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Hi! I'm Beka Elle. I'm a coach, creative, and engineer. In this podcast, we discuss life from many angles: spirituality (particularly non-duality), creativity, purpose, play, and the insights I came upon while seeking answers for my own struggle with eating disorders, anxiety, and depression. DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed therapist or medical professional, and my services are not intended to diagnose, prescribe, or treat any medical condition, be that physical or mental.

Beka Elle


    • May 18, 2026 LATEST EPISODE
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    ep167: elimination diets

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2026 34:32


    In this episode, Beka shares why structured elimination diets can be transformative for both physical and mental health — especially for those struggling with binge-purge cycles, food addiction, body dysmorphia, and other eating disorders. She challenges the mainstream “intuitive eating only” approach used in many treatment programs and highlights stories of radical healing through whole-foods elimination protocols and carnivore eating.Beka emphasizes that the body wants to heal when given the right conditions, and that food directly impacts brain chemistry, mood, and even psychiatric symptoms. She stresses this is not medical advice and encourages listeners to trust their own experience.Why many people feel worse on intuitive eating (bloating, fatigue, anxiety, constant food noise)The mind-body connection: How nutrient deficiencies (like B12) can mimic serious psychiatric and neurological conditions, including symptoms misdiagnosed as MSTwo powerful elimination diet approaches:Vital Mind Reset (Dr. Kelly Brogan): A 30-day paleo-style whole foods protocol + 3 minutes of daily meditationCarnivore Diet: Meat, salt, and animal products only — especially helpful for severe food sensitivities, addiction, and autoimmune issuesHow elimination diets create safety in the nervous system and allow repressed trauma/emotions to surface and healThe “masculine energy initiation” of setting protective boundaries with foodInspiring recovery stories: Reversal of bipolar, PTSD, fibromyalgia, Graves' disease, Alzheimer's, brain cancer, stage 4 ovarian cancer, MS symptoms, severe anorexia, and bulimiaKey TakeawaysNot all foods are equal — some trigger inflammation, cravings, and psychological symptomsThe body can heal itself dramatically when processed foods, sugars, and common irritants are removedHealing eating disorders may require temporary structure, not constant access to “forbidden fruit”30 days can give you undeniable evidence of what your unique body needsWeight regulation often happens naturally once the body feels safe and nourishedYou are capable of showing up for yourself — this can rebuild self-trust and agencyResources MentionedDr. Kelly Brogan's Vital Mind Reset (program + randomized controlled trial on depression) - outcomes: https://www.kellybroganmd.com/outcomes?fb590fe2_page=8PubMed study on the Vital Mind Reset protocol - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7346300/Carnivore diet recovery stories (YouTube interviews linked in full show notes)Alzheimers: https://youtu.be/uOCXQn2xJHA?si=y14LcvaDuhy6ELTUBrain Cancer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnGVhVrXNVMOvarian Cancer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DoEmCwTMDX8Another Ovarian Cancer spread to spine/kidneys: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c5UOwyYBMfEMS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dxw832nmMyA&t=1304sStudies - Keto:Anorexia: https://journalofmetabolichealth.org/index.php/jmh/article/view/84/254Binge Eating: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6988301/Interviews with women who healed severe anorexia/bulimia through carnivoreAnorexia: https://youtu.be/C75SjgX7joI?si=Nor67Y2xRt5V0n_pAnorexia & Bulimia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kU0WfQCF5bwMaggie the Rancher – 65 years carnivoreSoul Huddles – Free weekly community Zoom calls (Sundays) - www.bekeaelle.com/coaching#soul-huddles1:1 Coaching & upcoming group membership with Beka www.bekaelle.com/contactI am not a doctor and this should not be treated as medical advice.

    ep166: your binge eating isn't what you think

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2026 16:32


    Your Binge Eating Disorder Isn't What You Think: A Fresh Perspective on Food FreedomStruggling with binge eating, bulimia, or emotional eating? Former binge-purge bulimic shares why the traditional “eating disorder” label may be keeping you stuck — and how viewing binges as outdated brain survival programs can lead to rapid, lasting freedom. This episode challenges conventional psychology's approach to eating disorders. Drawing from her own recovery from years of binge-purge bulimia and restrictive cycles, she explains why binge eating isn't a sign you're “broken,” but rather a healthy brain running outdated survival software in response to perceived threats. Learn how insight-based change can happen faster than you think and how to address the root cause instead of managing symptoms.Key Topics Covered:Why the terms “eating disorder” and “recovery” can be counterproductiveBinge eating as a survival response (“You're not out of control — you're under attack”)The brain as healthy hardware running painful/old softwareHow perceived threats (stress, restriction, emotions) trigger bingesWhy real change can happen quickly through embodied insight (not years of slow habit-building)Snake vs. rope analogy & the power of true insightComparison to psychedelic healing and subconscious learningMoving from self-blame to curiosity about the specific moment and pain behind the behaviorKey TakeawaysYour brain isn't broken — it's running outdated “code” that once served a purposeEvery binge has wisdom and a perfectly explainable reason rooted in survival instinctLabeling moments as “my eating disorder” keeps the pattern feeling permanentTrue freedom comes from addressing the root emotional threat in each fresh momentRapid transformation is possible when the brain sees a better, safer way to respondProgress is often underestimated because of the mind's negativity biasResources & MentionsJosie Spinardi – www.josiespinardi.orgAmy Johnson – www.dramyjohnson.comFree weekly community: Soul Huddles (www.bekaelle.com/coaching#soul-huddles)binge eating disorder, overcoming binge eating, bulimia recovery, food freedom, stop binge eatinghow to stop binge eating, binge eating help, eating disorder recovery, emotional eating recovery, Josie Spinardi, perceived threat binge eating, insight based change eating, brain survival response food, why do I binge eat#BingeEating #FoodFreedom #EatingDisorderRecovery #BulimiaRecovery #EmotionalEating #StopBingeEating #BodyImage #InsightHealing #MentalHealth #SelfCompassion

