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Do big emotions ever feel like they're taking over your life? In this episode, discover why emotions themselves are not sinful, and practical steps to calm your body and mind so you can process what's really happening beneath the surface. Let's talk about how to identify triggers, invite God into your emotional life, and use simple tools to move from reaction to Spirit-led response—even in moments of overwhelming stress. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Why Are Big Emotions So Hard to Control? [06:00] God's Design for Emotions: Evidence from the Trinity [09:00] How Jesus and the Holy Spirit Show God's Emotional Nature [12:00] What Everyday Situations Trigger Out-of-Control Feelings? [14:00] Lies We Believe About Emotional “Equilibrium” [17:00] How Overwhelm Reveals Deeper Roots Beneath the Surface [20:00] Why Emotions Are Signals, Not Failures [24:00] Practical First Step: Pause and Name What You Feel [27:00] How to Find Calm by Switching Into the Parasympathetic State [30:00] Choosing to Address the Foundation Instead of Plastering Cracks  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!    We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using a science-and-Scripture-based roadmap that makes emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.    Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic (and November and December is on “Finding Peace in the Midst of Overwhelm”)!     Apply now to join us at AliciaMichelle.com/club.    RELATED EPISODES: Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 304: Take Control of Your Feelings: "Get Off the Mat" + "What Thoughts Will You Let Land?" Ep 292: Analyzing Your Emotions: "What Am I Feeling and Why?" Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

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Have you ever been told you're “too sensitive,” “overreacting,” or “making a big deal out of nothing”? In this episode, Alicia Michelle explains the science behind being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) and why this God-given wiring is not a flaw but a unique gift. Discover the traits of HSPs, the brain science that explains their heightened awareness, and how to embrace this sensitivity as a strength while learning practical tools to manage overwhelm and stay anchored in God's truth. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] What Does It Feel Like to Be Told You're “Too Sensitive”? [02:00] Understanding What It Means to Be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) [04:00] Why Do HSPs Often Repress Emotions or Struggle With People-Pleasing? [07:00] Four Core Traits of Highly Sensitive People [10:00] How Do Mirror Neurons and Brain Science Explain HSP Empathy? [14:00] Common Kryptonites for HSPs: Overthinking, Perfectionism, and Emotional Overload [20:00] Are HSPs More Likely to Be Introverted? [22:00] Practical Habits to Protect Energy and Calm the Nervous System [25:00] How Can Sensitivity Become a God-Given Strength Instead of a Burden?  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!    We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using science-and-Scripture-based emotional management tools that make emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.    Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic.    Apply now to join the waitlist (limited number of spots available!) at AliciaMichelle.com/club.    RELATED EPISODES: Ep 299: Emotions in Marriage: When Should You Share (and When Should You Not)? Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 326: A People Pleaser's Guide to Setting Boundaries (When You're Afraid to Offend Others) Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

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Do you feel tense all the time lately?Exhausted but wired? Snapping at the smallest things? Crying for no reason?You're not alone, and you're not broken. In this solo episode, Taylor dives into the real reason so many of us feel overstimulated and unsafe: we're living in a world of nonstop crisis. From tragic headlines and viral videos to doomscrolling at midnight, our nervous systems are being asked to process a level of global trauma they were never built for. Don't forget to rate and review The Chicks!

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Think about it next time you're standing crotch-deep in ankle-grabbing swamps: there're some fascinating, rarely seen but real monsters lurking nearby.  Greg Brashear pulls back the shell on one of North America's oldest creatures. From campfire legends to alligator snappers the size of dinosaurs, Greg unpacks their hidden lives, astonishing longevity, life history--y'all won't believe the amazing crushing power they possess--and why these living fossils matter now more than ever. A journey into folklore, fieldwork, and conservation—all through the eyes of a man who's spent his life among them.   Visit the Legendary Brands That Make MOJO's Duck Season Somewhere Podcast Possible: MOJO Outdoors  Alberta Professional Outfitters Society Benelli Shotguns Bow and Arrow Outdoors Ducks Unlimited  Flash Back Decoys GetDucks.com Inukshuk Professional Dog Food  Migra Ammunitions onX Maps  Use code GetDucks25 Sitka Gear SoundGear Tom Beckbe USHuntList.com   Like what you heard? Let us know! • Tap Subscribe so you never miss an episode. • Drop a rating—it's like a high-five in the duck blind. • Leave a quick comment: What hit home? What made you laugh? What hunt did it remind you of? • Share this episode with a buddy who lives for duck season.   Want to partner? Have or know a story to share? Contact: Ramsey Russell ramsey@getducks.com  

Do you find yourself going from zero to a hundred in seconds when your child spills something, refuses to cooperate, or has a meltdown? If you're constantly asking yourself, "Why do I keep snapping at my child?" or "Why am I so angry as a parent?" - you're definitely not alone. Many parents struggle with parenting triggers that seem to come out of nowhere, leaving them wondering how such small incidents can create such big reactions. What if your childhood "wasn't that bad" but you're still dealing with parenting anger? In this episode, we explore the connection between unknown childhood trauma and parenting triggers through a real coaching session with Terese, a teacher and mom of three who found herself snapping at her kids despite having plenty of support at home. You'll discover how unresolved childhood trauma in adults shows up in parenting - even when we don't recognize our experiences as traumatic - and learn practical strategies to break generational cycles of yelling and reactivity. Questions this episode will answer Can you have childhood trauma and not know it? Yes - many adults don't recognize patterns like walking on eggshells or constant criticism as signs of unresolved childhood trauma, but these experiences still create parenting triggers and shape how we respond to stress as parents. Why do I get so angry as a parent when my childhood wasn't traumatic? Unknown childhood trauma often involves seemingly "normal" experiences that still create triggers in our nervous system, causing us to react intensely to situations that mirror our past, even if we don't identify our upbringing as traumatic. What are the signs of unresolved childhood trauma in adults? Signs include quick reactivity to minor issues, parenting anger over small things, feeling like everything is "your fault," difficulty with self-compassion, and repeating patterns you experienced as a child - even from childhoods that seemed "fine." How do I stop getting angry with my child? Breaking the cycle of parenting triggers involves recognizing your unknown childhood trauma patterns, meeting your basic needs (like movement and rest), and developing self-compassion instead of self-judgment. How to deal with rage as a parent? Start by identifying your baseline needs, practice self-compassion when you do snap, work to separate your mother's voice from your own thoughts, and understand that parenting anger often stems from unresolved trauma and parenting patterns. Why am I so triggered by my child when I had a normal childhood? Children often activate our own childhood wounds through their behavior, especially when it mirrors situations where we felt criticized or blamed as kids - even in families we remember as loving or "normal." What you'll learn in this episode You'll hear how one parent's story of snapping over a bike ride reveals deeper patterns rooted in unknown childhood trauma - growing up with a mother who yelled frequently in what she considered a "normal" household. We explore how seemingly typical childhoods involving walking on eggshells create adults who struggle with self-compassion and parenting triggers, even when they don't identify their experiences as traumatic. Discover practical strategies for addressing unresolved childhood trauma in adults, including how to identify your movement and rest baselines, why self-compassion is crucial for breaking cycles of parenting anger, and how to recognize when you're thinking critical thoughts rather than accepting them as truth. You'll learn why meeting your basic needs isn't selfish when dealing with parenting triggers - it's essential for showing up as the parent you want to be. We also address how unresolved trauma and parenting intersect,

Are SA parents on the edge? Is the mental health of SA parents at snapping point? Clarence Ford spoke to Dr Melané van Zyl, Member of the South African Society of Psychiatrists (SASOP) Views and News with Clarence Ford is the mid-morning show on CapeTalk. This 3-hour long programme shares and reflects a broad array of perspectives. It is inspirational, passionate and positive. Host Clarence Ford’s gentle curiosity and dapper demeanour leave listeners feeling motivated and empowered. Known for his love of jazz and golf, Clarrie covers a range of themes including relationships, heritage and philosophy. Popular segments include Barbs’ Wire at 9:30am (Mon-Thurs) and The Naked Scientist at 9:30 on Fridays. Thank you for listening to a podcast from Views & News with Clarence Ford Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays between 09:00 and 12:00 (SA Time) to Views and News with Clarence Ford broadcast on CapeTalk https://buff.ly/NnFM3Nk For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/erjiQj2 or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/BdpaXRn Subscribe to the CapeTalk Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/sbvVZD5 Follow us on social media: CapeTalk on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@capetalk CapeTalk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ CapeTalk on X: https://x.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CapeTalk567See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Fifty Shades of Shilamida, we're diving into emotional intelligence and what it really looks like to ride the waves of our emotions with grace. As a Projector with emotional authority in Human Design, Shilamida knows firsthand what it feels like when your heart races, your body reacts, and you just want to explode. But she's also learned that it gets to be that easy when you choose differently.She opens up about her own growth journey, from being reactive and wounded to standing firm in her boundaries, choosing forgiveness, and owning her evolution. You'll hear how childhood wounds often resurface in adulthood, how to stop bleeding your pain onto the people you love, and how every single day you get to choose peace, joy, and pride in who you are becoming.If you've ever felt “too emotional” or struggled with snapping at others when you're hurting inside, this episode will give you both compassion and practical steps to shift. Remember: it's not about being perfect, it's about shifting the energy.✨ Takeaways from this episode:Why emotional intelligence is a lifelong practice (and how to embrace yours).How unprocessed childhood trauma shows up in adulthood.The daily choice to forgive, shift, and step into the best version of yourself.Join Gratitude 365 today!

