Life, Love & Leadership with Dr. James & Marissa Q. Paine

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with the visionary President and Founder of Activate Worldwide LLC, Lucinda Cross. Lucinda opens with an energetic introduction and speaks about the shift that has been most impactful in her life (5:04). She then gets real about the role of outsider opinions on the things you should have done in your life (9:15). Lucinda reveals to Marissa how she made impactful change after federal prison (11:40) and broke away from what she knew, overcoming her fear of something greater (18:40). Marissa continues the conversation by asking Lucinda if she ever got stuck along her journey (19:30), to which Lucinda opens up about how manifestation techniques delivered her from the rut she found herself in. She closes the topic with the statement that it takes the same amount of energy to manifest an apartment as it does to manifest a mansion (23:47).

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with the inspiring CEO of Moruwa Consulting and the founder of Significant Life, Janice Roberson-Anderson. Janice begins the discussion with her greatest passion right now: working as the founder of Significant Life, a community for high performing women who love Jesus and want to lead and serve from an anchored place, which Janice defines as being grounded while having the courage to come undone when needed (6:03). Marissa then asks Janice to talk about her greatest shift and Janice gets real about her relationship with the Church and how learning to be a rule-breaker instead of a rule-follower changed her life (16:02). She reveals that a conversation with her First Lady at the time freed her to make this shift, giving her the courage to change her mind and make different decisions (18:10). Marissa brings the discussion full circle by bringing up the importance of being anchored in these times of shift, to which Janice responds with three core attributes of an anchored life: sacred self-perception, life-giving connections, and the space to make an irreplaceable change in the world (30:26). Janice can be found on all social media platforms at @janiceanderson.

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with the Entrepreneur, Keynote Speaker, and super-(s)hero, Britney Harris. Britney starts the discussion with her most transformational shift: gaining the courage to push back her shame and talk about her abortion in college (11:12). Britney tells Marissa that she chose to open up because she wished she had other women around her who were talking about their stories and she felt as if she was not telling her complete story (13:00) Marissa continues the conversation by bringing up shame and hush cultures, specifically the Church and the Black community (16:58). Britney then reveals that being courageous is the presence of audacity, which for her manifested as sharing her story with others (18:30). Britney wraps up the conversation with her advice for others: to do the best with what you have and what you know (27:32), silence the voices around you (28:36), and call in reinforcements who will hold space for you (34:29). Britney can be found on social media at @bmpowered2.

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with Dr. Omolora Thomas Uwemedimo of Melanin & Medicine. Dr. Omolora is not new to life shift, she's true to it. She starts the conversation by sharing with Marissa everything she knows to be true about shifting and dives deeper into what she feels to be the most transformational shift to date (4:19). When Dr. Omolora found herself suddenly hospitalized and unable to walk, she had to quickly reevaluate everything she once thought about her self worth and her true meaning in the workplace (7:00). Dr. Omolora recalls a moment where she prayed to God for clarity on how to execute the vision she knows she's called to do (12:49). She gets real about the difficulty of asking for help in the medical profession and talks about the moment she stepped out on faith and decided that it actually was okay to need help to reach your full potential (20:26). Often times, high achievers hold business as a badge of honor, but Marissa and Dr. Omolora relate to each other while discussing the importance of slowing down and valuing yourself (22:26).  Dr. Omolora then reflects on the time in her life where she felt the most free and dives deep into the importance of determining your own course in life in order to find the happiest version of yourself (34:19). 

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with transformational speak Markeith Braden. Marissa begins the chat asking Markeith about the most disruptive shift in his life and he opens up about his experience being laid off (4:27). Markeith details the transformational decision of choosing to be excited about this unexpected shift (9:25). He then details the realities of being the oldest of 4 siblings and seen in the family as the "responsible one" during a time of such uncertainty (10:16).  Markeith opens up about the dangerous cycle of constantly planning but never taking action (16:29).  The two chat about how deceiving it could be when finding success in the wrong assignment and how that can distract you from living in your true purpose (24:45). Markeith then opens up about how, although he's come a long way on his journey, he's still working on embracing his greatness and accepting his calling (29:20).  

