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In today's episode, our guest is Adam Jablin. He is on a heroic journey to create an extraordinary life, but he has to navigate his challenges, including addiction, drinking, and medications. You've seen people overcome similar struggles, and there are always inspiring stories about how they use that experience to make a positive impact on the world. That's what this man does. If you're looking to hear about someone's journey of overcoming adversity and achieving incredible things, especially while battling similar challenges yourself, this episode is perfect. So, without further ado, let's begin. [5:45] Why should I listen to you? I care deeply, and it's because of my genuine concern for people. I value human connections and strive for meaningful interactions. When I converse with you, you can expect someone who respects and values you, someone who communicates from the heart. [6:20] Where did you enter into life that led to this journey, and is there a particular point at the very beginning that you consider a good starting point? I come from the era of the 80s and 90s, where masculinity was epitomized by figures like Stallone and Arnold Schwarzenegger. I was raised to be a 'man's man,' tough and rugged. However, my response may seem somewhat contradictory to that image. The truth is, I've always possessed a caring and compassionate heart, a deep desire to help people, and a genuine love for serving others. Now, let me take you back to my earlier statement. Growing up in the 80s and 90s, these larger-than-life characters made me feel somewhat out of place, as it didn't align with my natural inclination. I'd even recall instances in football where I would tackle an opponent correctly and extend a hand to help them up, only to hear my coach demanding that I leave them on the ground. This innate caring nature I've had since birth wasn't something I initially embraced or understood, especially in a world that admired action heroes. [9:10] How did you develop these qualities? Was it through life experiences or through building rapport with others? I genuinely believe that this is something inherent in my nature. I should note that I didn't have an exceptionally challenging upbringing. My mother was nurturing, but my father embodied the typical 'man's man' persona. There was a clear polarity in my household, and my father was determined not to let me grow up as a 'mama's boy.' He often reiterated that he wouldn't allow me to become too soft. Nevertheless, I think there was a degree of nurturing in my upbringing that I naturally gravitated towards. Despite the challenges, including family struggles, alcoholism, addiction, and the ups and downs of life, this caring nature has always been a fundamental part of who I am. [11:45] How do you balance setting high standards for your child in their chosen pursuits without making them feel like a lesser person? My son has developed a deep passion for bodybuilding, and it warms my heart to see him embrace this love. He's been studying not just the current generation of bodybuilders but also legends like Sean Ray, Dorian Yates, Jay Cutler, Ronnie Coleman, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Frank Zane, and even had conversations with Michael Hearn. I've been fortunate to share this journey with him. In the gym, it's important to communicate and encourage one another. I remember a moment when my son and his best friend were training together. His friend cracked a joke just as he was about to lift a weight, and I noticed my son laughing and losing focus. In that instant, my coaching instincts kicked in. I re-racked the weight and told my son that he could joke once he finished his last rep. It's not about being overly tough but ensuring he stays focused and motivated. We should cheer him on for those extra reps. Anthony, you should take this as a compliment because, having spent time with you and your family, I see that your son greatly admires and respects you. You're like a mentor to him. You inspire him and encourage him to give his best, not allowing him to back down. [13:23] How did you navigate challenges with unsupportive parents, seeking acceptance and love, and progressing through such situations? I believe there were some accurate emotions at play. My father had a strong desire to mold me into a responsible, capable man. With the perspective of time, I've come to realize that I wasn't always the central focus of his attention. He carried a heavy load of responsibilities, and even when he seemed distant, distracted, or upset, it wasn't necessarily about me. He was a driven, busy figure in the business world, often referred to as an 'assassin.' Many of my cravings for approval, acceptance, and love stemmed from a need to connect with him, to earn his affection in any way I could. [14:40] Can you discuss personal challenges you faced in your journey, how they influenced your path, and the role of your early years? When I was growing up in New Jersey, I was the chubby kid, often referred to as 'El Chapo' by my dad, although he didn't mean it in a harmful way. It was a different era back then. There was a movie in the 80s called 'The Goonies' where a character rolls through a chimney, and my friends would have me reenact that. Fast forward, our family moved to Florida, a non-union state, where I could enjoy the pool every day. I used to swim with my shirt on because I was self-conscious about my weight. My parents noticed how upset I was and decided to make a change. They started buying me fitness magazines like Flex and Muscle and Fitness, got me my first bench press and some dumbbells, and stopped taking me to fast-food restaurants. They replaced my usual McDonald's order with healthier options like grilled chicken and apples. It was a different time, without the wealth of information available today, but I absorbed everything I could, just like you and I get to see with today's youth. In just four years, I transformed from the overweight kid to the fittest in my class. The questions changed from 'How many Oreos did you eat last night?' to 'How much can you bench?' The girls started noticing me, and I began hanging out with older kids, which also introduced me to drinking. Surprisingly, alcohol seemed to fix something inside me that I didn't even know was broken. That broken piece was my constant craving for my father's love and attention. When I became more confident with my physique, I felt like I could finally be seen as his son, like