Podcast appearances and mentions of sheleana aiyana

Why do we lose ourselves in love, repeat painful relationship patterns, and mistake intensity for intimacy instead of becoming whole within ourselves first? Josh Trent welcomes Sheleana Aiyana to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 800, to explore why self-abandonment drives relationship chaos, how attachment wounds and the mother wound shape romantic bonds, what becoming the one truly means, how grief and motherhood catalyze deep healing, and why divine union begins with reclaiming self-trust, presence, and inner wholeness before partnership.   About The Guest Sheleana Aiyana is the best-selling author of Becoming the One and the founder of Rising Woman, a global community dedicated to self-healing, relational transformation, and spiritual embodiment. Her work blends somatic awareness, inner child healing, and grounded spiritual insight to guide millions through the landscapes of heartbreak, love, and personal rebirth. Having grown up in foster care and overcome cycles of abuse, addiction, and heartbreak, Sheleana's teachings are not theoretical, they are lived. Through Rising Woman, she has helped millions remember that healing is not about becoming someone else, but about reclaiming the love, power, and wholeness that was always theirs.

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1436Sheleana Aiyana emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-reflection in order to understand one's own role in perpetuating unhealthy patterns. By examining past experiences, traumas, and beliefs, readers can gain clarity about the subconscious patterns that drive their choices in relationships.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Leave an Amazon Rating or Review for my New York Times Bestselling book, Make Money Easy!Check out the full episode: https://greatness.lnk.to/1436Sheleana Aiyana shares her own personal experiences of trauma and how it shaped her understanding of the healing journey. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and honoring one's pain as the first step towards healing. By fostering self-compassion and acceptance, viewers are encouraged to begin the process of healing from their own traumatic experiences.Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Jillian welcomes Sheleana Aiyana—author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman—for a deep dive into conscious relationships, healing attachment wounds, and nervous system regulation. Sheleana shares personal stories of trauma, resilience, and transformation, offering powerful insight into how we can move from survival patterns to secure connection. They explore everything from how to know you're ready for a relationship to how to navigate triggers, abandonment fears, and the work of parenting after a difficult childhood.  Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7  Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life at https://www.jillianturecki.com/book ~~ Follow the show on: Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at hello@jillianonlove.com  Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on: Instagram: @jillianturecki TikTok: @jillian.turecki X: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE. To advertise on the show, contact us! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You know her and love her—Sheleana Aiyana, international best-selling author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers—returns to the pod! Today, Sheleana and Krista talk about spirit babies, motherhood, conscious relationships, oversharing on social media and making room for our purpose to grow with us throughout life.Sheleana's training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. Tune in to learn about Sheleana's mothering approach, connecting to nature, and living your life IRL (not online!), plus so much more. Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

If you want to live a long, healthy life, you don't necessarily have to implement the latest biohacking trends to make a difference. In fact, research shows that the number one way to extend your lifespan actually has nothing to do with diets or supplements – it's the quality of your relationships. On this episode of The Model Health Show, you're going to learn about why your relationships play such a powerful role in influencing your lifespan. You'll hear the science behind why healthy, supportive relationships are necessary for human health, how to cultivate healthy relationships, and so much more. You're going to hear tangible takeaways to improve your relationships, from the importance of shared meals to how to incorporate social media in a healthy way. You're going to learn why social isolation is detrimental to human health, how your relationships can help you better deal with stress, and the importance of intentionally investing in the people around you. I hope this episode resonates with you. Enjoy!    In this episode you'll discover:  The link between social isolation and risk for early death. (0:22) How loneliness can act as a form of chronic stress. (2:28) What the #1 contributor to living a longer lifespan is. (2:43) How healthy social bonds increase your healthspan. (3:24) The connection between having healthy relationships and stress resilience. (7:26) What percentage of doctor's office visits are stress related. (8:40) The resources that relationships can provide. (12:42) Three specific ways relationships can help you metabolize stress. (14:06) The importance of having a strong sense of purpose. (23:11) Why social media is a supplement, not a substitute, for in-person interactions. (33:38) The powerful effects of sharing a meal with friends and family. (36:32) How many times per week to eat meals with your children. (43:30) Why getting out of your shell allows you to have richer experiences. (46:07) The power of human touch. (52:24) How to invest in your relationships. (52:57) Why you should make improving your relationships an intention. (53:34)  Items mentioned in this episode include:  Levels.link/model  - Join today and get 2 free months with a one-year membership! The #1 Controller of Human Longevity with Dr. Robert Waldinger:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AhXq7t7PCsc Avoid These Red Flags with Matthew Hussey: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwthZIIT5Xk  The TRUTH About Manifestation with Dr. James Doty: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i_oloBtF3fA&t=4s Make Love Last with Jay Shetty: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnVfuigfqQo Weight Loss After 40 with Chalene Johnson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IMaC3nqEWQU The BEST Mindset for Amazing Relationships with Christine Hassler: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6VOpaJhfNRg The TRUTH About Building Healthy Relationships with Sheleana Aiyana: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4m6VRDyBOI  Be sure you are subscribed to this podcast to automatically receive your episodes:   Apple Podcasts Spotify Soundcloud Pandora YouTube   This episode of The Model Health Show is brought to you by Levels. Learn how food affects your health with a continuous glucose monitor (CGM) from Levels. Join today at levels.link/model and get 2 free months with a one-year membership! 

Today's special heart-filled episode is a session from last summer's Camp Almost 30, Becoming the One. It's presented beautifully by Sheleana Aiyana, empowerment leader and author of the life-changing relationship and self-development book, Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself.We really love the way in which Sheleana has been able to take her own experience, whether it's in relationship with self or others, and her own traumas – and really transform them into potent and powerful lessons for us all to really learn from and heal through.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

What if the triggers in your relationships weren't problems — but portals to healing? In this heart-opening episode of HEAL with Kelly, best-selling author and Rising Woman founder Sheleana Aiyana returns to explore the deep, layered work of healing attachment wounds, breaking generational cycles, and cultivating conscious relationships — from the inside out. Drawing from the powerful insights in her book Becoming the One and the Becoming the One Guided Journal, Sheleana shares the truth so many of us need to hear: real healing doesn't happen in the mind alone. From nervous system regulation to somatic presence, she explains how we can't think our way into safety — we have to feel our way there. Whether it's romantic partnership, friendship, parenting, or sitting with our own emotions, Sheleana invites us to return to the wisdom of nature, our bodies, and our breath as the most reliable guides. We unpack why we attract partners who mirror our deepest wounds, how to navigate the messy but meaningful stages of relationship, and what it actually means to co-create our lives with humility, presence, and heart. She also speaks to the power of repair in parenting, the importance of conscious friendships, and how crisis points —like breakups, breakdowns, and grief — can become the compost that nourishes our deepest growth. If you've ever felt stuck in patterns you understand but can't seem to change, this conversation is the medicine. Tune in and remember nothing in nature blooms before its time — and neither do we. LINKS Sheleana Aiyana Website: https://sheleanaaiyana.com/ Sheleana Aiyana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/ Becoming the One on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4dHMVG5 Becoming the One Guided Journal: https://amzn.to/3FB3oza Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you truly connected to the most authentic version of yourself, both personally and professionally? In the latest episode of Behind the Human, we delve into the remarkable journey of Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman. From overcoming a challenging past marked by trauma and transformation, Sheleana has cultivated a global community of over 2.5 million followers dedicated to conscious relationships and spiritual growth. Her story is a testament to the power of resilience and self-discovery. Key insights from our conversation include:

