The Redeemed Marriage Podcast

Welcome back to the Redeemed Marriage Podcast! Rusty and Heather are reunited in the studio after a busy few weeks navigating summer schedules and individual commitments. This episode, they discuss fostering connection and communication in marriage by spontaneously answering questions from the popular book "365 Connecting Questions for Couples.” Get ready for some raw and vulnerable moments as they tackle tough topics like money in marriage, navigating insecurities (even years after infidelity recovery), and what true romance looks like to them. From heartfelt discussions about their relationship challenges and marriage advice on forgiveness, to lighter memories of Halloween costumes and high school dates, this Q&A session offers a candid look into how they keep their bond strong. If you're looking for ways to deepen your own connection, improve marital communication, and hear honest takes on real-life marriage issues, this episode is for you! Request Heather's Booking Calendar Visit The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel

Feeling stuck in your marriage after betrayal, infidelity, or past mistakes? Join Rusty and Heather Bryant in this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast as they explore the difficult journey of getting "unstuck." They discuss the impact of being trapped by past hurts, whether you're the one who was betrayed or the one who caused the pain, struggling with guilt and shame. Discover why it's crucial to make the conscious choice to heal, forgive (yourself and your spouse), and stop replaying painful memories. Rusty and Heather share personal insights and biblical wisdom, including a powerful look at the story of the woman at the well, to illustrate how you can leave your "jar of shame" behind and allow God to rewrite your story. Learn how being stuck not only affects you but also damages your spouse and hinders the healing process for your marriage. This episode offers hope and practical steps for anyone seeking freedom, joy, and restoration in their relationship, even when moving forward seems impossible. Visit The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to YouTube Follow on Facebook Follow on Instagram

This week on The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather unpack the concept of accepting your story—the good, the bad, and the parts you wish you could change. Inspired by a recent sermon from Louie Giglio (Passion City Church) about the significance of self-care and embracing our unique narratives, they explore how true healing begins when we stop fighting our past. Whether your story includes past mistakes, regrets, trauma, infidelity in marriage, or simply a season you'd rather forget, this episode offers hope. Rusty and Heather share vulnerably from their own experiences with marital infidelity and redemption, discussing how God's grace can take even the most broken pieces and create something beautiful. Discover why you can't alter the past, but you can allow God to write a new chapter for your future. If you're struggling with shame, past hurts, or wondering how to move forward, learn practical ways to find peace and purpose in your own story. Join Rusty and Heather for an encouraging conversation about finding hope after hurt and the power of a redeemed story. Connect with us: Website YouTube Instagram Facebook

Welcome back to the Redeemed Marriage Podcast! In their ongoing "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle a surprisingly common yet devastating issue: the slow fade of fun and laughter from a relationship. What happens when the joy, playfulness, and shared enjoyment that once defined your connection start to dwindle? Boredom can set in, routines become ruts, and the spark can dim. In this episode, discover: The critical importance of intentionality in cultivating fun and shared enjoyment. Practical ways to reignite laughter, from shared activities and travel to everyday flirting. How a shared purpose and open communication can protect your marriage from becoming stale. The surprising connection between fun, intimacy, and overall marital health (wait 'til you hear about their pastor's Mother's Day sermon!). Join Rusty and Heather as they explore how to avoid this "marriage killer" and ensure your relationship stays vibrant, connected, and full of laughter. Learn how to make fun a priority, protect your marriage from becoming routine, and rediscover the joy in your partnership.

