Podcasts about Neglect

Neglect does not destroy your life overnight. It slowly shows up in your marriage, your body, your business, your leadership, your family, and your spiritual life. In this episode, Tim Holloway teaches Christian men how to recognize the areas they have stopped tending and why true ownership begins with seeing what God has placed inside your domain. If you feel like your life is drifting, your relationships are strained, your body is breaking down, your business is overgrown, or your spiritual life feels distant, this message will help you identify the root issue: neglect. You will learn why blaming pressure, fatigue, other people, or circumstances keeps you immature, while ownership brings maturity, stewardship, repair, and responsibility. This teaching is for men who are ready to stop standing idly by, stop meddling in everyone else's business, and start carrying what is actually theirs. Your marriage, fatherhood, body, mission, calendar, emotions, and walk with God are not random. They are your garden. And whatever you refuse to tend will eventually reveal the cost of neglect. You'll learn how neglect begins through avoidance, how responsibilities compound when ignored, why your domain matters, and how ownership changes the way you lead your marriage, family, business, body, and spiritual life. Tim also unpacks biblical examples from Adam, Proverbs, and David to show how unattended areas become visible over time and why maturity requires courage, responsibility, and honest self-examination. 00:00 Intro: Becoming an Owner01:45 What Neglect Really Is03:49 Adam's Neglect in the Garden06:00 Where Neglect Shows Up in Life07:45 The Old House Analogy11:43 Why Untended Areas Fall Apart13:10 The Garden and Weed Lesson15:04 Neglect Compounds Over Time18:03 Proverbs 24 and the Field of the Sluggard21:29 Your Life Reveals What You Tend23:21 Avoidance Creates More Pressure23:53 The Wood Rot and Termite Analogy27:50 Neglect Does Not Stay Neutral30:48 Understanding Your Jurisdiction33:00 Your Loves, Impact, Frame, and Essence37:29 Stay Out of Other People's Business41:12 David's Neglect in 2 Samuel 1145:52 Procrastination Is Not Time Management46:53 The Pie Recipe Analogy51:58 What Neglect Feels Like53:00 The Narrow Path and Ownership58:54 Asking God Why You Avoid Responsibility01:00:06 Questions for Your Loves, Impact, Body, and Essence01:02:27 The First Step Into Ownership #ChristianMen #BiblicalManhood #Ownership #SpiritualGrowth #Leadership Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Do you struggle to answer the question: "what do I want?"Do you tend to put other people's needs above your own?Do you think the only way to be loved is through being helpful?Constantly making choices that put other people's needs before your own that force us to abandon our own well-being can slowly erode our ability to understand what we want. It doesn't feel like self-abandonment. It feels like "keeping the peace" or "getting through it". So we dismiss ourselves and our basic needs, and that pattern becomes a habit. Self-neglect becomes the norm. We minimize ourselves out of fear of pushing people away. But this is dangerous. And counter-intuitive. We build better, more connected relationships when we allow ourselves to connect to ourselves, first. THE SOURCE: https://positivepsychology.com/self-abandonment/Read Julie's Medium Blog.Support JULIE (and the show!)Support + get some bonus stuff over on PATREON.Get an occasional personal email from me: www.makeyourdamnbedpodcast.comTune in on INSTAGRAM AND YOUTUBE or TIKTOK.Info on War Tax Resistance.Donate to the Palestinian Children's Relief Fund and the Sudan Relief FundThe opinions expressed by Julie Merica and Make Your Damn Bed Podcast are intended for entertainment purposes only. Make Your Damn Bed podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Talk to KimIn this episode, Nandita Mahadevan shares her journey through midlife, emphasizing the importance of choosing oneself, understanding perimenopause, and embracing community and mindset shifts for a healthier, more fulfilling life.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Midlife with Courage00:49 Redefining Success in Midlife02:39 Cultural Influences on Success and Health04:14 The Neglect of Self-Care in Women06:31 Early Signs of Perimenopause09:03 Medical and Functional Approaches to Hormonal Balance10:28 The Wisdom and Power Gained in Midlife12:26 Creating a Roadmap for Hormonal Health14:52 The Role of Nervous System Regulation19:24 The Importance of Sisterhood and Community20:19 Connecting with Your Inner Power20:45 Addressing Libido and Sexual Wellness24:35 Breaking the Silence on Women's Sexual Health26:19 Resources and Support for Midlife Women28:06 Embracing the Exciting Phase of Midlife28:52 lifestyle-intro-low-short.wavResourcesSol Women - https://solwomen.comNandita Mahadevan on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/solwomen/Looking for a health care provider who really listens and isn't constrained by insurance requirements? You need to check out the Centered Care Directory-a curated, national resource to help you find the right provider for you. Whether it's functional medicine, physical therapy or hormone help, you'll find it here.Check out how.healthcare to get started. Support the showKim Benoy is a retired RN, Certified Aromatherapist, wife and mom who is passionate about inspiring and encouraging women over 40. She wants you to see your own beauty, value and worth through sharing stories of other women just like you.****************************************************If you are looking for deeper connection, encouragement, and support, you should join my free online community. It's a safe, uplifting space to be inspired, share honestly, and grow alongside women who truly get this season of life.Midlife with Courage™ Community*****************************************************Want to be a guest on Midlife with Courage™-Bold Women Thriving After Forty with Kim Benoy? Send Kim Benoy a message on PodMatch, here: Podmatch Link NEWSLETTER WEBSITEFACEBOOK

When your story is history, and you allow it to become His story, your story becomes ministry. You need to know that unforgiveness will write your story. Forgiveness will write your story. Which one is writing yours?In this message, Lead Pastor Jamie Nunnally uses the life of Joseph to teach us how to walk in the freedom of forgiveness. 

Last week, we discovered that selfishness is the root beneath every single relationship problem. It's what starts the friction. Today, we are talking about the silent killer. If selfishness starts the problem, neglect is what eventually kills the relationship.

What happens when the system meant to protect a child chooses to punish them instead? Lincoln Tarrow-Lynch's earliest memory is watching his father being arrested. By five, his mother was in prison. By twelve, he was committing petty crime, living on the streets, and being abused by adults, yet the system kept sending him back to the danger it knew was there. In this episode of I Catch Killers, Gary sits down with Lincoln to trace the fault lines of a childhood shaped by neglect, abuse, and a justice system that criminalised a child who simply needed care. Lincoln's story challenges everything we think we know about youth crime. This episode contains references to child sex abuse and suicide. If you’re experiencing emotional distress, contact Lifeline on 13 11 14 anytime for crisis support and suicide prevention services. If you’ve been impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence, contact 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732 anytime for confidential information, counselling and support services. Subscribe to our new Youtube channel. Follow I Catch Killers:Instagram: @icatchkillersTiktok: @icatchkillerspodcastFacebook: @icatchkillersSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Thursday June 18, 2026 Death on the Job – The Toll of Neglect

You can't miss what you never had is a big bold lie that people have been conditioned to believe! I ran with the cliche years ago, but now I know it's a lie! Unfortunately millions of lives are stunted and stagnant due to missing things they never had but should have had early in their lives. Sadly, many of the adults you see are people who are suffering from pains of yesterday!You can listen to this Podcast on Amazon and Spotify!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/relationships-and-relatable-life-chronicles--4126439/support.