Ever snapped at your kids and instantly felt the guilt rush in? You love them so much — but the constant noise, mess, and demands can wear you down until patience feels impossible.   But here's the truth: you're not a bad mom. You're just overloaded. In this episode, I'm sharing why snapping happens and practical ways to shift into actually enjoying your kids again.  Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > 5 Time Saving Tips for Meal Prep, Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Downloadable Routine Tracker: Morning Reset for Tired Moms, 5 Time Saving Tips for Meal Prep   Reserve your spot for The Peaceful Mom Project   Next Steps: Step 1: Reserve your spot for The Peaceful Mom Project Step 2: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 3: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 4: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

Is Howie the jerk for snapping on his neighbor who asked for help? full 552 Thu, 04 Sep 2025 16:06:10 +0000 f7chUR71saB3Ng9a4wkNNOVzFF3Z6wjU society & culture Alley and DZ on demand society & culture Is Howie the jerk for snapping on his neighbor who asked for help? If you missed Alley and DZ this morning on 103.7 KISS-FM – you can catch up with the show here! Every show. Every day. No commercials, no music.    2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Society & Culture False https://player.amperwavepo

Have you ever wondered why change doesn't seem to stick?You've read the books. You've listened to the podcasts and audio books. You've taken courses. You've prayed with all your heart…And yet—you find yourself slipping right back into the same old patterns. Snapping at your kids. Feeling guilty afterwards. Wanting so badly to be the calm and grounded mom you know God is calling you to be. In today's episode, I'm sharing the key practice I require from every single mom I work with inside my coaching program. It's not complicated, but it is powerful—and it's one of the reasons my clients are able to create real, lasting transformation instead of just quick fixes that fade away.This practice helps you:Recognize what actually triggers your reactionsRewire your brain to respond differentlyRelease the emotional weight you've been carryingGrow in patience and peace, not just for a week or two, but for the long haulIf anger has been damaging your relationships… If you hate the version of yourself that your family sees when you lose control… If your spouse or kids have even told you that you struggle with anger…You are not stuck this way. Change is possible.✨ Want to learn how I can support you in this process? Learn about Calm Christian Mom Program and Book a free consultation with me today. Together, we'll talk through what's been keeping you stuck and map out a clear next step toward becoming the calm, emotionally grounded mom you long to be.Listen to related episodes:242. 10 ways to regulate nervous system and release intense emotions when you feel upset or angry. 207. Best proven way to break negative reactive patterns when you feel triggered and angry *********************************JOIN THE BOOTCAMP When? Monday September 8th- Thursday September 11th ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Next Steps: 1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame ⬇️2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program ⬇️3. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL if you are ready for support and accountability in overcoming damaging anger patterns. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~How to Be More Patient with Your Kids (So You're Not Screaming Over Spilled Milk)Leave a 5 star rating and review on the Podcast and email me (hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.com) a screenshot of the REVIEW for free access the training or buy it HERE for $27. Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.comContact: hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.comQuestions? Form / Voice memo

We did a little research to come up with what we believe are 10 of the worst things that you can do when you travel. We've seen it all. Nothing ruins a vacation faster than being that tourist: the one who ignores local customs, disrespects sacred spaces, or treats a destination like their personal playground.10 Worst Things You Can Do on Vacation (and How to Avoid Them)At 1923 Main Street®, we believe the best journeys happen when you wander off the map, get lost in new places, and explore with curiosity. But there's a right way to get lost — and a wrong way.So, before you zip up your bag and head out into the world, here are the 10 worst things you can do when you're on vacation — and how to avoid them. Travel in style, travel with respect and get lost the right way.How many of these things have you witnessed or experience on your travels, and how did you react to them?10 Things to Avoid Doing When You Travel1. Ignoring Local CustomsEvery culture has its quirks, traditions and unspoken rules. From removing your shoes before entering a temple in Japan, to using the right hand for eating in India, ignoring local norms isn't just awkward — it's disrespectful. Do this instead: Learn a few key dos and don'ts before you travel. Locals will appreciate the effort, even if you don't get it perfect. 2. Overpacking (and then Complaining About It)Dragging a giant suitcase over cobblestones while sweating through three layers? That's not a vibe.Do this instead: Pack smart and light. Tip - a good travel hoodie or versatile tee goes a long way. 3. Treating a Destination Like a Theme Park People don't exist for your entertainment. Snapping photos of locals without asking, or expecting “authentic performances” on demand are surefire ways to sour your experience. Do this instead: Engage your destination with curiosity, not consumption. Ask before taking photos of locals and participate respectfully. 4. Being Loud and ObnoxiousThat all-night party spirit may fly at home, but in a quiet village or a small guesthouse, you're just the neighborhood fool (or worse).Do this instead: Keep it fun, but always keep it considerate. Follow the lead of those in the know.5. Only Eating What You Know Flying across the world just to hunt down your favorite burger chain, or asking a local restaurant if they can make your favorite dish from home... nope. Do this instead: Taste the local specialties. Food is culture and your taste buds will thank you. Worst case scenario, you have another great travel story to tell. 6. Forgetting Basic Phrases “Hello,” “Please” and “Thank you” go further than you think. Showing up without knowing a single word of the local language says, “I really don't care.”Do this instead: Learn a handful of common words. Even if your accent is terrible, people will truly appreciate the effort.7. Disrespecting Sacred PlacesScratching your name onto ancient ruins, shouting in cathedrals, or dressing inappropriately at temples — huge nos. There have been too many of these stories in the news recently, so please do not be that tourist.Do this instead: Follow dress codes, keep your voice down and always remember that these types of spaces often hold deep meaning for locals.8. Overplanning Every MinuteVacations shouldn't feel like military operations. Running from landmark to landmark without breathing means you'll miss the magic in between.Do this instead: Leave time to wander, roam freely and even get a little lost. Getting lost often leads to your best stories (trust us, we've been there).9. Leaving a Trail of TrashPlastic bottles on the beach, food wrappers on the trail — nothing kills paradise faster.Do this instead: Carry reusable gear and leave no trace. Treat every place as if you'll be back tomorrow.10. Forgetting You're a Guest At the heart of it all, the worst travel mistake is forgetting that you're a guest in someone else's home town. Entitlement never looks good, no matter where you are.Do this instead: Travel with humility. Respect opens doors (and hearts).Travel in Style The world is wide and wonderful and waiting to be explored.  Every destination (near and far) deserves respect. Avoid these travel missteps and you'll come home not only with amazing memories, but with the pride of knowing you traveled well.And if you want to wear your love of travel on your sleeve (literally), you know where to find us: 1923 Main Street® — for those who explore with respect.Shop at 1923 Main Street, Graphic T-Shirts, Sweatshirts and Hoodies for Those Who Love to TravelThank you for listening to the Travel Style Podcast at 1923MainStreet.com.Shop unique and original travel inspired and subtle Disney travel clothing, including t-shirts, sweatshirt, hoodies and more at 1923 Main Street.Follow along on X, Instagram, Pinterest and Facebook.Thank you for listening and always remember to roam freely and wear boldly.Mike Belobradic and Amelia Belobradic--Media provided by Jamendo

The best team in the NFL in the 60's was Vince Lombardi's Green Bay Packers. They won NFL Championships in 1961, 1962 & 1965 and the first two Super Bowls in 1966 and 1967. They were littered with future Hall of Famers throughout the roster including Jim Taylor, Forrest Gregg, Ray Nitschke, Herb Adderley, Willie Davis, Jim Ringo, Paul Horning and Willie Wood… but the leader of that team was the QB, Bart Starr who guided the team to those 5 titles in 7 years. The Hall of Fame QB was now back in Green Bay as the coach and GM trying to revitalize an organization that hadn't seen much success since Starr retired prior to the 1972 season. He didn't want to be seen as the savior and was not comfortable being on the cover of Sports Illustrated, but that's right where he was on the 25th of August 1975. For Starr, his 9 years back in Green Bay as the head coach could never replicate what he had done as a player a decade earlier. And that surprised some of his former teammates who thought Starr would have tremendous success as a coach. And that included the man who snapped the ball to Starr for two seasons… The 1965 NFL Championship season as well as the win in the first Super Bowl played against the Chiefs. Bill Curry was as close to Starr as you could be as a player with Starr lining up over center for those two seasons. Now, 60 years later, Curry looks back on those years playing alongside Starr as a rookie and how the veteran quarterback welcomed him to the team and paved the way for a lifelong friendship. Curry would go on to quite an NFL career himself becoming a 2-time Pro Bowl Center with the Colts and winning not only that first SB with the Packers, but another with Baltimore in Super Bowl 5. And when his playing days were over, he worked with Starr on his staff as an offensive line coach before taking the head coaching job at Georgia Tech in 1980. After 6 years with the Rambling Wreck, he went to Bama and guided the Crimson Tide for three seasons before going to Kentucky for 7 seasons and ending his coaching career at Georgia State in 2012. Drafted in the 20th round as an undersized center out of Georgia Tech, Curry was a fish out of water in Green Bay in the summer of '65 until encounters with both Bart Starr and the captain of the defense, Willie Davis changed his life. As Curry puts it, “Unexpected, undeserved, unrewarded acts of kindness change lives.” And they changed his for sure. He talks glowingly about his time in Green Bay and how he fell in love with the community that is like no there in the country. He tells us on the Past Our Prime podcast how Starr became a mentor and Wiilie Davis a man he came to respect like no other. And he talks about how forgiveness can set you free… something Coach Lombardi did for him on his death bed. Every once in a while you come across someone who instantly makes your life better. For Curry, that was Bart Starr in 1965. And 60 years later, Curry is paying that forward making an impact on the lives of people he comes in contact with… or in our case, talks with, every day. A powerful, inspirational conversation with a man who was a part of the most legendary football team ever assembled…  The 1960's Green Bay Packers. Bill Curry on the Past Our Prime podcast. He's as good as they get. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Following a rough series in Detroit with the Tigers sweeping the Astros and losing their series to the Orioles right before, the Astros head on to Baltimore for another 3-game series against the Orioles. Taking Game 1, the Astros snap their 4-game losing slump with a final score of 7-2, putting them exactly 2 games ahead of the Mariners. Still out in front, leading the AL West Division, Sean and Dan take a moment to evaluate the Astros' latest flaws with yesterday's victory and how the Astros can keep from entering a slump this late in the season. 

In hour 1, the WIP Midday Show are reacting to the Phillies dropping their first game in 4 to the Reds. With fans seemingly pointing the blame at Topper, do you fully trust Rob Thomson down the stretch? Plus, Ranger Suarez's collapse and how desperately the Phillies need Aaron Nola.

