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Description: With over two decades of experience in the field, Vanessa Marin is on a mission to help people break down shame, talk openly about sex, and create truly intimate relationships. As a a licensed psychotherapist, sex educator, and bestselling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, which she co-wrote with her husband, Xander, Vanessa brings a candid, humorous, and deeply compassionate voice to a topic that too often stays in the dark Whether your relationship is in a rut, your spark feels a little… dim, or you just want to feel more connected—to your partner and yourself—this one's for you. Vanessa is going to help us say yes to communication, to connection, and maybe most of all, to pleasure. Some topics we dig into: Why we have knee-jerk reactions to sex rooted in shame Why Vanessa says you should start having sex like a man The myth about the female orgasm The best things for your sex life that have nothing to do with taking off your clothes The difference between spontaneous desire versus responsive desire Thought-provoking Quotes: “Despite not getting a great introduction to sex or intimacy or relationships, I had this intuitive sense that there should be joy with this act. There should be connection and intimacy, and it should be something I should feel excited to explore when the time is right.” – Vanessa Marin “This is literally what I am here on this earth for, is to help people get more comfortable talking about sex, connection, and intimacy.” – Vanessa Marin “A lot of people hear, she's a sex therapist. They must have this incredible sex life. the reality is, we've been through ups and downs, too. ” – Vanessa Marin “We get very little, if no, actual sex education. Most of us are left with movies, and TV, and porn as our only sex education. So it's totally understandable that most of us see these scenes and think, that's what I'm looking for. That's the kind of connection I'm supposed to have with my partner. But, the reality is the way that sex looks on TV and in the movies, that's designed for entertainment. It's designed to look good and be pretty. It's not what sex really looks like in real life.” – Vanessa Marin Research has shown that in male-female relationships, women are carrying the vast majority of the mental load. There is so much that is going through our heads on a daily basis—all this tracking, and preparing, and anticipating, and evaluating, our heads are just constantly going. And when you have so much in your brain, it makes it really hard to make the space for intimacy and desire too.” – Vanessa Marin Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin and Xander Marin - https://amzn.to/43VSwnS The Sex Talks Card Deck and Guidebook: 90 Prompts to Deepen Connection and Spark Intimacy - https://amzn.to/3Hys1xa Vanessa and Xander's Deeper Monthly Membership - https://buy.vmtherapy.com/deeper Guest's Links: Website - https://vmtherapy.com/about Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/ Twitter - https://x.com/VMTherapy Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/vanessaandxander/ Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/vanessamarin TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@vanessaandxander Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/vanessaandxander/_created/ Podcast - https://vmtherapy.com/podcast/ Connect with Jen!Jen's Website - https://jenhatmaker.com/ Jen's Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmakerJen's Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ Jen's Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmakerJen's YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker The For the Love Podcast is presented by Audacy.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is here to take the intimidation out of intimacy. With 20 years of experience as a licensed psychotherapist and millions of views online, Vanessa and her husband, Xander, have become a go-to couple for real, shame-free conversations about sex. In this episode, Vic opens up about her own sexy journey as they dive into how to communicate with your partner, reduce shame, and strengthen emotional and physical connection. From why a six-second kiss matters to what intentional initiation actually looks like, this episode is full of game-changing tools to make you feel more comfortable and confident in the bedroom.Instagram: @vanessaandxanderWebsite: vmtherapy.comRead: Eight Dates by John Gottman, MD// SPONSORS //Quince: Go to quince.com/realpod for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. LMNT: LMNT is offering a free sample pack with any purchase, that's 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. This is a great way to try all 8 flavors or share LMNT with a friend. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/realpod.Paired: Head to paired.com/realpod to get a 7-day free trail and 25% off if you sign up for a subscription. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Ever feel disconnected from your partner… but not sure how to fix it?You're not alone. Between mismatched desire, mental load, body image struggles, and awkward communication, intimacy often becomes one more thing on your to-do list, instead of a source of connection.In this episode, I'm joined by Vanessa and Xander Marin—licensed sex therapist and bestselling author duo behind Sex Talks and the Pillow Talks podcast. We're breaking down the silent issues that show up in long-term relationships and how to reconnect (without relying on spontaneous desire or unrealistic expectations).We're talking about what's actually behind low libido (hint: it's not just hormones or sex drive), how to reduce the mental load so you can feel more connected, and why “scheduled sex” isn't boring, it's powerful. Vanessa Marin is a licensed sex therapist with 20+ years of experience and Xander Marin is her husband, co-author, and brings the real-life partner perspective that makes these conversations feel refreshingly honest, relatable, and actionable.We Also Discuss:08:26 – Why we need to talk about sex way more openly13:44 – The 5 conversations every couple should have about sex18:32 – The truth about “how often” you should be having sex26:23 – Why desire doesn't just happen—and what to focus on instead32:42 – How mental load kills intimacy (and what to do about it)40:00 – The surprising link between body image and your sex life47:12 – What the “bristle reaction” is—and how to fix it54:04 – The most underrated forms of foreplay (hint: it's not lingerie)Thank You to Our Sponsors:Broads: Broads gives you structured, progressive training and a powerhouse community to keep you strong, consistent, and unstoppable. Join today at broads.app and use code PODCAST for 20% off your first month!Legion: Use code Tara20 for 20% off your first order and double loyalty cash back any order after that when you shop at LegionAthletics.comFind more from Tara: Website: https://www.taralaferrara.com/Instagram: @taralaferrara @broads.podcast @broads.appYoutube: Tara LaFerraraTiktok: @taralaferraraFind more fromInstagram: @vanessaandxander Website: https://vmtherapy.com/ Youtube: @vanessaandxanderPodcast: Pillow Talks

Tera sits down with Vanessa Marin, licensed sex therapist and CEO of Vanessa Marin Sex Therapy, to explore how our early messages around sex shape our adult relationships—and how we can reclaim joy, freedom, and connection in the bedroom. Vanessa shares her personal journey of unlearning shame, learning how to speak up for her needs, and rewriting her sexual story. From navigating body confidence to overcoming a sex-negative upbringing, this conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is possible—and your pleasure matters. Whether you're struggling with desire, communication, or emotional intimacy, Vanessa's insights will leave you encouraged, empowered, and equipped.Links and Resources:Download the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/get-the-cew⁠⁠Find out how to become a Certified Coach: ⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/certified-coaching⁠⁠Find a coach: ⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/all-coaches⁠⁠Vanessa Marin on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/?hl=enWebsite: https://vmtherapy.com/Chapters:00:00:00 – A Warm Welcome + A Quick Note on Therapy00:00:50 – Meet Vanessa Marin: Sex Therapist, Real Talker, Freedom Fighter00:01:39 – Growing Up Silent: How Shame Shaped Our Sexual Narratives00:04:32 – From Shame to Liberation: Vanessa's Personal Turning Point00:06:11 – The Call to Sex Therapy: Where Curiosity Meets Calling00:11:01 – Kids, Chaos & Connection: Keeping Intimacy Alive in Parenthood00:17:21 – Desire Decoded: What Your Libido Might Be Telling You00:23:02 – Let's Talk Initiation: Who Starts, Why It Matters00:29:42 – Spicing It Up: Creating a More Playful Sexual Menu00:30:09 – What Actually Works for You? Redefining Sexual Connection00:31:13 – Vanessa's Go-To Tools & Practices for Better Sex00:32:58 – Sex Positions: Myths, Pressure & What to Let Go Of00:33:26 – Fresh Energy: How to Stay Curious in Long-Term Love00:36:16 – Permission to Laugh: Why Playfulness Belongs in the Bedroom00:42:38 – Too Busy for Sex? Why Prioritizing It Changes Everything00:46:55 – It's More Than Just the Act: The Deeper Value of Sex00:47:52 – Orgasm Isn't the Goal: Navigating Challenges Without Shame00:50:38 – Where Emotional Safety Meets Sexual Connection

