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Victim thinking needs to be detoxed from our lives. There are so many negatives that invade when we permit victim thinking, as well as victim thinkers. But we don't have to allow either one. We may still have things that happen, and we may not be able to completely eliminate all victim thinkers from our sphere of influence, but we can mitigate the potential damage. The key is choosing to embrace ownership. But first, what is the difference between ownership and victimhood? What feeds the internal and external drama or lack of drama in each characteristic? What should a true leader look like in the midst of drama? Let's talk about all these questions and more. “Owners understand and focus on what they can control. And victims focus on what they can't.” – Kris Plachy What You'll Learn Helplessness versus ownership Spin and drama Differences between owners and victims Integrating your feelings without others Identifying who you're holding up Rejecting buffering with drama Recognizing ownership or victimhood Contact Info and Recommended Resources The Ownership SpiritⓇ by Dr. Dennis R. Deaton (Quma Learning) The Upper Limit and The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks (Hendricks Institute) Kris' List: What It Sounds Like to be an Owner vs a Victim – The Moxy Sage Connect with Kris Plachy LEAD FOR WOMEN: Registration is open (currently there is a waitlist). You must join the waitlist to get the Advanced Registration discount. LEAD FOR WOMEN is THE curated Leadership Development, Training AND Advisement program for Elite Visionary Women seeking to upgrade their skills leading, managing, communicating with, and inspiring the people you pay to achieve results in your business. It's also for C-Suite Women so check it out! Private Subscriber List: Sign up to get preview invitations at thevisionary.ceo/lead. (Opting to be added to the LEAD waitlist on this page will add you to the Private Subscriber List.) Work with Kris and Her Team: TheVisionary.ceo The Moxy Sage How to CEO (krisplachy.com) CEO Boutique Your Business Edit Email: hello@krisplachy.com Linkedin Instagram Facebook Pinterest Medium Please help me reach even more women (and men) so that, together, we can change more lives. All it takes is leaving a review of Leadership Is Feminine on your favorite podcast platform(s). Doing so triggers the platform to suggest the podcast to more new listeners. I cannot say THANK YOU enough! Apple Podcasts | Stitcher | Spotify | Google Podcasts
Victim thinking is the greatest inhibitor of growth – whether it is professional, personal or otherwise. Many struggle to recovery from sexual misbehavior because their victim thinking has kept them stuck. Using personal examples, today's episode will show you how a victim mindset can hold you back, how hurdling the victim mentality leads to breakthrough, and easy ways to identify a victim mentality in your life. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
Victim thinking is the greatest inhibitor of growth – whether it is professional, personal or otherwise. Many struggle to recovery from sexual misbehavior because their victim thinking has kept them stuck. Using personal examples, today's episode will show you how a victim mindset can hold you back, how hurdling the victim mentality leads to breakthrough, and easy ways to identify a victim mentality in your life. Book A Call With Sathiya's Team Get a FREE copy of my bestselling book, The Last Relapse Follow Sathiya on Instagram
In this episode of the How To Do Life Podcast, Giorgio Genaus dives deep into the concept of victim thinking and how it can keep you stuck, and how to flip your mindset to successful thinking. In this episode, Giorgio will also explore the secret to moving away from victim thinking, what successful thinking looks like, and the key to overcoming victim thinking to unlock your potential. Tune in to find out how a few simple questions can get you out of a rut and into a more successful mindset.