What happens when "me first" becomes the default setting in a relationship? Selfishness, often disguised as legitimate needs or expectations, can quietly creep in and destroy a marriage from the inside out. Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast for the latest episode in their "Marriage Killers" series as they tackle this common but devastating issue. They get brutally honest about the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways selfishness manifests – from unrealistic expectations and entitlement ("make me happy!") to poor communication and a lack of genuine sacrifice. Heather shares her personal struggles and vulnerability with this very issue, revealing how focusing solely on your own happiness can lead to marital breakdown and hurt. Discover why wanting your spouse to fulfill your desires isn't enough, and how this mindset can erode trust and intimacy.. Learn why shifting focus from receiving to giving, practicing true selflessness, and recognizing the importance of serving your partner are crucial steps toward building a healthier, stronger, and truly redeemed marriage, even when it feels difficult. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel

Are secrets silently eroding the foundation of your marriage? In this installment of the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant tackle the destructive power of secrecy in relationships. Discover why keeping secrets from your spouse, even seemingly small ones about finances, thoughts, or daily activities, can create distance, break trust, and ultimately kill intimacy. They explore how secrets often start small but can snowball, leading to a heavy burden of fear and the constant effort of covering tracks. Learn why full transparency and honesty are non-negotiable for a healthy, thriving marriage, especially when rebuilding after broken trust or betrayal. If you're struggling with hidden truths or want to cultivate deeper honesty and connection with your spouse, this episode offers crucial insights, personal reflections, and encouragement for bringing everything into the light. Tune in for practical marriage advice on overcoming secrecy and fostering open communication in your relationship. Visit The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel Request Rusty and Heather to speak at your event

Subtle habits can slowly destroy your marriage. The biggest threats are usually a quiet drift away from what matters most. Continuing with the "Marriage Killers" series, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the crucial role that God plays in marital health and the dangers of letting Him slip from the center. Discover practical warning signs that you might be experiencing spiritual drift as a couple. They also discuss the importance of cultivating your own personal relationship with God, rather than relying on your spouse's faith. Learn why acknowledging God as not just Savior, but truly as Lord of your marriage, is foundational for your relationship. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel

Are you unknowingly drifting away from your spouse? This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the subtle ways marriages can deteriorate due to neglect. Discover how this "marriage killer" can slowly erode emotional connection, intimacy, and trust. They'll explore how "doing nothing" can be one of the biggest threats to your relationship, causing a drift towards disconnection. Learn practical steps to recognize and combat this "marriage drift" and rebuild a stronger, healthier marriage. If you are having relationship struggles, you won't want to miss this. Whether you're facing communication issues, intimacy problems, or just feeling disconnected, this episode offers actionable advice to reignite the spark and build a lasting, fulfilling marriage. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel

What do you do when you feel like you're the only one fighting for your marriage? This week, Rusty and Heather Bryant share a deeply personal interview with a friend who is courageously navigating the aftermath of infidelity and searching for hope when her spouse isn't ready to join the journey. Hear her candid testimony about finding strength in Jesus, learning to control her attitude and lean on prayer in intentional ways, and discovering answered prayers she never imagined. This isn't a story with a tidy "happily ever after" ending - it's a real, raw account of finding joy in the midst of pain and building a relationship with Jesus, as the first step to getting a marriage back on track. If you're struggling with relationship issues, the painful realities of infidelity, or feel like you're walking alone, this episode is for you. Discover how radical prayer can be your secret weapon, why a broken marriage can be an opportunity for deep personal transformation, and how to find unexpected blessings even when things look their darkest. Tune in for a dose of faith, hope, and the reminder that God is working, even when you can't see the full picture. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube Channel

Silence isn't necessarily golden when it comes to your relationships. This week on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant take a look at the tough topic of speaking truth and having the courage to address questionable actions or patterns we see in those closest to us. Drawing from the biblical story of Judas, they explore how subtle shifts and patterns of behavior can lead to devastation. Learn practical insights on how to approach these delicate conversations, when to speak up (even if it's uncomfortable), and how to do so with love and grace. Is your silence protecting others, or is it enabling a dangerous path? Don't let fear hold you back from speaking life-giving truth. Tune in this week to The Redeemed Marriage Podcast and discover how you can develop the courage to confront with compassion. The Redeemed Marriage Website Watch us on YouTube

