Weekly Messages from Relevant Church located in Locust Grove, Ga.
Most people think they're Christians… but what if they're wrong?In this message, Clayton King tackles one of the most important questions you could ever ask: How do you know you're truly saved?So many people build their faith on misconceptions:“I'm a good person”“I was raised in a Christian family”“I love everyone”“I go to church”But none of those guarantee eternal life.The Bible gives a clear answer:“If you confess with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” — Romans 10:9In this sermon, you'll discover:✔ What real salvation actually looks like✔ The difference between religion and true faith✔ How to know with confidence that you have eternal lifeThis isn't about guessing.This is about KNOWING.
The Conversation Couples Need to HaveThis might be the most important—and most uncomfortable—conversation we've had on the podcast.After this week's message, we realized something: A lot of couples aren't struggling with love… they're struggling with intimacy.In this episode, Carl and Julie open up about the real challenges couples face, the lessons they've learned over the years, and practical ways to rebuild connection in marriage.We're talking about the things most couples avoid:• Why intimacy can feel frustrating or painful• The real reason many couples feel disconnected• How men and women approach intimacy differently• The silent killers of intimacy (that no one talks about)• And simple, practical ways to start reconnectingGod designed intimacy to strengthen your marriage—not strain it.But without communication, intention, and pursuit… it can quickly become a source of distance instead of connection.
What if the biggest threat to your marriage isn't an affair… money… or even conflict?What if it's unlimited access to you.In today's world, everything demands your attention — work, phones, social media, coworkers, family expectations, and constant distractions. And when everyone has access to you, your spouse often gets whatever is left.Most marriages don't collapse in one dramatic moment. They slowly erode through a thousand small permissions.A little more access here.A little less protection there.Late nights at work.Private conversations.Phones that become more guarded than the relationship.And before anyone realizes it, the boundaries that once protected the marriage are gone. In this episode of The Good Life Podcast, we talk about how to build healthy boundaries that protect your marriage and family so they don't just survive — they thrive.We cover:• Why boundaries are protection, not rejection• The vineyard principle that explains how marriages slowly deteriorate• The 6 areas where every marriage needs boundaries• Why busyness is quietly starving relationships• How social media and phones are impacting marriages• Emotional boundaries that protect against affairs• Financial transparency that builds trust• Practical boundaries every couple should implement todayWe also walk through biblical wisdom from Romans 12:1–2 on living differently than the patterns of the world — including in our marriages.If you want a stronger marriage, healthier relationships, and a thriving family, this conversation will challenge and encourage you.
We've Got Issues | Boundary Issues | Carl NicholsIn this message from our We've Got Issues series, Pastor Carl Nichols talks about one of the biggest challenges in modern marriages: boundaries. Culture constantly tries to shape how relationships work, but God's Word calls us to something better. When boundaries are unclear or ignored, marriages often drift toward what culture says is normal instead of what God designed. In this message, we explore six areas where marriages commonly struggle with boundaries and how Scripture helps us protect what matters most.Looking for the homework? Head here: https://www.myrelevant.cc/boundariesRomans 12:1–2 reminds us not to conform to the pattern of this world but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds.Topics covered in this message:In-law boundariesWork & time boundariesDigital & electronic boundariesEmotional & opposite-sex boundariesFinancial boundariesSexual boundariesHealthy boundaries are not about rejection—they are about protection.When we intentionally establish them, we create space for trust, intimacy, and a marriage that honors God.Boundaries don't limit love—they protect it.
