Podcasts about self regulation

In Part 2, Ted Kroeten goes deeper into the mechanics of free play, why traditional training misreads how kids actually learn, and how small-sided chaos builds problem-solvers, communicators, and creators. From one-v-one misconceptions to futsal culture, mixed-age environments, and why American kids rarely get “underload” time, Ted explains what the U.S. must rethink to compete globally.He also breaks down what parents can actually do to bring joy and development back into their child's soccer life — even without a Joy of the People program nearby.This conversation is a blueprint for the next 10–15 years of American soccer… if we're willing to go “down the mountain” before climbing higher.Key Talking Points• Why 1v1 isn't the holy grail — and why 2v2 teaches the real language of soccer• What small-sided games unlock: communication, deception, decision-making• The concept of overload vs underload and how it shapes development• Why futsal, SALs, barefoot play, and alternate balls accelerate creativity• The danger of top-down coaching and why talk-heavy models block learning• How kids self-regulate, self-officiate, and learn conflict resolution in real play• Why U.S. kids lack free play opportunities — especially girls• The global shift toward small-sided formats and why the U.S. is behind• How parents can build play cultures at home, in neighborhoods, and in friend groups• Ted's vision for the U.S. over the next 10–15 years — and why a “Play Revolution” is comingQuotes from Ted Kroeten• “Kids don't want to learn soccer — they want to be with their friends. The learning is a byproduct.”• “One-v-one doesn't really exist. Two-v-two teaches the real communication of the game.”• “If a kid knows how they learned it, it can be hacked. If they learned it unconsciously, it can't.”• “Small-sided, uncoached play is where the language of the game is spoken.”• “Friends must come before skills. Trust must come before competition.”• “We don't need more performance — we need more joy.”Episode Chapters00:00 — Why 1v1 Is Misunderstood in Player Development03:45 — 2v2 and 3v3: Where the Language of Soccer Lives07:30 — Small-Sided Chaos and Real Decision-Making11:15 — Overload vs Underload: Reading Kids, Not Results15:30 — Why Futsal Changes How Players Think19:30 — Mixed-Age Play and Learning From Older Kids23:30 — When Performance Kills Joy and Creativity27:45 — Kids Who Love Winning vs Kids Who Love Playing31:45 — Parents, Pressure, and the Loss of Free Play36:00 — Why U.S. Soccer Develops Too Early, Too Fast40:30 — Self-Regulation, Conflict, and Social Learning in Play44:30 — Building Play Environments Without a Club48:45 — What Coaches Talk Too Much About52:45 — Peak Height Velocity and Developmental Timing57:00 — Why Free-Play Kids Struggle Early but Thrive Later1:01:15 — Failing First to Build Better Players1:05:30 — The Next 10–15 Years of American Soccer1:09:30 — A Call to Trust Kids and Protect PlayConnect with Ted / Joy of the People

Nine Simple Practices That Strengthen Relationships Summary In Episode #99 of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis celebrate their 99th episode by sharing nine powerful practices couples can use to strengthen connection, deepen trust, and build meaningful intimacy. Each principle is grounded in years of clinical experience, neuroscience, and relationship research—while remaining practical and accessible for real-life relationships. Together they explore why emotional safety is the foundation of all connection, the importance of ownership over blame, and how consistent attunement builds emotional closeness. They emphasize spending intentional time together, rebuilding trust through small daily actions, learning to emotionally regulate before communicating, and facing—not avoiding—conflict. They also highlight how positive relational interactions nurture bonding and why dreaming and planning for the future together creates shared hope and purpose. Listeners are encouraged to start small, picking one area to work on, knowing that meaningful relationships are built one intentional step at a time. Key References & Influences These concepts draw from established research and recognized thought leaders in relationships, trauma, emotional regulation, and neurobiology: Polyvagal Theory & Safety Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. Emotional Attunement & Attachment Siegel, D. J. (2010). The Mindful Therapist: A Clinician's Guide to Mindsight and Neural Integration. Trust and Relationship Repair Gottman, J. & Silver, N. (2015). The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Gottman, J. (2011). What Makes Love Last? Ownership vs. Blame / Emotional Responsibility Brown, B. (2015). Rising Strong. Conflict Resolution & The Zeigarnik Effect Zeigarnik, B. (1927). On Finished and Unfinished Tasks. Psychologische Forschung. Hope & Future Orientation Seligman, M. (2018). The Hope Circuit: A Psychologist's Journey from Helplessness to Optimism. Trauma, Safety & Human Connection van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score. Conference Invitation If you're ready to go deeper in strengthening your relationship, we invite you to join us at the Human Intimacy 2nd Annual Conference. Use coupon code 50off to receive 50% off registration (limited time): https://humanintimacy.zohobackstage.com/HumanIntimacy2ndAnnualConference#/   Online Supplemental Course: (It's Free) The Human Intimacy Companion Course  

This week I sit down with Dr. Stephen Porges, a Distinguished University Scientist at Indiana University where he is the founding director of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium. He is Professor of Psychiatry at the University of North Carolina, and Professor Emeritus at both the University of Illinois at Chicago and the University of Maryland. He served as president of the Society for Psychophysiological Research and the Federation of Associations in Behavioral & Brain Sciences and is a former recipient of a National Institute of Mental Health Research Scientist Development Award. He has published more than 400 peer-reviewed papers across several disciplines including anesthesiology, biomedical engineering, critical care medicine, ergonomics, exercise physiology, gerontology, neurology, neuroscience, obstetrics, pediatrics, psychiatry, psychology, psychometrics, space medicine, and substance abuse. In 1994 he proposed the Polyvagal Theory, a theory that links the evolution of the mammalian autonomic nervous system to social behavior and emphasizes the importance of physiological state in the expression of behavioral problems and psychiatric disorders. The theory is leading to innovative treatments based on insights into the mechanisms mediating symptoms observed in several behavioral, psychiatric, and physical disorders. ​ He is the author of multiple books on his Polyvagal Theory: including the Neurophysiological foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation, as well as Polyvagal Safety: Attachment, Communication, Self-Regulation. His newest book cowritten with his son is called Our Polyvagal World, How Safety and Trauma Change Us. Dr. Porges is the creator of a music-based intervention, the Safe and Sound Protocol ™ (SSP), which is used by therapists to improve social engagement, language processing, and state regulation, as well as to reduce hearing sensitivities. This is such a fascinating conversation. He brings the worlds of psychiatry and anthropological physiology into union for us to understand the why of trauma reactions and the future unwinding that is now possible. This is a must listen to conversation if you know anyone with trauma history. Please enjoy my conversation with Professor Porges, Dr. M

Merry Christmas!In this heartfelt Christmas Eve service message, Pastor Karl explores the profound truth that Christmas is far more than a baby in a manger—it's the culmination of God's everlasting love story that began in the Garden of Eden.Drawing parallels between Eden and Bethlehem, Pastor Karl unpacks how God's love has always been revealed through three key ways: proximity (drawing near to walk with us), provision (supplying what we cannot provide for ourselves, including forgiveness and eternal life), and parameters (loving boundaries for our protection and flourishing).Yet humanity's response—from Adam and Eve to today—has often been to doubt God's goodness, reject His nearness, and step outside His guardrails. Even so, God's relentless love pursues us, covers our shame, and satisfies His justice through the promised Seed: Jesus Christ, whose virgin birth and sacrificial death crush the enemy's power.Pastor Karl challenges us: Many love the warm vibe of Christmas but avoid its weighty claims. True celebration means embracing God's love fully—belonging to His family, becoming like Christ, giving our lives in response, and going on mission to share His love.This message invites everyone to respond to God's pursuit, whether by placing faith in Jesus for the first time or recommitting to live in joyful obedience within His loving parameters.Join us as Pastor Karl and his son Caleb dive deeper into these truths in a special family message. Come experience the depth of God's love that didn't begin in Bethlehem—but was gloriously fulfilled there.Watch all our sermons on our youtube channel "Flipside Christian Church"Join us in person 8:00am 9:30am & 11:00am every Sunday morning.37193 Ave 12 #3h, Madera, CA 93636For more visit us at flipside.churchFor more podcasts visit flipsidepodcasts.transistor.fm

Self-differentiation is acting in accordance with your goals and values, especially in anxious moments. This episode shows you how, as well as what to do when you don't.Show Notes:Anxious Church, Anxious People: How to Lead Change in an Age of Anxiety If You Met My Family, You'd Understand: A Family Systems PrimerBecome a Patron for as little as $5/month.Subscribe to my weekly ⁠Two for Tuesday⁠ email newsletter.