Philosopher Stefan Molyneux reviews the movie Obsession, where a shy music store clerk's wish for unearned love turns his friend into a needy, controlling toddler-like dependent, exposing how childhood neglect fuels fantasy and resentment over real trust and maturity. He pushes earning confidence instead of chasing possession.GET FREEDOMAIN MERCH! https://shop.freedomain.com/SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxFollow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/FREEDOMAIN2026

Pastor Levi Lusko joins Justin Roethlingshoefer on The OWN IT Show for a Holy Health conversation on health as worship (not performance), why the Church keeps falling into two extremes (neglect vs idolatry), and how “holy health” is ultimately surrendered health —built to carry your calling.In a world that turns “discipline” into the goal, Justin and Levi call out what most people don't see: you can quote Scripture, lead well, and still quietly run your body into the ground—until your peace, patience, and relationships begin to erode.This episode reframes the true metric of Holy Health: it's not your image, your biohacks, or your numbers—it's stewardship + obedience… because that's what builds long-term capacity.They also unpack:

Alex welcomes Cole Costello back to the podcast for a conversation that begins with a decaying theater in rural Montana and expands into a broader discussion about America's forgotten communities. Cole argues that many small towns are living among the remnants of a once-functioning past that no longer has the resources, political attention, or economic investment needed to be restored. Along the way, Alex and Cole explore how this reality connects to modern populist politics, rural decline, infrastructure, railroads, agriculture, China's rapid development, the rise of data centers, and growing economic inequality. The result is a thought-provoking look at what happens when entire regions feel left behind—and what that means for America's future.

Mental sloth It is from the deceit of sin that the mind is spiritually slothful, by which it becomes negligent of this duty. The principal discharge of the mind's trust in this matter is expressed by "watching," which is the great caution that the Lord Jesus gave to His disciples in reference to all their dangers from sin and Satan. "I say unto all, Watch" (Mar 13:37). That is, use your utmost diligence and carefulness so that you are not surprised and entangled with temptations.

Pastor Kurt takes a deep dive In 1 Timothy 4:11–16, where Paul calls Timothy to set the standard by teaching the truth, living as an example, and devoting himself to the ministry of the Word. He also charges him to stay the course by guarding his life, watching his doctrine, and persevering in faithful ministry.

Listen to today's podcast... Is it a bird? Is it a plane? No! It's Superman. Superman has always stood for what's best about humanity and for bearing adversity and emerge stronger on the other side. Though we may not be superman, we may be suffering with the Super-Human Syndrome. Are you running on empty and lying to yourself saying, “I can handle this”? Do you believe you can, should and must do it all? Feel you could and should do more? Neglect your personal needs because others are more important? Or believe that if I don't who will? If so, you are probably dealing with the Super-Human Syndrome and are risking your physical and mental health. Take One Action Today To Build Your #Resiliency!      So Here are today's Tips For Building Resiliency and Celebrating Super-Human Day: There is a saying that I love – How thin can I spread myself before I know longer exist? We must take care of ourselves first and foremost if we want to be in a position to take care of others. Sometimes we need to let go of those things that are causing us to get stressed – unnecessary tasks and unrealistic beliefs and expectations What is it that you need to let go of – the need for control – approval - to do it all – to be superhuman – and get is all done? Start by knowing what is important to you and then actively decide how to make those things a priority. Sometimes all that is needed is some fine tuning – some simple strategies that energize or relax us and enable us to enjoy the life situations that we are facing.  Remember, If you like today's wellness tips, let me know. You can leave me a review on amazon or through your #alexa app. Discover how to take small steps towards a healthier, happier, less-stressed, you by visiting my website at worksmartlivesmart.com #mentalhealth #hr

Ruth Cohn, MFT, CST, BCN, is a psychotherapist based in the San Francisco Bay Area who has specialized in working with survivors of trauma, neglect, and their partners and families since 1988.Since that time she has focused on childhood neglect trauma and developed Neglect-Informed Psychotherapy, an approach that integrates attachment theory with clinical practice. She is the author of Working with the Developmental Trauma of Childhood Neglect and Coming Home to Passion, along with numerous articles, podcasts, and educational resources on trauma and neglect.She is currently working on two additional books. Ruth's WebsiteHer Book — Coming Home to PassionTrauma Primer (PDF Resource)Ruth's booksRuth on YoutubeBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-trauma-therapist--5739761/support.---Thank you for listening!If you want to support the show, I've got three options and every bit helps.$5.00 PayPalhttps://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/NPKS32G8KVSN2$10.00 PayPalhttps://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/495AMDFXQFC3L$15.00 PayPalhttps://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/M7V5RREUKVD8JThank you to our Sponsors: Jane App - use code GUY1MO at https://jane.app (https://jane.app/book_a_demo)Novo Psych - novopsych.com/traumapodcast

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Jesus lovingly calls us back to Himself and His Word when we neglect it so that we can walk closely with Him in all things, even in our deepest trials.

Jesus lovingly calls us back to Himself and His Word when we neglect it so that we can walk closely with Him in all things, even in our deepest trials.