S5 Ep 33: Snapping Twigs & Snatching Wigs Just Gaymin Podcast Hosted By: Trigger & Honey Recorded On: 8/10/25  In this episode, the hosts dive into: What's the T with JGP: Fun discussion of what is going on in the pod! Cinema Poo: The hosts discuss and review "Weapons"

Feeling stretched thin? Snapping over little things? Mentally holding a thousand invisible tasks? I used to think peace would come when everything was done. Spoiler alert: it never was. Peace came when I let go of the guilt, the pressure, and the ‘shoulds.' Today we're talking about what to drop — not what to add — so you can make more space for peace, presence, and sanity.  Contact - > info@rachelking.org Podcast - > Mama's Tired Connect -＞ Join my free Facebook community Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Instagram -＞@rachelmeigsking Resources - > Simple Time Management for Moms, Journal Page: Releasing the Mental Load, Downloadable Routine Tracker: Morning Reset for Tired Moms   Next Steps: Step 1: Join a supportive community of moms looking for simple systems to reclaim time for a peaceful home at the free Facebook group Simple Systems for Tired Mamas Step 2: Sign up for the weekly Mama's Tired Newsletter  Step 3: Ready for more personalized support? Book a call with Rachel

We know we should be more thankful. But what happens when the world feels upside down? When pain, injustice and personal heartache make gratitude feel fake or impossible? In this deeply honest episode, Alicia Michelle explores why gratitude sometimes feels forced and how to pursue authentic thanksgiving, even when life feels like it's falling apart. Through Scripture, personal stories, and powerful mindset tools, learn how to move past performative gratitude and toward a deeper, more healing connection with God. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] What If Gratitude Feels Impossible in a Broken World? [03:00] Why Doesn't Performative Gratitude Lead to Peace? [06:00] How Can You Be Honest with God When Gratitude Doesn't Come Naturally? [08:00] What Does Jesus Teach Us About Thanksgiving at the Last Supper? [11:00] Can Gratitude Be Rooted in God's Character, Not Your Circumstances? [13:00] What “It Is Well with My Soul” Teaches Us About Grieving with Gratitude [16:00] How the A.D.D. Method Can Help When You're Stuck in Disappointment [20:00] Why Does Romans 1 Say Gratitude Is Essential for Spiritual Clarity?  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!   We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using a science-and-Scripture-based roadmap that makes emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.    Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic (and Sept/Oct is on “Finding Authentic Gratitude”)!   Apply now to join us at AliciaMichelle.com/club.  RELATED EPISODES: Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 244: You Can Have a Different Response to Fear and Anxiety Ep 242: “How Can I Manage My Fear of the Future?” Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

HR3 - Falcons snapping their 7 season playoff drought will make this year successful In hour three Mike Johnson, Beau Morgan, and Ali Mac let listeners call in and give their take on if it's okay to refer to playing catch as “having a catch”, talk about how their kids are doing at the bus stop on a rainy Monday morning, and they also let listeners ask any and all questions regarding the Atlanta Falcons in The Wake Up Call! Then, Mike, Beau, and Ali discuss what they think the Atlanta Falcons' record will be this season, if they think there's a chance that Kirk Cousins will play at any point in the season if Michael Penix Jr. struggles because Raheem Morris' and Terry Fontenot's jobs are on the line, and if the Falcons just making the playoff this season would be considered a successful season. The Morning Shift crew also explains why they think Raheem Morris and Terry Fontenot should keep their jobs if the Falcons make the postseason this year. Ali, Mike, and Beau also let you hear Atlanta Falcons Offensive Coordinator Zac Robinson talk about how the defense winning a practice isn't a bad thing for Michael Penix Jr. and how he has never agreed with the notion that Penix is inaccurate. The Morning Shift crew reacts to what Robinson had to say as well, and explains why Michael Penix Jr.'s situational performances during practice are more important than his training camp practice stats. Finally, Mike, Beau, and Ali close out hour three by diving into the life of Beau “Squidbilly” Morgan in The Life of Squid!

Is what you're feeling really anxiety—or just discomfort? In this powerful conversation, Alicia and Dr. Robyn Graham unpack how to identify the roots of anxiety, support our kids through their emotions, and respond with spiritual wisdom and practical tools. This episode brings clarity to confusing feelings and gives you a grounded path forward through faith, neuroscience, and emotional truth.  WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Is What You're Feeling Actually Anxiety or Just Nervousness? [05:00] Could Generational Trauma Be the Root of Your Anxiety? [07:00] What Happens When We Normalize Anxiety in Our Identity? [10:00] What Should You Do When You See Anxiety Patterns in Your Kids? [13:00] How Can You Tell If It's Nervousness or a Clinical Issue? [15:00] Why Well-Meaning Parents Sometimes Shame Anxious Kids [18:00] What Truths from Scripture Can Anchor You When Fear Shows Up? [20:00] How Can You Thrive, Not Just Survive, with Anxiety?  RESOURCES: Want practical help learning to manage your emotions better? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!     We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using a science-and-Scripture-based roadmap that makes emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.   Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic.   Apply now to join the waitlist at AliciaMichelle.com/club.  RELATED EPISODES: Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 242: “How Can I Manage My Fear of the Future?”Ep 244: You Can Have a Different Response to Fear and Anxiety Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

What if the emotional chaos you're feeling is actually a gut issue? In this eye-opening episode, Alicia talks with certified health coach Holly Andrews about how our digestive health is deeply connected to our mental and emotional stability. Holly shares her personal story of radical transformation, losing 150 pounds and healing deep stress, and the role that gut health played in that journey. Learn practical changes you can start making today to boost your mood, calm anxiety, and feel like yourself again. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Could Gut Issues Be the Missing Link in Your Emotional Health? [04:00] Why Gut Health Matters for Emotions—and Holly's Rock Bottom Story [07:00] What Are the Symptoms of Gut Imbalance (Beyond Bloating)? [10:00] What Role Does Inflammation Play in Anxiety and Brain Fog? [11:00] What Foods Harm the Gut—and What Can Help It Heal? [12:00] How to Eat for Gut Health Without Getting Overwhelmed [15:00] Which Supplements Can Support Gut Healing (and Which Ones to Avoid)? [18:00] Can Your Gut Health Really Shift in Just a Few Weeks? [20:00] Why Progress Is About Consistency—Not Perfection [23:00] A Personal 90-Day Gut Experiment—and What You Might Try Too  RESOURCES: Want help applying what you're learning here each week? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—a hands-on learning community of Christian women discovering how to handle everyday emotions with calm, clarity and confidence. Apply now at: https://aliciamichelle.com/club  RELATED EPISODES: Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 275: How Can I Name What I'm Feeling (When My Emotions Feel So Overwhelming)? Ep 268: How to Nourish Your Physical Self to Boost Your Mental Health Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

What's really keeping you stuck on the sidelines of your dream? In this inspiring conversation with “Dr Disney” (bestselling author and speaker Jeff Barnes), we unpack the mindset blocks, fears, and limiting beliefs that keep women from pursuing God-given visions.  Drawing from the life of Walt Disney, we explore how to move through fear, take bold action, and build the emotional and spiritual habits that keep your dreams alive, even in the face of failure. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Could Fear of Failure Be Sabotaging Your Dream? [05:00] What Can Disney Teach Us About Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs? [09:00] Why Overthinking Is the Park Bench That Keeps You Stuck [12:00] How “Conflict” Is a Sign You're on the Right Track [15:00] Who Are the “Roys and Lilys” Helping Protect Your Dream? [18:00] Are You Trying to Rush God's Timing? [23:00] What Mickey Mouse Can Teach Us About Starting Small [27:00] How to Let Go of Control and Focus on What You Can Change [29:00] What Is a “Berm”—and Why Do You Need One Around Your Dream?  JOIN THE EMOTIONAL CONFIDENCE CLUB: Ready for more emotional calm and clarity? Want help applying what you're learning on the podcast? Join us in Alicia's Emotional Confidence Club!  We're a Christ-centered community of women learning to process everyday emotions—like disappointment, overwhelm, and shame—using a science-and-Scripture-based roadmap that makes emotional healing practical, powerful, and personal.  Every 6 weeks we welcome new members and focus on a new topic.  Apply now to join us at AliciaMichelle.com/club. RELATED EPISODES: Ep 289: Moving Through Fear to Step Into Our Career Calling with Kelsey Kemp Ep 292: Analyzing Your Emotions: "What Am I Feeling and Why?" Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

“That's just part of being a woman.” “You're just getting older.” “Maybe you're overreacting.” “It's probably all in your head.” Let's stop right there. Just because something is common doesn't make it normal. Let's break down the top five health issues that women experience far too often—and have been told to ignore. 1. Mood Swings Yes, your mood naturally shifts across your cycle—but when it becomes overwhelming, unpredictable, or makes you feel like you've lost control? That's a red flag. If you find yourself: Crying uncontrollably over small things Snapping in rage over everyday moments Feeling like your emotions are running your life …it's not just “PMS.” It's a hormonal imbalance that needs support. In Eastern medicine, we look at liver health, stress pathways, and how your body detoxes hormones to bring this back into balance. 2. Bone-Deep Fatigue You're not just tired because you're a mom. Or because you're getting older. Or because life is busy. Constant fatigue is your body screaming for help. I personally struggled with undiagnosed thyroid dysfunction after having my first baby—and doctors brushed it off. It took someone finally listening to discover I had a thyroid storm. If you're always exhausted, it's time to stop pushing and start testing. Over-exercising with cortisol dysregulation? That only makes things worse. 3. Weight Gain That Doesn't Make Sense Hormonal shifts in perimenopause and menopause require lifestyle adjustments—but they don't mean inevitable weight gain. Changes in body composition should be met with support, not shame. That means: Updating how and when you eat Increasing protein and muscle support Understanding how hormones like insulin and estrogen affect your metabolism If your weight is changing and nothing you do seems to help, it's time to look deeper than calories in/calories out. 4. Sleep Disturbances That Disrupt Your Life Struggling to fall asleep… or waking at 2am and staying awake until morning? This isn't just “stress.” Poor sleep affects everything from metabolism to detoxification, cognitive function, and weight regulation. Your body releases its highest levels of natural human growth hormone between 10pm–2am. If you're not sleeping deeply, your healing is stalling. Sometimes just a simple tincture, nervous system support, or dietary shift can unlock better sleep and—believe it or not—weight loss too. 5. Irregular Menstrual Cycles Heavy periods, skipped days, clotting, pain, spotting, disappearing and reappearing flow—these are not normal. Your period is a vital sign—a direct reflection of your hormonal health, nutrient levels, stress patterns, and more. A cycle that shifts drastically in length or severity is a major signal that your system is out of balance. A healthy cycle: Runs about 27–29 days, with a 1–2 day buffer Shouldn't feel debilitating or unpredictable Offers feedback about your health over the past 3 months Too many women are dismissed, gaslit, or told their symptoms are just a part of life. But being in pain, exhausted, anxious, or struggling with your body doesn't have to be your baseline. With the Female Hormone Solution Program, we go beyond temporary fixes to create lasting change. We walk with you for 12 weeks to support your body, decode your symptoms, and help you feel like yourself again—stronger and better than ever. And guess what? The waitlist is NOW OPEN. Get the details here: https://drbethwestie.com/waitlist/  