    ep165: how to make decisions - a client question

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2026 24:11


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    ep164: healing the self to... lose it?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2026 31:25


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    ep163: what if thought meant nothing?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2026 29:13


    Soul Huddles Sign-up:www.bekaelle.com/coaching#soul-huddlesThe study I'm referencing:https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21760881/

    ep162: inviting the shunned

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2026 14:44


    soul huddles: www.bekaelle.com/coaching#soul-huddles

    ep161: loving fully, anyway [ft. amanda jones]

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2026 43:15


    In this episode I'm joined by the illuminous Amanda Jones! We explore the fear that so many of us experience: "what if what I love doesn't love me back?"Find Amanda at:https://www.uncoveryspace.com/instagram: @amandajonesuncoveryJoin Soul Huddles!www.bekaelle.com/coaching#soul-huddles

    ep160: welcoming anger

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2026 20:43


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    ep159: the downside of diagnoses

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2026 20:24


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    ep158: when weight gain is fun!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 40:43


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    ep157: one year sober

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2026 36:38


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    ep156: how do you know what to eat?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2026 27:33


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    ep155: presencia

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2026 17:16


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    ep154: other people aren't your problem

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2026 29:26


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    ep153: moonly magic

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2026 33:29


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    ep152: resistance

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2026 21:25


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    ep151: you can't be where you're not

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2026 16:50


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    ep150: when it's just not working

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2026 17:35


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    ep149: inspired action

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2026 30:43


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    ep148: the time trap

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2026 20:40


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    ep147: why is it actually perfect?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2025 30:07


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    ep146: a solstice love note for you

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2025 21:39


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    ep145: "work"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2025 20:20


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    ep144: become as little children

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2025 22:54


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    ep143: assume the state

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2025 19:29


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    ep142: i am

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2025 20:23


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    ep141: be selfish.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2025 32:39


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    ep140: what my weight loss taught me about manifestation

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2025 32:34


    ep139: are you marketing weight loss wrong?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2025 30:47


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    ep138: when the fairy dust runs out

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 34:09


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    ep137: canaries in the coalmine

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2025 27:17


    Referenced: Own Your Self by Kelly Brogansoul huddle sign-up

    ep136: protect your weird

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2025 30:06


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    ep135: stressful times

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2025 28:54


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    ep134: false promises of bad habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2025 43:06


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    ep133: your 3D is irrelevant

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 22, 2025 21:26


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    ep132: intuitive eating

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2025 41:52


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    ep131: fear of gaining weight

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2025 45:09


    www.bekaelle.com/coaching#soul-huddlesjosie spinardi was mentioned in this episode!

    ep130: binge eating for relief

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2025 39:47


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    ep129: "wrong" turns

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2025 34:02


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    ep128: the only strategy you'll ever need

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2025 37:36


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    ep127: why your masculine energy is just as important as your "divine feminine"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2025 45:21


    soul huddlessubmit questionsalso mentioned:jamie davidsonvital mind reset

    ep126: how to stop eating when you're full

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2025 47:35


    Listener question

    ep125: which master do you serve?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2025 26:11


    Fear, or love?www.bekaelle.com

    ep124: other people's opinions

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2025 9:56


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    ep123: advice from grandma

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2025 19:11


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    ep122: your frequency is everything

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2025 23:15


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    ep121: enter through the upset

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2025 24:19


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    ep120: enoughness

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2025 21:47


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    ep119: what does "surrender" even mean?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2025 18:54


    People talk about "surrendering" a lot in spiritual circles... but HOW does one actually do that?www.bekaelle.com

    ep118: the trap of time

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2025 37:04


    What opens when we let go of "psychological time?"www.bekaelle.com

    ep117: back to breath

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2025 27:12


    "No thought is as important as this breath that I'm taking"- Chris the Shamanwww.bekaelle.com

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