Have you ever heard "planned neglect" anywhere else but Organize 365? Probably not because it's a term I coined to describe what I do to more effectively manage my responsibilities and time. One can't do everything so you must determine what is the highest value you provide to your work, community, or family and implement planned neglect for a certain amount of time to manage it all. I Must Have Mentioned "Planned Neglect" Before I was fairly shocked when I asked AI to give me some feedback based on a few episodes I shared. It explained the "framework" I have put in place. Ha! Much to my surprise because I hadn't realized I offered a framework. I must have talked about it a few times on the podcast. But it wasn't wrong. You need to identify the timeline when you will be using this planned neglect.  Then you should tell your family so they know what's happening when you start to cut corners to free up time for you to better utilize your highest value in this phase of life. Then you need to extend a lot of grace to yourself. It's ok that you have lowered your standards. It doesn't have to be forever just while something else needs more of you.  Then you need to implement these temporary habits.  And understand that this particular shortcut you have used in the past may not help you the same as it has in the past. You may need to figure out a different way to make life easier for a certain amount of time.  So back in the day when the dinosaurs were still roaming around, I identified planned neglect.  I needed a little more time to work on my direct sales business. I thought about what could I neglect to give my attention to focus on my business? So I started with a nanny for 10 hours one day a week.  Once my business grew even more I hired an assistant to help just 5 hours a week.  Then there was the time I realized I was driving 25 hours a week. It was time to outsource laundry. It was beautiful for a while when I would drop off my laundry and pick it up folded and hung. And I have shared a few phases of life when paper plates became the china of choice in the Woodruff household.  Coming Out of "Planned Neglect" Now that the PhD is coming to an end I have really wrestled with what I want to do with that time.  I acknowledge that I will go back to cleaning my house and maintaining my own window boxes. I have really been thinking about the planned neglect I have practiced and it's time to reverse some of those habits. It dawned on me that while I am back to using real plates for lunch and dinner, I will continue to use paper plates and bowls of different sizes for breakfast. Also, I hadn't realized pursuing the PhD meant my health and body would suffer. I hadn't put any thought into my nutrition and I certainly wasn't moving as much as a person should. So now that I am coming out of planned neglect I have started to use some of that time to go to the gym. And I have decided I no longer want to spend that money on the Tovala meals. It was worth the money when I didn't have time to grocery shop or meal prep. But now, I have time to focus on my nutrition so I am not ordering Tovala meals. Who knows, I may utilize them again in a season I need to.  As I come out of planned neglect I am going to take back my body and health. I will also be giving time back to working on Organize 365®. You have already seen a little bit of this as I have eliminated the work products. I am launching my new book "Escaping Quicksand" and will likely write more books. And I am getting ready to focus on The Productive Home CEO and new terminology to go with it being the Household CEO. I also want to explore how to use this new authority in academia to benefit household managers and their systems.  And at home I will be filling in all the blanks in my information management binders from The Paper Solution® and taking one day a month to focus on my CEO position in the Woodruff house.  Planned neglect is simply looking at your tasks, deciding how you can lower your standards of that task and then implementing a new habit for a certain amount of time. Mine was the PhD recently, what is yours? EPISODE RESOURCES: The Sunday Basket® The Paper Solution® Sign Up for the Organize 365® Newsletter 

3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success. How Childhood Trauma, PTSD, and Alcohol Addiction Nearly Destroyed Her Life Before She Found Healing, Purpose, and Recovery. When most people read an arrest report, they see facts. The Podcast is available for free on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast website, also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, iHeartradio and most major podcast platforms. #Free #Podcast #Radio Three DUI arrests. Alcohol abuse. Traffic stops. Court appearances.  Fines. Probation. Another person making bad choices. The Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast social media like their Facebook , Instagram , LinkedIn , Medium and other social media platforms. What they don't see is the story behind those choices. They don't see the frightened child growing up in an abusive home. They don't see the trauma buried beneath years of alcohol abuse. They don't see the emotional wounds that never healed. Supporting articles about this and much more from Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast in platforms like Medium , Blogspot and Linkedin. For Marci Hopkins, three DUI arrests were not the beginning of her story. They were symptoms of a much deeper struggle that started decades earlier. Today, Hopkins is an award-winning television host, bestselling author, podcast host, motivational speaker, transformational coach, and mental health advocate. But long before she became an inspiration to thousands of women, she was a young girl trying to survive unimaginable trauma. During her appearance on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast, Hopkins shared the painful experiences that shaped her life and the extraordinary journey that led her to more than nine years of sobriety. 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success. The show is inspiring audiences through the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Apple, Spotify, iHeartradio and and many Podcast platforms. "People often judge the behavior they can see," Hopkins said. "What they don't see is the pain underneath it." Growing Up in Fear Hopkins describes her childhood as chaotic, unpredictable, and frightening. Her mother struggled with severe alcoholism, creating a home environment that was unstable and often unsafe. As a young child, Hopkins endured physical abuse that eventually led to her being moved into the care of her grandparents. For many children, home is where they feel protected. For Hopkins, home became a place associated with fear. "I learned very early that I couldn't trust the people who were supposed to protect me," she explained. Unfortunately, the trauma did not end there. When Hopkins was twelve years old, her mother remarried. The new husband would eventually groom and sexually abuse her, adding another layer of devastating trauma to an already difficult childhood. The episode is available across major platforms including their website, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, with highlights shared across their Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn profiles. Experts say childhood sexual abuse can have lifelong consequences. Victims often experience anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), substance abuse disorders, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, and chronic emotional distress. 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success. According to mental health professionals, childhood trauma changes how the brain responds to stress, fear, and emotional pain. Many survivors spend years attempting to escape emotions they do not know how to process. For Hopkins, that escape became alcohol. When Alcohol Became a Coping Mechanism What started as drinking eventually became dependence. Like many survivors of childhood trauma, Hopkins discovered that alcohol temporarily quieted the emotional pain she carried every day. "It made everything stop for a little while," she said. "The fear, the memories, the anxiety, it all seemed to disappear when I drank." Available for free on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast website, also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Youtube and most major Podcast networks. But only temporarily. Mental health experts refer to this behavior as self-medication. Individuals struggling with unresolved trauma often use alcohol, drugs, gambling, food, or other unhealthy coping mechanisms to numb emotional pain. The relief may feel immediate, but the consequences eventually become devastating. Research consistently shows a strong connection between childhood trauma and alcohol use disorder. The greater the severity of abuse or neglect during childhood, the greater the likelihood of developing addiction later in life. The Podcast is available for free on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast website, also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, iHeartradio and most major podcast platforms. Hopkins became trapped in that cycle. The trauma created pain. Alcohol temporarily numbed the pain. The alcohol created new problems. Those problems created even more pain. And the cycle continued. Three DUI Arrests and a Life Spinning Out of Control As her drinking intensified, Hopkins found herself facing increasing legal and personal consequences. Three separate DUI arrests became defining moments in her life. Each arrest represented another sign that things were getting worse. Yet even then, the underlying trauma remained largely unaddressed. From the outside, it looked like someone making reckless choices. From the inside, it was someone desperately trying to survive. "The drinking wasn't really the problem," Hopkins explained. "The drinking was how I was trying to deal with the problem." 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success.  The Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast continues bringing listeners real conversations from the front lines of crime, policing, trauma, survival, and healing. This distinction is critical. Law enforcement officers across America encounter similar situations every day. They respond to impaired drivers, domestic disturbances, overdoses, public intoxication incidents, and other calls involving individuals struggling with addiction. While criminal behavior must be addressed, many officers recognize that addiction is often connected to something much deeper. Trauma. Mental illness. Abuse. Neglect. Loss. Hopkins' story serves as a reminder that many people entering the criminal justice system are carrying emotional wounds that existed long before their first arrest. The Breaking Point For years, Hopkins continued down a destructive path. The alcohol temporarily masked the pain but never solved it. Eventually, she reached a point where she could no longer continue living that way. Like many people in recovery, she experienced what is often called "rock bottom." The exact moment may look different for everyone. For some, it's losing a job. For others, it's losing a relationship. For Hopkins, it was realizing that no amount of alcohol could heal what she had been running from her entire life. "I finally understood that I had to face the trauma if I wanted to change my future," she said. That realization changed everything. The Road to Sobriety and Healing Recovery did not happen overnight. It required honesty, courage, accountability, and professional support. Rather than focusing solely on quitting alcohol, Hopkins began addressing the childhood trauma that had fueled her addiction for decades. 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success. The Podcast is available for free on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast website, also on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, iHeartradio and most major podcast platforms. Experts emphasize that lasting recovery often requires treating both addiction and trauma simultaneously. Trauma-informed care recognizes that many addictive behaviors originate as survival mechanisms. For Hopkins, healing involved confronting painful memories, rebuilding self-worth, and learning healthier ways to cope with life's challenges. The process was difficult. But it worked. Today, she has maintained more than nine years of sobriety. Turning Pain Into Purpose Many survivors spend years trying to hide their past. Hopkins chose a different path. She decided to use her experiences to help others. Over time, she transformed herself into a nationally recognized advocate for recovery, mental health awareness, and women's empowerment. As host of the acclaimed television program "Wake Up with Marci," she earned multiple Telly Awards and Anthem Awards for her work in inspirational media. Listen to this powerful #Free Podcast episode featuring former Chris Bingham on Facebook, Instagram, Youtube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and major Podcast platforms nationwide. She later shifted her focus toward podcasting, allowing for deeper conversations about trauma, healing, parenting, self-worth, spirituality, and personal growth. 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success. "Women need to know they're not broken," Hopkins said. "They are capable of healing and creating a life they love." Her bestselling memoir, Chaos to Clarity: Seeing the Signs and Breaking the Cycles, became an International Impact Award winner and reached the number one position as a new release on Amazon in the 12-Step Recovery category. She also developed the C.A.R.E. Method and the transformational program Chaos to Clarity: From Stuck to Thriving, helping women identify destructive patterns and build healthier futures. What Families Need to Understand About Trauma and Addiction One of the most important lessons from Hopkins' story is that addiction rarely exists in isolation. Families often focus on stopping the drinking. But lasting recovery requires understanding why the drinking started. When these underlying issues remain untreated, relapse becomes more likely. Experts encourage family members to focus on support rather than judgment. Listening. Encouraging treatment. Establishing healthy boundaries. And recognizing that healing is a process. A Message for Law Enforcement Officers For law enforcement officers, Hopkins' story highlights something many already understand. Not every offender is simply making bad choices. Many are carrying significant trauma. That reality does not excuse criminal behavior. People must still be held accountable for their actions. However, understanding trauma can provide valuable context and help connect individuals with resources that may prevent future arrests and future victims. Every traffic stop, every DUI arrest, and every encounter presents an opportunity to recognize that there may be more happening beneath the surface than what initially appears. 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success. A Life Transformed Today, Marci Hopkins' life looks dramatically different than it did during her years of addiction. She is sober. She is thriving. She is helping others heal. Most importantly, she has proven that childhood trauma does not have to determine the rest of a person's life. Her story is not simply about addiction. It is about survival. It is about resilience. It is about finding hope after years of pain. And it is about discovering that healing is possible, no matter how difficult the past may have been. Listen to the Full Interview Marci Hopkins shares her extraordinary journey from childhood abuse and trauma to sobriety, recovery, and personal transformation on the Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast. Listeners can hear the complete interview on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, and other major Podcast, Radio, News, and Media platforms. 3 Traffic Arrests Hid a Lifetime of Childhood Trauma: Her Powerful Journey from Abuse and Addiction to Sobriety and Success.  The Law Enforcement Talk Radio Show and Podcast social media like their Facebook , Instagram , LinkedIn , Medium and other social media platforms. Her story offers a powerful reminder that behind many arrests, addictions, and personal struggles lies a deeper story, one that deserves to be understood, not simply judged. Download the Free Ebook about ways and tips to improve your health. You can get the ebook for free at www.LetHealthy.com Get the Free Clubhouse App, it is Drop In Social Audio. Think of it as your own talk radio show on your phone, and best of all it is free. Be sure to look for me and follow me, that's John J Wiley or @letradioshow  you can do all that here. 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Amid a cost-of-living crisis, a war across the Middle East, job uncertainty thanks to AI - do you still have emotional bandwidth to worry about the environment? It seems like Ottawa doesn't. Since PM Carney took office, he's made strides towards strengthening our economy by bridging resource gaps with our very own products and assets, while simultaneously disregarding efforts made the previous Liberal Government to help meet our 2050 net zero emissions target. Host Caryn Ceolin speaks to Caroline Brouillette, Executive Director of Climate Action Network Canada to discuss how Canada has environmentally moved backwards in an effort to develop its own resources, and what Carney should focus on if he wants to make sure Canada hits its emission reduction targets. We love feedback at The Big Story, as well as suggestions for future episodes. You can find us:Through email at hello@thebigstorypodcast.ca Or @thebigstory.bsky.social on Bluesky