Send us a textEver noticed how a nation that engineers elaborate floating sanctuaries for alligators can't seem to design a humane immigration policy? Darrell McClain scathing commentary "America's Grand Tragic Comedy" dissects this jarring contradiction with surgical precision, revealing the absurdity of a country that provides reptiles with temperature-controlled pools and specialized diets while human beings in detention centers sleep on concrete floors and lack basic hygiene.The stark contrast serves as a powerful metaphor for contemporary America – a place where morning shows marvel at quirky alligator fortresses moments before showing footage of crying children separated from their parents during ICE raids. McClain argues these aren't simply unfortunate policy missteps but symptoms of a deeper national disease: the belief that cruelty, when draped in bureaucracy or spectacle, becomes justifiable.Amy Goodman and Dennis Moynihan follow with a devastating report on the Guadalupe River flood in Texas that claimed at least 120 lives, with over 150 still missing. Their investigation reveals how climate policy failures directly contributed to this tragedy. Despite warnings from the National Weather Service, local officials admitted they had no warning system in place. Meanwhile, the Trump administration has gutted critical climate programs while extending billions in tax breaks to fossil fuel companies – policies that virtually guarantee more deadly extreme weather events in the future.Both segments illuminate how American contradictions cost lives. Whether building alligator fortresses while tearing apart immigrant families or signing fossil fuel-friendly legislation while communities drown, these juxtapositions reveal a nation that has lost its moral compass. The question remains: will we confront the rot at the heart of our systems, or continue engineering new absurdities, each more grotesque than the last? Share your thoughts on these critical issues and join the conversation about America's priorities. Support the show

Do you ever feel like you're making progress only to blink and find yourself back where you started? Snapping back to your old identity is frustrating as hell, especially when you're doing the work! I've had this exact conversation with my clients countless times. They ask, "Beck, we've looked at this belief, we worked through it, so why do I keep snapping back to my old identity?" In today's episode, I'm going to tell you exactly why!Your identity isn't just a label – it's a frequency your subconscious recognises and protects. Think of it like a radio station your brain keeps tuning back to, even when you try to change the dial. I'll show you why your subconscious creates a set point and then snaps you back like a rubber band when you stretch too far. But don't worry! I'm sharing micro-actions that will rewire your nervous system without triggering that safety alarm. These aren't big, showy moves – they're tiny daily practices that compound into massive shifts. Ready to step into your next-level identity without bouncing back? Let's go there!Topics covered on Why You Keep Snapping Back to Your Old Identity:Why do you keep snapping back to your old identity even after making progress?What makes your old identity like a favorite radio station you can't stop listening to?Why does success feel so scary to your subconscious?How do micro actions rewire your brain faster than big leaps?How can you make your nervous system feel safe with a new identity?How can you practice being your new identity during everyday activities?Connect with Rebecca Haydon:Apply to work with meThe Subconscious MembershipCome say hi on Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeFind the full show notes & more resources at https://rebeccahaydon.com/podcast/why-you-keep-snapping-back-to-your-old-identity

Fresh off a tour with his band mssv (Mike Baggetta, Mike Watt & Stephen Hodges), guitarist/songwriter Mike Baggetta brings us a record he received as a gift when he was in High School that changed the course of his musical life moving forward: the mindblowing 1996 release by guitarist, composer, and producer David Torn, 'What Means Solid, Traveller?' Songs discussed in this episode: Network Of Sparks: The Delicate Code - David Torn; What It Feels Like For A Girl - Madonna; OK To Change - mssv; Willie The Pimp - Frank Zappa; Spartan, Before It Hit - David Torn; The Stars (Are Out Tonight) - David Bowie; Chemical Wire - fIREHOSE; Suyafhu Skin...Snapping the Hollow Reed, Spell Breaks With The Weather, What Means Solid Traveller - David Torn; Runnin' With The Devil - Van Halen; Are You Looking Up - Mk.gee; Such Little Mirrors, Tiny Burns A Bridge - David Torn; The Wagon - Dinosaur Jr; Gidya Hana - David Torn; Sita Ram - Alice Coltrane; Each Prince To His Kingdom Must Labor To Go, Particle Bugs @ Purulia Station, In The Sand Of This Day (I Will Not Be Free), In The Sand Of This Day ('til You Are Free), Elsewhere Now Than Waving - David Torn; Symphony No. 3 - Henryk Gorecki; On And On - mssv

Fansided Giants analyst, Jeff Young joins Bill Laskey on Sportsphone KNBR to break down the Giants finally snapping their losing streak & defeating the D-Backs by a score of 6-5 in 10 inningsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

7-2 Fansided Giants analyst, Jeff Young joins Bill Laskey on Sportsphone KNBR to break down the Giants finally snapping their losing streak & defeating the D-Backs by a score of 6-5 in 10 inningsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We all carry expectations of our spouse, our kids, and our faith journey. What happens when those expectations go unspoken… or unmet? In this episode, we're uncovering how hidden assumptions lead to emotional disappointment and what it really means to align our expectations with grace, truth, and God's timing. If you've been frustrated, resentful, or just tired of carrying the weight of what “should” be, this episode is your invitation to let go and find peace. What You'll Learn: [00:00] Could Hidden Expectations Be the Root of Your Emotional Exhaustion? [03:00] What Are Unrealistic Expectations? [05:00] What Happens When Fantasy Versions of Others Distort Real Relationships? [07:00] Could “Prince Charming” Be Sabotaging Your Marriage Connection? [10:00] What Should I Expect From My Child—And Where Does It Become Unhealthy? [12:00] 5 Questions to Identify If an Expectation Is Quietly Becoming Toxic [15:00] Are You Expecting Someone to Meet a Need Only God Can Fill? [16:00] What Does Healthy Surrender Look Like When Reality Doesn't Match Expectation?  RESOURCES: 6-WEEK LIVE STUDY with ALICIA in JULY/AUGUST 2025 on DISAPPOINTMENT:  Ready for healing from disappointment in marriage, mothering, career and more?  Join me in July/August 2025 in the Emotional Confidence Club where I'll be leading ladies through a 6-week process of noticing disappointments, processing the honest feelings behind it, and applying what we learn to everyday relationships.   Go to AliciaMichelle.com/club to apply and join us.   RELATED EPISODES Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down Ep 313: Is Disappointment the Real Reason You're Overwhelmed, Tired + Irritated? Ep 314: The Disappointments We Carry in Motherhood + Marriage (But Don't Talk About) Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

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What do you do when self-care isn't enough? When the walk doesn't clear your head, the rest doesn't restore you, and the village you usually count on isn't showing up like it used to? In this raw and honest episode, Jill and Linda talk about being in seasons of overwhelm where even the best self-care plans fall short. From tantruming toddlers to tangled family dynamics, and from bedtime meltdowns to compassion fatigue, this conversation holds space for what it means to feel stretched too thin—and how sometimes, the letdown starts before the self-care even begins. In this episode, you'll learn:Why self-care sometimes doesn't “work” in the middle of survival modeWhat it feels like when the village that once showed up quietly fades awayHow expectations around self-care can create more pressure than peaceThat even the most meaningful support may have limits—and that's humanWhy giving yourself grace might matter more than the perfect self-care planThe invisible weight of caregiving when everyone around you needs something Self-care isn't always the fix we hope for—but that doesn't mean it's not worth trying. Sometimes the real healing starts with letting go of the pressure to feel better, the guilt of snapping, or the expectation that a walk or journal page will solve it all. If your self-care has let you down, you're not alone. You're human. Keep showing up with grace, creativity, and maybe a microwave dinner. You've got this. For a simple way to start with self-care, send them an email or connect with Jill on socials @mamaoutspoken and mamaoutspoken.com and Linda @hellolindabonney or lindabonney.com. Until next week – we hope you can unstuck your muck!

Do you feel like you're starting to crack wider and wider every day? In this episode, Adele explains the invisible load that menopause can offload onto you... Snapping at people, your symptoms - so much isn't your fault, and it doesn't feel nice at all! You deserve the explanation that's given in this episode. Check out Adele's FREE symptom assessment here: https://adelejohnstoncoaching.com/free-copy-of-our-symptom-assessment/   If you want a chat for your future success, fuel yourself here: https://calendly.com/adelejohnston/successchat Download Adele's Journey Journal here : https://adelejohnstoncoaching.com/my-journey-journal/ Enquire about 121 coaching here : https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfw6vrmKPE7A1eYDKQJiR9No7ZDdpfq-grBdKYjZSR-vl0Qag/viewform For extra support: Support@adelejohnstoncoaching.com ____________ From your host : Adele Johnston I'm Adele Johnston, a certified nutritionist and positive psychology coach, passionate about helping women improve their menopause health and reclaim who you are without menopause taking over. This is a time in your life where you get to feel vibrant, sexy and reclaim you again! I'm proud to work with women like you and have created a very successful proven Reclaiming You 3 STEP PROCESS to help you take back control of your body during your menopause. For more details : https://adelejohnstoncoaching.com/ To get Adele's FREE 3-step Menopause Weight Loss Guide: https://adelejohnstoncoaching.com/menopause-weight-loss-guide/