Why do healthy couples still fight?It's not always a love problem. Most of the time… it's a wiring problem. in this episode of The Good Life Podcast, we break down The Five Temperaments (Simplified) and how understanding your internal processing style can completely transform communication in your marriage. Conflict isn't optional. Avoidance is. And avoidance always leads to distance, assumptions, and resentment. Using biblical wisdom like Ephesians 4:26 and James 1:19, we explore why unresolved anger becomes poison — and how emotionally healthy engagement builds peace instead of tension.You'll learn:• Why communication breaks down over time • The 5 temperaments and how each processes conflict • Why your spouse isn't wrong — just different • A practical communication model that actually works • How to take a healthy “time out” without creating distance • How to repair quickly and build lasting connectionThe Five Temperaments:• Choleric – The Driver • Sanguine – The Expressor • Phlegmatic – The Peacekeeper • Melancholic – The Analyzer • Supine – The ServantTwo imperfect people doing life together daily is a recipe for conflict — especially with kids, stress, and unmet expectations.But peace isn't built through silence. It's built through effort. If this helps you, share it with someone who needs it.Let's build marriages that engage — not avoid.
Nobody talks about this part of relationships. The real issue isn't compatibility. It isn't communication. It's selfishness.In this message, we unpack how culture has shaped marriage around advantage, legacy, and control — and how the Gospel completely flips that mindset upside down. Walking through Romans 12:9–10, we'll look at what it actually means to love sincerely, honor one another, and dismantle selfishness in our relationships.If you've ever felt tension, pride, or power struggles in your marriage or dating relationship… this one's for you.Watch until the end — this might challenge you.
When does Julie feel most loved?When does Carl feel most respected?And what does it actually mean to “submit” in marriage?In this episode, we're diving into one of the most misunderstood passages in the Bible; Ephesians 5 — and unpacking what love, respect, headship, and submission really mean in context.We explore:• How marriage worked in the Roman world• The five modern patterns of marriage we fall into• Why the Gospel dismantles selfishness• What “submit to one another” actually means• The difference between domination and devotion• The real meaning of agape love and biblical respectThe world's pattern of marriage asks: What do I get? The Gospel's pattern asks: What can I give?And at the end… we ask each other questions we didn't prepare for. No rehearsed answers. No editing the emotion. Just real conversation. If you're married, engaged, dating, or just trying to understand what biblical marriage really looks like, this conversation is for you.Love isn't chemistry.Respect isn't fear.Marriage isn't negotiation.It's covenant.
What if the fight you had last night wasn't random… but rehearsed?In this episode of our We've Got Issues Marriage & Family series, we tackle something most couples avoid talking about:Sin.Not just “mistakes.”Not just “bad communication.”Not just “trauma.”We're talking about:Present sin ,Past sin, Hidden sin, Sin done to you, & Sin done by youBecause every family issue traces back to someone's sin.Sometimes it's your spouse.Sometimes it's your kids.Sometimes it's wounds from your past.And sometimes… it's you.We break down:The root of all sin (choosing self over God)The three categories from 1 John 2:16 — lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes, pride of lifeHow sin trains your nervous system and creates patternsWhy trauma explains reactions but doesn't excuse sinful responsesHow hidden sin silently shapes your tone, patience, and presenceWhat real repentance actually looks like at homeWhy sin feels so right in the moment — and why it always overpromises and underdeliversIf you're tired of rehearsing the same conflict, carrying the same resentment, or living in the same cycle — this conversation is for you.Because sin is never marketed as destruction…It's marketed as freedom.And until it's addressed, it will keep shaping your marriage and family.#Marriage #ChristianMarriage #Family #Repentance #WeveGotIssues
We're kicking off a brand-new series called We've Got Issues — and no, it's not about how your family is worse than everyone else's. It's about being human.Every marriage. Every parent. Every home. We all have issues. But most of what we call “family problems” are really heart problems. Not just communication issues. Not just schedule conflicts. Not just personality differences.At the root? Sin.In this message, we walk through Epistle to the Romans 3:9–12 and uncover a hard but freeing truth: we don't have occasional sin problems — we have a sin nature. And until we name the real issue, we'll keep chasing the wrong solutions. This isn't about behavior modification. t's about heart transformation. If you name the wrong problem, you'll chase the wrong solution. But where sin is named, grace can finally do its work.Healed families start with honest hearts.
Every civilization thinks it finally figured out sex. Rome thought that. America thinks that. Scripture says… not so fast.