Have you ever worked with someone who did the minimum just to get by? Maybe you've even heard someone say "That's not my job." These are examples of people not owning the work. To be our best at work, we must be owners of our work. When we own our work, it builds confidence, and it positively impacts our colleagues as well. In this episode, Dr. Janet Pilcher shares key characteristics of those who own their work as well as tips for living this idea out in the workplace.This episode addresses questions, such asWhat is something that those who own their work continuously focus on?How does it impact the organization and our colleagues when we do not own our work?What should we avoid if we want to be owners of our work? Recommended Resources: Be An Owner, Collective Willpower To Succeed, Victim Thinking, & Ownership Of Organizational Goals
We spend a lot of time at work for our jobs. It's worth spending our time there being happy. So what if we're not feeling happy in our jobs? As our host, Dr. Janet Pilcher, explains in this episode, we can take action to manage our happiness at work, and we are in control of our happiness. Listen as Janet shares practical moves we can make to help us focus on being happier at work. This episode addresses questions, such as:What actions can I take in my interactions with colleagues to help cultivate more meaning and joy in my work?How can I reframe my thinking to have a more positive outlook at work?What tactics can help us focus on being happier at work?Recommended Resources: The Power of Perspective, Connect to Purpose, Victim Thinking & Episode 184: Be Dedicated to Being the Best
We can’t always control what happens to us. But we do have a choice of how we respond. Here are some quick reflections on how to choose to be the hero of your story and avoid falling into the victim thinking of your situation.
What kind of impact does the energy we bring to work have on others? There are three things leaders will want to avoid in order to inspire positive attitudes and productivity on their teams. In today's episode, Quint Studer and Janet discuss seemingly harmless, yet dangerous patterns of thinking that can be destructive to our organizations. Listen as we share practical tips that will help us frame our messages and take ownership. This episode addresses questions, such as:Why are the three C’s dangerous in workplace cultures?Is our constructive criticism really constructive?What is the best gift you can give your boss?Hear more from Quint at our upcoming 2-day virtual conference, Destination High Performance Pensacola 2020. Day 1 will focus on leadership tips, tools and considerations, from Quint’s Busy Leader’s Handbook, and Day 2 will focus on the role we all play in building a vibrant community. The event is scheduled for October 28th and 29th. Register for free now. Recommended Resources: Are the 3 C’s Holding You Back?, Model the Way by Managing Up, Victim Thinking & The Power of PerspectiveRecommended Podcasts: The Behavior that’s Holding Leaders Back, What if Your Boss is the Problem?, Stop the Subconscious Behavior Infecting Your Organization & Lead with Courage
Our guest today is John G Miller. John is the author of QBQ!: The Question Behind the Question, and several other titles which speak to Personal Accountability, eliminating Blame, Procrastination, and Victim Thinking. 1) It is bizarre to even ask this question, but what is Personal Accountability and is it still possible in this day and age? 2) What is this mysterious question you allude to in your book title? 3) We are seeing adult temper tantrums playing out in our streets across the nation – whether or not the violent rioters and “autonomous zone” residents are righteously angry (as they insist they are) – it seems that they are behaving in ways we would not allow our children to do. In that vein, tell us about your book Raising Accountable Kids. 4) Is it possible to bring these values, and encourage them, in our places of work? 5) Taking personal responsibility for our own lives is deeply ingrained in people who own guns and advocate for our Constitution and Bill of Rights. Independence requires that we are accountable for our own actions and lives. What one thing would you say to all of the millions of brand new first time gun owners across this nation to encourage them to stay that course of Independence?
Author John G. Miller unpacks the secret behind QBQ! The Question Behind the Question. He identifies two key phrases that will transform the way you look at personal accountability.
How can you avoid the trap of negative thinking? Overcoming obstacles is never easy, but when we don’t let shortcomings get (and keep) us down, we become more resilient. This week, Dr. Pilcher exposes how to eliminate this behavior from the workplace. This episode addresses questions, such as: How do we change our frame of mind to break this habit? How can we look beyond obstacles to press on towards goals? How can we take specific actions to stop this line of thinking?Recommended Reading: The Great Employee Handbook By: Quint Studer Recommended Learning: Victim Thinking __________________________________________________________________
Are you stuck in a place of not understanding why your parents did or didn't do certain things? Do you blame them, feel resentment towards them or feel that your life is less than optimal because of what THEY did? In this episode, Bridgett shares how to release your own blame towards your parents and ultimately make peace with them and the past. A must-listen
Doug Stewart is a Dale Carnegie Trainer, Life Coach, VLogger and all around great guy. Doug choose not to be a victim to his own thinking. So can you! For more about Doug go to: http://dougstewart919.com To check out his TedX Talk & learn about the 5 1/2 mentors go here: https://youtu.be/quhcyPpCaSk To check out his NEW vLOG subscribe to his You Tube channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/SalesRhino ===== *CHECK OUT OUR NEW WEBSITE for FREE e-Book* http://thekindlingfire.com Get updates via Facebook Messenger: https://m.me/thekindlingfire Follow us in INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/thekindlingfire
What situation, circumstance or person have you allowed to silence you and/or take your voice? Are you feeling helpless, powerless and feel that you have no way out or up? The power you need and want to stand up and speak up is explained during this podcast. Dial in share your story and hear what others have to say and how they've overcome the victim mindset.
