Keep it Simple

With parents having medical challenges, and friends going home to be with the Lord; it's easy to get side tracked thinking 'you have time'. With that being said, laugh, learn and enjoy life because all that matters in the end is a relationship with Christ and others [peacefully]. Have a great day.

Simply providing a praise report [follow-up] to the prior episode. God is good;)

Have you ever tried to help someone who requested it only to feel like you were pushing a car with four flat tires because their foot was on the breaks? What the heck! Why would someone [in their ever loving mind] ask for help only to purposely 'pump the breaks' in the process??? This Keep it Simple episode exposes the reason...insecurity. Insecure people will always overly question the motive of those around them because they think someone is up to something continually. We hope this episode encourages them to get help professionally or personally from those they love. Stay blessed.

We've all heard the comment 'misery loves company' but I have actually seen people become hermits because of misery. Does that apply to them or does misery love pride, attention or power? This Keep it Simple episode exposes if misery likes or hates you. Enjoy!

Have you ever had a life that was so hard yet, now that you've come through - it can be challenging not to reflect on 'why couldn't I have enjoy life sooner'. Or, why did it have to happen to me in the first place! Well, this Keep it Simple series episode encourages you to properly let go of the past, so you can enjoy your "now" now. This episode is not for those who already have it together. Enjoy and live.

Have you ever seem to realize that the only time you get major 'play' is when you are in a seriously committed relationship with someone? Why is that? You dress the same. You look the same. You even smell the same [not that that would matter], yet and still...as soon as your relationship status changed from 'single to relationship' / here comes the wolves. This Keep it Simple episode is here to encourage you not to fall for the pitfalls of 'the grass is green' syndrome. It may just be a mirage!

Have you ever had an eureka moment? That moment when you realize you'd rather die than settle? I.e., settle for someone who wants you but doesn't want to 'put in the work.' Or they want you to clear up your issues while ignoring theirs? [Women have a bad habit of that one!] Or [drumroll please] you marry the person, but they are not interested in pleasing you in bed [as long as they get theirs]. Enough! This Keep it Simple episode was selected to light a fire in you to realize you do not have to be second best when you've had the best somewhere along the lines. Life if too short to settle and still be miserable with life. I'm not saying that they have to be the 'end all / be all' but bless God...they better come pretty darn close! This message is for the Believer with practical applications for the non-believer as well. Listener discretion is advised.

Although the past can be a teacher, should it be your standard of living? What do you do when it seems that the past is repeating itself. Do you assume and respond or do you simply ask for clarification? This Keep it Simple episode encourages you to ask rather than assume. They may surprise you. Be blessed.

Have you ever tried to 'man up' to keep people from knowing that a job, relationship or plan did not 'come together' with a happy end? We know that to be strong, you have to conquer some ideas including the idea of someone or something completing you. Outside of God (for the Bible Believer), there are somethings we want in life that just may not happen. At least, not how you expected. Should you continue to act like everything is alright while you rot inside or do you acknowledge that loss and move on? This Keep it Simple series episode encourages you to acknowledge, evaluate, and let it go so you can live. [Referenced 'Beyond Boundaries' by Dr. John Townsend and galaxy example as shared by Benny Hinn's 1990's tv broadcast.]

We all know when we come to the end of one year, there are those who have asperations for change in the new year. That's a great time, but not if it's just talk. Everyone eventually comes to the point where they can clearly see that, "talk is cheap" and they have to put movement to their feet. Regretfully, there are those who attempt to make the change(s) but give up too soon. Not today, satan! This Keep it Simple episode will encourage you to set those emotional boundaries and how not to live there disconnected from people. We hope this final 2021 series helps you see whose worth keeping and when it's best to walk away. [Books referenced: Get Naked by Dr. Saudia Lewan Twine and Beyond Boundaries by Dr. John Townsend.]

We all grown, so what I got to say shouldn't apply to you especially forty and above. Have you ever in life tried to persuade someone that you were checking up on them or showing up unannounced out of concern repeatedly? Yet, the real motive was that you were trying to find/catch them doing something due to your own insecurities, jealousies and fears? Let's face it, we've all encountered that one who made the hair stand up on the back of our necks when we witnessed how they acted with the opposite sex. And rather than leave them when we find that they had questionable character, we stayed then stalked to eventually coming up with lame excuses to show up unannounced trying to catch them doing something. SMH. This Keep it Simple series episode encourages you to, 'check your motives' cause we don't got/shouldn't have time for that especially today! Listeners...beware.

Well, well, well, what do you know? You finally got that big pay check with an increase. Check! You've finally got your stuff in order. Check! You've finally paid off that huge debt and your family member is now physically free. You've been so used to fighting to stay strong in the Word that now, you've gotten relaxed. You've put down your battle ax just as the enemy of your soul was positioning their arsenals for a sneak attack. This Keep it Simply series episode warns the listeners to continue to be constant in season and out so the enemy does not have an opportunity to attack you at unaware (while not prepared). This is a side note to the 'Closure' about the one I thought 'got away' episode. Enjoy!

