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Your hosts Jon Ibrahim & Shay Killmer give their sex, dating, and relationship expertise to the masses on the Sex Playbook.

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    • Apr 22, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 32m AVG DURATION
    • 111 EPISODES


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    Women Will Always Be Attracted to Masculinity Whether They Like It or Not

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2022 22:13


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon lays out the reason why women will always be attracted to masculine men, whether they like it or not.

    Rejection Can Make You Feel Like a Reject

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2022 14:16


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon goes over how rejection can make men feel like a reject, and how women wield that power.

    Too Busy to Get Busy? Sorry But That's Just a Lame Excuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2022 25:58


    So you say you're too busy to have sex? In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon explains why that's just a lame excuse.

    Guys, a Wandering Eye Could Earn You a Black One

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2021 10:13


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon dives into a topic from one of his original Chicago Tribune columns about how men can't resist checking out hot women, even if his significant other is right there with him.

    Are You More Dom or Sub? Take Our BDSM Quiz To Find Out

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 35:34


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay will help out with a little BDSM quiz to help you identify whether you're a dom or sub, and what all your little kinks might be.

    Streetsmart Advice for Women AND Men on Avoiding a Roofie Situation

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 4, 2021 39:25


    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Guys, it Only Takes A Couple Douchebags to Ruin it for the Rest of Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2021 40:32


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon and Shay debate whether or not ecounters with a bunch of douchbags in a short period of time cause women to give up on men altogether.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    The Dating Apps are Manipulating You. You've Been Warned.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2021 32:37


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay run through the list of the ways the top dating apps are manipulating you.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Is Sex Assumed When a Date Invites You Back to Their Place?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2021 35:06


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay tackle the subject of whether or not there is an expectation for sex when a date invites you over to their place afterwards?See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Is it Fair to Assume That Opposite Sex Friends Have Slept Together?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2021 34:44


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon and Shay discuss the annoying inconvenience of how people always assume they have had sex with their opposite sex friends.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Shay and Expert Guest Sara Explain Why Men are Obsessed With Big Boobs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2021 34:10


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Shay and our expert guest Sara explain to Jon why men are so obsessed with big boobs.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Vaccination Status is the New Dating Deal-Breaker

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2021 34:00


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss how your COVID vaccination status is the new modern-day dating deal breaker.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Guys, You Can't Turn a Lesbian Straight No Matter How Smooth You Think You Are

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2021 34:17


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss all the moronic guys who think they are smooth enough to turn a lesbian woman straight.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Avoid Humiliation: Have Great Hiding Places for Your Sex Toys

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2021 11:58


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon shares the topic of one of his past columns about the importance of making sure you have great hiding places for your sex toys in an effort to save humiliationSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    The Pros and Cons of Having Friends With Benefits

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2021 32:06


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay highlight the pros and cons of having friends with benefits relationships.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Our Guest Adrianna Tells-All About Being a Lesbian in the World of Sex & Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2021 44:42


    In this latest episode of The sex Playbook our special guest Adrianna reveals everything you've ever wanted to know about being a lesbian in the world of sex and dating.Privacy Policy and California Privacy Notice.

    Dating in a Post-COVID World: Have Things Gotten Better or Worse?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 21, 2021 33:27


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon and Shay examine if sex and dating has gotten better or worse in this post-COVID world.Privacy Policy and California Privacy Notice.

    Our Narcissist Special Guest Gives Women Advice on How to Avoid Narcissists

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2021 38:17


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook we have a special guest, who is a self-proclaimed recovering narcissist, give advice on how to spot a narcissist.Privacy Policy and California Privacy Notice.

    The Anxiety of Your First First Date with the Same Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 30:16


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Shay gives her advice on how to handle the anxiety of having your very first first date with the same sex.Privacy Policy and California Privacy Notice.

    Shay Goes on a Rant About Thirsty Lazy Dudes

    Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 29:24


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Shay goes on a rant about how she is fed up with lazy thirsty dudes.

    You Gotta Know Where That Line is Between Pleasure & Pain

    Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2021 27:20


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss the importance of knowing where that line is between pleasure and pain.

    Guys, You Can't Claim You're a "Nice Guy" When You Act Like a Douche

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2021 34:05


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon and Shay go over the phenominon of how so many guys try to convince women they're nice guys even when they act like douches.

    Coming Clean About All Your Dirty Laundry to a New Partner

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2021 11:17


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon re-visits the topic of one of his old columns about when you should come clean about all your dirty laundry to a new potential partner.

    The Perils of Dating Someone Who is Still Friends With Their Ex

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2021 29:57


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss how bad it sucks to date someone who is still friends with their ex.