In this fun, research-backed episode, we dive deep into 20 unhinged, creative, and scientifically proven ways to strengthen your marriage. From recording your arguments to scheduling sex with hilarious calendar invites, these ideas break the traditional "date night" mold and focus on building deeper emotional, physical, and spiritual intimacy with your spouse.If you're tired of surface-level marriage advice and want practical strategies that actually work (and make you laugh), this episode is for you!

Welcome back to the final episode of the Creativity Miniseries! In this conversation, Emily Sutherland and I open up our personal creativity toolkits and share the resources and strategies that help us bring our ideas to life. Working on this miniseries with Emily has been an absolute joy. She's not just an incredible creative and coach—she's also become a trusted friend and advisor throughout the development of Wrestling a Walrus, my first children's book. I truly could not imagine doing this without her. Interestingly, we didn't plan on recording another discussion on the creative process, but that's exactly where our behind-the scenes, warm-up conversation led us. So, we left it in. I think you might find some usefulness in this bonus material as we share our thoughts on the value of authenticity, the importance of differentiating yourself, and the surprising relationship between uncertainty and clarity.  A huge thank you to Emily for her wisdom and generosity, and to you for joining us as part of the creative community.  SPECIAL MENTIONS Emily Sutherland's Storytelling for Business (April 4, 2025) and Nurturing Your Creative Self (May 9, 2025) - https://www.emilysutherland.me/events Storytelling Community (Substack) - https://open.substack.com/pub/storytellingcommunity The Secret Lies Within by “Auntie Anne” Beiler and Emily H. Sutherland - http://bit.ly/3FmIxPT Betsy B. Murphy - https://substack.com/@betsybmurphy or http://betsybmurphy.com/ Vanessa Marin, sex therapist on IG @vanessaandxander PROCESS TOOLKIT Write it down when you feel it (and be prepared in the middle of the night). Be ready for the idea. Be discerning about what, when, and who to share your idea with.    When your idea is at a tender stage, who are your tender people? Do you need an editor or a cheerleader? Journaling. Let the creative juices flow without requiring an outcome. The more you write, the more ideas will come. Immerse yourself  and trust the process.  Try on new ideas to see if they go anywhere. “I make what I like, and they eat it how they want to eat it.” - Erykah Badu to Donald Glover ELECTRONIC TOOLS Manuscript Software - Scrivener - affiliate link: https://www.literatureandlatte.com/scrivener/overview?fpr=emilysuth Google Docs, YouTube, and Apps (e.g., voice memo, talk-to-text, notes) IngramSpark - https://www.ingramspark.com/  Kindle Direct Publishing - https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B008241EAQ Storytelling Workshops - https://www.emilysutherland.me/events PHYSICAL TOOLS  Fine Tip Sharpie Pen or The Pilot G2 (in multiple colors!) Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert - https://www.elizabethgilbert.com/books/big-magic/ Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott - https://writingforyourlife.com/bird-by-bird-some-instructions-on-writing-and-life/ The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron - https://juliacameronlive.com/books-by-julia/ Rifle Paper Company little notebooks (great for lefties!) - https://riflepaperco.com/ The Treasured Journal - https://danielleireland.com/journal DANIELLE IRELAND, LCSW Thank you for your support and engagement as part of the Don't Cut Your Own Bangs community. Feel free to reach out with questions, comments, or anything you'd like to share. You can connect with me at any of the links below. Website - https://danielleireland.com/ The Treasured Journal - https://danielleireland.com/journal Substack - https://danielleireland.substack.com/ Blog - https://danielleireland.com/blog/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/danielleireland_lcsw Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/danielleireland.LCSW Podcast on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@danielleireland8218/featured        

Let's talk about sex, baby! This week, Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist with over 20 years of experience, is here to share tips on keeping things spicy in long-term relationships, even when life gets busy—and let's be honest, sex can sometimes take a backseat. We'll talk connection, communication, and yes—scheduling sex to keep the spark alive. Vanessa shares practical tools to help you reconnect and improve your sex life. Plus, we're doing a fun rapid-fire round with her sex talk card deck! If you're looking to spice things up or strengthen your intimate connection, this episode is for you! Get ready for real talk and actionable tips! In this episode: Normalizing the ebb and flow of intimacy in relationships How to get the spark back in your sex life Practical tips to improve intimacy with your partner Why non-sexual touch matters Understanding different arousal types Why you should schedule sex Rapid Fire Questions with Vanessa's The Sex Talks Card Deck Here is my favorite quote from this episode: "The connection that we feel to our partner or don't feel to our partner is going to heavily impact our desire to want to connect with them in a physical way.” - Vanessa Marin Exciting news! My Lifetime series Kim of Queens is now streaming on Disney Plus! Join me as I help these girls discover true beauty is more than skin-deep. Click this link to check it out now! Have you tried my exclusive ZERO sugar candy yet? Kimmie's Candies Sea Salt Caramels are the perfect gift that's both indulgent and guilt-free. Rich, chocolatey caramel with a touch of sea salt—zero sugar, keto-friendly, and gluten-free. A delicious, guilt-free indulgence! Order now at kimgravelshow.com/candy. Supply is low so get yours before they sell out. Do you want to hear your voice on the show? Call me and leave me a voicemail at 404-913-6460 and let me know why you love who you are!   There is BONUS CONTENT in our free newsletter so make sure to subscribe at https://www.kimgravelshow.com Collecting Confidence, my best-selling book is now available in paperback with a brand new discussion guide! Click this link to buy it now. Join my Love Who You Are movement at https://lwya.com Connect with Me: YouTube Facebook Instagram TikTok                                          Website Connect with Vanessa Marin: Website Instagram YouTube TikTok Facebook Pillow Talks Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life The Sex Talks Card Deck New episodes of The Kim Gravel Show drop every Wednesday at 6pm EST. Support our show by supporting our Sponsors: Pique Pique is on a mission to create doctor-approved, cutting-edge solutions for your head-to-toe health and beauty transformation. Feel more hydrated, energized, and like your best self with Pique products—say goodbye to exhaustion, dull skin, and energy crashes. Get 20% off + a FREE starter kit at Piquelife.com/KIM. Your body and skin will thank you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. If you feel like intimacy with your partner is rare, your desire is low, or that your marriage is even sexless, this conversation is for you. Here to deliver the most important sex advice you need to hear is renowned sex therapist and bestselling author, Vanessa Marin.  Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist and a sex therapist with over 20 years of clinical experience helping people have healthier, more satisfying sex lives. She is known for her viral, no-shame, straight-to-the-point advice on how to have the best sex of your life. This conversation tackles everything you weren't taught—and probably aren't talking about—when it comes to sex. Mel also shares openly about her own sex life, difficulties with intimacy, and speaks openly in a way you've never heard before.Whether you are single, in a relationship, or married, this conversation is going to make you think differently about sex and inspire you to prioritize pleasure and connection in bed, no matter your age, relationship status, or gender. You'll learn:-The real reason you feel disconnected in your sex life-The two different types of sex drives and why it matters -What to do if you're on your way to a dry bedroom-What exactly to say if you're not in the mood when your partner initiates sexIf you feel like you can't talk about sex, if you can't ask for what you want, don't know how to bring it up, are going through a dry spell, or want to have more sex but you're exhausted, this episode is for you. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. If you enjoyed this personal and practical episode, listen to this one next: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of MarriageConnect with Mel:  Get Mel's #1 bestselling book, The Let Them TheoryWatch the episodes on YouTubeFollow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast InstagramMel's TikTok Sign up for Mel's personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes ad-freeDisclaimer