Mark 7:1-23 I Ryan MacDonald I Three Ways to be a HypocriteHypocrisy prevents God from cleansing our sin-stained hearts.Step #1: Judge the wrongdoing of others while refusing to acknowledge Step #2: Pretend to love God so that you will be accepted by others (vv.6-13)Step #3: Neglect dealing with your heart by diverting attention to your actions (vv.14-23)

Things to discern Do not quench the Spirit.- To quench the Spirit is to despise His gifts or be skeptical of His work Do not neglect the gift of the Spirit- We grieve the Spirit when we live in sin without repentance Don't neglect the gift of the Holy Spirit - We neglect the gift when we are lazy and do not fan into flame what God has put inside of us Do not resist the Spirit - We resist the Spirit when we reject the message of the Gospel

At Redeemer Presbyterian Church in Charleston, SC, our senior pastor Rev. Craig Bailey continued preaching in Acts, focusing on the most neglected member of the Trinity. He encouraged us that our souls need the ministry of the Holy Spirit that God has sent through Jesus to bless us and minister to our souls.

The City of Bradenton is trying to change the role of its mayor, limiting re-election and stripping them of a vote on the city council. But will it result in a weakened mayor? We're having a close look.Then: One of the area's oldest Black cemeteries has been in a state of neglect, and some graves have been vandalized. Our reporter Brice Claypoole found that history is repeating itself.Next: To make way for a block-filling twin-tower condo project downtown, the city is allowing a developer to tear down a unique, century-old structure - without public review. Suncoast Searchlight brings us this story.Then: Hurricane season begins Monday, and we have an update on forecasts - and on drones.

