Podcast appearances and mentions of Troy L Love

In this episode of the Finding Peace podcast, host Troy L. Love sits down with his friend Al, who bravely steps into the healing seat to confront past wounds and discover his self-worth. Al opens up about his struggles with unemployment, feelings of inadequacy, and the deep-seated wounds of loss, rejection, and abandonment that have plagued him since childhood. Join us as we delve into Al's emotional journey to rewrite his narrative, challenge the voices of judgement and fear, and find his purpose amid the chaos. Listen in as Al explores the powerful stories he tells himself, learns to let go of the shadows of shame, and embraces the pathway to joy, love, and connection. Gain insights from the transformative work on the podcast and feel inspired to embark on your own journey to find peace. Al's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the profound impact of choosing one's own way, despite the odds.

Welcome to another insightful episode of the Finding Peace Podcast with your host, Amazon bestselling author Troy L. Love. Today, we are joined by a special guest, Justson, a multifaceted individual known for his voice acting, D&D dungeon mastering, and his work at Amazon. In this episode, Justson opens up about his struggles with self-love, feelings of unworthiness, and addiction. He shares his journey of finding peace and clarity in life and his challenges in loving himself. Troy and Justson delve deep into core beliefs, attachment wounds, and the impact of feeling unloved and unseen. Listen in as they explore the possibility of finding self-worth and experiencing unconditional love. This heartfelt conversation sheds light on the importance of connection, integrity, and small daily practices that can lead to profound changes. Join us in this touching and transformative episode as we navigate the complexities of self-worth and the path to finding peace.   https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast

Welcome to a special episode of the Finding Peace Podcast with your host, Amazon bestselling author, Troy L. Love. In this episode, we meet John, a former band member who struggles with authenticity, self-worth, and honesty in his relationships. John shares his journey of dealing with rejection, abandonment, and betrayal, and how these wounds have shaped his self-perception. Through a Christian perspective, Troy helps John explore his deepest fears and guides him towards self-acceptance and healing. Join us as we dive into an emotional conversation about the power of rewriting our stories, overcoming shame, and finding the courage to live authentically. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the pathways to joy, love, and connection.   https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast   Special thanks to Storyblocks and https://artlist.io/ for the background music. 

In this heartfelt episode of the Finding Peace Podcast, host Troy L. Love introduces his dear friend, Rafael, an accomplished architect and father of two. Rafael shares his journey of overcoming intimacy avoidance and the challenges of exposing his authentic self without fear of criticism and shame. Join them as they delve into Rafael's struggles with vulnerability, the impact of his past, and a recent breakthrough conversation with his former spouse about planning a trip to Europe. Discover how Rafael navigates the shadows of his past, learns to speak his truth, and steps out of the box to embrace joy and authenticity in his life. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with insights on breaking free from limiting beliefs and finding true peace and connection.   Thanks to Storyblocks and Artlist.io for the background music.  

Welcome to this episode of the Finding Peace podcast. Today, we introduce you to Daniel, a new friend who courageously shares his journey with us. Daniel has been struggling with patterns of self-sabotage, impacting his financial stability and personal well-being. Join us as we delve into Daniel's experiences and explore the attachment wounds that have shaped his life. This episode offers profound insights into how our core beliefs can drive self-destructive behaviors. Daniel's story is a testament to the power of vulnerability and the importance of rewriting our narratives to foster joy, love, and connection. Hosted by Amazon bestselling author Troy L. Love, this episode sheds light on overcoming the shadows of shame and finding peace within ourselves. Please tune in to hear how Daniel identifies and confronts his attachment wounds, paving the way for a more fulfilling and peaceful life. Don't miss this heartfelt and enlightening conversation on the Finding Peace podcast.   Special thanks to the musicians at https://artlist.io/ for their background music. https://pod.link/findingpeacepodcast   

Welcome to this episode of the Finding Peace podcast! Join Amazon bestselling author Troy L. Love as he sits down with Carlos, a past participant in the Finding Peace retreat. Carlos shares his inspiring journey of self-discovery and growth, revealing how he has managed to maintain a positive path despite life's challenges. In this episode, Troy helps Carlos navigate the Finding Peace worksheet, exploring the roots of his anger and the stories he tells himself. Carlos candidly discusses his struggles with reacting aggressively, especially in family situations, and how these reactions are linked to past wounds of neglect and rejection. Through a powerful and emotional conversation, Carlos learns to identify and challenge his core beliefs, replacing them with affirmations of his true worth. Discover how Carlos plans to face future challenges with newfound optimism and tools to maintain peace and connection in his relationships. Tune in for an episode filled with insights on rewriting personal narratives, healing from past wounds, and embracing the journey toward joy, love, and connection.   https://blog.pod.link/findingpeacepodcast