Remember when you wondered about your first love? The love of your life? How they were doing? Where they were at and most importantly, if they felt the same way about you and if they were happy in life? Well, look no further because the author and podcaster got a surprise call from (drum roll please) the love of her life. This podcast shares a lighthearted view of their brief observation of one another after approximately 20 years. You don't want to miss this! Listener's discretion advise (sike)! We kept it clean, I promise;)

I had a dream about him last night and it felt so real. It was my insecurities he could feel although his touch was surreal. Is it too good to be true? Is it you? This dream I had made me want to reach out to him to find if he was sending me subluminal messages! Lol! I need help! This Keep it Simple episode is about the author and podcaster sharing an intimate moment about the 'one' who was the true motivation behind her first novelette, "Contemplating a Sip of Satan's Sweet Tea". Enjoy!

Gone to the gym? Check! Eating right? Check! Taking time to enjoy the day or your accomplishments? Not so! We all have areas in our life where we know we are to "tone that" or "fix that", but what do you do when you've realized you have reached a long term goal. Do you celebrate that feat or do you shrug it off and pursue a new plan? This Keep it Simple episode for the week encourages you to eat the fat, drink the sweet and bask in the fact that, "Yes, you did that" and rest. Celebrate yourself before you go on, so you can see just how far you have really come. God bless.

Have you ever been criticized for being the life of the party? Being intelligent? Super attractive or physically fit? We understand those scenarios because they deal with the outward appearance, but what about being criticized for being balanced Spiritually? Trick question, huh? Not quite. This Keep it Simple episode talks about when the author and podcaster was criticized for (get this) being a 'good pray-er'. SMH. Hope this encourages you to SHINE.

Have you ever met the one people said would be a perfect fit for you, but you did not think so? Well, this Keep it Simply episode is talking about a time when a former friend tried to play 'match maker'. It was an epic fail, then 'caught feelings' only to find that he really was not the perfect fit for me although he was the perfect guy. We hope this episode helps! Make it a great day.

Some of you may be weary of the various views shared about the one I loved. From tears to realizations to finally looking back seeing that hind sight is 20/20. Having the opportunity to view everything from the current perspective, I clearly see that I should have loved you more. Not in a selfish/sexual way, but in its purest form...abstinence. Love waits. Isn't that what the the famous love chapter says? Love suffers long and is kind? Sounds good, but is it? Yes, it is good, it's just hard on the emotions and will when placed in the situation to yield to physical temptations. This Keep it Simple episode shares the podcaster's regret of giving into the flesh with the one she loved. Hope this helps you truly understand that real love really does wait. Enjoy.

Anyone who has been around for an extended amount of time knows that there are some things that will make us feel like it's the end of the world. It may be the conclusion of a relationship, the death of a loved one, or a tragedy in the work place. This Keep it Simple series episode encourages you to be thankful for the things that are going right, that way you don't focus on what's wrong that will make you feel like it is the end of your world. We hope this tip helps!

This Keep it Simple series episode takes a look at Adam and how God assisted him with getting prepared before Eve was ever created (outside of him). We hope this Keep it Simple episode encourages the men to go to the University of Her to excel in getting to know your lady. You can thank me later ;-)

Remember when I shared the story about my first love with tears in my eyes? Now healed, I'm able to share the details of our love story come true with dry eyes knowing that he went on and is apparently truly loved. This Keep it Simple series episode was recorded to give you more information on the last podcast you may have heard. I hope this helps and thank you for your prayers. Have a blessed day.

[Disclaimer: Please do not listen if you are already sad, because you will cry a river or get mad!] This Keep it Simple series episode is a heartfelt recording of the author and podcaster sharing in tears (in some segments) the one that got away. It is about the one who loved her, they both moved away (losing contact with each other) only to find that he eventually remarried. May not sound like much to you, but if you've ever fallen in love, you maybe able to relate. Praying Christ's best for the podcaster, her long lost love and those who are learning how to forget what you thought was a good fit. If this does not describe you, we encourage you to review other episodes from this author. God bless.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where the original document, electronics or relationship gets faulty? When that happens (based upon your budget or situation) we tend to grab something else to try to make something short term long-term just because it seemed to work. I remember seeing the t-shirt that says my dad can fix anything all he needs is duct tape. That doesn't always fix everything and sometimes a substitution can actually impair what's really going on. This Keep it Simple series episode lets you know that sometimes the original is better hands down!

