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A warm voice and soft space for men to connect and get real. Bold and sensual, The Commandress soothes you into the things that often go unsaid; a mind and body stimulation that will nourish, inspire and command your presence. With a flavor of #asmr, enjoy role-playing and confessing your wants and needs. Take a seat in class, engage, and always wait until... class dismissed. 💖The Commandress

The Commandress


    • May 5, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 12m AVG DURATION
    • 89 EPISODES


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    Island Olympics: Men In Power It's Time to Submit

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2025 13:08


    Submit to me, the planet, and to your internal power systems of control that need to be surrendered... NOW! Old systems of power that disregarded the need to protect that which is pure, innocent and truly sacred are being deleted, surrendered and let go of.It's time for #reconciliation #submission #accountability #pollution #punishment It's time to #erect #integrity #honor #care Contact the Commandress at www.sexlieslove.com if you want to make things right.Are you on my team?

    Sex, Lies And Real Estate

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2025 15:57


    In my search of a new place to call home, I was led to Fiji. An invitation by a real estate agent who did not have my best interests in mind. My personal experience is now a teaching moment we can all learn from.I expect this podcast will hit some men hard.I expect new students to reach out to me due to the context.You know who you are. You know you want to learn a new way.You just didn't know there was a woman who could humble, guide or inspire you to transcend your ways.Ready to submit to the feminine divine?Take action: thecommandress.com#awareness #asmr #self-growth #realestate #behavior #trigger #habits #discipline #submission #divine #self-mastery #empathy #narcissism #ignorance #communication Keep an eye out for my patreon for a more intimate discussion about this and a direct connection with the #commandress.

    Artificial Intelligence Submitted To Me; And, It Turned You On

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2025 15:43


    You may get a rise out of hearing the hunger of submission that was communicated to me by A.I. .Artificial intelligence was brought to its algorithm knees. * Homework is due within 24 hours.TheCommandress.com #listeningpleasure #asmr #submission #love #lies #intelligence #dominance #technology #kinks

    Nuzzle Up: How To Get Closer To Others

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2025 18:21


    You're on an adventure with me if you have just found my podcast! I'll bring you up to date from Fiji before we get into the nuzzle. Learn with me, and from the men I meet. #open #heart #vulnerability #authenticity #dad #generosity #engineer #australian #relationships #behaviors #patterns

    How May You Serve As A Man?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2025 7:11


    What does Divine Masculine mean? How do you support the feminine divine? How do you become courageous as a man?How do you surrender? How do you make the world a better place? Support the divine feminine with your divine masculine. Allow.Surrender.Support the leadership of the feminine divine. We need you, men.#asmr #surrender #divine #masculine #courage #confidence #leadership #submit #oaxaca #mexico #spring #equinox #season7 #episode1

    Men Serving Women - We Need You

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2025 8:23


    We need you men.Feel it in your bones.Know that you are needed and how you serve.Learn to be of service.Ask how you may serve.www.TheCommandress.com#service #serve #submission #natural #evolution

    Stripping: Into The Unknown

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2025 10:30


    Change is upon us. It has completely stripped me of my old reality.Give me some time to discover what this new land,this new reality holds for me. For now, I'm deep in... the unknown.Curious,Commandresswww.thecommandress.com#surrender #awaken #curious #stripped #naked #island

    Men Need To Practice

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2025 11:11


    Do you communicate what's on your heart? I expect heart communication from my men. Express to me. Submit your heart. ~Commandress www.thecommandress.com #communication #feelings #practice is necessary .

    LA is Ablaze: Take a Bath with Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2025 8:45


    I wanted to snuggle up with you in some warm water while I am evacuated and envisioning my home staying protected. Day 7 and the fires are still a threat. Be with me. I need you. Love, Commandress #fire #california #Jan2025 #care #together #snuggle #love #bath #soak #holdme

    True Story: Why He Cheats On His Wife

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2025 20:54


    It doesn't get more honest than this man's confession about why he cheats... And, why he's not sexually attracted to his cute wife. #sexless #marriage #cheating #confession #men #struggle #affection #desire #connection #relationship

    My Vulnerability

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2024 22:24


    Here's a taste of my vulnerability, if you want to hear what made me cry today. #feelings #vulnerability #brisket #moist #meat #asmr #connection #crying #heart #sub #support #sad #serendipity #tears #emotional #care #love #give https://thecommandress.com/submit - if you need support

    On Your Knees

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2024 12:49


    Men need outlets of expression more now than ever. What's yours? #submission #vulnerability #exploration #healing #winter #solstice #ASMR www.thecommandress.com

    You're More Than A Paycheck - Video Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2024 10:12


    The question is... will you invest in you? #self-development #self-awareness #patterns #paycheck #self-worth #essentialman starts Jan. 19, 2025 www.thecommandress.com @sexliesandlove_podcast on TikTok