This week, Marissa sits down to chat with podcast hosts KeAnna Daniels and Bridget Flaherty. From the outside looking in, the two seem like an unlikely pair, but they quickly explain why they are actually a perfect match based on what's inside their heart. They utilize this time to stress the importance of finding your tribe (6:50). KeAnna then takes time to share her most impactful shifts over the course of her life and what led her to this place in her life (13:50). Marissa shares insight from what she has learned from her own shift journey, and emphasizes the difference between running towards something and running from something (24:19). Marissa then turns to Bridget and gives her an opportunity to chat about her impactful life shifts and the importance of mental health (27:19). The two reflect on how they found each other and what their partnership has done to take their lives to the next level (31:58). 

This week, Marissa sits down with award winning marketing solutionist and thought leader, Dr. Shamieka Dean. Shamieka starts off by sharing with Marissa what she believes to be her most impactful life shift; divorcing and remarrying the same man (4:16). She then breaks down the marriage timeline of how they went from divorced to re-engaged and the things that she intentionally prayed for before going to the alter again (8:26). Shamieka gets honest with Marissa about her role in the separation and how she often used her gift, words, against her husband (12:05). She reflects on the stages of her new marriage, from honeymoon to growing together again, and how they handled it better this time around (15:07). Marissa asks Shamieka to share how she found the balance between her new normal as entrepreneur and newlywed (21:42). Shamieka closes with advice that she would give a woman in the same position she found herself in many years ago: how to have it all (25:47). 

This week, Marissa sits down with Authorpreneur Stephanie Krauss. Stephanie starts by explaining how she got her start and why based on her history, she's not "supposed" to be where she is today (4:02). Marissa asks Stephanie to reflect on her personal transformation and share what people often overlook when celebrating triumph (8:12). Stephanie's work for the past decade has been to provide resources to anyone that is working directly with children (15:50) and she shares the ways that she herself is preparing her own children for the potential storm (20:32).

This week, Marissa sits down with breath-work facilitator, Rachel Dehler. Rachel opens up about the various shifts that happened in her life that led her to turn to breath work (5:12). She then opens up about transitioning from a student of breath-work, to a facilitator (12:29). Marissa takes a moment to ask Rachel to define breath-work, in her own words (14:08). With this new found coping mechanism, Marissa asks Rachel how she has been dealing with all that life has to throw at her while utilizing this newfound resource (18:44). Rachel leaves a final message to the past version of herself, knowing all that she knows now (22:22). 

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with business and personal development coach, Datasha Mayo. Datasha talks with Marissa about what comes to mind when she reflects on her most transformational shift (4:06). When thinking through her 100 pound weight loss, Datasha clues Marissa in on how that physical change is nothing compared to the mental weight loss (7:39). Datasha then touches on how previously strained childhood family relationships have manifested themselves into her adult life (10:23). Marissa asks about the moment that made Datasha "wake up" and take a look in the mirror to prompt the weight loss in the first place (16:21). Datasha then shares what it is about her morning routine that sets her apart from the woman she once was (24:26). Datasha shares her final message to the highly productive couch potato listening in; ready to make a change (22:22). 

This week, Marissa sits down with one of her besties, Melissa Tureaud, VP of Early Learning Programs. The two start the conversation reflecting on the start of their 30 year friendship and how they both took the unconventional path towards success (5:32). Melissa emphasizes that she's always had an affinity for youth which is what led her to her passionate career in early childhood leadership (7:47). Melissa then reflects on what her leadership gift allowed her to learn about the childhood industry (10:21). As the first black woman executive in her organization, Melissa reflects on key workplace experiences she had to navigate with grace in order to find continued success in this role (18:03). Marissa gives Melissa an opportunity to reflect on some of the biggest shifts that she has made over her 8 year tenure as VP (22:30). The pair chat about the importance of utilizing your natural gifts to help you find a career that brings you joy (31:53). 