Vanessa Marin is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Xander, her husband, is a self proclaimed “regular dude who's been married to a sex therapist for over a decade.” Together, they help people stop feeling so embarrassed about sex, start having more fun in the bedroom and communicate better. They join the show to talk how to *actually* keep the spark alive in long term relationships, being child-free by choice, how to discern between true incompatibility and just poor communication, the two types of desire and sex drives, relationship and sex myths and how to talk to your partner about sex.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Go to clearstem.com/WELL and use code WELL at checkout for 20% off. Save 15% off my favorite red light face mask at boncharge.com and use code BLONDE.Go to www.YNAB.com/well for an exclusive three-month free trial with no credit card required.Visit hungryroot.com/blonde to get 40% off your first box and a free item of your choice.Visit opositiv.com/blonde for 25% off your first order.Visit nutrafol.com and use code BLONDE to get $10 off your first month's subscription & free shipping.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode of The goop Podcast, Licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander join Gwyneth to unpack one of the biggest struggles in relationships—why we're not having as much sex as we want (or thought we would). From carrying too much mental load to not understanding how desire actually works, they break down the biggest roadblocks to intimacy, why sex can feel like another chore on the to-do list, and how small shifts in mindset, communication, and playfulness can bring connection back into the bedroom. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this special episode, we revisit some of our favorite moments from Wednesday episodes in 2024. Molly McNearney remembers joining Jimmy Kimmel Live, Bill Gates wishes he were smarter, Finneas discusses the dynamics of a duo, Patric Gagne navigates romance as a sociopath, Vanessa Marin walks the walk of Sex Talks, Alegra Kastens explains the spectrum of OCD, Malcolm Gladwell delves into the science of the opioid crisis, Cat Bohannon talks about the medical discrepancies between men and women, Yuval Harari analyzes information networks through the lens of history, Orna Guralnik relates why we depersonalize, and Avett Brothers harmonize on We Are Loved. Follow Armchair Expert on the Wondery App or wherever you get your podcasts. Watch new content on YouTube or listen to Armchair Expert early and ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts, or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting wondery.com/links/armchair-expert-with-dax-shepard/ now.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, we tackle one of the most vulnerable and misunderstood areas of marriage—intimacy. Using insights from renowned experts like Dr. John Gottman, Vanessa Marin, and biblical principles, we dive into the common challenges couples face in their sex lives, the role of stress and unspoken expectations, and how intimacy evolves over time. Whether it's mismatched libidos, the impact of life changes, or cultural taboos around discussing sex, we provide actionable steps and strategies to overcome barriers and build both emotional and physical intimacy. By the end of this episode, you'll feel equipped to deepen your connection and create a more fulfilling relationship. What We'll Cover: Understanding Common Barriers:How stress, unspoken expectations, and cultural taboos impact intimacy in marriage. Mismatched Libidos:What differing sex drives mean, how to compromise on frequency, and the importance of connection over numbers. Biblical Misconceptions:Addressing common biblical misunderstandings about sex and embracing the truth. Building Emotional Intimacy:Why emotional safety is the foundation of physical intimacy and practical ways to nurture it. Reigniting Passion:Ideas for spicing up your sex life and reigniting the flame after years of marriage. Navigating Conversations About Sex:How to talk about intimacy when one partner sees the topic as taboo or uncomfortable. Life Changes and Libido:Why libido changes (e.g., after childbirth, menopause) and how to work through them as a team. Breaking Unspoken Expectations:Identifying hidden assumptions and how to communicate needs effectively. Listener Takeaways: Practical exercises for building emotional intimacy, like “listening dates” and daily appreciations. Examples of healthy boundaries and how to have meaningful conversations about intimacy. Real-life strategies for reigniting passion, even in the busiest seasons of life. Encouragement to embrace open communication, respect, and connection. Resources Mentioned: Dr. John Gottman's research on intimacy and emotional connection. Vanessa Marin's insights into understanding mismatched libidos and spicing up your sex life. Relevant biblical verses that highlight the importance of love, respect, and physical intimacy in marriage. Suggested books: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman and Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski. Engage with Us: What challenges have you faced in your intimacy journey? Share your story or questions by sending me a DM or email—I'd love to hear from you and may feature your question in a future episode. Don't forget to follow me on Instagram for daily tips and inspiration for building a stronger marriage. Email: coaching@recognizingpotential.com IG, TT- @divorceproofmarriage Facebook- www.facebook.com/divorce.proof.marriage Work With Me:If you and your partner are ready to break through the barriers in your marriage and build deeper intimacy, my 1:1 coaching program is designed to help you do just that. Let's work together to create a relationship where both emotional and physical intimacy thrive. Click here to learn more and schedule your first session.