Are you struggling to establish healthy boundaries in your marriage? In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant explore the crucial role of boundaries in building a stronger, more trusting, and fulfilling marriage. Learn practical tips for setting and maintaining boundaries to protect your relationship and prevent future hurts. Through insights from their own journey, you'll discover that boundaries are about protection and trust, not control, and how that foundation builds a safe emotional space for both spouses. Uncover practical strategies for boundary setting with the opposite sex in work and social settings. Discover how to protect your marriage through digital and entertainment boundaries and learn how to navigate conversations about boundaries with your spouse. Whether you're looking to rebuild trust or want to prevent future harm to your marriage, this episode on boundaries is for every couple. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel Get our FREE Resource Menu

Join Rusty and Heather Bryant on the Redeemed Marriage Podcast as they take a fun, nostalgic trip down memory lane, exploring the evolution of dating terms from the courting days of the 1920s to today's modern "situation-ships." They'll discuss everything from "going steady" to "talking," and examine how these shifting labels impact marriage, commitment, and communication. Discover how old-fashioned dating values like exclusivity, commitment, and intentional dating can be the key to building a healthy marriage and strengthening intimacy. Is your relationship a solid "item" or just another "situation?" Listen in for actionable relationship advice to reignite your love and build a lasting bond. This episode offers a fresh perspective on relationship culture and challenges you to bring back the romance in your marriage. Learn more about how to create the best relationships one meaningful dating term at a time! The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube channel Get our Resource Menu

Are you and your spouse feeling disconnected or stuck in a marriage that has lost its spark and purpose? Or are you trying to recover from betrayal and rebuild trust in your relationship? In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather share what it means to "burn your ships"—committing to a radical transformation in your marriage by leaving the past behind and embracing a future of endless possibilities and a fresh start. Listeners will explore the empowering concept of total commitment—refusing to settle for "getting back to normal" and instead, forging a new path forward by completely removing the temptation to revert to old patterns. Whether your marriage needs a complete overhaul after infidelity or simply seeks to rekindle lost passion, this episode provides practical guidance and encouragement for creating a marriage that is not only redeemed, but better than ever before. Visit The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Download our NEW Resource Menu

Are you tired of hearing you can't fix your spouse, but wondering what it actually means to work on yourself? Rusty and Heather get real about the practical steps it takes to continually chase after God as individuals and as a couple, even in the craziness of everyday life. Discover practical tips and insights on how to become the spouse God has called you to be. Learn how to establish a daily rhythm of faith through Bible study, prayer, mentorship, and self-help resources. This episode is for all married couples looking to prioritize their relationship with the Lord and strengthen their marriage. Discover how to find time for spiritual growth, and how to take steps of obedience even when you might not feel like it. The Redeemed Marriage Website Marriage Intensives Subscribe to TRM YouTube Channel

This week on The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a frequently asked question: How do they continually share the story of their past infidelity and the journey of their redeemed marriage—the pain, the shame, the ultimate transformation—without being consumed by it? How do they avoid being constantly triggered, returning to that very dark place? Listen as they reveal how sharing their story, pointing people to Christ, and embracing their role as a testament to God's redemption has become a source of strength, not a burden. Learn how they approach sharing their marriage story for healing, the mindset shifts they've made, and how they navigate the emotions that inevitably surface. Whether you're struggling to open up with others or simply seeking healthier communication about your journey within your marriage, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Join Rusty and Heather as they share how their past has become a powerful tool for hope and healing, not just for themselves, but for others. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to TRM YouTube Channel Follow TRM on Facebook Follow TRM on Instagram

Does your marriage feel like it's just "getting by"? Is it struggling to move forward, burdened by past hurts and unmet expectations? Rusty and Heather Bryant from The Redeemed Marriage podcast invite you to explore a path toward healing and restoration in this powerful episode. If you're tired of simply "coping" and long to experience a vibrant, thriving marriage, this is for you. Discover practical insights and encouragement to not just fix what's broken, but to rebuild a relationship that is stronger than before. Whether you're facing communication issues, betrayal, lack of trust, or other challenges, learn how to move beyond simply surviving to truly thriving. This episode offers guidance, resources, and inspiration to help you redeem your marriage and discover the profound joy of a partnership that is stronger, more resilient, and more deeply connected than ever before.