    When and How Do You Tell a New Partner You're Bi?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2021 33:00


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss at what point do you break the news to a new partner that you're bi?

    Guys, Are Your Days Dating Younger Women Over?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2021 10:46


    In this latest epsiode of The Sex Playbook Jon revisits the topic of one of his old columns about how older guys want to date younger women.

    You Just Got Stood Up--Now What?!?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2021 32:59


    In this latest epsiode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay go over what your next moves should be if you get stood up for a date.

    Stop the Endless Chatting -- Get Off Your Ass & Ask Your Match Out!

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2021 27:45


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss big problem of people and their endless chatting with their matches on dating apps instead of setting up a date.

    The Recent Epidemic of Guys Being Lazy Daters. And You Thought Covid was Bad...

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2021 33:18


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay cover the recent epidemic of guys being lazy daters.

    How to Properly Creep a Potential Date's Social Media

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2021 30:43


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss what you see on a potential date's social media says about them.

    Shay Gets Jon to Reveal the Key to His Heart...Proving That He Actually Has One

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 1, 2021 34:04


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay get sensitive and reveal the keys to their hearts.

    What to Do With That Toxic Ex Who Keeps Re-Surfacing

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2021 30:10


    In this latest epsiode of The Sex Playbook Jon and Shay discuss how you should play it when that toxic ex contacts you out of the blue.

    How to Make Valentine's Day Not So Sucky

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2021 34:28


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay go over on how to make Valentine's Day not suck so bad whether you are single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between.

    No Luck on the Dating Apps? Maybe it's Because Your Profile Sucks.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 38:14


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay go over some of the do's and don'ts when it comes to your dating apps so they don't suck so bad.

    Ever Pull a Hot Person Over to Get Their Number? Shay Has.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 29:53


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon and Shay go over how Shay got a guy's number she met while driving, and the pros and cons of such a chance encounter.

    When Does Your Porn Habit Become an Addiction? Our Guest Expert Explains.

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 33:21


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook professional addiction counselor Sara joins Jon to discuss when watching porn turns into an addiction.

    Dating in the Time of Covid: An Update 8 Months Later

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 30:04


    In this latest epsiode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay go over how people have changed their dating lives now that we're 8 months into the Covid pandemic.

    For God's Sake Don't Discuss Politics or Religion on First Dates!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2020 31:26


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss politics, religion, and all the other taboo topics you definitely need to avoid on first dates.

    Proper Dumping Etiquette for Both the Dumper and the Dumpee

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2020 38:33


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay goes over the proper etiquette for dumping someone, and for being dumped.

    Debating Having More Than One Partner in the Same Day with Guest Ethan Rose

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2020 43:04


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook fellow Bleav host Ethan Rose joins us to discuss the pros and cons of having more than one sex partner in the same day

    The Nightmare of Allowing a Date to Spend the Night

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2020 34:42


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay go over the perils and issues that come with allowing a date to spend the night.

    Even Our Experts Have Bad Dates

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2020 40:52


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay prove that even sex and dating experts have bad dates by sharing their own personal bad date stories.

    Shay Shares Her Checklist on How You Know You're Dating a Narcissist

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2020 37:14


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Shay goes over her list on how you know when you're dating a narcissist.

    What Should You Expect in Return After Paying for the Date?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2020 37:20


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay debate on whether or not guys should expect anything in return when they spring for the date.

    Is it Fair for Women to Select or Reject Men Based on their Height?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 28:12


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss and debate on whether or not it is fair for women who choose or reject men based on how tall they are.

    The Dreaded "So What Are You Looking For?" Question

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2020 30:24


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay discuss the reasons why people, especially men, dread the "So what are you looking for?" question when first meeting a potential mate.

    The Heated Debate on Where the Line is When Complimenting Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2020 39:19


    Jon & Shay have a heated debate on where the line is drawn when complimenting women.

    Recent Study Reveals Men are Having Less Sex on Purpose. What?!?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2020 30:41


    A recent study reveals that men are willingly having less sex than they were 10 years ago.

    Jon & Shay's Gift to You: Free Tips From Professional Matchmaker Annie Cranfield

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2020 41:55


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook professional matchmaker Annie Cranfield gives tips and advice on how to find the love of your life--if you're into that sorta thing.

    Guys, Knock Off the Sexual Innuendos in the First 3 Minutes of a Chat

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2020 34:41


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay examine why men feel the need to work the sexual innuendos in the first few minutes of a conversation when they meet someone new.

    The Do's & Don'ts of Watching Porn With Your Partner

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2020 27:03


    In this latest episode of The Sex Playbook Jon & Shay lay out the do's and don'ts when couple make the nerve-wracking decision to watch porn together

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