Sex and business might seem like two entirely separate worlds, but they're more connected than you may think. In this episode, we sit down with our friends Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex therapist, and her husband Xander. They break down why intimacy is essential in all areas of life, especially as entrepreneurs. We talk about the intriguing intersection of sex and entrepreneurship, taboo topics with humor, and tips to reignite the spark in long-term partnerships. They also share brilliant tips for marketing unconventional business, surviving Instagram censorship, and fostering deep emotional and physical connections.  Check out our Sponsors: Shopify - Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Found - Try Found for free at Found.com/EARN. Constant Contact - Get customized marketing campaigns built for you in just a few clicks. Go to constantcontact.com for your free trial.  HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 How did you start bridging sex and business? 05:30 Why do ambitious people often neglect their sex life? 13:15 Tips to build intimacy without pressure. 27:00 A simple way to reignite connection and fun in your relationship. 29:45 Marketing strategies for businesses in sensitive industries. 37:45 Commonalities between maintaining a healthy sex life and building a successful business. 42:45 What is influencing expectations when it comes to intimacy? 47:30 Advice about re-entering the dating world after a long-term relationship. 53:30 How emotional connection influences physical attraction in long-term relationships. 56:45 Is liking "thirst trap" posts on Instagram cheating? RESOURCES Get your FREE "Best Week Ever" seven-day challenge for couples HERE Learn more about Vanessa and Xander's Courses & Guides HERE Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! Text DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation. Sign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder Watch on YouTube - @LoriHarder My book: A Tribe Called Bliss FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy Follow glōci: @getgloci Girlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness Follow Vanessa and Xander: @vanessaandxander

Sex and business have a lot in common. They both take communication, there's no such thing as perfection yet we're always striving to grow, and both suffer when we don't make them a priority. I'm excited to have Vanessa and Xander Marin on the podcast with Lori and I to talk about a topic we don't typically cover on the podcast, sex. The Marins are friends of ours and both happen to also be in our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind. They give incredible tips in this episode to approach communication when it comes to sex whether you're in a long term relationship or are looking for a partner. Plus, they share how they've been able to grow a massively successful online business while being in a category where they don't have the ability to promote their business with typical ads.    HIGHLIGHTS How to bring up conversations about sex in a positive way with your partner. Tips every couple can implement for more pleasure and connection. How hustle culture in entrepreneurship can impact your intimacy. Ways to organically promote and grow your business.   RESOURCES Join us in our Elite Mastermind to work on your business in 2025 - Go to chrisharder.me/mastermind Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras to boost your day. Want to grow your email list - Get Over 240 Free Lead Magnets HERE! Check out upcoming events + Masterminds: chrisharder.me   FOLLOW Chris: @chriswharder Lori: @loriharder Frello: @frello_app Vanessa and Xander: @vanessaandxander  

This week, the girls welcome the one and only Vanessa Marin—psychotherapist, sex therapist, author and host of PillowTalks!  Vanessa dives deep (no innuendo intended… maybe) into all the juicy questions on their minds. She comes loaded with stats, straight facts, and game-changing tips guaranteed to boost your bedroom confidence.  Follow us! Hunter: https://www.instagram.com/huntermcgrady Michaela: https://www.instagram.com/michaelamcgrady Subscribe to Patreon for exclusive episodes and content: https://www.patreon.com/Themodelcitizenpodcast

Over the span of eleven minutes, the impressive short film Yeah the Boys sways and swerves through a boozy night with the lads in nondescript backyard Australia. Drinking culture, Aussie larrikinism, and the masculinity that finds fertile ground in these areas is brought to life with a pulsing score by The Avalanches. Oh, and all of this is presented with an the organic dance movements choreographed by Vanessa Marin. Yeah the Boys is written by Vanessa, with her partner Stefan Hunt taking directing duties. The titular boys are Neven Connolly, Kieran Crowe, Hadley Davidson, Jackson Garcia, Jordan Hill, Rob McLean, with Bailey Spalding appearing at the shorts start. It is, quite simply, one of the most unique and invigorating slices of Aussie cinema you'll see this year, and after winning the Best Australian Short award at the Oscar qualifying Flickerfest in 2024, and winning the Innovation Award at the St Kilda Film Festival, where it was also nominated for Best Cinematography, and receiving nominations for Best International Short at the Palm Springs Short Fest, Yeah the Boys will be available to view online from 15 October. Ahead of the films launch on Vimeo, YouTube and Instagram, I caught up with Stefan and Vanessa to talk about the process of planning and creating Yeah the Boys, I also ask Vanessa about how she managed to flow organic, natural movements in with the boys dancing, before I close the chat with asking Stefan about how Yeah the Boys plays into his relationship with death. This really is an interview that goes everywhere. For those interested in Stefan's work, including delving into his views on death, head over to StefanHunt.com.Yeah the Boys is a fantastic realisation of creativity let loose, embracing Australiana, warts and all. It stands as a reminder why Aussie films of all lengths need to be recognised and celebrated - short films are films. If you want to find out more about the work we do on The Curb, then head over to TheCurb.com.au. We are a completely independent website that lives on the support of listeners and readers just like you. If you can and want to support us, please visit Patreon.com/thecurbau to keep our lights on from as little as $1 a month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Over the span of eleven minutes, the impressive short film Yeah the Boys sways and swerves through a boozy night with the lads in nondescript backyard Australia. Drinking culture, Aussie larrikinism, and the masculinity that finds fertile ground in these areas is brought to life with a pulsing score by The Avalanches. Oh, and all of this is presented with an the organic dance movements choreographed by Vanessa Marin. Yeah the Boys is written by Vanessa, with her partner Stefan Hunt taking directing duties. The titular boys are Neven Connolly, Kieran Crowe, Hadley Davidson, Jackson Garcia, Jordan Hill, Rob McLean, with Bailey Spalding appearing at the shorts start. It is, quite simply, one of the most unique and invigorating slices of Aussie cinema you'll see this year, and after winning the Best Australian Short award at the Oscar qualifying Flickerfest in 2024, and winning the Innovation Award at the St Kilda Film Festival, where it was also nominated for Best Cinematography, and receiving nominations for Best International Short at the Palm Springs Short Fest, Yeah the Boys will be available to view online from 15 October. Ahead of the films launch on Vimeo, YouTube and Instagram, I caught up with Stefan and Vanessa to talk about the process of planning and creating Yeah the Boys, I also ask Vanessa about how she managed to flow organic, natural movements in with the boys dancing, before I close the chat with asking Stefan about how Yeah the Boys plays into his relationship with death. This really is an interview that goes everywhere. For those interested in Stefan's work, including delving into his views on death, head over to StefanHunt.com.Yeah the Boys is a fantastic realisation of creativity let loose, embracing Australiana, warts and all. It stands as a reminder why Aussie films of all lengths need to be recognised and celebrated - short films are films. If you want to find out more about the work we do on The Curb, then head over to TheCurb.com.au. We are a completely independent website that lives on the support of listeners and readers just like you. If you can and want to support us, please visit Patreon.com/thecurbau to keep our lights on from as little as $1 a month. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

