Heal Your Heartbreak

In today's episode, let's talk about the breakup healing process. This episode runs hand and hand with the official release of my first book, The Breakup Workbook that is available today! Throughout the book there are almost 100 different writing exercises to complete from the beginning to end season of your breakup. It's so impactful to me to be able to share with you all my advice in a book that fits into your hands. In honor of launch day, I wanted to use this episode to out line the process I take people through when they're going through a breakup. Tune in to learn more about my new book, and the breakup healing process!   Get your copy of The Breakup Workbook here: The Breakup Workbook   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode, I got to talk with Kylie who is a 29 year old therapist who shares her story of finding herself again after her breakup and divorce. Kylie was with her now ex-husband since she was 19 years old, they we're married, and share a daughter together. This episode covers a lot of things, including navigating divorce, the process of coparenting, and has a great perspective of why her breakup happened, and what worked and didn't work while navigating her breakup . The main thing she talks about is the fact that she was in a very dependent relationship with her ex, and how empowering and freeing it was to finally find her own feet. Learning to love herself again, do things with herself, and spending time alone.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's expert episode I am talking to Krista St. Germain who is a master certified life coach, post-traumatic growth and grief expert, a widow, and a mom. I've been wanting to get an expert on grief for awhile now, being such a misunderstood topic that we know so little about. Krista went through her own extremely heartbreaking experience 6 years ago, losing her husband and over the course of the following years she wanted to help other widows going through the same thing. This episode will help give you validation for your feelings, and is certainly relatable to not only widows but anyone experiencing grief. Absolutely loved getting to interview Krista, and I know you will all love it too.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

I titled this episode "the next person you date" and discuss some of the stumbling blocks & experiences that tend to happen with the next person you date after going through a breakup. The biggest theme on this topic is that consciously or subconsciously we tend to put a lot of pressure on the next person you date after a breakup, and compare everything they do to your ex - but that it isn't an indicator on how your love life is going to turn out.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode, I got the opportunity to interview Vanessa Marin, a licensed psychotherapist specializing in sex therapy. Her main goal is to help others stop feeling weird about sex, and start making it more fun. Throughout this episode, Vanessa talks more about sex as it relates to breakups: Is it normal to cry after the first time you have sex with someone new? Is it normal to feel like you're having sex for the first time after a breakup? Is it normal to feel like you won't ever be attracted to anyone else? We also talk about how to separate sex from your ex and how to use your past experience as a learning and growth opportunity. I loved getting to talk with Vanessa and dig deep into this topic, and know you'll love it too!   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we are talking more in depth about breakups due to unfortunate circumstances (i.e. addiction, mental health issues, relocating, family disapproval). How do you wrap your head around the relationship being great, except this one thing getting in the way? How do you wrap your head around the relationship being great, except this one thing, this one unfortunate circumstance? How to let that go, and how to move past that reason not feeling valid.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's listener episode, I got the opportunity to talk with Mary who is 26 and going through her first heartbreak. She was devastated by her breakup, but was able to get to a place where she understood it wasn't about her or something she did, her ex just wasn't capable of committing to a relationship. In Mary's breakup, her ex left the door opening saying things like "right now it can't work" or "right now we can't have a future together" leaving hope for an unknown future and a lot of emotional limbo. In this episode she talks about how she went months being unsure of the future she had with that person, and the toll that took on her, as well as tips for you in healing and how she navigated that process and came out stronger on the other side. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we're talking about the indirect impacts that come from a breakup including the loss of your ex's family. In the event of a breakup you don't just lose one person close to you - but also in most cases, their family as well. Throughout the episode I talk more about how there is a mourning period and grieving process that happens, and how its okay to be sad for losing that relationship. Can you stay connected with your ex's family? How do you move forward from feeling like you lost them too? If these are questions you're asking yourself - tune into this episode for more. To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

Welcome to another expert episode of the podcast! On today's episode I got the opportunity to talk with Gabrielle Stone, the best selling author of the book Eat, Pray, FML as well as the host of the FML podcast. Gabrielle's story from beginning to end is riveting in itself, filled with a lot of heartbreak, but along the way she learned a lot of valuable lessons she is able to share with us throughout today's episode. Along with sharing her story, she also gives tips and tricks on self-love, and self-care in her healing process. I know you all will love Gabrielle and hearing her story as much as I did!   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode we are talking about what does it mean when my ex does blank? I shared this question on my Instagram last week and got SO many responses in such a short time and thought this would be a great episode to touch on. Ultimately, what does it mean when my ex does blank? It means very little to nothing about you, and thats the moral of the story. When your ex does something, takes action, or inaction - it's not personal, and we can't make it mean something about us. Throughout this episode we talk about different responses that came from this question, how to not take every action or inaction personal, and how to continue moving on and focusing on your overall healing in your breakup.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we are re-visiting the topic of social media stalking your ex. We know it's not great to be obsessed with looking at your ex's social media while going through a breakup, but thats a lot easier said than done. What do we do when we can't stop looking? No one is here listening to hear the advice of "just don't look", so on today's episode we are diving into my methodology why we find ourselves doing this, and different ways to stop to aid with your overall healing. 

