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Man-Talk Mondays is an open forum where we discuss everything from religion to politics to relationships, but we do it from a man’s perspective. Now, this isn’t just for men, but we’re just letting people know what men have to say.

Derrick Smith


    • Feb 19, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    Who's Running Your Relationship? with special guest Dr. Salena Smith

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2024 66:43


    In this compelling episode of Man-Talk Mondays, we welcome Dr. Salena Smith to explore the unexpected question: "Who's Running Your Relationship?" Moving beyond the idea of gender roles, we delve into how unresolved childhood trauma influences our adult relationships. Dr. Smith reveals that in moments of tension, many revert to an "adaptive child" mode, responding from past pain rather than as our mature selves. This conversation offers deep insights into recognizing and changing these patterns, aiming for healthier, more aware relationship dynamics. It's not just about who's in charge; it's about understanding the unseen forces that shape our reactions and connections. Tune in for a transformative discussion on nurturing love from a place of self-awareness and maturity. Don't miss this episode of Man-Talk Mondays, where we uncover the true essence of leading our relationships with clarity and conscious choice.

    Conflicted Hearts: Exploring the Mind of the Unfaithful Partner with special guest Michael Horne (Pastor, Counselor, Entrepreneur)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2023 65:46


    Welcome to another thought-provoking episode of Man-Talk Mondays, where we delve into the complexities of relationships from a man's perspective. In Episode 3 of our series "Shattered Bonds: Unveiling the Impact of Infidelity on Family Dynamics", we explore the often unspoken side of infidelity in "Conflicted Hearts: Exploring the Mind of the Unfaithful Partner". We were joined by the insightful Mike Horne, a pastor, counselor, and entrepreneur, who helped us navigate the reasons why men cheat and the emotional aftermath of their infidelities. This episode offers a rare glimpse into the psyche of the unfaithful partner, providing valuable insights for both men and women. Whether you're seeking understanding, healing, or simply interested in the dynamics of relationships, this episode is a must-listen. Join us on this journey as we break down barriers and foster open, honest discussions about the issues that matter. Don't miss out on this enlightening conversation. Tune in now. Remember, your understanding matters in these conversations. Listen, learn, and let's grow together.

    Betrayal and Heartache: The Wife's Journey Through Infidelity with special guest Genesis Martin (Licensed Professional Family Therapist)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 14, 2023 67:45


    Man-Talk Mondays continues its bold new series, "Shattered Bonds: Unveiling the Impact of Infidelity on Family Dynamics". In the second episode, we explore a heartbreaking narrative: The Wife's Journey Through Infidelity. Joined once again by Genesis Martin, a licensed professional family therapist, we dive into the emotional turmoil, the sense of betrayal, and the long journey of healing that a wife endures in the face of infidelity. This episode promises to touch on the raw, emotional realities that countless women face, offering insights into the path of recovery and resilience. Join us as we dissect the many layers of heartache and the strength it takes to move forward. Tune in, subscribe, and share your thoughts with us. Let's create a safe space for these important, often hushed, conversations. #ShatteredBonds #ManTalkMondays #GenesisMartin #TheWifesJourney

    Unveiling the Other Woman: The Side Chick's Point of View with special guest Genesis Martin (Licensed Professional Therapist)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2023 68:34


    Get ready to redefine your understanding of relationships as Man-Talk Mondays launches a daring new series, "Shattered Bonds: Unveiling the Impact of Infidelity on Family Dynamics". In our first episode, we take on an unconventional narrative: The Side Chick's Perspective. Genesis Martin, a renowned licensed professional therapist, joins us in this thought-provoking exploration. We delve into the unspoken complexities and psychological realities of being 'the other woman', and the ripple effect it has on families. This episode challenges preconceptions, broadens understanding, and dismantles assumptions. Join us as we uncover the intricate dynamics of infidelity and its aftermath. Tune in, subscribe, and don't forget to share your thoughts. Let's ignite a dialogue on a topic that's widely prevalent, yet rarely discussed. #ShatteredBonds #ManTalkMondays #GenesisMartin #UnveilingTheOtherWoman

    Unlocking The Friend Zone: From Best Friend to Boo Thang

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 2, 2023 65:30


    Find yourself forever the best friend, never the love interest? Tune into Man-Talk Mondays' revealing episode "Unlocking The Friend Zone: From Best Friend to Boo Thang". We demystify the 'friend zone', offering five actionable strategies to transition from platonic pals to romantic partners. Join us as we decode the art of evolving relationships, and prepare to step beyond the boundaries of friendship into the realm of romance. Don't miss out - your love story might just be a podcast away! Subscribe and review.