EP428. Vanessa Marin, LMFT and her husband, Xander are the authors of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. One common issue that comes up in marriage post-baby is a lack of intimacy and a loss of connection. We think sex should happen spontaneously and naturally, and that we shouldn't need to do anything to feel desire. It often does feel that way in the beginning of relationships, meaning that couples never have meaningful conversations about sex, what turns them on, what they need to feel connected, or learn how to navigate sexual conflict effectively. So when the honeymoon phase wears off, and the spark dims, couples are left feeling lost if their sex life doesn't live up to what it used to be. In this Episode, Vanessa and Xander help us discover what type of sex drive, sex personality type, and initiation style you have, and then they get into the five essential conversations that every romantic couple should have. RENEE REINA www.themomroom.com Instagram: @themomroompodcast | @thereneereina TikTok: @thereneereina Facebook Community Youtube: Renee Reina- The Mom Room Podcast VANESSA & XANDER Instagram: @vanessaandxander SPONSORS: Little Spoon. ginger + dandelion. Fungies. Hello Bello. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Unlock the secrets to a mind-blowing sex life and deeper intimacy. This boundary-pushing episode brings together three trailblazing experts to shatter myths and reignite your desire.Vanessa Marin provides communication exercises and a "sex menu" to explore new realms of pleasure. Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, shares neuroscience insights to rewire your brain for extraordinary orgasms. And Nicole Prause reveals cutting-edge research on using brain stimulation to boost libido or reduce hypersexuality.From overcoming shame to navigating mismatched drives, they guide you through candid conversations about erotic empowerment. Discover practical techniques to fan the flames of passion, prioritize pleasure, and create profound emotional and physical connections.Whether you're struggling with a dormant sex life or seeking the keys to next-level bliss, this is your roadmap to unlocking ecstasy. Get ready for a pleasure revolution!Episode TranscriptYou can find Vanessa at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with VanessaYou can find Emily at: Website | Instagram | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with EmilyYou can find Nicole at: Website | Twitter | Listen to Our Full-Length Convo with NicoleCheck out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you're feeling the weight of unresolved issues in your intimate relationship, then you are not alone! Couples often struggle to communicate openly about sex and intimacy, leading to frustration and distance instead of connection. But what if there's a way to enhance your communication and connection, even in the midst of challenges? Let's dive into the journey of a couple navigating the complexities of long-term relationships and discover the transformative power of open dialogue and shared experiences.In this episode, you will be able to:Gain insights into managing pelvic floor dysfunction in individuals dealing with Lichen Sclerosus for better everyday comfort and confidence.Explore strategies for maintaining sexual intimacy while managing Lichen Sclerosus to nurture connection and closeness with your partner.Learn how to provide meaningful support to partners coping with Lichen Sclerosus, fostering empathy and understanding in the relationship.Enhance communication about sexual health in long-term relationships, fostering a deeper emotional and physical connection with your partner.My special guests are Annie and MichealAnnie and Michael bring a unique perspective to the conversation as a couple navigating the challenges of living with Lichen Sclerosus. Annie's personal journey with LS, from dealing with misdiagnosis to undergoing a biopsy, provides a firsthand understanding of the physical and emotional toll this condition can take. Michael, as a supportive partner, shares his experiences of navigating the impact of LS on their intimate relationship and the communication challenges they faced during this time. Their honest and open dialogue sheds light on the complexities of managing LS within a long-term relationship, making their insights valuable for others in similar situations.The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Introducing Annie and Michael 00:02:22 - Annie's LS Journey 00:08:25 - Biopsy Process and Support 00:13:02 - Communication and Relationship 00:15:55 - Medical Diagnosis and Initial Concerns 00:17:43 - Age and Diagnosis 00:19:06 - Diagnosis Confirmation and Frustrations 00:23:26 - Partner's Involvement and Education 00:26:35 - Medication Side Effects and Treatment Adjustments 00:30:20 - Advocating for Yourself 00:32:30 - Importance of Education for Doctors 00:36:06 - Impact on Relationships 00:39:37 - Transformation through Communication 00:43:47 - Coping with Stress and Loss 00:45:05 - The Importance of Communication in Relationships 00:47:17 - Broadening Perspectives on Intimacy and Sex 00:51:27 - Seeking Support for Partners and Caregivers 00:55:43 - Journey to Healing with Dr. Bob 00:58:52 - Excitement for the upcoming summit 00:59:27 - Doctor Bab's thorough care 01:00:53 - Virtual visits with Doctor Bab 01:01:37 - Open communication about sex 01:02:38 - Summit topics and invitation Register for the Holistic Healing Summit from May 13th to 17th at lssupportnetwork.org to gain valuable insights and information on intimacy, communication, sexual intimacy, and emotional intimacy in the context of Lichen Sclerosus.Explore the book Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life by Vanessa Marin for valuable guidance on enhancing intimacy and communication in your relationship. https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Talks-Five-Conversations-Transform/dp/1668000016Connect with Dr. Babb, a vulvar specialist, for thorough examinations and expert guidance on managing Lichen Sclerosus. Virtual visits are also available for those who are not local. https://havencenter.comExplore the SweetSpot Labs body wash and other products recommended by Annie for gentle care of the skin, especially for those with Lichen...

Thanks to today's sponsors! Go to https://Zocdoc.com/tfc and download the Zocdoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor. Hungryroot is the easiest way to eat healthy. They send you fresh, high-quality groceries, simple recipes and essential supplements. It's like your personal assistant for healthy living. Right now Hungryroot is offering The Financial Confessions listeners 40% off your first delivery and free veggies for life when you order at https://Hungryroot.com/TFC. **** Chelsea sits down with couple's therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband, Xander, to talk about all things sex therapy, money in relationships, and being childfree. This episode is for educational purposes only. Find Vanessa and Xander here: https://vmtherapy.com/

 This episode, we delve into how spirituality can offer a guiding light in therapy, particularly for those whose faith is intertwined with their quest for healing. We  take a step further into the sacred dance between spirituality and mental health, acknowledging its profound role within communities where church and religious practice are cornerstones of society. From meditation to journaling, we discuss alternative expressions of spirituality and their impact on fostering resilience. **********************MEDIA FOR THIS EPISODE:Armchair Expert reference of Vanessa Marin's podcast: Pillow Talkshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pillow-talks/id1569466131Resin For Connerhttps://resinforconner.com/**********************DISCLAIMER: This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not replace the advice you may be receiving from a licensed therapist.This podcast and website represents the opinions of KathyDan Moore, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Grief Coach Jess Lowe, and their guests to the show and website. The content here should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only, and because each person is so unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.Views and opinions expressed in the podcast and website are our own. While we make every effort to ensure that the information we are sharing is accurate, we welcome any comments, suggestions, or correction of errors.Privacy is of utmost importance to us. All people, places, and scenarios mentioned in the podcast have been changed to protect patient confidentiality.This website or podcast should not be used in any legal capacity whatsoever, including but not limited to establishing “standard of care” in a legal sense or as a basis for expert witness testimony.  No guarantee is given regarding the accuracy of any statements or opinions made on the podcast or website.In no way does listening, reading, emailing or interacting on social media with our content establish a doctor-patient relationship.If you find any errors in any of the content of  these podcasts or blogs, please send a message to kdandjess@spillingthetheratea.com.Podcast Music by:  Lemon Music Have a question for our Asked and Answered Segment? Email Us!AskUs@spillingthetheratea.comFollow us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/spillingthetherateapodcastFollow us on Facebook!https://www.facebook.com/Spilling-the-Thera-Tea-103883072393873/Check out our website!