Why do we keep attracting people who trigger our deepest wounds—even when we think we've done the work?   In this episode, we explore why romantic partners often reflect unresolved childhood pain and how these dynamics are invitations to grow. We talk about the importance of attachment styles, trauma responses, and why many of us pendulum swing between codependency and hyper-independence.   If you've ever felt stuck in a “should I stay or go” relationship, we share guiding principles to help you find clarity—without bypassing your own healing. You'll also hear how heartbreak can actually open the door to deeper self-love and emotional maturity, whether you're single or partnered.   I'm joined by Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman, who shares her story of breaking old cycles and creating conscious love. Whether you're navigating heartbreak, deepening your current relationship, or wanting to prepare for conscious love, this episode is for you.   ===   Have you watched our previous episode titled The Truth About Failure: Why It's the Secret to Success   Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YdGji5Qf6IY   ===   GUEST LINKS Instagram: @risingwoman @sheleanaaiyana Website: https://risingwoman.com/   ====   Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - Disclaimer This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or any other qualified professional. We shall in no event be held liable to any party for any reason arising directly or indirectly for the use or interpretation of the information presented in this video. Copyright 2023, Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - All rights reserved.   ===   Want 3 Life-Changing Tools you can use on yourself (or your clients) from inside our Accredited Coaching Certification? Click here to get them for Free: https://www.alyssanobriga.com/tools

Tweetable quote from Sheleana“Sometimes the people who are the best for us are going to feel the worst for us when our nervous system is dysregulated.”SummaryIn this episode, Dr Espen sit down with Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman, to explore the power of conscious relationships. They dive into self-trust, emotional awareness, and the role of personal responsibility in building deeper connections. Sheleana shares insights on recognizing red flags, navigating breakups, and embracing ritual and spirituality in relationships. If you're seeking to transform your approach to love and connection, this episode is a must-listen!About our guest:Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a global community with over 3 million readers dedicated to healing, self-discovery, and conscious relationships. An international best-selling author, Sheleana's work is informed by her training in somatic healing, inherited family trauma, and Imago couples therapy. As a writer, mother, and wife, she weaves her own transformative life experiences with the wisdom of nature. Her teachings guide others toward deeper intimacy, self-awareness, and connection with the natural world, inspiring them to heal old wounds and cultivate love in all areas of life.

"Intimacy blockages are not just yogic but also therapeutic and karmic, often causing unresolved conflicts and deep emotional pain." Sheleana Aiyana Today on Embodied Relationship Experience:The importance of recognizing and addressing deep emotional wounds.Understanding different attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized.Somatic practices as effective tools for dealing with emotional and psychological issues.Methods and practices for deep self-healing.The process of healing as a long-term commitment to growth.Connect with Sheleana:Instagrams: @risingwoman & @sheleanaaiyana Order: Becoming The One: A Guided Journal & Becoming the OneConnect with John:Instagram: @john_wineland Website: www.johnwineland.comJoin our exclusive offer for feminine practitioners: The Body of LoveJoin our exclusive offer for masculine practitioners: The Body of DepthStart with a zero-commitment 7-day trial at The Embodied Relationship Experience Membership PlatformPrivate coaching - johnwinelandcoaching.com

In this transformative episode of BUILD, I sit down with the renowned author and spiritual mentor, Sheleana Aiyana, for an incredibly deep and personal conversation. Together, we explore the profound themes of healing, relationships, and the intricate dynamics between the masculine and feminine energies. What We Cover: - The Hidden Depths of Relationships: Discover how adult romantic relationships often become a mirror for unresolved childhood wounds. Aiyana unpacks why we unconsciously seek closure from our past through our present relationships and what it truly means to heal these patterns. - Navigating Triggers and Trauma: Aiyana shares her wisdom on understanding trauma, whether it's from childhood, past relationships, or the subconscious, and how it affects how we show up in love. Stephen opens up about his own struggles with abandonment wounds, making this conversation both relatable and revelatory for anyone working through similar experiences. - Attachment Styles and Their Impact: The duo discusses the powerful interplay of attachment styles in relationships—how anxious and avoidant dynamics play out and what strategies can be used to navigate these challenges. If you've ever found yourself in a "hailstorm and turtle" scenario in your relationship, this is the conversation you need to hear. - Healing is a Lifelong Journey: Aiyana reminds us that healing is an ongoing process. She shares her personal insights into how the journey can feel like navigating different seasons, with moments of darkness and light, and how to maintain hope and connection through it all. - Practical Tools for Inner Work: Aiyana doesn't just offer philosophical insights; she also provides practical tools to help listeners on their healing journey, from inner child meditations to using nature as a grounding force for deep emotional work. Whether you're seeking tools to improve your relationship or working through your own healing process, this conversation will leave you with a renewed sense of hope and clarity. Follow Sheleana on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/ Get a copy of Sheleana's new book - https://courses.risingwoman.com/btobook

Sheleana Aiyana is the real deal when it comes to processing family trauma. After you hear the story of what she went through as a child – and how she overcame it – you'll be a believer as well.Sheleana knows that, if more of us could understand the impact of inherited family trauma and how to move through it, the world would be a brighter place. She's the founder of Rising Woman, a community of more than three million readers. Sheleana is very truthful, very heart-centered, and she's doing work that helps so many people.Her new book, “Becoming the One,” debunks the myth that we need someone from outside ourselves, “the one,” to come into our life and save us. You have everything within you to become the one in your own life. And if you doubt it now, Sheleana can be very convincing.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

You know her and love her—Sheleana Aiyana, international best-selling author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers—returns to the pod! Today, Sheleana and Krista talk about spirit babies, motherhood, conscious relationships, oversharing on social media and making room for our purpose to grow with us throughout life.Sheleana's training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

Sheleana Aiyana is the real deal when it comes to processing family trauma. After you hear the story of what she went through as a child – and how she overcame it – you'll be a believer as well.Sheleana knows that, if more of us could understand the impact of inherited family trauma and how to move through it, the world would be a brighter place. She's the founder of Rising Woman, a community of more than three million readers. Sheleana is very truthful, very heart-centered, and she's doing work that helps so many people.Her new book, “Becoming the One,” debunks the myth that we need someone from outside ourselves, “the one,” to come into our life and save us. You have everything within you to become the one in your own life. And if you doubt it now, Sheleana can be very convincing.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

How we feel about ourselves has a powerful effect upon what choices we make, our quality of life, and the relationships we have with others. Our self-to-self relationship can amplify happiness, health, or create obstacles. The way we relate to ourselves is also heavily influenced by experiences and treatment from others.  Sheleana Aiyana is an expert in trauma recovery, healing from childhood events, and self-concept. She is the author of Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself, as well as a companion workbook with self-healing principles & exercises.  Consider supporting and participating with the Podcast by visiting www.dwighthurst.com/support. See the various was to get involved, gain access to bonus materials, and help promote access to mental health care.

