The Embodied Relationship Experience

"Part of becoming a man is learning to father yourself with discipline, encouragement, and truth." – Jeddy AzumaToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Why becoming a man is an ongoing process, not a single defining momentThe importance of initiation and ritual in shedding outdated identitiesHow fathering yourself creates confidence and inner stabilityThe tension between external validation and inner truthHow mature masculinity expresses love, purpose, and presenceConnect with Jetty:Jetty Azuma's platform: Rising Man MovementFollow Jetty on Instagram: @risingmanmovement | @jeddyazumaConnect with John:Instagram: @‌john_winelandWebsite: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TEACHER TRAINING: TT 2025: $2500 DepositPrivate coaching: CoachingJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth - A Masculine Embodiment Practice CircleGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“There is no containment without nervous system regulation. You can't hold your partner if you can't hold yourself first.” - John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:The difference between containment and controlHow containment supports emotional and nervous system regulationContainment as a foundational masculine skill (and how women benefit too)Real-world examples of emotional containment in relationshipsWhy containment without nervous system regulation won't workContainment as a sacred responsibility in conscious partnershipConnect with John:Instagram: @‌john_winelandWebsite: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TEACHER TRAINING: 1000 Hour Teacher TrainingPrivate coaching: CoachingJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth - A Masculine Embodiment Practice CircleGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

"Only when we can learn to see what is actually going on in the moment, we can truly begin to address and repair what keeps us from connecting deeply with our partners." Bryan ReevesToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:The active choice you must make daily in a relationship to fully engage or to leave themTaking 100% responsibility for your actions, feelings, and part in the relationshipVulnerability and repair after conflicts as keys for relationship successExploring the expectations and realizations in relationshipsBeing truly present and embodied in a relationship as a way to enhance connectionConnect with Bryan:Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight Order: Choose Her Every Day (or Leave Her)Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book - johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

"The hardest moments in your relationship—the storms, the wounds, the messiness—are the exact moments that can create the deepest healing and growth."  - Nina LombardoToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:What does devotion mean, and how do we live it in daily life?Understanding and applying David Deida's Three Stages of RelatingNavigating relationship challenges through presence and practiceMoving from wounds to artful expression in relationshipThe true essence of masculine leadershipConnect with Nina:Instagram:  @wayofdevotionWebsite: Way of Devotion Women's Retreat (April 2025)Join: Love Deeper MembershipConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

"Intimacy blockages are not just yogic but also therapeutic and karmic, often causing unresolved conflicts and deep emotional pain." Sheleana Aiyana Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:The importance of recognizing and addressing deep emotional wounds.Understanding different attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized.Somatic practices as effective tools for dealing with emotional and psychological issues.Methods and practices for deep self-healing.The process of healing as a long-term commitment to growth.Connect with Sheleana:Instagrams: @risingwoman & @sheleanaaiyana Order: Becoming The One: A Guided Journal & Becoming the OneConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

“Collective healing is not just about one person feeling relieved while the other suffers; it involves mutual healing where both parties find resolution and peace.” Jamie Elizabeth ThompsonToday on Embodied Relationship Experience: Wounded masculine and feminine vs. dark masculine and feminineThe line between sharing wounds and damaging othersEmbracing masculine energy in women and inner femininity in menNervous system capacity and its role in relationshipsRecognizing human essence beyond masculine and feminine labelsThe practice of consent and boundaries as a path to mutual healingConnect with Jess, Minister, Musical Storyteller & Soul Guide:Website: jessmagic.comInstagram: @yesjessmagicJoin: The Mwali MembershipConnect with Jamie, Women's Embodiment & Relationship Coach & Founder of Awakened Woman:Instagram: @_awakened_womanWomen's Programs: awakenedwoman.lifePrivate Coaching: jamieelizabeththompson.com Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