On today's listener episode, I got to interview Maggie who got out of a year and a half relationship back in November. With this being her first serious relationship, she didn't have a lot of context on what a "normal relationship" looked like. We talk about her journey in learning that it's OKAY to have needs. Having and expressing needs in a relationship shows self-confidence, self-worth, and self-esteem. Tune in to hear more about Maggie, her story, and her process of healing from her heartbreak.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's expert episode, we are talking about anxious attachment style with seasoned psychotherapist and couples counselor, Jessica Baum. We've talked about attachment theory before on the podcast, but Jessica elaborates more and talks about anxious attachment in relationships. How you can exist in a peaceful, grounded relationship even as an anxious person. We tend to feel like if we have an anxious attachment style that we are doomed in future relationships, but Jessica talks about all the things we can do on individual levels and within our support system outside of our relationship.   Tune into this episode to learn more, and check out Jessica's book Anxiously Attached.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode we are talking about the topic of Do Ex's Always Come Back? Some of the unhelpful advice we sometimes hear on social media, is "they always come back", but this isn't always the case. Throughout this episode we will dive into some of the reasons ex's do come back, as well as why they don't. You attract what you promote, so often times the fact that your ex hasn't come back means you've outgrown them in a good way.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode, I got the opportunity to talk with Shaun Galanos, a VERY highly recommended and requested guest! We are calling this episode Breakup Hot Takes, where we talk about all of Shaun's takes on different things we like to talk about here at Breakup Bestie including being friends with an ex, the no contact rule, boundaries, etc! Loved getting to hear Shaun's take on these topics, and know you will too!   To sign up for Shaun's The Love Collective starting June 7th, click here: https://shaungalanos.mykajabi.com/thelovecollective   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On toady's expert episode we are talking all about divorce with divorce attorney Nicole Sodoma. Nicole has an interesting perspective, as a divorce attorney and having gone through one herself, and we are thrilled to have her here on The Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast as an expert guest. Throughout this episode we talk about the process of going through a divorce, coparenting, the logistics of going through a divorce, how you can maintain your boundaries and no contact while sharing children and needing to see each other during certain circumstances, etc. If you are someone who is in the middle of a divorce, or is about to go through a divorce I highly recommend this episode!   Check out Nicole's Book "Please Don't Say Your Sorry" for more empowering advice, with a little added side of humor. Whether you are looking for advice on how to better your marriage, are considering separation, or find yourself knee-deep in divorce, this book has something for you.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode I wanted to cover a question I get a lot on our Thursday Q&A that we do over on my Instagram page @yourbreakupbestie. When your ex is mean to you post breakup it feels awful, and it's a fair question to want an answer to, and to feel confused about. There are a lot of variations of this situation whether they are cold during the breakup, or after it hurts regardless. Breakups are really shocking and hard no matter what, but if this is something that happened to you in the midst of your breakup - tune in as we dive into more.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's listener episode I got the opportunity to talk with Natasha B. Natasha went through a breakup about 7 months prior to our interview after being with her partner for 2.5 years. Her breakup came unexpected and without closure, which is such a good example and situation of how you can put so much into a relationship and do so many things right - but can't fix a relationship that isn't with the right person. She talks about her journey of how she came to realize that, and in turn move on from that. In her breakup, Natasha doesn't follow the No Contact Rule - which is something I talk about often, but it's a great opportunity to hear from someone who did have contact with their ex throughout their breakup and how that factored into her overall healing process.   This is such a great episode on starting fresh, and a real & true example of overcoming struggle and heartbreak.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we are talking about breakups and mental health. As a disclaimer for this episode, I am not a therapist and I am not a psychologist, but am just here to share my personal experiences. In this episode, we talk about different things that we can control and what we can't in regards to mental health in relationships & breakups, how mental health issues influence our relationships, and how it's not your fault or responsibility to heal or fix anyone.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode I had the opportunity to interview Florence Williams, journalist, author, and podcaster. Florence specializes in the physical and scientific effects of our body when experiencing a breakup. She talks about what is going on in our body, and how our brain is responding to the pain we are feeling. We can all relate and understand that there is something physical happening, through the immense pain we are experiencing through our heartbreak. She talks more in-depth about how our immune system is impacts, what happens in our brain, and how loneliness feels physically & painfully uncomfortable. Just a great episode, with incredible information - tune in to learn more!   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we are talking about the differences between men & women going through a breakup. There are so many stereotypes and myths about how men and women experience breakups so differently, but since running Breakup Bestie and hearing more stories and experiences from the male side - it's become so clear how similarly the experiences truly are.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode I got the opportunity to interview expert Dr. Heidi Brocke who is a toxic relationship awareness and healing specialist. After spending a long time in a narcissistic and toxic relationship herself, she now coaches others in identifying their own toxic relationships and how to get out of them. On today's episode we talk about what a toxic relationship is, coming out of a toxic relationship, and what the difference is between abusive & toxic.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we are talking about never getting an apology from your ex. This topic is tough because at the end of the day, we can't force an apology out of our ex - but that doesn't make it any less difficult to deal with in break ups. Things we cover in this episode are how to move on when you deserve an apology but don't get one, why you shouldn't wait for an apology, and how to deal with the emotions of anger and resentment over not getting the apology you deserve.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

