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ONLY TIME THIS YEAR > Live Training Series: 3 Days to Make Bank Online Register for FREE HERE (Starts next week March 3rd) Feeling like work owns your life? You're not alone. If you're struggling with burnout, feeling overwhelmed at work, or wondering how to actually achieve work-life balance in a world that demands more and more from us. I sit down with world-renowned psychologist Dr. Guy Winch, author of Mind Over Grind, to discuss practical, science-backed strategies for burnout recovery and how to reclaim your time, energy, and mental health. RESOURCES MENTIONED: **ONLY TIME THIS YEAR** > 3 Days to Make Bank Online Live Training Series Register for FREE HERE (hosted on a private YouTube Live!). VIP tickets also available! **Abundance Sale Ending** Make More Work Less: The Money Relationship Healing & Manifestation Program GET THIS LIMITED TIME OFFER HERE >> Join the famous ProjectME Posse Business & Money Coaching Membership HERE CONNECT WITH TIFF: Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany Tiffany on TikTok @projectme_with_tiffany Tiffany on YouTube: ProjectME TV Tiffany's FREE Abundance Email Community: JOIN HERE > The Secret Posse Digest CONNECT WITH DR. GUY WINCH: Psychologist, TED speaker, and author of Mind Over Grind BOOK: GET IT HERE "MIND OVER GRIND" INSTAGRAM: @guywinch WEBSITE: guywinch.com We're covering: > Why burnout is a systemic issue, not a personal failure — and how entrepreneur burnout differs from corporate burnout > Realistic boundaries at work that actually protect your time and mental health > How to disconnect from work without guilt or anxiety (especially if you run an online business) > The psychology behind why we feel so distracted, stressed, and overwhelmed > Sustainable business models that let you work less and make more money without sacrificing your well-being This isn't about toxic positivity or grinding harder. This is about time management strategies and stress management techniques backed by research — tools you can implement today to stop feeling overwhelmed and start prioritizing your life. Whether you're dealing with work anxiety, trying to build passive income streams, or just exhausted from working too much, this conversation will give you a roadmap to build a more sustainable business and life.
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A new book is attempting to help people deal with stress and work burnout, taking readers through the days of the week and how each day exerts different stresses on our minds.Joining Seán to discuss is Guy Winch, Psychologist and author of ‘Mind Over Grind'...
A new book is attempting to help people deal with stress and work burnout, taking readers through the days of the week and how each day exerts different stresses on our minds.Joining Seán to discuss is Guy Winch, Psychologist and author of ‘Mind Over Grind'...
Get AudioBooks for FreeBest Self-improvement MotivationFix a Broken Heart with Guy Winch Proven AdviceDiscover science-backed emotional recovery strategies on Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik. Learn how to heal heartbreak and rebuild emotional strength.Get AudioBooks for FreeWe Need Your Love & Support ❤️https://buymeacoffee.com/myinspiration#Motivational_Speech#motivation #inspirational_quotes #motivationalspeech Get AudioBooks for Free Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Feeling burned out? You may be spending too much time ruminating about your job, says psychologist Guy Winch. Learn how to stop worrying about tomorrow's tasks or stewing over office tensions with three simple techniques aimed at helping you truly relax and recharge after work.This episode originally aired on December 9, 2019.Learn more about our flagship conference happening this April at attend.ted.com/podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Internationally renowned psychologist and author Dr. Guy Winch reveals the biggest misconceptions about work-life balance, and how the pandemic presented an opportunity that didn't quite pan out.Hear Dr. Winch's full interview in his special bonus episode of The Action Catalyst.
This week, Amanda is joined by psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch (@guywinch) to overthink workaholism. Why being “busy” feels virtuous, why burnout can masquerade as success, and how overworking often hides deeper emotional needs. Together, they unpack the psychology behind overwork and the quiet ways it can become a socially acceptable addiction. The conversation offers a new lens on why so many of our attempts at “work/life balance” leave us feeling even more depleted and what it might actually take to build a life that feels sustainable instead of performative. A reflective spiral about rest, self-worth, and learning that you are more than what you produce. - Join the "Magical Overthinkers Club" by following the pod on Instagram @magicaloverthinkers. - To access early, ad-free episodes and more, subscribe to the Magical Overthinkers Substack. - Pick up Amanda's book The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality, or listen to the audiobook. Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://SHOPIFY.COM/magical To learn more about how to support Minnesota's immigrant communities, check out this MSP Mag article, which shares several ways to offer help or find support. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
This episode is brought to you by Alma. Visit https://helloalma.com/dg/?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=paid&utm_campaign=privatepractice to learn more Get the Couples Therapy 101 course: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/ Join the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new Join The Couples Therapist Couch Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/295562197518469/ In this episode, Shane talks with Guy Winch about when work stress impacts the relationship. Guy is a Psychologist, Speaker, and Author who's a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. Hear why it's hard to leave work at work, how work stress works, how to help your clients separate work stress from home life, how much to structure your week, and what we can learn from firefighters. To learn more about Guy Winch, his latest book Mind Over Grind, and his podcast Dear Therapists, visit: GuyWinch.com Mind Over Grind Dear Therapists You can also listen to Guy Winch on Episode 202 of The Couples Therapist Couch