Imaging centers face serious legal exposure from contrast reactions—not from the reactions themselves, but from gaps in supervision and documentation. Discover why virtual models may offer stronger protection than on-site oversight and what your EHR templates are missing. Learn more at https://www.contrast-connect.com/blog-post/contrast-reaction-liability-exposure-supervision-model-risk-documentation-practices ContrastConnect City: Las Vegas Address: Las vegas Website: https://www.contrast-connect.com/

Roselyn Lizetter Higgins-Sparrow, hailing from Columbus, Ohio, and shaped by her formative years in Lynchburg, Virginia, offers a unique perspective on family dynamics and upbringing. Raised in a church-oriented home by her parents, Bevo and Darling Darlene Higgins Graham, Roselyn experienced a disciplined environment that was both nurturing and challenging. While she values the structure and strong values instilled by her upbringing, she also recognizes the importance of love and care, striving to balance these elements in her own family life. Her journey, marked by academic hurdles and personal growth, highlights her enduring belief in the significance of nurturing connections, especially amid life's inevitable hardships, as reflected in her family gatherings and relationships.(00:01:26) Dynamic Family Relationships in Lynchburg, Virginia(00:09:02) Impact of Trauma on Childhood Development(00:10:30) Impact of Neglect on Mental Health Outcomes(00:17:02) Sparrow Family Bonds: Marriage and Relationships(00:24:35) Impact of Family Dynamics on Support(00:35:08) Importance of Supportive Family Networks(00:43:00) Maternal and Generational Parenting Contrasts(00:46:49) Siblings' Influence on Roselyn's Upbringing(00:54:21) Cherishing Family Bonds During Thanksgiving Milestones

In this episode of the Cannabis Accounting Podcast, host Raymond Guns sits down with @luna_stower (Luna Stower), founder of Luna Stower Strategies and cannabis brand-marketing expert, to explore what it actually takes to build credibility and lasting impact in this industry.Luna was employee #1 at both Jetty Extracts] and Ispire Vape, helping navigate two very different public exits. She has been working with cannabis for over two decades, is a certified Ganjier, sits on the NCIA board and multiple other industry organizations, and consults globally across the Americas and Europe.Luna opens up about:

Don't Neglect Your Gift | 1 Timothy 4:13-16 | 20 May 2026 - Wednesday Evening | Dr. Brad Weniger, Pastor

Sadanand Dhume reports that the BJP's landslide victory in West Bengal marks a significant defeat for longtime leader Mamata Banerjee. Her neglect of the economy and corruption allegations led to her ouster. This victory signals Narendra Modi's regained political strength, cracking opposition bastions and positioning India as a vital alternative in global supply chains. (14/16)1909

In this episode of Behind the Language, we will talk about the importance of pronunciation. No, it's not about sounding American, British, or Australian, it is about sounding intelligible, comprehensible, confident, and making real connections. If they're asking “what do you mean?” or “what did you say?”, something might change, either in yourself or in the person you're interacting with. Inscreva-se na nova turma: https://eibrazil.com/eib-t30-launch-mai26-venda-spotifyPronunciation Mastershttps://go.hotmart.com/E74795312J English in Brazil - Complete Coursehttps://go.hotmart.com/U104175910X?ap=b052SOS Viagemhttps://go.hotmart.com/I86476193C?ap=69e6

Most of us can't be with our children 24/7. At some point, we often must hand off care of our children school staff, nurses, therapists, hospitals, family members, etc to help care for our disabled and medically complex kids. And honestly? That can feel terrifying.In this episode, we're exploring one of the hardest topics parents in this community navigate: preventing abuse and neglect for children who may not be able to fully communicate what happened to them. We talk about the fears parents carry, missed medical care and hospital concerns, building trust with other caregivers, red flags families watch for, and the real-life strategies parents use to try to keep their children safe.If you've ever wondered how to balance protection with independence, trust your gut when something feels off, or navigate the reality that you can't always be there, we hope this episode gives you a little guidance to get started.Links:Fill out our contact form to join upcoming discussion groups!Join The Rare Life newsletter and never miss an update!Follow us on Instagram @the_rare_life!Donate to the podcast or Contact me about sponsoring an episode.

How shall we escape if we neglect such a great salvation? This searing question has an obvious answer: We won't! Even so, multitudes of people neglect God's gracious offer of salvation to their own peril.Join me for today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn more. Scripture Used in Today's MessageHebrews 2:3-4Hebrews 9:27 To find Tom on Instagram, Facebook, TiKTok, and elsewhere, go to linktr.ee/tomthepreache

"Holding On to Love and Hope Through a Lifetime of Suffering" - Listen to my Morning Monologue: I'm sharing my take on pressing issues, enlightening research on human behavior, answering questions I get by email, and my favorite, most instructive interactions with callers. Everything you'll hear is designed to help you become a better spouse, parent, family member, co-worker, friend, and human being. It's the free therapy you need!  Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.com Follow me on social media: Facebook.com/DrLaura Instagram.com/DrLauraProgram YouTube.com/DrLaura Join My Family!! Receive my Weekly Newsletter + 20% off my Marriage 101 course & 25% off Merch! Sign up now, it's FREE! Each week you'll get new articles, featured emails from listeners, special event invitations, early access to my Dr. Laura Designs Store benefiting Children of Fallen Patriots, and MORE! Sign up at DrLaura.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Join us for a new Sh*t Talkers Weekly podcast episode Cam, James, and Eric discuss small town basketball leagues, hallucinating while running ulra-marathons, an out of body experience while meditating, and more! Follow along: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cameronrhanes Twitter: https://twitter.com/cameronhanes Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/camhanes/ Website: https://www.cameronhanes.com Timestamps: 00:00:00 – Men's Basketball League 00:08:07 – The Dark Wizard Documentary 00:16:02 – Hallucinations During Ultra Marathons 00:17:08 – Trump's Neglect to American's Financial Situations 00:18:38 – State and City Level Politics 00:19:42 – James' New Running Times 00:22:01 – Outfits of the Met Gala Red Carpet 00:23:02 – James' Out of Body Experience 00:25:41 – New Bear Hunt Collection 00:26:51 – Upcoming Bentley Giveaway 00:28:08 – Mid Century Modern Remodeling 00:29:36 – Cam's Surgery & May Bear Hunt with the Rivett's Thank you to our sponsors: LMNT: Visit https://drinklmnt.com/cam for a free sample pack with any purchase Grizzly Coolers: https://www.grizzlycoolers.com/ use code KEEPHAMMERING for 20% off Montana Knife Company: https://www.montanaknifecompany.com/ Use code CAM for 10% off Sig Sauer: ⁠https://www.sigsauer.com/⁠ use code CAM10 for 10% off optics