This is officially the first male listener episode we've had here on the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast, and you won't be disappointed! I got to interview Kyle, who got out of an on and off relationship five months ago. They had rushed into things, and he knew deep down things just weren't right, but he did what he could to stay in the relationship. Throughout the episode, Kyle talks about how much he lost himself through trying to save and salvage his relationship. Following the breakup he took his healing process head on, and shares about how he incorporated journaling, therapy, talking with friends, and also how he hit the pause button to really take the time to feel all the feelings. This episode is such a good one, and reflects everything I would prescribe to find healing post breakup.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses    

On today's episode we talk about how to change who you are attracting in your relationships. There are big differences between dating mistakes most of us make, and PATTERNS that are likely linked to beliefs we have about ourselves. In this episode we dive into how to following a breakup we can best use our time to make some changes that allow you to change the type of person you attract in the future, change your beliefs about yourself, and how to ask questions to really learn more about yourself to help break some of those patterns in the future.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

In today's expert episode, I had the chance to interview psychologist Guy Winch. He is vastly known for his ted talk How To Fix A Broken Heart. In this episode we talk about the experience of heartbreak and why it is just so painful, but also why as a society we don't recognize how truly painful the experience of heartbreak can really be. We talk more about why we obsess on our ex, or obsess over closure and the possibility of getting back together. Guy is an expert on heartbreak, and there is just so much goodness in this episode, I'm honored to have him as our guest!   How To Fix A Broken Heart   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses    

Welcome back to another solo episode, talking about unrequited love - which is laymen's terms is love that is not reciprocated. This is for those of you who may be in a current relationship situation like this, or you're coming out of one. Throughout this episode we talk more about what unrequited love is, what it feels like, how you can know if this is something you're experiencing, and how to deal with it.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak podcast, I got to talk with Danielle who is a former coaching client of mine. She is so relatable, and really opens up about the real side of a break up that so many of you can likely resonate with. She shares a lot of her struggles she experienced early on in her break up, along with all the lessons she learned and turned it into a really empowering story. She had me laughing constantly, and I know our listeners will love Danielle and her story.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode we talk about how to be OK single. If you're someone who has never spent time single  the most important thing you can do is to spend time single, and find how liberating and empowering it can be. Being OK single doesn't mean you want to be single forever, it just means that you know how to be content in the situation you're in. When you can get to a place where you are content on your own, you're automatically raising the bar for the next partner you bring into your life. Tune in for my take on the benefits of being OK single, and how to tackle the fear & discomfort associated with it.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

Welcome to the 100th episode of the Heal Your Heartbreak Podcast! On today's episode I got to talk with Gina Devee, a leading women's empowerment mentor and author of The Audacity to Be Queen. Gina and I talked about a lot of different things when it comes to relationships, including her own journey in "the school of love", overcoming a number of obstacles to overcome her relationship patterns and in turn become aware of them in order to change. We also talk about how to learn to own what you want, own whats important to you, and own how you want to feel in your relationships so that when you do start dating you know exactly how you want to feel, and the type of person you want to attract into your life. Gina's overall message comes down to owning who you are, and that is something all of us can benefit from!   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

