Podcasts about couple therapy

In this continued conversation, Whitni, Ash, and Dawn explore the intricate dynamics of pleasure, intimacy, and emotional safety within queer relationships. They delve into the concept of flow state, emphasizing its importance in enhancing connection and intimacy. The discussion highlights the significance of understanding desire, whether responsive or spontaneous, and the necessity of communication and consent in fostering a satisfying sexual experience. The conversation culminates in the idea that pleasure is not only a personal journey but also a form of liberation, encouraging couples to embrace their desires and build secure, fulfilling relationships. Ash and Dawn Noble collided in 2020 when brought together by a shared trauma that completely rearranged their lives. As a result, they co-created a vision to build the safest relationship either of them have ever been in as they set out to become the cycle-breakers within their own family systems through the relationship they're building as a couple. With that shared vision, they founded Queer Couples Coaching, where they share the skills that are needed to build a safe & secure relationship through the PACT model, which is a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy, developed by Dr. Stan Tatkin. How to work with Ash & Dawn: https://linktr.ee/Queercouplescoaching Follow Ash & Dawn at: TikTok - @queercouplescoaching IG - @queercouplescoaching Learn More From Whitni: https://www.bde-moves.com Follow Whitni at: IG - @bde.moves FB - groups/bdemoves YouTube - Podcast Channel = @BDE-Moves Old Channel = @BdeTalks TikTok - @bdemoves

In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', Whitni engages with queer couples experts Ash and Dawn Noble to explore the intricate relationship between emotional safety and sexual intimacy in queer relationships. They discuss the importance of curiosity, vulnerability, and communication in fostering deeper connections, as well as the challenges posed by societal norms and assumptions. The conversation highlights the significance of daily rituals, aftercare, and the messiness of relationships, ultimately emphasizing that security in a relationship can lead to greater exploration and fulfillment in the bedroom. Ash and Dawn Noble collided in 2020 when brought together by a shared trauma that completely rearranged their lives. As a result, they co-created a vision to build the safest relationship either of them have ever been in as they set out to become the cycle-breakers within their own family systems through the relationship they're building as a couple. With that shared vision, they founded Queer Couples Coaching, where they share the skills that are needed to build a safe & secure relationship through the PACT model, which is a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy, developed by Dr. Stan Tatkin. How to work with Ash & Dawn:https://linktr.ee/Queercouplescoaching Follow Ash & Dawn at: TikTok - @queercouplescoaching IG - @queercouplescoaching Learn More From Whitni: https://www.bde-moves.com Follow Whitni at: IG - @bde.moves FB - groups/bdemoves YouTube - Podcast Channel = @BDE-Moves Old Channel = @BdeTalks TikTok - @bdemoves

In this episode, therapist Dariia Milinchuk shares her expertise on working with survivors of narcissistic abuse. We explore how narcissistic traits differ from narcissistic personality disorder, why even trained professionals can miss the signs of manipulation, and the subtle but powerful ways narcissistic behaviour shows up in relationships. Dariia also discusses the long-term impact of narcissistic abuse and why regaining trust in oneself can be a complex but transformative journey.Full conversation here.

In this episode, Eli is joined by Kelli Murgado-Willard, who discusses assessing, treating, and integrating practical interventions with neurodivergent clients.

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.00:00 How important are goodbyes? 12:35 ACOA & butler syndrome fallibility29:34 How do you know if a family is ready for couples therapy?Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaMarch 19, 2025The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com

In Breaking Negative Cycles in Relationships, Sára Ritter explains:Her journey into couples therapy and her passion for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) How conflicts in relationships are often rooted in unmet attachment needsThe pursuer-withdrawer cycle and why we fall into predictable relationship patternsHow couples can reconnect and shift their dynamicJoin us as we unpack these themes and learn how deeper emotional understanding can transform relationships.Watch the full interview here. 

Happy Valentine's Day, lovers! I hope you are getting showered in love, by someone else or yourself. Whether you're single and ready to mingle, or in a long-term relationship, I've been thinking about how—no matter our relationship status—we all seem to wrestle with the same thoughts: Am I too much? Am I too needy, or should I express my needs more? How can I communicate better? How do I find balance in my relationships? How do I work toward secure attachmentsThankfully, over the years, I've had incredible relationship experts and therapists on this podcast who have tackled these very questions. So today, I'm bringing you a roundup of the best relationship advice I've learned from three amazing guests.Tune in to hear from:❤️ Dr. Morgan Cutlip, Relationship expert and PhD in Psychology: How to find balance and reciprocity in relationships, communicate your needs effectively, and understand the difference between neediness and fair expectations. (Listen to our full episode here)❤️ Liz Earnshaw, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist: Expert strategies for conflict resolution and communication, including how to handle Gottman's Four Horsemen and navigating common power struggles in relationships. (Listen to our full episode here)❤️ Jess Baum, Psychotherapist, Couples Counselor, & Author of Anxiously Attached: How our attachment styles are amplified or healed based on your relationship, breaking our anxious attachment patterns and prioritizing consistent love, recognizing red and green flags in chemistry, and moving from codependency to interdependence. (Listen to our full episode here)Wherever you are in your relationship journey… I love you guys. Sign up for our monthly adulting newsletter:teachmehowtoadult.ca/newsletter Follow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