You know her and love her—Sheleana Aiyana, international best-selling author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers—returns to the pod! Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.

In EP 012 of The Feel More Podcast we indulge in my book reading/sharing series, Lemme Read To You, an immersive audio experience featuring readings from my personal recommended books, backed by calming jazz music. Where you get some wisdom, but also allow for your nervous system to be soothed. I made this for you. In this episode I read chapter 5, Healing The Abandonment Wound from the book Becoming The One by Sheleana Aiyana. ✍

In this special episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis reacts to the internet-breaking news of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce's new relationship. Drawing from the expertise of six of his favorite relationship experts, Lewis offers valuable insights and advice, including a discussion on the three red flags to be on the lookout for in relationships. This episode serves as a unique opportunity to explore the dynamics of high-profile relationships while gaining valuable wisdom from experts in the field, all in the context of the buzzworthy Swift and Kelce romance.Sadia Khan discusses the importance of asking a fundamental question before dating and navigating relationship red flags. Michael Bungay Stanier offers insights on pre-marital considerations and how to address challenges in relationships, while Martha explores why women often choose troubled partners over healthier options. Sheleana Aiyana debates the need for complete personal healing before starting a new relationship. Mark Manson defines toxic relationships and the significance of trust and respect, prompting self-reflection. Dr. Caroline Leaf explores the attraction to broken partners and the desire to fix them in relationships.In this episode you will learn,The biggest red flags to look for when starting a new relationship.The single most important question to ask someone before you start dating.Three critical questions to ask before getting married.The #1 reason so many people seek out toxic relationships.If it is possible to find lasting love while you're still healing your personal emotional wounds.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1507For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960FULL EPISODES:Sadia Khan – https://link.chtbl.com/1491-podMichael Bungay Stanier – https://link.chtbl.com/1477-podMartha Higareda – https://link.chtbl.com/1423-podSheleana Aiyana – https://link.chtbl.com/1436-podMark Manson – https://link.chtbl.com/1485-podDr. Caroline Leaf – https://link.chtbl.com/1481-pod

Today I welcome back on the show one of my favorite guests that I know many of you may have heard of and have enjoyed previously on the show. Welcome back to the show, Sheleana Aiyana. You might know her wildly popular site and social following of Rising Women, a creation that stemmed from my guest's journey through healing her wounds and relationship patterns.  Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One. And she welcomed her new book last year, Becoming the One. Now she has released the newest addition her Becoming The One guided journal, which is available now for purchase. Sheleana takes you on a transformational inner-work journey to heal life-long relationship patterns and reclaim power over your life.  In this episode we talk about: Healing the nervous system Understanding your projections Getting to acceptance Taking ownership or self responsibility Healing unhealthy relationship patterns  Conscious relationships and more Listen to previous episode with Sheleana Aiyana: https://ericalippy.com/sheleana-aiyana/ Episode sponsor: The Podcast Playbook - Your Complete Step-By-Step Guide To Successfully Launch Your Podcast Without Overwhelm For full show notes and episode resources head to: https://ericalippy.com/sheleana-aiyana2/ Find our guest at: Sheleana Aiyana | Website,  Instagram , Facebook Rising Woman Buy Her Book: Becoming The One Buy Becoming The One Guided Journal Freedom From Anxiety Course Follow me on Social Media: Your Host: @ericalippy Podcast: @passionlovepursuit Facebook YouTube PASSION LOVE PURSUIT PODCASTS: https://ericalippy.com/the-podcast/

You know her and love her—Sheleana Aiyana, international best selling author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers—returns to the pod! Today, Sheleana and Krista talk about spirit babies, motherhood, conscious relationships, oversharing on social media and making room for our purpose to grow with us throughout life.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode here.

Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 4 million empowered individuals. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationships, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationships as a spiritual path. In this episode, we discuss her book “Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns and Come Home to Yourself.” Sheleana shares the wisdom she has gained along her journey, providing us with the tools to face and heal our own past traumas, find our inner strength, and ultimately step into our greatest expression.  When we break the unhealthy patterns of our past and heal our hurts, we can show up in our relationships as a whole person, rather than seeking the healing and wholeness from our partners. This is the foundation of a conscious relationship. Sheleana's path has been deeply influenced by the shadows of childhood trauma, which she faced with unwavering determination and courage. From a rather young age and as a result of an earth-shattering heartbreak, she was forced to confront the pain of her past, refusing to be defined by it and repeat it. Instead, she embarked on a transformative journey of healing, using her experiences to fuel her pursuit of personal growth and self-empowerment. Through her own struggles and triumphs, she found solace and liberation in the realms of spirituality and self-expression.  Her story and learnings serve as a bright beacon of hope, illustrating that even in the face of the most challenging circumstances, we can emerge as our most beautiful expression, relating to ourselves and the world around us in a conscious, loving way.   Sheleana's Website: https://sheleanaaiyana.com/ Rising Woman Website: https://risingwoman.com/ Sheleana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/ Becoming The One on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3OTLtVf   Timecodes: 0:00 Introduction 3:10 Sheleana's Personal Story 9:35 Abandonment & Parenting Wounds 16:05 The Inherent Risks of Expansion 20:45 Addressing Recent Personal Trends 26:58 Utilizing Nature to Find Balance 32:47 The Importance of Self-Care 43:50 Navigating Relationship Differences 50:05 Kelly's Personal Experience

The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com – After graduating in psychology and completing masters in developmental psychology Sadia began teaching in inner London schools amongst children of deprived backgrounds. She then went on to teach privileged students in Dubai and noticed not only the economic but psychological advantage wealth provides children when their parents can access therapy. Sadia decided to complete her studies in psychotherapy and decided to post a few videos online mainly to make therapy accessible to those who may struggle to afford it and to make therapy more digestible to those who may not understand the concept. The videos blew up and changed her career path to online therapist, podcaster and content creator racking over 100 million views online.In this episode you will learn,The #1 reason why men and women struggle to keep relationships and why narcissistic behaviors are so prevalent in dating today.Why women cheat more than men and the root cause of infidelity.The importance of self control when searching for a long term relationship.Practical advice to enhance your dating confidence, providing you with strategies to feel more self-assured on a first date.Strategies to handle commitment issues, enabling you to navigate this critical phase of relationships and lay the groundwork for a strong and enduring partnership.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1491For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960Want more relationship episodes like this one?Sheleana Aiyana - https://link.chtbl.com/1436-podLewis Howes solo episode on relationships - https://link.chtbl.com/1450-pod