Before we can forgive anything, we have to be honest about what actually happened without minimizing, over-spiritualizing, or skipping to a resolution. This week we slow down to affirm this first step in the process: naming the hurt with precision. As it turns out, telling the truth about your wound is the first act of healing.   LINKS:  Current Conversations | Connect | YouTube |  Coming Up TRANSCRIPT: The Word We've Been Mishandling Forgiveness might be the most talked-about and least practiced idea in all of spiritual life. Not because some people are hypocrites (I mean aren't we all a little bit?) but because if we're honest, we've been given almost no real tools for it. Tension point: most of us are carrying something. And most of us have been told– by religion, culture, entertainment, even well-meaning people– to just... let it go. But letting go of something you haven't fully held yet isn't forgiveness. It's just suppression with fancy vocabulary. Brief series preview: over the next six weeks, we're going to do this differently. We're drawing from Archbishop Desmond Tutu and his daughter Mpho's book The Book of Forgiving– one of the most honest, rigorous, and compassionate treatments of this subject that I'm aware of. We'll talk about what forgiveness actually is, what it isn't, why it gets weaponized, and what it might mean to actually get free. The Tutus give us a four-step framework for genuine forgiveness. If you're curious about each one of the steps in more detail and want to take the time it takes to really wrestle with that, I'd love to invite you into the Tuesday night book club and Discord server… talk to me after the gathering if you're interested! There's an underlying premise that when hurt happens, there's a cycle of revenge we often get stuck in (marked by the hurt/harm/loss, experiencing pain, choosing to harm, rejecting shared humanity, getting revenge/retaliation/payback, that ultimately leads to some form of violence that creates new or additional harm. What they've provided for us– based on their own experiences of injustice and violence (apartheid, violent deaths, etc.) is what they call The Fourfold Path, that similarly starts with hurt/harm/loss, followed by an intentional choice to heal. And if healing is the choice, then the fourfold path can be traveled:  Telling the Story (today) Naming the Hurt Granting Forgiveness (Recognizing Shared Humanity) Renewing or Releasing the Relationship. You don't have to be at every week to get something meaningful from this. But if you can, come back. This is worth doing slowly. The task we're in today– telling the story– is both simple and challenging: before we can forgive anything, we have to give ourselves space to be honest about what actually happened. Because there are a lot of real, identifiable reasons why we rush past pain and jump straight to resolution. Why We Skip the Hard Part Some of our work today, as we launch this series, is to be honest about why we skip the hard part, and end up missing out on actual forgiveness… For many: religious pressure |  "Jesus said forgive, so I should feel forgiving." The command becomes a performance. We say the words because we're supposed to, not because anything has actually shifted. (Note: forgiveness as a practice you choose vs. a feeling you perform — that distinction matters and we'll return to it.) Toxic positivity/"move on" culture |  American culture is deeply allergic to sitting with pain. We pathologize grief. We celebrate resilience in ways that quietly shame people for still hurting. "Good vibes only" is a spiritual bypass wearing a bumper sticker. Protecting ourselves from further abuse / Not wanting to further upset the person or system that hurt us |  This one deserves weight. Often the pressure to "just forgive" comes from the person or institution that caused harm. The church tells the abuse survivor to forgive the abuser. The family tells the wounded child not to make a scene. This is forgiveness weaponized — and we'll name that plainly throughout this series. The cultural myth of "forgive and forget" |  The Tutus address this directly. You cannot actually forget. And you shouldn't have to. Mpho Tutu writes that the idea of forgetting is not only impossible, it's actually counterproductive — memory is part of how we protect ourselves and stay honest. What happens when we skip to the “end”?? We don't actually move past the hurt. We move it underground. Resentment. Shame. Something that sits in us and ferments. The Tutus describe this as the "fourfold path" — and the first step is not resolution. It's telling the story. You cannot skip to the end. Telling the Story: The First Act of Healing The Tutus write: "The first and most important step in the Fourfold Path is to tell your story." Notice: they didn't say to resolve it… but to tell it. Why does this matter psychologically? There's substantial research behind this. Narrative therapy and trauma-informed psychology both support the idea that giving language to an experience is not just cathartic — it's neurologically significant. When we name something, we move it from the body's alarm system into the part of the brain that can actually process it. (Reference: Bessel van der Kolk, "The Body Keeps the Score" — the body holds what the mind won't name.) But there's a crucial distinction the Tutus make — and it's worth sitting with: RUMINATING on a story and TELLING it are not the same thing. Rumination is the loop. It's replaying the scene, re-feeling the wound, rehearsing what you should have said. It keeps us stuck in a cycle that actually reinforces the pain rather than processing it. Ruminating is like the broken record “That's an old tape, time to take it out of the VCR” Telling the story is different. It has a shape. A beginning, middle, and at least a provisional end. It has a witness. It moves outward rather than circling inward. Research on expressive writing (James Pennebaker, University of Texas) shows that people who write about difficult experiences in a structured way— not just venting, but actually narrating— show measurable improvements in psychological and even physical health. The Tutus frame this in deeply human terms: "When we tell our stories, we reclaim our humanity." The act of speaking what was done to us — rather than simply absorbing it — is how we refuse to let the wound become our whole identity. What Kind of Story Are We Telling? As we think perhaps about our own experiences of hurt, harm, or loss, it's worth asking: what kind of story are we telling? There's a spectrum of harm that's worth naming honestly: Some of what we carry is hurt — disappointment, unmet expectations, misunderstanding, relational friction. Real, worth naming, but perhaps not requiring the full weight of the forgiveness process. Some of what we carry is a genuine wrong — a betrayal, an act of violence, a sustained pattern of harm, an abuse of power. This is different. And treating it the same as ordinary hurt can minimize something that deserves to be named for what it is. The Tutus do not minimize harm. Mpho Tutu lost her husband to violent crime. Desmond Tutu spent his life in proximity to atrocity. This framework was forged in the context of apartheid, genocide, and profound injustice. It is not a self-help framework for minor inconveniences. It takes the weight of real wrong seriously. Part of telling your story is being honest about what actually happened — not inflating it, not minimizing it. Precision in our storytelling is an ACT OF DIGNITY. The Role of a Witness Here's something important: the Tutus don't imagine this as a solo process. Telling the story almost always requires someone to tell it to. What makes a good witness? Not someone who fixes it. Not someone who jumps to advice, or silver linings, or "well, have you thought about their perspective?" A witness is someone who receives your story with enough steadiness that you feel safe to tell it fully. In men's group: THREE people. The witness to receive the story, and also somebody with permission to ask questions about what they noticed in body language, follow up with questions about what's happening in the story teller's body, etc.  This is actually one of the most underrated spiritual gifts a person can offer another: the ministry of staying in the room without flinching. There's a reason confession has existed across almost every spiritual tradition in human history— not as a transaction for the pardon of wrongs, but as the practice of being heard by someone who doesn't run from the truth of what you've lived. Community implication: this is part of why we do this together. Not because church is a place to perform having it together, but because church can be— when we let it— a community of witnesses. People who are trained and willing to hold each other's real stories. (CARE IQ) What Forgiveness is NOT Before we wrap for today, let's clear some ground. The Tutus are direct about this: Forgiveness is not condoning what happened. Forgiveness is not forgetting. Forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation. (You can forgive someone and never have a relationship with them again. These are separate acts.) Forgiveness is not necessarily something you do for the other person. And forgiveness is not something you have to feel before you can choose it. Forgiveness is a practice you choose. Not an internal feeling you perform outwardly. We'll build on all of this in the weeks ahead. But naming what it isn't is part of how we clear space for what it actually is. Invitation/PAW Guided prompts: I want to invite you into a few minutes of quiet with a series of prompts. Optional: write it, draw it, sit with it. Hold a stone to represent it…  Think of something you're carrying. You don't have to name it out loud. Just let it come to mind. What actually happened? Try to name it with some precision — not to relive it, but to see it clearly. What did it cost you? Not what it "taught you," not what good came from it — what did it actually cost? Is there a word for what was done? Betrayal. Abandonment. Injustice. Violence. Neglect. Name it if you can. When and if you're ready in the coming days or weeks, think about if you're ready to tell it… to invite a witness in. Today I'm not asking you to forgive anything. I'm just asking you to be honest about what you're carrying. That's it. That's enough for today. Wrapping it Up Desmond Tutu said, "There is no future without forgiveness”... and I tend to agree with him. But we're not there yet. That's where we're going. Today we're just naming the yuck of it all, and naming that telling our story is in itself a critical first step in healing. That takes good courage! Next week, we'll be at Venn Coffee and Brewing to spend some slow, social time in conversation as community…   

Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam says that when you control the tongue, then all the other senses become controlled after that. Then, by that practice of chanting Hare Krishna, you will come to a point where it tastes good and you don't want to stop, and then automatically—systemically—you'll feel satisfied. All the senses become satisfied when you please Krishna by chanting with your tongue: jihvā ādau—first thing, the tongue. And toleration. We do various kinds of duties, and we also do austerities, and in those things you have to learn the art of toleration. Krishna mentions that in the Bhagavad-gītā in many different places, but it serves us well. I'll tell you how to do it. It's called "Tender Loving Neglect." So, there's a way in which there are urges that come up, agitations. You don't say, "No, get out of here, never ever come back!" You just say, "Yeah, I know you're there. I'll get to you later. For now, I'm not going to do anything." As Haridāsa Ṭhākura did—when a prostitute came, he didn't say, "Scram!" He said, "I'll be with you in a minute, I've got to finish my rounds." We know how to put things off. If you've ever had an important paper to write, and then you kept doing everything else—you washed your whole room, you figured out a formula for creating more efficient gasoline, whatever you might do to avoid writing the paper—that's procrastination. Do the same thing when there are sense urges: neglect them. TLN instead of TLC. ------------------------------------------------------------ To connect with His Grace Vaiśeṣika Dāsa, please visit https://www.fanthespark.com/next-steps/ask-vaisesika-dasa/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 https://vaisesikadasayatra.blogspot.com/ ------------------------------------------------------------ Add to your wisdom literature collection: https://iskconsv.com/book-store/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 https://www.bbtacademic.com/books/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 https://thefourquestionsbook.com/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=launch2025 ------------------------------------------------------------ Join us live on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FanTheSpark/ Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sound-bhakti/id1132423868 For the latest videos, subscribe https://www.youtube.com/@FanTheSpark For the latest in SoundCloud: https://soundcloud.com/fan-the-spark ------------------------------------------------------------ #japajolt #makejapagreatagain #chantharekrishnaandbehapy #spiritualawakening #soul #spiritualexperience #spiritualpurposeoflife #spiritualgrowthlessons #secretsofspirituality #vaisesikaprabhu #vaisesikadasa #vaisesikaprabhulectures #spirituality #bhaktiyoga #krishna #spiritualpurposeoflife #krishnaspirituality #spiritualusachannel #whybhaktiisimportant #whyspiritualityisimportant #vaisesika #spiritualconnection #thepowerofspiritualstudy #selfrealization #spirituallectures #spiritualstudy #spiritualquestions #spiritualquestionsanswered #trendingspiritualtopics #fanthespark #spiritualpowerofmeditation #spiritualteachersonyoutube #spiritualhabits #spiritualclarity #bhagavadgita #srimadbhagavatam #spiritualbeings #kttvg #keepthetranscendentalvibrationgoing #spiritualpurpose

What if the reason you keep getting injured isn't because you're running too much, but because you're only training half of the machine that makes you a stronger runner?If you've been piling on miles but still getting injured, plateauing, or wondering why race day feels harder than it should, this episode will change the way you think about training. I break down the two systems that drive every runner's performance: the cardiovascular engine that powers your endurance and the musculoskeletal engine that keeps your body strong enough to handle the workload. You'll learn why running alone is not enough, how strength training and speed work fit into the bigger picture, and a simple “mixing board” framework you can use to balance every part of your training without overcomplicating your week.Key TakeawaysTrain Both Engines: Your fitness depends on both your cardiovascular system and your muscles, bones, and tendons. Neglect either one, and your progress will suffer.Running Alone Isn't Enough: Running builds endurance, but strength training builds durability. You need both to stay injury-free.Adjust Your Training Over Time: The right mix of easy runs, hard workouts, and strength work changes throughout the year based on your goals.Timestamps[00:32] What You'll Learn[01:24] The Two Engines Overview[03:26] Cardiovascular Engine: Aerobic Base (Zone 2)[04:50] Do This to Train All the Zones and Get Faster[05:34] Cardiovascular Engine: VO2 Max[07:08] Cardiovascular Engine: Anaerobic[08:18] Musculoskeletal Engine: The One Runners Ignore[13:41] The 2 System Crossover[15:39] Do This to Help Another Runner[16:23] The Mixing Board[22:16] Use This to Improve Your CadenceLinks & Learnings

Relisha Rudd vanished from a Washington DC homeless shelter in 2014. In part two, Mountain Murders follows the desperate search for Relisha, the disturbing investigation into motel rooms, and the chilling trail left behind by janitor Khalil Tatum. Intro music by Joe Buck YourselfHosts Heather and Dylan www.mountainmurderspodcast.com Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/mountain-murders--3281847/support.

Have you considered "the hand of God"? You should! Our times are in His hands! But what can we learn about the mighty hand of God? Join me for today's Daily Word & Prayer to learn more and to be encouragedScripture Used in Today's MessagePsalm 139:10Psalm 31:14-15Isaiah 48:13Isaiah 66:1-2 To find Tom on Instagram, Facebook, TiKTok, and elsewhere, go to linktr.ee/tomthepreache

Having a clean cafe and a clean bar is not just a surface level pursuit. The mindset it takes to keep things clean while busy is a discipline that have far reaching benefits extending to the quality of our products, depth of hospitality, and the health of our relationships behind and across the bar. Today on Shift Break we will be talking about the mindset baristas and owners need to have in order to work clean and how this focus is foundational to the building of a solid coffee shop business.  My hope is you can take this and practice entering into this mindset daily and watch as you and your team or co-workers start to become more calm, productive, effective, and fulfilled in working clean.  Related episodes on the YouTube channel:  SHIFT BREAK: Detail Oriented Staff Starts With You Lessons From "America's Best Coffee House" | Ep 581 Is That Character or Neglect? | Shift Break Series   KEYS TO THE SHOP®  1:1 CONSULTING AND COACHING If you are a cafe owner and want to work one on one with me to bring your shop to its next level and help bring you joy and freedom in the process then email chris@keystothshop.com OR... book a free call now  https://calendly.com/chrisdeferio/30min    Related Episodes:    505: Maintaining Excellence in the Everyday Work of Coffee Shops w/ Maxwell Colonna-Dashwood SHIFT BREAK! Considering the Future You When Making Decisions Hiring for Future Leadership What is Professionalism? Some thoughts for the future of service Thank you to out sponsors!   Everything you need for back of the house operations https://rattleware.qualitybystainless.com/   The best and most revered espresso machines on the planet: www.lamarzoccousa.com    