someone who could live up to his standards. I channeled this desire for approval and acceptance into muscle-building, alcohol, and other pursuits. It was my way of seeking validation and striving to be a man in his eyes. [18:56] When did you start drinking and how did it affect you, knowing others may relate to this experience? I started my journey with alcohol at a young age, and it began innocently enough. It wasn't as if I had a drink and then suddenly found myself carrying around a paper bag filled with booze at school the next day. It initially revolved around Friday and Saturday nights during middle school and early high school, occasionally spilling into weekdays. What I quickly realized was that alcohol provided a boost to my confidence, not arrogance. It was like a different version of me emerged, one that could engage with anyone. However, the desire to drink again grew stronger, and I wasn't content with just the weekends or post-game celebrations. I even obtained a fake driver's license to buy alcohol. When I got to Arizona State University, known as the top party school, I wholeheartedly embraced the sex, drugs, and rock and roll lifestyle. Alcohol became my first commandment, an ingrained part of my identity. It progressed over time, and it's what makes alcoholism and addiction a disease, not just a disorder. This disease has four key components: it's progressive, meaning it gets worse over time, chronic, always present, primary, and potentially fatal. I had no awareness of being an alcoholic or an addict at the time; I saw myself as a 'work hard, play hard' kind of person. [22:48] What was your wake-up moment that prompted change? I'd like to express my gratitude for having me. I'm not sure if I mentioned it before, but thank you for inviting me to your home, the auto-shift, and the truck's house, and for the quality time I spent with you and your wonderful family. My journey had different stages, and the 'aww' moment for me was my intervention. It was a moment when the people who loved me the most surrounded me and read heartfelt letters, all following a similar format. They expressed their love and admiration for me and then delved into the reality of what I'd been doing. They recounted instances like when I drove my nephew while drunk or nearly slipped with my daughter down the stairs, using these memories as a plea for me to seek help. That was the initial part of my 'aha' moment. The major part came nine days later when I entered a treatment facility. It was there that I had a profound spiritual experience. For me, it wasn't an intense, blinding, spiritual awakening like Bill Wilson's, but rather it felt like a part of my ego was dying. This transformation manifested in the form of a panic attack. My heart rate skyrocketed, well over 180, and it was a distressing experience. But this mental shift was necessary for a new version of me to emerge. When I surrendered and accepted the need for change, my heart rate returned to normal, and I left the facility as a new person. This experience showed me that sometimes, something within us needs to transform or 'die' for a new, healthier version of ourselves to emerge. [25:36] Did you have a support system or was it more of a personal journey? I was never alone. You may have heard of the poem 'Footprints,' where a person talks to God about two sets of footprints turning into one during their hardest moments. From family intervention to a treatment center with excellent support, I learned to be authentic. I used to put on a fake smile to hide my problems, but even then, I was never truly alone. God was always there. [38:20] Did the work you do in building a pathway to personal development connect with or influence the Hero Project in any way? Certainly, the Hero Project is my coaching program, but it's unique in that it's not a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, it's tailored to each individual's specific needs. We guide individuals through the Hero's Journey, which typically involves a separation phase, like breaking free from addiction or fear. Then there's an initiation process where we teach new skills and beliefs, helping individuals become more empowered. However, often the biggest challenge is confronting inner demons or fears that reside within us. This may involve difficult conversations or making courageous choices. Ultimately, in every hero's journey, there's a return home, not as a conqueror, but as a better, more evolved person, leading by example. That's what my life is all about – guiding people through their own Hero's Journey. [40:30] Do you seek that turning point where people decide to work with you, or do you try to address their hesitations when they're unsure if it's the right fit? Many times, people come to me when they've reached their own version of rock bottom, whether it's spiritual, financial, emotional, or mental. Often, it's a family member, spouse, agent, or sports team that reaches out, convinced that the person is ready for help, even if they claim not to be. My role isn't to convince but to establish a common language, using metaphors like 'tires win the race' to make them understand the need for change and participation, whether they're athletes or entrepreneurs. [43:58] What promise did God make to the world when he created you? He promised the world that: You will get through the hero's journey but you will have a great time doing that. Key Quotes [38:00-38:04] Reawakening in the spirit is a chance to get through difficult things or situations. How to connect with Adams Jablin Instagram: https://instagram.com/adamjablin Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/adamjablin Twitter: https://twitter.com/adamjablin
It's called “Love Inc” – Love In the Name of Christ. Love Inc is an outreach ministry that connects 45 churches of all denominations from Highlands Ranch to Hampden and the Foothills to I-25 with people in need. Sean Ray from Love Inc describes the ministry to Mark McIntosh from a Stronger Cord and program host Tom Moller. More information online at http://www.LoveIncLittleton.orgSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sean Ray is 27 years old and identifies as a queer person with the pronouns of they/them. They have been managing depression and anxiety for the past 2-3 years. Sean tried hiding their depression for a long time because they were afraid of the stigma and that people they love would see them differently. Learn more about Sean and get more mental health resources at TMUMC.ORG/wellness.
