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Send us a Text Message.We are continuing with our Dating Through The Decades Series and traveling all the way back to the 1930s. We are going to immerse ourselves into all the dating and relationship advice that was prominent in this time period. The thirties was pretty peak times for some fantastically interesting dating advice. We found some books from the 30s, articles and magazine clippings and have pulled together the most fascinating pieces of history to help us immerse ourselves in the world of 1930s dating.This episode includes:Dating advice in the 1930sRules for women in the 1930sGuidance for men on dating in the 1930sHighlight tips from the book "How to Make Love, Secrets of Wooing" from the 1930sA step-by-step (ohh baby) guide to kissing techniques from the 1930s (as outlined in Hugh Morris' book "The Art of Kissing" from 1936Magazine column advice from the 1930s1930s quiz trivia 1930s slang trivia An uncut video version of this episode is available on YouTube. Links/Resources:https://www.rd.com/list/ridiculous-dating-tips-from-the-1930s/  https://caronallanfiction.com/tag/womens-magazines-of-the-1930s/ https://richmond.com/do-s-and-don-ts-for-lovers---from-the-1930s/article_607fb0d4-b12c-11e3-b2fa-0017a43b2370.html https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0978664906/braipick-20 https://www.themarginalian.org/2014/01/15/how-to-make-love-1936-pietro-ramirez/ https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B002RGPUP0/braipick-20 https://www.smokyhillmuseum.org/file_download/inline/9e42437b-e940-4eb9-962b-dd66163d451cGet Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.Keeping with our theme of dating through the decades, today we not only talk about dating but about what life was like and many huge changes to the way people lived and worked in the 1940's. After that we give some music recommendations (of course, 1940's songs!) and then last in Dish Bish we play 1940's Trivia!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.Today we are continuing with our dating through the decades series traveling back in time to the 1950s talking all about what life was like, culture and particularly what dating looked like in the 1950s.Then we will touch on some 50s music. And stick around for Dish Bish and play some 50s trivia with us to see how much you know about 50s slang, pick up lines and trivia questions. Links/Resourceshttps://www.palmbeachpost.com/story/entertainment/movies/2012/04/30/the-long-engagement-from-yes/7174249007/ https://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2014/04/recovered-1950s-dating-guide-advises-women-appropriate-restaurant-behavior https://psychcentral.com/blog/a-glimpse-into-marriage-advice-from-the-1950s#2https://writersmama.medium.com/women-as-property-606608960319  https://medium.com/@annalloydc/prescription-uppers-from-the-1950s-and-the-patriarchy-3e68682d2f36  https://www.prb.org/resources/traditional-families-account-for-only-7-percent-of-u-s-households/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/local/wp/2014/09/04/for-the-first-time-since-the-1950s-there-is-no-typical-u-s-familyhttps://press-files.anu.edu.au/downloads/press/n7324/pdf/07_adams.pdf https://www.rd.com/list/ridiculous-dating-etiquette-rules-from-the-1950s/ https://www.yourdictionary.com/articles/1950s-slang https://roundpeg.biz/2017/03/advertising-1950s/ Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.If you've been listening to us the last few weeks you know that we have been on a pretty crazy journey through the decades. And we're not stopping anytime soon! Today we're getting groovy baby and jumping in our time machine all the way back to the 1960's! Alot happened back in the swinging sixties like humans being launched into space and walking on the moon, a revolution in social norms with clothing, music, drugs, fashion, sexuality, and civil rights. Big changes happened in the second half of the decade and the younger generation (or hippies) began to revolt against the conservative norms more common in the 1950s. They questioned authority and government and demanded more rights and freedoms for women and minorities. The Beatles and Bob Dylan were playing on everyone's radio and Woodstock Music Festival happened.Today we're talking all about what dating was like in the 60's. Sorry I meant “going steady” in the 60s. After that we give some some music recommendations of songs we like from the 60's and last in Dish Bish we play 1960's Trivia!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.Today we are continuing with a little series we have been doing on dating throughout the decades. In this episode we will be traveling back in time to the 1970s… talking all about what life was like, and particularly what dating looked like in the 1970s. But stick around because we will touch on some 70s music. Then join us and play along for some 70s trivia in Dish Bish at the end. Links/Resources:https://www.nber.org/system/files/working_papers/w19040/w19040.pdf https://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/singles-news-1970s-personal-ads-dating https://www.si.edu/spotlight/era#:~:text=In%201972%2C%20the%20Equal%20Rights,states%20for%20and%20against%20passage. https://medium.com/@fundatejar/how-dating-changed-in-1970-268ca9c75fae#:~:text=Despite%20the%20freedom%20and%20independence,car%2C%20to%20walk%20her%20home. https://time.com/5655678/black-womens-equal-pay-day-history/ 1970 Black Women & Men Debate Their Relationships On TV (full video)  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NdDUf1FVJ-w Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.Dating in the 1980s was much different then it is today. There was no looking them up on Facebook or checking out their instagram page. You couldn't even text someone to get to know them. You would pick up your landline telephone and call them up. I know.. Way too much pressure. I'm anxious just thinking about it! Today were talking all about the 80s and how dating then is different from today. So get out your crimper and tease your hair. Don't forget the entire can of hairspray! After we talk about dating in the 1980s and what life was like back then, we give a few music recommendations of our favorite songs from the 80's and last in Dish Bish we play 80's Trivia!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.Things looked pretty different in the 90s and in this episode we are going to take a trip down memory lane for some of you and re-visit several 1990s moments - from dating show clips to personal ads to commercials and more - we are talking all about dating in the 1990s. Then we will touch on some 90s music and stick around for Dish Bish near the end to play some 90s trivia with us!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.If you've been on basically any social media platform lately then you've surely seen the controversial conversation going on asking women if they were alone in the woods would they choose to be alone with a man or a bear. In today's episode we talk about where this conversation was started in the first place, go over some friends and listeners opinions on the matter, and more on this topic. Later we give some new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we play 'Pick One'!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Send us a Text Message.In this episode we are traveling back in time to the early 2000s. Get ready for all the Y2K nostalgia as we talk about dating in the early 00s. We are going to look at how people dated and made connections, what they wore, some of the fashion trends and stick around for Dish Bish at the end were we are playing a game to see if you can guess the early 2000s song or are able to finish the lyrics for some popular early 2000s music. Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In today's episode we talk all about age gaps in relationships and how they work (and don't always work) out. Sometimes it's the best option and there are plenty of happy couples who spend the rest of their lives together, and sometimes it's a predatory situation and we go over things you might want to keep an eye out for. We give some great conversation starters for couples in an age gap relationship to find out if you can make it long term and give some statistics of couples today. Next, we give some new music recommendations in Jo Jam and last for Dish Bish we try and guess what each other is saying by reading each other's lips! Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Today we are going to talk about the 4B movement and why it is picking up so much traction from women around the globe. We will answer lots of questions about this feminist movement, share our thoughts and if we would ever consider joining it. What is the 4B movement?Why is the 4B movement so popular and gaining so much traction on social media and in the United States?what are some criticisms of the 4B feminist movement?Is the 4B movement and attack on men? Will the 4B movement actually solve anything? Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