    Step Daddy vs Real Daddy with special guest Kevin Lewis

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2023 67:32


    In this riveting episode of Man-Talk Mondays, we dive deep into the often overlooked, complex world of blended families. Tackling the emotional and practical challenges of being a stepfather, we unravel the intricate dynamics of raising another woman's kids while maintaining your identity as a man, a father, and a partner. But what happens when the tables are turned? When it's your kids being raised by another man? We explore this side of the coin too, bringing to light the struggles, insecurities, and the necessary growth that comes with sharing parental roles. Whether you're a stepdad, a biological father in a blended family, or you're dating and want to avoid potential pitfalls of becoming a step parent, this episode is a must-listen. Join us as we dissect these scenarios, offer strategies for navigating them, and share stories from real people walking this path. Tune in to "Step Daddy vs. Real Daddy" - an episode filled with powerful insights, raw emotion, and practical advice. It's time to foster understanding, build bridges, and start conversations that matter in the world of modern fatherhood.

    How To Know If You're A Side Chick

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2023 63:10


    Welcome to another eye-opening episode of Man-Talk Mondays! This week, we're diving deep into a hot topic that has everyone talking: "How To Know If You're A Side Chick."

    I Thought That Bone Was Buried (Freaknik Chronicles)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2023 58:19


    The word has gotten out recently about a documentary called "Freaknik Chronicles" that features a "festival" in Atlanta from the late 90's, and it now has people who attended worried about seeing the foolishness they did in their past. It got us thinking, what would you do if your past was now made public for the world to see? Listen in to the discussion as we talk about the dangers of our past and how to handle them!

    Infertility and the Impact on Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2023 67:00


    The struggle of trying to conceive and have a baby is real!! What do you do when all of your efforts still yield no results? How do you stay patient and remain hopeful when it seems like nothing is working? How does it affect your marriage? Take a listen to the conversation as 3 married couples discuss their journeys with infertility.

    Relationship Withdrawal! (Detoxing From Past Relationships)

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 11, 2023 63:06


    What happens when you know you should be single, working on yourself, getting your mind right, but you keep ending up in relationship after relationship? It's like a drug! When you try to quit, "It just keeps calling me, man! It just keeps calling me!" (Pookie from New Jack City reference). Listen in as we discuss the issue of Relationship Withdrawal!

    I'm Better Than This! (Should I Settle or Stay Single?)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2023 65:12


    What happens when you've been on the dating scene far longer than you wanted to be? You have your standards, but you're tired of being alone? What do you do? Do you settle or just stay single and hold out for what you really want? Take a listen to the conversation! Thanks for listening!!

    Relationships: Hell or Healthy

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2023 67:32


    How do you know if you're in a healthy relationship or not? Listen in as we discuss 10 signs of a healthy relationship and 10 signs of an unhealthy relationship.

    Check It At The Door: How to Keep Family and Friend's Issues From Impacting Your Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2023 65:50


    How do you keep other people's foolishness from becoming your foolishness? We want to be there for our family and friends when they're going through difficulties, but when does it become too much? Listen in as we discuss how to keep the outside negativity out of your relationship!

    When Mama Needs a Man or a Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2023 62:41


    There's nothing more important to a man than his mama...until his woman shows up! What happens when mama's demands begin to interfere with your marriage or relationship? Listen is as Comedian John Yoggi has a huge epiphany about the relationship between his wife and his mom!

    Why Are You Trying To Control Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2023 63:22


    Why do people feel the need to control those they are in relationship with, be it romantic, family, or friendships? Listen in to the discussion as we get down to what the issue might be.

    When You Can't Avoid the D-Word in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2023 68:00


    Take a listen as we discuss issues in marriage that lead to divorce.