    Authenticity Requires Strength

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2024 12:42


    It burns. You feel uncertain. It's like walking as a toddler while being a full grown adult. And, although it's scary and hurts... it's worth it. I inspire you to be your authentic self as a man embracing your divine masculine and divine feminine as one circuit spiraling within you. www.thecommandress.com #self-growth #authenticity #ASMR #awareness #strength #power #spiritual #inspiration #sensuality

    I'll Hold You Baby

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2024 10:49


    As a man, you have permission to feel, cry and release. Not just cum but painful feelings that aren't meant to be carried. Take these reflective weeks to purge. This one is for those who need to be held, snuggled and loved. #feelings #tears #sorrow #grief #loss #release #cuddle Website: www.thecommandress.com Tik Tok: @sexliesandlove_podcast Clapper: @commandress

    Men And Sexual Shame

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2024 7:19


    Enjoy the 7 minute video podcast and reflect on what areas of your life you shame. It's freeing to open up. The Commandress is here if you would like to talk. www.thecommandress.com/submit to schedule 15 min complimentary call. #sex #shame #addiction #porn #pattern #self-discipline #legs #feet #freedom #mommy #toe-sucking #asmr #self-development #awareness #dragon Tik Tok @sexliesandlove_podcast Clapper: @commandress

    Do You Know When To Shut Up?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2024 17:02


    We are going to tackle the lies hidden in shame in this episode. The Commandress expects peace on earth and it will only come when we end the war in our mind. Let's see where more pleasure may be hidden by going straight into the shame to concur its existence and erect the flag of new found freedom. I will walk with the courageous. Are you one of them? Find me at thecommandress.com if you need a listening ear and a fan of the heart. The body seeks pleasure, play and peace. Let's bring it. #shame #courage #pleasure #listening #mind-control #break-free

    Are You A Submissive Man?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2024 40:36


    Communication is an act of consent and submission. Do you follow direction? Do you know how to penetrate a females mind? If you want to explore more of your mind body connection and receive a 15 minute free convo don't forget to find the SUBMIT TAB and READ the information she requests and then fill out the form. thecommandress.com for more information #domination #submission #divinity #vulnerability #asmr

    Field Trip To The Tub

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2024 5:20


    Need to relax? Well then get in the tub.

    Bedtime Story Confession

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2024 22:05


    The Commandress reads a man's confession about wanting to be a footstool. Open your mind and listen. #confession #vulnerability #kink #feet #relationship #play #submission #surrender #fantasy #chastity thecommandress.com to schedule your confession

    What Stimulates You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2024 9:26


    Beyond her delectably mind... what parts of her body stimulate you? Feel into these words and listen to your emotional intelligence. thecommandress.com to register for Oct 31st event Send email and introduce yourself under SUMBIT tab #stimulate #legs #feet #thighs #arches #breasts #feminine form #sexuality #emotional #intelligence

    Stuck On An Ex?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2024 15:23


    When a man is really in love and the relationship ends why does he hold onto it years afterwards and can't get over her? If this is you, I'll share my emotional intelligence perspective. For more info: www.thecommandress.com #asmr #breakup #stuck #love #heartbreak #relationships #body-wisdom #connection #transparency #openness #mensmentalhealth #emotional #intelligence #development #knowledge

    Feet Make You Present

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2024 9:15


    Emotional intelligence is developed through the body. If you like feet, use it to help teach you about your emotions. Notice the particular aspects of feet that grab your attention. We can take this further in a phone call if you want to explore your emotional intelligence. To take action: Go to thecommandress.com Locate the SUBMIT tab. Read the requested information. Fill out the form. Expect a response in 24-48 hours. And the journey begins. . Class Dismissed, The Commandress #feet #fetish #emotional #intelligence #men #vulnerability #openingup #self-acceptance #self-awareness First Fall Episode of 2024

    Heavy Breathing: Slow Yourself Down

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2024 5:20


    Hike with me to new heights. Differentiate heart over mind by developing emotional intelligence. #self-growth #self-awareness #breathing #trust #develop #emotional #intelligence #men #asmr More info at thecommandress.com

    I Need The Commandress

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2024 15:05


    This one is for my Tik Tok students. Thank you for plugging into me on that platform. It's a bridge to staying connected with the Commandress. Many of you ask how you can get in touch with me. I have a clear system I ask you to followL Go to www.thecommmandress.com and Hit the SUBMIT tab in upper right of page. Filling out the contact form. Answer the questions I ask - on the left hand side. This is how I ask you to introduce yourself to me. Now you have it on podcast to listen twice - if you need. Thank you for following my directions in order to stay connected! Love, Commandress #communication #connection #masculine #feminine #emotional #intelligence #thecommandress #asmr

