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A weekly podcast delving into the ups and downs of relationships, sex and love and how you can navigate the waters more safely. The show contains valuable information that couples young and old will find useful.

kerry clark and james alexander


    • Dec 31, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 38m AVG DURATION
    • 106 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Grownmenchoppingitup

    Creepy Or Not

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2023 18:43


    Kerry Witta K delves into things that women find creepy from the opposite sex.

    Fair Use Parody Song / Carry Everywhere

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2022 3:44


    Kerry Witta K made a parody song about self preservation.

    Seek and you shall find / Worldwide Penis Size

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2022 32:14


    Signs Your Relationship Isn't Going To Last / Relationship Goals That Will Make Your Love Stronger

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 39:04


    The fellas are back in the saddle like they never left with how you can recognize when your relationship is headed nowhere but also relationship goals that will be sure to make your love stronger. 

    Nino Finds His Swag (continued)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 4, 2019 42:52


    If you haven't heard the Case Of The Lost Swag or need to be refreshed about the episode please go back and take a listen so this episode makes more sense to you. Kerry witta K caught up with Latino Nino for an update on his situation. We apologize for the long wait between shows and we can tell by the downloads that there are lots of listeners that love the show. We will be gearing up for more episodes soon.

    Positive Black Father Stats / How to Love a Black Man

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2019 38:59


    KerrywittaK gives positive Black father statistics that we didn't know. JR Rydha tells you the ways you can love a Black Man. The fellas also discuss celebrity relationship advice.

    The Rape Culture Discussion

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2019 50:13


    Kerry Witta K takes on a full discussion of rape culture with guests Millz and J Source. 

    Masturbation Encouragement / Black Marital Failure

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2019 41:15


    Kerry witta K explains what Masturbation Encouragement porn is while JR Rydha offers some new age dating tips. The fellas also answer a few listener questions and discuss Black Marital Failure and how to combat it.

    5 Date Ideas / Loving More Than 1 Person

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2019 37:46


    Contact info: Kerry witta K - 510 688-9508 Grownmenchoppingitup@gmail.com FB:grownmenchoppingitup webpage: www.grownmenchoppingitup.com Twitter: grownmenchoppin Instagram: grownmenchoppingitup       Kerry witta K gives fellas 5 date ideas to consider when taking a lady out and JR Rydha discusses if it possible for men and women to love more than 1 person.

    The Jezebel Stereotype and Objectification of the Black Woman

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2018 33:23


    Kerry witta K along with Millz and J Source discuss a study on the Jezebel Stereotype and the past and current objectification of the Black Woman. You may need to pull out a dictionary to recognize some of the words used in this podcast. Lots of highbrow humor used.

    The Case of the Lost Swag

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2018 36:25


    Kerry Witta K gets a call from long friend and old music partner Latino Nino with an issue about how he feels he has lost a step when it comes to dealing with women.

    Gimme A G !!! (How to find her G-Spot)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2018 30:59


    In this episode Kerry Witta K attempts to enlighten our listeners and tell gentleman and Roombas (lesbians) how to find a womans' g-spot.    https://www.glamour.com/story/how-to-find-g-spot

    8 Relationship Problems U Can't Fix / Listener Questions Answered

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 17, 2018 38:39


    Kerry witta K talks about 8 relationship problems that can't be fixed and answered listener questions. Guest hosts are Triple D members JDub and MDeezy.

    How To Be Her Greatest Lover

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2018 17:11


    Kerry Witta K gives men a few great ideas to be their womans' superstar once again.

    Uber bae update / Bad Animal Fathers

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2018 34:49


    The listener behind Uber Bar wrote is with am update on her situation and its getting juicy. Also Kerry witta K lets us know that human males aren't the only bad fathers.

    Happy Ladyparts / Swapping Phones

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 27, 2018 34:38


    In this episode Kerry witta K gives you 11 ways to keep your vagina happy while JR Rydha tries to come up with a solution for a guy whose lady falls asleep right after having an orgasm. The fellas also discuss the dangers of birth control causing fibroids.