    I Chose Wrong, So Now What? (Feeling Stuck in Marriage and Relationships)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 68:08


    You had the storybook romance, the lavish wedding, but now you feel trapped in a bad dream. What do you do? How do you cope? How did things get this bad? Listen in to the conversation to find out more!

    5 Mistakes I Made With My Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2023 53:06


    If you're newly married, thinking about marriage, or have been married for some time and can relate, you don't want to miss this podcast! These 5 things is not an exhaustive list, but just some of the things we with we had done better with our wives. Listen in to the conversation! Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast!

    When Your Greatness Doesn't Follow You Home: Cutz and Conversations (Live Barbershop Recording)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2023 53:04


    In this episode, we head to Brooklyn's Cuts and Designs barbershop for a live conversation about how men can be so great and achieve such great things outside the home, but struggle to be great inside the home. How is it that some guys can kill it in their professional careers but fail so miserably in their private lives? Listen in to the conversation! Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast! Thanks!

    Are You Man/Woman Enough For Marriage??

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2022 66:48


    When we say our vows, we say "for better or worse, for richer or poor, in sickness and in health", how ready are you for the ups and downs of marriage? Take a listen to the discussion?

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    Bro, She Ain't Wifey Material!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2022 63:39


    Do we know when we're making a good decision on somebody to be in a relationship with? The dating pool has pee in it, but nobody is asking who peed in it! Listen in to the conversation as we discuss what makes a person worth your time!

    Social Media Mirage...Love or Lies??

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2022 68:15


    You ever see couples on social media and they look so happy, and the next week, their status changes from "In a Relationship" to "The Streets are Calling Me"?? What's really real with relationships on social media? Listen in to the conversation!

    Serious as a Heart Attack with special guests Fred & Tara Robinson

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2022 66:15


    According to the CDC, heart disease is the leading cause of death for men, women, and people of most racial and ethnic groups in the United States. How serious do we take it? How do we prevent it? Listen in to this important conversation about heart health with our special guests, Fred & Tara Robinson of the Black Heart Association.

    Too Hurt To Love Again: Healing From Past Relationships (with special guest Dr. Rod Stodghill)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2022 66:36


    In this episode, we discuss the hurts and pains from past relationships. How do we heal? What happens if we drag that hurt into our new relationships? Take a listen as we get into this discussion with our special guest, Dr. Rod Stodghill !

    Dreams & Distractionz with Special Guest, Recording Artist, Antonio

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 10, 2022 66:39


    Chasing your dreams is hard, but how much does it change when you have responsibilities like family and a job? What are the challenges that come along with pursuing a dream? Listen in as we discuss this topic with our special guest, recording Artist Antonio Drake! Don't miss this conversation!

    Loving On "E" (Coping with Emotional Deprivation)

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2022 67:08


    What do you do when you give and give, but it seems like it's never reciprocated? What happens when you feel like you're running on "E"? How do you get refilled? Who does Superman turn to when he needs someone to rescue him? Listen in to the conversation about emotional deprivation with our special guest, Mike Horn (Pastor, Speaker, Entrepreneur)!

    Child Support is B.S.! Debate Me!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2022 64:31


    If you're dealing with, or have dealt with child support, and all the relationship issues surrounding it, you have to check out this episode!

    Data Dating: Is The Information Age Killing Dating?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2022 62:52


    How much information is too much information when you're dating? What are the challenges when dating in today's society with things like the internet and social media? Please listen in to the conversation!

    Daddies...Do We Need Them??

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2022 67:34


    Many of us have dealt with personally, or come in contact with someone, who has grown up without a father in their home, or even in their life. How critical was that absence? Are you okay? Are you sure? Take a listen to this powerful episode with our special guest, Dr. Rod Stodghill.

    When Men "Go Dark" (Why Men Become Silent)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 61:01


    Does your husband seem withdrawn? Does he answer you with few words? Is he hesitant to open up to you? Want to know why that might be? Listen in to this discussion!

    Which Comes First...The Husband or The Baby Daddy??

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 64:55


    There's a prevailing idea today that you don't need a man to have a family. In this episode, we explore a couple of videos that seem to imply that husbands and fathers are mutually exclusive ideas. Why would a woman have a baby with a man she wouldn't marry? Listen in to the discussion.