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with associate marriage & family therapist/ certified bestie, Treniss Roberts. It's one of those friendships that have been going on so long they hardly remember how it started, but apparently, it started with one stealing the other's 6th grade boyfriend (05:37). Treniss then reflects on the first time Marissa truly became independent as her favorite shift throughout the years (7:08). The two quickly realize that they have supported each other through similar traumas ranging from abusive relationships to family loss (12:08). Marissa reflects on how the two were showing signs of their gifts long before they even realized it was their purpose work (16:30). Treniss reflects on what it took to get herself to a place where she truly understood her value and decided to accept nothing less (19:55). They reflect on the impact of watching a friend live beneath their potential (22:06) and what it takes for someone to truly change based on the power of choices (31:22). You can keep up with Treniss via email: trenissmft@gmail.com

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with lifestyle content creator, Jewell Samone, who also happens to be Marissa's only daughter. Growing up watching Marissa take on many life shifts, Jewell reflects on her favorite one that completely changed the way she views the world (6:05). Marissa returns the favor by telling listeners her favorite shift of Jewell's so far ( 9:54). A mental heath advocate, Jewell herself struggles with anxiety and depression. She touches on her own personal warning signs of a depressive episode and what listeners might look out for in those around them (13:44). Jewell offers her own advice for people going through depression (17:25) and shares what she did to pull herself out of it (20:19). Now in a new city, which Jewell believes to be the greatest city in the world, she shares the uncomfortable realities of making this new shift work for her (24:41). You can keep up with Jewell on Tik Tok or Instagram: @jewell_samone

This week, Marissa sits down to talk with financial services professional and bad ass mom, Bridgett Deana. Growing up together and being only six years apart, Bridgett has seen Marissa through a lot of shifts. Bridgett speaks about which life shift stands out the most when thinking of our host, Marissa Q. Paine (06:13). Bridgett opens up about witnessing Marissa experiencing her “hot girl years” later in life, whereas Bridgett feels that she's “been there, done that” (12:37). Marissa checks in with Bridgett on how her unexpected baby completely turned her professional and personal life upside down (18:48). Bridgett then opens up about the trauma that came with her first born being born premature and spending the first three months of life in the NICU and the PTSD that followed (21:08). You can keep up with Bridgett on Instagram: @beingbridgett

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SURPRISE! In this bonus episode Marissa has Valentine's Day on the brain and doesn't quite understand what all the fuss is about (2:25). James is feeling grateful for his health after undergoing oral surgery earlier in the month that left him both weak and feeble (6:15) For the fight of the week our hosts debate on whether or not an apology is actually always necessary (9:22) During the big idea, the couple dives deeper into the 25 lessons they've learned over the course of their 25 year marriage (18:12)

As we near the end of this season, our hosts spend time reflecting on the best moments of season 2.

As we near the end of this season, our hosts spend time reflecting on the best moments of season 2.

As we near the end of season 2, our hosts spend time reflecting on their favorite moments with featured guests.

This week, a recent celebration of life has Marissa reflecting on the true strength of love (4:45). James spends time pondering the quote “addictions are reactions to emotions we can’t handle”(12:03). The fight of the week is sparked by an impulsive gift James bought their daughter leaving Marissa feeling as if he had gone behind her back (15:50). For the big idea, James speaks about the importance of issue spotting in relationships to avoid big blowouts down the road (23:50). For homework, the hosts urge listeners to spend time with their partner being intentional about talking through all unresolved issues from the week prior (34:03). The hosts end the show offering marriage advice to newlywed listener, Michelle (35:25). 

This week Marissa spoke a lot about what wasn’t on her mind (2:39) before eventually deciding that ultimately, she couldn’t stop thinking about Christmas (8:13). James has spent his week reflecting on yet another quote, and you must ask yourself, are you really surprised? (13:40) This week’s fight of the week was sparked by a simple 2 letter word but ended in laughter as surprise guest, Jewell, countered James’ argument with words from his own mouth just a few episodes earlier in the season (18:38). This week’s big idea focused on the importance of strengthening your self-esteem (29:50).

In the third and final episode of the series: Inquiring Minds Want to know, our hosts sit down with two newly married couples who managed to find love in a pandemic.

This week Dr. James and Marissa Paine speak with Chris, David, and Justin as they continue the three part singles' series 'Inquiring Minds Want to Know'.

This week Dr. James and Marissa Paine speak with Cindy, Lynette, and Rhoshay to kick off the three part singles' series 'Inquiring Minds Want to Know'.

This week the hosts sit down with their three young adult children for the second annual Thanksgiving week special and cover everything from dating and hookup culture to growing up Paine.