Every civilization thinks it finally figured out sex. Rome thought that. America thinks that. Scripture says… not so fast.
When worship drifts, desire disorders. What we love shapes how we live.Romans 1:21–32 shows a pattern most people never notice happening in their own life:They knew God.They stopped honoring God.They stopped thanking God.Their thinking became futile.Their hearts were darkened.They exchanged truth for lies.They worshiped created things rather than the Creator.
When worship drifts, desire disorders. What we love shapes how we live.Romans 1:21–32 shows a pattern most people never notice happening in their own life:They knew God.They stopped honoring God.They stopped thanking God.Their thinking became futile.Their hearts were darkened.They exchanged truth for lies.They worshiped created things rather than the Creator.
Welcome back to Episode 3 of Season 2 of The Good Life Podcast
Welcome back to Episode 3 of Season 2 of The Good Life Podcast
What if the problem in our world isn't political… social… or generational? What if it's worship?In Romans 1:18–23, Paul gives a chilling progression that explains exactly why societies unravel, why truth feels blurred, why anxiety is rising, and why confusion seems to sit on the throne of our culture.This message exposes the real issue underneath it all:Not a morality problem.Not an information problem.A worship problem.In this message, Carl Nichols walks through how:• Truth gets suppressed• Gratitude disappears• Pride masquerades as progress• Confusion replaces clarity• And idols begin to look normalYou'll see why the chaos we're experiencing isn't random — it's the natural result of exchanging the glory of God for something else.
What if the problem in our world isn't political… social… or generational? What if it's worship?In Romans 1:18–23, Paul gives a chilling progression that explains exactly why societies unravel, why truth feels blurred, why anxiety is rising, and why confusion seems to sit on the throne of our culture.This message exposes the real issue underneath it all:Not a morality problem.Not an information problem.A worship problem.In this message, Carl Nichols walks through how:• Truth gets suppressed• Gratitude disappears• Pride masquerades as progress• Confusion replaces clarity• And idols begin to look normalYou'll see why the chaos we're experiencing isn't random — it's the natural result of exchanging the glory of God for something else.
Welcome back to Episode 2 of Season 2 of The Good Life Podcast
Welcome back to Episode 2 of Season 2 of The Good Life Podcast
Season 2 of The Good Life Podcast is officially here!
Season 2 of The Good Life Podcast is officially here!
You don't have a behavior problem, you have a truth problem.In Romans 1:16–20, Paul reminds us that truth isn't something we create or feel into existence; it's something God reveals. This message confronts the lies of relativism, self-created identity, and pluralism, and calls us back to living by faith, not feelings.The gospel reveals the righteousness of God, the power of salvation, and the truth that sets us free. The question is simple: Will you live by feelings, or will you live by faith?Tune in to The Good Life Podcast weekly to explore this week's message and other topics that will help you live The Good Life God designed for you.https://youtube.com/@thegoodlifewithcarlnichols?si=OhfsNYn9VCKliXlU
You don't have a behavior problem, you have a truth problem.In Romans 1:16–20, Paul reminds us that truth isn't something we create or feel into existence; it's something God reveals. This message confronts the lies of relativism, self-created identity, and pluralism, and calls us back to living by faith, not feelings.The gospel reveals the righteousness of God, the power of salvation, and the truth that sets us free. The question is simple: Will you live by feelings, or will you live by faith?Tune in to The Good Life Podcast weekly to explore this week's message and other topics that will help you live The Good Life God designed for you.https://youtube.com/@thegoodlifewithcarlnichols?si=OhfsNYn9VCKliXlU
I've Got Issues | “I've Got Faith Issues” | Pastor Carl NicholsMost people don't struggle with believing in God, they struggle with trusting God.In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols challenges a common misconception about faith. We don't usually doubt God's existence; we wrestle with whether He is truly good and trustworthy. Using Romans 1 and Hebrews 11, this teaching unpacks what faith really is, how it grows, and how it's revealed through obedience.