    Blended Families: The Realities of Step-Parenting

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 66:53


    Many people that get married today find themselves in a situation where they become a stepmother or stepfather to someone else's child or children. In this episode, we discuss just how real that situation can get. Take a listen!

    But You Say He's Just A Friend

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 62:47


    In this episode, we address a letter from a young man whose wife recently went back to school for her nursing degree, but now he suspects her of cheating on him with someone in her class.

    Open Marriage...The Approved Infidelity

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2021 64:47


    Open marriage is a hot topic with married people, and people in relationships, but why? Is this the new revolutionary way to fix marriages? Listen in to the conversation!

    The True Cost of a Good Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 65:27


    Nobody goes into a marriage to fail, but how many of us consider just how much it really takes to have a good one? You don't want to miss this episode!

    LIMP Conversations

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 61:41


    We often hear how important communication is in a relationship, but how real is your communication game?? Just how courageous are your conversations? Don't miss this episode.

    LIMP Conversations 2: A Conversation With the Wives

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 67:18


    In this episode, the wives are joining us to discuss the difficult conversations we have in marriage.

    LIMP Conversations 2 (The Aftershow)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 48:37


    This is the extended version of LIMP Conversations 2: A Conversation With the Wives

    LIMP Conversations 3: Expert Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2021 64:17


    As men, we often suffer in silence, but we don't have to. We often fail to get the right information, but this week, Man-Talk Mondays is bringing the information to you. If you are a man, or if you're a woman who loves a man, please listen to this episode with our conversation with award-winning urologist, and sexual medicine expert, Dr. Judson Brandeis.

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    Is The Ring Everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2021 47:59


    Is marriage the best option? How are couples choosing to do relationship commitments today, and are they making the right decisions? Take a listen to this insightful episode!

    Marriage & Relationships...Why is Staying Together So Hard?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2021 56:23


    Nowadays, it seems the most challenging thing you can take on is not a new career, nor a new diet and fitness plan, nor getting a degree after being out of school for years. The most challenging thing to do now is marriage and relationships. But why?? Listen in to the discussion.

    When A Man's Fed Up!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2021 44:07


    We often hear about women being fed up. The write songs about it, make movies about it, and have all types of sayings to accommodate the idea, but what about men? We get fed up too! Take a listen!

    Who or What is Ruining Relationships??

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 47:22


    Listen in as we discuss the issues and misguided notions that are ruining relationships!

    Ladies, You Sure You Wanna Be Equal?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 54:41


    Does the fight for equality for women have limits or does it apply everywhere? Can women pick and choose where they want to be equal? Listen in to the discussion.

    The Wins and Woes of Newlyweds

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2021 63:01


    In this episode, we're joined by Dr. Salena Smith, talking about the challenges newlyweds face in marriage. We're discussing some things young couples can do to minimize their issues when they first get married.

    Men Holding Women Accountable

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2021 45:04


    What does accountability look like for women? Are women too guarded and protected or not enough? How do men deal with holding women accountable? Check out the conversation to hear what the men had to say!

    What Happened To The Chase? Men Refusing to Pursue Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2021 46:02


    The dating world has changed a lot over the years, but has everyone made the adjustments? There are women out there that feel like men aren't putting in the work to gain their affection anymore. In this episode, we discuss what the problem could be. Take a listen!

    Our Bed Ain't Rockin Anymore

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2021 52:47


    Is someone neglecting to put another log on the fire? Where has that passion and fire you had in the beginning gone? Why is that flame so hard to maintain? Listen in to the conversation!

    Marriage...Not Made For Men Anymore

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2021 65:48


    Why are today's men refusing to get married?? We talk about the 5 reasons why men are saying NO to marriage! Please listen in to the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    LADIES...Assume The Position

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2021 52:10


    Women have the right to any position in life they want, but which one is more beneficial for the family? Which one works better for marriage and relationships? Do modern relationships really work? Please don't miss this conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Does Cheating Kill Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2021 53:30


    Does an infidelity have to mark the end of a relationship? Please listen to the conversation! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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