“A conscious man is attuned to his past, conscious of his biases, and insightful about his perceptual distortions.” -Michael HoltToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Exploring what it means to be a conscious manMisconceptions About the 'Conscious Man'The need for a foundation practice in men's workDifferentiating between inner insight and outward skillful conductHow personal history and traumas play a significant role in a man's journeyPractical methods to cultivate self-awareness Connect with Michael:Website: savageandsaint.com Instagram: @savageandsaintCourse: Cultivate The 5 Rare Skills Every Man Needs To Access Vitality, Excellence, & FreedomJoin: Savage & Saint Men`s RetreatConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformApply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training through January 3rd, 2025: Embodied Men's Leadership - John WinelandThe Art of Sacred Intimacy - Austin, Tx - February 14-16, 2025 - Join us in-person, or form the comfort of your own home. Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

"Every moment of patience, every moment of genuine understanding is an act of devotion to love." - Preston SmilesToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Defining emotional safety & devotion to our partner's nervous system.Unwinding destructive patterns and embracing persistence.How can we focus on non-verbal cues rather than verbal arguments.Techniques for effective apology and relationship repair.Importance of self-nourishment to maintain a healthy relationship.Prioritizing emotional safety over other relationship aspects.Connect with Preston:Instagram: @prestonsmilesOrder: Spiritual Millionaire Website: prestonsmiles.comYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@prestonsmilesabundanceConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformApply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John WinelandThe Art of Sacred Intimacy - Austin, Tx - February 14-16, 2025 - Enrollment opens November 4th. Join us in-person, or form the comfort of your own home. Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

“In dominant-sub roles, one person holds power and the other gives it up. Unlike simple dominance, erotic leadership is about guiding, influencing, and inspiring”.- Kimi Inch Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:Discussing erotic power dynamics.The healing and connecting power of erotic spaces.Unpacking the concept of "Conscious Kink".The dance of erotic leadership.Taboo territory as way to rediscover your sexuality. The therapeutic potential of erotic play.Connect with Kimi :Instagram: @kimiinchWebsite: andmorepresents.comCourse: The Irresistible Art Of Verbal SeductionDownload: The Kink ChecklistConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of Love - John WinelandStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformApply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John WinelandThe Art of Sacred Intimacy - Austin, Tx - February 14-16, 2025 - Enrollment opens November 4th. Join us in-person, or form the comfort of your own home. Private coaching - Home - John Wineland Coaching

"Where is your value in relationships? Relationships will often end when there is not a deep exchange of value back and forth.".- John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Why do most relationships end?Understanding why breakups are so painful.The best way to end your relationship.Learning from our past relationships.Tools for self-evaluation before entering your next relationship.Connect with John:Instagram: John Wineland  Instagram (@john_wineland)Apply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John Wineland Embodied Men's Leadership - John WinelandJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of Depth - A Masculine Embodiment Practice Circle  The Body of Depth - John WinelandWebsite: Home - John WinelandStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform: The Embodied Relationship ExperiencePrivate coaching -  Home - John Wineland Coaching

 "What I crave emotionally is to be seen and loved for who I am, as I am, in non-judgmental and compassionate ways. That's healing." -Stefanos SifandosToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:The importance of creating physical and emotional space in relationshipsHow devotional love within relationships creates an impact on intimacy.What makes men feel emotionally safe and the influence on their ability to commit and trust.The allure of open-heartedness as a trait in partners.Devotion and Worship within mature and balanced relationships.Connect with Stefanos Sifandos:Website: www.stefanossinfandos.comInstagram: @stefanossifandos Connect with John:Join our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of Love - John WinelandInstagram: Instagram (@john_wineland)Website: Home - John WinelandStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership Platform: The Embodied Relationship ExperienceApply for The Embodied Men's Leadership Training: Embodied Men's Leadership - John WinelandPrivate coaching - Home - John Wineland Coaching