Summary In this engaging conversation, Thomas Westenholz and Michael Preston delve into the intricacies of Emotional Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) and its profound impact on relationships. They explore the journey to EFT, the significance of attachment, the role of shame, and the importance of communication in fostering connection. The discussion highlights the transformative nature of therapy, emphasizing compassion and understanding as key components in navigating emotional responses and building healthier relationships. The hosts encourage listeners to embrace vulnerability and seek support, ultimately leading to personal growth and improved relational dynamics. Takeaways EFT provides a structured approach to couples therapy. Attachment theory is crucial in understanding relationship dynamics. Shame can inhibit personal growth and relationship healing. Effective communication is essential for resolving conflicts. Compassion plays a vital role in therapy and relationships. Therapists act as guides in navigating emotional landscapes. Understanding emotional responses can enhance relational connections. Therapy can lead to profound personal transformations. Couples often leave therapy with new tools for relating. The therapeutic process is about building trust and safety. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Exploring Humanity and EFT01:15 The Journey into Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)09:20 The Importance of Attachment in Relationships18:50 Understanding Shame and Its Impact on Parenting28:32 Navigating Emotions: The Biological Compass34:04 Communication and Language in Relationships36:48 Navigating Communication in Relationships39:21 Understanding Emotional Needs41:56 Overcoming Emotional Barriers44:27 The Complexity of Emotional Responses47:37 Dual Emotions and Their Impact50:28 The Role of the Therapist as a Guide53:19 Building a Map for Relating57:00 The Power of Emotional Transformation

Send us a textWhat happens when life throws a curveball with a diagnosis that changes everything? Join us for an inspiring episode of Brain Tumor Talk where we welcome Erin and DJ Stewart, the dynamic duo behind Head for the Cure and the Rare Enough podcast. DJ, who faced the daunting diagnosis of glioblastoma at just 28 years old, shares his incredible journey alongside Erin, his loving wife and unwavering caregiver. Together, they reveal the challenges and triumphs of living with this aggressive brain cancer while turning their story into a beacon of hope and advocacy for the brain tumor community.Navigating the roller coaster of medical treatments and the emotional weight of uncertainty, Erin and DJ open up about the pivotal role of communication in their relationship. From exploring treatments to DJ's passion for skateboarding, they discuss how staying proactive and embracing life's joys have been essential. We delve into their advocacy efforts, emphasizing the importance of caregivers and the support systems needed to manage caregiver burnout and ensure emotional resilience.In a heartwarming turn, Erin and DJ reflect on their unexpected journey into parenthood with their baby Ellis. They share how a simple documentary project became a life-changing exploration across the country, connecting them with communities affected by brain cancer. By focusing on optimism, community, and the powerful lessons learned from being part of a loving support network, Erin and DJ highlight the transformative power of love, family, and the joy of living fully even in the face of daunting odds.Learn more: https://www.ivybraintumorcenter.org/Follow Ivy Brain Tumor Center on Social: Instagram | Facebook | Twitter | LinkedInSign up for our monthly newsletter to stay informed about the latest in brain tumor research, treatment and community events.Request a No-Cost Clinical Trial Screening: https://www.ivybraintumorcenter.org/brain-tumor-clinical-trials/trialeligibility/ The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and serves as a starting point for you to have a conversation with your personal healthcare provider. Nothing stated on this podcast should be considered medical advice. You should always consult your personal physician or healthcare provider regarding your specific health concerns before beginning or changing any treatment plan. The views, opinions, and positions expressed by the host and guests on this podcast are theirs alone and do not necessarily reflect the views, opinions or positions of th...

In this episode, host Johanne Schwensen sits down with psychological counsellor Aranja Berkmüller to explore the fascinating and often misunderstood role of kink in the therapy space.This thought-provoking conversation challenges societal norms and encourages deeper reflection. Johanne and Aranja discuss:Common misconceptions about kink and its presence in therapeutic settings.The healing potential of exploring power dynamics and psychological layers within kink.Practical ways therapists can create nonjudgmental and supportive spaces for these discussions.Read more about Aranja here: https://www.amplified-humanity.com. 

To learn more about the Neurodivere Love Conversation Cards and Workbook, the Neurodiverse Love Conference videos and the other resources available for individuals or couples in mixed neurotype relationships, check out ⁠Neurodiverse Love. _______________________________________________ During this episode, Leslie Sickels, LCSW discusses how intimacy and sex are healthy, natural aspects of human relationships, yet this topic often goes unaddressed in neurodiverse couples therapy. While difficulties a nd challenges related to intimate connections are not unique to neurodiverse couples, there are core areas of neurodiversity that frequently arise and can be effectively identified, addressed, and managed in neurodiverse couples therapy. Leslie aims to normalize challenges related to intimacy and sex in neurodiverse partnerships and assist couples in identifying strategies to begin speaking more opening about these areas in couuples therapy. You can contact Leslie Sickels at LeslieSickelsLCSW.com or at LeslieSickelsLCSW@gmail.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/neurodiverse-love/support

In this episode of our mini-series on dreams, clinical psychologist and dream expert Roland Evans explores how we can better understand our dreams by working with them in altered states of consciousness (ASCs). From naturalistic trance and EMDR to active imagination and hypnosis, Roland looks into how these non-ordinary states of awareness help us access deeper layers of dream meaning that are often inaccessible in waking life. Whether you're new to dreamwork or looking to deepen your practice, this episode offers fascinating perspectives on working with dreams using ASCs.