Get AudioBooks for FreeBest Self-improvement MotivationHealing Emotional Wounds | Guy Winch & Jim KwikLearn how to heal emotional wounds with Guy Winch and Jim Kwik. Discover powerful psychological strategies to overcome pain, build resilience, and restore confidence.Get AudioBooks for FreeWe Need Your Love & Support ❤️https://buymeacoffee.com/myinspiration#Motivational_Speech#motivation #inspirational_quotes #motivationalspeech Get AudioBooks for Free Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Send a textDr. Guy Winch, bestselling author and psychologist, joins Joe to discuss his newest book, Mind Over Grind to explore how job stress quietly spills beyond the office—and into our evenings, our sleep, and our relationships.What starts as a difficult meeting or looming deadline doesn't end at 1700. It follows us home. From the “Sunday Scaries” to 2AM rumination loops, Guy explains how modern work keeps us stuck in fight-or-flight—and why we're often blind to the ways we sabotage our future selves in the process.Joe reflects on his time in command and the culture of constant availability in the military, while Guy highlights research showing that leaders have far more power to reduce stress than they realize. Sometimes it's not about solving the problem—just showing that you care.They also spend time on practical tools: reframing procrastination, managing rumination, cultivating a better relationship with your “future self,” and creating intentional rituals that signal the workday is over.Watch the full interview on YouTube!Joe and Guy also discuss:Why the dread of Monday is often worse than Monday itselfHow procrastination is really about avoiding feelings—not tasksThe danger of treating your future self like a strangerHow to stop replaying failures at 2AMThe “Memoir Test” for putting problems in perspectiveWhy naming your emotions reduces their intensityHow journaling helps you spot recurring “icebergs” in your lifeWhy Instagram reels don't actually relax youThe science behind clothing, rituals, and mental transitionsWhether you're in the military, the corporate world, or building something of your own, this episode is a reminder that stress doesn't stay at work—and that managing your inner world is part of leading well.A Special Thanks to Our Sponsors!Veteran-founded Adyton. Step into the next generation of equipment management with Log-E by Adyton. Whether you are doing monthly inventories or preparing for deployment, Log-E is your pocket property book, giving real-time visibility into equipment status and mission readiness. Learn more about how Log-E can revolutionize your property tracking process here!Meet ROGER Bank—a modern, digital bank built for military members, by military members. With early payday, no fees, high-yield accounts, and real support, it's banking that gets you. Funds are FDIC insured through Citizens Bank of Edmond, so you can bank with confidence and peace of mind. Logistics Systems Incorporated (LSI) is a Service-Disabled Veteran-Owned Small Business supporting DoD and federal civilian agencies with enterprise IT operations, global logistics support, cybersecurity, data, and mission support services. Founded by a veteran Army leader, LSI is known for operating inside complex, high-consequence environments where leadership, discipline, and execution matter. Their teams support large user communities and mission-critical systems across defense and civilian agencies.
Dr. Guy Winch is a psychologist and bestselling author who advocates for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. He and Paul talk about the science of burnout and offer insights and practical tips for managing burnout--and avoiding it altogether. For more, look for his new book Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your LifeMore about Guy:His new book: Mind Over Grind https://www.guywinch.com/books/mind-over-grind/Guy's website: www.GuyWinch.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/guywinchauthor/IG: https://www.instagram.com/guywinch/?hl=enYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/guywinchThis episode is sponsored by Greenleaf Book Club. Pick up your copy of Mountains to Cross wherever books are sold!This episode is sponsored Quince. Go to www.Quince.com/mental for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too.If you're interested in seeing or buying the furniture that Paul designs and makes follow his IG @ShapedFurniture or visit the website www.shapedfurniture.comWAYS TO HELP THE MIHH PODCASTSubscribe via Apple Podcasts (or whatever player you use). It costs nothing. It's extremely helpful to have your subscription set to download all episodes automatically. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mental-illness-happy-hour/id427377900?mt=2Spread the word via social media. It costs nothing.Our website is www.mentalpod.com our FB is www.Facebook.com/mentalpod and our Twitter and Instagram are both @Mentalpod Become a much-needed Patreon monthly-donor (with occasional rewards) for as little as $1/month at www.Patreon.com/mentalpod Become a one-time or monthly donor via PayPal at https://mentalpod.com/donateYou can also donate via Zelle (make payment to mentalpod@gmail.com) To donate via Venmo make payment to @Mentalpod See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
When the world feels overwhelming and out of control, where do we actually regain our power? This week on The Lo Life, Lo sits down with renowned psychologist, bestselling author, and TED speaker Dr. Guy Winch, one of the leading voices in emotional health, for a deeply timely conversation about boundaries, stress, and emotional resilience in chaotic times.Known for his bestselling books Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart, and TED Talks viewed by millions worldwide, Dr. Winch brings practical, real-life psychology to the everyday struggles we all face. Together, Lo and Dr. Winch unpack how to set boundaries with defensive partners, navigate tit-for-tat conflict patterns, and master the art of a healthy apology — especially when the other person struggles with accountability. The episode also explores the hidden signs of chronic stress, emotional overload, and how to focus on what's actually within your control when life, relationships, and the outside world feel overwhelming.Insightful, relatable, and highly actionable, this episode gives listeners the tools to protect their mental and emotional well-being, communicate more effectively in relationships, and stay grounded even when everything around them feels uncertain. A must-listen for anyone feeling emotionally stretched, relationship-fatigued, or craving healthier dynamics in both their personal and professional life.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Burnout isn't you being “unmotivated.” It's your brain and body stuck in survival mode — and most people try to fix it with advice that doesn't actually work. In this episode, clinical psychologist Guy Winch breaks down what burnout really is, why “just take a break” often fails, and the simple resets that help you get your energy, focus, and patience back. Here's what you'll learn: Why modern work stress keeps creeping into your life The stress “sweet spot” (and what happens when you go past it) Why doom-scrolling feels like rest… but drains you more How to take breaks that restore you instead of numbing you Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Guy Winch Buy Now Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life by Guy Wich www.guywinch.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