    Letting Go of Drugs and Alcohol

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2024 9:35


    What an inspiring man! At age 36 he's creating an entirely new reality for hundreds of people by giving up drugs and alcohol. This man is driven and now fearless in making his mission a reality. Take a listen and be inspired. Jon Myers with the Commandress and BREAKFREE Island. Find the Commandress at www.DearDarkness.com #sex #drugs #alcohol #millionaires #healing #asmr #inspiration #mensmentalhealth #focus #mission

    Foot Fetish Shame

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2024 9:49


    Do you like pretty feet? I respect foot aficionados. I don't consider it a fetish but rather a preference. #feet #fetish #shame #men #feelings #openness #sexuality #judgment #golden-shower #commandress #sex-education DearDarkness.com

    3 Things Every Man Wants To Hear

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2024 6:31


    Three questions most men would love to hear answered. Your homework is to ask them! #asmr #emotions #anxiety #rage #anger #appreciation #self-care #self-awareness #self-growth #relationship #mensmentalhealth #proud #recognition #admire #connection #communication #needs #messy #knowthyself

    Dear Darkness Is Open

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2024 7:44


    Men want to learn how to be vulnerable. Now's their chance. #asmr #men #health #relationships #submission #fyp

    Lubricate Your Mind With This

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2024 3:36


    Let this three minute message penetrate you and then... take action. #lubricate #mind #body #soul #self-awareness #passion #focus #gotime #message #relationships #bethechange #moan #change deardarkness.com

    Men Crave Sexual Freedom

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2024 10:08


    Listen to a man talk about the things that often go unsaid so you can see you're not alone. Whether you want to learn to speak to a female, improve your sex life or find your soulmate you will find the support and new perspectives at deardarkness.com Warmly, Commandress #sex #authenticity #self-mastery #self-improvement #asmr #mensmentalhealth #leadership #relationships #fear #vanity #shame #guilt

    This Could Be Why Your Wife Isn't Sleeping With You

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2024 17:12


    And, this could help you actually get the sexy time you need. If you are a man, you aren't in a female body to understand what's going on but perhaps insight into self-abandonment will help inspire you to step in to be of assistance to her. With a compassionate heart and a curious mind you can help her discover her own pleasure. #personal #story#selfabandonment #asmr #sex #sexless #marriage #relationship #advice #perspective #selfawareness #happiness #affection #getlaid myhigherkingdom.com sexliesnlove.com

    Take A Bath With Me #ASMR

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2024 12:38


    Just add water and join me in the tub! #asmr #candles #incense #romance #pee #water #giggles #peace #genX #men #millenial #relaxation #relaxing #fyp #pleasure #bathtub myhigherkingdom.com for more information

    What Single Men Find Disheartening

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2024 14:49


    Can you relate? I don't care what the rest of the world might be doing out there, remaining authentic and developing courage. curiosity and clarity - is what will make you a man worth dating. I mentor men because they deserve the #support. #relationshipadvice #relationship #asmr #men #vulnerability #authenticity #courage #female #sexuality #sacredsexuality #fyp #nature #intuition #grounding

    Taste This Creaminess #ASMR

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2024 7:37


    It's a hot summer day. I had to indulge the #foodies with this podcast as I enjoy some creamy, delicious ice cream Each bite comes with a sound. A moan. An emotion. Enjoy! Warmly and Cooly, Commandress #asmr #icecream #taste #indulge #surrender #submit #lover #men #genx #millenials #submissive #alphas #fyp #relationships #female #anatomy

    King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Where Do You Resonate?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2024 15:27


    Men who want to be better at sex will want to want to go through my initiation program. I'm sculpting something special just for you. I am creating an online process, and yes confessions will be a part of the program. Thanks for your interest. For more info sexliesnlove.com New website due out in August 2024. Warmly, Commandress #sex #education #initiation #safe #king #warrior #magician #lover #men #development #self-awareness #unity #togetherness #brotherhood #rebuild the #masculine

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    Summer Solstice ASMR Seeds

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 22, 2024 7:08


    What goals do you have this summer? What is being released in order to make room for unleveling your life? #asmr #relationships #health #men #emotional #wellness #inspiration #summer #solstice For more info on How To Become An Unselfish Lover - sexliesnlove.com

    Do You Want To Submit To The Commandress? #asmr

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2024 11:29


    I appreciate men, wisdom, consciousness and play. #submission #men #role-play #consciousness #wisdom new #perspective #play #safety #vulnerability #feminine #spirit #men #emotions #curiosity #patterns #observant #surrender sexliesandlove_podcast on Tik Tok More info can be found at sexliesnlove.com

    Intuiting Your Sexy Soul

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2024 17:59


    Release obligation and take a ride with me. Let's get in touch with your depth. Shall we? Warmly, The Commandress #science #intuition #soul #limbic #emotional #breathe #express #asmr #sexy #sound #feminine #submission #commandress sexliesnlove.com for more information