In this insightful episode, Johanne sits down with Aranja Berkmüller, an experienced psychological counsellor and death doula, to delve into the world of end-of-life care. Aranja sheds light on the important role of death doulas—what they really do, and what they don't. With her unique perspective, she shares powerful lessons from her journey, offering a compassionate exploration of death doula work.Read more about Aranja's work here and in this blog post. 

In this episode of Therapy Talk, I sit down with seasoned psychotherapist Vasiliki Loumpa, who brings more than a decade of experience in family therapy. We explore the rewarding and challenging aspects of parental counselling, the transformative approach of non-violent resistance and discuss family therapy's powerful impact on supporting children by empowering their parents. Tune in to discover how this type of therapy can foster healthier family dynamics and provide meaningful support to both parents and children.Resources:Family TherapyBreaking free of anxietyNon-violent resistance

In this episode, psychologist Valentina Calandra, explores the realms of liberatory psychology and feminist therapy, and what it means to be "queering" therapy. Calandra highlights the interconnectedness of personal and political struggles in therapy, and envisions therapy as a form of activism that supports individual and collective liberation.

Enveloped in the Therapy Talk podcast, here comes a mini-series about dreams by Roland Evans, and accredited clinical psychologist who has 40 years of experience unlocking the mysteries of dreams.

What do friendship and therapy have in common? In this episode, Johanne Schwensen explores this thought-provoking question with fellow psychologist Valentina Calandra. Tune in to discover how the nuanced overlap between these two realms offers insights into boundaries, queering therapy, and the political dimensions of friendship.Music by Kadri ArulaVisit the Relationship Garden where the conversation about friendship will continue

An increasingly popular specialty within the therapy world is psychedelic integration. But what does it mean to engage in psychedelic integration work? Do you need to have experienced a drug-induced trip, and is it legal? These questions are just a few of the many covered when It's Complicated co-founder and psychologist, Johanne Schwensen, speaks with integrative, person-centred therapist and psychedelic integration workshop facilitator, John Sandblom.Therapists who do psychedelic integration work here.Music by Kadri Arula.

Many therapists never fully retire, for the main reason that their profession stays a source of passion and purpose. Roland Evans who joined me for the bi-weekly It's Complicated webinar, Mind Mingles, to talk about his dream work, is one of these therapists. In this episode, which is the raw recording of our Mind Mingles, he gives a peak into what he's learnt from listening to about 20,000 dreams over the past 40 years. Whether you want to learn how to start remembering your dreams, or how to gauge what your dreams are trying to convey, Roland Evans has got you covered in this inspiring interview.If you have any questions regarding dream work, join this community Dream space.

In this Therapy Talk episode, family psychotherapist Emonie Carter-Hale provides an engaging overview of systemic therapy, while exploring its application in trauma contexts. She shares her moving story about what it means to be a well-adjusted eldest daughter who went to law school to work with survivors of trauma, and ended up rebelling by becoming a psychotherapist working in an intersectional and holistically trauma-informed manner.

On today's show, Matthew brings his professional viewpoint on marriage. As a relationship therapist for the past fifteen years, he has helped many couples through rough times and has a wealth of knowledge on creating a Bulletproof Marriage.Matthew will discuss what he has seen as the biggest issues couples face, but more importantly, how to overcome those issues and have a thriving relationship.This is not an episode you want to miss as we get into the weeds of relationships and how to implement tactics that will ultimately assist your relationship in becoming amazing.Join us for another relationship-enhancing conversation.Connect with Chad and Lanell:Email the link below to send in questions to be answered by Chad and Lanell Live on the show.Mail Call: https://mybulletproofmarriages@e360tvlive.comFacebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/bulletproof/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF8-Week Platinum Course:  https://chad-s-site-8580.thinkific.com/courses/bulletproofmarriage30-minute Breakthrough Call with Chad and Lanell:https://calendly.com/info4-mbm/30minSupport the show.Support the show

Most therapists like to occasionally explain to their clients how the nervous system plays into the issues at hand, but did you know that there is a body-oriented approach called Somatic Experiencing that has the understanding of humans' survival response at it's core? In this episode, Johanne asks trauma-therapist Ariane Fuechtner to give an overview of how Somatic Experiencing works. She explains just how creative Somatic Experiencing is, why we can't just shake off trauma like other mammals, and much more.