For those who are Bible believers and those who are not you may be familiar with the story about Adam and Eve. For this new year, I have decided to go to the beginning starting with Eve and working back to Genesis Chapter 1. This Keep it Simple series episode is to expose God's blueprint for how a woman is supposed to be cared for, treated and loved. May this episode gives you the courage to leave ungodly unions and relationships that are abusive that makes you feel subservient and unwanted. Listeners discretion is advised.

A penny saved is a penny earned is excellent advice. But what about what's good for the goose is good for the gander? We have heard our parental figures say a number of things throughout our childhood and adulthood, but were all of those things really valuable in our walk with life? This Keep it Simple series episode will help you evaluate if your parental figure gave you valid and healthy advice.

Nothing is worse than being around a person who keeps bringing up everything you have ever done or said to them. But wouldn't you think it would be just as annoying for you to constantly beat yourself up over the things you have done wrong? This Keep it Simple series episode encourages you to get other people and yourself off the witness stand from being badgered by you. We hope this helps. Have a great day!

God has gifted ladies with a wonderful gift to be able to accomplish a plethora of things at a moment's notice. But like any weapon it can also be a double-edged sword especially when a woman overthinks herself into a serious problem that may hurt her as well as others. This Keep it Simple series episode encourages ladies especially Christians to remember to always be grounded with the Word of God so they don't fly off and go astray.

We've all experienced moments of impatience when we're hungry or standing in line because we need to use the restroom, Etc. We don't necessarily consider that being impatient we consider that being in a hurry because our stomach or our bladder is calling our name. But what if you find yourself being impatient when it comes to your career or better yet a spouse? V keep it simple series episode encourages you not to be impatient when it comes to the latter because in the end it will cost you.

In this day and age, we all would think that everyone who is grown is truly grown. I am not referencing teenagers who develop early. I am talking about men and women who still act like children when it comes to interacting with other adults. This Keep it Simple series episode is not for the super sensitive or the immature. We are shedding light on growing-up by conducting oneself like an adult is supposed to. You should not be creating a crew to follow you when someone does not like you. Smh. This series is rated PG.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you're trying to force something to happen even if people are not on board? What was the outcome? Were you really happy when you had to force people to do things your way even if it required manipulation? This Keep it Simple series episode is talking about when we're determined to have things our way without considering the other person. Warnings Label: This episode is not for the control freak! LOL.

We've all at one point or another seen a social media meme regarding people who exit our life because they're jealous, not on our level, or just a flat-out hater. But what if people are exiting our life because we are the Tyrant, the hater, or the downright bitter one. This Keep it Simple series episode encourages the listener to evaluate if they are the one whose attitude actually stinks!

Hello everyone! This Keep it Simple series episode is giving a shout out to all of the Jewish, African-American, Caucasian, the Native American, Latino, the Arabic, Asian (etc.) good guys we appreciate by starting a Keep it Simple series episode for the next 30 days talking about the authors encounters with good guys she happened to have a crush on from childhood. We hope you find it funny! Enjoy.

Picture this...a guy goes to a club, dances with his girlfriend, takes her home; and goes through the alley and knocks on big Bertha's door because he's ashamed to be seen with her in public. Sounds terrible doesn't it? But what do you do when you are shun in public but they want to cry on your shoulder in private? We hope this Keep it Simple series episode helps you not be an emotional back alley chick for those who do not want to acknowledge your presence in the company of others.

Picture this Michigan 1999. You are in a room minding your own business and then you lock eyes with someone. The two of you are drawn to each other like moths to a flame. There is a connection and old boy is letting you know that there is an interest but never makes his move. Bummer! What happened? Did I need a mint or miss a hint? Ladies have you ever found yourself on pause waiting on the one to make his move while putting other guys on the back burner waiting for this one? If this is you we hope this Keep it Simple series episode encourages you to let him go.

In this day and age we've all had the opportunity to just binge on movies, work, food and entertainment until the pandemic hit. We are all familiar with songs that encourage us to follow our heart and it do what feels right. Has it ever crossed your mind that just because it feels right doesn't mean we should do it? The author and speaker has arrived from her hiatus to expose that just because it feels right doesn't mean that we should do it. This episode is not for the faint in heart especially if you call yourself a Christian.

Have you ever received multiple directives to carry out with insecurity and apprehension only to find at the end of the day that those directives had you shine brighter than the evening star? Have you ever questioned why you were doing what you were doing for so long and it seemed as if you were not getting any results only to be placed in a situation better and greater than you ever could have imagined? Well, this keep it simple series episode is about the benefits obeying God during difficult times. We hope this helps. Make it a great day!

Have you ever been in a situation where you made up your mind that you were finally going to pursue that dream you've always had only to be confronted with someone who appears to be doing better than you at the same thing you decided you would start doing? This Keep it Simple series episode is addressing opinions and the temptation to feel insecure when you start looking at others. We hope this episode helps you realize that the world still needs your gifts and talents regardless to what you think others are doing better compared to yourself. I hope this helps. Have a great day.