Ray White chats to Dr John Maloma, Member of the Section 22 Ad Hoc committee for the Christian Sector, about the newly launched self-regulation framework aimed at addressing abuse, exploitation and misconduct within churches. 702 Breakfast with Bongani Bingwa is broadcast on 702, a Johannesburg based talk radio station. Bongani makes sense of the news, interviews the key newsmakers of the day, and holds those in power to account on your behalf. The team bring you all you need to know to start your day Thank you for listening to a podcast from 702 Breakfast with Bongani Bingwa Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays from 06:00 and 09:00 (SA Time) to Breakfast with Bongani Bingwa broadcast on 702: https://buff.ly/gk3y0Kj For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/36edSLV or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/zEcM35T Subscribe to the 702 Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/v5mfetc Follow us on social media: 702 on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TalkRadio702 702 on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talkradio702 702 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkradio702/ 702 on X: https://x.com/Radio702 702 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radio702See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this insightful and empowering episode, I'm joined by Vanessa Gorelkin, an occupational therapist who brings a deeply compassionate and practical perspective to supporting ADHD, especially when it comes to emotional regulation, energy management, and creating environments that help us thrive.Together, we explore how occupational therapy (OT) can be a game-changer for adults with ADHD to help us understand our sensory needs, emotional responses, and daily rhythms. We also explore Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) and Internal Family Systems (IFS), two powerful frameworks that offer tools for navigating emotional ups and downs with more ease and self-compassion.My new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, is now available, grab your copy here!Key Takeaways:What occupational therapy can look like for adults with ADHDHow DBT techniques like emotional regulation and distress tolerance can help ADHDThe importance of workplace accommodations for neurodivergent individualsEnergy management and the mental health impact of overcompensating for sensory challengesHow to identify your optimal conditions to avoid overstimulation and burnoutThe role of the sensitive nervous system and being stuck in a high-cortisol stateUsing the diving reflex to regulate your internal state (yes to sighing, cold water, and essential oils!)Why timing matters when it comes to meditation and restHow Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps us understand our behaviours and emotional triggersWhy a holistic approach is essential in ADHD therapy and wellbeingWhether you're managing anxiety, experiencing burnout, or looking for practical, holistic strategies to support your nervous system, this episode is packed with supportive takeaways for you to try!Join the More Yourself Community - the doors are now open!More Yourself is a compassionate space for late-diagnosed ADHD women to connect, reflect, and come home to who they really are. Sign up here!Inside the More Yourself Membership, you'll be able to:Connect with like-minded women who understand you Learn from guest experts and practical toolsReceive compassionate prompts & gentle remindersEnjoy voice-note encouragement from KateJoin flexible meet-ups and mentoring sessionsAccess on-demand workshops and quarterly guest expert sessionsTo join for £26 a month, click here. To join for £286 for a year (a whole month free!), click here.We'll also be walking through The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit together, exploring nervous system regulation, burnout recovery, RSD, joy, hormones, and self-trust, so...

Anders Sorensen is a Danish clinical psychologist with a PhD in psychiatry.  He's one of the world's leading authorities on psychiatric drug dependence and the complex science of safely discontinuing these medications. His  book "Crossing Zero: The Art and Science of Coming Off-and Staying off- Psychiatric drugs" is a seminal book on how to help people break psychiatric drug dependence and restore their inner compass and relationship to emotions. This conversation discusses emotion regulation in great depth and the lost art of how to respond to our inner world of thoughts, memories and emotions. Anders also discusses the future of mental health, his recent experience with psilocybin and how to restore sanity living in a culture in decline. Substack: https://crossingzero.substack.com/X: https://x.com/_AndersSorensenPurchase Crossing Zero on Amazon Visit Center for Integrated Behavioral HealthDr. Roger McFillin / Radically Genuine WebsiteYouTube @RadicallyGenuineDr. Roger McFillin (@DrMcFillin) / XSubstack | Radically Genuine | Dr. Roger McFillinInstagram @radicallygenuineContact Radically GenuineConscious Clinician CollectivePLEASE SUPPORT OUR PARTNERS15% Off Pure Spectrum CBD (Code: RadicallyGenuine)10% off Lovetuner click here

Application pour EV0360 : https://hlperformance.caRéférences scientifiques :Bandura, A. (1997). Self-Efficacy: The Exercise of Control. W. H. Freeman.Carver, C. S., & Scheier, M. F. (1998). On the Self-Regulation of Behavior. Cambridge University Press.Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (2000). The “What” and “Why” of Goal Pursuits. Psychological Inquiry.Diamond, A. (2013). Executive Functions. Annual Review of Psychology.Fuster, J. M. (2015). The Prefrontal Cortex. Academic Press.Powers, W. T. (1973). Behavior: The Control of Perception. Aldine.Seligman, M. E. P. (1975). Learned Helplessness. W. H. Freeman.

In this deeply vulnerable solo episode, Darin dismantles one of the great myths of modern self-help: that transformation is something you're meant to "do alone." Drawing from neuroscience, anthropology, physiology, and personal experience, he reveals the biological truth — the human nervous system is designed to heal, grow, and stabilize in relationship, not isolation. This conversation explores why loneliness creates physiological damage, why belonging is a survival requirement (not a luxury), and how to intentionally rebuild the village your cells have been waiting for. If you've ever felt like you're doing all the "inner work" but still feel disconnected, this episode is the medicine.     What You'll Learn in This Episode 00:00:00 - Opening SuperLife intro narration. 00:00:32 - Sponsor: Therasage — family-driven healing technology, infrared and natural frequency support, details on discount. 00:02:11 - Darin begins the episode — "You were never meant to do this alone." 00:02:22 - The forgotten biology of community and why humans are not built for isolation. 00:03:01 - Your nervous system regulates in relationship — the vagus nerve, safety, co-regulation. 00:03:19 - Social engagement system — coherence, cortisol regulation, belonging as biology. 00:04:03 - Social pain = physical pain; the Baumeister research; the architecture of human connection. 00:05:01 - Tribes, proximity, shared life — Dunbar's number and the limits of real human networks. 00:05:30 - Loneliness as physiology — cortisol elevation, inflammation, disrupted sleep, gray-matter changes. 00:07:01 - Personal growth was never meant to be personal — autonomy, competence, relatedness, love. 00:07:55 - If nobody sees you, your nervous system can't relax — mirrors vs willpower. 00:08:31 - Social contagion of behavior — your network shapes your health. 00:09:01 - Who are you wired into? Environment as epigenetic instruction. 00:10:12 - Why online spaces generate stress instead of transformation. 00:10:35 - Darin's vision: community as a practice, not performance. 00:11:29 - Sponsor: Bite Toothpaste — plastic waste, sustainability, clean ingredients, discount code. 00:13:11 - What if growth wasn't a grind? What if healing was tribal again? 00:13:35 - Building intentional space — not fandom, not following, but practice. 00:14:11 - Supporting the nervous system through community; truth over scrolling. 00:15:04 - Why Patreon — structure, privacy, belonging, circle not feed. 00:15:23 - People looking for truth, depth, real connection — not performance. 00:15:51 - Start building your circle; align with those who align with you. 00:16:12 - You need to be seen, not fixed — community as transformation. 00:17:00 - One person can change your life — the power of being mirrored. 00:17:31 - Men's group, friendships, working out — the daily relational fabric. 00:18:01 - If you're lonely or disconnected, the desire for connection already shifts your biology. 00:18:41 - Darin reflects on a hard year, pain, stem cells, and the deeper healing found in being witnessed. 00:19:26 - Every cell responds when you say yes to deeper connection — the universe moves with it. 00:20:07 - Understanding human biology: we want love, connection, safety, belonging. 00:20:36 - Cutting through "what do you eat" questions — the real priority is connection. 00:21:00 - Closing: "Joy and happiness. Connection. We are built for it… I love you."     Thank You to Our Sponsors Therasage: Go to www.therasage.com and use code DARIN at checkout for 15% off Bite Toothpaste: Go to trybite.com/DARIN20 or use code DARIN20 for 20% off your first order.     Join the SuperLife Patreon: This is where Darin now shares the deeper work: - weekly voice notes - ingredient trackers - wellness challenges - extended conversations - community accountability - sovereignty practices Join now for only  $7.49/month at https://patreon.com/darinolien     Find More from Darin Olien: Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Podcast Website: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences     Key Takeaway "You don't need to be fixed. You don't need to be saved. You just need to be seen — and we cannot do that alone."     Bibliography Neuroscience & Biology of Connection Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. New York: W.W. 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Want to help your child build real emotional resilience—without power struggles or shame? In this heart-centered and science-backed episode, Wendy sits down with educator, content creator, and former Sesame Street director Anna Housley Juster, Ph.D., LICSW to explore how play, brain science, and emotional literacy help kids build true self-regulation. Anna explains how the amygdala works, why threat responses show up so fast, and how connection, storytelling, and simple co-regulation tools can help both kids (and parents) feel safe and calm during big emotional moments.