To always keep dating is to always remember love in your partner and yourself.Text me at 972-426-2640 so we can stay connected!Support me on Patreon!Twitter:  @elliottspeaksInstagram: @elliottspeaks 

Join us in exploring the intriguing world of Guided Imagery and Music (GIM), explained by Canadian counselor Sadie Smith. Tune in to learn about the enigmatic modality's link to psychedelics, how mandalas are incorporated into the sessions, and the kind of journey a GIM session can take you on.Sadie's DJ setMandala from a GIM sessionMusic by Kadri Arula

What can be done therapeutically if we lack bodily awareness, and feel "too much" or "too little"? In this episode, body psychotherapist Anne Pascale Stein takes us through the foundations of Grindberg Method, accelerated experiential dynamic psychotherapy (AEPD), and how body therapy can improve our bodily awareness and ability to emotionally regulate.Blog posts by Anne Pascale Stein.Music by Kadri Arula

Discover the secrets to teaching supervisees how to conduct successful couple therapy with Dr. Kate Walker, as she unveils her distinct approach to couple intakes. If you're a therapist seeking to enhance your sessions, you're in for a treat! This episode is packed with techniques to ensure both partners feel heard, from the pivotal initial interview to the establishment of individual goals. Plus, Dr. Walker's three-point wrap-up offers invaluable feedback and actionable steps, improving your ability to navigate complex issues like addiction or domestic violence during intakes.Join us and gain insight into the intricate process of relationship assessment, especially when untangling the web of infidelity. Dr. Walker provides a compassionate roadmap for supporting the betrayed partner and emphasizes the 'how' of couple interactions over the 'what.' This episode is more than a lesson in therapy mechanics; it's a masterclass in adopting a systems perspective to be the calming influence that couples need. With Dr. Walker's guidance, learn how to create a timeline of significant events, use the Holmes and Rahe scale to understand stress, and actively involve couples in their therapeutic journey for a profound and lasting impact.Get your step by step guide to private practice. Because you are too important to lose to not knowing the rules, going broke, burning out, and giving up. #counselorsdontquit.

Welcome to the premier of My Bulletproof Marriages TV. In today's episode, Chad and Lanell discuss how it all began, My Bulletproof Marriages, the journey from where they were to where they are NOW. How they are shifting their entire lives in a new direction and how overcoming hurdles helped them create a recipe of success. Moreover, Chad and Lanell also discuss how the duo uses the lessons they are still learning to become the best versions of themselves. Leading by example in their marriage and raising their four kids.Also delved into is how loving yourself 1st and tapping into your inner being will show you how to find a purpose that will create the freedom we all yearn for. When looking at social media and the general public, we see a need for more authenticity. Most people desire realness and think they will find it in copying someone else's life or doing whatever it takes to make more money to create a fulfilling life. The My Bulletproof Marriages team is here to uncover the REAL conversations and secrets hidden in relationships or individuals who need to transcend to be free from bondage, find joy, and create the lives they deserve.Join us as we elevate relationships, destroy generational curses, and rise into our highest versions.Connect with Chad and Lanell:Website: https://mybulletproofmarriage.comFacebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/bulletproof/?ref=share&mibextid=S66gvF8-Week Platinum Course:  https://chad-s-site-8580.thinkific.com/courses/bulletproofmarriage30-minute Breakthrough Call with Chad and Lanell:https://calendly.com/info4-mbm/30minSupport the show.Support the show

In this episode, Johanne delves into the expat experience with counselling psychologist Garima Narwani. As someone who has traversed the globe both in her formative years and adulthood, Garima shares her unique insights into the challenges inherent in a globally mobile lifestyle.Tune in to gain valuable perspectives on expat therapy and discover how Garima's personal journey has shaped her way of providing meaningful support to third culture individuals navigating the complexities of a nomadic life.

In her conversation with Fadi Hage, a medical doctor turned therapist, Johanne learns about Gabor Maté's Compassionate Inquiry, how to deal better with one's inner critic, and what concrete ways we can start to incorporate doses of mindfulness practice into our daily lives. 

In this episode, Johanne speaks with trauma therapist Rebekka Lehmann about the realities of secondary trauma and compassion fatigue. They explore the relevance of Rebekka's focus on helping professions, emphasizing the risks of burning out while caring for others. As a bonus, Rebekka will guide listeners through a meditation at the end.

To kick off what can be considered Season 2 of the It's Complicated podcast, Johanne speaks to Katharina Albrecht about how she supports her clients in these unprecedented times. The two therapists talk about what it means to miss the bus in psychoanalysis, the difference between being nice and being kind, and implementing sensation tracking to build much-needed resilience to the outside world.

Click here to learn more about The Couples Therapist Inner Circle In this episode Shane interviews Vienna Pharaon. She is an LMFT who has a huge following on instagram where she posts helpful advice for people. She is also the author of the book, The Origins of You. She has a new podcast called This Keeps Happening. Find out more about her at viennapharaon.com The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. I'm Shane Birkel and my goal is to bring you interviews with experts in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. Learn more about joining the Couples Therapist Inner Circle

Click here to learn more about The Couples Therapist Inner Circle This episode is a recording from an Inner Circle Webinar with Shane.  The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. I'm Shane Birkel and my goal is to bring you interviews with experts in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. Learn more about joining the Couples Therapist Inner Circle