In this eye-opening interview, Dr. Dan Peters talks with internationally renowned psychologist Guy Winch to explore how emotional health, rumination, and chronic stress quietly hijack our lives highlighting that burnout doesn't happen overnight, and it doesn't stay at work when the workday ends. Dr. Dan and Guy also discuss his new book Mind Over Grind: How To Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life. Guy shares why burnout clouds our judgment, why rumination is one of the most damaging (and overlooked) habits in modern work culture, and how emotional health skills can prevent anxiety and depression before they become clinical. Dr. Dan and Guy unpack the science behind mental detachment, responsibility-taking, and why recovery not productivity must come first. On this episode listeners will learn practical, science-backed strategies to break the cycle of rumination and mental replay, recover from burnout, create psychological boundaries when working from home and reclaim evenings/relationships/personal identity from work. This episode is a grounded, actionable reminder that while we can't always change our external circumstances, but we can change how we experience them. Dr. Dan and Guy empower us all with their message that emotional health is a daily practice and daily choice – at home and at work. For more information visit www.guywinch.com and follow @guywinch on Instagram. Please listen, follow, rate, and review Make It a Great One on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Follow @drdanpeters on social media. Visit www.drdanpeters.com and send your questions or guest pitches to podcast@drdanpeters.com. We have this moment, this day, and this life—let's make it a great one. – Dr. Dan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Burnout isn't you being “unmotivated.” It's your brain and body stuck in survival mode — and most people try to fix it with advice that doesn't actually work. In this episode, clinical psychologist Guy Winch breaks down what burnout really is, why “just take a break” often fails, and the simple resets that help you get your energy, focus, and patience back. Here's what you'll learn: Why modern work stress keeps creeping into your life The stress “sweet spot” (and what happens when you go past it) Why doom-scrolling feels like rest… but drains you more How to take breaks that restore you instead of numbing you Negotiate Anything: Take your personal data back with Incogni! Use code ANYTHING at the link below and get 60% off an annual plan: https://incogni.com/anything incogni.com Personal Information Removal Service | Incogni | Incogni Data brokers are collecting, aggregating and trading your personal data without you knowing anything about it. We make them remove it. Connect with Guy Winch Buy Now Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life by Guy Wich www.guywinch.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Dating can burn you out . . . especially when you've been rejected, ghosted, or stuck in that exhausting loop where nothing ever turns into something real. In Part 2 of my conversation with clinical psychologist Guy Winch, we get into how to stop showing up in “don't mess this up!” mode, how to shift from avoiding loss to actually going for connection, and how to date in a way that protects your energy.We also tackle modern dating burnout—why it turns into cynicism, how to spot the patterns keeping you stuck, the “coffee date” debate, the “burned haystack” method, and real red flags vs. over-filtering.---------►► Grab your copy of Dr. Guy Winch's new book Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life at guywinch.com/books/mind-over-grind ►►
Do you ever get home from work exhausted… but then your brain won't stop replaying everything that happened?In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. Guy Winch — psychologist, bestselling author, and the speaker behind one of the most-watched TED Talks on emotional first aid — to explain what's really happening when you “can't switch off”… and why that mental spiral is basically unpaid overtime.We break down why your mind treats rumination like you're still at work, how that quietly fuels burnout, and the practical ways to “fight back” — including a simple transition ritual that helps you shift out of work mode and actually recover (even if you're not physically tired).This episode will help you change your life by changing your mind, so you can stop doing mental overtime after work — and get your evenings (and your relationships) back.Dr. Guy Winch is a licensed psychologist and author of Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life and Emotional First Aid.-Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction(01:08) The Illusion of Physical Exhaustion(02:53) Ruminating on Work Issues(05:58) The Impact of Overworking(08:10) Neglecting Self-Care(09:52) The Importance of Emotional Health(11:41) The Rise of Mental Health Awareness(13:16) Practical Tools for Mental Well-being(14:03) Introduction to the Free Masterclass(14:33) Guest Introduction and Background(15:03) The Psychology of Rejection(17:05) Managing Mental Resources(19:15) New Book: Mind Over Grind(23:02) The Trap of Overworking(26:36) Defining Success Beyond Professional Achievements(27:25) Balancing Work and Personal Life(29:05) The Illusion of Social Media Success(34:32) The Importance of Transition Rituals(39:13) Feeling Stuck: How to Reframe Your Story(45:38) Final Thoughts and AdviceGet the FREE Move Your Mind Masterclass here:go.nickbracks.com/moveyourmindAccess FREE Move Your Mind training here:https://go.moveyourmind.io/trainingConnect with Nick:Instagram: https://instagram.com/nickbracksWebsite: http://nickbracks.comEmail: contact@nickbracks.comConnect with Dr. Guy:Website: https://www.guywinch.com/Check out his Book: https://www.guywinch.com/books/mind-over-grind/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Dr. Guy Winch explains why we must treat emotional injuries with the same urgency as physical ones. "We ruminate, we beat ourselves up, we criticize ourselves, we think we're weak… and we end up compounding the emotional injury." He introduces the idea of "emotional first aid" and why we need a psychological toolbox to stop that downward spiral. Guy breaks down the difference between how we respond to physical pain versus emotional pain. "We go to the medicine cabinet for a physical injury, but we have no cabinet for emotional injuries." He explains why we must learn emotional hygiene: "The injuries don't just go away." We also discuss how emotional neglect works and the long-term consequences of unacknowledged wounds. "The mind does not heal itself. The mind broods." Finally, Guy offers a new model for how to respond when people open up to you emotionally. "Start with compassion. You can offer logic later." Key Insights: Insight 1: "We ruminate, we beat ourselves up, we criticize ourselves, we think we're weak… and we end up compounding the emotional injury." This explains why emotional pain often intensifies over time without care — because we engage in harmful self-dialogue instead of healing practices. Insight 2: "The mind does not heal itself. The mind broods." Guy challenges the myth that emotional wounds naturally heal. Without intervention, the mind tends to replay and deepen the pain. Insight 3: "We go to the medicine cabinet for a physical injury, but we have no cabinet for emotional injuries." He contrasts our well-established responses to physical pain with the absence of tools for emotional distress — and why this gap needs to be closed. Insight 4: "Emotional hygiene is about treating those injuries when they occur and trying to prevent them in the first place." He introduces emotional hygiene as a proactive and reactive strategy, just like physical hygiene protects against illness and injury. Insight 5: "Start with compassion. You can offer logic later." This is a clear framework for responding to others in distress — showing why empathy should precede problem-solving. Action Items: "Start with compassion. You can offer logic