www.findingpeaceconsulting.com We all have painful events in our lives that can lead to depression, anxiety, addiction, or broken relationships. But here's a secret: it's not about what happened to us that causes suffering; it's the stories we believe about ourselves. Join us as we shine a light on how to rewrite our stories, avoid the shadows of shame, and travel along the pathway to joy, love, and connection. It's the Finding Peace Podcast with your host, Amazon bestselling author Troy L. Love. In this episode, Troy welcomes Robin Smith, a Marriage and Family Therapist, who shares his journey of overcoming financial stress and balancing legacy beliefs with his financial sovereignty. Robin opens up about his experiences, including the inner conflicts between his past and present self and how he navigates these challenges within his family dynamics. As they delve into the Finding Peace process, Robin explores the various protective parts of his psyche, uncovering deep-seated wounds and core beliefs. Together, they work through these layers, finding clarity and healing. This episode is a powerful testament to the importance of self-awareness, courage, and connection on the path to inner peace. Whether dealing with financial stress, relationship challenges, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of yourself, this episode offers valuable insights and practical guidance. Tune in and discover how to transform your pain into a source of strength and joy.   Follow Robin Smith on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube  or https://www.robinsmithshow.com/   Special thanks to the amazing artists from https://artlist.io/ who provided the background music.

We are wired for human connection. What gets in our way? That's what counselor and best-selling author Troy L. Love discusses with Shane in this episode.  Relationship trauma and the different voices of shame all keep us from reaching out or meaningfully connecting with others. Learn how to let the love in!Check out his book Finding Peace on Amazon--a combination story and workbook on healing from loss, rejection, abandonment, betrayal, neglect, and abuse. (Or jump straight into the 5-day Finding Peace Challenge.)For more regular inspiration, tune into the Finding Peace Podcast.Good news: Troy's 4-day Finding Peace Retreat is coming to Dallas this fall! Mark your calenders for Oct 13-16th in Palestine TX.  The east Texas piney forest is the perfect place to go for healing and peace .  The link above will offer details after March retreat in Arizona.

It takes balls to say, "Yes, I am a porn addict." Like many addictions, pornography addiction has an origin. Wounds, pain, trauma are the foremost causes that millions of people look for unhealthy and often self-destructive ways to cope, finding a kind of "refuge" or "relief" in addictions. Today's guest is Troy Love, a man who sought to heal his pain and took refuge in pornography for many years, now dedicates himself to helping people achieve their addiction recovery. Are you addicted to porn? Find out in today's episode. ABOUT TROY LOVE A two-time Amazon Best-Selling Author, with his third book, A Year of Self-Love published in 2019, Troy L. Love is on a quest to help individuals, couples, and organizations find greater peace, joy, happiness, and success.​ Troy serves as the President and Clinical Director of Yuma Counseling Services and the founder of Finding Peace Consulting. He has over 20 years of experience in the mental health field. ​ Troy is an Adjunct Professor at Arizona State University. He facilitates several webinars and drop-in groups at sexandrelationshiphealing.com. He is also the host of the Finding Peace Podcast. CONNECT WITH TROY Website: https://www.troyllove.com/ Instagram: @troyllove WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [4:06] Meeting Troy. [10:20] A struggling population. [16:27] Are porn addiction and sex addiction the same? [18:13] Troy's journey. [25:45] Masturbation shame cycle. [27:44] What's an addiction? [30:20] Don't deny your pain. [36:05] The normalization of addictions as a coupling mechanism. [39:39] What role does peace play in the recovery process? [44:32] "Shame hijacks peace." If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. This episode is sponsored by Zensquatch Apparel. Checkout www.Zensquatch.com and use promo code " UNcivilized " for 20% off your purchases AND FREE SHIPPING for the month of September 2021. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized Start your journey to become the man the that the world failed to teach you how to be.

So excited to be joined by Troy for today's episode. His book is called, "A Year of Self-Love: Daily Wisdom and Inspiration for Loving Yourself." All you need is self love―daily inspiration for loving yourself year-round.​ Revolutionize your relationship with yourself. A Year of Self Love has 365 days of wisdom and inspiration to help guide you in your quest for self love. Achieve better self-esteem, more positive thinking, and greater appreciation of yourself with these easy, practical methods.​ Complete with daily mantras, affirmations, quotes, writing prompts, and other simple activities, A Year of Self Love helps you boost your self-image as you reflect on your life and work through your insecurities. Troy is a two-time Amazon Best-Selling Author. He is on a quest to help individuals, couples, and organizations find greater peace, joy, happiness, and success. Reach out to Troy here: https://www.troyllove.com/ But his books here using my affiliate links for Amazon: https://amzn.to/3n9t3jX (A Year of Self-Love: Daily Wisdom and Inspiration for Loving Yourself) https://amzn.to/3n957NS (Finding Peace: A Workbook on Healing from Loss, Rejection, Neglect, Abandonment, Betrayal, and Abuse) https://amzn.to/3mglPcY (The Art of Peace: Reflections on Recovery) Links for things we discussed: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCvmsMzlF7o (Brene Brown Ted Talk - The Power of Vulnerability) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psN1DORYYV0&t=284s (Brene Brown Ted Talk - Listening to Shame) Listen to my other Podcasts here: https://www.davesheppconsulting.com/episodes/ (Coaching for Leaders Podcast) https://bluecollarfitnesspodcast.com/ (Blue Collar Fitness Podcast) Support this podcast