How Journaling Activates Your Brain for Resilience and Self-Regulation 'ask dorothy' The WISDOM podcast  Season 5  Episode 108 ~ I've always expressed to clients, the importance and therapeutic benefit of writing as a practice for  being able to process and understand an experience and to find answers and comfort in what is called expressive writing.   When you write about your feelings, research from brain scans show us that the prefrontal cortex (the region of the brain responsible for reasoning) begins to synchronize with the amygdala (which is the region of the brain that processes emotions.) Journal writing is this tool that allows the brain to be able to both communicate and understand. Here I share the five forms of journaling together with what happens in the brain (and for you) as you experience their positive affects. Please reach out to me  if you would like my help in using journaling as a tool for healing, for resilience and self-regulation. Namaste

Y'all, this one lit me up. Talking with Chris felt like having someone finally hand me the manual for relationships that we all swear should exist, but no one ever gives us. He has this wildly grounded way of explaining attachment, self regulation, and emotional safety that makes you stop and go - Oh wait, that's me. And that's my ex. And that's the pattern I swear I'm not repeating anymore.This episode is honest, eye opening, and surprisingly comforting. If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting the same type, or why certain dynamics feel so familiar, Chris breaks it all down in a way that just hits. I left this conversation feeling clearer, lighter, and honestly a little called out in the best possible way.Highlights:(03:12) The four attachment styles(12:45) Why 60 percent of healthy relationships come from self regulation(22:18) The first big non negotiable emotional safety and why it matters(33:02) Why anxious and avoidant types keep finding each other(45:10) A simple way to tell the difference between intuition and anxiety(55:41) How secure people rebound fasterFind out more about Chris: Instagram: @evolvedbychrisQualia Mind - click hereCoupon Code: SHOCKANDYALL (15% off any purchase)Visit Nicole's on demand fitness platform for live weekly classes and a recorded library of yoga, strength training, guided audio meditations and mobility (Kinstretch) classes, as well: https://www.sweatandstillness.comGrab Nicole's bestselling children's book and enter your email for A FREE GIFT: https://www.yolkedbook.comFind Nicole on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/nicolesciacca/Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenicolesciaccaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/nicolesciaccayoga/Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1X8PPWCQa2werd4unex1eAPractice yoga with Nicole in person in Santa Monica, CA at Aviator Nation Ride. Get the App to book in: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/aviator-nation-ride/id1610561929Book a discovery call or virtual assessment with Nicole here: https://www.calendly.com/nicolesciaccaThis Podcast is proudly produced by Wavemakers Audio

In this episode, Chris and Kevin dig into one simple, but powerful habit for lowering stress and thinking more clearly: speaking your thoughts out loud or writing them down.While breaking down why talking out loud or writing your thoughts is one of the simplest ways to regulate stress. They explore:-How naming emotions activates the prefrontal cortex and quiets the stress response-Why unspoken problems drain mental energy and keep your brain in “swirl mode”-How externalizing thoughts creates clarity and frees up cognitive load-A comparison to the double-slit experiment: unspoken problems = probability cloud; speaking/writing = collapsing it into focus-How this process returns you to awareness, reminding you that you're not your problem, you're the observer of your problemAs always, they end the episode with a practical tool you can use right away to start applying this into your life.

Christmas is a beautiful time of the year, but it can also be a melting pot of triggers, emotions, stress, leading to very dysregulated nervous systems.. which can lead to poor choices or even some self sabotage. Me and a host of other beautiful previous guests, experts and people who have made it through these times have got your back. For the 25 days of Christmas I will be posting 25 mini episodes with a tip every single day to help get you through.Fore more info or to work with me go to www.iquitalcohol.com.auI loved this chat with my good friend Sam Brown @soulfullifestyleSam also takes us through a simple but very effective practice to regulate and ground the system.To find out more about Sam and her offerings head to https://thesoulfullifestyle.com.au/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does parenting sometimes feel overwhelming or chaotic? In this episode, Dr Chris Willard shares how mindfulness, humor, and small daily practices can shift the tone of your home and build resilience for kids. He explains why calm begins with you and how presence matters more than perfection. Listen now to discover one simple shift that can bring more peace and connection into your family life.What to expect in this episode:Dr Chris Willard's journey with ADHD, sobriety, and mindfulnessMindfulness as play, humor, movement, and creativityHow a few breaths can calm the body and sharpen focusWhy parent regulation shapes child regulationSimple daily tools to reset stress and restore connectionAbout Christopher Willard, PsyDDr. Christopher is a clinical psychologist, author, and consultant based in Massachusetts. He teaches at Harvard Medical School and has shared his expertise on mindfulness and mental health in over forty countries, including two TEDx events. Dr. Willard is the author of twenty books, such as Alphabreaths (2019), Growing Up Mindful (2016), Feelings Are Like Farts (2023), and College Mental Health 101 (2025). His work has been featured in The New York Times, The Washington Post, mindful.org, CNN.com, and many other outlets.  Connect with Dr. ChristopherWebsite: Dr. Christopher Willard Instagram: @drchriswillardRelated Links: Helping Young Adults Get Back On Track https://impactparents.com/helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track The Power of Good Enough: Progress Over Perfection https://impactparents.com/the-power-of-good-enough-progress-over-perfectionSimplifying Mindfulness (and How to Start Small) https://impactparents.com/simplifying-mindfulness-and-how-to-start-small Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/podcastgift Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/fun-simple-mindfulness-for-adhd-families-with-dr.-chris-willard Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Episode 102 Positivity Activation Meditation | Ep. 5 in the Power of Positivity Series •Unlock the 4 Keys to Positivity: Discover Presence, Perception, Possibility & Practice — and how to use them to shift your mindset in real time.•Feel Better Fast: Learn how these principles calm stress, ease anxiety, lift heaviness, and open you to aligned manifestation.•Turn Insight Into Embodiment: A simple framework to weave positivity into your daily rhythm, so it becomes who you are, not just what you think.•Guided Positivity Activation: A soothing guided meditation to realign your energy, expand your potential, and anchor a higher vibration in your body. Book your free discovery call to find out how to become a co-author in the collaborative book Om La La: The Power of Positivity Guidebook Learn more about retreats, courses, workshops, 1:1 sessions and sign up for my e-newsletter on www.consciousness-medicine.comCheck out the blog associated with this podcast too!If you'd like to donate to this podcast, your gift will be directly applied to production costs! Stay Connected on Social Media:Facebook: www.facebook.com/CentreforConsciousnessMedicineInstagram: www.instagram.com/wellnesswisdomwithjulieLinked In: www.linkedin.com/in/julie-williams-cxmed Production assistance from Podlad.com | Art image by Joma Sipe

Play isn't just fun—it's essential. In this episode, Ginger and Julie unpack the science, healing power, and everyday possibilities of play. From brain development to emotional regulation, play shapes resilience, fosters connection, and repairs the impact of trauma. You'll hear how movement amplifies the benefits, how barriers like technology and busy schedules can be addressed, and why play matters just as much for adults as it does for kids.Along the way, we highlight the insights of Dr. Tina Payne Bryson, Dr. Dan Hughes, Dr. Dave Ziegler, and Dr. Stuart Brown, plus practical strategies for both parents and educators to make play a daily part of life—even in middle and high school classrooms.Whether you're parenting, teaching, or healing alongside children, this episode will inspire you to see play not as a reward or an afterthought, but as a biological imperative and a vital tool for growth, recovery, and joy.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why play is a “biological imperative” and a cornerstone of healthy brain development.How play supports emotional regulation, resilience, and relationship-building—especially for children impacted by trauma.The connection between movement, nervous system regulation, and healing.Common barriers to play (like technology, safety concerns, and adult exhaustion) and how to overcome them.How a playful stance from adults—rooted in curiosity and delight—reduces defensiveness and fosters openness.Practical ways parents can integrate more play into daily life.Classroom-friendly ideas for incorporating play at all grade levels, including middle and high school.Why adults also need play for creativity, flexibility, and emotional health.“When we prioritize play, we're not just making memories—we're shaping brains.” — Dr. Tina Payne BrysonResources & References:Bryson, T. P. (2024). The Way of Play https://a.co/d/hmyINYlBrown, S. (2009). Play: How It Shapes the Brain, Opens the Imagination, and Invigorates the Soul https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2009-17682-000Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation https://a.co/d/ahbaGPQHughes, D. A. (2009). Attachment-Focused Parenting https://a.co/d/5lfYF1pBongiorno, L. (NAEYC). “10 Things Every Parent Should Know About Play” https://www.naeyc.org/our-work/families/10-things-every-parent-playBYU Arts Playbook — Nurturing Developmental Skills Through Arts-Integrated Education

Just in time for the chaos of the season! What is self-regulation, and how do we model that for our children? Join Joy and Raenelle as they interview Kathleen Crevasse on this concept and learn how to offer yourself some compassion in the process. 