With everything that's going on in the world it's very easy to get distracted if you're not laser focused on your goal. With so many distractions how does a person remain focused? This Keep it Simple series episode from the CEO of God-Given University Publishing, LLC encourages you to zero in on your goals by providing you with a test to help you find out 'how bad do you want it'. We hope this episode helps. Have a great day.

Picture this imagine giving a parent and old school Walkman or an AKA cassette player for them to listen to tapes rather than them just sitting around being bored. What do you do when you find out the person did not use it because they were afraid to try and it only had three buttons? This keep it simple series episode what's recorded Define if you are leaving a talent, gift, potential relationship, or dream on the bookshelf because you were afraid to try.

We've all been tempted at some point to get stuck in a rut looking at all of the tragedy and terrible things that's taking place during a pandemic, yet the author is challenging you to look at the blessings and the benefits God has in store for you and has shown you during a pandemic. Some people have finally spoken to loved ones they were estranged from for the first time during this pandemic. Some individuals may have actually lost their job only to gain a new business that's paying them twice as much as their former job during a pandemic. This Keep it Simple series episode is encouraging you, The Listener, to look towards the hills from whence cometh your help your help comes from the Lord which made Heaven and Earth before this pandemic. We hope this Keep it Simple series episode helps. Make it a great day!

Ladies have you ever saw someone who resembled a Greek god that you were sure will be a blessing in your life if you got with them? Fellas have you seen that woman who look like a goddess that you just had to have? This Keep it Simple series episode is created to help you evaluate if a person's physical appearance is enough to keep you happy in marriage. Hopefully this episode will assist you with not getting catfished!

How do you explain a covenant to someone who has no idea what that word means? Let's face it, even those who have heard that word have a pretty hard time defining it. How would you explain it to a child or an unbeliever? Even the author of this podcast had a hard time defining the word covenant. It is her hope that this Keep it Simple series episode clearly defines what a covenant is to the extent that even a child can understand it.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone criticized or even lack understanding regarding what you have went through, but you find as time goes on they're placed in the exact same situation and actually does worse than you? Well, this Keep it Simple series episode talks about the fact that what goes around comes around is true. We hope this episode helps and we pray that you do right by others in Jesus' Name. Have a good day.

In today's society we have a habit of either conforming to those we are in the company of or we may be a part of an elite group that actually sets the atmosphere and the temperature like a thermostat. This Keep it Simple series episode provides the listeners with what the author did recently to set the atmosphere. We hope her scenario helps you locate how you can do the same. We hope it works for you! Have a good day.

Picture this, you're at a Festival event. Everyone is enjoying themselves and someone takes photographs of you when you're not looking your best and you don't even know that they have taken your picture. It's one thing for someone to take random pictures at an environment where anyone is prone to look terrible. But what do you do when they deliberately take photographs of you when you least expect it and post them on social media on three different occasions? This Keep it Simple series episode addresses helping tacky people know what's appropriate by exercising common courtesy. We hope this episode helps. Make it a great day.

If you have ever been in the company of someone who was not happy, those with a heart generally do their best to help them out of their aweful mood. But what do you do when the person you are trying to help maintains that terrible attitude year after year or worse yet, what if the person with that funky mood is you? In this Keep it Simple series episode, we'll help you locate if it's simply circumstances or perception being the reason why some people hold on to those bad moods.

Girl I can't stand them! Man she crazy! I wouldn't have anything to do with them!!! If you have ever found yourself saying any of the above or worse welcome to the "not healed from past relationships club". This Keep it Simple series episode was created to help you evaluate your past relationships to find if you have properly healed in order to go on. Remember that every mistake that we have not learned from will eventually become another mistake. We hope this episode helps you evaluate and see if you have properly healed from your past relationships. Enjoy!

Have you ever thought about something over and over again until it seems like a broken record that would not stop? Did you wake up and go to bed constantly thinking about a particular person or thing that if you obtained it you would live happily ever after? It's one thing to like a person...but it's quite another to think about them non-stop and you're not even dating them. This also goes for people who always think about revenge, money and sex just to name a few. In this Keep it Simple series episode the author and podcaster encourages you to not allow your thoughts to turn into an obsession because that is not healthy and can potentially be dangerous for you. We hope this helps! Make it a great day.

Let's face it. All of us at one point in our lives thought that when we forgive a person we automatically had to engage and interact with them as if nothing ever happened. However there is another side to forgiveness. The person actually has to change and put forth an effort and the work to clearly show that they truly apologized about what transpired. But what do you do when you're in the company of someone who keeps asking you to forgive them for what they do yet decade after decade continue the same behavior that's very destructive and harmful to those you love? In this Keep it Simple series episode the author and podcaster opens up and shares what she had to confront a family member concerning psychological abuse. We hope this encourages you to confront and foegive while loving the oppressor from the distance.