later." Use this sequence when someone shares emotional pain. "The first step is to recognize the injury for what it is." Acknowledge when you've been emotionally hurt. Label it. "Would I say this to a friend? If the answer is no, then don't say it to yourself." A reframe technique to interrupt self-criticism. "You don't take one antibiotic and stop. You have to do the course. It's the same with emotional first aid." Practice emotional tools consistently, not just once. "Rumination is like a psychological infection. And so what you need to do is stop the infection from spreading." Interrupt rumination cycles early. "You have to override your own instinct." Emotionally healthy responses often require pushing against our natural urges to withdraw or self-blame. Get Mind Over Grind, here: https://tinyurl.com/49mshdmv Claim your free gift: Free gift #1 McKinsey & BCG winning resume www.FIRMSconsulting.com/resumePDF Free gift #2 Breakthrough Decisions Guide with 25 AI Prompts www.FIRMSconsulting.com/decisions Free gift #3 Five Reasons Why People Ignore Somebody www.FIRMSconsulting.com/owntheroom Free gift #4 Access episode 1 from Build a Consulting Firm, Level 1 www.FIRMSconsulting.com/build Free gift #5 The Overall Approach used in well-managed strategy studies www.FIRMSconsulting.com/OverallApproach Free gift #6 Get a copy of Nine Leaders in Action, a book we co-authored with some of our clients: www.FIRMSconsulting.com/gift
We kicked off the program with four news stories and different guests on the stories we think you need to know about!Penny's demise triggers rounding legislation for cash transactions Guest: Colin Young – State House News reporter & Deputy Editor Habitat for Humanity of Greater Lowell creates partnership with Minuteman Technical Institute to give students a project where they can gain tangible job skills, outside of the classroom at their build site in Concord, Massachusetts. Guest: Sheilagh Carlisle – Executive Director of Habitat for Humanity of Greater Lowell Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life Guest: Dr. Guy Winch – licensed psychologist and author Catherine O’Hara died from a pulmonary embolism. Cancer was the underlying cause. What you need to know about pulmonary embolisms and whether they are preventable… Guest: Harrison Farber, MD, Pulmonologist and Director of the Pulmonary Embolism Response Team at Tufts Medical Center See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, Guy Winch discusses the concept of mind over grind along with practical tips to manage work stress and enhance your well-being. He explains the pervasive impact of work-related stress, the cultural glorification of overwork, and how chronic stress leads to burnout. Guy also shares strategies for reframing stress, breaking the cycle of rumination, and intentionally recovering from mental fatigue. The conversation emphasizes the importance of conscious effort, mindset shifts, and small daily actions to restore work-life balance and protect mental health in a world where work often hijacks our lives. Take our quick 2-minute survey and help us improve your listening experience: oneyoufeed.net/survey Exciting News!!! Coming in March, 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders! Key Takeaways: Impact of work-related stress on personal life and mental health Imbalance between work life and personal life leading to burnout Chronic nature of modern work stress and its effects Psychological framing of stress: “challenge state” vs. “threat state” Cultural romanticization of overwork and hustle culture Importance of conscious effort to maintain work-life balance Strategies for managing stress and avoiding burnout The role of mindset in stress perception and performance Techniques to interrupt rumination and intrusive thoughts Importance of engaging in meaningful activities for mental recovery For full show notes: click here! If you enjoyed this conversation with Guy Winch, check out these other episodes: Emotional First Aid with Guy Winch How to Recognize the Hidden Signs of Burnout with Leah Weiss How to Deal with Burnout Through Self-Compassion with Kristin Neff By purchasing products and/or services from our sponsors, you are helping to support The One You Feed and we greatly appreciate it. Thank you! This episode is sponsored by: David Protein Try David is offering our listeners a special deal: buy 4 cartons and get the 5th free when you go to davidprotein.com/FEED. Hungry Root: For a limited time get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to www.hungryroot.com/feed and use promo code: FEED. IQ Bar: Text FEED to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, including the ultimate sampler pack, plus FREE shipping. (Message and data rates may apply). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Internationally renowned psychologist and author Dr. Guy Winch shares how a life-changing event in an elevator set him on his path, reveals the biggest misconceptions about work-life balance, and explains how to distinguish between true physical and mental fatigue, burdens vs. nuisances, using “stress thermometers”, and when to take email intermissions.
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In this episode of the SuperPsyched Podcast, host Dr. Adam Dorsay chats with returning guest Dr. Guy Winch, a psychologist, TED speaker, and bestselling author, about his new book 'Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life.' They discuss common myths about work, the impact of workplace stress on personal lives, and the rise of workplace bullying. Dr. Winch shares insights on managing job stress, the importance of emotional intelligence, and practical tips for optimizing work-life balance. He also offers actionable advice on making vacations more restorative and the essential practice of detaching from work to improve overall well-being.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched Podcast00:39 Introducing Dr. Guy Winch and His New Book03:10 The Myths and Realities of Work Stress03:43 The Impact of Workplace Stress on Personal Life06:53 The Role of Emotional Intelligence in the Workplace15:34 The Importance of Communication and Clarity19:38 The Consequences of Chronic Stress and Burnout23:33 Internship Challenges and Stress24:55 The Importance of Taking Breaks26:26 Restorative Activities and Social Connections29:20 Effective Vacation Strategies34:26 Mental and Physical Exhaustion40:34 Detaching from Work for Better Well-being42:00 Final Thoughts and FarewellHELPFUL LINKS:Dr. Guy Winch Website'Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life.' BookDear Therapists Podcast