In this episode, Professor AG talks about intuitive eating, somatic practices, and learning to accept your body as it is. She shares helpful thoughts on emotional regulation and simple ways to calm yourself when things feel overwhelming, all while encouraging personal growth. The conversation touches on how our relationship with food can feel vulnerable and why it's so important to appreciate the body we're living in. She also talks about receiving abundance and trusting the process of life, inviting you to reflect on your own journey with a light and open mindset.Links in this episode50% off my courses!! Sale on the courses here with code: AGU50Book rec: Women, Food and GodIntuitive Eating CourseTimestamps00:00 Introduction and Breathwork Practice02:27 Rhythmic Healing and Somatic Practices05:29 Community Engagement and Membership Updates07:47 Exploring Intuitive Eating and Pleasure10:28 Book Insights: Women, Food, and God15:11 Embracing the Body and Emotional Connection20:27 Understanding Self-Sabotage and Intuitive Eating23:48 The Connection Between Body and Mind26:38 Practical Guidelines for Mindful Eating29:44 Breaking Autopilot: Somatic Practices for Awareness33:56 The Power of Self-Regulation and Gossip36:33 Aligning with Natural Cycles for Well-Being40:22 Embracing the Art of Receiving AbundanceKeywords: intuitive eating, somatic practices, rhythmic healing, emotional regulation, body acceptance, community engagement, nourishment, self-soothing, abundance, personal growthWhat is AGU? After launching an energy work practice rooted in the Akashic Records, AG uncovered so much information that she needs the world to hear! It's her duty and personal mission to help people get in touch with their intuition and energetic gifts, and ultimately become the brightest and boldest version of themselves! This is your official acceptance letter: WELCOME TO AG UNIVERSITY! AG's Energetic Protection CoursesAG's Book Club How To Read The Akashic Records CourseSign up for the newsletter if you are interested in doing a reading with Anna Grace, or learning more about her energy work practice. Sessions will ONLY become available here - her booking link will never be shared on any other platforms: Sign up hereIf you aren't already - you can connect with AG on Instagram and TikTok: @annagracenewell on all platforms! XO

Alé Duarte, somatic therapist and creator of KidSoma joins me this week to explore how tuning into your child's natural rhythms can completely transform the way you understand their emotions and reactions.   Together we unpack:   - Why play isn't a break from learning, it is the learning. - What it means to help your child "complete a cycle" so their nervous system can settle and grow. - How "unfinished cycles" can leave kids dysregulated, impulsive, or anxious—and what parents can do to help their child complete these cycles in daily life. - Realistic ways to implement these strategies even when you're juggling busy schedules, time pressures, and the realities of everyday parenting. - Why slowing down and following your child's lead can actually make mornings smoother, transitions easier, and connection deeper.   If you've ever wished you could understand what's happening underneath your child's big emotions and find a calmer rhythm for your entire family system, this conversation will change the way you see play, presence, and parenting.     LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST:

Send us a textHeather and I are talking about self regulation and technology.  People are persuaded by digital technology Technology and connection can reduce problem behaviorGreater self regulation reduces problematic technology useHeather and I want to know ways that you try to be responsible when giving labels.https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evidence-based-living/202508/what-we-know-about-self-regulation-and-technology-among-kids

Have you ever wished for a daily guide on your nervous system regulation journey? One that offers structure without being overwhelming, and personalized support without the need for intensive coaching?In this special announcement episode, Justin introduces a project he's been working on for months: the Self-Regulation Coach. Discover the "middle path" to getting unstuck—a tool designed for those who thrive with daily structure, gentle nudges, and expert guidance right in their pocket.Learn how this AI-powered app creates a personalized, step-by-step roadmap tailored to your nervous system. With bite-sized daily lessons, exclusive micro-mindfulness practices, and instant, compassionate feedback from your AI coach, you can build sustainable change at your own pace.If you're ready to move from feeling stuck to building a life of calm, confidence, and connection, this episode is your starting point.Start your personalized journey with the Self-Regulation Coach today: studio.com/justin/self-regulation-coachResources:

In this episode, Dr. Amy Vertrees—general surgeon, coach, and founder of the Boss Surgeons coaching community—dives into one of the most overlooked competencies in surgical training: emotional capacity. Surgeons are taught how to operate under pressure, handle emergencies, and constantly pursue excellence. But very few are ever taught how to feel the intense emotions that come with the job, let alone process and recover from them. As a result, emotional capacity—rather than building over time like technical skill—often shrinks, quietly eroding confidence, performance, and well-being. This episode breaks down what emotional capacity truly is, why it matters, and how surgeons can intentionally rebuild and expand it. What You'll Learn in This Episode • Emotional capacity defined—and why surgeons need it Emotional capacity is the ability to feel, process, and recover from emotions. It is essential for longevity in surgery, yet rarely discussed in training programs that focus almost exclusively on skill and knowledge. • The emotional challenges surgeons face daily Regret, worry, fear, insecurity, and self-doubt aren't signs of weakness. They're part of the job. When they go unprocessed, they create burnout, impulsivity, and emotional blunting. • Why emotional capacity can shrink over time Unlike surgical skill, emotional capacity declines if neglected. Unprocessed emotions accumulate and begin to drive behavior, often without awareness. • How to recognize and name emotions with clarity "You cannot process what you cannot name." Dr. Vertrees shares how using the example of regret during a case transfer can transform shame or resentment into motivation and learning. • Managing intensity without being overtaken by it Surgeons constantly shift between high-intensity events and routine interactions. This requires compartmentalization—but too much compartmentalization leads to emotional numbness. • Breaking the prolonged stress cycle Chronic stress signals the body that it is unsafe. Dr. Vertrees explains how simple techniques like box breathing help return the nervous system to safety and restore capacity. • Releasing unrealistic responsibility Surgeons are trained to "own everything," which often leads to carrying burdens far beyond what is reasonable or controllable. • Reconnecting with yourself Disconnection from one's own needs is one of the earliest and most dangerous signs of burnout. Reconnection is essential for restoring emotional bandwidth. • How to rebuild emotional capacity You'll hear practical strategies including: Identifying and allowing emotions without judgment Creating micro-pauses Noticing the thoughts generating feelings Allowing joy, gratitude, and celebration to expand capacity Understanding that confidence comes from acting with difficult emotions, not from eliminating them • Coaching as a tool for building emotional strength Dr. Vertrees shares how coaching can help surgeons process emotions effectively, reconnect with themselves, and reclaim confidence. Episode Chapters 00:00:02 — Introduction to Emotional Capacity in Surgery 00:01:29 — Understanding Regret as an Example 00:03:34 — Emotional Capacity vs. Skills and Knowledge 00:05:57 — Expanding Emotional Bandwidth Under Pressure 00:08:05 — Managing Intensity Without Being Overtaken 00:09:44 — Recovery and Compartmentalization 00:11:36 — Self-Regulation and the Prolonged Stress Cycle 00:14:04 — Managing the Load of Responsibility 00:16:05 — Staying Connected with Yourself 00:18:47 — Rebuilding Emotional Capacity 00:26:07 — Conclusion and Coaching Opportunities Action Items for Surgeons If you're feeling overwhelmed or burned out, reach out to a coach who understands surgeon-specific challenges. Start a small gratitude practice to create space for positive emotions and prevent emotional saturation. Join the Boss Surgeons coaching group—signing up now grants the rest of 2025 free as we enroll for the 2026 program year. Visit bosssurgery.com to learn more about 1:1 coaching, the Boss Surgeons group, and upcoming programs.