Cold OpenYou wanna pathologize me? Knock yerself out. Faithfully counting every leaf marked "deficit"…But missing the whole damn forest we know locally as "Survival."[Doc? You Got Us All Wrong, Pt 1: Autistic Resilience]IntroYou're listening to AutisticAF Out Loud. One voice. Raw. Real. Fiercely Neurodivergent. Since 1953.Season 5, Episode 5. “Doc? You Got Us All Wrong, Pt 1: Autistic Resilience.”Deficits… or strengths? Survival… or thriving? Pathology… or inborn, natural autistic behavior? We turn the diagnostic telescope around. Let's focus on the forest of resilience behind every leaf labeled "deficit."An experimental multi-part series… all around 10 minutes. Because some neurodivergent listeners like to binge in small bites. Or you can download Part 1 and Part 2 at once… for listeners who crave the whole enchilada in one sitting.Just one autistic elder's truth. I'm Johnny Profane.Content Note: trauma discussion, medical system critique, institutional discrimination, psychiatric hospitalizations, systemic oppression + experiences & opinions of one autistic voice... in my 70s.[Music]What I tell any therapist… any caregiver… first session:I have survived physical and sexual abuse from family and schoolmates.Bullying by teachers and fellow students… 2nd grade through high school.Multiple professional crashes… in multiple careers.At least a dozen firings.2 evictions.1 bankruptcy.Dozens of major household moves.Few friends, and…2 divorces, 3 "living togethers," and a couple of "serious" relationships that, well…, weren't?Ain't this resilience?Resilience. Ya know, that cap-and-gown term pros use for getting knocked down seven times. Stubbornly getting up… eight...I'm still alive. Still creating. Still getting published. Still speaking to thousands of autistics a year.Never attempted suicide... despite three hospitalizations.AND I'm still autistic. Cuz there ain't no cure for something that ain't wrong. Unless you base your "medical model" on some statistical "normal"… which is just a made up story. Cuz not one living person is summed up by a Bell curve normal… not even within a standard deviation.Yes, yes… yes. Some professionals are evolving. Pros who listen more than lecture. But face it. In the grand scheme of things… they're rare.Let's get clear right now, right here. It's not being autistic that creates our trauma. It's living autistic in a society that inflicts trauma on us. Refusing to accept, adapt… support… us.Why do "helping" pros focus on my deficits, my lacks, my pitiful performance of “Activities of Daily Living”…? Like, did I shower today…? No.Rather than the sheer strength of will I demonstrate every time I take my next breath?Why do they offer to fix me,inform me,guide me, andcharge me for sessions,mentoring,workshops,best-selling books,SYSTEMS they've just invented…based on… at best… incomplete research?[Music]You know social media… if you like and share this podcast, a lot more people will check it out. You can do a lot of good with just one click.You wanna pathologize me? Knock yerself out.Turn my every inborn neurodivergent characteristic into a disease. You do have powerful diagnostic tools…But you're looking through that diagnostic telescope backwards. Faithfully counting every leaf marked "deficit"… But missing the whole damn forest that we know locally as "Survival."Like my "failure to maintain eye contact.” A “social deficit.” Right... completely missing how that survival skill lets me process your words… without painful sensory overload. My form of my respect… for you.Go ahead and use professionally, objectively disempowering terms, like "comorbidity"... betraying your bias that my very way of Being is… in your eyes… a disease. And then riff on, elaborate away: "pathological demand avoidance," "obsessive-compulsive disorder," "borderline personality disorder,"And on and on… and on.Truth? Every diagnosis? Just another survival mechanism. Not symptoms of autism. Responses to how society treats autism.Behaviors that kept me alive… in your world. While you obsess over what's "wrong" with me…Or… we could build on my autistic strengths.Look, none of us have all of these. And superpowers don't exist. Some have strengths not listed. But if you aren't looking for them? Likely, you're mis-treating us.* Resilience: Just surviving multiple, severe stressors is a biggie. Every autistic adult you meet has adapted to extreme challenges. Most of us… traumatized. Yet we endure. We integrate. We keep going.* Deep Feeling: Pros call ‘em "mood swings." We call it feeling everything… deeply. Depth that drives our creativity… in science, art, writing, becoming lunatic billionaires… or the cool neighbor next door.. It's not a flaw. It's fuel.* Survival Skills: My life, my continued existence… is my proof. Just as any autistic adult's life is. We've survived devastating life events. With inner strength and coping strategies.These aren't skills most professionals understand… not even some neurodivergent practitioners. Because these skills are linked to how our individual autistic minds work. Which is… in fact… different. Not just from most humans. From each other, too.* Creative Persistence: Every autistic person knows this pull. Our passionate focus on our interests. Grabbing us deeper than hunger. We don't just see details… no matter what TV tells you. We work on wide canvases. We create. We build. We solve. That's strength.* Living with Extremes: My knee surgeon was shocked. "You walked two miles a day on a torn meniscus?" Yes, but… a light touch on my face can trigger panic. That's not contradiction. That's how we survive. We may get sensory warnings earlier than most… Yet we handle what breaks others. Daily.* Hidden Adaptability: Look at my life changes—jobs, homes, relationships. Society labels us as "rigid." Truth is, we adapt constantly. We got no choice. Yet we persevere. We keep doing. That's not weakness. That's strength.* Processing Power: We take in everything. Process it deeply. Yet live through emotional and sensory experiences that would derail most people. We keep going. Keep growing. That's not dysfunction. That's determination. Coming directly from… not despite… our neurodivergent cognition.* Spectrum of Strength: Maybe resilience is a spectrum, too. And some of us autistics crank it up past 11. Not weakness from disability. Strength from difference. Turning autistic stereotypes upside down. Yet again.[Music]Just a quickie… this is Part 1 of “Doc? You Got Autism All Wrong?” Why not binge the next part? Or download the long-form version with both parts? Link in transcript.Challenging Normal-izing ModelsMy story? Just one among thousands. Millions.I've worked as a magazine publisher. Functioned as an academic grad student… multiple times. And been homeless… multiple times. I've been privileged to hear many, many similar stories over the decades. At all levels of society, education, age.These stories all share one truth: Autistic traits are not inherently deficits. They can be hidden sources of strength and resilience. In the right environment. In the right community.Take one example: Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). What pros like to label our natural, neurodivergent response to external demands like deadlines. I meet the diagnostic criteria. Always have. But in my opinion, they bulldoze right over my inborn need for autonomy. Leading too often to trauma. PDA… seems to me… a dehumanizing slur. For the nature I was born with.Yet many neurodivergents find comfort and support diagnosed as PDA. In the acknowledgment of our differences the diagnosis does offer. I don't wish to negate their experience. And I'm not arguing neurodivergents do NOT have needs for autonomy. Or that we don't suffer due to these differences. At the hands of Straight Culture.My point: Sensory and social differences are NOT pathologies.It's like dogs noticing that cats are more hyper than canines...So to "help" ‘em, pro dogs decide to forcibly train or torture every cat. To steamroll them into converting to “Dog Normal.”We are human… autistic humans.We need what all humans need: To build on our strengths. To find our nurturing environments. To choose our supportive communities.We just accomplish these things... differently.Look, I'm fighting the whole Normative Narrative. Which demands any difference MUST be "cured." Or at least fixed.And I'm not keen on neurodivergent-based attempts to bandaid the problem. By simply defining a new normal for autistics and other neurodivergents. Just another standard we may fail to live up to.Frankly, I'm calling for a strengths-based, non-normative psychology for all neurodivergents. A theme I develop in this series and future podcasts. How we might replace CBT and similar treatments with more neurodivergent-centered alternatives.So where do we start this revolution?Doc, Stop. Look again…At the big picture this time. See those brilliant sparks of unusual strength? Far more powerful than your "deficits."Reality check: Up to now, you've just been documenting how modern consumer culture fails our neurology. In the office. In our schools. In shopping at freaking Walmart for fuck's sake.Anywhere we're forced to process too much sensory input. Or pretend to read invisible social cues. Pretend we're you… without rest or accommodation.Let's explore a new direction. Simply put?Doc… stop looking through your telescope backwards. Look at us. Right in front of your eyes._____References & Further ReadingNeither exhaustive nor comprehensive. Articles that made me think.* The high prevalence of trauma and adverse experiences among autistic individuals* PTSD and Autism* Trauma and Autism: Research and Resources* How to build resiliency in autistic individuals: an implication to advance mental health* Association Between Autism and PTSD Among Adult Psychiatric Outpatients* The relationship between autism and resilience* Building Resilience – An Important Life Skill* Understanding Resilience in Neurodivergent Adults* Autistic Resilience: Overcoming Adversity Through Self-Care and Strengths* The criticism of deficit-based models of autism* Moving Beyond Deficit-Based Models of Autism* Strengths-First Assessment in Autism* The reality of autistic strengths and capabilities* 6 Strengths (not Weaknesses) of Individuals with Autism* Autism as a Strength* Neurodiversity as a Competitive AdvantageNote: Links are provided for reference only. Views expressed may differ from my own experiences and observations. Sources affiliated with Autism Speaks are controversial in the neurodiversity community. Their research may be included for completeness. But perhaps be cautious.Doc, You Got Us All Wrong, Pt 2: CBT...? Never Worked for Autistic MeCold OpenCBT…? Never worked for autistic me.So, look, we KNOW masking doesn't work. Or FEAR. Or PAIN. We're dying from them already.That's all the words we need.[Music]IntroYou're listening to AutisticAF Out Loud. One voice. Raw. Real. Fiercely Neurodivergent. Since 1953.Season 5, Episode 6. “Doc? You Got Us All Wrong, Pt 2: CBT…? Never Worked for Autistic Me.”Abelist agendas. Bad research subjects. Bad data. Bad therapy.There's the whole story.An experimental multi-part series… around 10 minutes each. Cuz some autistic listeners tell me they like to binge in small bites. Others say they listen in the car… so you can also download the complete series as one file.Just one autistic elder's truth. I'm Johnny Profane.Content Note: trauma discussion, medical system critique, institutional discrimination, psychiatric hospitalizations, systemic oppression + experiences & opinions of one autistic voice... in my 70s.[Music]I've been struggling with an article on CBT & Autism for years.Sigh. Spoons. A lot of reading. A lot of thinking…To come to my opinion… my thesis…that any therapy based on purely cognitive techniques… even if pros throw on some Behavioral rubber-band-snapping special sauce on the side…?It's inherently ableist… attacking the very way our autistic brains are wired. Demanding abilities many neurodivergents just weren't born with.Here's a snapshot. A quick personal story from when autistic-as-fuck me turned for help…“I'm sorry… What did you just say?”“I said…” He looked nervous. “I said… I always recommend aversive therapy for my autistic kids. My clients.”Me. In a dead-cold voice. “Snapping a rubber band.”“Y-e-s-s.” He seemed torn. Was I gonna get positive reinforcement… Or that weird, hostile, defensiveness professionals get. When you ask questions.Into that hesitant silence, I say, “Snap it hard. Hard as they can. Against their wrist.”“Yes. The sting is important.” Now, he's eager to share. “When they repeat the aversive stimulus, they…”Again I interrupt with my ashen, Clint-Eastwood voice. “During a meltdown.”“Well… actually… just before.” He's beaming, proud. “They learn to snap the band at the earliest hint they'll lose control. It's operant conditioning.”A kid having a meltdown on Aisle 3. Likely overwhelmed by sensory overload.Let's just add a little sharp pain… and see what happens…As if by giving it some science-y name… it's not self-inflicted torture.Brief CBT BackgroundCognitive Behavioral Therapy emerged in the 60s. A kind of forced marriage. Between Beck's cognitive therapy… focused on internal thoughts. And Skinner's behavioral therapy… focused on observable behavior. Both developed studying neurotypical minds.Change your thoughts, change your feelings, change your behavior… change your life. Simple, right?Unless your brain doesn't work that way…Sometimes…? Research… Ain't.How could COGNITIVE Behavioral Therapy not be inappropriate for autistics?Research Problem #1. It's based on studying neurotypical populations. But we autistics think differently by definition.Problem #2? For the foundational studies, CBT researchers used white, university student subjects… for the most part. They're easy and cheap to find. But maybe 3% are autistic? Maybe? ALL with decent IQs and functioning student skills… even the few autistic subjects?And Problem #3 is a doozy. Many autistics survive by people-pleasing. Kids and grownups. We're likely to mask our true experiences to appear "better"... or please therapists. Plus we may have trouble perceiving and communicating our own experience. Self-reported data might not reflect our reality.,Then there's one that's rarely discussed. Problem #4… the "waitlist relief effect." Most neurodivergent folks endure months or years waiting for therapy, suffering intensely. When we finally get accepted into therapy? There's overwhelming relief… elevating our mood and behavior. Which distorts everything a therapist will hear.We may dial up our masking. Cuz we're scared shitless we'll lose this lifeline.Meanwhile, researchers publish, buff their nails…. and attribute any self-reported improvement as proof their technique works.,The Cognitive Part…? A Stopper.Substitute "executive functioning" for "cognitive." As in the thing they say is largely missing from my autistic forebrain.The entire technique? One cognitive process after another.. First you must notice. Then you must reflect.Then decide.Then review.Then judge context.Then review…Finally… Act.Then regret.Let that sink in. All of cognitive therapy is about monitoring individual thoughts for "cognitive errors." Then replacing them with correct ones.Hundreds of decisions, distinctions, social cue processings. Executive functioning. A process that NEVER became automatic for me. As clinician after clinician cheerfully reassured me it would.Many autistic individuals have memory differences. Working memory differences that make it nearly impossible to hold the kind of information cognitive work requires. Much less manipulate it on the fly…Now… About Behavior.Now, the "Behavioral" part of CBT? The Skinnerian special sauce?Rewards… and punishments… for the action you choose. Hoping you'll build automatic, correct responses.Basically rat training. If you shock me enough times. Sure. I won't go through that door. AND I will struggle mightily to only have an internal stroke... rather than an external meltdown.But the researcher... or teacher... gets to check the box, "Cured." Cuz we're no longer a nuisance to them. And we continue to quietly die. Invisibly. Politely...Inside.That kind of aversion... to fear or pain? True for every living thing at an evolutionary level above a paramecium.Like rats. Or kids. Cuz... FEAR works. PAIN works. Just not the way they think.These Practical Implementation Failures…Should sound pretty familiar. To autistic folks. Keenly aware of the nightmare effort Autistic Masking demands around Straight Society.So, look, we know masking doesn't work. Or fear. Or PAIN. We're dying from them already.That's all the words we need.Add to this our difficulty forming new habits, maintaining routines, and processing cognitive information differently. Under stress… which therapy itself can induce… we often revert to previous behaviors. Any “improvements” from “techniques”? Not bloody likely they're ingrained as permanent muscle memory.Requiring frequent refresher sessions to maintain the illusion of change… and progress.As one commenter wrote: "To me, CBT has always felt inherently surface-level. It's like closing a few tabs on your browser as opposed to doing a factory reset."Biggest problem of all? Neurodivergent Diversity.Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic… all different cognitive profiles.Sure, we're all different from the typical population. But an autistic who also experiences ADHD thinks and acts differently than a dyslexic one. At least to my trained observation. I was a mental health social worker for 10 years…Despite these complexities… Maybe because it is complex… It seems to me that CBT treats us all as if we're standard-model humans. With a few bugs to fix.We require GENERATIONAL studies of representative populations to sort this spaghetti pile out. Before we should be recommending these techniques.On living humans. Adults. And especially kids.ABA and Its Relatives: An Even Deeper Hole.Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) deserves special mention. It's the behavioral therapy most parents hear about in grammar schools.What most don't know? ABA shares roots with debunked, torturous gay Conversion Therapy. Outlawed in many states. Both were developed by O. Ivar Lovaas in the 60s.Both aim to eliminate "undesirable" behaviors. Using “aversive” techniques. From snapping rubber bands in the nice clinics. To cattle prods in the not-so-nice facilities.Punishing and suppressing behaviors that are natural to our nervous systems. Behaviors that protect us from a society not built for us.ABA may have volumes of "data." But it's all shaped by behaviors researchers and parents want, not what autistic children or adults need. The outcomes measured? Eye contact. Sitting still. Verbal responses. Not internal autistic wellbeing.It's important to understand one simple point. Data is not science.How you frame your research or experiment How you gather your data How you choose how many subjects and whom When you choose to gather data How you interpret your data How you present your dataAll impact its validity and value. ABA and all its camouflaged cousins fall down on this core scientific truth.Bottom line? When former ABA children grow up, many report trauma. PTSD. Anxiety. Depression. Self-harm.ConclusionFuck #ABA. Fuck #CBT.Everybody in the therapeutic-industrial complex from clinic receptionist to billionaire pharmaceutical CEO makes money. From your kid's pain. Caused by treatments that don't address neurodivergent needs. As far as I… and better-known neurodiversity-affirming authorities… can tell.Strong words? Yes. Because minds… and lives… are at stake.We need therapies that work WITH our neurology, not against it. That build on our strengths instead of calling us coolly, professionally, pathologizing names.In Part 3, we'll really bring this all home. How labeling our intrinsic differences as disease is about as anti-therapeutic as you can get.We'll explore "PDA… Not Every Difference Is a Disease." And really raise a ruckus.OutroFor your deeper diving pleasure, the transcript contains references and footnotes for most points I raise. From a variety of views.Hey, don't forget, you can download Part 1, “Autistic Resilience.” Or download both parts as one file.More coming in this series exploring how neurodivergent folks can build sustainable, authentic lives… with or without professional intervention. With 2 more parts coming…AutisticAF Out Loud podcast is supported solely by listeners like you. If you have a friend or family member touched by neurodiversity? Why not turn them on to us with a quick email?By the way, we believe no one should have to pay to be autistic. Many neurodivergent people can't afford subscription content.Your Ko-Fi tip of any amount helps keep this resource free for them. Or join our paid subscriber community at johnnyprofaneknapp.substack.com for ongoing support. I put both links in description.References & Further Reading1: Ableist: Discriminating against people with disabilities by assuming everyone's mind and body work the same way. Like designing a world only for the "standard model human" and then blaming us when we can't navigate it.2: Operant conditioning: A learning process in which behavior is shaped by rewards or punishments.3: Beck, A. T. (1979). Cognitive therapy and the emotional disorders. Penguin.4: Bottema-Beutel, K., & Crowley, S. (2021). Pervasive Undisclosed Conflicts of Interest in Applied Behavior Analysis Autism Literature. Frontiers in Psychology, 12.5: Cage, E., Di Monaco, J., & Newell, V. (2018). Experiences of Autism Acceptance and Mental Health in Autistic Adults. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 48(2), 473-484.6: Masking: The act of concealing one's autistic traits to fit in or avoid negative attention.7: Meta-analyses show that waitlist control groups often overestimate the effect sizes of psychotherapies for depression and anxiety, and that changes occurring during waitlist periods are typically small, making waitlist-controlled trials a less strict test of effectiveness.Cuijpers, P., Karyotaki, E., Reijnders, M., Purgato, M., de Wit, L., Ebert, D. D., ... & Furukawa, T. A. (2024). Overestimation of the effect sizes of psychotherapies for depression in waitlist-controlled trials: a meta-analytic comparison with usual care controlled trials. Epidemiology and Psychiatric Sciences, 33, e10.8: Patterson, B., Boyle, M. H., Kivlenieks, M., & Van Ameringen, M. (2016). The use of waitlists as control conditions in anxiety disorders research. Journal of Anxiety Disorders, 41, 56-64.9: Boucher, J., Mayes, A., & Bigham, S. (2012). Memory in autistic spectrum disorder. Psychological Bulletin, 138(3), 458-496.10: Happé, F., & Frith, U. (2006). The weak coherence account: detail-focused cognitive style in autism spectrum disorders. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 36(1), 5-25.11: Rekers, G. A., & Lovaas, O. I. (1974). Behavioral treatment of deviant sex-role behaviors in a male child. Journal of Applied Behavior Analysis, 7(2), 173–190.See also: El Dewar (2024), "ABA: The Neuro-Normative Conversion Therapy," NDConnection; and the Lovaas Institute's 2024 statement regarding conversion therapy.12: Sandoval-Norton, A. H., & Shkedy, G. (2019). How much compliance is too much compliance: Is long-term ABA therapy abuse? Cogent Psychology, 6(1).13: McGill, O., & Robinson, A. (2020). "Recalling hidden harms": Autistic experiences of childhood Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA). Advances in Autism, ahead-of-print.14: Xie, Y., Zhang, Y., Li, Y., et al. (2021). Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Autism Spectrum Disorders: A Systematic Review. Pediatrics, 147(5), e2020049880.81015: Weston, L., Hodgekins, J., & Langdon, P. E. (2016). Effectiveness of cognitive behavioural therapy with people who have autistic spectrum disorders: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Clinical Psychology Review, 49, 41-54.16: Miguel, C., Harrer, M., Cuijpers, P., et al. (2025). Self-reports vs clinician ratings of efficacies of psychotherapies for depression: a meta-analysis. Epidemiology and Psychiatric Sciences, 34, e9.Note: Links are provided for reference only. Views expressed may differ from my own experiences and observations. Sources affiliated with Autism Speaks are controversial in the neurodiversity community. Their research may be included for completeness. But perhaps be cautious.#AutisticAF Out Loud Newsletter is a reader-supported publication. Click below to receive new posts… free. To support my work, consider becoming a paid subscriber. 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Cold OpenCBT…? Never worked for autistic me.So, look, we KNOW masking doesn't work. Or FEAR. Or PAIN. We're dying from them already.That's all the words we need.[Music]IntroYou're listening to AutisticAF Out Loud. One voice. Raw. Real. Fiercely Neurodivergent. Since 1953.Season 5, Episode 6. “Doc? You Got Us All Wrong, Pt 2: CBT…? Never Worked for Autistic Me.”Abelist agendas. Bad research subjects. Bad data. Bad therapy.There's the whole story.An experimental multi-part series… around 10 minutes each. Cuz some autistic listeners tell me they like to binge in small bites. Others say they listen in the car… so you can also download the complete series as one file.Just one autistic elder's truth. I'm Johnny Profane.Content Note: trauma discussion, medical system critique, institutional discrimination, psychiatric hospitalizations, systemic oppression + experiences & opinions of one autistic voice... in my 70s.[Music]I've been struggling with an article on CBT & Autism for years.Sigh. Spoons. A lot of reading. A lot of thinking…To come to my opinion… my thesis…that any therapy based on purely cognitive techniques… even if pros throw on some Behavioral rubber-band-snapping special sauce on the side…?It's inherently ableist… attacking the very way our autistic brains are wired. Demanding abilities many neurodivergents just weren't born with.Here's a snapshot. A quick personal story from when autistic-as-fuck me turned for help…“I'm sorry… What did you just say?”“I said…” He looked nervous. “I said… I always recommend aversive therapy for my autistic kids. My clients.”Me. In a dead-cold voice. “Snapping a rubber band.”“Y-e-s-s.” He seemed torn. Was I gonna get positive reinforcement… Or that weird, hostile, defensiveness professionals get. When you ask questions.Into that hesitant silence, I say, “Snap it hard. Hard as they can. Against their wrist.”“Yes. The sting is important.” Now, he's eager to share. “When they repeat the aversive stimulus, they…”Again I interrupt with my ashen, Clint-Eastwood voice. “During a meltdown.”“Well… actually… just before.” He's beaming, proud. “They learn to snap the band at the earliest hint they'll lose control. It's operant conditioning.”A kid having a meltdown on Aisle 3. Likely overwhelmed by sensory overload.Let's just add a little sharp pain… and see what happens…As if by giving it some science-y name… it's not self-inflicted torture.Brief CBT BackgroundCognitive Behavioral Therapy emerged in the 60s. A kind of forced marriage. Between Beck's cognitive therapy… focused on internal thoughts. And Skinner's behavioral therapy… focused on observable behavior. Both developed studying neurotypical minds.Change your thoughts, change your feelings, change your behavior… change your life. Simple, right?Unless your brain doesn't work that way…Sometimes…? Research… Ain't.How could COGNITIVE Behavioral Therapy not be inappropriate for autistics?Research Problem #1. It's based on studying neurotypical populations. But we autistics think differently by definition.Problem #2? For the foundational studies, CBT researchers used white, university student subjects… for the most part. They're easy and cheap to find. But maybe 3% are autistic? Maybe? ALL with decent IQs and functioning student skills… even the few autistic subjects?And Problem #3 is a doozy. Many autistics survive by people-pleasing. Kids and grownups. We're likely to mask our true experiences to appear "better"... or please therapists. Plus we may have trouble perceiving and communicating our own experience. Self-reported data might not reflect our reality.,Then there's one that's rarely discussed. Problem #4… the "waitlist relief effect." Most neurodivergent folks endure months or years waiting for therapy, suffering intensely. When we finally get accepted into therapy? There's overwhelming relief… elevating our mood and behavior. Which distorts everything a therapist will hear.We may dial up our masking. Cuz we're scared shitless we'll lose this lifeline.Meanwhile, researchers publish, buff their nails…. and attribute any self-reported improvement as proof their technique works.The Cognitive Part…? A Stopper.Substitute "executive functioning" for "cognitive." As in the thing they say is largely missing from my autistic forebrain.The entire technique? One cognitive process after another.. First you must notice. Then you must reflect.Then decide.Then review.Then judge context.Then review…Finally… Act.Then regret.Let that sink in. All of cognitive therapy is about monitoring individual thoughts for "cognitive errors." Then replacing them with correct ones.Hundreds of decisions, distinctions, social cue processings. Executive functioning. A process that NEVER became automatic for me. As clinician after clinician cheerfully reassured me it would.Many autistic individuals have memory differences. Working memory differences that make it nearly impossible to hold the kind of information cognitive work requires. Much less manipulate it on the fly…Now… About Behavior.Now, the "Behavioral" part of CBT? The Skinnerian special sauce?Rewards… and punishments… for the action you choose. Hoping you'll build automatic, correct responses.Basically rat training. If you shock me enough times. Sure. I won't go through that door. AND I will struggle mightily to only have an internal stroke... rather than an external meltdown.But the researcher... or teacher... gets to check the box, "Cured." Cuz we're no longer a nuisance to them. And we continue to quietly die. Invisibly. Politely...Inside.That kind of aversion... to fear or pain? True for every living thing at an evolutionary level above a paramecium.Like rats. Or kids. Cuz... FEAR works. PAIN works. Just not the way they think.These Practical Implementation Failures…Should sound pretty familiar. To autistic folks. Keenly aware of the nightmare effort Autistic Masking demands around Straight Society.So, look, we know masking doesn't work. Or fear. Or PAIN. We're dying from them already.That's all the words we need.Add to this our difficulty forming new habits, maintaining routines, and processing cognitive information differently. Under stress… which therapy itself can induce… we often revert to previous behaviors. Any “improvements” from “techniques”? Not bloody likely they're ingrained as permanent muscle memory.Requiring frequent refresher sessions to maintain the illusion of change… and progress.As one commenter wrote: "To me, CBT has always felt inherently surface-level. It's like closing a few tabs on your browser as opposed to doing a factory reset."Biggest problem of all? Neurodivergent Diversity.Autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic… all different cognitive profiles.Sure, we're all different from the typical population. But an autistic who also experiences ADHD thinks and acts differently than a dyslexic one. At least to my trained observation. I was a mental health social worker for 10 years…Despite these complexities… Maybe because it is complex… It seems to me that CBT treats us all as if we're standard-model humans. With a few bugs to fix.We require GENERATIONAL studies of representative populations to sort this spaghetti pile out. Before we should be recommending these techniques.On living humans. Adults. And especially kids.ABA and Its Relatives: An Even Deeper Hole.Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) deserves special mention. It's the behavioral therapy most parents hear about in grammar schools.What most don't know? ABA shares roots with debunked, torturous gay Conversion Therapy. Outlawed in many states. Both were developed by O. Ivar Lovaas in the 60s.Both aim to eliminate "undesirable" behaviors. Using “aversive” techniques. From snapping rubber bands in the nice clinics. To cattle prods in the not-so-nice facilities.Punishing and suppressing behaviors that are natural to our nervous systems. Behaviors that protect us from a society not built for us.ABA may have volumes of "data." But it's all shaped by behaviors researchers and parents want, not what autistic children or adults need. The outcomes measured? Eye contact. Sitting still. Verbal responses. Not internal autistic wellbeing.It's important to understand one simple point. Data is not science.How you frame your research or experiment How you gather your data How you choose how many subjects and whom When you choose to gather data How you interpret your data How you present your dataAll impact its validity and value. ABA and all its camouflaged cousins fall down on this core scientific truth.Bottom line? When former ABA children grow up, many report trauma. PTSD. Anxiety. Depression. Self-harm.ConclusionFuck #ABA. Fuck #CBT.Everybody in the therapeutic-industrial complex from clinic receptionist to billionaire pharmaceutical CEO makes money. From your kid's pain. Caused by treatments that don't address neurodivergent needs. As far as I… and better-known neurodiversity-affirming authorities… can tell.Strong words? Yes. Because minds… and lives… are at stake.We need therapies that work WITH our neurology, not against it. That build on our strengths instead of calling us coolly, professionally, pathologizing names.In Part 3, we'll really bring this all home. How labeling our intrinsic differences as disease is about as anti-therapeutic as you can get.We'll explore "PDA… Not Every Difference Is a Disease." And really raise a ruckus.OutroFor your deeper diving pleasure, the transcript contains references and footnotes for most points I raise. From a variety of views.Hey, don't forget, you can download Part 1, “Autistic Resilience.” Or download both parts as one file.More coming in this series exploring how neurodivergent folks can build sustainable, authentic lives… with or without professional intervention. With 2 more parts coming…AutisticAF Out Loud podcast is supported solely by listeners like you. If you have a friend or family member touched by neurodiversity? Why not turn them on to us with a quick email?By the way, we believe no one should have to pay to be autistic. Many neurodivergent people can't afford subscription content.Your Ko-Fi tip of any amount helps keep this resource free for them. Or join our paid subscriber community at johnnyprofaneknapp.substack.com for ongoing support. I put both links in description.References & Further Reading1: Ableist: Discriminating against people with disabilities by assuming everyone's mind and body work the same way. Like designing a world only for the "standard model human" and then blaming us when we can't navigate it.2: Operant conditioning: A learning process in which behavior is shaped by rewards or punishments.3: Beck, A. T. (1979). Cognitive therapy and the emotional disorders. Penguin.4: Bottema-Beutel, K., & Crowley, S. (2021). Pervasive Undisclosed Conflicts of Interest in Applied Behavior Analysis Autism Literature. Frontiers in Psychology, 12.5: Cage, E., Di Monaco, J., & Newell, V. (2018). Experiences of Autism Acceptance and Mental Health in Autistic Adults. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 48(2), 473-484.6: Masking: The act of concealing one's autistic traits to fit in or avoid negative attention.7: Meta-analyses show that waitlist control groups often overestimate the effect sizes of psychotherapies for depression and anxiety, and that changes occurring during waitlist periods are typically small, making waitlist-controlled trials a less strict test of effectiveness.Cuijpers, P., Karyotaki, E., Reijnders, M., Purgato, M., de Wit, L., Ebert, D. D., ... & Furukawa, T. A. (2024). Overestimation of the effect sizes of psychotherapies for depression in waitlist-controlled trials: a meta-analytic comparison with usual care controlled trials. Epidemiology and Psychiatric Sciences, 33, e10.8: Patterson, B., Boyle, M. H., Kivlenieks, M., & Van Ameringen, M. (2016). The use of waitlists as control conditions in anxiety disorders research. Journal of Anxiety Disorders, 41, 56-64.9: Boucher, J., Mayes, A., & Bigham, S. (2012). Memory in autistic spectrum disorder. Psychological Bulletin, 138(3), 458-496.10: Happé, F., & Frith, U. (2006). The weak coherence account: detail-focused cognitive style in autism spectrum disorders. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 36(1), 5-25.11: Rekers, G. A., & Lovaas, O. I. (1974). Behavioral treatment of deviant sex-role behaviors in a male child. Journal of Applied Behavior Analysis, 7(2), 173–190.See also: El Dewar (2024), "ABA: The Neuro-Normative Conversion Therapy," NDConnection; and the Lovaas Institute's 2024 statement regarding conversion therapy.12: Sandoval-Norton, A. H., & Shkedy, G. (2019). How much compliance is too much compliance: Is long-term ABA therapy abuse? Cogent Psychology, 6(1).13: McGill, O., & Robinson, A. (2020). "Recalling hidden harms": Autistic experiences of childhood Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA). Advances in Autism, ahead-of-print.14: Xie, Y., Zhang, Y., Li, Y., et al. (2021). Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Autism Spectrum Disorders: A Systematic Review. Pediatrics, 147(5), e2020049880.81015: Weston, L., Hodgekins, J., & Langdon, P. E. (2016). Effectiveness of cognitive behavioural therapy with people who have autistic spectrum disorders: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Clinical Psychology Review, 49, 41-54.16: Miguel, C., Harrer, M., Cuijpers, P., et al. (2025). Self-reports vs clinician ratings of efficacies of psychotherapies for depression: a meta-analysis. Epidemiology and Psychiatric Sciences, 34, e9.Note: Links are provided for reference only. Views expressed may differ from my own experiences and observations. Sources affiliated with Autism Speaks are controversial in the neurodiversity community. Their research may be included for completeness. 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Winning 5 of their last 6 games, the Astros seem to have hit a wall last night as Oakland rallies back late in the 9th for a stunning victory over the Astros' 3-1. Following a solid start with Ryan Gusto on the mound, Bryan Abreu suffers a hurtful loss following Nick Kurtz's walk-off 2 run homer at the bottom of the 9th to spring the A's into victory. Discussing a few things that weren't appeasing to the eyes last night, Sean and Dan share a few takeaways from last nights loss and what adjustments must be made going forward regarding games that appear on the schedule as essential wins for the Astros.      