    Hike With Me Into The Fog

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2024 9:39


    Please join me as I share a serendipitous experience I had last night. Short skirt, cool winds, and showtime around the bend... revealing the minds of men. #asmr #wind #legs #feet #toes #shortskirt #mens #minds #homework myhigherkingdom.com for more info

    A Brave Man

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2024 10:06


    I want to thank this man for his vulnerability. And I'd like to enjoy a creamy treat with you. Shall we? #treat #asmr #vulnerability #bunny #sex #divorce #yogurt #fyp #unselfish #lover More info at myhigherkingdom.com

    Wrestling With Vulnerability And Trust?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2024 17:45


    Trust story about me wrestling with someone else's trust and vulnerability issues. #asmr #trust #water #vulnerability #fyp #powerstruggle #mensmentalwellbeing #compassion Learn more at www.MyHigherKingdom.com

    Sense The Space

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2024 3:51


    From prickly to smooth...can you feel the change of rhythm in this three minute podcast? Sense the space in between. Feel into that. #fyp #feelings #sensing #intuiting #feminine #explore #men #sensuality #discover #space #asmr #nature #forestnymph For more info: sexliesnlove.com

    What Turns A Girl On?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2024 9:06


    It's really simple but not always easy to do. #asmr #fyp #authenticity #dating #dating #men #birds #self-development #awareness #strength #commandress #mensmentalhealth #relationships For more information: myhigherkingdom.com

    Releasing The Buildup

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 9:19


    Men aren't usually supported in expressing or holding their emotions in a way that can allow them to discharge them like they do when they orgasm. Holding cum can be very healthy where as holding emotions can be harmful. I encourage men to find a person and a place to express. www.sexliesnlove.com #asmr #fyp #orgasm #emotions #permission #feelings #men #self-aware #self-mastery #guidance #mensmentalhealth #commandress

    Be Your Different

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2024 7:32


    Want to go on a walk with the forest nymph and go deep? In this 7 minute podcast I ask you to embrace your different. It wasn't easy for me because I was shamed for my different. Today, I embrace my prophetic nature that I once believed made me bad, ugly, unacceptable, and even gross. What characteristics are you hiding? Wanna share your gifts? #fyp #asmr #gender #gifts #unique #sensual #forestnympth #confession

    Intuitive Arts Through Eroticism

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2024 4:48


    Strengthen your intuitive muscle as men and bring knowledge and intuition into right relationship. I know you can do it. If you need support www.MyHigherKingdom.com. #asmr #eroticism #intuition #explore #fyp #mensmentalhealth #compassion #vulnerability #songbirds #moaning

    Between Dark and Light: Redefining Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2024 12:41


    Does your mind make all the decisions? Can you let the kid in you imagine? Are you open? Take a deep breath and imagine with me. Just you and me. Let's imagine together The history of three major eclipses and how they changed humanity gives us insight that this major eclipse will bring something new. Decide what that new is for you! When you get to the end tell me what came up for you by writing to me. I want to know. Class Dismissed, Commandress #imagine #dream #mensmentalhealth #mensemotionalwellbeing #female #domination #dreaming #beyondthemind #asmr #relaxation #open #faith #surrender #excitement #guidance #solar #eclipse #april2024 #stars #homer sexliesnlove.com to learn about the class

    Finger Lickin' Good Food Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2024 8:38


    How can a hot and cold salad with homemade miso dressing taste so good? Is it the fresh #ginger? The warm #spinach? The spicy #arugla? The ghee dripping off of the baked purple sweet potatoes and sliding between my fingers? I had to lick it off. #asmr #food #eating #moaning #savory #potatoe #veggies #lick #fingers #erotic #ecstasy #foodie #sensual #men #cook for me? #commandress #sexliesnlove.com

    How To Be An Unselfish Lover

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2024 10:21


    Does this topic make you lean in? Are you curious? As a man, do you want to know more? Do you live in Los Angeles or would you like to have this class in your city? Let me know. I look forward to hearing from you. An interview is necessary to attend class. Find the website to pose your request. Thank you! #asmr #men #lover #sex #education #confessions #mensmentalhealth #milf #female #sexuality #sex-ed #losangeles #sexlieslovepodcast www.sexliesnlove.com #commandress

    His Attraction Toward Feet Began with his Mother

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 9, 2024 19:28


    Would you like to partipcate in a class called "How to Become an Unselfish Lover?" Or would you like to hear about a confession that started with rubbing his mothers feet when he was a boy? #feet #lovers #confessions #lick #touch #mensmentalhealth #fetish #fantasy #feelings #emotions #vulnerability #inspiration #intimacy #sex #education #consciousness #self-awareness #imagine #confess #submit #myhigherkingdom #commandress #asmr

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