Click here to learn more about The Couples Therapist Inner Circle In this episode Shane talks to renowned emotionally focused therapy trainer, Jim Thomas. They discuss doing intensive work with couples, particularly using EFT.  Jim Thomas is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Certified EFT Therapist while being an internationally known therapist, trainer, and speaker. Find out more about him at jimthomas.care The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. I'm Shane Birkel and my goal is to bring you interviews with experts in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. Learn more about joining the Couples Therapist Inner Circle

In this enlightening episode, I am thrilled to introduce a distinguished guest, Ditte Madsen, who not only possesses a Cand. degree in Psychology and Health Promotion but has also completed an exhaustive four-year psychotherapist training at the esteemed Psychotherapeutic Institute, and much more.Ditte´s, expertise doesn't end there; she has delved deep into the significance of relationships, holding additional training in Couple Therapy, specializing in Emotion-focused couple therapy under the mentorship of the renowned Jette Simon.This conversation takes a unique twist, as we explore not only the inner critic but also the profound importance of our relationships. Ditte Madsen sheds light on how our inner critic can impact our interactions with others and how nurturing our inner selves can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for this episode to embark on a journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and building stronger, more meaningful connections with those you hold dear. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you are in a relationship, you have to hear this episode. It will be as enjoyable as it will be strikingly helpful to you and your partner. According to psychotherapist and author, Keith Wilson, if you are in a real relationship and you haven't had a conflict yet – you haven't been paying attention. As Keith describes, violence is the avoidance of conflict. Being able to work through clashes as a couple, offers great potential. With anecdote, metaphor and examples, Keith draws upon 30 years of practice with couples to discuss the steps for regulating conflict. He will invite you to turn off the alarm in your head that scans partner disconnection, know where and how to ask the right questions – be it about an affair or getting up for the kids. He will clarify how to give and get feedback, avoid the four fouls that contaminate any conflict and turn conflict into really knowing, trusting and loving each other. Listen in.

If you are in a relationship, you have to hear this episode. It will be as enjoyable as it will be strikingly helpful to you and your partner. According to psychotherapist and author, Keith Wilson, if you are in a real relationship and you haven't had a conflict yet – you haven't been paying attention. As Keith describes, violence is the avoidance of conflict. Being able to work through clashes as a couple, offers great potential. With anecdote, metaphor and examples, Keith draws upon 30 years of practice with couples to discuss the steps for regulating conflict. He will invite you to turn off the alarm in your head that scans partner disconnection, know where and how to ask the right questions – be it about an affair or getting up for the kids. He will clarify how to give and get feedback, avoid the four fouls that contaminate any conflict and turn conflict into really knowing, trusting and loving each other. Listen in.

This is a conversation I loved having because it is SO relevant for me right now as a new mom.  We cover mom guilt, parenting shaming, attachment theory, forgiving ourselves orver what what we "should have done" and SO much more.    My guest, Ellen Boeder, MA, LPC has been a licensed psychotherapist since 2003. After getting married and becoming a mother to two children (now 12 and 14 years old), Ellen began to focus primarily on couples in her private psychotherapy and coaching practice.  Ellen is now a certified practitioner of PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy)., Ellen enjoys teaching and consulting on relationship topics, writing her blog on motherhood and relationships, is fascinated by nature, spirituality, human development, and studies a range of topics from yoga and meditation to evolutionary sociobiology.  Ellen is also on faculty for the Relationship School—a business founded by her husband, Jayson Gaddis, that provides in depth relationship education and coaching training.  www.ellenboeder.com

In this episode, Ana and I take you on a Sunday 'day in the life' vlog of exactly what we do with our spare time.  Halloween decorations, food shopping, a new outfit and cheap chicken.Oh...and pumpkins.

Click here to learn more about The Couples Therapist Inner Circle Polyvagal Theory is a concept that is gaining a lot of momentum in the therapy world and has been written about a lot by Stephen Porges and Deb Dana. In this episode Dr. Rebecca Jorgensen talks all about Polyvagal Theory and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. Becca is a university professor and EFT trainer.  Find out more about her at drrebeccajorgensen.com To explore options for EFT trainings go to https://www.trieft.org/ The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. I'm Shane Birkel and my goal is to bring you interviews with experts in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. Learn more about joining the Couples Therapist Inner Circle

The special healing power of couple therapy. How it is similar to and different from individual work. Comments/Questions: eb@elazarbloom.com

On the episode the Mr. & Mrs. Mac give a PSA "the good D" and "black people not treating each other good". They talk being selflessness, women shooting their shots at men, men rough around the edged and women wanting that roughness. They discuss the different types of marriage therapies and how they help couples. Sit back and enjoy this episode, it's a good one. LIKE, COMMENT AND SUBSCRIBE ON YOUTUBE!! THANKS FOR LISTENING, YOU CAN FOLLOW OUR IG @mrandmrsmacpodcast or join our Patreon Mr. & Mrs Mac. 