Sean Ray is 27 years old and identifies as a queer person with the pronouns of they/them. They have been managing depression and anxiety for the past 2-3 years. Sean tried hiding their depression for a long time because they were afraid of the stigma and that people they love would see them differently. Learn more about Sean and get more mental health resources at TMUMC.ORG/wellness.
Pastor Doug leads a conversation with Justin Barringer, Jennifer Kilpatrick, and Sean Ray about depression and anxiety. All three of tonight's panelists have experienced depression and anxiety and are at different places in their journeys.
Remy Mulatto ventures to the outskirts of Atlanta this week and sits down with Sean Ray. The gentlemen discuss single life as a man versus getting into a relationship, being driven toward monogamy, drink preference, what it takes to do stand up comedy, a stand up comedian compared to being an artist in music, television now compared to millennial childhood television, the need for age segregation, and all of the other things. It's a whole vibe of a conversation curated for your listening pleasure. Grab a drink and get you a whole listen, ya heard. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/themulattoperspective/support
If you've seen any superhero movie, you've wondered what it would be like to be able to fly. Sean "Air Ninja" Ray can tell you first hand. Since being introduced to the new-age sport, HydroFlight back in 2015, Sean has made a name for himself as one of the top FlyBoarders in the world. He has turned a curious side hustle into an international corporation, and been introduced to some of his childhood heroes along the way. We get into why it's important to learn to take risk in life, how he willed his way to working with Travis Pastrana, and why a private show for Bill Gates will be the gift that continues to give for an entire career. The most memorable thing for me about this conversation was how much hustle and grit this guy has. He is willing to do whatever it takes to achieve his goals. Hope you enjoy his story as much as I did!Check out what The Air Ninja is all about below:https://www.instagram.com/tv/CCnFbgEHKGy/?igshid=1k0l7wqi77jkn
The new coronavirus has arrived in the Pacific Northwest. We hear from SEIU Local 503 executive director Melissa Unger and attorney Sean Ray about what this means for some workers and employers in the state and Ron Witczak, executive director of the Office of International Affairs at Portland State University, will talk with us about how PSU is communicating with its students about the virus.
Out of my own curiosity as a millennial who knows nothing about homeownership and growing up my family never talked about how to approach buying a home, I reached out to Sean Ray Dallas Real Estate Expert to talk all about homeownership. In this episode, Sean shares homeownership myths, understanding the finances behind homeownership and what you need to know before approaching homeownership. Sean also shares his story as an entrepreneur and how owning a home has been an important investment opportunity. Sean Ray, is a real estate agent and apartment locator in the Dallas Fort Worth Area. Sean is a top income earner in his company. He also invests in real estate in Dallas. He enjoys mentoring and is currently building a Youtube Real Estate Brand and also if you go to his instagram you will find some of the lovely luxury apartments he shows off and often deals you just resist. Sean is passionate about educating people on homeownership, Guest Contact: Follow Sean on Instagram and subscribe to his Youtube channel. For Shownotes and Resources Mentioned Click Here
Recognition of Graduates - Bro. Billy Bartlett Charge To Graduates (1 Timothy 4:6-12) - Bro. Sean Ray
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Thanks to Sean Ray for commissioning the classic 1992 western, "Unforgiven". Directed by and starring a perfectly-aged Clint Eastwood, the story has him reconciling the man he was in his drunken youth with the man he wants to be, and more importantly, the man his dead wife would have him be. Where does he come down on it? It's a classic so you probably already know but one of us didn't and the discussion is interesting. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Special thanks once again to Sean Ray for commissioning thus podcast for the 1982 John Carpenter sci-fi/horror classic, The Thing. The location, sense of isolation and paranoia, and atmosphere of dread this film is able to generate is incredible. Kurt Russel is iconic in his role as everyman bad*ss. And the gruesome, disturbing practical effects work still effectively sells the horrific alien action. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Special thanks once again to Sean Ray for commissioning thus podcast for the 1982 John Carpenter sci-fi/horror classic, The Thing. The location, sense of isolation and paranoia, and atmosphere of dread this film is able to generate is incredible. Kurt Russel is iconic in his role as everyman bad*ss. And the gruesome, disturbing practical effects work still effectively sells the horrific alien action. Join the discussion: Email | Forums Follow us: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Leave Us A Review on Apple Podcasts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Special thanks to our commissioner for today’s podcast, Sean Ray. Today he selects the great A Few Good Men, where a gruff Colonel in the US Marine Corps takes issue with the USMC’s kinder, more gentler ways of discipline and organization, leading to the death of one of the men under his command. Tom Cruise and Demi Moore are effective as the counsel for the defense, and are given a lot of juicy material to work with. The script is packed with Sorkinisms and shot with a steady, confident eye. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today’s commission is courtesy the kind support of Sean Ray. He selected It Follows, an extremely clever and inventive horror flick written and directed by David Robert Mitchell. It has big ideas, and while it struggles to live up to them in places, the concept and performance of the plucky cast of likable yet relatively obscure young actors really makes the film shine. It’s fun to watch, it’s fun to think about, and it’s fun to talk about. How would you survive being hunted by “It”? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today’s commission is courtesy the kind support of Sean Ray, a five time commissioner! He selected It Follows, an extremely clever and inventive horror flick written and directed by David Robert Mitchell. It has big ideas, and while it struggles to live up to them in places, the concept and performance of the plucky cast of likable yet relatively obscure young actors really makes the film shine. It’s fun to watch, it’s fun to think about, and it’s fun to talk about. How would you survive being hunted by “It”? That and a few beers is a topic that can easily kill a whole evening of hanging with your friends. Join the discussion: Email | Forums Follow us: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Leave Us A Review on Apple Podcasts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Special thanks to Sean Ray for commissioning this late 80’s Ridley Scott crime thriller, Black Rain. Michael Douglas plays a cop alongside Andy Garcia that gets mixed up in a gang war between the Yakuza and a rival upstart over counterfeit US currency. The film explores the intercultural exchange as Douglas’s corrupt and brash NYC cop runs into the brick wall of Japanese police decorum and honor, but how successful it is in that exploration is an open question. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What do you do if an ICE agent shows up at your establishment? Sean Ray of Barran Liebman LLP boils down what employers need to know about Forms I-9 and how to stay out of hot water with U.S Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). We get into employer responsibilities and best practices regarding documentation, how to prepare for an audit, and consequences of being out of compliance with the law. Guest: Sean Ray, Barran Liebman LLPGuest host: Sarah Schenck, Oregon Restaurant & Lodging Association Websites mentioned:https://www.barran.comhttp://oregonrla.org
Sean Ray is back with the second half of his two part Insidiousseries, this time for Insidious: Chapter 2. Once again James Wan helms another scary story starring Patrick Wilson and Rose Byrne, with a bigger budget, a clever plot that builds on everything from the first installment, to deliver arguably a more frightening experience with even more emotional heart. Thanks again Sean! If you'd like to commission your very own podcast, check out our store! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sean Ray is back with the second half of his two part Insidious series, this time for Insidious: Chapter 2. Once again James Wan helms another scary story starring Patrick Wilson and Rose Byrne, with a bigger budget, a clever plot that builds on everything from the first installment, to deliver arguably a more frightening experience with even more emotional heart. Thanks again Sean! Join the discussion: Email | Forums Follow us: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Leave Us A Review on Apple Podcasts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Special thanks once again to Sean Ray (veteran commissioner of Blood Simple) for having uscheck out an early effort by horror master James Wan (The Conjuring), 2010's Insidious. Starring Patrick Wilson and Rose Byrne, Insidious delivers some solid scares on a serious budget, reportedly just $1.5 million. This is the first of a two part commissioned podcast series. Next, we will consider the sequel, Insidious 2, and compare and contrast the two. Thanks again Sean! If you'd like to commission your very own podcast, check out our store! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Special thanks once again to Sean Ray (veteran commissioner of Blood Simple) for having us check out an early effort by horror master James Wan (The Conjuring), 2010's Insidious. Starring Patrick Wilson and Rose Byrne, Insidious delivers some solid scares on a serious budget, reportedly just $1.5 million. This is the first of a two part commissioned podcast series. Next, we will consider the sequel, Insidious 2, and compare and contrast the two. Thanks again Sean! Join the discussion: Email | Forums Follow us: Twitter | Instagram | Facebook Leave Us A Review on Apple Podcasts Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sean Ray commissioned one of his favorite movies, the Coen Brothers' 1984 directorial debut, Blood Simple. Starring Coen favorite Frances McDormand, it's an interesting look into the prehistorical fossil Coen record. So many shots and themes established in this first film go on to make up the DNA of their later works. You'll see Fargo, Miller's Crossing, No Country for Old Men, and even a few dashes of Raising Arizona and The Big Lebowski in this film. Having said that, there is a whole helluva lot of 1980's film making and first time directing on display as well. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SGR#163 TRACK LISTING Artist-Title-Label Merlyn Martin (Hour One) 1. Oz Romita & Chrono – Dollin – Sounds R Us Recordings 2. O.D.Math – Deliverance (KIKI Remix) – Electronical Reeds 3. Adrian Oblanca – La Gramola – Happy Techno Music 4. Cristian Viviano – Still Alive – bouq. 5. Lewis Boardman – Whoyouwho – Play It Down 6. Joe Grossman – Redemption (Apollo 84 & Konflicted Soul RMX) – Darek Recordings 7. Vinny Villbass – Zap (Original Mix) – Trunk Funk 8. Graham Gold & Kosma Solarius-Tooda-Original Mix – Bequem Digital 9. Robert DB-Fever-Original Mix – DB Records 10. Juanma Llopis – Walk With Me (Original Mix) – Piston Recordings 11. Filipe Neves – Pride – Evoked Recordings 12. Martin Eyerer – The Rolls – Kling Klong 13. CROM & THANH – Freedom Call (Original Mix) – OFF Recordings Sean Ray (Hour Two) 1. I Dont Want It (KU Ray Unico Remix) – Pedro Aguiar – Flow Vinyl 2. Craft Past – Marco Bocatto – System Recordings 3. La Musique – Birdee – Vicious Bitch 4. Breezy – Osheen – Vynkel House 5. Plan B (Sean Ray’s What Is Your Plan Remix) – Semi Trabelsi – Unreleased 6. You and Me – Hugo Percas & Pablo Basel – System Recordings 7. Moving Forward – Luis Armando , J-Hecht – Soak Music 8. We Don’t Need a Miracle (Nikko.Z Remix) – Ozgur Ozkan – System Recordings
A dark and moody drone mix with a late-night atmosphere that picks up energy as it goes. PLAYLIST 01. Alexander Metzger - Hudson River Hero Intro (Captain Speaking Mix) 02. Edward - Get Me In 03. Alan Barratt - Beauty All Round 04. Simple Minds - Different World (The Scumfrog Remix) 05. Moguai - Stay Planetary 06. Paul Thomas - Ultraviolet (Original Club Mix) 07. Reaky, Skaivox - Collective Insanity 08. Mark Knight, Funkagenda, Paul Thomas - Arena (MK's Very Clubby Mix) 09. Wes Straub - Sunrise Over XamanHa (Dub Mix) 10. Sean Ray - 808 Daybreak (Rob Nutek Remix) == Please support these artists == Music copyright the respective artists. All other material c2013 by Steve Boyett. For personal use only. All rights reserved. Any unauthorized copying editing, exhibition, sale, rental, exchange, public performance, or broadcast of this audio is strictly prohibited. GROOVELECTRIC MERCH: http://www.groovelectric.com
Sad, sweet, melancholy, determined, and acquiring strength as it goes. PLAYLIST 01. 16 Bit Lolitas, Lucy Iris - Na Na Nahana 02. Monkey Safari - Hi Life (Cheeky Bold Cover) 03. My Digital Enemy - Reaper 04. Dompe - True Lies 05. Hauswerks - Ahimsa 06. Kaiserdisco - La Benjamina 07. Marko Legra, Mr Costy - Magic 08. Pagano - Needs (Pagano's Digital Generation Mix) 09. Soundbluntz - Billie Jean 2008 (Kut & Swel Remix) 10. System 7, Funky Gong Minoru - Funky Gong 11. Sean Ray - 808 Daybreak (Buddhasteelbuddha 7th Day Mix) 12. Bertrand Dupart, Gwen - Lolita (Beatless Mix) == Please support these artists == Music copyright the respective artists. All other material c2012 by Steve Boyett. For personal use only. All rights reserved. Any unauthorized copying editing, exhibition, sale, rental, exchange, public performance, or broadcast of this audio is strictly prohibited. GROOVELECTRIC MERCH: http://www.groovelectric.com