— Valeria interviews Troy L. Love, the author Finding Peace: A Workbook on Healing from Loss, Rejection, Neglect, Abandonment, Betrayal, and Abuse. Human beings are wired for connection – physically, emotionally, neurologically, and spiritually. When something happens to damage our most important relationships, there can be lifelong consequences. Finding Peace is the fusion of a fictional storyline and a workbook that describes the Core of Peace, a model of healing from the wounds of loss, rejection, abandonment, betrayal, neglect, and abuse. This book is for anyone serious about healing these attachment wounds, ready to become honest about changing their life, and willing to be vulnerable. The book explores the lives of eight different characters who meet together for eight weeks to explore the underlying reasons why they battle depression, anxiety, depression, body image issues, and relationship challenges. The reader accompanies them on their journey to uncover the truths about who they are and how they can find lasting peace and joy from within. They discover how the shadows of shame hijack their lives. They learn about a powerful meditation that can heal deeply. They learn about challenging the negative messages that seem to be tattooed on their hearts. They explore how connection can provide courage and healing and ultimately find lasting peace. A two-time Amazon Best-Selling Author, with his third book, A Year of Self-Love published in 2019, Troy L. Love is on a quest to help individuals, couples, and organizations find greater peace, joy, happiness, and success.  Troy serves as the President and Clinical Director of Yuma Counseling Services. He has over 20 years of experience in the mental health field. Troy received his Master's Degree in Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh, PA in 2000 and much of his training has focused on addiction recovery. Troy also received Certification in Human Resource Studies from Cornell University. He recently completed certification as a Sexual Addiction Treatment Professional from Mid-Nazarene University. Troy specializes in working with individual's trauma-related concerns, couples struggling in their relationships, and individuals who numb their pain through compulsive or addictive behaviors. Troy also helps couples find deeper connection. Troy is training in EMDR, a research-based treatment for trauma survivors, Brainspotting, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and addiction recovery. Troy uses his unique set of skills to help individuals seeking personal healing and for organizations who are seeking to improve outcomes. Troy's workshops, lectures, and group discussions have helped hundreds of people explore sensitive issues, increase understanding, and to take action towards change. His down-to-earth, humorous, teaching style helps participants feel safe enough to examine their core issues required for change.   To learn more about Troy L. Love and his work, please visit: https://www.troyllove.com/ For Intro-free episodes: https://www.patreon.com/aquestforwellbeingpodcast Podcast Page: https://fitforjoy.org/podcast

Troy L. Love is a two-time Amazon Best-Selling Author and has a third book, A Year of Self-Love, which was published in 2019. Troy shares why we feel such deep shame and dives into the six attachment wounds we carry around after a traumatic childhood. He also helps visualize these six attachment wounds through characters to help people in recovery better understand themselves and their journey.    TAKEAWAYS: [2:45] Troy shares his journey and why he is passionate about helping people with trauma.  [6:15] It took Troy roughly 10 years to feel grounded enough to move forward with his trauma and help other people.  [7:15] How is shame related to addiction. [10:15] Our shame is connected to our attachment wounds. There are six attachment wounds: Loss, Neglect, Rejection, Abandonment, Betrayal, and Abuse. [12:25] How does someone discover whether or not they have childhood trauma or not?  [15:45] Can we get over these childhood traumas?  [19:30] Narcissism can be cured.  [22:55] Our loudest voice is our own judgments.  [29:15] How can someone best recover from their own inadequacies when they have a partner at home who is very upset and hurt over the actions they have done?  [32:15] Darling, I know you suffer, but I am here for you.  [34:05] The use of compassion and empathy are the only ways out!  [36:20] There are places all over the world that can help you. Your location to get good care is no longer a barrier.    RESOURCES:  The Porn Panic: Is Porn a ‘Public Health Crisis’? Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Cruise Control: Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men  Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Connect with Troy: Website & A Year of Self Love by Troy L. Love   QUOTES: “Shame is the deep and abiding belief or experience that I am flawed and defective and therefore unworthy of love or belonging.” “I wasn’t acting out anymore, but man, I was still causing damage and it was fueled by the shame.” “Shame is anger turned inwards and when you stop being angry at yourself, you might start biting at people around you.” “As long as you can start doing the work and start to create some empathy and someplace, that creates space for your spouse to also begin to heal.”