Most of us think burnout only hits people who hate their jobs. Psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch says the opposite is true. In this episode, Guy joins Brandon to unpack the hidden ways work takes over our lives, from the autopilot trap and procrastination to evening rumination and self-neglect. Drawing from his new book, Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life, Guy shares research-backed exercises that any professional can use to reclaim their time, protect their health, and actually be present when they get home. If you have ever told yourself "it's just a busy season," this episode is for you. Key Timestamps [00:00] Why even mental health experts miss their own burnout [02:30] The survival mode trap and how autopilot takes over your life [05:30] The Goldilocks zone: how stress improves performance until it doesn't [06:30] Why more strokes happen on Mondays and how a simple brain hack can ease the Sunday scaries [09:15] Reframing procrastination: why treating dreaded tasks as nuisances gets them done faster [11:45] Challenge state vs. threat state: the mindset shift that changes how you perform under pressure [14:30] The mind whisperer exercise and how to prep your brain before high-stakes moments [15:45] Rumination: why replaying work conflicts at home is unpaid overtime that damages your health [20:30] The "locating your job stress" exercise that turned 90% stress into 10% [23:30] Role curation: how to take charge of your career growth when your manager won't [26:00] The red light, green light technique for managing after-hours emails without losing your evening [30:15] Canaries in the coal mine: identifying your personal early warning signs of self-neglect [34:30] The empathy effort exercise for switching from work mode to home mode [36:45] Triple dipping: how to squeeze a month of happiness out of a single weekend away A QUICK GLIMPSE INTO OUR PODCAST Podcast: Transform Your Workplace, sponsored by Xenium HR Host: Brandon Laws In Brandon's own words: "The Transform Your Workplace podcast is your go-to source for the latest workplace trends, big ideas, and time-tested methods straight from the mouths of industry experts and respected thought-leaders." About Xenium HR Xenium HR is on a mission to transform workplaces by providing expert outsourced HR and payroll services for small and medium-sized businesses. With a people-first approach, Xenium helps organizations create thriving work environments where employees feel valued and supported. From navigating compliance to enhancing workplace culture, Xenium offers tailored solutions that empower growth and simplify HR. Whether managing employee relations, payroll processing, or implementing impactful training programs, Xenium is the trusted partner businesses rely on to elevate their workplace experience. Discover how Xenium can transform your workplace: Learn more Connect with Brandon Laws: LinkedIn Instagram About Connect with Xenium HR: Website LinkedIn Facebook Twitter Instagram YouTube
Work stress doesn't stay neatly at work. It follows you home. It shows up in the tone of your voice, the snap of your patience, and that feeling of being “on edge” even when nothing is technically wrong. If you've ever walked through the door already exhausted, replaying work conversations in your head while your kids need you now, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I sit down with psychologist Guy Winch, author of Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life, to talk about why work stress hits moms so hard—and what actually helps. We go beyond “just relax” and get into the science of emotional health, burnout, and how stress quietly spills into parenting and family dynamics. This episode is especially for moms who are high achievers, caregivers, and the emotional glue holding everything together—at work and at home. In this episode, we talk about: Why ruminating about work is actually unpaid overtime—and how it drains your patience at home How burnout moves in both directions, from work to parenting and back again The science behind why your body stays in “battle mode” long after the workday ends Simple, realistic transition rituals that help your brain shift from work mode to home mode Why taking time for yourself isn't selfish—it's protective for your emotional health How a parent's stress affects the entire household, even when you think you're hiding it What to do when you're so burnt out that taking action feels impossible Why this conversation matters So many moms blame themselves for snapping, zoning out, or feeling disconnected at home—when the real issue is chronic stress and emotional overload. Guy explains why this isn't a personal failure, but a nervous system problem that needs support, structure, and intention. You'll walk away with language to understand what's happening inside you—and practical ways to stop work stress from hijacking your home life. About today's guest Guy Winch is a psychologist and leading voice in emotional health. He brings science-backed tools to everyday struggles like burnout, rumination, and emotional exhaustion. His book, Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life, explores how modern work culture affects mental health—and what we can realistically do about it. Resources Mentioned Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life Thank You To Our Sponsors Cash App Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In this episode of Status Check with Spivey, Dr. Guy Winch returns to the podcast for a conversation about his new book, Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life. They discuss burnout (especially for those in school or their early career), how society glorifies overworking even when it doesn't lead to better outcomes (5:53), the difference between rumination and valuable self-analysis (11:02), the question Dr. Winch asks patients who are struggling with work-life balance that you can ask yourself (17:58), how to reduce the stress of the waiting process in admissions and the job search (24:36), and more.Dr. Winch is a prominent psychologist, speaker, and author whose TED Talks on emotional well-being have over 35 million combined views. He has a podcast with co-host Lori Gottlieb, Dear Therapists. Dr. Winch's new book, Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life, is out today!Our last episode with Dr. Winch, “Dr. Guy Winch on Handling Rejection (& Waiting) in Admissions,” is here.You can listen and subscribe to Status Check with Spivey on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. You can read a full transcript of this episode with timestamps here.
This episode is truly a game changer for anyone struggling with work stress, work life balance, or honestly, just having a job in general (so, everyone?) We are welcoming back psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch to tell us how not to let work run (and ruin) your life. We discuss how to actually turn off after work, boundaries when you work from home, a ritual for curing the Sunday Scaries and not dreading Monday morning, learning how to appreciate your job (but also, when you should quit), and tips for vacationing better including his "triple dip" theory. We also discuss work stress in a relationship, including the effects on your sex life and how not to absorb your partner's work stress. Before Guy joins us, we have a celebratory (and awkward) moment for our 8-year anniversary, and we're recapping Rayna's tour kickoff and frigid trip to Florida. Enjoy! Follow Guy on Instagram @guywinch and get his new book Mind Over Grind. Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for more. Thank you to our partners this week: Hers: Get the support that actually reflects your needs. Start your free intake at forhers.com. Vivrelle: Skip the waitlist and get your first month for free at vivrelle.com with code GGE. Audible: Listen to the Audible original comedy Big Age at audible.com/bigageseries. Shopify: Test out a new idea or get serious about launching a new brand at shopify.com/gge. Rocket Money: Reach your financial goals faster at rocketmoney.com/gge.