The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com – On today's episode of The School of Greatness, I talk about the key to lasting relationships with an international guru of the dating and relationship-coaching scene: Matthew Hussey. Hussey emphasizes the importance of active listening, empathetic understanding, and clear expression of feelings. He highlights that genuine communication forms the foundation of strong partnerships and helps resolve conflicts constructively.Matthew Hussey is a speaker, New York Times Bestselling author, columnist for Cosmopolitan Magazine, and dating expert on ABC's digital series What To Text Him Back.  His corporate clients include Hugo Boss, The Perfume Shop, Virgin Gyms, Procter & Gamble, Bare Escentuals, U.S. legal giant Weil Gotshal & Manges, and global management consultants Accenture. 50,000 women have attended his live events and he has reached over 10 million online.In this episode you will learn,About “activation energy” and how dating apps destroy itWhy space is so important when navigating a disputeAbout the “castle” metaphor and why you need to build togetherWhy the “trash cans” define your relationship more than the highlightsThe four stages of all relationshipsThe first step you can do to get out of the weeds of singlehoodFor more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1490For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960Want more relationship episodes like this one?Sheleana Aiyana - https://link.chtbl.com/1436-podLewis Howes solo episode on relationships - https://link.chtbl.com/1450-pod

Sheleana Aiyana is an author, a poet, my wife and the mother of our child. She is author of the Canadian bestseller “Becoming The One” and the forthcoming journal under the same name, and the founder of Rising Woman where she brings tools for healing and transformation to millions of women. She joins me on this episode for a candid conversation about our recent parenthood journey, the struggles we have had, and how we believe parents could be better supported (by their community, and themselves) to be the best parents they can be. In this episode we dive into: Why a shocking number of couples break up within the first year of having a child. The challenges that emerge once you become parents.  The transformation of a relationship after the arrival of a child.  Addressing the common phrase, "Being a parent is the hardest thing in the world."  50/50 parenting and the shifting roles and responsibilities as co-parents.  The normalcy of changes in intimacy and sex life after having a baby. Accessing and integrating relationship tools from the experts. Taking time to master your romantic and sexual relationship.  The goal of relationship work is not perfection.  Minimizers VS Maximizers Gender-specific support in navigating parenthood and relationships. Men's biggest struggle when the responsibilities of marriage and family weigh him down. The feeling of being "touched out" as a mother. The resurgence of old family dynamics when building a family. Ben & Sheleana's personal parenthood struggles and steps to overcome the challenges. Negativity in relationships - The tendency to focus on negativity for survival and the power of conscious choice.  How we co-create our problems in relationship. Doing vs. being. Navigating conflicts as a team.  Gratitude practices to check in with your partner.  Calling in your partner's true essence. How to be your own healer. Links  Becoming The One Journal Freedom from Relationship Anxiety Program with Rising Woman The Conscious Relationship Council with Evolving Man Rising Woman Website Rising Woman Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com – Mark is the three-time #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, as well as other titles. His books have sold around 20 million copies, been translated into more than 65 languages, and reached number one in more than a dozen countries. In 2023, a feature film about his life and ideas was released worldwide by Universal Pictures.In this episode you will learn,Why the idea of "soulmates" and finding "the one" is a misguided approach to relationshipsThe factors that are truly crucial for building lasting and meaningful connections with partners.Strategies for couples to maintain a sense of independence while nurturing a deep emotional bondAddressing the possibility of falling in love with someone who holds conflicting life goals or beliefs and discussing methods to foster understanding and growthThe importance of creating a safe space for open and honest conversations in relationships and how to achieve thisFor more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1485For more Greatness text PODCAST to +1 (614) 350-3960Want more relationship episodes like this one?Sheleana Aiyana - https://link.chtbl.com/1436-podLewis Howes solo episode on relationships - https://link.chtbl.com/1450-pod

“Treasure your relationships, not your possessions.” -Anthony J. D'Angelo Relationships are the most influential factor in our health, and healthy relationships can literally transform our lives. But how do we know which relationships will be successful? Why is it so important to invest our time and energy in making them work? Today's episode is jam-packed with relationship experts who will teach you all about relationships with your friends, family, spouse, and even with yourself. New York Times bestselling author and viral content creator Jay Shetty knows all about the benefits of close relationships. He's going to share the true meaning behind the “spark” in relationships and the tools you'll need to form meaningful connections. Christine Hassler - expert psychologist, best-selling author, podcast, and television host - will share the truth behind toxic relationships and the reasons why a relationship with yourself is most important. Jairek Robbins, bestselling author and master coach, explains all the things to avoid in relationships and will teach you the three vital parts of every healthy connection. Dhru Purohit, bestselling author and host of a major health and wellness podcast, details the types of friendships and how they can influence our quality of life. Learn how to create intentional friendships and how community is the ultimate biohack. Founder of Rising Woman, one of the biggest online communities with over 3 million readers, Sheleana Aiyana will explain the impact our culture has on relationships and how to qualify people when choosing relationships. Harvard expert in psychology, Dr. Robert Waldinger, will explain how an 85-year-long study uncovered the surprising truth that people who lived the longest were those who had the warmest relationships with others. You won't want to miss this all-inclusive guide to building meaningful relationships! In this episode, you'll discover: How the pain of being alone impacts your physical health. The meaning of “first love syndrome” and how it impacts our current and future relationships. How your feelings for a person can change based on the type of date you have. Why “spark” and stress are related and what's really happening when that spark goes away. The “three date rule” and the best ways to connect on each date. What to talk about on dates to figure out whether to move to the next stage. How people's actions affect the way we see their personalities. Ways the “halo effect” can cause us to misread a person's qualities. The connection between healthy relationships and a healthy mind and body. Why a healthy inner image is crucial for successful relationships. The true meaning of forgiveness, and how letting go can heal wounds. How to break the “addiction” to toxic relationships. The fastest way to ruin a relationship and what to avoid. What really happens in an argument. 3 components of a healthy relationship. Tools to get on the same “relationship train”. Surprising benefits of identifying roles in the relationship. The unexpected impact of healthy sleep habits. Ways to improve your communication and listening skills. How to form healthy friendships and why these relationships are vital. The shocking connection between friends and weight. What truly stands in the way of love and relationships. What is a “trauma pattern” and how to overcome it. Ingredients of a healthy inner relationship. How relationships have a direct impact on our lifespan. The key to managing conflict. Items mentioned in this episode include: beekeepersnaturals.com/model ← get 15% off storewide EatSmarterCookbook ← Pre-order the cookbook today & claim your bonuses! Organifi.com/model - 20% off their incredible red juice formula PLUS 20% off storewide The Truth About Healthy Relationships & The Rules of Love with Jay Shetty - Episode 658 Eliminate Self-Sabotage & Break Through Your Limiting Beliefs with Christine Hassler - Episode 273 Unlock More Happiness, Health, & Success In Your Relationships with Jairek Robbins - Episode 594 The Science of Friendship & How Your Community Impacts Your Health with Dhru Purohit - Episode 384 The Truth About Healthy Relationships & Becoming The One with Sheleana Aiyana - Episode 573 The #1 Controller of Human Health & Longevity with Dr. Robert Waldinger - Episode 651 Join our Facebook community - Model Nation Be sure you are subscribed to this podcast to automatically receive your episodes: Apple Podcasts Stitcher Spotify SoundCloud Download Transcript  