"I'm having an experience of being human here. I've got a heart. I've got feelings. I've got sensations. I'm living life. I'm dealing with joys and disappointments and fears and my own brand of neurosis and you're probably doing the same. And so when we start to reveal our shared humanity to another and we start to really tune in to each other's fears, each other's desires, each other's experience of being human, we begin to recognize our own experience of being human through another, that is another beautiful form of intimacy."-John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Understanding what intimacy really means.How to create real intimacy with your partnerHuman-to-human recognition, another form of intimacyThe best way of getting to know your partner's humanity. Feeling into your partner's divine essence through your own.Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comTraining Program: The Embodied Men's Leadership Training. (esta sold out pero lo menciono)Apply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“Everyone carries a shadow, and the less it is embodied in the individual's conscious life, the blacker and denser it is.” - John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:How to understand your shadows?How do we find our shadows?What does it mean to integrate our shadows?Understanding that the darker parts of our personality have value.Exploring the warrior practices to help you face your demons.Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

"You can train a man to rest in consciousness and sharpen other men, but that's not enough. Good men's work needs both masculine and feminine aspects." - John Wineland.Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:How has men's work evolved over time?Why do we need to challenge the traditional stereotypes and misconceptions about men's work?Why is integrating both feminine and masculine practices crucial in men's work?How does men's work enhance many aspects of a man's life?Top practices to address the holistic needs of a man.Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comJoin the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book - johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

"Our capacity to go from incredibly tender and deep and heart open, almost weeping, to being, you know, sort of brutally primal and hungry, right, and our capacity to have a full range of expression during lovemaking leads to a much more artful lovemaking." - John Wineland.Today on Embodied Relationship Experience: What is sexual artistry?Understanding the tenants upon which sexual artistry is built.How being fully committed and present during lovemaking is similar to an artist lost in their art.Why incorporating artistic expressions into your sexual practices will lead to deeper intimacy. What is feminine and masculine artistry in lovemaking? Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comJoin the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“If you want somebody of value, you have to become valuable, and, in doing so you're not only becoming more magnetic but you're basically transmitting to the world and to the universe your own value, your own fullness, and your own depth.” — John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:How to embody the qualities you desire in a partner.Understanding the principle of attracting what you reflect.The significance of healing childhood wounds in relationship dynamics.How you can improve nervous system capacity, presence, and integrityConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comJoin the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“One of the reasons why I think repair is such a powerful practice is because it involves the masculine capacities of awareness and reflection, combined with the feminine capacities of empathy and expression.” — John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Embracing the art of repair to build trust and safetyIntegrating masculine awareness and feminine empathy in repairsHow to sooth your partner's nervous system during repairsApplying structured frameworks for effective repair conversationsWays to incorporate breath work and embodiment in repairsHow to make consistent efforts to build trust and securityResources:Your Brain on Love by Stan TatkinFierce Intimacy by Terry RealImago Dialogue by Dr. Harville Hendrix and Dr. Helen LaKelly HuntConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformJoin a free trial of ERE: theembodiedrelationshipexperience.comApply for TT: 1000hourteachertraining.comJoin the Art of Sacred Intimacy Portugal: johnwineland.com/the-art-of-sacred-intimacy-2024Private coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.comGet the book -  johnwineland.com/book-from-the-core

“ A healthy sexual polarity is when one partner relaxes their feminine and amplifies their masculine and the other partner relaxes their masculine and amplifies their feminine.” — John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Understanding reversed sexual polarity in relationshipsWhat is the impact when men and women develop non-traditional traitsRecognizing reduced attraction, annoyances, and diminished trustImportance of awareness and practice for healthy dynamicsMethods to restore balance and enhance relationshipsHow to regularly self-assess to support positive polarityConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformBook: From the Core