In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Kathy Wu to explore the transformative power of self-regulation and resilience in both teens and adults. We discover practical, evidence-based strategies for managing emotions, building stronger relationships, and fostering personal growth—whether we're parents, leaders, or simply looking to better understand ourselves. With insights grounded in real-life experiences and proven therapeutic approaches, we uncover the value of shifting from control to curiosity, engaging in empathic confrontation, and leveraging problems as powerful opportunities to grow. Walk away with actionable tools to positively impact your home, work, and community conversations.Timestamps: (00:06) - Introducing Dr. Kathy Wu and highlighting her background.(01:03) - Explaining the philosophy: problems as opportunities to grow.(04:13) - How challenges foster self-reflection and resilience.(08:19) - Tools for managing frustration and understanding emotions.(11:07) - Self-regulation as a lifelong process and muscle to flex.(13:04) - Overview of evidence-based modalities: CBT, ACT, and DBT.(17:19) - Importance of developing interpersonal skills and active listening.(22:14) - Practicing empathic confrontation and listening without judgment.(27:38) - Helping teenagers build self-regulation and validating emotions.(45:45) - Strategies for healthy technology use and family relationships.Links and Resources:The Self-Regulation Handbook for Teens and Young Adults: A Trauma-Informed Guide to Fostering Personal Resilience and Enhancing Interpersonal Skills Counseling | Dr. Kathy Wu | United StatesSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media

In this episode of More Yourself, I'm sharing a clip from a recent SEED Talk I presented back in July, focusing on how we can work with our uniquely wonderful ADHD brains, rather than against them. Understanding our ADHD brain is a key element of healing, but we don't have to face this as though it is something new. We have always been neurodivergent, but we may not have had the language or awareness to understand it before. The modern world asks us to constantly perform, engage in challenging environments and overcompensate to fit in, but this can be exhausting. When we begin to find self-compassion, honour our unique experiences, we can tune into our bodies and take small, intentional steps toward self-care, self-regulation, and authenticity. In turn, self-trust releases the need for external validation and reclaims a life that feels more aligned, more spacious, and more true to who we are.My new book, The ADHD Women's Wellbeing Toolkit, is now available, grab your copy here!What I discuss:Some of the deepest pressures we carry come from within, shaped by internalised expectations and perfectionism.How to better understand your personal bandwidth by noticing the people, environments, and choices that either energise or deplete you.How to break intergenerational cycles of burnout, overwhelm and people pleasing through creating a supportive environment.Understanding your priorities and asking yourself what you want to let go of.How creativity, breathwork, and other self-regulation tools can gently support you through anxiety and depression.The healing power of self-advocacy, and what can happen when you give yourself full permission to rest, take up space, and just be.Timestamps:00:05 - The Recognition of Neurodiversity01:51 - Understanding Our Neurodivergent Experiences06:10 - Understanding Burnout and Setting Boundaries09:09 - Embracing Change and Letting Go14:12 - The Importance of Self-Regulation and Asking for Help15:19 - The Power of Self-Acceptance and PermissionThe More Yourself Community doors are now open!More Yourself is a compassionate space for late-diagnosed ADHD women to connect, reflect, and come home to who they really are. Sign up here!Inside the More Yourself Membership, you'll be able to:Connect with like-minded women who understand you Learn from guest experts and practical toolsReceive compassionate prompts & gentle remindersEnjoy voice-note encouragement from KateJoin flexible meet-ups and mentoring sessionsAccess on-demand workshops and quarterly guest expert sessionsTo join for £26 a month, click here. To join for £286 for a year (a whole month free!), click here.We'll also be walking through

You quit everything — screens, stimulation, even connection — thinking it would make you feel alive again.But three weeks into your dopamine detox, you feel worse. Numb. Flat. Drained.That's not failure — it's feedback. Your brain isn't broken; it's withdrawing.When you've spent years wired for constant novelty, cutting dopamine off doesn't regulate your system — it crashes it.Your neurons go silent, your motivation disappears, and your nervous system panics in the quiet.The truth? You don't need dopamine abstinence. You need dopamine regulation.Discipline without regulation is deprivation. But discipline with understanding becomes freedom.Neuroscientist Explains the Hidden Cost of Dopamine Abstinence

This week I'm joined by Lori Woodley-Langendorff, Co-Founder of All It Takes, author of SEL Muscle Mastery (& mother to Shailene Woodley!) —to unpack how social-emotional literacy moves us from autopilot to intentional living. We explore why self-regulation is the foundation of resilience, how to teach SEL as a practice, and what smartphones and AI are doing to our capacity for connection and critical thinking. Lori shares a grounded definition of happiness as a calm inner safety that persists despite chaos.

Summary: Calm doesn't equal quiet. In this episode, Isa reframes “good” classrooms as regulated, connected spaces—not silent ones—and shares three practical shifts: pre-frame transitions with connection, normalize natural “volume waves,” and model regulation out loud so children can borrow your calm. The goal isn't quiet compliance; it's safe, confident learners—and a teacher who trusts the noise. LET'S CONNECT!We would love to connect with you!  Here are all the ways we can support you in your early education career!The Teacher's Lounge Website:     theearlyeducationteacherslounge.comPodcast:   The Teacher's Lounge For Early EducationFacebook:  The Early Education Teacher's LoungeInstagram:  @eecteacherslounge

In this episode, Gabby Reece sits down with Anna Runkle, known online as the Crappy Childhood Fairy, to discuss her new book, 'Connectability'. Anna shares her personal journey of overcoming the long-term effects of growing up in a chaotic home filled with unpredictability, alcoholism, trauma and neglect. She emphasizes the importance of self-regulation, rebuilding trust and fostering meaningful connections with yourself and others. In addition, she sheds light on her own experience in therapy and the epiphany that changed her life and led her to the work she currently does. Though she admits therapy can be helpful for many, she brings up the idea that repetition and rumination weren't helping her move forward. Anna describes effective techniques such as written prayer and meditation practices that have helped her and millions of others around the world. The episode also touches on healthy relationships, practical strategies for personal growth and Anna's unique, hands-on approach to healing childhood trauma. Anna Runkle's Website: https://crappychildhoodfairy.com/about/ Anna Runkle's YouTube Channel:  https://www.youtube.com/CrappyChildhoodFairy Follow Anna Runkle on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/crappychildhoodfairy/?hl=en  "Connectability" by Anna Runkle: https://a.co/d/ehDeYOl Thank You to Our Sponsors mauinuivenison.com/GABBY Superpower Go to Superpower.com to learn more and lock in the special $199 price while it lasts. Live up to your 100-Year potential. #superpowerpod Laird Superfood High-quality ingredients paired with incredible taste. Use the code GABBY20 for 20% off your purchase at lairdsuperfood.com For more on Gabby Instagram @GabbyReece: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok @GabbyReeceOfficial https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GabbyReece  The Gabby Reece Show podcast is Produced by Rainbow Creative (https://www.rainbowcreative.co/)  CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction and Personal Struggles 00:32 Guest Introduction and Book Discussion 02:51 Anna Runkel's Background and Childhood 04:42 Coping Mechanisms and Personal Growth 09:19 Understanding Trauma and Therapy 25:36 Parenting and Personal Practices 30:02 Techniques for Healing and Relationships 39:13 The Impact of Early Attachment in Relationships 40:41 The Importance of Letting Men Take the Lead 41:04 Personal Experience with Relationship Dynamics 41:53 Introduction to Superpower Health Service 44:33 Navigating Personal Conflicts and Self-Regulation 47:54 Effective Communication and Setting Boundaries 57:43 The Role of Self-Care and Meditation 01:10:09 Final Thoughts and Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Preventing Burnout Through Embodiment In this episode, I sit down with Julius, a leadership coach who knows firsthand what burnout feels like from his years in management consultancy. Julius shares how embodiment practices and organizational behavior can bridge the gap between what we know about burnout and what we actually do to prevent it. By tuning into body awareness and reconnecting with our physical vitality, leaders can develop practical ways to manage stress and protect their energy. Understanding and Preventing Burnout Julius and I opened up about our personal experiences with burnout, from sleepless nights and rising anxiety to withdrawing from activities that once brought joy. I emphasized the importance of digging into the deeper motivations that fuel burnout, while Julius outlined his approach using gestalt therapy and embodiment practices to restore balance and resilience in leaders. Balancing Emotions in Leadership Julius shared a story about coaching a leader to find the right balance between professional composure and authentic emotional expression. Rather than shutting down emotions, he helps leaders integrate them into healthier ways of working. I reflected on the historical challenges female leaders have faced and highlighted the urgent need for better leadership training that supports both emotional skills and professional growth. Enhancing Leadership Through Practical Skills We both agreed that leadership demands more than theory. Universities often miss the mark by not equipping students with the life skills they will actually need in the workplace such as emotional regulation, communication, and professional behavior. Together, Julius and I explored how these skills could reshape both education and organizational success. Self-Awareness in Leadership Development A key theme in our conversation was self-awareness. Julius and I discussed how clarity on personal values, needs, and goals drives more meaningful action and prevents burnout. I shared my own journey of recovery, where asking “why does this matter to me?” shifted everything. Julius emphasized that while organizations may fear the vulnerability that comes with self-exploration, the real risk lies in avoiding it altogether. Self-Regulation and Organizational Development Julius introduced his 4A model which stands for awareness, attraction, action, and alignment. This practical framework supports self-regulation and leadership growth. I recalled my time at Daimler-Benz, where inviting outside perspectives into project debriefs expanded capacity and improved results without additional hiring. Both of us stressed that feedback and reflection are non-negotiable for personal and organizational growth. The Value of Dialogue in Leadership Julius highlighted dialogue as a cornerstone of healthy organizations, helping leaders and teams release pressure and broaden perspective. I agreed, noting that genuine communication tears down silos and prevents misunderstandings before they grow into bigger issues. Embodied Leadership in Action To close, we explored Julius's work on embodied leadership and how listeners can learn more. If you want to deepen your leadership through embodiment, you can connect with Julius through his website or LinkedIn. Julius went from executive burnout in high-pressure tech environments to pioneering Embodied Leadership, a method that blends psychology, neuroscience, and somatic practices. As founder of the Alive School of Embodied Leadership & Transformation in Berlin, he helps leaders from startups to global enterprises sustain performance without burning out. A published author and Harvard Business Manager contributor, Julius shares practical “bodyhacks” and strategies to move from leadership frustration (Führungsfrust) to leadership joy (Führungslust). His approach offers listeners actionable tools to prevent burnout and thrive.