Theme: Better, Stronger, Faster Hour #2 Guests: - Kelly McMillan - the CEO of McMillan Fiberglass Stocks, located in Phoenix Arizona. If you hunt, or compete in Shooting Sports,you know the McMillan name has been synonymous with Top Tier quality and design. This is a family business, American Dream success story – even AFTER some major Government meddling! - Frank Miniter - author and contributor to Forbes Magazine, who recently wrote an article titled “Beware Of The Mainstream Media's Solution To 'Fake News'”. So, what IS, how do we recognize and avoid it? - John G Miller – the author of QBQ! The Question Behind the Question, and several other titles which speak to Personal Accountability, eliminating Blame, Procrastination, and Victim Thinking. John is joining us today as Part 4 of our 4-Part Series on Conflict De-Escalation and Conflict Resolution. Responsibly Armed Citizen Report Dan’s Calm-mentary
Finding Your Boot Straps is a motivating 11 step process that allows you to change your victim mindest. If you've been raped, molested, or abused as a child and experienced a host of misfortunes during your life. Don't throw in the towel just yet. First, listen to Diane Bogino tell her story. She was raised in a dysfunctional and abusive home where her dad was murdered and her mom was imprisoned. Raised in foster care she continued to experience physical, mental, and sexual abuse by her foster parents and siblings. It's amazing how she turned her situation around, empowered herself, and is now empowering others. Tune into this brodcast with Diane Bogino. A motivating testimony. Author of "Finding Your Bootstraps: 11 Steps to Overcoming Victim Thinking. www.dianebogino.com
Dawn Marie Westmoreland is a speaker, author, “Personal Power” coach, HR consultant, and hypnotherapist. She use to be a former leader in hiding! She use to hide from being her greatest self. Why? Dawn was scared of her power and was afraid of failure. She was also disappointing a lot of people because she was not living in her zone of genius, but the hardest critic was herself. After many struggles and lessons, she learned how to achieve everything she set out to do that is alignment with her goals and values. Dawn took her past challenges and made them into triumphs. After working 25 years in the government, she took the initiative and left an unfulfilling career to now help empower professional women who are struggling getting through their “blocks” and realizing their zone of genius. In this episode, she will share with you what it took her to get from the "victim thinking" to taking full control of her life. Check out thetaoofselfconfidence.com for show notes of Dawn's episode, Dawn's website, resources, gifts and so much more.
If you've experienced an abusive childhood and lot's of misfortunes during your life, don't throw in the towel just yet. There are other people in the world just like you or even worse than you would ever imagine. Diane Bogino was raised in an abusive home, where her father turned up dead and her Mom was put in prison. She and her two brothers were sent to foster care where she was physically, sexually and mentally abused by Foster parents and siblings. Tune into this episode and learn how she pulled herself up and out. "Finding Your Bootstraps" by Diane Bogino: 11 Steps to Overcoming Victim Thinking. A motivating testimony.
PSI Seminars Director of Training Kathy Quinlan-Perez Talks About the Power of Choice Have you ever noticed how some people appear to have a positive attitude no matter what the circumstances are in their life? How they always appear focused and moving toward their dreams in spite of the obstacles in their way? The truth is that we all have a choice in how we deal with the obstacles, challenges, and opportunities in our path. Learn a few techniques to help you steer clear of defeating behaviors and live a life of true choice. Keeping yourself Motivated and Focused How to keep a Positive Attitude no matter what Choice vs. Victim Thinking