We just wrapped up this month of The Positively You Book Club, a personal growth book club where we focus on a different area of our life each month. Our focus for February was on relationships, sex, and connection- so the book Sex Talks by Vanessa Marin was the perfect BOTM. Because I know not everyone was able to make it, we made sure to hit record so you too can get in on the conversation (almost like you were there!) So without any more delay, here is the the book club. You're in for a real treat as we dive into "Sex Talks" by Vanessa KEY TAKEAWAYS: *Embrace vulnerability and open dialogue with your partner.*Effective communication is vital for understanding desires and navigating conflicts.*Scheduling sex can provide anticipation and connection, rather than feeling like a chore.*Explore different initiation styles with your partner.*Experiment with spontaneous scheduling to keep intimacy exciting.*Create rituals to strengthen connection and intimacy in your relationship.*Little moments of connection daily are crucial for maintaining desire and closeness.*Yes, No, Maybe List*Awkwardness is the price of admission for a fulfilling sex life.*Continuous connection and communication is key to a fulfilling sex life NEXT STEPS: Join our personal growth book club- it's completely free! You'll grow, connect, make new friends, gain new insights and perspective and so much more! Connect with me on Instagram- it's where all the fun really isLoved this episode? Share is with a friend OTHER EPISODES YOU'LL LOVE: * 150: Simple Steps to Prioritize Your Marriage Everyday * 79: Get Naked: And Other Ways to Learn to Love Your Body*8: How To Have an Awesome Marriage

We wrap up our favorite sex book of the year (so far at least, Joel hasn't read Emily Nagoski's Come Together quite yet...) with Vanessa's last few pieces of advice. We dig into sex menus, sexual personality types, exploration, the "first pancake" rule, and the "F First" principle, all incredibly useful pieces of advice to keep your sex life going strong or bring it back from the dead.  Find a non-AI-written copy of the book here. All credit to Simon and Schuster for use of their cover art. Find a copy of a partner sex survey here. All credit to Marvin Gaye for use of "Let Get it On."DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing the same for Palestine support. Send proof to our email that you made a donation to fight any kind of genocide and we'll send you some stuff in appreciation. Consider some of the following:UN Relief and Works Agency - Desperately needs money since the US and several Western nations cut off funding.Islamic Relief USAWorld Food ProgramWe are now recording through Riverside.fm and producing both video and transcripts of each episode. Find those on our Patreon when we remember to upload tSupport the showSupport the show

February is all about relationships, and I'm thrilled to have my friend, marriage expert, and host of the podcast, Prioritize Your Marriage, Amberly Lambertsen join me today. We're diving deep into the realm of relationships, exploring how to infuse more fun, connection, and intention into our marriages.LINKS YOU NEED: I'd love to know what you thought about this episode. Come chat with me on Instagram!Connect with Today's Guest: A Prioritized Marriage Join The Positively You Book Club- This month we are reading Sex Talks by Vanessa Marin

Welcome to The Tara Talk, your go-to podcast for all things mindset + movement! Today Tara connects with Vanessa Marin to talk about sex, pleasure, and how to communicate your needs.Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin.Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve!Episode Highlights: Fluctuating sex driveHow to communicate your needs with your partnerTips for talking about sexHaving open conversations with friendsLet's talk about butt stuff!How to start with analQuality over quantity with sexSelf pleasure Q&ADirect vs indirect clitoris stimulationDiffering sizes and shapesLube 101How to have the sex talk with kidsCreating an experience for both to enjoyThe Valentines Day Sex Challenge! Are you ready to uplevel your health & fitness with Legion?  Use code TaraTalk for 20% off your first order and double loyalty cash back any order after that when you shop at LegionAthletics.com If this episode resonated please leave a rate & review and share with friends! Your support means so much! Watch the episode on YouTube HERE.  Connect with Vanessa @vanessaandxander Learn more about her courses , resources and podcast HEREFollow along on @taralaferrara for no BS fitness + life advice. Follow along on @thetaratalk for episode updates and extra content.  Sign up for the newsletter HERE and never miss an update!Work with Tara:1:1 coaching (apply to see if this is a fit for you)TL Method (get a FREE week of workouts!)

In part two of Sex Talks we discuss how to have good conversations with your partner, how to start bringing more explicit topics with them, how to improve your mental and physical connection, and how to destigmatize touch in your relationships. Find a non-AI-written copy of the book here. All credit to Simon and Schuster for use of their cover art. DTG despises genocide and continue to support people fighting all forms of it. We're still making monthly donations to local trans funds and have now started doing the same for Palestine support. Send proof to our email that you made a donation to fight any kind of genocide and we'll send you some stuff in appreciation. Consider some of the following:UN Relief and Works Agency - Desperately needs money since the US and several Western nations cut off funding.Islamic Relief USAWorld Food ProgramWe are now recording through Riverside.fm and producing both video and transcripts of each episode. Find those on our Patreon when we remember to upload tSupport the show

In this episode, I go into detail about a post created by sex therapist, Vanessa Marin about "low libido". What she shares in this post is that it's often not a case of "low libido" but a case of one or more other reasons for a woman not wanting sex. I cover each of her reasons and give YOU (the male partner) actions you can take to address each of these reasons. Find Vanessa and Xander on Instagram: @vanessaandxander Listen to Vanessa and Xander's podcast Pillow TalksHealthy Masturbation Masterclass: https://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/qUbyzNoqSubscribe to my YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiCp3BxQ_pz4-tQRZQCd6swWORK WITH ME 1:1 https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9Join Sex Meditationshttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/offers/2gA2VzBHPE COURSEhttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/endyourpenowGET WEEKLY SEX TIPShttps://www.stephanieganowski.com/news-letterINSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/stephganowski/Sex And The Office podcast Andrew and I started a podcast

Today on the podcast, I'm talking through the Gypsy Rose case (the little I know about it), higher powers protecting us, the major difference in sex organs, and the questions I've been asking lately.Links from episode:Vanessa Marin on Armchair ExpertVanessa Marin on PaleOMG UncensoredJust The Inserts