Send us a textStarting Over When You Had No Choice - A Science-Backed Guide to Healing and GrowthWhen life forces you to start over-losing roles like parent, partner, or high performer...it can feel like your identity has shattered. Survival mode kicks in, clarity fades, and dreaming of a better future feels impossible.In this episode, we explore the science of rebuilding your life with purpose. You'll discover how to stabilize your nervous system, reconnect with your future self, and take small, intentional steps to regain trust and momentum.What you'll learn:Why overthinking, overgiving, and overworking are your brain's way of seeking safety and how to break free.How breathwork and pacing revive clarity and emotional regulation.The power of mental time travel to turn purpose into a felt experience.We share simple, evidence-based tools to help you rebuild:The 4-6 breath pattern to calm your vagus nerve.Self-parenting scripts to steady fear and self-doubt.A three-part daily anchor: stabilize, choose, stretch.Blending trauma science, neuroplasticity, and meaning-making traditions, this episode offers a practical roadmap to move from survival to growth. It's not about erasing your past or rushing ahead- it's about syncing your history and future in the present so you can rebuild with purpose and progress, one small step at a time.If you're in a season of starting over, this is your guide to finding calm, clarity, and courage.✨ Ready for deeper alignment? Book your free Prosperity Activation Session to map your next aligned step toward healing and purpose.  Click HereSubscribe, share with someone rebuilding their life, and leave a review with your next brave step forward.

Today I have an incredible interview with Justine Stull. Justine is one of the admins on my Heal with Nicole and Nicole Sachs Support Circle communities. She's been with us for a few years, and she's just so wise. There's nothing like sitting with someone who has really walked through the work herself and now takes other people through with her beautiful guidance and caring comments on our pages. Today, Justine and I are going to be talking about her own chronic pain journey and all of the impactful practices she's gathered along the way - with a focus on self-compassion and self-regulation. One of my favorite things she says in the beginning is, "The first thing to leave was the fear." That's a great place to start! Enjoy this conversation filled with so many gold nuggets! XOXO n. Learn how to JournalSpeak: ➡️ LEARN HOW: https://bit.ly/3IsmzN4 For the month of OCTOBER, if you'd like a free 20 minute call with one of our coaches to see if coaching is a fit for you, click here! 1:1 COACHING WITH TRAINED COACHES SUPERVISED DIRECTLY BY NICOLE PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW THE PODCAST HERE TO HELP OTHERS FIND IT! Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser Learn more about Justine www.JustineMindBodyOT.com ~~~~~ SUPPORT:

Love is regulation — and safety begins in the heart.In this deeply moving conversation, Joanne Avison sits down with Jyoti Manuel, founder of Special Yoga, to explore how love, presence, and compassion support self-regulation and healing. Together they reflect on what it really means to feel safe — for children, parents, and teachers alike — and how simple, embodied practices can help us reconnect to calm, awareness, and inner harmony.Through stories, practical tools, and spiritual insight, Joanne and Jyoti offer guidance for anyone supporting others through stress, overwhelm, or emotional dysregulation. It's a heartfelt reminder that self-regulation starts with self-connection.In this episode:The true meaning of self-regulation and co-regulationWhy safety always comes before stillnessHow love regulates the nervous systemMindfulness practices for calm and inner peaceEmotional intelligence and embodied healingGrowth mindset and self-development through compassion✨ Learn more about embodied teaching and fascia-informed practice: https://myofascialmagic.com#selfregulation #mindfulnesspractice #spiritualhealing #emotionalintelligence #growthmindsetFind Jyoti and Special Yoga here:www.lovefromJyoti.com www.specialyoga.co.ukInstagram: specialyogaglobal & jyoti.manuelFacebook: Special Yoga & Jyoti Jo ManuelYouTube: SpecialYogaGlobal & lovefromjyotiJyoti's new book, 52 Love Letters To You, comes out this Christmas! Find out more and pre-order hereSIGN UP TO THE JOANNE AVISON NEWSLETTER Simply scroll down to ‘Join Our Collective' and pop in your details. We DON'T spam and we DO respect privacy!FOLLOWING ON YOUTUBE?Do join us! Start here MORE:My website - https://www.joanneavison.com/My course - https://myofascialmagic.com/My book: - https://amzn.to/3zF3SASInstagram - joanneavisonFREE ONLINE WEBINAR:Free Webinar - https://myofascialmagic.com/webinar-registrationPodcast produced and edited by Megan Bay Dorman

Today, I interview Heidi Fischbach who grew up in a strict, high-control environment where fear and rules shaped how she learned to speak and exist. From an early age, she carried the weight of right and wrong, heaven and hell, and learned to stay small to stay safe.As she grew older, this constant vigilance became anxiety and self-silencing. Her turning point came when she began to understand how the body holds old fear-based patterns, and how healing the nervous system can restore a sense of safety and calm. Through curiosity and self-friendliness, she learned that safety isn't just emotional, it's physical, and that when the body feels safe, the voice naturally begins to emerge.Today, Heidi helps others reset their nervous systems and rediscover what it feels like to be calm, connected, and expressive. She teaches that healing happens in small, steady increments, not through force, but through gentleness and presence.__________________Heidi Fischbach is a nervous system coach and writer who helps people reset after high-control environments, whether that's a fundamentalist religion, a rigid family system, or chronic survival mode. With training in Focusing, Polyvagal Theory, and body-based trauma healing, she helps clients feel safe, connected, and at home in their bodies.She is currently finishing her memoir, Missionary Kid: How My Body Saved My Mind from High-Control Christianity, and offers a program called The Nervous System Jumpstart.__________________Find Heidi here:https://www.instagram.com/heidifischbach/https://www.heidifischbach.comSupport the showI'm Dr. Doreen Downing and I help people find their voice so they can speak without fear. Get the Free 7-Step Guide to Fearless Speaking https://www.doreen7steps.com​.