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There are always situations we could have handled better. Our capacities for compassionate connection are constantly limited by time, energy, and our personal programming. This is true for our parents, and for us too — and the resulting guilt & shame get in the way of our connections. It's never too late to make repairs though, and holding your own shame with love is a great place to start. In today's episode we talk about everything that builds up for us that gets in the way of our connection to loved ones, and how to work with it. There are so many great tools available for conscious parenting, gentle parenting, and conscious relationship in our modern world. We are all learning to use them collectively, and things are changing — we're adding more compassion to human interactions, and we all have a role to play. Mentioned in this episode: - Sheleana Aiyana's fantastic book Becoming the One - Our online program starts in September — REGISTER NOW! (P.S. It's free for schoolteachers and ECE! Spread the word) ************** Every episode comes with prompts for journaling and reflection. You can find these, submit your Qs and topic ideas, and learn more about Georgianna and Steph at wholeheartedloving.com.

The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com Sheleana Aiyana emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and self-reflection in order to understand one's own role in perpetuating unhealthy patterns. By examining past experiences, traumas, and beliefs, readers can gain clarity about the subconscious patterns that drive their choices in relationships. LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE! Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter

How can you become the one for yourself and reclaim your power? Sheleana Aiyana, founder of Rising Woman, an international bestselling author and spiritual writer had a tumultuous upbringing that began to impact how she showed up in relationships. So she embarked on the journey towards inner healing, and shared her discoveries with a community that grew to over 3 million. She teaches you how to stop abandoning yourself, widen your capacity to let love in, make peace with your past, and peel back the layers so you can reach the precious gem of your essence. - Come to Cathy's next retreat Sept. 10-12 in Boca Raton Cathyheller.com/retreat - Join Cathy's meditation membership at Cathyheller.com/membership - Get Sheleana's book, Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself https://courses.risingwoman.com/btobook - Follow Sheleana on Instagram @sheleanaaiyana and @risingwoman - Get more of Sheleana's writings and courses at Sheleanaaiyana.com - Get more of Rising Woman at Risingwoman.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Summit of Greatness is back! Buy your tickets today – summitofgreatness.com Sheleana Aiyana shares her own personal experiences of trauma and how it shaped her understanding of the healing journey. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and honoring one's pain as the first step towards healing. By fostering self-compassion and acceptance, viewers are encouraged to begin the process of healing from their own traumatic experiences. Check out the full episode Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter 

You know her and love her—Sheleana Aiyana, international best-selling author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers—returns to the pod! Today, Sheleana and Krista talk about spirit babies, motherhood, conscious relationships, oversharing on social media and making room for our purpose to grow with us throughout life.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode here.

As a collective, we are experiencing a shift in how we understand the feminine and masculine energies within us and each other. As we grow and evolve, so does our awareness. This week Ashley, explores a topic that she has been really passionate about for some time:  rebalancing the feminine and following your messages to create a life of freedom. She shares some personal stories and lessons from carrying a new masculine frequency and invites invites Rising Woman founder and best-selling author, Sheleana Aiyana, to talk about how she has tapped into her new definition of the feminine after becoming a mother. Sheleana speaks of her life experiences as a child, how becoming a mother has empowered her to reclaim its sacredness, and leaning on community. We hope you enjoy this episode!   In this episode you'll hear: Ashley's lessons of redefining the word “can't”, leaning into a softer feminine, and trusting her messages that led to a life of freedom Sheleana's experience of redefine her feminine as she became a mother, her passion for community living, empowering women to see the sacredness of motherhood and igniting their fire within   Links: RISING WOMAN - explore their website CONNECT WITH SHAY - through her personal IG Be GUIDED  READ: The Line: A New Way of Living with the Wisdom of Your Akashic Records LISTEN (Audiobook): The Line: A New Way of Living with the Wisdom of Your Akashic Records THE ESSENTIALS - our new introductory workshop MEET OUR GUIDES - hosts of our A Line Within weekly ceremonies (available in GUIDED) BOOK A READING - with one of our A Line Within Readers LEAVE US A REVIEW - take a screenshot and email it to megan@alnwithin.com to get a special discount code of 20% our GUIDED membership (only applicable for new members) SUBSCRIBE TO OUR NEWSLETTER FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM NEW TO THIS PODCAST? START HERE.  

You know her and love her—Sheleana Aiyana, international best-selling author of Becoming the One and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers—returns to the pod! Today, Sheleana and Krista talk about spirit babies, motherhood, conscious relationships, oversharing on social media and making room for our purpose to grow with us throughout life. Sheleana's training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path.  Tune in to learn about Sheleana's mothering approach, connecting to nature, and living your life IRL (not online!), plus so much more.  We also talk about: Being in a conscious relationship  Setting boundaries as a mom Unconscious agreements + contracts Trusting your intuition  Recognizing soul contracts Learning to trust the masculine + feminine  Oversharing on social media  Vulnerability IRL vs. online Resources:  Website: SheleanaAiyana.com Instagram: @sheleanaaiyana YouTube: @RisingWoman Book: Becoming The One  Online Programs: RisingWoman.com/Programs Join the Freedom from Relationship Anxiety Waitlist Sponsors: Seed | Visit seed.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to redeem 30% off your first month of Seed's DS-01® Daily Synbiotic.  Manscaped | Get 20% off + free shipping, with the code ALMOST30 at manscaped.com. Cured Nutrition | Visit curednutrition.com/ALMOST30 and use coupon code “ALMOST30” at checkout to save an extra 20%. BetterHelp | This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/almost30 and get on your way to being your best self with 10% off your first month. To advertise on our podcast, please reach out to sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/Almost30.  Learn More: almost30.com/learn almost30.com/morningmicrodose almost30.com/courses  Join our community: almost30.com/membership facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer.  Find more to love at almost30.com! Almost 30 is edited by Marielle Marlys. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