In this episode I want to shed some light on some things you will likely experience once you dip your toe back into the dating scene. First things first, it's normal to feel reallllly nervous and not excited about dating again. I remember my friends were trying to hype me up and they were expecting me to be excited about it but it was something I was dreading. Throughout this episode we talk about some feelings you might have, and things you might experience that are a normal part of starting to date again post breakup. If you experience any of these things, it does not mean you aren't ready - it's just normal growing pains!   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's listener story, I interviewed Elaina who was a former coaching client of mine! I got to see her at the height of her heartbreak, and now how far she's come. Elaina is 32 years old, from Brooklyn, New York and she shares her story about how she was in a situationship for a year that ended up evolving into a relationship and how it finally ended when they realized it wasn't going to go anywhere. We dive further into the shock and anxiety that can evolve when you're in a relationship with someone who can't commit, and how she was able to make sense of it all without personalizing it. I am such a big fan of Elaina, and she does such a great job of opening up about how she worked through this heartbreak, and know this episode will be so helpful for our listeners.   To get tickets to the Future of Dating panel: https://aib.si.edu/event/futures-cypher-the-future-of-dating/   To watch the livestream: https://fb.me/e/2g4T58JRB   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode we are talking about therapy + break ups. I talk about the importance of therapy, how beneficial it can be, and how to get the most out of your sessions. Making that initial decision to go therapy can be scary and intimidating for some, so I wanted to share what held me back from going in the past, but how it in turn helped me so much. Going through a break up is hard, as most of you know - but going to therapy helped me with my feelings, seeing my behavior pattern from an outside perspective, and how to be more in tough with my intuition. My hope for this episode is to help you get the confidence to go to therapy, and to understand how beneficial it can be! To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's expert episode I got the opportunity to chat with Lisa Cleary. Lisa is a tough love self-help writer with a focus on relationships and breakups, mindset, and goals. Her debut book is: How to Survive a Breakup: When all of your friends are birthing their second child.    On today's episode we talk about some of the challenges that we find in break ups as we get older. Lisa talks about her thoughts on the imaginary deadlines we give ourselves when it comes to settling down & having children. Needing advice or help in the healing process as you're going through a break up at an older age, this is the perfect episode for you!    To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

In today's episode I talk all about the signs that you're ready to move on and start dating again after your breakup, and no you don't have to be completely over your ex to start. I talk about the difference between obsessive and passing thoughts about your ex, whether you have accepted the breakup or not, and more!  To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's listener story, I interviewed Ashley who is a podcaster and youtuber sharing her story about her relationship cycle of breaking up & getting back together again.  She shares with us how she rebuilt her confidence after a hurtful & toxic relationship, and the process of learning from the relationship and what she can improve on moving forward. If you're someone that has experienced any kind of toxic relationship, one that has had a lot of back and forth, or one that has left you struggling to regain your confidence post break up this will be a great episode for you.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's solo episode, we are talking about how to regain your identity after a break up. If your identity was wrapped up in your partner, or in the idea of being in a relationship which is fairly common. We will talk about how this happens, why we want to try to avoid this in the future, and how you can work on regaining your identity and relationship with yourself.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's expert episode, I got the opportunity to chat with Olivia Hill who is a stand up comedian, writer, and producer in Los Angeles. She has performed all over the country, been featured on Buzzfeed, is a member of the sketch group, Try Harder Sometimes and produces the variety show Philanthropy TBD. We talk about humor in the healing process, and how we can use this to bring light to a sad situation. Olivia talks about how to bring this into the healing processes, and why it can be helpful. This doesn't take away from the serious and sadness that comes in a break up, but gives us a new perspective on how to heal and find joy again.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

In honor of the fast approaching holidays I'm re-releasing last year's holiday episode as a refresher for those of you who are nervous going into the holiday week during a break up. Break ups are already hard, but having to go through one during what's supposed to be a happy time of year can be even harder. In this episode I walk through how to make it through the holidays during a break up.  I cover how to overcome the loneliness, how to bring some joy, how to deal with the memories from holidays past, and what to do if you feel like your ex should or will reach out to wish you happy holidays.  Take the quiz to figure out which course is best for you! https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO Learn about all of my courses! https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On todays solo episode, we're talking about putting an end on obsessing about what your ex is thinking. Today's topic is one that I get asked a lot about, and realize that it is a very real issue for a lot of you. This can be extremely painful, and we are going to talk today about why I feel like this behavior is harmful to the healing process post-break up. Any time you choose to focus your energy on what someone else is thinking or doing, it takes away your power and can negatively impact your healing. Throughout this episode we will dive into the steps on how we can stop obsessing on what your ex is thinking and continue to heal and generate positive energy.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