You're showing up for your family and doing the “right things”... but inside, there's a quiet grief—an ache you can't quite name. Today we're naming the hidden disappointments that creep into our roles as moms and wives and exploring how to heal them through honest reflection, emotional clarity and God's grace. This is the conversation we rarely have—but desperately need. What You'll Learn:  [00:00] Could the Exhaustion You Feel Be Disappointment In Disguise? [04:00] What Happens When Guilt Keeps You From Receiving Rest or Connection? [06:00] Are Impossible Expectations Silently Shaping How You See Yourself As A Mom? [08:00] What Does Disappointment Sound Like In Marriage—And Why Don't We Talk About It? [11:00] Why “Taking Responsibility” Can Become A Trap For Self-Blame [13:00] Are You Living Under Grace—Or Secretly Trying To Earn Your Worth? [14:00] Three Questions to Identify and Process Disappointment [15:00] How Childhood Beliefs About Emotions And Roles Still Shape Your Inner Critic [17:00] What Changes When We Start Talking Honestly About Our Disappointments At Home? [20:00] How Naming Your Hidden Hurts Opens The Door To Emotional Healing [21:00] What Kind Of Support Do You Really Need When You're Carrying Quiet Grief? RESOURCES: 6-WEEK LIVE STUDY with ALICIA in JULY/AUGUST 2025 on DISAPPOINTMENT: Ready for healing from disappointment in marriage, mothering, career and more?  Join me in July/August 2025 in the Emotional Confidence Club where I'll be leading ladies through a 6-week process of noticing disappointments, processing the honest feelings behind it, and applying what we learn to everyday relationships.  Go to AliciaMichelle.com/club to apply and join us. RELATED EPISODES Ep 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down  Ep 313: Is Disappointment the Real Reason Why You're Overwhelmed, Tired + Irritated?  Ep 310: How to Let Go of Control and Still Feel Safe Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