    All Fair In Love...

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2018 42:20


    JR Rydha and Kerry witta K delve into topics about love and relationships.

    We Don't Need No Stinkin Topic Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later May 2, 2018 34:38


    ....more stories and hijinks with the guys and special guest D.

    Topic ? We Don't Need No Stinking Topic featuring D

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2018 41:26


    We tried to do a professional show as we always do with topics but we got so far off track telling stories i doubt if we got much out. This is Part 1 of a two part podcast with special guest D who has known both of us for almost 30 years. He stops by to verify some of the stories we have told on the show.

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    Womens Mindset / Married Black Men.

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2018 38:33


    Kerry witty K talks about certain mindsets that hinder relationship success for Black wome, JR Rydha has another great question that is answered by his listeners.

    Relationship Books / Introducing Sex Toys

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2018 34:31


    JR Rydha asks what is the best way to introduce sex toys to your mate. Kerry witty k gives listeners a few relationship books that will change their lives. A listener writes in with a common issue of outgrowing her mate.

    Futuristic Masturbating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2018


    Kerry witta  K gives you whats coming up in the near future and now with computer synchronized masturbating in this grownmenchoppingitup snippet.   https://gizmodo.com/pornhub-is-making-smart-sex-toys-that-sync-with-porn-an-1822341727

    Uber Hubby / Red Flags

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2017 35:25


    Kerry witta K reads a listeners question about how to get her hubby to be more invested in contributing to the relationship besides sex. JR Rydha talks about red flags during a relationship.

    Top 10 Mistakes Men Make In A Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2017 13:00


    Kerry witta K gives you the top 10 mistakes men make ln a relationship and fields a listener question.

    Chicks Dig Pretty Dicks / Should Women Propose?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2017 30:05


    Kerry witta K goes over in order of importance what women find most attractive about penises. JR Rydha talks about why women should propose sometimes. The fellas discuss the perils of a sex less marriage and solutions.

    Grownmenchoppingitup Shea Moisture comnmercial

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2017 0:37


     Commercial Kerry witta K did for Shea Moisture

    Is She Really Old School / Micropenis Issues

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2017 31:03


    JR Rydha talks about first date etiquette and if women are really.old school like some say they are. Kerry witta K explains what a Micropenis is and reads an interview from a man suffering from it. The fellas also go over listener feedback

    Social Media Self Control / Black Couple Therapy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2017 36:53


    Is it OK for your spouse or significant other to tell you who you csn be friends with or talk to on social media ? The fellas discuss this and new age vibrators.  

    Dating Out Of Your Type / Batwing Labia

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2017 37:03


    JRYDHA talks about people that date out of their normal type man how it makes them feel. Kerry Witta K sets the record straight about women with outer labia that look like pastrami.   

    Candid Discussion About Manparts

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 28, 2017 36:14


    Kerry witta K goes on a trip to Oklahoma to have a life changing surgery on his manbits.

    Jedi Mind Tricks / Relationship Stats / Sex Foods

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2017 42:30


    JR Rydha addresses the many issues of one of our female listeners including issues such as he never helps around the house and ways that you as a woman have to use jedi mind tricks on men. Kerry witta K gives some relationship stats. JR Rydha goes over foods that you can eat to improve sexual functions.

    The Best of Grownmenchoppingitup

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2017 45:37


    Is Spicing Up The Bedroom Overrated / is Squirting Really Pee

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2017 38:53


    Kerry witta K tackles a listener question about is spicing up the bedroom overrated. JR Rydha talks about how to te) a coworker that you're interested.

    How Freaky Is Freaky ?/ Rebound Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2016 47:01


    JR Rydha talks about how long you should wait from the time a relationship ends until you get into another one. Kerry Witta K talks about things men look for in a relationship.

    Do You Know Your Kids featuring Miss K (PART 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2016 23:19


    JR Rydha continues his conversation with Miss K about subjects such as Hide and Go Get It, very first orgasm and sexual myths. They also tall about it birth control.