In today's episode, I'm delighted to be joined by the one & only Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT. Stan is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of PACT (a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy), as well as being a prolific author of several best-selling books such as Wired for Love and most recently, In Each Other's Care. In this episode, Stan joins me to chat with me about how we can experience conflict within relationships in a safe way and really build secure foundations in our relationships. We'll cover:Launching into self-protecting patternsHow regret can be a powerful teacherUnderstanding the couple bubbleAccepting each other as who they areBeing responsible for our partnerUse the code JUNE50 for 50% off 3 masterclasses or the Higher Love course - https://www.stephanierigg.com Further Links & Resources Join the waitlist for Healing Anxious Attachment Apply for my 6-month Homecoming Mastermind Download the free guide: Attachment 101 Follow me on Instagram: @stephanie__rigg & @onattachment Visit my website

Simply put, our primary relationships play a big part in how happy we are. Yet our brains are not really designed to be good at relationships; instead, our brains are designed for our survival and energy conservation.  So, although our brains are the most complicated structures in the known universe, they need training to be good in relationship. And, as anyone in relationship will tell you, they take work. And because those brains like to conserve energy, it's easy for us to fall asleep at the wheel while we're in them. It's no wonder we get into so much trouble in our relationships! I'm so grateful to the thought leaders who are at the forefront of couple counseling. If I had to choose a superhero team of the biggest contributors to improving relationships, without question, this episode's guest would be one of them. This will be my second interview with Dr. Stan Tatkin, and if I have my way, there will be more! Stan has trained hundreds, if not thousands of therapists in his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy model which has improved the lives of countless people on our planet.  Stan's latest book, In Each Other's Care, just came out and it is awesome. To quote relationship expert and SuperPsyched guest, Terry Real, “Stan reminds us that taking care of one another, of our union, is taking care of ourselves.”  So, listen in as Stan explains why and how to be in each other's care. Book Link: https://tinyurl.com/5n792fy5

Mara Tesler Stein, Psy.D., PMH-C is a clinical psychologist and EMDR consultant and trainer in Chicago and Jerusalem. She is the founder and director of The Touchstone Institute for Perinatal Training where she offers advanced EMDR trainings which take deep dives into the intersections and applications of EMDR and perinatal mental health. As Senior Faculty with the Institute for Creative Mindfulness, she also offers foundational EMDR trainings for perinatal specialists.Dr. Stein is a staunch advocate for trauma-focused care and is trained and certified in a range of integrative trauma therapies. Dr. Stein is also certified in Emotion-Focused Family and Couple Therapy, Brainspotting, and is a Gottman Certified Therapist, and continues to deepen her training in Clinical Hypnosis, Yoga-Informed treatment, Advanced applications of EMDR, and Ego-State therapies.She is the co-author (with Deborah Davis, Ph.D.) of Parenting Your Premature Baby and Child: The Emotional Journey (Fulcrum, 2004) and Intensive Parenting: Surviving the Journey Through the NICU (Fulcrum, 2013).Her trauma work is grounded in her personal perinatal journey, which began 27 years ago taking her through infertility, twin pregnancy, prolonged hospital bedrest, the NICU, and years of raising NICU graduates.You can find her at touchstoneinstitute.org and at mara@touchstoneinstitute.orgEMDR and Weaving Video:https://youtu.be/n85qHC_9XLA

Click here to learn more about The Couples Therapist Inner Circle Sometimes as Couples Therapists we forget that our job is not to "save" relationships. Sometimes that is just not possible. Our job is to help people grow, challenge their limiting beliefs, and live happily ever after whether they stay in their relationship or not. Katherine Woodward Thomas has been a guide for helping people uncouple when they decide that staying in the relationship isn't the right choice for them. She is the author of Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After and Calling in the One: 7 Weeks to Attracting the Love of Your Life.  Find out more about Katherine at www.consciousuncoupling.com She has a free Workshop coming up called the Art of Conscious Completion: How to Avoid the 3 Most Common Breakup Mistakes that Cause Suffering, Steal Joy, and Prevent Future Love. Click for more details. The Couples Therapist Couch is the podcast for Couples Therapists about the practice of couples therapy. I'm Shane Birkel and my goal is to bring you interviews with experts in the field of couples therapy each week. Please subscribe to the podcast for more great episodes. Learn more about joining the Couples Therapist Inner Circle

Dr. Ling Lam - Spiritual RefugeeDivorced: Fundamentalist ChristianityDr. Ling Lam is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with a part-time practice in Palo Alto and San Francisco. He is also a Lecturer in the Counseling Psychology Department at Santa Clara University, where he teaches courses on Complex Trauma, Crisis Intervention, LGBT Counseling, Family Therapy, Couple Therapy and Multicultural Psychotherapy.  In this episode, Dr. Lam discusses his own challenges with cultural shifts, spiritual awakenings, and embracing his sexuality as a member of the 2SLGBTQ+ community..For more from Dr. Lam, join us at CORT2023. Tickets now available: https://www.religioustraumaconference.org/FIND DR. LAM:https://www.scu.edu/ecp/faculty/counselingfaculty/ling-lam-phd/lam.htmlhttps://www.therealling.com/ Support this podcast on Patreon (starting as low as $2/month) and get access to bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/janiceselbie Thanks to my newest patrons: Hayley, Lois, and SatX. Every dollar helps.Recordings from the Shameless Sexuality: Life After Purity Culture conference now 50% off here https://www.religioustraumaconference.org/register with discount code SPECIAL50Subscribe to the audio-only version here: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/religious-trauma-podcastFollow Janice and the Conference on Religious Trauma on Social Media: Mastodon: JaniceSelbie@mas.toTwitter: https://twitter.com/divorcereligionTwitter: https://twitter.com/Wise_counsellorTwitter: https://twitter.com/ComeToCORTFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcingReligionTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@janiceselbieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wisecounsellor/The Divorcing Religion Podcast is for entertainment purposes only. If you need help with your mental health, please consult a qualified, secular, mental health clinician.Support the show