I've Got Issues | “I've Got Faith Issues” | Pastor Carl NicholsMost people don't struggle with believing in God, they struggle with trusting God.In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols challenges a common misconception about faith. We don't usually doubt God's existence; we wrestle with whether He is truly good and trustworthy. Using Romans 1 and Hebrews 11, this teaching unpacks what faith really is, how it grows, and how it's revealed through obedience.
If you don't know who you are, you'll keep acting out of who you're not.We're living in a time where identity confusion is everywhere. Culture is shaping how people see themselves, often in ways that leave them feeling replaceable, self-made, and ultimately lost. In this message, we confront the root of the issue and return to the truth of who we are in Christ.
If you don't know who you are, you'll keep acting out of who you're not.We're living in a time where identity confusion is everywhere. Culture is shaping how people see themselves, often in ways that leave them feeling replaceable, self-made, and ultimately lost. In this message, we confront the root of the issue and return to the truth of who we are in Christ.
Christmas is not just the celebration of a birth—it's the arrival of hope into a hopeless world. Join Pastor Carl Nichols as he shares how the promise of Jesus meets us right in the middle of our mess.
Christmas is not just the celebration of a birth—it's the arrival of hope into a hopeless world. Join Pastor Carl Nichols as he shares how the promise of Jesus meets us right in the middle of our mess.
God entrusted world-changing news to ordinary shepherds. What if He wants to do the same through you?In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols walks through Luke 2:15–20 and reminds us not to miss the moments where God is inviting us to share hope, step out in faith, and lead others to an encounter with Jesus.
God entrusted world-changing news to ordinary shepherds. What if He wants to do the same through you?In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols walks through Luke 2:15–20 and reminds us not to miss the moments where God is inviting us to share hope, step out in faith, and lead others to an encounter with Jesus.
What if you're not waiting on a miracle—what if you're already standing inside one?In “Miracle in the Making,” Pastor Carl Nichols challenges us to see what God is already doing in our lives and in our church. Drawing from Nehemiah 12:43, this Christmas message reminds us that miracles are often not single moments, but stories God is still writing.If God has brought us this far, imagine what's still ahead. This isn't the end—it's a miracle in the making.
What if you're not waiting on a miracle—what if you're already standing inside one?In “Miracle in the Making,” Pastor Carl Nichols challenges us to see what God is already doing in our lives and in our church. Drawing from Nehemiah 12:43, this Christmas message reminds us that miracles are often not single moments, but stories God is still writing.If God has brought us this far, imagine what's still ahead. This isn't the end—it's a miracle in the making.
Gratitude isn't just a feeling — it's a response. In this message, Pastor Daniel Foster walks through the story of Nehemiah to show how praise, gratitude, and generosity are always connected. When we remember God's faithfulness, it moves us to worship… and to give. Let this message inspire you to celebrate God's goodness and respond with a grateful heart.
Gratitude isn't just a feeling — it's a response. In this message, Pastor Daniel Foster walks through the story of Nehemiah to show how praise, gratitude, and generosity are always connected. When we remember God's faithfulness, it moves us to worship… and to give. Let this message inspire you to celebrate God's goodness and respond with a grateful heart.
As we step into the next chapter God is writing, we're called to pray boldly and obey courageously. In Nehemiah 11, the people volunteered to move, give, and commit in ways that cost them something—but opened the door to everything God wanted to build.In this message, Pastor Carl unpacks what it means to live out our identity, beliefs, and commitments with bold faith. Obedience always costs something, but disobedience costs more. Faith takes you farther than fear wants you to go. And new chapters always require new commitments.Let's step into the future God has for us—together.
As we step into the next chapter God is writing, we're called to pray boldly and obey courageously. In Nehemiah 11, the people volunteered to move, give, and commit in ways that cost them something—but opened the door to everything God wanted to build.In this message, Pastor Carl unpacks what it means to live out our identity, beliefs, and commitments with bold faith. Obedience always costs something, but disobedience costs more. Faith takes you farther than fear wants you to go. And new chapters always require new commitments.Let's step into the future God has for us—together.