    Do You Know Your Kids ? Featuring Miss K (PART 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2016 31:18


    JR Rydha talks to special guest host Miss K,  who has over 20 + years working with middle school students, about middle school sexual orientation,  dating and body consciousness. She also drops the bomb that in California children 12 and over don't need parental consent for sensitive services such as abortion and condom distribution. 

    Where Are All The White Women At / Settling For Bad Sex

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2016 34:04


    Kerry Witta K discusses a study that talks about white women fantasizing about Black men. JR Rydha discusses reasons why some people settle for bad sex.

    The Flatland Diva episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2016 31:11


    JR Rydha interviews Andrea Jones aka Flatland Diva. They talk about dating rules, superstitions, cunnilingus tips, world class head and interracial dating.

    Grownmenchoppingitup Lost Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2016 29:38


    We recorded this episode after the episode talking about the Oedipus Complex where we were saying some mothers treat their sons like their man or boyfriend. It was lost in the archives until we found it. Go back and check out that episode.

    Vaginal Odor / Social Media Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2016 40:09


    Kerry witta K talks about a few things that can cause vaginal odor. JR Rydha talks about if Facebook or Instagram bad for relationships and what happens when your friends get involved in what you post about your relationships.

    The Return of Grownmenchoppingitup

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2016 13:51


    Kerry witta K returns with good news for GMCU fans, the show is back in production. He leads us off talking about things that should be a dealbreaker in relationships.

    Giving Husband Privileges to Boyfriends / Why Women Fake Orgasm

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2016 42:48


    JR Rydha talks about the rules when traveling with the opposite sex. Kerry Witta K gives us things women wish men knew about them sexually and the fElla discuss reasons why women fake orgasms.

    Best Condom Brands / Weird Animal Mating Rituals

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2016 33:30


    Kerry Witta K gives you the best condom brands depending on your preference. JR Rydha asks the fans what men and women want in a relationship. Then there is a rare Q & A with Kerry Witta K when he answers 6 personal questions.  

    Expectation of Privacy / Men Want to Feel Wanted

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 12, 2016 38:04


    JR Rydha talks about the reasons and consequences of going through your mates phone. Kerry witta K speaks on effective ways to get the ought an argument. 

    2 Girlfriends / Strengthen Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 18, 2016 37:45


    JR Rydha talks about if men can handle 2 girlfriends. Kerry witta K discusses ways you can strengthen your relationship.

    Is Arguing Natural ? / Online Dating Obsession

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2016 28:36


    Kerry witta K discusses if arguing in a relationship is natural or not. JR Rydha talks about the perils of online dating. The fellas also discuss 3 things couples should talk about before it's too late 

    Relationship Appreciation / How The World Defines Beauty

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2016 45:32


    JR Rydha poses the question of how do you keep from getting to the point of not being appreciated in a relationship and goes over ways you can fall in love deeper. Kerry witta K talks about definitions of beauty around the world and the traditions of it's people. 

    Why Hoes Are Winning / Desensitized Penis Remedy

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2016 16:45


    Due to computer uploading issues Kerry witta K handles this week's episode solo. He talks about why h is s are winning and gives fellas a remedy for desensitized a penis.

    Domesticated Women / One Night Stands

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2016 42:53


    Kerry witta K talks about 5 things that ruined American Women while JR Rydha asks his listeners if they have ever had a one night stand. The fellas discuss the wonders of domesticated women in this hilarious episode. We apologize for the short absence, we have been having computer issues.

    Happy Mothers Day Audio 4 Mom

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2016 9:25


    Kerry witta K recorded an audio card to his mother for Mothers Day because she is 1000's of miles away. Love you Mom.

    What is Manhood / Tips For a Healthy Vagina

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2016 35:01


    Kerry witta K talks about the meaning of manhood while JR Rydha asks the question of if a woman should tell her mate if his friend propositions her. The fellas also give women more great tips to keep a healthy vagina.

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