Hazel Brugger und Thomas Spitzer sind Comedians, Arbeitskolleg*innen, Ehepartner*innen, Eltern und Stammgäste im Hotel Matze. Vor anderthalb Jahren haben wir das erste Mal zu einer Art Couple Therapy eingecheckt. Nach dem damaligen Gespräch hatte ich mir ein bisschen Sorgen gemacht, wie die beiden alles hinbekommen. Hazel wurde einerseits immer bekannter, sie war auf großer Tour, im Fernsehen und auf Magazincovern und gleichzeitig eben junge und vor allem übermüdete Mutter. Und Thomas ging es nicht viel besser. Im letzten Jahr hat Hazel öffentlich von ihrer Überlastung gesprochen. Ich wollte wissen, wie es ihnen jetzt geht und habe schnell gemerkt, dass es ihnen viel, viel besser geht. Meine Fragen an sie waren: Wie habt ihr das hingekriegt? Wie passt ihr jetzt auf euch auf? Und was braucht ihr nicht mehr? MEINE GÄSTE: https://instagram.com/hazelsgonnahaze/ https://instagram.com/spitzer_thomas/ DINGE: Warum bist du so gelassen? – Hazel Brugger im Hotel Matze (2019) - https://spoti.fi/3ZPwPm4 Was hält euch zusammen? – Hazel Brugger & Thomas Spitzer im Hotel Matze (2021) - https://spoti.fi/3Z4870d WERBEPARTNER: https://linktr.ee/hotelmatze MITARBEIT: Redaktion: Lena Rocholl Mix & Schnitt: Maximilian Frisch Videoschnitt: Sebastian Fischbeck Musik: Jan Köppen & Andi Fins MEIN ZEUG: Mein neues Buch: https://bit.ly/3cDyQ18 Die Hotel Matze Suite bei Apple: https://apple.co/3DTfsFb Die Hotel Matze Suite bei Spotify: https://bit.ly/3J7OLjJ Wunschgäste bitte in die Kommentare: https://apple.co/2RgJVH6 Mein Newsletter: https://matzehielscher.substack.com/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/matzehielscher LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/matzehielscher/ YouTube: https://bit.ly/2MXRILN Twitter: https://twitter.com/hotelmatze1 Mein erstes Buch: https://bit.ly/39FtHQy Mein Fragenset: https://beherzt.net/matze