In a raw and revealing episode, Rusty and Heather confront a topic they've never fully addressed: divorce. After experiencing the devastating impact of infidelity, did they ever consider calling it quits? Hear intimate confessions about their darkest days, the initial shock, and the defensive postures they adopted as the crisis unfolded. Listen as they honestly explore the reality of the 'D' word in their own marriage, openly discussing whether divorce felt inevitable and how they navigated such a difficult possibility. Despite the depths of their struggle, Rusty and Heather also emphasize the unwavering hope for redemption, even in seemingly impossible situations. If you're questioning your marriage, wrestling with your future, or simply curious about their personal path to restoration, this episode is a must-listen. Visit TheRedeemedMarriage.com for resources to help you and your marriage.

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss heart transformation in the journey of marriage restoration. They share how true healing isn't just about fixing the marriage, but about personal and spiritual changes that must happen within each spouse. Are you only focused on the details of your story, and not what God is trying to do in your heart? Listen as they discuss how they came to realize that God wanted their hearts first, and the rest, including their marriage, followed suit.  How do you move past the details of betrayal and focus on the deeper, personal change God wants to bring about in you? What does it look like to put your complete trust in Christ during marriage struggles? How do you pray effectively when it seems like your marriage is too far gone? Learn how to look beyond your story to find freedom and healing for both you and your spouse as you walk alongside Christ. Whether you're in the middle of a crisis or seeking deeper intimacy, this episode will help you pursue heart change for a healthier, more God-honoring marriage. The Redeemed Marriage Website Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram Subscribe to our YouTube channel

Has your marriage felt different lately? Maybe the needs you and your spouse had when you first said "I do" have changed. In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage Podcast, join Rusty and Heather Bryant as they explore how individual needs shift due to time, the changing seasons of life, and the impact of betrayal and trauma. Your initial expectations may not align with where you and your spouse are today. Understanding that your needs can evolve is the first step towards a more intimate and fulfilling relationship. Discover how love languages like acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, and physical touch can shift and affect your marital connection. You'll also be able to see the importance of recognizing how these changes impact each other, and why you may need to lean more into certain areas to truly feel loved and connected. Rusty and Heather share some of their own journey of navigating changing needs, giving you a peek into their real experience with how they've communicated and continued building a more meaningful marriage over the years, particularly after infidelity. The Redeemed Marriage Website Sign Up For Prayer

Are you struggling with lingering pain in your marriage, even after you've done "the work?" In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant discuss the difficult topic of recurring pain in relationships, especially after experiences of betrayal, infidelity, or broken trust. They explore the reality that while healing can occur, the pain can return and discuss why these triggers are common. Drawing from their own story of healing and working with couples, Rusty and Heather offer practical insights on: Why past hurts can resurface in your marriage, even after counseling or forgiveness. How to navigate those triggers without feeling like you're back at square one. How to support your partner if they are triggered and how to manage your own emotions. The importance of shifting your focus to gratitude and a deeper connection to God. Practical ways to take your thoughts captive and make them obedient to Christ. The power of walking through recovery together and understanding the journey your spouse is on. This episode is not only for those who have experienced the pain of infidelity but also for couples working through any kind of lingering hurt. You'll hear insights that are essential for any marriage seeking a deeper connection and true restoration. Listen and gain hope as you learn to navigate the journey of marriage together with grace, understanding, and a heart set on healing. Don't forget! If you haven't signed up for our February prayer challenge, visit The Redeemed Marriage Website today and select a day for us to pray for you in February.