“Sacred intimacy is loving each other and being physically and sexually intimate with each other from the deepest parts of you, from the infinite parts of you, from the part of you that is love eternal, from the parts of you that are infinite consciousness expanding as the cosmos. And once we start to train our bodies to love from those places, a whole new f*cking world of beauty opens up. ” — John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:How would you describe sacred intimacy and embodiment and a good place to start this practice?What's John's best spiritual practice and teacher?Is unconditional love pure consciousness?What would you do if you were into sacred sexuality, but your long-term partner was only interested in hard s&x?How do you encourage your partner to get into this work, whether it's a man or a woman?How can I feel and hold her expression while addressing the triggers that arise in her?When a safe masculine wants to give me something but I don't feel safe, how do I transmute that?What are ways to show devotion both to a monk in a monastery and when he's focused on you?I can't seem to shake the need for women's validation. How can I manage the anxiety I feel in relationships?Connect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformBook: From the Core

“As humans, there is no escaping loss. There's no amount of money that you can make. There's no amount of impact or fame you can have that is going to shield you from loss. Death is inevitable. Loss is inevitable. This is one of those really beautiful emotions that bonds us as humans, just like love does. And so, the capacity to grieve is also the capacity to be connected to humanity, to have a thread through which you can not only feel your own grief but also feel the grief of other people.” — John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Understanding grief beyond lossJohn's experience and insights from grieving his daughterThe importance of establishing personal and communal grieving practicesHow fully felt emotions can transform into energy that enhances vitalityThe role of community in providing support and witnessing one's grief processGrief as a pathway to deeper self-understanding and connectionConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformBook: From the CoreThis show is produced by Synchro Social

“Every human being has a masculine and feminine essence. Trouble brews when people start to weap onize these terms against each other in relationships. We all have masculine and feminine aspects, and it's important to understand how to navigate these, especially in the realm of modern relationships.” — John WinelandToday on Embodied Relationship Experience:Masculine and feminine energies present in everyoneEvolution of societal roles and expectations of masculinity and femininityCommon misunderstandings and misuse of masculine/feminine terms in relationshipsStrategies to balance masculine/feminine energies for better relationshipsHow imbalances can lead to conflict, resentment, or dissatisfaction in partnershipsConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformBook: From the CoreThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

“Devotion to the relationship, devotion to our partner's nervous system also requires that we let them know how we tick, that we let them know where our reactivity is coming from. We let them know exactly how our nervous system is going to respond to certain stimuli, certain triggers. So just being able to identify and bring our own awareness and our own sort of ruthless honesty to the things that are going on in us is an incredibly helpful way to lay the groundwork for sacred intimacy.” — John WinelandToday on The Embodied Relationship Experience:Exploring the distinction between fleeting and enduring intimate experiencesHow inner work and addressing past traumas foster deep sacred intimacyLearning intimacy skills vs. undergoing deep relational workThe importance of self-awareness and communication of personal triggersCreating a culture that sustains a relationship devoted to sacred intimacyConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comThe Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

“The way that intimacy works is through revealing, and intimacy gets strengthened when we're able to know each other's deep desires, needs, childhood programming, know each other's deepest fears and wounds. So when we endeavor to expand and deepen our intimacy together, there are very specific practices we can do to know each other better as humans and to know each other as divine beings beneath the human. And when we practice these things pretty consistently, it creates a really beautiful, resonant hum in our love life.” — John WinelandToday on The Embodied Relationship Experience:Embracing and resonating with intimacy through human recognitionPrioritizing the relationship's welfare and devotion to loveBalancing masculine and feminine energies for sexual polarityContinuous practice enhances deeper connectionsEvaluating relationships and identifying areas for growthConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comThe Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformThis show is produced by Soulfire Productions

Dive into the destiny-changing practices and principles of spiritual intimacy with renowned men's work and Sacred Intimacy teacher, John Wineland, as he unpacks what makes relationships safe, sacred and truly devotional. Suspend what you have been taught about love and embark on a journey of nervous system expansion and sexual magnetism that will make you a source of healing and spiritual depth in your love life. Join us every other Wednesday as we delve into the practical depth of artistic loving.