In this episode of the Breaking Free podcast, I explore conflict management and decision-making with special guest Kimberly Best, a highly experienced family mediator, facilitator, and author. Kimberly sharesher wealth of knowledge by offering valuable tools and techniques for effectively dealing with conflicts. She explains why blaming others is a common but ineffective approach and instead focuses on the importance of finding alternative solutions that benefit all parties involved. Additionally, Best provides guidance for making difficult decisions, including end-of-life issues, that you can use in your own lives. With practical advice on managing conflicts at work, with partners, or with children, you're sure to walk away from this episode with a better understanding of how to handle these situations in a constructive and empathetic manner.Discussed in this episode:Understanding mediation and how to find resolutions when facing conflict (1:30)Distinctions between Couple Therapy and Mediation (5:00)How blame doesn't help and takes away your power and agency (6:25)Advice from a book by William Ury on how to untangle the People from the Problem in order to find an effective solution (10:30)Parent struggles with teens and how to move forward after the conflict (15:00)Why understanding your own triggers, helps you respond better next time (19:00)Find out your values and understand the values of those close to you (20:38)A way to develop self-awareness in the moment with a keyword that helps you step back and regroup (23:30)Feelings of shame that surface when people are told that they have disappointed others (30.22)Kim's book HOW TO LIVE FOREVER is a guide to writing the final chapter of your life story (31:00)Connect with Kimberly:Website:https://www.bestconflictsolutions.com/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlybestmediator/FB: https://www.facebook.com/bestconflictsolutionsInsta: https://www.instagram.com/kimberly_a_best/Twitter: https://twitter.com/kimberly_a_bestBook: How to live forever https://amzn.eu/d/61JorTcReferences:William Ury's book: https://www.williamury.com/books/getting-to-yes/Values test: https://www.viacharacter.org/Let's connect!FacebookInstagramTwitterLinkedInWebsite Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Feel Good From Within with Yvette Le Blowitz - #SPAITGIRL Podcast EP.188 - Relationship Reset with Lissy Abrahams, Leading Psychotherapist, Founder of Heath Group Practice, Author Why Do We Fight Most with Those We Love Best? Australian Relationships Therapist Lissy Abrahams has spent years exploring this question, both in her treatment room helping clients and through extensive research.  Lissy knows that long-term conflict leaves us drained, anxious and worried for the emotional wellbeing of our families, but says it is neither intractable nor inevitable. Conflict is caused by unconscious patters of thinking and behaviour - unresolved feelings of fear, instability or pain - which can be consciously rewired for a healthier, happier relationship. Lissy has seen firsthand how even small changes can help people reduce conflict and reconnect with their partners, improving their quality of life. In Relationship Reset, Lissy provides practical, evidence-based tools to help you: understand how childhood experiences affect adult relationships identify your blind spots, defence mechanisms and triggers and recognise them in others become aware of patterns in conflict, and learn new ways to respond to distress communicate clearly and openly with your partner, without judgement develop a more trusting, intimate and stable relationship Filled with insightful research, case studies and exercises, Relationship Reset will help you rewire the stories underlying your emotional life, and build a secure and loving union. Lissy Abrahams is a leading individual and couple psychotherapist who has dedicated her career to helping hundreds of clients navigate life's obstacles and challenges. Lissy studied psychology in Sydney and then completed her Masters of Couple Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy at the internationally renowed Tavistock Relationships, London. Here, she worked therapeutically with couples, as well as lectured and tutored trainee counsellors. Lissy founded and manages a Sydney-based therapy clinic, Heath Group Practice, and works therapeutically with clients around the world.  She has launched a successful online course to help partners stop fighting, communicate respectfully and rekindle love. Lissy believes we all have the capacity to improve our lives and relationships with the right knowledge and practical strategies, which she offers in her first book Relationship Reset. Her Mission is to help as many people as possible transform their lives by creating happier and more loving relationships. Yvette Le Blowitz Podcast Host talks with Lissy Abrahams Author of Relationship Reset to find out How our Childhood Experiences Affect our Adult Relationships. In Podcast Episode - EP.188 Lissy Abrahams shares: - a little bit about herself - insights into her book Relationship Reset - how our childhood experiences affect adult relationships - how to identify your blind spots, defence mechanisms and triggers - how to become aware of triggers, patterns in conflicts - how to communicate effectively to your children if you are living seperated under the same roof - insights into couple and relationship therapy - breaking down the stigmas one session at a time - her self-care rituals Plus we talk about so much more........ ----- Get Ready to TUNE IN  Episode 188 - #spaitgirl Podcast with Yvette Le Blowitz  available on Apple, Spotify, Google, iHeart Radio, Amazon Music, Audible, Libysn - all podcast apps search for #spaitgirl on any podcast app or on google  -------- Available to watch on Youtube Channel - Spa it Girl or Yvette Le Blowitz ------ JOIN OUR #SPAITGIRL BOOK CLUB Buy a copy of   **Relationship Reset by Lissy Abrahams   **pre-order through the spaitgirl podcast affiliated BookTopia link *any book purchase via this link will result in a small commission paid by BookTopia to spaitgirl **thanks for your support for more books search via Booktopia our affiliated online book store  *click here Hashtag #spaitgirlbookclub + tag @spaitgirl to share what book you are currently reading --- STAY IN TOUCH   Podcast Guest Lissy Abrahams  Author of Relationship Reset  Instagram @lissy.abrahams Website www.lissyabrahams.com ------ Podcast Host  Yvette Le Blowitz  Instagram @yvetteleblowitz Website www.yvetteleblowitz.com Website www.feelgoodfromwithin.com Youtube Channel: Yvette Le Blowitz  TikTok: @yvetteleblowitz Become a Podcast Show Sponsor #SPAITGIRL  www.spaitgirl.com Email: info@spaitgirl.com Email: info@feelgoodfromwithin.com www.feelgoodfromwithin.com -- JOIN OUR #SPAITGIRL Community  Instagram: @spaitgirl TikTok: @spaitgirl Sign Up to my Mailing List: www.spaitgirl.com Sign Up to my Mailing List: www.feelgoodfromwithin.com Search for #spaitgirl on any podcast app, youtube and subscribe  ----- HOW TO SUPPORT The #SPAITGIRL Podcast Show  Practice a Little Random Act of Kindness  - subscribe to the #spaitgirl podcast show on any podcast app or youtube channel  - leave a 5* rating and review  - tell someone about the #spaitgirl podcast show - share your favourite episode - tag @spaitgirl in your stories - hashtag #spaitgirl to share the show &  Together "Let's Feel Good From Within" and #makefeelinggoodgoviral Please note - Affiliated Links included in this spaitgirl.com blog post includes affiliated links with Amazon.com and booktopia.com.au- should you order any books from Amazon.com or Booktopia.com.au via the links contained in this blog post spaitgirl.com will receive a small paid commission fee from the online book stores.  Please note - The information in this podcast is a general conversation between the podcast host and podcast guest and is not intended to replace professional medical advice and should not be considered a substitute for medical treatment or advice from a mental health professional or qualified medical doctor or specialist.  Use of any of the material in this podcast show is always at the listeners discretion.   The podcast host and guest accept no liability arising directly or indirectly from use or misuse of any of the information contained in this podcast show and podcast episode conversation, or any trauma triggered or health concerns associated with it. 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