https://lewishowes.com/mindset - Order a copy of my new book The Greatness Mindset today!Sheleana Aiyana is a best selling author of Becoming the One, and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship and somatic healing inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. She lives with her husband, Ben and their daughter on the unceded land of the Coast Salish peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.Be sure to buy her book, Becoming the OneIn this episode you will learn,How to foster healthy love with others.How to use lessons from traumatic experiences to be of service to others.What patterns to be aware of in toxic and abusive relationships.How to become aware of our own nervous system patterns and heal our nervous system.How to develop healing processes to work through deep rooted pain.How to take an honest look at yourself in order to create a conscious relationship with someone else.How to listen to and trust your own intuition.How to recognize and work through attachment wounds.What it looks like to mature in a relationship.For more information go to www.lewishowes.com/1436Listen here for more episodes on healing, love and relationships:Joe Dispenza: https://link.chtbl.com/1054-podStephan Speaks: https://link.chtbl.com/1114-podMarisa Peer: https://link.chtbl.com/1228-pod

Rising Woman, a community of over 3 million women, began as Sheleana Aiyana's own healing journey. Her experience of overcoming childhood trauma, growing up in foster homes, learning from and growing past painful relationships inspired her to help awaken to their spiritual potential: Becoming The One, also the title of her book. https://www.risingwoman.com/btobook⁠ In this episode, Juliana Spicoluk, Mark Spicoluk & Rising Women's Sheleana Aiyana discuss What To Expect When You're Expecting, her journey as a mother, parenthood in 2023, co-sleeping, breastfeeding, public schooling, Salt Spring Island, the call back to the wild, Sheleana's path, relationship archetypes, conscious relationships, and her book Becoming The One. JOIN THE @starsanddestruct  MOVEMENT:  » https://www.starsanddestruct.com/starwalkers  ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★⁣ Guest Links: Sheleana Aiyana  » ⁠https://sheleanaaiyana.com/⁠  » https://risingwoman.com/programs/  Becoming the One -  » Book: https://www.risingwoman.com/btobook » https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-One-Transform-Relationship-Patterns/dp/1797211676  » IG: https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/  » IG: https://www.instagram.com/risingwoman    » YT: https://www.youtube.com/@RisingWoman ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★⁣ SHOW NOTES: Raffi - » https://raffinews.com/ All topics discussed: motherhood, parenting childhood, public school vs homeschooling, “What To Expect When You're Expecting, breastfeeding, co-sleeping, conscious relationships, attachment styles, love languages, Salt Spring Island, into the wild, homeschooling, wild school, salt spring island, Vancouver island, breaking free from toxic relationships, hot-and-cold, childhood trauma, mother wound, father wound, trust wound, abandonment wound, relationship archetypes, survivor archetype, rescuer, living with intention, self-awareness, privilege, human needs, resentment. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★⁣ Team Stardust:⁣ Juliana Spicoluk: ⁣ » https://www.julianaspicoluk.com/ ⁣ » https://www.instagram.com/juliana.spicoluk/ ⁣ Mark Spicoluk: ⁣ » https://www.markspicoluk.com/ ⁣ » https://www.instagram.com/mark.spicoluk/ ⁣ Heidi Souffriau -producer : ⁣ » https://www.heidisouffriau.com/ ⁣ » https://www.instagram.com/unfold.yoursoul/ ⁣ ⁣ stars+destruct.⁣ » https://www.starsanddestruct.com/ ⁣ » https://www.instagram.com/starsanddestruct/ ⁣ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ ★⁣ manifesto.⁣ We have chosen to construct this apparatus to explore a wild cosmos of minds,⁣ to awaken ours & other's hearts, and to expand ourselves.⁣ To step off the mat & live the practice of unity.⁣ Because each & everyone of us sees the world through our own unique light.⁣ And we wish to connect our lights⁣ as constellations, beyond opinion. To challenge the false narratives that divide us.⁣ To stand strong with one another's truths.⁣ To learn to hold different perspectives simultaneously.⁣ To free the path to the stars.⁣ To not just welcome, but to also enthusiastically embrace the disruption of our reality.⁣ And to create cosmos out of chaos.⁣ Welcome to stars+destruct.

Today's special heart-filled episode is a session from last summer's Camp Almost 30, Becoming the One. It's presented beautifully by Sheleana Aiyana, empowerment leader and author of the life-changing relationship and self-development book, Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself.We really love the way in which Sheleana has been able to take her own experience, whether it's in relationship with self or others, and her own traumas – and really transform them into potent and powerful lessons for us all to really learn from and heal through.Sheleana talks about building a secure, loving relationship with self; setting boundaries; connecting with your inner child; and so much more as she takes a few thoughtful questions from attendees. Her groundedness and ability to channel what's true is immensely powerful. We're so excited to present this sneak peek of club membership to listeners, today. If you are inspired by this session, please join us for Almost 30 Space Camp coming up later this month! It's absolutely free – head to almost30.com/space-camp to reserve your spot now. Space is limited. We will see you there!We also talk about:Breaking the scarcity mindsetFalling into relationshipArmoring and saving faceComing home to self and innocence Defining conscious relationshipTransforming to a higher expressionLoving yourself during grieving Feeling seen and heard Leaning into the contrastsTending to the inner childResources:Read: Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to YourselfWebsite: sheleanaaiyana.comRising Woman: risingwoman.comInstagram: @sheleanaaiyanaInstagram: @risingwomanYouTube: @RisingWomanFree Meditation: Healing Your Inner Child MeditationJoin our community:almost30.com/membershipfacebook.com/Almost30podcast/groupsPodcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Find more to love at almost30.com!Almost 30 is edited by Crate Media.Mentioned in this episode:Away | Start your 100-day trial and shop the entire Away lineup of travel essentials at AwayTravel.com/Almost30.BetterHelp | This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try and get on your way to being your best self. Visit BetterHelp.com/ALMOST30 today to get 10%...