This week Marissa has a serious case of travel fatigue and finally knows what Dorothy meant when she said ‘there’s no place like home,’ (3:50). James gets sappy and opens up about how home is no place without Marissa (8:22). For the fight of the week, the hosts spend time talking about the new reality TV show, ‘Put a Ring on it’, and whether or not it serves as an effective relationship strategy (11:26). For the big idea, James teaches listeners how to have a successful relationship with two dominant type A personalities, (25:23). For homework, listeners are asked to spend time reflecting on battle lines drawn in their relationship, revisit them in the spirit of compromise in a way that allows the relationship, not just individuals, to win, (38:50).

This week Marissa has 2020 on her mind and she’s asking the question we all have been wondering: what even was this year? (2:45) James spends time reflecting on the quote “wisdom is seeing tomorrow’s consequences in today’s activities” (8:17). The hosts sit down with financial expert Cathey Williamson of the Williamson financial group to answer the most common questions surrounding marriage and money (11:41). For homework, James tasks listeners with spending time talking about beliefs and assumptions surrounding money and having that conversation with your partner (39:46).

This week Marissa is thinking about the double standard of leaders in the faith community (3:34). James expresses his concerns surrounding professional sports and the effectiveness of their COVID policies (12:40). Still in a honeymoon phase of sorts, the hosts didn’t have a fight to discuss this week. While it isn’t required to spend a lot of money on a vow renewal to rekindle the flame in your marriage, apparently, it doesn’t hurt (16:18). For the big idea, James speaks on the importance of living out the most authentic version of yourself (25:13). For homework, listeners should spend time getting crystal clear on their purpose (40:21).

This week Marissa has single-ness on her mind and wonders what it truly means to be single (2:25) while James is thinking about rebounding and how people on social media seem to quickly jump from one relationship to the next (9:22). In the fight of the week Marissa expresses her frustration surrounding the treatment of her car and they reach a resolution on behavior going forward (14:26). James dives deep into Intention Deficit Disorder in this week’s big idea and gives listeners 3 key steps to setting intentions for intimate partner relationships (19:54). For homework, listeners are asked to reflect on the purpose of their relationship and establish or reaffirm their plans (29:34). Finally, Marissa answers a listener’s question on how to best deal with her husbands sex addiction (29:53).

This week Marissa is thinking about gender roles and how they factor into the success of a relationship (13:22) while James has found another quote to spend time reflecting on (13:22). The fight of the week is so fresh it continues briefly as they spend time reflecting on angry chew pt. 2 (18:14). For the big idea, James touches on 5 things to watch out for when working to grow personal maturity (30:20).  For homework, listeners are asked to examine their most recent relationship conflict and reflect on how a more mature personal response would have resulted in a better outcome (35:40). The show wraps with hosts answering a listener's question: are men and women created equal (36:26)?

This week Marissa struggles to get her life together (3:17). A recovering work-aholic, Marissa is still searching to find the perfect work/life balance as her new exercise bike that was supposed to help collects dust in the living room. James spends time reflecting on the Ralph Waldo Emerson quote, “envy is ignorance and imitation is suicide,” (11:02). The fight of the week focuses on racism in America and how it affects the Black experience (14:31). This week's big idea is the importance of majoring in your mate (26:31) and James assigns listeners to get reacquainted with their partners for homework and learn more about what makes them who they are (35:25).

This week Marissa schools James on poop protocol (3:13) while James is focused on transitioning to the one true indicator of old age: bifocals (8:19). The fight of the week deals with the couples’ differing definitions of proper restaurant etiquette (10:44). James goes deeper into 3 major benefits of conflict in relationships (21:30) and tasks listeners with confronting some of the elephants in your relationship (31:12). This week, the hosts get to offer advice to a listener struggling with navigating abuse in a very public relationship (31:35).

This week, Marissa has a recent question trending on social media on her mind (1:46). What seems to be an easy choice for both the Dr. and Mrs. leads into an even larger discussion surrounding the stigma with engagement rings altogether. James has his mind focused on the current state of academia and what the current switch to majority online school will mean for the job market in the coming years (13:02). During the Fight of the Week, they dive deep into cheating: defining what it is and giving insight on what to do about it (17:58). The big idea was so big last week that it’s spilling over: boundaries, part two. They take the time to explore the importance of personal boundaries within a marriage and the complex intersectionality boundaries have with faith (28:54).