Is your marriage in a place where it feels like only a miracle can save it? In this powerful episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of needing a divine intervention in your relationship. Drawing from their own miracle marriage story and from the hundreds of prayer requests they have already received for their February prayer challenge, they explore the reality that many couples are desperate for a miracle, often without even realizing it. If you're feeling like love has faded, you're just roommates, or you are facing a marriage crisis, this episode will be helpful to you. Discover practical steps you can take when you feel lost and like your marriage is broken beyond repair. Rusty and Heather share how to recognize a genuine need for a miracle, why it's essential to seek God's intervention, and the importance of faith, readiness, willingness, and action when you're praying for a marriage miracle. Learn how to focus on your own growth while still fervently praying for your spouse. You'll also hear about the importance of using the resources available - books, podcasts, and mentorship - and understanding that God's timing is always perfect even when your timing isn't. Whether you're dealing with infidelity, betrayal, or a general sense of disconnect, this episode provides hope that miracles still happen today and that God can truly redeem your marriage. Tune in for encouragement and real-life strategies to move toward a restored relationship. Sign Up For Our February Prayer List The Redeemed Marriage Website Watch This Podcast On YouTube

Start the year strong by exploring all the ways The Redeemed Marriage can help you invest in your relationship in 2025. From our weekly podcast and marriage coaching to retreats, intensives, and monthly mentoring, we've designed resources to support every stage of your journey. Learn about our conferences, February Prayer Challenge, free resources, and how to stay connected with us on social media. Let's make 2025 the year of intentional growth for your marriage! The Redeemed Marriage Website Podcast Marriage Coaching Retreats Intensives Monthly Marriage Mentoring Conferences/Speaking Engagements February Prayer Challenge YouTube Facebook Instagram

The holidays are often called the most wonderful time of the year, but for many, this season can bring pain to the surface. Whether you're dealing with betrayal, the loss of a loved one, or unmet expectations, the Christmas season can feel anything but joyful. Rusty and Heather share from their own experience of navigating infidelity during the holidays and offer practical tips to avoid the holiday blues. Tune in for a challenging and hope-filled message as they remind you that God may be writing a powerful story through your pain. 12 Dates of Christmas - FREE Marriage Resource To request prayer or to communicate with Rusty and Heather click HERE

This week, Rusty and Heather continue their conversation with Casey and Meygan Caston from Marriage365. In Part 2, hear what Casey and Meygan wish they could go back and tell their newlywed selves and uncover the number one issue couples bring to Marriage365 for help. Plus, things heat up as the conversation shifts to the bedroom! Don't miss this lively, fun, and insightful episode! Get the Book - 365 Connecting Questions For Couples Marriage365 Website The Redeemed Marriage Website

This week Rusty and Heather are joined by Casey and Meygan Caston, founders of Marriage365. They share the powerful story of a rocky start to their marriage, nearly leading to divorce within the first three years. After reaching out for help, they found healing and now encourage couples worldwide. Tune in to hear their inspiring journey, learn about the incredible resources Marriage365 offers, and discover their brand-new book, 365 Connecting Questions for Couples. Order 365 Connecting Questions for Couples Amazon Link Marriage365 Website The Redeemed Marriage Website

We're revisiting one of our most impactful episodes on the topic of triggers. Anyone who has experienced deep hurt knows how easily certain moments, places, or conversations can stir up painful memories. In the aftermath of infidelity, these triggers can be especially frequent and intense. While time can soften their grip, they have a way of resurfacing when least expected. Join us as we share how we faced and conquered the triggers that threatened to reopen old wounds in our marriage.  (Note: This episode is a replay of a previous release.)

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the topic of control in marriage. Who should hold the reins in a healthy relationship? What happens when betrayal tips the balance? Using the backdrop of their own story of infidelity, they explore whether a temporary shift in control is necessary, how long it should last, and how to move forward to restore a healthy balance. Discover the freedom that comes with releasing control and building trust in this honest and practical conversation based on their own experience. The Redeemed Marriage Website Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss what it means to be a safe space for your spouse. Emotional safety is essential in marriage, allowing both partners to be vulnerable and open without fear. But what does this look like in practice? Listen in as they explore common barriers to safety; such as criticism, dismissing each other's feelings, always needing to fix things, and defensiveness. Their discussion will unpack these behaviors and offer practical steps to become a source of love, acceptance, value, and respect for your spouse.