Most of us do everything we can to avoid rejection—but what if there are actually some positives to it?Writer and podcast host Alice Draper joins me to talk about why rejection hurts, what it can teach us, and how to build your “rejection resilience muscle.”We cover the difference between rejection and failure, why it's important not to let rejection stop you, and the surprising upside of hearing “no.”Alice Draper and the founder of the podcast guesting company, Hustling Writers and the host of the award-winning podcast "My Rejection Story".On her podcast, My Rejection Story, you can listen to bestselling authors like Whitney Goodman, Guy Winch, or Jesse J. Anderson share how they navigated the toughest periods of their personal and professional lives, and how this shaped the success they now experience today. Her words can be found in HuffPost, Business Insider, VICE, Refinery29.Some of Alice's favorite things include strong coffee, affordable travel hacks, and deep connections. She detests small talk, waking up early, and unnecessary jargon.https://www.linkedin.com/in/alice-m-draper/https://www.instagram.com/alicedraper/Tune in each week for practical, relatable advice that helps you feel your best and unlock your full potential. If you're ready to prioritize your health and level up every area of your life, you'll find the tools, insights, and inspiration right here. Check out Esther's website for more about her speaking, coaching, book, and more: http://estheravant.com/Buy Esther's Book: To Your Health: https://a.co/d/iDG68qUEsther's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/esther.avantEsther's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/estheravant/Learn more about 1:1 health & weight loss coaching: https://madebymecoaching.com/coaching
Work has a way of following us home—replaying that one frustrating meeting, stealing our attention from the people we love, and turning Sunday night into a countdown to stress. In this conversation with psychologist Guy Winch, we talk about why switching off feels so hard, and what actually helps when work starts to take over your life.We get practical about breaking rumination, handling that end-of-weekend dread, protecting your energy, and staying in that “just enough stress” zone where you can still function without burning out. This is the first half of a two-part conversation. In this one, we're focused on your professional life; next week, we'll dive into burnout in your love life.---►► Preorder your copy of Dr. Guy Winch's new book Mind Over Grind (which will arrive in bookstores on Feb. 10) at guywinch.com/books/mind-over-grind►► Head to CozyEarth.com before February 8 and use my code LOVELIFEBOGO to get PJs for you and someone you love.►► Ask me anything at AskMH.com—try it for free to get instant answers now via voice or text. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episode Description: AJ and Johnny sit down with psychologist Guy Winch, author of Mind Over Grind, to unpack how grind culture quietly erodes our mental health, relationships, and sense of self — often without us realizing it. Guy explains why stress no longer stays at work, how rumination turns unpaid overtime into chronic burnout, and why many high performers confuse exhaustion with productivity. They explore the blurred boundary between work and home, the hidden damage of always-on thinking, and how modern workplaces amplify anxiety, resentment, and emotional withdrawal. This conversation offers practical ways to reclaim control: recognizing harmful rumination, creating transition rituals, recharging instead of just resting, and redesigning workdays to protect focus, relationships, and meaning — without sacrificing ambition. Chapters:00:00 – The hidden cost of grind culture05:00 – When work never actually ends10:00 – Rumination vs. productive thinking15:00 – How stress spills into relationships20:00 – Burnout, resentment, and modern work25:00 – The Goldilocks zone of stress30:00 – Rest vs. recharge: why downtime fails35:00 – Rituals to transition out of work mode40:00 – Managing email, boundaries, and control45:00 – Curating your workday instead of reacting50:00 – Reclaiming meaning without quitting your job A Word From Our Sponsors Stop being over looked and unlock your X-Factor today at unlockyourxfactor.com The very qualities that make you exceptional in your field are working against you socially. Visit the artofcharm.com/intel for a social intelligence assessment and discover exactly what's holding you back. If you've put off organizing your finances, Monarch is for you. Use code CHARM at monarch.com in your browser for half off your first year. Indulge in affordable luxury with Quince. Upgrade your wardrobe today at quince.com/charm for free shipping and hassle-free returns. Grow your way - with Headway! Get started at makeheadway.com/CHARM and use my code CHARM for 25% off. This year, skip breaking a sweat AND breaking the bank. Get your summer savings and shop premium wireless plans at mintmobile.com/charm Curious about your influence level? Get your Influence Index Score today! Take this 60-second quiz to find out how your influence stacks up against top performers at theartofcharm.com/influence. Episode resources: GuyWinch.com Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on LinkedIn Johnny on LinkedIn AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube The Art of Charm on TikTok grind culture, burnout, stress, work life balance, rumination, mental health, emotional exhaustion, productivity, modern work, boundaries, recovery, recharge, relationships, presence, focus, meaning, fulfillment, stress management, workplace stress, psychological well-being Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Burnout doesn't come from working hard. It comes from never shutting your brain off. After listening to Dr. Guy Winch on the Lewis Howes podcast, I had a major wake-up call about what rest actually looks like. In this episode, Lori and I break down why your day isn't over when your laptop closes, why scrolling is lying to you about "relaxing," and how learning something new or moving your body is what truly recharges you. I share how pickleball, brain training, and simple rituals at the end of the day have completely shifted my energy, focus, and momentum. Get ready to upgrade how you recharge this year. HIGHLIGHTS Why your workday ends when your brain lets go, not when your calendar does. The difference between relaxing and truly recharging. How rituals help you mentally clock out from work. Why learning new skills boosts energy more than scrolling. Ways to recharge even with a busy schedule. RESOURCES Apply for the Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet - the Mentor Collective Mastermind! Make More Sales in the next 90 days - GET THE BLUEPRINT HERE! Check out upcoming events + Masterminds: chrisharder.me Text DAILY to 310-421-0416 to get daily Money Mantras to boost your day. FOLLOW Chris: @chriswharder Lori: @loriharder Frello: @frello_app
Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1872Here's what nobody tells you about chronic work stress: it doesn't just make you tired or irritable. It shuts down your ability to feel anything at all. Guy Winch has worked with hundreds of people who thought they'd fallen out of love with their partners, only to discover something more unsettling. They hadn't fallen out of love. They'd gone numb. When you're treading water with the stress level up to your neck, your brain does something protective but devastating. It turns off the feelings to help you function. The problem is, it doesn't just turn off the stress. It turns off everything. You come home at the end of the day, and when your partner goes to hug you, you're stiff. You're still in work mode. You can't feel the warmth, the connection, the love. And after enough times being rejected like that, your partner stops being a fan too. That's when the real distance starts.Guy reveals something that changes everything: your partner probably didn't change at all. You did. And here's the breakthrough that makes this bearable to hear. You can change yourself back. Stop telling yourself your job is "very stressful" because that narrative reinforces the numbness and keeps you on constant alert. Even firefighters, who literally run into burning buildings, describe their jobs as "intermittently stressful" because they recognize the downtime. If they can reframe their reality, you can too. Find the moments between the stress. Prepare your favorite lunch. Listen to music that brings you joy. Crack jokes with coworkers. Create tiny pockets of feeling throughout your day. Lower the water level first, then reconnect with what you love. Your relationship isn't broken. You're just drowning, and you need to learn how to breathe again.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Guy Winch reveals that when you're stressed at work, your partner at home can actually start developing symptoms of burnout themselves, even if they don't work. The most surprising truth? Your workday doesn't end when you close your laptop. It ends when you stop thinking about work, and most people never truly clock out. He exposes why relaxation alone won't recharge you after mental exhaustion and shares the counterintuitive actions that actually restore your energy. This isn't just about surviving your job. It's about reclaiming the parts of yourself you've been amputating one by one while everyone around you suffers the spillover.Guy's books:Emotional First AidThe Squeaky WheelHow to Fix a Broken Heart (TED Books)Mind Over GrindIn this episode you will:Break free from rumination that keeps you stuck in fight-or-flight mode hours after work by converting your emotional spiral into a solvable problem with a simple three-step processUncover the shocking truth about why relaxation is only 50 percent of what you need to recover from burnout, and what recharging activities will actually fill your batteryDiscover why your unhealed wounds are making you choose unhealthy relationships at work and home, and the exact moment you need to look in the mirror instead of blaming othersTransform how you think about stress by understanding that your job isn't stressful all the time, it has stressful moments, and this one reframe can dramatically lower your cortisol levelsMaster the psychological ritual that trains your brain to detach from work mode, using all five senses to create a transition your nervous system will recognize instantlyFor more information go to https://lewishowes.com/1872For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Dr. Caroline LeafMark MansonSimon Sinek Get more from Lewis! Get my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Get The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Today on Artful Living, we will hear a thoughtful Ted Talk with Guy Winch on how to deal with our emotional health during the holidays. We hope you can join our discussion.