Sex educator Emily Nagoski reveals how to sustain passionate intimacy over the long haul with research from her groundbreaking new book, Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections.She explains why pleasure trumps desire, how stress impacts connection, and the importance of open communication about desires. Emily offers practical steps to invite more pleasure into relationships as bodies change, and rejects cultural grind in favor of ease. Her insights on nourishing intimacy through pleasure can enrich partnerships when we center what truly matters. You can find Emily at: Website | Instagram | Episode TranscriptIf you LOVED this episode you'll also love the conversations we had with Vanessa Marin about how to talk about sex.Check out our offerings & partners: My New Book SparkedMy New Podcast SPARKEDVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Vanessa Marin (Pillow Talks, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life) is a sex therapist and podcaster. Vanessa joins the Armchair Expert to discuss her experience getting the “the talk” from her parents, why there is often so much shame around sexuality, and how much stress kills libido. Vanessa and Dax discuss how vulnerability and neediness differ, how sex is often more focused on male pleasure, and responsive vs spontaneous desire. Vanessa talks about the psychology involved when initiating sex, the importance of understanding that emotional and physical intimacy go hand-in-hand, and when to best talk to your partner about sex. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Vanessa Marin (Pillow Talks, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life) is a sex therapist and podcaster. Vanessa joins the Armchair Expert to discuss her experience getting the "the talk" from her parents, why there is often so much shame around sexuality, and how much stress kills libido. Vanessa and Dax discuss how vulnerability and neediness differ, how sex is often more focused on male pleasure, and responsive vs spontaneous desire. Vanessa talks about the psychology involved when initiating sex, the importance of understanding that emotional and physical intimacy go hand-in-hand, and when to best talk to your partner about sex. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome to "Shit Talking Shrinks," I'm your host Paulie Siegel, a Licensed therapist, Certified Addiction Counselor and master-level trained mindfulness practitioner with a passion for psychology, humor, and insightful journeys through the realm of mental wellness. Join me as we explore the depths of the human mind, unraveling complexities while keeping it lighthearted.Joining me are Vanessa Marin, a seasoned licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field, and her husband Xander, a regular guy who's navigated marriage to a sex therapist for over a decade. Together, they've co-authored the book, "Sex Talks: The Five Conversations that Will Transform Your Love Life," and are the hosts of the podcast, Pillow Talk.In this episode, we're getting down and dirty about how to amp up your bedroom game, deepen those heart-to-heart connections, and ride out the highs and lows of your relationship. Feeling stuck? They've got the lowdown on how to shake things up. And, of course, learn the secrets to keeping the love alive through thick and thin. Vanessa and Xander share more about starting those crucial convos with your partner.Join us for a candid and light-hearted chat that combines professional wisdom with real-life experiences from a couple who knows the ins and outs of making love last. This episode is all about laughs, insights, and practical tips to make your love life better. Don't miss out—tune in now!Learn more about Vanessa & Xander at: vmtherapy.comFollow Vanessa & Xander on Instagram: @vanessaandxanderConnect with Vanessa & Xander on Facebook: @vanessaandxanderFollow Vanessa & Xander on TikTok: @vanessaandxanderIf you want to work with me therapeutically and live in CO or ILhttps://www.courageouspathscounseling.comNeed quality therapy ASAP?! Receive 10% off your first month by clicking this link

We are SO excited (or rather, aroused) to do this episode about faking orgasms! We brought in sex therapist and bestselling author Vanessa Marin to chat about how many women are faking orgasms, why we do it, how to stop doing it, and how to talk to your partner if you've been faking for a while (or forever!). We also break down how to end the sexual experience when you don't know how, reframing “good sex” even when there isn't a climax, and how to mix up the order you do things in the bedroom so everyone gets off. And we even touch on men having difficulty reaching orgasm. Before Vanessa joins us, we're catching up on Ashley meeting her boyfriend's parents, Rayna's awkward vibrator moment with her family, and we have a very special (official) debut from TESSA! We're also introducing new Vibes Only products – handcuffs anyone? Enjoy! Follow Vanessa on Instagram at @vanessaandxander, get her book Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, listen to her podcast Pillow Talks, and visit vmtherapy.com for more. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Buffy: Get $20 off your order at buffy.co with promo code GGE. Nutrafol: Get $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping at nutrafol.com when you use  promo code GGE. Hello Fresh: Get one breakfast item per box while subscription is active at hellofresh.com/ggefree and use code GGEFREE. SKIMS: Get free shipping on orders over $75 at skims.com. Hinge: Download Hinge and find someone worth deleting the app for at hin.ge/gge.

On this week's episode, Joelle finally booked sex therapist, Vanessa Marin, and her partner, Xander. Donald brings CaCee down for a quick session, and Zach does a dramatic reading from Vanessa and Xander's book. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Looking to unravel the mysteries of sexual desire and its impact on living a fulfilled life? In this eye-opening episode, renowned neuroscientist Nicole Prause dives deep into the science of sexual motivation and how it influences our relationships and overall well-being.Understanding Sexual Desire: What is it? Why is it essential to our lives, and how is it changeable?Myth-busting and Research Insights: Nicole shares why differences in sexual desire are normal and introduces groundbreaking work on brain stimulation to change individual desire.Impact on Health: Discover how the neuroscience of orgasm can enhance pleasure, relationships, and physical and mental health, affecting everything from inflammation to sleep.Don't miss this engaging conversation that's not just about sex but about embracing an essential and healthy part of life. You can find Nicole at: Website | Twitter | Episode TranscriptIf you LOVED this episode you'll also love the conversations we had with Vanessa Marin about how to have open and honest about sex.Check out our offerings & partners: My New Book SparkedMy New Podcast SPARKED. To submit your “moment & question” for consideration to be on the show go to sparketype.com/submit. Visit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this best of episode, we are here to release the shame and taboo around ALL conversations that surround women's health, including sex education. In this episode, guest and sex expert and therapist Vanessa Marin, shares how to have more orgasms and improve your sex life. In this episode we discuss: When Vanessa knew she wanted to study sex therapy as she was becoming a psychotherapist. I have a lot of women who listen to the show struggle with their relationships with their bodies. This can translate into a hard time being comfortable in the bedroom, speaking up for what they want, and pleasing others before themselves. Vanessa shares tips to help you begin to speak up for yourself and your needs. Where you start if you are not having enough orgasms, and how to know if you are having an orgasms. How to speak up and share with your partner what you like and what feels good. How Vanessa practices wellness without obsession.   A few important announcements: Private coaching offers you personalized support to reach your goals of food and body peace. Megan, our lead dietitian at Nourishing Minds Nutrition, is currently accepting new clients. Click here to learn more! The annual Summer Reset is officially ready for you! If you are ready to say NO to "get bikini body ready" messages and reset how you view food, exercise and your body this summer, download our free mini-course to help you learn how to reset your mindset. Help us grow the podcast! By leaving a written review and taking a screenshot of that review and emailing it to me at hello@nourishingmindsnutrition.com, I'll send you back your choice of the Meal Planning Guide, Gentle Nutrition Masterclass or Fear of Weight Gain Masterclass for completely free to say thank you.   Let's hang out! Connect with Victoria and the staff at NMN: Victoria's Instagram and Tik Tok Nourishing Minds Nutrition Instagram Nourishing Minds Nutrition website

Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin is back on the pod to discuss how we can all make sex more ENJOYABLE. She shares with us:  How we can stop faking our orgasms and experiment with real pleasure;  How to communicate honestly with our partners about what we want in bed; and Why masturbation can be an opportunity for self-exploration and reclamation. She also offers empowering advice for individuals recovering from sexual trauma.  Plus, Glennon contemplates writing erotica.  CW: Discussion of sex after sexual trauma  For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin, Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin, and Episode 213 Sex Fantasies: What Do They Say About Us? with Vanessa Marin. About Vanessa: Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin. Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve! TW: @VMTherapy IG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode, Stassi is joined by her husband Beau Clark to discuss a previous episode Stassi did with sex therapist, Vanessa Marin. After listening to the episode recently, Beau had some thoughts on both concepts shared by Vanessa and Stassi's answers. This is an honest, raw conversation about about sex and intimacy in Stassi and Beau's marriage. Stassi discovered Vanessa Marin after her viral Tiktok about making out with her husband each night to increase intimacy. During their podcast a couple weeks ago, Vanessa and Stassi discussed several topics including different sex drive types, five conversations that will transform your sex life, and how to create the sex life you want and deserve - all from her book, Sex Talks. If you haven't already, go back and listen to that podcast before this one! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode, Stassi is joined by her husband Beau Clark to discuss a previous episode Stassi did with sex therapist, Vanessa Marin. After listening to the episode recently, Beau had some thoughts on both concepts shared by Vanessa and Stassi's answers. This is an honest, raw conversation about about sex and intimacy in Stassi and Beau's marriage. Stassi discovered Vanessa Marin after her viral Tiktok about making out with her husband each night to increase intimacy. During their podcast a couple weeks ago, Vanessa and Stassi discussed several topics including different sex drive types, five conversations that will transform your sex life, and how to create the sex life you want and deserve - all from her book, Sex Talks. If you haven't already, go back and listen to that podcast before this one! 

Sex and relationship expert Vanessa Marin discusses the taboo nature of discussing sex and how it can lead to unmet needs and dissatisfaction in relationships. Her new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, provides practical exercises and dialogue prompts to improve communication around intimacy, breaking down shame and stigma. Through open discussions on touchy subjects and setting rituals for intimacy, Marin believes couples can foster deeper connection, igniting intimacy and enhancing their love lives.Many people struggle to openly discuss sex due to shame and stigma.Open communication about sex and intimacy is important for a healthy relationship.Vanessa recommends five core conversations: acknowledgment, connection, desire, pleasure, and exploration.She provides practical methods to make these conversations easier.Rituals like makeout routines can create intimacy Understanding one's desires, boundaries, and pleasures enables satisfying communication.Giving positive feedback during sex helps partners figure out each other's pleasures.Scheduling sex demonstrates priorities but reframing as "planning" can help.You can find Vanessa at: Website | InstagramIf you LOVED this episode you'll also love the conversations we had with Eli Finkel about the self-actualized marriage.Check out our offerings & partners: My New Book SparkedMy New Podcast SPARKEDVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is back and we're digging into: why we're (sadly and ironically) proven to be less likely to try new things in the bedroom the longer we've been partnered; how to spice up your sex life when things get bland – including how to find out and explore your sexual fantasies; how not all orgasms (even for men!) are created equal; and the TikTok sex challenges we should probably pass on. For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin and Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin. About Vanessa: Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin. Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve! Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker. TW: @VMTherapy IG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode, Stassi sits down with Vanessa Marin, a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Stassi first found Vanessa through her viral Tiktok where she shares how she and her husband make out every day with the pure intention of connecting and intimacy.  Vanessa tells Stassi why she and her husband started this tradition, and how it's positively affected their relationship. Stassi and Vanessa then discuss different sex drive types, five conversations that will transform your sex life, and how to create the sex life you want and deserve! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this episode, Stassi sits down with Vanessa Marin, a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field. Stassi first found Vanessa through her viral Tiktok where she shares how she and her husband make out every day with the pure intention of connecting and intimacy.  Vanessa tells Stassi why she and her husband started this tradition, and how it's positively affected their relationship. Stassi and Vanessa then discuss different sex drive types, five conversations that will transform your sex life, and how to create the sex life you want and deserve! 

Amanda's epiphany on Alice's school Picture Day about the destructive messages we're inadvertently sending our kids; our forced pursuit of happiness in photos with our families; why family photo shoots bring out the worst in us; and why we should allow ourselves and our people to just look like we look.  Check out past episodes mentioned: Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin and Episode 125 WHY ARE THERE NO PICTURES OF US?!? To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We're chatting with Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander about their new book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life. She's a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he's a regular dude. Together they share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. We're talking all about communicating in relationships and how to keep long term relationships spicy.  Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast, @RemyKassimir, @vanessaandxander Sign up for our newsletter howcumpodcast.com    Check out our website for extra info & merch! RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE 

A physical connection is an important part of a romantic relationship, so Jana is doing some dirty talk with sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander to find out how to be more open about sex. They share some incredible tips you can use with your partner tonight to normalize talking about sexuality in your relationship. And, they share the BIGGEST mistake couples make when trying to broaden their sexual horizons. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

1. How to finally discover what turns us on, how to discuss turn-offs – and how to create “sex menus” with our partners. 2. The real reason so many of us don't feel like having sex.  3. How to ask for more sex – and how to turn it down without hurting your partner.  4. Orgasm – why it's not the whole shebang – and what to do if we've been faking it.  5. Glennon and Abby engage in an exercise to practice talking dirty. (Glennon has not recovered.) For the first part of our conversation with Vanessa, check out Episode 195: Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin. And to hear our original “Silent Sex Queen” episode, go way back and check out: Episode 14: SILENT SEX QUEEN: Why aren't we talking about sex more? About Vanessa:  Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin. Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve! Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker. TW: @VMTherapy IG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Two silent sex queens & Abby invite sex therapist Vanessa Marin onto the pod and into their bedrooms to discuss:  1. Practical, concrete tips for how to get over your discomfort and talk about sex with your partner – and how Vanessa's advice is currently working for Glennon and Abby.   2. Why women tend to struggle receiving during sex – and how hustle culture shows up in the bedroom. 3. How to activate desire instead of shame when asking for more frequent or different sex. 4. A great tip for how to “post-game” about what you like and appreciate after sex.  For the first “Silent Sex Queen” conversation, go way back and check out: Episode 14: SILENT SEX QUEEN: Why aren't we talking about sex more? About Vanessa:  Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin. Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve! Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker. TW: @VMTherapy IG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

We could not love this episode more, and are so happy for you to hear our conversation with sex therapist Vanessa Marin about communication in your sex life. She explains how to bring up a sexual slump or frustrations in your relationship with the exact language to use and type of conversations to have, how to tell your partner to stop doing something you don't like and start doing what you do like, techniques for spanking and choking and how to get your partner to do these things the way you want it (and vice versa), the best way to 69, and more. Before Vanessa joins us, we're chatting about Ashley's unexpected erotic encounter and Rayna's secret dream job, and discussing those feelings of "all my friends are married" that can creep in especially during the holidays. Enjoy! Follow Vanessa on Instagram @VanessaAndXander, preorder her book Sex Talks HERE, and check out her website for more. Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Babbel: Go to babbel.com/gge for up to 60% off your subscription. Living Proof: Go to livingproof.com/gge and use code GGELP to get 10% off your first purchase. Tushy: Save 30% when you go to hellotushy.com/gge with promo code BROWNFRIDAY. Osea: Get 10% off your first order with promo code GGE at oseamalibu.com.