Does your marriage feel hopeless? Rusty and Heather use their journey through the darkest days of their marriage to share a miraculous story of healing and restoration after infidelity. Speaking directly to couples feeling hopeless, they offer insight and encouragement for those wondering if it's possible to find hope again. Whether you're navigating deep struggles or simply need a reminder that change is possible, this message of hope is for you. The Redeemed Marriage Website Marriage Coaching Subscribe To Our YouTube Channel Follow on Instagram Follow on Facebook

Disappointment can become a part of even the strongest marriages, usually rooted in unmet or unrealistic expectations. In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather explore how expectations can unintentionally turn into rigid responsibilities, creating tension and resentment between spouses. Listen as they unpack the importance of serving over obligation, the pitfalls of trying to "fix" your spouse, and how to adjust your expectations for a healthier, more fulfilling marriage. Visit The Redeemed Marriage Website Watch the Podcast on YouTube Follow on Facebook Follow on Instagram

Every couple faces differences, but how do you navigate those challenges in a way that strengthens rather than weakens your relationship? Drawing from their own incompatibilities, Rusty and Heather share insights on how couples can embrace their differences, communicate better, and use their unique strengths to grow together. Whether you're feeling misunderstood or simply different, this episode will give you hope that incompatibility doesn't have to be the end—it's an opportunity to grow deeper in love and connection. The Redeemed Marriage Website Watch and Subscribe on YouTube Follow on Instagram Follow on Facebook

Feeling alone in marriage is something many couples experience, and betrayal only deepens that sense of isolation. In this episode, Rusty and Heather open up about their journey through infidelity and how it caused them to feel alone both individually and as a couple. They discuss some practical steps they took to break free from feeling alone, including rebuilding trust, working towards emotional and physical intimacy, and seeking guidance from others. Listen for insights on healing and finding hope, even when feeling alone seems overwhelming. Follow on Instagram Follow on Facebook Subscribe to YouTube Website Marriage Coaching

What drives someone to risk everything—marriage, family, and self-worth—for an affair? Whether you are the betrayed, the betrayer, or supporting someone who's been affected, you likely have unanswered questions. In this powerful episode, Heather bravely opens up about her early thoughts and emotions that led her down the dangerous path to infidelity. Join us as we re-examine this raw and candid account, providing insight into the mind of the unfaithful and offering hope for healing.

Join Rusty and Heather in this special reprisal episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast. Discover the compelling narrative of their relationship—from high school sweethearts, through the devastating challenges of infidelity, to the transformative redemption that birthed a marriage ministry. Their candid storytelling offers hope and practical insights, inspiring couples to navigate their own journeys towards healing and renewed love. Visit their website at The Redeemed Marriage for more resources and support.

In this episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather offer encouragement and wisdom for those who feel like they're the only ones working on their marriage. The discussion reminds us that while we cannot fix our spouse, we can focus on becoming the person God wants us to be. Through serving, praying, and trusting that God is for your marriage, you can make a significant impact on your relationship. Tune in to find hope, strength, and practical steps to help you continue fighting for your marriage, even when it feels like you're doing it alone. Subscribe to our YouTube channel Visit our website Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram Marriage Coaching - Learn More

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather share their incredible journey from a marriage in crisis to a ministry to other marriages. They reflect on their first experience at WinShape Marriage nearly 20 years ago, back it was still under construction and part of a dream to help broken marriages. Fast forward to 2011, after Heather's confession of an affair, they returned to WinShape for a life-changing marriage intensive that helped save their relationship. Now, as part of the Marriage Collective, Rusty and Heather have come full circle with their latest trip to WinShape. Join them as they recount their powerful testimony of redemption and offer hope to couples in every season of marriage. WinShape Marriage Hope Restored Marriage Intensive - Focus on the Family

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss the challenging topic of conflict, arguing, and fighting within marriage. Drawing from their own experiences with unhealthy conflict resolution, Heather opens up about the dangers of always needing to be right, while Rusty shares how damaging it can be to accept blame and avoid confrontation. Together, they explore the pitfalls of these patterns and provide practical strategies for handling conflict in healthier, more productive ways. Tune in to discover how you can keep disagreements from escalating into unhealthy fights and move toward a more peaceful marriage.