This week, Erin and Sara sit down with Guy Winch, a psychologist and bestselling author. They discuss how to actually heal from a broken heart, why feeling grief after a breakup is normal, how insecurity fosters blandness, and more.Executive Producers: Erin Foster, Sara Foster, and Allison BresnickAssociate Producers: Montana McBirney and Olivia GeffnerAudio Engineer: Josh WindischProduced by Wishbone ProductionProduced by Dear MediaThis episode is sponsored by:Airbnb (airbnb.com/experiences)Bon Charge (boncharge.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER)Osea (oseamalibu.com PROMO CODE: FIRST)Chase (chase.com/sapphirereserve)Hungryroot (hungryroot.com/foster)Needed (thisisneeded.com PROMO CODE: FOSTER)Gem (dailygem.com/foster)Cotton (fabricofourlives.com/foster)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Do you feel selfish, anxious, or even guilty just for saying “no”? You're not alone — and it's not your fault. In this eye-opening conversation, Kwame sits down with psychologist, author, and TED speaker Guy Winch to unpack the deep psychological roots behind our fear of rejection, the guilt of boundary-setting, and the hidden emotional costs of people-pleasing. You'll learn: Why rejection hurts like physical pain (yes, literally) How to reframe fear and rewrite the labels you give yourself The secret to setting boundaries without ruining relationships Why most people fail at boundaries — and how to do it right The one question that will completely change how you approach tough conversations This episode is a must-listen for anyone who struggles with speaking up, saying no, or putting themselves first without shame. Plus, Guy gives a sneak peek into his upcoming book Mind Over Grind — and why burnout at work is hitting harder than ever.
We're joined by Dr. Guy Winch, a licensed psychologist, bestselling author, and one of the world's leading voices in emotional health. You might know him from his powerful TED Talks, viewed over 35 million times, or from his bestselling books like Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart. In this episode, we talk with Guy about something so many of us experience but rarely know how to navigate: the grief of losing a pet. Guy explains why that grief can feel just as intense—or even more so—than losing a human loved one, and why it's crucial that we treat pet loss with the same compassion, validation, and care. He shares deeply personal stories, as well as science-backed advice on how to process our feelings, memorialize our pets, and let ourselves heal without shame. To learn more about his work, visit guywinch.com.
Delanie Fischer is joined by Licensed Psychotherapist and International & Board Certified Trauma Therapist, Támara Hill, to discuss betrayal trauma —including deceptive affection, symptoms of this kind of trauma, the initial (and ongoing) impact it can have, and a multidimensional approach to healing.Plus:+ Your "Life as a Platter" Analogy & Growth Mindset+ Learned Helplessness, Enmeshment, and PTSD+ A Journaling Ritual You Might Want to Try Next!More episodes related to this topic:Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) with Licensed Therapist, Nadirah Habeebullah: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/327baacc/post-traumatic-stress-disorder-ptsd-with-licensed-therapist-nadirah-habeebullahWhen My Husband Came Out: Infidelity, Divorce, and Friendship with Jessica Frew: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/229e6642/when-my-husband-came-out-infidelity-divorce-and-friendship-with-jessica-frewHow To Build Self-Trust with Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/3109f4db/how-to-build-self-trust-with-delanie-fischer-and-kelsey-cookHow to Fix a Broken Heart by Guy Winch: https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/episodes/episode/9c478f77/how-to-fix-a-broken-heart-by-guy-winchSupport the podcast and vote on topics: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelplessYour Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Don't miss the Make Money Easy Book Tour! https://lewishowes.com/moneyyouCheck out the full episode: greatness.lnk.to/1736"I am such a great listener. I'm emotionally available and I'm always up for doing things. Those are wonderful qualities and characters that somebody will appreciate." - Guy WinchWhen rejection hits, our minds leap to devastating conclusions about our worthiness. Acclaimed psychologist Guy Winch shares powerful insights on why we take dating rejections so personally, often spiraling into self-defeating thoughts like "I'll never find love" after the simplest of interactions. He offers a transformative approach: instead of assuming the worst about ourselves when someone doesn't respond, we should deliberately remind ourselves of our genuine strengths and what we bring to relationships.Lewis and Guy discuss how building solid self-esteem forms the foundation for healthy relationships. Guy explains that true self-acceptance involves embracing both our strengths and weaknesses—recognizing that every positive quality naturally comes with trade-offs. Through personal examples and humor, he demonstrates how understanding yourself fully prevents settling for relationships that don't honor your boundaries or needs. Listen now to discover practical techniques for building unshakable self-worth that transforms your dating experiences.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter
I'm going on tour! Come see The School of Greatness LIVE in person!Get my new book Make Money Easy here!Four renowned experts unpack why we stay in toxic relationships and reveal the hidden psychological patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of emotional dependency. Bestselling author Elizabeth Gilbert shares her journey from love addiction to emotional sobriety, discovering how finding a higher power led to deeper self-acceptance. Psychologist Dr. Guy Winch reveals why early relationship patterns become like cement - moldable at first but quickly hardening into permanent dynamics. Relationship experts Matthew Hussey and Sadia Khan explore why we stay in unhealthy relationships, how fear drives us to lower our standards, and the critical importance of communicating deal-breakers before committing. Together, these four perspectives illuminate the path from toxic patterns to thriving relationships through self-awareness, boundaries, and emotional maturity.In this episode you will learn:Why self-care isn't just self-indulgence, but a "deeply humanitarian public service" that makes us safer for others to be aroundHow to identify and communicate deal-breakers early in relationships to prevent future conflictThe danger of entering relationships from a scarcity mindset and how it leads to compromising standardsWhy emotional wounds require the same careful attention and treatment as physical injuriesThe importance of developing emotional regulation and selecting partners who encourage healthy boundariesFor more information go to https://www.lewishowes.com/1736For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Liz Gilbert – greatness.lnk.to/1681SCGuy Winch – greatness.lnk.to/1683SCSadia Khan and Matthew Hussey – greatness.lnk.to/1659SC Get more from Lewis! Pre-order my new book Make Money EasyGet The Greatness Mindset audiobook on SpotifyText Lewis AIYouTubeInstagramWebsiteTiktokFacebookX