Many aspects in life can feel intense or overwhelming. In a world where so much can seem unpredictable and uncontrollable, we can anticipate that feeling distressed is inevitable. As we kick off season 7, episode 1 starts off with a discussion about one aspect of life we can learn to improve and strengthen - self-regulation.The conversation starts by reflecting upon themes and common challenges that lead to feeling dysregulated. In their practices, Alexis & Jerry help those they work with harness and combat challenges to regain a sense of grounding, clarity, and intention in responding to emotionally triggering situations. Concepts discussed range from therapeutic approaches from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and executive function strategies. Nuanced discussions inspire hope for what is possible and how we can best support ourselves and others when dysregulated moments arise. Tune in to learn more.Be Curious. Be Open. Be Well.The ReidConnect-Ed Podcast is hosted by Siblings Alexis Reid, M.A. and Dr. Gerald Reid, produced by CyberSound Recording Studios in Boston, MA and original music is written and recorded by Gerald Reid (www.Jerapy.com).*Please note that different practitioners may have different opinions- this is our perspective and is intended to educate you on what may be possible.Follow us on Instagram @ReidConnectEdPodcast and Twitter @ReidConnectEdShow notes & Transcripts: https://reidconnect.com/reid-connect-ed-podcast

In a digital world saturated with questionable dating advice from self-proclaimed gurus, Dr. Max Butterfield has emerged as a powerful and refreshing voice of reason. A professor with a Ph.D. in psychology, Max never intended to become a social media star. Tasked by a literary agent to simply build a small online presence for a book deal, he accidentally tapped into a massive cultural nerve, dissecting viral relationship videos with research-backed clarity and amassing over a million followers in just a few months. His journey is a testament to the power of authentic expertise, proving that in a sea of misinformation, people are desperately searching for grounded, scientific truth to navigate the complexities of human connection. This conversation is a masterclass in the psychology of modern relationships, going far beyond surface-level tips to explore the deep undercurrents shaping how we connect today. Dr. Butterfield breaks down why the "paradox of choice" fueled by dating apps makes us treat people as disposable and how these platforms are financially incentivized to keep you single . He and Darin dive into the critical difference between initial physical attraction and the values that predict long-term happiness, the truth about "soulmates," and the foundational skills—like managing conflict, building safety through mutual disclosure, and simple kindness—that are essential for growing a healthy, lasting partnership. What You'll Learn [04:52] The Accidental Influencer: A Quest for 100 Followers That Ignited a Movement [07:19] The Danger of Expertise: Why What You Know Can Get in the Way [09:47] The Algorithm's Easter Gift: Discovering That Instagram Is a Dating App [10:54] The Trap of Absolute Statements: Why “All Men” or “All Women” Is Your First Mistake [12:58] The Tyranny of Choice: When Endless Options Make People Feel Disposable [14:48] The Business of Keeping You Single: How Dating Apps Are Built to Fail [17:54] The Lost Art of Patience: Looking to the Past to Build a Future [19:40] The Unseen Green Flags: The Power of Genuine Curiosity [25:47] The Saboteur in the Parking Lot: Confronting Your Unconscious Patterns in Love [28:47] The Death of the Village: Losing Community, Accountability, and Self-Regulation [32:24] The Great Deception: What We Say We Want vs. Who We Actually Choose [36:28] The Alchemy of Attraction: How Your Behavior Literally Changes Your Brain Chemistry [38:15] The Four Horsemen of Contempt: Why How You Argue Is Everything [40:07] The True Meaning of Respect: It's Kindness, Not Fear [43:20] The Radical Act of Honesty: Letting the Universe Sort It Out [45:47] The Sacred Exchange of Mutual Disclosure: Building Unshakeable Safety [53:24] Stupid Games, Stupid Prizes: Debunking the “Rules” That Ruin Relationships [56:22] You Don't Find a Soulmate, You Grow One [01:04:14] The Grand Misunderstanding: What Men and Women Get Wrong About Attraction [01:15:46] The Jealousy Trap: Can Men and Women Really Be Just Friends? [01:22:35] Growing Up Together: The Secret to a 23-Year Marriage That Started in College [01:27:57] The Professor's Megaphone: Sharing Truth on a Global Stage Thank You to Our Sponsors Our Place: Toxic-free, durable cookware that supports healthy cooking. Use code DARIN for 10% off at fromourplace.com. Manna Vitality: Go to mannavitality.com/ or use code DARIN20 for 20% off your order. Find More from Dr. Max Butterfield Instagram: @drmaxbutterfield Website: drmaxwellness.com Download his Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide Find More from Darin Olien: Instagram: @darinolien Podcast: SuperLife Podcast Website: superlife.com Book: Fatal Conveniences Key Takeaway “Your hormones aren't broken — they're responding to your environment, your thoughts, and your stress. When you reconnect to safety, balance minerals, and honor rest, the body remembers how to heal itself.”

  A Practice of Self-Regulation 'ask dorothy' The WISDOM podcast  Season 5  Episode 92 ~ Self-Regulation is the manner by which you create and return to homeostasis within yourself.  It is the gentle urging of love's grace that occupies a path that wills to life the impending glory of how you thrive. Self-Regulation is the allowing into life, the perfect means by which you live in complete authority. Join me in this simple, sacred, grounding practice of Self-Regulation.   ~   ~ Self-Love Mastery ~ Join me for a NEW 30 Day COURSE   This is a very special and sacred course. It is to me the epitome of life itself for if each one of us lives with self-love, we inherently honour our beautiful nature ~ through cultivating tenderness and grace for and of ourselves. As we hold our own life sacred ~ and as we arduously adorn our needs with patience and care, we cultivate the most beautiful representation of what we can be. In this way, self-love is what makes us strong, reflective, exuberant with life ~ and we ~ having filled our own cup full ~ become the plentitude to which we can better love all others as they are.   ~  Join the Course here We are hosting this 30 Day Course Inside the Juno app Download Juno here   Self-Love IS the ceaseless, unconditional love of self that you embody ~ that guides your choices to live self-governing, empowered and autonomous as a spiritual vessel for love itself. This is a guided COURSE ~ each day's teachings are designed to support you in Nourishing the type(s) of Self-Love you need most. Find out more about our Get your Course + 1 Month Of Juno Premium   ~ Namaste and love to you

Ever wonder why you sometimes snap, shut down, or spiral before you even know what hit you? In this episode, I unpack triggers; what they are, why they happen, and how to stop letting them run the show. You'll learn practical steps to pause, separate fact from story, and respond instead of react. Plus, I'll talk about how to handle your partner's triggers with care while still taking ownership of your own.

OTs hold the key to school-wide success by grounding self-regulation in sensory-motor regulation—not just in emotions. In this episode, Sherry Shellenberger and Jennie Largent show how the Alert Program provides a foundational layer many SEL programs miss, share practical strategies for piloting change, and explain how to talk with administrators to secure support and funding. Tune in to learn clear steps to expand OT impact from individual support to whole-school change.Listen now to learn the following objectives:Identify and effectively communicate the value of sensory-motor self-regulation approaches to administrators and decision-makers by collecting meaningful data through pilot programs and by developing stakeholder-specific documentation.Identify opportunities to integrate self-regulation programs, such as The Alert Program for Self-Regulation, with existing SEL programs, and discover the foundational role of sensory-motor regulation in supporting emotional regulation.Identify strategies to be effective change agents within school settings by collaborating with colleagues, applying evidence-based practices, and establishing systems that demonstrate the unique value of the occupational therapy approach to self-regulation; discover approaches to sustain and scale impact. Visit pearsonassessments.com/OTResources to explore assessments designed with your clinical reasoning in mind. Thanks for tuning in! Thanks for tuning into the OT Schoolhouse Podcast brought to you by the OT Schoolhouse Collaborative Community for school-based OTPs. In OTS Collab, we use community-powered professional development to learn together and implement strategies together. Don't forget to subscribe to the show and check out the show notes for every episode at OTSchoolhouse.comSee you in the next episode!