We are back with another listener story today with a former coaching client of mine, Allison. Allison is a teacher, and she talks about how she fell into a fast & intense relationship with another woman at work, that became toxic and resulted in a break up. Throughout this episode she shares about how her ex kept the relationship a secret, how the relationship ended, her testament on how to overcome the heartbreak and challenges of working with your ex, and how to heal your heartbreak and rediscover yourself after a painful break up.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

In today's solo episode, the topic were tackling is if your ex said "someday, maybe". Whatever your ex said to you during your break up is probably replaying in your mind over and over again, especially if what they said included some variation of who knows, someday we might get back together. Throughout this episode we talk about how it is one of the more harmful things to hold on to after a break up, why its not something you should be hanging on to, and what to do instead.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

In today's expert episode I got the opportunity to chat with my friend Heather, who is a coach for To Be Magnetic. In this episode, Heather and I talk a lot about rewiring your subconscious beliefs around relationships. She dives into the topic of manifestation, what this means, what this doesn't mean, and how you can utilize it in your healing process and day to day life while navigating your heartbreak.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

What is a situationship? In a situationship, the other person is getting ALL of the benefits of a relationship, without actually having to commit to put in the work of a relationship.  In this episode, we talk more about what a situationship is, how it differs from friends with benefits, and how to prevent situationships from happening now and in the future.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's listener story, I got the opportunity to talk with Lindsey about her experience with long distance relationships and ghosting. Lindsey shares about the pain associated with her story, the actions she took throughout the situation, and how she used the tools she had available to get through her breakup gracefully to overcome such a challenging time in her life.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses

On today's episode, we explore the difference between feeling lonely vs. missing your ex. It's completely normal to miss your ex following a break up, but it's important to separate what you miss about your ex versus what you just miss about relationships. Throughout this episode, we will dig into identifying what you miss about your ex, the voids left by the break up, and really help you identify and distinguish the difference between missing your ex, and missing being in a relationship.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie

Welcome to another expert interview with the highly requested guest of the day, Case Kenny! He is the host of the New Mindset, Who Dis? Podcast, author of The New Mindset Journal, Single is Your Superpower Journal, and the Unbothered Journal. I brought Case on originally to talk about the topic Single is Your Superpower, because its such an impactful term that many of us don't fully believe in. Society tells us a lot of stories and assumptions about being single, which can be very harmful in learning how to live and love our life single. In this interview we talk mostly about mindset and mindfulness, and how in order to get to know yourself you have to be in touch with yourself in gaining self worth and finding things that make you feel good.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie

I was asked this week to do a podcast on being friends with your ex, and with this being a topic I talk about so much I couldn't believe I didn't have an episode dedicated to this, so here we are! This is not a guide on how to be friends with an ex, but more of why I believe it's challenging to find that balance of going from being in a romantic relationship to just friends. Throughout this episode I talk more about different reasons why in the event of a break up, the request of "let's stay friends" comes up, and why I don't think it's a good idea to pursue these friendships with ex's if you're trying to heal.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie

On today's listener episode, I interviewed Alexa who bravely shared her story with us about being in a relationship with someone who struggled with addiction. I know this unique episode is going to resonate with so many of you, and is such a great resource to hear a story first hand from someone who has experienced this in a relationship. Alexa shares how she has navigated the healing process and all of the tools, processes, and perspective shifts that she's been able to experience through this heartbreak.  To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie    

In today's episode I cover the question that often follows break ups of "was I asking for too much?". This commonly presents itself across my social media pages, and it stems from the idea that you feel as if you were too needy, or asking too much from your partner and that is why you are currently experiencing this heartbreak. I really wanted to clear this topic up, because 99% of the time you were not asking for too much, you were just asking the wrong person.   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie

In this episode, I brought in Kate Anthony who is the host of the Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and a certified divorce coach. Kate works specifically with women who have children who are going through divorces. She helps women to decide whether or not they should stay in their marriages or walk away, heal through a divorce, and helps them exit the relationship with a sense of grace. This episode is packed full of practical tips, and so many great tools. If you are someone who is thinking about going through a divorce, in the midst of a divorce, or well on your way through a divorce, this is the episode for you!   To find out which Break Up Bestie Course is right for you, click the link to take the quiz and get matched with the best solution for you: https://breakupbestie.typeform.com/to/x0WglwDO   To learn about all of my courses: https://www.breakupbestie.com/courses   To get a mini coaching session from Kendra for only $20: https://heyhero.com/influencer/yourbreakupbestie