This week Marissa has a bone to pick with major television shows and the way they portray first ladies (1:41). Honestly, she’s over the constant angry black woman stereotype and other microaggressions this role perpetuates. James is grappling with something a little heavier this week: to buy or not to buy… Jordan’s that is (11:20). He’s thinking about sneakers. On one hand there’s a level of nostalgia, who knows he might get back on the court one day, but then again, we’d hate a repeat of the watch debacle of last season. Decisions, decisions, ultimately they’ll need your vote so be sure to tune in this Thursday in the Facebook group-- live at 7PM CST. This week’s fight of the week involves another popular celebrity couple, Steph and Ayeesha Curry (16:53). More of a conversation than a fight,  is it healthy to want attention from anyone beyond your spouse? Tackling this question leads into this week's big idea: boundaries. James gets clear on important boundaries crucial for developing and maintaining a successful marriage and Marissa uses personal experiences to highlight the importance of fulfilling all your needs first and not relying on your partner to feel whole. Most importantly, homework (39:26)! Spend time reevaluating your relationship boundaries to make sure they make a strong foundation.

This week Marissa is experiencing ‘bride brain’. Yes, apparently it’s a real thing and she is ready to get her brain back after the vow renewal (2:02). James, of course, has something philosophical on his mind and has spent the week reflecting on the quote “what you hold in your mind shows up in your life” (5:43). James and Marissa then sit down with Rachel Jackson, Pastor Rashon Jordan and First Lady Jordan to continue last week's discussion on blended families (8:57). All three of this week's guests are currently living in blended families and spend time sharing their personal experiences with blending families in dating and marriage.

This week Marissa is thinking about football (2:05). Previously an avid fan, Marissa hasn’t been tuning in for the past few seasons as a way to stand in solidarity with Colin Kaepernick and his protests. With the uncertainty surrounding COVID, she wonders if football is coming back at all, and even if it is, will she watch? James spends time recalling a recent dining experience that left him concerned that not all businesses are making the same effort to keep patrons safe through the pandemic (6:21). The fight of the week is prompted by a simple question: do you like your new doors (11:20)? Recently, the Paines underwent home renovations under the direction of a professional organizer and her team. James had reservations about the process initially that weren’t entirely relieved by the finished product. The big idea this week focuses on the danger of 2 common absolutes and James provides 2 major reasons to never use them in your relationships (18:13). For homework, James asks that you notice just how often you use these absolutes in your relationship and make a serious attempt to reframe the language (26:04). Finally, the Dr. and Mrs. get a chance to help a listener who needs advice on maintaining boundaries within blended families (27:12).

This week Marissa can’t stop thinking about dancing, something she needed y’all to know that James can’t do (3:33). James spends time reflecting on the stupid tax paid throughout his life, most recently a $3,000 watch he just had to have during last season (7:25). The Fight of the Week this week started out focused on the shoe carpet, something Marissa believes doesn’t even exist, and evolved into a question of her credibility altogether (9:37). The big idea this week is focusing on emotional intelligence and James gets specific about mental muscles your relationship will benefit from strengthening (14:38). For homework, go through each of the 5 muscles outlined by James and rank your current success in those areas, then come together with your partner and share (28:38). James and Marissa will be doing this assignment along with you this Thursday at 7PM CST live on the Successful Marriages Facebook page.

This week Marissa has home renovations on the brain (2:46) and James dives deep into feelings of uncertainty surrounding the upcoming school year for their rising college junior (7:10). The fight of the week is centered around  differing opinions on the need for a professional organizer in their home (9:40). James dives deep into this week's big idea: the power of alignment, and stresses the importance of being aligned within yourself before you can be aligned within your relationship (18:20). Is love really the most important thing in relationships? This week’s homework involves spending time in self-reflection then coming together as a couple to talk more about what your individual expectations mean for the relationship (30:00). Finally, the Dr. and Mrs. got the chance to answer a question from a listener who has been married for 15 years with children and is worried that her partner doesn’t support her dreams (30:41). The dialogue continues on the https://www.facebook.com/successfulmarriages/ Facebook page where the Dr. and Mrs. will be going live EVERY THURSDAY at 7PM CST.