In this episode we talk about a quote I found about loving yourself and it is so important. It can be easier to put the focus elsewhere, but today we talk about why self-love is foundation for loving others. Key Points: · Why loving yourself is so important · Why loving yourself makes you better at loving others Notable Quote: "By learning to love and treasure myself, I will become that much better able to deeply love and treasure someone else" - Troy L. Love, A Year of Self Love “Your ability to grow and choose yourself and prioritize progress and be confident and love yourself is a billboard to everyone around you.” – Gregg Clunis Resources and Links: https://www.amazon.com/Year-Self-Love-Inspiration-Yourself/dp/1641527641 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

When we're abused or rejected, it's easy to form a victim mindset and believe that we're completely powerless to change our lives. In this interview with Troy Love, therapist and author, we discuss how to move out of a victim mindset and embrace a lifetime of healing, empowerment, and connection. Purchase Troy's books: Finding Peace - amzn.to/2QdmNKD A Year of Self-Love - amzn.to/32JyF9A Troy L. Love, MSW, LCSW, is an author, clinician, presenter, and Clinical Director of Yuma Counseling Services. Troy received his Master's Degree in Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh. With over 20 years of experience, Troy specializes in helping others heal from trauma, improve relationships, and overcome compulsive or addictive behaviors. He also works with organizations and leaders to develop intellectual authenticity. Have you broken your partner's trust and want a structured process to help you repair it? Get instant access to my 12-week online Trust Building Bootcamp and begin repairing your marriage. Illuminate listeners can get 30% off the price of the course by visiting www.trustbuildingacademy.com/bootcamp and entering coupon code ILLUMINATE at checkout. The Illuminate Podcast is hosted by Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT and founder of LifeStar of St. George, Utah, a treatment program for couples healing from the impact of pornography and sexual addiction. Learn more at www.lifestarstgeorge.com Please donate to support the Illuminate Podcast: anchor.fm/illuminate-podcast/support Geoff has also created audio and video courses to help support individuals and couples in marriage, addiction, and betrayal trauma recovery at www.geoffsteurer.com/store

If you've ever been betrayed, rejected, abandoned, or betrayed as a child or adult, you know how painful and difficult it can be to find peace. I interview therapist and author Troy Love on how to heal in the aftermath of these types of injuries. Purchase Troy's books: Finding Peace - https://amzn.to/2QdmNKD A Year of Self-Love - https://amzn.to/32JyF9A Troy L. Love, MSW, LCSW, is an author, clinician, presenter, and Clinical Director of Yuma Counseling Services. Troy received his Master's Degree in Social Work from the University of Pittsburgh. With over 20 years of experience, Troy specializes in helping others heal from trauma, improve relationships, and overcome compulsive or addictive behaviors. He also works with organizations and leaders to develop intellectual authenticity. Have you broken your partner's trust and want a structured process to help you repair it? Get instant access to my 12-week online Trust Building Bootcamp and begin repairing your marriage. Illuminate listeners can get 30% off the price of the course by visiting www.trustbuildingacademy.com/bootcamp and entering coupon code ILLUMINATE at checkout. The Illuminate Podcast is hosted by Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT and founder of LifeStar of St. George, Utah, a treatment program for couples healing from the impact of pornography and sexual addiction. Learn more at www.lifestarstgeorge.com Please donate to support the Illuminate Podcast: anchor.fm/illuminate-podcast/support Geoff has also created audio and video courses to help support individuals and couples in marriage, addiction, and betrayal trauma recovery at www.geoffsteurer.com/store

In this interview, D.J. interviews colleague, Troy L Love, author of Finding Peace: A Workbook on Healing from Loss, Neglect, Rejection, Abandonment, Betryal and Abuse. Troy talks about the attachment theory of addiction and how lack of attachment leaves people vulnerable to addiction. DJ and Troy, both sex addicts in recovery, talk about how sharing their secrets has helped them heal and provided them the strength to help others.    Making An Addict is hosted by D.J. Burr, psychotherapist, and author of I Just Wanted Love: Recovery of a Codependent, Sex and Love Addict and the host of the podcast Journey On: Men Healing from Sexual Abuse & Assault. www.djburr.com Music Like Music (cdk Mix) by cdk (c) copyright 2015 Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution Share-Alike  (3.0) license. http://dig.ccmixter.org/files/cdk/48915 Ft: Phasenwandler