The end of the year is often a time to reflect and spend time with family — activities that may seem joyful or anxiety-inducing, depending on your circumstances. Psychologist Guy Winch offers actionable advice on how to manage your emotions with confidence during the holidays, from setting boundaries to healing heartache — above all reminding you that emotional health is possible, as long as you're informed and willing to do the work. (This live conversation was hosted by TED's Whitney Pennington Rodgers. Visit ted.com/membership to support TED today and join more exclusive events like this one.) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The end of the year is often a time to reflect and spend time with family — activities that may seem joyful or anxiety-inducing, depending on your circumstances. Psychologist Guy Winch offers actionable advice on how to manage your emotions with confidence during the holidays, from setting boundaries to healing heartache — above all reminding you that emotional health is possible, as long as you're informed and willing to do the work. (This live conversation was hosted by TED's Whitney Pennington Rodgers. Visit ted.com/membership to support TED today and join more exclusive events like this one.)
Have you listened to the FULL EPISODE yet?"Love is an addiction. That's why the withdrawal of love is the form of withdrawal." - Guy WinchRenowned psychologist Guy Winch reveals startling insights about the science of love and heartbreak, comparing romantic withdrawal to substance addiction. Drawing from extensive research and clinical experience, he explores how quickly we become emotionally dependent on potential partners, often with minimal information. His frank discussion of how the brain processes romantic loss highlights a critical gap in society - while we have support systems for substance withdrawal, heartbreak is often dismissed, especially in adults.The conversation delves deeper into the fascinating psychology of falling in love, challenging common assumptions about choice and timing. Winch explains how we construct elaborate fantasies from limited data points, often falling for our imagined version of someone before truly knowing them. His practical insights into relationship dynamics, from first fights to travel compatibility, offer listeners valuable perspective on building lasting connections and understanding their own patterns in love.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter!
In this powerful episode of The School of Greatness, I sit down with world-renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel at the Summit of Greatness. Esther brings her profound wisdom to explore the complexities of modern relationships, diving deep into topics like eroticism, intimacy, and the challenges of finding connection in our digital age. She shares fascinating insights about why people struggle with relationships today, offering practical guidance for both singles and couples. Through personal stories, including a touching revelation about her husband's kidney transplant, Esther demonstrates how vulnerability and community support are essential for human connection. This conversation is filled with transformative insights that will change how you think about love, relationships, and what makes us feel truly alive.Summit of Greatness is back in Los Angeles in 2025! Get your tickets NOW! Get 15% OFF Esther's courses with the code HOWES15: https://www.estherperel.com/course-bundles/the-desire-bundleIN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARNWhy we expect more from romantic relationships today than ever before, and how this impacts our ability to connectThe three core things people fight for in relationships: care and closeness, respect and recognition, and power and controlHow to build meaningful relationships in an age of "modern loneliness" where we're more connected yet more isolated than everThe crucial difference between having sex and experiencing eroticism, and why it matters for intimate relationshipsHow to heal from sexual trauma and reclaim control, connection, and pleasure in relationshipsFor more information go to https://www.lewishowes.com/1686For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Guy Winch - https://greatness.lnk.to/1683SCDr. Joe Dispenza - https://greatness.lnk.to/1256SCStephan Speaks - https://greatness.lnk.to/1351SC
In this episode, I sit down with psychologist and bestselling author Guy Winch to explore the intricate world of emotional health and relationships. Guy shares his insights on building self-esteem, managing heartbreak, and creating healthy foundations for lasting partnerships. We dive deep into the importance of emotional literacy, discuss how to navigate the complexities of modern dating, and explore strategies for raising emotionally intelligent children. Guy's wisdom, gained from three decades of clinical practice, offers listeners practical tools to improve their emotional wellbeing and build more fulfilling relationships.In this episode you will learnHow to build a strong foundation for relationships through intentional communication and self-awarenessThe importance of emotional literacy and using tools like the "emotion wheel" to better understand and express feelingsStrategies for healing from heartbreak and rebuilding self-esteem after rejectionThe critical role of self-acceptance and self-understanding in forming healthy relationshipsPractical advice for parents on fostering emotional intelligence and resilience in their childrenFor more information go to https://www.lewishowes.com/1683For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960More SOG episodes we think you'll love:Dr. Tara Swart – https://link.chtbl.com/1629-podMacken Murphy – https://link.chtbl.com/1587-podDr. Becky Kennedy – https://link.chtbl.com/1586-pod