Rusty and Heather Bryant expose the enemy's relentless pursuit of marriages. Drawing from their personal experience with Heather's infidelity and the restoration that followed, they shine a light on the common lies the enemy uses to destroy marriages. Join them as they uncover the enemy's deception and share practical ways to safeguard your marriage against these attacks.  Marriage Coaching Information Subscribe to the YouTube channel Follow on Instagram Follow on Facebook  

Rusty and Heather open up about their journey in the 13 years since Heather's confession of unfaithfulness on August 23, 2011. Having recently passed another anniversary, they reflect on the reasons they initially chose to stay together and how God has honored their decision over the years. With their second and last child now off to college, they also explore how different their lives could have been had they made other choices. Listen and allow their story of redemption, commitment, and the power of faith in the midst of adversity bring hope to your marriage. Visit our website Subscribe to our YouTube channel Follow us on Instagram Follow us on Facebook

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a new chapter of their marriage—empty nesting, or as they affectionately call it, their "second honeymoon." As their youngest son heads to college this week, Rusty and Heather share the intentional steps they've taken to prepare for this season, including staying connected and rediscovering their shared passions and purpose. They also open up about the challenges they anticipate, from adjusting to the quietness of an empty house to redefining new expectations surrounding intimacy. The Redeemed Marriage Website YouTube Channel Instagram Facebook

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather address a question from a listener struggling with triggers while in a church setting related to past infidelity. Despite years of healing, the listener and her husband find themselves reliving painful memories whenever their pastor preaches on adultery. Rusty and Heather draw from their own journey through infidelity and share how to find peace and hope amidst recurring emotional wounds. Sign up for our August 18, 2024 FREE virtual LIVE event

In this episode of the Redeemed Marriage podcast, Rusty and Heather Bryant answer a Summer Shorts question from a listener in Oklahoma. They discuss practical ways couples can grow closer to God individually and together. Their candid conversation reveals how their individual and collective spiritual lives have changed post infidelity. Drawing from that personal experience, Rusty and Heather share the importance of individual spiritual growth as the foundation for growing spiritually as a couple. They offer thoughts on balancing shared spiritual practices, while supporting each other's unique spiritual journeys. Ask Us Anything Watch the Podcast on YouTube

This week a listener from Kansas asks about the complexities of celebrating a big anniversary milestone after their marriage has been marred by infidelity. Having just celebrated 28 years of marriage, Rusty and Heather discuss the importance of celebrating restoration and redemption. They share personal stories of anniversaries following their own journey through infidelity, and how their celebrations are much different now. Ask Us Anything The Redeemed Marriage YouTube Channel

In this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather discuss a listener's question from the United Kingdom regarding the impact of Heather's cancer diagnosis on their journey of reconciliation. Heather was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2016, just five years after their marriage crisis. This episode explores how the health crisis was challenging, but also served as a catalyst for reaffirming their commitment to one another. Rusty and Heather share their personal experiences, discussing the growth that came from facing such a significant life event together. Listen in on how adversity can strengthen bonds, the importance of teamwork during tough times, and how shared struggles can lead to deeper understanding and connection. Whatever challenge you are facing, your commitment to each other can flourish even in the face of adversity. Tune in for an episode filled with hope, resilience, and practical advice for maintaining a strong marriage through life's trials. Ask Us Anything The Redeemed Marriage YouTube Channel Rusty and Heather's Marriage Coaching The Story of Heather's Cancer Journey

In this week's Summer Shorts episode, Rusty and Heather tackle two interconnected listener questions about post-affair communication challenges. They discuss the balance between healing from betrayal and moving forward in your marriage after infidelity. They address a betrayed spouse's anxiety about discussing the affair, fearing it may cause guilt for their partner. They also examine the struggle of an unfaithful spouse dealing with frequent, painful reminders of their past actions. Drawing from their personal experiences, Rusty and Heather offer practical advice on: Creating a safe space for open, honest communication Setting healthy boundaries for affair-related discussions Managing emotions and triggers during conversations Balancing the need for healing with the desire to move forward Fostering empathy and understanding between partners This episode provides valuable guidance for couples navigating the complex journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy after infidelity, emphasizing the importance of patience, compassion, and even professional support in the healing process. Ask Us Anything Watch on YouTube