Welcome back to another season of the Life, Love, and Leadership podcast with Dr. James and Marissa Paine! Since it’s been so long, the Paine’s start this episode off by refreshing your memory, or introducing you to the typical rundown of a podcast episode (1:41). Marissa speaks candidly about adjusting to the family’s “COVID normal” (7:53), and new this season, we get to hear what’s going on in James’ head: finally, his time to shine! (12:23). The Fight of the Week comes from a recent Red Table Talk interview featuring Jada Pinkett and Will Smith (14:24), and James takes the time to dive into this week’s big idea: love in quarantine and how to thrive in a relationship when life gets messy (22:41). After speaking on the four key steps to maintaining a strong foundation in your relationship, the Dr. and Mrs. assign homework (31:54)! Don’t be fooled, this is not your grandma’s lesson plan; the Dr. and Mrs. have come up with work you can do at  home to make your home, work. The dialogue continues on the Successful Marriages Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/successfulmarriages/ where the Dr. and Mrs. will be going live EVERY THURSDAY this season at 7PM CST.

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. close out the 'Best of' series rewind for season one, and rehash some of the seasons most talked about shows. In this episode, you'll hear new perspectives from the 'she-shed' segment; learn about Marissa's plans for a 'she-ment'; and also hear significant new takeaways on the importance of avoiding criticism and negative labels in your relationship. 

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. continue the 'Best of' series rewind for season one, and  rehash some of the seasons most talked about shows. In this episode, you'll hear new takeaways around the importance of having a 'maintenance plan' for your relationship, why 'goals are more important than roles', and also revisit some of the more hilarious moments and key insights from the Thanksgiving episode featuring The Painegang.

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. continue the 'Best of' series rewind for season one, and rehash some of the seasons most talked about shows. In this episode, you'll hear new takeaways around how to avoid 'angry chew' in your relationship; and Dr. Paine makes a startling admission about 'Mansplaining'. 

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. share holiday greetings and express gratitude for an AMAZING first season of the 'Life, Love & Leadership' podcast.

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. begin the 'Best of' series rewind for season one, and rehash some of the seasons most talked about shows. In this episode, you'll get updates on the infamous watch, and hear new discoveries about why marriage is so hard.

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. talk about 'How to Recover From the Loss of a Relationship'; offering tips, tools and strategies to get back on track. In the What's on Your Mind segment, Marissa talks soul-mates and shares her thoughts on the idea of being self-partnered. Finally, in the Fight of the Week, James & Marissa battle it out to determine if a recent outing should really be considered a date or just a routine night out.

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. talk about how to 'Regain Your Rhythm' when life has infringed upon your relationship; offering tips, tools and strategies to get back on track. In the What's on Your Mind segment, Marissa talks about conflict among the Royals, and helps us to understand that conflict is normal, natural and to be expected. Finally, in the Fight of the Week, James & Marissa battle it out over their movie watching styles in a battle over light, texting, and nachos.  

The Dr & the Mrs are joined by their three young adult children for this laid back, special Thanksgiving Day episode of Life, Love & Leadership.

This week, the Dr. & the Mrs. talk Sex; sharing some helpful wisdom about the do's and dont's of maintaining a healthy sex life (30:23). In the What's on Your Mind segment, Marissa talks "cuffing season" (2:19): how to spot a potential predator and how to avoid falling for a "cuffer". In the Fight of the Week, James & Marissa battle it out over their travel differences and James makes a SHOCKING admission about apologies (14:50). Finally, the two answer a listeners question about what to do when a partner offers an apology to appease but doesn't have real remorse (41:55).

Life, Love & Leadership goes LIVE this week from the Relationship Reboot Conference at Living the Word Church in Collinsville, Illinois. The Dr. and the Mrs. pick up the Apology Styles discussion where it left off in Episode 13 and take questions and comments from their passionate live audience.

In this week's episode, Dr. Paine & Marissa pay a few rounds from Marissa's latest find, The Intimacy Deck and then come up with an idea of their own for the DIY version of the game. Dr Paine (kind of) admits wrong doing in the Fight of the Week and the episode ends with a heartfelt discussion about what it really takes to be Ready for Love.