Do you feel like your inner perfectionist keeps you from experiencing good things because you write them off as not good enough? When it comes to relationships, we can have the idea of what a perfect partner is when in reality we are searching for something that exists. That's why it's so important to tune into how we actually feel about someone, and if these feelings are being influenced by past trauma. In this episode, Sheleana Aiyana dives into how we can take a look at our own personal experiences and traumas to uncover the root cause and from that place be able to engage in conscious relationships that foster safety, trust, freedom, and honesty. Head to https://www.foodmatters.com/podcast/episode-64 for the show notes. Join the Food Matters newsletter: https://www.foodmatters.com/signup/podcast Follow us on Instagram: @foodmatters

This week, I'm featuring some of the incredible work, insight, and knowledge of relationship experts I've had on. This is a great episode if you're pressed for time, looking for a variety of answers, or just want a taste of what the ManTalks podcast has to offer. I hope you enjoy! Over the last decade, Elizabeth Earnshaw, LMFT has become one of today's most trusted relationship teachers. Elizabeth is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Fellow of The American Association of Marriage & Family Therapy. She is the Head Therapist at Actually, where she is working to make relational wellness mainstream & accessible. Elizabeth is also the host of Hash it Out on Good Risings where she offers advice to everyday relational conundrums. She is frequently asked to talk about relationships with media outlets like Mind Body Green and The Huffington Post and has been featured on numerous podcasts.  Relationship expert and sought-after coach Jayson Gaddis is the founder of The Relationship School, an impact-based company dedicated to helping people work out their differences and have fulfilling long-term partnerships. Jayson is considered a world leader in love, conflict resolution, and interpersonal relationships. He's the host of an extremely successful podcast with almost 3 million downloads (and over 250 episodes) and has interviewed the very best in the world including Dr. Dan Siegel, Dr. Gabor Mate, Dr. Stan Tatkin, Dr. John Demartini, The Gottmans, Pat Ogden, and Bessel VanDerKolk. Dr. Justin Lehmiller received his Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Purdue University. He is a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of the book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher and scholar who has published more than 50 academic works to date, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality (now in its second edition) that is used in college classrooms around the world. Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. She lives with her husband, Ben, on xʷənen̕əč, the unceded land of the Hul'q'umi'num' and WSÁNEĆ peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC. Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they're looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sheleana Aiyana is a Spiritual Counselor, Founder of Rising Woman, and Author of the book, “Becoming The One.” In this powerful episode, Drew and Sheleana dive deep into the world of self-discovery, spirituality, and relationships. They dig into how to recognize and break toxic inherited relationship patterns, they explore when you should fight for a relationship versus end it, and even chat about setting healthy boundaries and expectations in a relationship - something that is often overlooked, yet crucial in a successful conscious relationship. If you want your relationship to be your happy place, then you don't want to miss this episode!   HIGHLIGHTS:   [01:30] A brief summary of Sheleana's chaotic upbringing, and how repeating the patterns of her childhood ultimately led her down a path of deep self-reflection and healing.   [14:47] Why it is so hard for people to learn how to love themselves to healing and happiness, the importance of treating a relationship as an “energy center,” and why now is the best time in history to build conscious and intentional relationships.   [26:40] Sheleana's advice for those considering divorce or ending a relationship, and what the process of “becoming the one” looks like.   [36:02] Trauma vs. adversity, why you don't have to experience trauma to grow, and the importance of creating strong, healthy families.   [43:00] Sheleana's approach to establishing core values, how to healthily establish non-negotiables, and setting realistic expectations in relationships.   SPONSORS:   Manscaped — Manscaped makes precision engineered tools for your family jewels. Their new Lawn Mower 4.0 uses unique SkinSafe Technology designed specifically for the groin and body to give you a clean trim, whilst protecting your most sensitive areas. They also produce premium skin and body care products designed to keep your skin healthy, and keep you feeling fresh - all day, everyday. And ladies, Manscaped products aren't just for men! Use code “fit2fat2fit” at checkout for 20% off of your order and FREE shipping!   H.V.M.N. — Ketones are nature's superfuel, proven to support energy, focus, endurance, and more. Developed alongside the U.S. military and top universities, Ketone-IQ™ delivers all those benefits in one drink. No caffeine, no sugar—just clean, on-demand energy for superior physical and cognitive performance. Use the code “fit2fat2fit” at checkout for 10% off of your order!   SHOW LINKS:   Risingwoman.com sheleanaaiyana.com @risingwoman @sheleanaaiyana Take the Fit2Fat2Fit Podcast Listener Survey Fit2Fat2Fit on Facebook  @Fit2Fat2Fit on Instagram Fit2Fat2Fit Book  Keto School Program Complete Keto Book Email Drew: info@fit2fat2fit.com

Sheleana Aiyana is an international best selling author of "Becoming the One", and founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. She lives with her husband, Ben, on xwәnen'әč, the unceded land of the Hul'q'umi'num'- and WSÁNE´ C-speaking Coast Salish peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.

Today I'm sharing a chat with Sheleana Aiyana. She is the founder of Rising Woman, an online community with more than 3 million readers. She talks about her childhood experiences parenting her own mother and coping through addiction. Then, she shares some strategies to help you heal, come home to yourself, and heal childhood wounds. Find the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/417

Sheleana Aiyana is driven by her immense desire to help people create more conscious relationships and come home to themselves. So many of us live under persistent low-grade anxiety. Much of that anxiety stems from unhealthy or dysfunctional relationships, and today, Sheleana is here to share some insights on how to begin your own journey home to yourself.  Sheleana is the founder of Rising Woman, a community of more than four million. with a vast experience in plant-based medicine, and inherited family trauma seeks to use her holistic approach to spirituality. Her deep-layered book, ‘Becoming the One' guides her reader through the process of becoming the person you ought to be. Conversation highlights: How the urge for love is wired into our DNA, yet before we can form fulfilling ties with others, we must first embrace self-acceptance totally. Ending the cycle of self-abandonment and by modifying our relationship habits. Repairing lifetime relationship patterns and recovering power and control over our lives Relationships fill our lives with the magic of closeness and commitment, but how often do we find ourselves pursuing unattainable love, placing other people's desires before our own, and forsaking ourselves - the ones who truly need it. Congratulate yourself on getting this far, regardless of where you are in the process of improving your relationships. Remind yourself that a good relationship is something you deserve. --- Today's episode is brought to you by CreativeLive. CreativeLive is the world's largest hub for online creative education in photo/video, art/design, music/audio, craft/maker and the ability to make a living in any of those disciplines. They are high quality, highly curated classes taught by the world's top experts -- Pulitzer, Oscar, Grammy Award winners, New York Times best selling authors and the best entrepreneurs of our times.

Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationship as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One. In her new book, Becoming the One, out April 12, 2022, Sheleana takes you on a transformational inner-work journey to heal life-long relationship patterns and reclaim power over your life. She lives with her husband, Ben, on xʷənen̕əč, the unceded land of the Hul'q'umi'num' and WSÁNEĆ peoples, now known as Salt Spring Island, BC.   Connect with Sheleana -Website: https://risingwoman.com/ -Personal Website: https://sheleanaaiyana.com/ -New Book! "Becoming The One": https://courses.risingwoman.com/btobook -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/risingwoman/ -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RisingWomanOfficial Did you enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the self-leadership they're looking for. Are you looking to find purpose, navigate transition, or fix your relationships, all with a powerful group of men from around the world? Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community. Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Writer, spiritual counselor, and founder of Rising Woman Sheleana Aiyana joins Zibby to talk about her first book, Becoming the One, which takes readers through one of her self-discovery programs. The two discuss some of the traumas Sheleana faced early on and how she managed to work through them, as well as when she knew she was destined to help other women find themselves. Sheleana also shares why the process of writing this book was so grueling and how working on herself allowed her to find her husband who helped her through her self-doubts.Purchase on Amazon or Bookshop.Amazon: https://amzn.to/3Ho5YozBookshop: https://bit.ly/3mKcjkPSubscribe to Zibby's weekly newsletter here.Purchase Moms Don't Have Time to Read Books merch here. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Themes: Self-Awareness, Trauma, Healing, Self-Love, Relationships   Summary: Today I'm joined by my dear friend and founder of Rising Woman, Sheleana Aiyana. In this episode we explore the importance of becoming aware of your patterns in relationship, where they came from and ultimately, how to transcend them to become “the one” you seek. Have you ever felt like people leave you for the exact same reason or that you date the same type of person… Every. Single. Time? These patterns are something that need to be acknowledged if we want to understand ourselves better and call in the healthy relationship we crave – both with ourselves and with another. Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationships as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One.   Discover: The effects of media on how we view relationships & how it encourages our addiction to chaos Why we tend to numb our pain & how we can start being aware of it Why we should normalize (and celebrate!) the mundane parts of relationships  00:00 Intro 01:26 Becoming the One 03:30 Media affecting our views on relationships 07:41 Ignoring old beliefs and working on your own patterns 12:52 Why we numb our pain 21:19 Trusting love again & healing 24:59 How your childhood experiences affects your behavior now 27:38 Awareness of old patterns 32:00 How being vulnerable can inspire others 34:28 How we actually block love from coming our way 37:01 Learning how to love healthily  41:16 Normalization of boredom in relationships   Links: Sheleana Aiyana | Instagram  Rising Woman | Instagram Rising Woman | Facebook Rising Woman | Website Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself   Sponsors: Cured Nutrition | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% all products at curednutrition.com/createthelove Organifi | Use code CREATETHELOVE for 20% off all products at organifi.com/createthelove Create the Love Cards | Use code CTLCARDS15 for 15% off at createthelove.com/cards See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

“Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.” – Swedish Proverb Our relationships are the most impactful, integral elements to our success, our happiness, and our health. Learning how to cultivate and foster healthy interpersonal relationships is a necessary life skill that we can all work on. And at a time with so much turbulence and divisiveness in our world, this skill is more important than ever.  Today's guest, Sheleana Aiyana, is the founder of Rising Woman and the author of Becoming the One. Her mission is to help others heal their relationship patterns and foster conscious, healthy relationships. On this episode of The Model Health Show, Sheleana is sharing foundational principles for changing your relationship patterns, working on self-discovery and healing, and how to make room in your life for healthy love.  You're going to hear why building a strong relationship with yourself is the key to happiness, how to heal trauma, and why forgiveness is an important component of health. Sheleana is sharing her story of healing relationship patterns, and how you can build stronger relationships with yourself and those around you. I hope this interview resonates with you and is helpful on your journey. Enjoy!   In this episode you'll discover: The root of the word relationship.  How our past wounds can impact our relationships.  Why reclaiming a relationship with yourself is of upmost importance.  The problem with our culture's messaging around finding the one.  Why relationships of all kinds are the greatest gift. How working through our trauma can help us show up better in relationships. The major issue with the rescuer trope in popular films and books. Why healing yourself is so important.  How being in nature can help heal your nervous system.  An important distinction between boundaries and walls.  How our confidence and self-trust influence our relationships.  Why having an understanding of your values can help you choose healthy relationships.  What it means to date yourself.  How connecting with animals can help us heal. Why the ability to name your emotions is a critical skill.  The power of forgiving your past self.  Why forgiveness is beneficial for your health, and how to move through anger.  How to notice when your values are out of balance.  Items mentioned in this episode include: Organifi.com/Model -- Use the coupon code MODEL for 20% off! DrinkLMNT.com/model -- Get a FREE sample pack—just pay shipping!  Becoming the One by Sheleana Aiyana Healing Your Inner Child Meditation  Master Your Mindset & Create the Life You Want with Michael Beckwith – Episode 495 Connect with Sheleana Aiyana Website / YouTube / Instagram  Join TMHS Facebook community - Model Nation Be sure you are subscribed to this podcast to automatically receive your episodes:  Apple Podcasts Stitcher Spotify Soundcloud *Download Transcript  

Sheleana Aiyana is the real deal when it comes to processing family trauma. After you hear the story of what she went through as a child – and how she overcame it – you'll be a believer as well. Sheleana knows that, if more of us could understand the impact of inherited family trauma and how to move through it, the world would be a brighter place. She's the founder of Rising Woman, a community of more than three million readers. Sheleana is very truthful, very heart-centered, and she's doing work that helps so many people. Her new book, “Becoming the One,” debunks the myth that we need someone from outside ourselves, “the one,” to come into our life and save us. You have everything within you to become the one in your own life. And if you doubt it now, Sheleana can be very convincing. We also talk about: Coming into your voice Allowing yourself to be seen How different internal wounds are healed Bringing conscious work into your relationship The power struggle phase of relationships The myth of The One Coming back to the body The journey of inner teen work Sponsors: Pendulum | Visit https://pendulumlife.com/ (pendulumlife.com) and use promo code ALMOST30 for 20% off your first month of membership House of Wise | Go to http://houseofwise.co (houseofwise.co) and use code ALMOST30 for 20% off Sakara | Explore their menu at http://sakara.com/almostsakara (sakara.com/almostsakara) and use code ALMOSTSAKARA for 20% off your first order Athletic Greens | Go to http://athleticgreens.com/almost30 (athleticgreens.com/almost30) to get a free year's supply of Vitamin D and five free travel packs Issuu | Get 50% off a premium account by visiting http://issuu.com/podcast (issuu.com/podcast) and using code ALMOST30 Resources: Visit Rising Woman at https://risingwoman.com/ (risingwoman.com) Read: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-One-Transform-Relationship-Patterns-ebook/dp/B092HJRBP6 (Becoming the One) Follow Sheleana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana (@sheleanaaiyana) Follow Rising Woman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/RisingWoman/ (@RisingWoman) Visit http://lifeeditbykrista.com (lifeeditbykrista.com) to sign up for the free Life Edit Mini Challenge Join our community: http://almost30.com/membership (almost30.com/membership) https://www.facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups (facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups) Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: https://almost30.com/disclaimer (almost30.com/disclaimer).  Find more to love at http://almost30.com/ (almost30.com)! Almost 30 is edited by http://crate.media (Crate Media).