and collaborative clients out there who are willing to pay fair rates. When you are clear about the type of clients you want to attract and learn to say no to those who are not the right fit, you create space to find partners who truly support your values. Connect with Eric Rozenberg On LinkedIn Facebook Instagram Website Listen to The Business of Meetings podcast Subscribe to The Business of Meetings newsletter
Welcome back to The Career Woman's Secret Playbook Podcast—I'm your host, Dr. Dawn, and today's episode is extra special. Not only is it our 75th episode, but it also marks my return to the mic after a much-needed, intentional break. After a season of rest, reflection, and realignment, The Career Woman's Secret Playbook Podcast is BACK—with a powerful new episode on one of the most underused career tools: Knowing when—and how—to say NO. In this comeback episode, I'm sharing: ✔ Why I took a podcast break and prioritized paying clients over free content ✔ 3 simple scripts and strategies to protect your time ✔ A fresh new plan for how I'm showing up consistently (without burning out) If you've ever said yes when you really wanted to say no—this one's for you. Ok you guys, so let me take you back to the beginning and share a personal story as to WHY I decided to take this break and HOW prioritization plays into all of this. It starts in Paris, France and ended in Cancun Mexico. That's right, it started with 2 amazing family vacations I took this year. Let's start in Paris… (Provence and Paris)…now let's move on to the sandy beaches of Cancún, Mexico. After ALL was said and done, when I got back, I had a calendar full of coaching clients and workshops. So, I took my own advice and focused on the parts of my business that generate revenue and impact the most people one-on-one. This show—and my YouTube channel—are ad-free, by choice. And while that means I'm not monetizing these platforms yet, it also means I have to be fiercely protective of my time. But friends—I missed this. I missed you. So I'm back, and going forward, I'll be simplifying things with shorter, more intentional episodes that still deliver value without burning me—or you—out. Let's dive in!Today we're talking about when it's OK to say no—and how to do it without guilt. As career women, we're often expected to do it all, be everywhere, and say yes to everything. But let me tell you something I had to learn the hard way: saying no is not selfish—it's strategic. Here are three powerful tips to help you start protecting your time and energy like the queen you are:
A word for now. I hadn't realized how strongly this voice was at work in my life.
Thrive from the Inside Out Podcast | Personal Transformation|Entrepreneurship
Join the free WELLth Broadcast Join the Quantum WELLth Coaching Membership Connect with Leanne on Social Media: Instagram: www.instagram.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/awakeningwomenofficial/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/theevolvedfeminine Website: leanneoaten.com Leanne Oaten is a former Registered Professional Counsellor with a background in Counselling Psychology and has over 13 years of experience counselling and coaching women. This podcast is for high-achieving women who refuse to settle in a life that looks successful on the outside but feels empty on the inside. If you're juggling business, career, family, and a relationship that doesn't light you up while secretly craving more freedom, more money, and more joy - this is the podcast for you. I help women reclaim their power, build unshakable self-trust, and create the kind of life they no longer want to escape from. We're not here to hustle harder or burn it all down. We're no longer focused on changing men, we are building for ourselves so that we never settle again, and can call in aligned partners who want to build together as a power-couple. We're here to make power moves with ease, and feminine energy that attracts everything you want without losing yourself in the process. So if you're ready to stop waiting for him to change, stop negotiating your worth, and start embodying the woman you want to be, welcome home. Let's dive in.
Ever feel like you need to fake a sprained ankle just to escape the school volunteer sign-up sheet?
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
Have you ever asked yourself? Do I show my children, through my actions, how to maintain a healthy marriage and set high standards for future relationships? How do I intentionally teach my kids lessons about money, relationships, and mental health that they aren't learning in school? How do I respond when my kids come to me with emotional struggles? If you ever thought parenting was just about getting your kids to do their homework and behave, think again. The real curriculum happens at home, in the conversations we have with our children. Today, Larry and Ethan dive into the essential life lessons that high school just doesn't teach—think managing money, building real relationships, navigating mental health, and mastering communication beyond the digital world. Along the way, you'll hear personal stories about fatherhood, learning how to treat women with respect, and the power of leading by example at home. Larry and Ethan also shine a spotlight on the importance of old-school manners, effective boundary-setting, and even the art of saving and investing early. Plus, they get candid about handling rejection, repairing relationships, and the sometimes tough but necessary skill of saying “no.” As always, they keep things light and relatable, weaving in fun anecdotes and a dash of family banter Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Relationship Skills Aren't Taught in School: Ethan shares how Larry modeled (not just talked about!) the importance of treating women with respect—from a proper handshake to introducing himself to his girlfriend's parents, and how these “old school manners” set him apart in today's world. Larry and Ethan agree: the best lessons are caught, not taught. Money Management Early On Makes a Difference: Larry reminisces about starting Ethan and his brothers on the envelope savings system and quarterly meetings with a financial advisor from a young age. It pays off: Ethan feels more confident with money than most of his peers, recognizing the power of starting early, setting goals, and understanding critical concepts like compound interest. Create a Safe Space for Mental Health: Ethan reflects on how being able to talk openly about tough situations—whether it's heartbreak, anxiety, or just a hard day—has helped him develop emotional resilience. Larry encourages parents to model vulnerability, listen, and share stories from their own journey (even the awkward ones). Saying “No” and People Pleasing: Larry and Ethan get honest about people pleasing, time management, and learning to filter commitments. Larry's golden rule: “If it's not a hell yes, it's a no.” They discuss real-life examples, from turning down extra work projects to standing strong against peer pressure. Repairing Relationships & Healthy Conflict: Ethan shares what works in his relationship: addressing conflict calmly, not going to bed angry if possible, but also not being afraid to sleep on things when emotions run high—with the agreement to circle back and resolve it the next day. Whether you're a dad, a son, or just someone looking to live more intentionally, this conversation is packed with relatable humor, honest reflections, and practical takeaways to help you. Here's what research and observation highlight about family communication: Research shows that 86% of adolescents identify parents as their primary model for relationship skills and values. Studies found that 49% of Americans say they frequently agree to things they don't want to do to avoid disappointing others. Studies found that over 80% of teens say the way their parents communicate with each other directly affects how they approach their own romantic relationships. Pre-order the 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood' book: thedadedge.com/legendarybook thedadedge.com/alliance https://1stphorm.com/?a_aid=dadedge Level 1 Bars - https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1-bar/?a_aid=dadedge Phormula 1 -https://1stphorm.com/products/phormula-1/?a_aid=dadedge Join the #1 Mastermind for Legendary Fathers: https://www.thedadedge.com/
Shallow is joined by Dr. Sean Pastuch for a deep and personal conversation on leadership, risk, and the hidden gaps in how most coaches communicate. From stepping away from a thriving business to rebuilding his life, Sean shares what it really means to take ownership of your time, your team, and your future. https://www.instagram.com/drseanpastuch/ Certification for professionals tired of slow progress and corrective exercise. PSL1 enrolment is now LIVE! https://www.pre-script.com/psl1 FREE Coach's Field Guide: https://www.pre-script.com/coachs-field-guide We've got a new sponsor! Marek Health is a health optimization company that offers advanced blood testing, health coaching, and expert medical oversight. Our services can help you enhance your lifestyle, nutrition, and supplementation to medical treatment and care. https://marekhealth.com/rxd Code RXD Don't miss the release of our newest educational community - The Pre-Script ® Collective! Join the community today at www.pre-script.com. For other strength training, health, and injury prevention resources, check out our website, YouTube channel, and Instagram. For more episodes, subscribe and tune in to our podcast. Also, make sure to sign up to our mailing list at www.pre-script.com to get the first updates on new programming releases. You can also follow Dr. Jordan Shallow and Dr. Jordan Jiunta on Instagram! Dr. Jordan Shallow: https://www.instagram.com/the_muscle_doc/ Dr. Jordan Jiunta: https://www.instagram.com/redwiteandjordan/ The First Full-Circle Moment (00:00:00) Sean's Origin Story and Early Missteps (00:02:00) Social Media, Business Growth, and a Brick Wall (00:05:00) Signal Errors in Coaching: Athletes vs. Coaches vs. Clients (00:07:30) How Most Coaches Misread the Room (00:10:00) Mentorship, Missed Guidance, and Business Pivoting (00:14:00) Leaving What's “Working” to Rebuild (00:20:00) European Vacations and Lessons in Lifestyle Design (00:24:30) Managing Emotion, Team Trust, and Leadership Gaps (00:28:30) Success Isn't About Scale, It's About Fit (00:35:00) When the Business Steals Your Identity (00:42:00) Rebuilding Culture and Boundaries from the Ground Up (00:47:30) What Coaches Owe Their Clients (00:53:00) The Value of Saying No and Building on Purpose (01:00:00) Growth, Alignment, and Longevity (01:12:00)
Saying no can feel uncomfortable, but when done with love and intention, it becomes one of the most powerful ways to honor your energy and create space for what truly matters. I know how hard it can be to say no—especially when you're someone who wants to show up, perform, and please. But here's the truth: when we say no to what drains us, we create space for joy, alignment, and our true selves to shine. In this episode, I'm sharing my own journey of learning to release guilt around saying no and how doing so made me feel lighter, freer, and more whole. Action Plan: - Honor your body's whispers: Fatigue and tension are signals, not glitches—listen and respond with care. - Let go of what no longer fits: Release outdated roles or expectations to make room for the real you. - Choose alignment over logic: A choice that feels right may not always make sense on paper—and that's okay. - Trust your inner signals: When joy fades or your breath shortens, it's time to reassess what you're saying yes to. - Set loving boundaries: Boundaries aren't barriers—they are invitations for peace and clarity. More from Megan YouTube | Website | Instagram
Send us a textEver let a client slide on payment… just once? Or kept doing that one extra thing “just to be nice”? I've been there—and paid the price. In this episode, I talk about how being too nice on your pool route can cost you time, money, and your sanity. I'll share how to set boundaries without being a jerk, and why saying “no” can be the most professional thing you do.Support the Pool Guy Podcast Show Sponsors! HASA https://bit.ly/HASAThe Bottom Feeder. Save $100 with Code: DVB100https://bit.ly/THEBOTTOMFEEDERTry Skimmer FREE for 30 days:https://getskimmer.com/poolguy Get UPA Liability Insurance $64 a month! https://forms.gle/F9YoTWNQ8WnvT4QBAPool Guy Coaching: https://bit.ly/40wFE6y Thanks for listening, and I hope you find the Podcast helpful! For other free resources to further help you:Visit my Website: https://www.swimmingpoollearning.comWatch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SPLPodcast Site: https://the-pool-guy-podcast-show.onpodium.com/ UPA General Liability Insurance Application: https://forms.gle/F9YoTWNQ8WnvT4QBA Pool Guy Coaching Group Join an exclusive network of Pool Service Technicians to access the industry's leading commercial general liability insurance program. Protect your business. Premium is $64 per month per member (additional $40 for employees and ICs) $59 per month for Pool Guy coaching Members - join here! https://www.patreon.com/poolguycoaching Limits are $1,000,000 in occurrence and $2,000,000 in the aggregate - Per member limits [ $1,000,000 per occurrence and $4,000,000 aggregate available for $75 per month ] $50,000 in HazMat Coverage - clean up on-site or over-the-road Acid Wash Coverage - Full Limits