You don't have to love your body every day. But you do need to respect it. In this episode, we discuss the difference between body respect and body neglect, and how to care for yourself without falling into obsession oravoidance.     - What body respect looks like in real life- How to know when you're neglecting your needs-  Why care ≠ control — and how to find the middle- Small daily actions that build trust with your bodyResources Mentioned:Not Another Diet Book: https://www.amazon.com/Not-Another-Diet-Book-learning/dp/B0B45Q4CLH/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1656499379&sr=8-1 Schedule a Session: https://www.heathermaio.com/coaching-options We will cover:

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Are you a grandparent or kinship caregiver navigating the maze of IEPs, 504 plans, and medical decisions while advocating for a child impacted by trauma and neglect? Do you feel overwhelmed by failing systems, mislabeled as a troublemaker simply for demanding the support your grandchild needs to heal? You're not alone.I'm Laura Brazan, host of 'Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity.' In this powerful episode, legal social worker Paula Yost joins us to break down the essential legal framework every kinship caregiver needs. Discover how to confidently advocate for your grandchild's educational and medical rights, overcome the isolation and guilt of fighting the system, and turn “troublemaker” into a badge of honor.Hear real stories, actionable advice on IEP and 504 meeting survival, and learn why your advocacy is the most vital document in your grandchild's life. For more information on Paula Yost please visit her website. Purchase a copy of Paula's new book "Tumbleweeds", which I believe everyone should have in their resource library! Also! For Paula Yost's- "Tools For Knowledge From A Seasoned Mother" visit our Resource Library.Join our supportive community—because you deserve more than just survival. You deserve to thrive while cSend us Fan MailJolene Thiessen has been with us since the beginning of our podcast. She wrote in to thank us for our 100th episode! She looked for help online and found us- the only podcast that came up when she searched for help. I live to help these children have better lives and to be sure that all our pain doesn't go to waste for you grandparents and kinship caregivers out there! I love hearing your stories and comments. Keep sharing! Your stories make a difference. In this special pre-roll segment, I'm sharing a moving letter from a member of our community, Laurel. Her story of loss, resilience, and raising her grandson after the unthinkable is a raw reminder that none of us are walking this path alone.We want to hear from you. If Laurel's story resonates with you, or if you have a journey of your own to share, join our private community. Your story might be the exact lifeline someone else needs to hear today. Thank you for tuning into today's episode. It's been a journey of shared stories, insights, and invaluable advice from the heart of a community that knows the beauty and challenges of raising grandchildren. Your presence and engagement mean the world to us and to grandparents everywhere stepping up in ways they never imagined.Remember, you're not alone on this journey. For more resources, support, and stories, visit our website and follow us on our social media channels. If today's episode moved you, consider sharing it with someone who might find comfort and connection in our shared experiences.We look forward to bringing more stories and expert advice your way next week. Until then, take care of yourselves and each other.Want to be a guest on Grandparents Raising Grandchildren: Nurturing Through Adversity? Send Laura Brazan a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/grgLiked this episode? Share it and tag us on Facebook @GrandparentsRaisingGrandchilden Love the show? Leave a review and let us know!CONNECT WITH US: Website | Facebook 

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Katherine Boyle and Sarah Wang speak with Jesse Genet, a startup founder and family builder, about building 11 AI agents while homeschooling four young children. Jesse runs agents across roles ranging from coding to curriculum planning to household management, and she shares how agent architecture, logging systems, and “benevolent neglect” parenting have changed her life as both a founder and a mother.   Resources: Follow Jesse Genet on X: https://twitter.com/jessegenet Follow Katherine Boyle on X: https://twitter.com/KTmBoyle Follow Sarah Wang on X: https://twitter.com/sarahdingwang Stay Updated:Find a16z on YouTube: YouTubeFind a16z on XFind a16z on LinkedInListen to the a16z Show on SpotifyListen to the a16z Show on Apple PodcastsFollow our host: https://twitter.com/eriktorenberg Please note that the content here is for informational purposes only; should NOT be taken as legal, business, tax, or investment advice or be used to evaluate any investment or security; and is not directed at any investors or potential investors in any a16z fund. a16z and its affiliates may maintain investments in the companies discussed. For more details please see a16z.com/disclosures. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Philosopher Stefan Molyneux unpacks a caller's buried anger from childhood emotional neglect, exposing its chains on marriage and parenting to ignite vulnerability, honest communication, and healing power.GET FREEDOMAIN MERCH! https://shop.freedomain.com/SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxFollow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025

We kick off the hour with Gunnar Esiason's 35th birthday then shift to an 81-year-old Dodgers fan's struggle with digital tickets. Next, we touch on Boomer's charity bike tour events, the Yankees' loss to the Marlins featuring Jazz Chisholm's "lazy" throw, and the Mets' victory over the Giants. Plus, Jo Adell's three home run robberies, Cooper Flagg's 40-point night and a Devils shutout win. We wrap up with Kylie Kelce's podcast success and her request to stop the Travis and Taylor wedding talk.

Philosopher Stefan Molyneux unpacks ego-driven trauma faking connections, childhood neglect's wreckage, Christianity's masculinity erosion and ad psyops to arm you with honest parenting and ethical unbreakable bonds.Questions:"Why are most people so quick to protect their ego and so strangely unwilling to fully dissolve the trauma they both received and inflicted?""Childhood neglect. Who do you put it down as more damaging than physical abuse? What makes it so insidious in your opinion?""Can you talk about intentions, particularly in others, and when we should trust them? How about intuition, which seems closely related.""Debate: humans are in consciousness, not of consciousness.""Could you elaborate more on the downfall of masculine traits in Christendom? How it used to be, when it started to change and why, and how it could be put back on track.""Do you think Trump's actions in Iran can be best explained by bribery, blackmail, deception, or ego-maniacal hubris?""A lot of private companies collect data on customers to sell for advertising purposes. Do you think this practice would still occur without the state benefiting from this surveillance as well?""When can we expect more peaceful parenting content?""What is philosophy? In one sentence.""What is the definition of morality?""What is the most sinister Propaganda push currently, in your opinion?"GET FREEDOMAIN MERCH! https://shop.freedomain.com/SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxFollow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025