Gil's Arena Reacts To Kevin Durant TWEETING Out His Future as Gilbert Arenas & The Gil's Arena Crew react to Kevin Durant sparking trade rumors after a viral night on Twitter brought out reports that KD is on his way out of Phoenix in the coming weeks with teams like the San Antonio Spurs, Houston Rockets and New York Knicks emerging as the favorites to land the legendary NBA Superstar. The Gil's Arena Crew breaks down what team is the best fit for Durant and give their take on the debate over his underwhelming career since leaving Steph Curry & The Golden State Warriors. Next, they react to the Ringer's updated top 100 NBA Players list and debate where the list went right and wrong with players like Joel Embiid, Paul George, and LaMelo Ball all getting snubbed with low ratings. They follow that up with a debate over Andy Roddick's comments that tennis players are the best athletes in the world before reacting to Kyrie Irving sticking up for Karl Anthony Towns following the smattering of hate towards the New York Knicks Superstar following their loss in the NBA Playoffs. They then welcome rapper Flawless into Gil's Arena to break down his experience on the Netflix series Rhythm & Flow and give his take on the best rapper in the game right now before finally previewing Game 3 of the NBA Finals where Tyrese Haliburton & Shai Gilgeous Alexander both look to guide their teams to a series lead for the NBA Title. Please give us a like and subscribe!!! Gil's Arena Crew - Gilbert Arenas, Josiah Johnson, Flawless, Kenyon Martin & Rashad McCants Sign up for Underdog Fantasy HERE with promo code GIL and get up to $1000 in Bonus Credits and A FREE Pick: https://play.underdogfantasy.com/p-gi... Fetch a FREE Jumpstart Trial Bag for your Dog. Go to ruffgreens.com/arena and use promo code ARENA. Use our code for 10% off your next SeatGeek order https://seatgeek.onelink.me/RrnK/ARENA10 Sponsored by SeatGeek. Restrictions apply. Max $20 discount Join the Playback chat to interact with Gil and Josiah https://www.playback.tv/gilbertarenas SUBSCRIBE:    / @gilsarena   Join the Underdog discord for access to exclusive giveaways and promos!   / discord   0:00:00 2 Min Countdown 0:02:02 Show Start 0:08:11 What Sport Has The Best Athlete? 0:33:06 Ringer's Top 100 NBA Players List 0:41:54 Embiid Ranked 84th In The NBA 0:51:10 Flawless Enters Gil's Arena 0:52:40 Life After Rhythm & Flow 1:03:21 Flawless Calls Out Rashad's Favorite Team 1:05:14 Kyrie Irving Stands Up For Karl Anthony Towns 1:15:09 Thibs Thanks The New York Knicks 1:36:59 Kevin Durant Defends His Legacy On Twitter 2:11:15 Shai Is Quietly One Of The Greatest Scorers Ever 2:17:44 Tim Hardaway Is Still Going After Hali 2:36:14 MostlyFans Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hour 1 of the show today, the morning team reacts to an 11 inning win and Otto Kemp's 3-hit game.