We cleared out what doesn't matter — now it's time to double down on what does. In Nehemiah 10, the people didn't just repent, they rebuilt. When God is first in our priorities, our finances, and our future, blessing follows purpose. In this message, Pastor Carl shows us how trust becomes the foundation, “first” becomes the framework, and obedience becomes the lifestyle that builds a legacy that lasts.
We cleared out what doesn't matter — now it's time to double down on what does. In Nehemiah 10, the people didn't just repent, they rebuilt. When God is first in our priorities, our finances, and our future, blessing follows purpose. In this message, Pastor Carl shows us how trust becomes the foundation, “first” becomes the framework, and obedience becomes the lifestyle that builds a legacy that lasts.
We all want God to build something great in our lives. But before He builds, He clears. In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols shows how clutter—spiritual, emotional, and financial—can block the very blessings we're praying for. Through the story in Nehemiah, we learn that confession brings clarity, commitment brings change, and generosity makes room for revival. If you're ready for God to move, it's time to clear out the clutter.
We all want God to build something great in our lives. But before He builds, He clears. In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols shows how clutter—spiritual, emotional, and financial—can block the very blessings we're praying for. Through the story in Nehemiah, we learn that confession brings clarity, commitment brings change, and generosity makes room for revival. If you're ready for God to move, it's time to clear out the clutter.
Pastor Carl Nichols challenges us to move from passive faith to active obedience. The difference between those who just sit and those who truly make a difference is simple—obedience. Discover how God is calling you to be a laborer in His harvest, not just a spectator. The harvest is ready… will you clock in?
Pastor Carl Nichols challenges us to move from passive faith to active obedience. The difference between those who just sit and those who truly make a difference is simple—obedience. Discover how God is calling you to be a laborer in His harvest, not just a spectator. The harvest is ready… will you clock in?
You don't have to stay stuck in your pain. In this message from Pastor Carl Nichols, discover how true healing begins with honesty before God, grows as we remember His goodness, and deepens when we walk together in community. Jesus carried what broke us so He could become what heals us.
You don't have to stay stuck in your pain. In this message from Pastor Carl Nichols, discover how true healing begins with honesty before God, grows as we remember His goodness, and deepens when we walk together in community. Jesus carried what broke us so He could become what heals us.
Faith isn't born from confusion—it's born from clarity. In this message, Pastor Carl unpacks how God's Word, when proclaimed with courage and clarity, transforms hearts and ignites faith. Through Nehemiah 8 and Acts 2, we see how understanding brings belief, humility brings change, and boldness brings revival.
Faith isn't born from confusion—it's born from clarity. In this message, Pastor Carl unpacks how God's Word, when proclaimed with courage and clarity, transforms hearts and ignites faith. Through Nehemiah 8 and Acts 2, we see how understanding brings belief, humility brings change, and boldness brings revival.
Everyone longs to belong — and God designed the Church to be more than a crowd you sit in, but a family you belong to. In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols reminds us that we are known by name, welcomed into God's family, and called to make a difference. You were made for more — to live with identity, belonging, and purpose.
Everyone longs to belong — and God designed the Church to be more than a crowd you sit in, but a family you belong to. In this message, Pastor Carl Nichols reminds us that we are known by name, welcomed into God's family, and called to make a difference. You were made for more — to live with identity, belonging, and purpose.
Loneliness doesn't care about age, status, or success—we all feel it. But you're not forgotten. Just like Mufasa's story and even Jesus' own journey, loneliness doesn't have to define your life. Join Pastor Carl as we discover hope, healing, and purpose when we feel unseen.
Loneliness doesn't care about age, status, or success—we all feel it. But you're not forgotten. Just like Mufasa's story and even Jesus' own journey, loneliness doesn't have to define your life. Join Pastor Carl as we discover hope, healing, and purpose when we feel unseen.
© 2020-2026 Ivy Podcast Discovery LLC