This week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast continues the Summer Shorts series, addressing a question from a listener in Mississippi about the potential impact of married couples sleeping in separate beds. Rusty and Heather discuss the potential risks associated with sleeping separately, while also providing practical tips for couples to maintain healthy sleeping habits. They also share their opinion on whether it's generally advisable for married couples to sleep apart.  Ask Us Anything

On this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a challenging question from a listener in Pennsylvania: How to handle a situation where one spouse believes the marriage has significant problems and is unhappy, while the other spouse feels everything is fine. Drawing from their personal experiences and insights, Rusty and Heather explore this common marital dilemma from both perspectives. They offer practical advice for both the dissatisfied spouse and the content spouse. They also discuss the potential benefits of seeking professional help, such as marriage counseling or coaching, to bridge the gap in perceptions and improve overall marital satisfaction. This episode provides valuable insights and actionable steps to navigate this delicate situation, fostering better understanding and connection between spouses with differing views on their marriage's health. Ask Us Anything

Rusty and Heather sit down with their sons, Luke and Logan, for a deeply moving and personal conversation. For the first time, Luke and Logan open up publicly about their understanding of their parents' journey through infidelity and how it impacted them as they were growing up. Hear their honest and heartfelt reflections on learning of their parents' marriage crisis, the challenges they faced as a result, and the lessons they learned along the way. This episode offers a unique perspective on the ripple effects of marital infidelity on a family and provides hope and inspiration for those navigating similar paths. Listen in on this powerful conversation about the Bryant family's journey to redemption.  Submit Your Summer Shorts Question

A listener from Georgia asks, "How can I best encourage and help my friend as she rebuilds her marriage after an affair?" Rusty and Heather offer practical advice and emotional support strategies for anyone walking alongside a friend in the wake of infidelity. Rusty and Heather share emotional stories of the support they received during their journey through infidelity. Whether you're directly affected by infidelity or seeking to support someone who is, this episode offers a valuable perspective on navigating the complex and often painful process of rebuilding a marriage after betrayal. Tune in to gain deeper insights and encouragement for your own journey or that of someone you care about.

On this week's episode of The Redeemed Marriage Podcast, Rusty and Heather tackle a sensitive topic submitted by a listener - how to handle situations where one spouse's touchy-feely behavior with the opposite sex makes the other spouse uncomfortable. The listener's scenario involves a husband who admits to touching women in a way he wouldn't touch men, causing discomfort for his wife. Rusty and Heather offer insights from their own experiences and provide practical guidance for couples navigating similar boundaries. In this episode, Heather vulnerably shares her perspective as the formerly unfaithful spouse, emphasizing the importance of establishing clear physical and emotional boundaries within a marriage. She highlights how seemingly innocent touches or interactions can potentially lead down a slippery slope, emphasizing the need for open communication and mutual understanding between spouses. Rusty, as the betrayed spouse, stresses the significance of respecting your spouse's comfort levels and boundaries. He emphasizes the importance of prioritizing the spouse's feelings and being willing to make adjustments to ensure both individuals feel secure and respected within the marriage. Ask Us Anything - Submit your question for a chance to win BIG!

A listener from Mississippi asked how to stay connected to their spouse when they have young children. Maintaining an emotional and physical connection with your spouse can be challenging as your marriage goes through various seasons and transitions. In this episode, Rusty and Heather provide insightful tips and strategies to help couples maintain intimacy throughout the busy seasons of married life. Drawing from their own experiences navigating the ups and downs, they offer practical advice on prioritizing quality time, effective communication, reigniting romance, and keeping the spark alive amid the demands of work, parenthood, and other life changes. Ask Us Anything