Bump and Stacy are joined by Tim Booth of The Seattle Times to look back on the Mariners amazing win over the angels and to get you ready for the series against the Diamondback, they give you their thoughts on the NBA Finals and the string of thefts at Seattle athletes’ homes in Headline Rewrites, they bring you the biggest stories around the NFL, including which quarterback will be under the most pressure this season, and they look at the current state of the Mariners pitching rotation. 

Feeling drained, short-tempered, or emotionally numb? It may not just be your schedule—it might be disappointment. This episode uncovers the hidden emotional weight behind daily irritation, burnout, and fatigue, and shows how unprocessed grief and unmet expectations can quietly harden your heart. Discover how disappointment often disguises itself as stress, anger, or exhaustion—and how to recognize it before it turns into bitterness or resentment. You'll walk away with specific questions to help you identify the root of your weariness, plus a powerful mindset tool to process what you're really feeling with both honesty and hope. This is your invitation to stop pushing through and start healing the disappointment that's been quietly draining your energy and joy. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:00] Could Unprocessed Disappointment Be What's Draining You? [03:00] Why Is Disappointment Really Just Grief Without Closure? [05:00] How Emotional Pain Shows Up in the Body (and Why You Can't Ignore It) [06:00] Where Is Disappointment Hiding in Your Life—Marriage, Parenting, Faith, or Career? [10:00] How Small Losses Quietly Accumulate Into Deep Emotional Exhaustion [12:00] What Happens to Your Heart and Faith When You Don't Face Disappointment? [14:00] 3 Clarity-Building Questions to Expose Hidden Hurt [16:00] Why Naming What Hurts is the First Step Toward Freedom [17:00] What Does God Do When You Tell Him You're Disappointed? [18:00] How to Heal Disappointment Through Community, Tools, and Christ-Centered Support RESOURCES: 6-WEEK LIVE STUDY with ALICIA in JULY/AUGUST 2025 on DISAPPOINTMENT:  Ready for healing from disappointment in marriage, mothering, career and more?  Join me in July/August 2025 in the Emotional Confidence Club where I'll be leading ladies through a 6-week process of noticing disappointments, processing the honest feelings behind it, and applying what we learn to everyday relationships.  Go to AliciaMichelle.com/club to apply and join us. RELATED EPISODES: 312: What to Do When You Can't Stop Crying, Snapping, or Shutting Down  309: Are You Holding Back Emotionally Because You're Afraid to Be Hurt Again?  302: How Toxic Thinking Led to Infidelity and How Managing Emotions Led to Healing  Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

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Ever find yourself constantly on the verge of tears, snapping at loved ones, or emotionally shutting down? You're not broken—and you're not alone. In today's episode, Alicia shares what's really going on inside your brain and body when emotions feel out of control and introduces two simple but powerful tools to bring calm and clarity. If you've been stuck in a cycle of guilt, shame, or exhaustion around your emotions, this episode offers a path forward grounded in both science and Scripture.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN: [00:58] Why Am I So Emotional Lately? Understanding What's Really Going On in Your Brain and Body [04:00] Which of the 4 Coping Mechanisms Are You Using? (Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn) [08:10] Are These Emotional Responses Permanent—or Can I Change Them? [09:00] How the Brain Reinforces Emotional Overwhelm Through Neuroplasticity [14:00] What Am I Really Feeling? The First Step Toward Emotional Regulation [16:00] What's Your Boiling Point? How to Catch Overwhelm Before It Spills Over [18:00] What's Behind the Snapping and Crying? Uncovering the Hidden Emotions [19:00] What Is Emotional Prep + How Can It Keep You Grounded? [21:00] Practical Tools to Cool the Fire: Scripture, Breathing, Journaling & More [25:00] You're Not Too Far Gone: An Invitation to Respond Differently with Grace RESOURCES: Want help applying what you're learning here each week?  Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—a hands-on learning community of Christian women discovering how to handle everyday emotions with calm, clarity and confidence. Apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club. RELATED EPISODES:302: How Toxic Thinking Led to Infidelity and How Managing Emotions Led to Healing with Mark and Jill Savage304: Stop Negative Thought Spirals: “Get Off the Mat” + “What Thoughts Will You Let Land?”306: On Addiction, the Enneagram and a Healthy Fix for Our Inner Brokenness with Ian Morgan Cron Send us a textWant support applying what you're learning here each week about managing emotions with science and scripture? Come join us in the Emotional Confidence Club—apply now at AliciaMichelle.com/club.

Oh come, let us sing to the Lord;    let us make a joyful noise to the rock of our salvation!2 Let us come into his presence with thanksgiving;    let us make a joyful noise to him with songs of praise!3 For the Lord is a great God,    and a great King above all gods.4 In his hand are the depths of the earth;    the heights of the mountains are his also.5 The sea is his, for he made it,    and his hands formed the dry land.6 Oh come, let us worship and bow down;    let us kneel before the Lord, our Maker!7 For he is our God,    and we are the people of his pasture,    and the sheep of his hand.Today, if you hear his voice,8     do not harden your hearts, as at Meribah,    as on the day at Massah in the wilderness,9 when your fathers put me to the test    and put me to the proof, though they had seen my work.10 For forty years I loathed that generation    and said, “They are a people who go astray in their heart,    and they have not known my ways.”11 Therefore I swore in my wrath,    “They shall not enter my rest.”

Timothy sits down wtih San Diego based Julie Potiker, the author of ‘Snap! From Chaos to Calm' to discuss how to snap out of chaotic mental states. Julie is an attorney, mindfulness coach and her work has been featured by The Oprah Magazine, NBC, CBS and Fox. Timothy and Julie explore her S.N.A.P model of emotional regulation to help you hack your mental anger, anxiety, sadness, inner critic, grief and so much more. Visit her website www.mindfulmethodsforlife.com to get her book and many more tools.

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