Ask Me A Question For Next Week's Episode!Included in this week's episode: If you feel like nothing is working, this might be for you Starting from a place of dysregulation will never work How to learn self regulation Things you can practically do to help yourself Abandon specific scale numbers and body sizes Weight loss cna be very dysregulating Creating a healthy environment for you to thrive in, not survive Build your dream life by keeping the promises you make to yourself and show evidence you can be proud of It's never just about a lower number on the scale or living in a smaller bodyYou can only be as successful at your healthy journey as deeply as you have met yourself Start by taking care of yourself and listen to your body, it has a lot to say

What if the hardest behaviors in your home are signals from a brain that needs a different kind of help? We sit down with Dr. Licata of Vital Brain Health to demystify neurofeedback.We break down the three big reasons brains get out of balance—injury, genetics , and environment —and show how a map turns that mystery into direction. You'll hear how neurofeedback uses precise rewards to teach the brain better rhythms while the client watches a show or plays a simple game, why 40 sessions is the minimum effective dose for lasting change, and how training daytime sensory motor rhythms supports deeper, more stable sleep at night.If you've been told to “wait and see,” or you're tired of feeling blamed for behavior you can't explain, this conversation offers a map, a method, and hope.Loved this conversation? Subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show. Want to explore mapping? Use code BREE for $50 off your brain scan at Vital Brain Health.Want more? Find and follow Bree onwww.bodybybree.comInstagramPinterestYouTubeBlog

Is ADHD really a brain disorder or a label created to sell drugs? Dr. Roger McFillin speaks with filmmaker Roman Wyden, founder of the ADHD Is Over movement- that includes a book, podcast and upcoming documentary.  Roman shares why he rejected the ADHD label for his son and what he uncovered about the system behind it: schools, pharma, and psychiatry pushing parents toward pills. Together they expose how 6 million children in America are prescribed stimulants like Adderall and Ritalin, the billion-dollar ADHD industry that profits from it, and why more parents are waking up and saying: ADHD is over.ADHD is OVER Website Visit Center for Integrated Behavioral HealthDr. Roger McFillin / Radically Genuine WebsiteYouTube @RadicallyGenuineDr. Roger McFillin (@DrMcFillin) / XSubstack | Radically Genuine | Dr. Roger McFillinInstagram @radicallygenuineContact Radically GenuineConscious Clinician CollectivePLEASE SUPPORT OUR PARTNERS15% Off Pure Spectrum CBD (Code: RadicallyGenuine)10% off Lovetuner click here

In You Can't Teach Calm If You Can't Be Calm, Dr. Meg Meeker welcomes guests Kahlila Robinson and Sarah Gerstenzang, co-authors of The Self-Regulation Workbook for Children Ages 5 to 8. Together, they unpack how parental self-regulation plays a crucial role in helping children build emotional resilience and develop lifelong emotional skills.This episode dives into why your own calm sets the tone for your child's behavior, especially when dealing with post-COVID stress, emotional outbursts, or peer conflicts. Kahlila and Sarah share practical, science-backed tools to help parents recognize emotional contagion, model regulation, and foster secure attachments.Whether you're managing meltdowns or building daily routines with intention, this conversation reminds us: you can't teach calm if you can't be calm yourself.

BIO:Jonny Miller is the founder of ⁠Nervous System Mastery⁠, a course that has helped hundreds of founders and tech leaders cultivate calm, reduce nervousness, and elevate their sense of aliveness.SHOWNOTES:

Dr. Hoffman continues his conversation with UK-based science journalist and author Caroline Williams, author of “Inner Sense: How the New Science of Interoception Can Transform Your Health.”

In this episode of the Intelligent Medicine podcast, Dr. Ronald Hoffman explores the concept of interoception with UK-based science journalist and author Caroline Williams. They discuss her latest book, “Inner Sense: How the New Science of Interoception Can Transform Your Health.” The conversation details the intricate relationship between the mind and body, the importance of bodily self-awareness, and how it impacts mental and physical health. Williams shares insights from her extensive research and practical strategies for enhancing interoception, such as controlled breathing exercises and body scans. They also touch on future advancements and therapeutic applications in the realm of interoception, offering listeners a comprehensive understanding of this emerging science and its potential to revolutionize healthcare.

By popular demand, we're bringing back one of the most impactful episodes! This conversation dives into the powerful link between stress and behavior in autistic children, and why compassionate, neurodiversity-affirming approaches make all the difference. You'll discover how to reframe behavior as communication, support self-advocacy, and create environments that reduce stress and meet the unique needs of autistic children. Whether you're an educator, therapist, or parent, this episode offers practical tools you can use right away. Key Takeaways: Stress and behavior are closely linked for autistic children. Environments that increase stress can make behaviors harder. Behavior is communication—understanding it is essential. Compassionate approaches focus on unmet needs, not compliance. Compliance-driven methods can harm emotional well-being. Self-advocacy is critical for safety and empowerment. Protests and refusals are valid forms of communication. Predictable routines can ease anxiety. Co-regulation helps children manage emotions. Communication tools empower autistic children to thrive. Resources & Links: Research article #1: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6061115/ Research article #2: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3245359/ Calming Kit for preschoolers: https://www.teacherspayteachers.com/Product/Calm-Down-Kit-For-Calming-Corner-In-Special-Education-8140160 You may also be interested in these supports: Visual Support Starter Set  Visual Supports Facebook Group Autism Little Learners on Instagram Autism Little Learners on Facebook  

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the fascinating yet troubling world of emotional addiction. With her characteristic blend of humor and raw honesty, Brianne explores the intense highs and lows that come with seeking emotional drama as a coping mechanism. She reveals how many individuals find themselves caught in a cycle of destructive behavior, constantly craving the rush of emotional intensity to fill an inner void.Throughout the episode, Brianne discusses the signs of emotional addiction, including the compulsive need for drama, the dopamine hits that accompany these emotional highs, and the detrimental effects on mental health such as increased anxiety, mood instability, and chronic stress. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and offers practical strategies for breaking free from the cycle of emotional chaos.Listeners will learn how to pause and sit with discomfort instead of seeking out drama for a quick emotional fix. By embracing stillness and self-reflection, they can begin to regulate their emotions and appreciate the beauty of everyday life without relying on the highs and lows of emotional addiction. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true fulfillment comes from within, not from the chaos of external drama.

Learn daily habits for trauma and anxiety self-regulation, focusing on nervous system regulation and dysregulation to manage stress and PTSD. Free Grounding Skills for Anxiety or PTSD course: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/grounding-skills-for-anxiety-stress-and-ptsd Learn the skills to Regulate your Emotions, join the membership: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com/membership Safe Place visualization: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Isw37iCwMCg&t=6s Progressive Muscle Relaxation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNqYG95j_UQ Living with Trauma or PTSD can feel like your nervous system is constantly on high alert—like an overly sensitive car alarm that goes off at the slightest trigger. This state of nervous system dysregulation can leave you tense, hypervigilant, anxious, angry, or completely burnt out. But the good news is that you can retrain your body toward balance and calm through simple, consistent practices. In this video, you'll learn 9 science-based daily habits for trauma and daily habits for anxiety that promote nervous system regulation. These micro habits include setting clear intentions, slowing down instead of rushing, creating a calm morning routine, scheduling true rest, checking in with your body, restoring a sense of safety, and developing skills to bounce back after triggers. You'll also learn how to expand your window of tolerance with movement and end your day with soothing wind-down rituals. Healing your nervous system doesn't mean you'll never feel stress again—it means you'll feel safer, calmer, and more confident in your ability to recover quickly. With small daily changes, you can reduce anxiety, improve resilience, and support lasting recovery from trauma. Looking for affordable online counseling? My sponsor, BetterHelp, connects you to a licensed professional from the comfort of your own home. Try it now for 10% off your first month: https://betterhelp.com/therapyinanutshell Learn more in one of my in-depth mental health courses: https://courses.therapyinanutshell.com Support my mission on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/therapyinanutshell Sign up for my newsletter: https://www.therapyinanutshell.com Check out my favorite self-help books: https://kit.co/TherapyinaNutshell/best-self-help-books  Therapy in a Nutshell and the information provided by Emma McAdam are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Emma McAdam is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health. In therapy I use a combination of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Systems Theory, positive psychology, and a bio-psycho-social approach to treating mental illness and other challenges we all face in life. The ideas from my videos are frequently adapted from multiple sources. Many of them come from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, especially the work of Steven Hayes, Jason Luoma, and Russ Harris. The sections on stress and the mind-body connection derive from the work of Stephen Porges (the Polyvagal theory), Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing) Francine Shapiro (EMDR), and Bessel Van Der Kolk. I also rely heavily on the work of the Arbinger Institute for my overall understanding of our ability to choose our life's direction. And deeper than all of that, the Gospel of Jesus Christ orients my personal worldview and sense of security, peace, hope, and love https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/comeuntochrist/believe If you are in crisis, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org or 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or your local emergency services. Copyright Therapy in a Nutshell, LLC