One thing that we have learned over the last few years is that people LOVE to talk about sex! They have tons of questions and ideas and we are here for it all! In today's episode we go over some questions from our friends and listeners and maybe a reddit story or 2. After that we give some new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we go on a double date with Tiptoe Boy & Ribbit Boy and play 'He's a 10 But'!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In this episode we are spilling all the details on some personal tea about how Erin recently found out she was the other woman... To hear this whole story plus all the signs you need to look out for to catch if your partner is cheating give this episode a listen. We talk about signs a partner is cheating, how to find out if you are the other woman, how to know if your boyfriend is cheating... And even a checklist you can reference to determine if your partner might be unfaithful and hiding something. Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

It's a question that has been asked since the dawn of time. Or since the dawn of porn I guess. Men & women both enjoy it, or might think it's terrible all around. Everyone's different. But the question remains, is watching porn considered cheating? In today's episode we talk about porn addiction and studies on the percentage of men and women that consider their partner watching porn cheating. The impacts that it can have on your mental health and we go over a few of our friends and listeners opinions on the matter. Later we give some new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we answer a few random questions!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

From the time those of us assigned female are birth are little we are told fairy tails of love and marriage. Society has a long history of shaming single women as spinsters and cat ladies, while celebrating their bachelor counterparts. But are women actually happier married? We have deep dived into so many studies and in this episode we are breaking down what the research says about marriage as it impacts both women and men, but with a focus on what the data says about women and marriage. Studies & Sources Referenced in this Episodehttps://www.personalfinance.lawyer/our-blog/2018/may/disinheriting-a-spouse-in-california https://www.investopedia.com/financial-edge/0412/why-marriage-makes-financial-sense.aspx https://www.thesoldiersproject.org/military-marriage-benefits/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy https://www.tlc.com/parenting/married-women-do-more-housework-than-single-moms--study-finds https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-is-the-mental-load https://www.cbsnews.com/news/women-breadwinners-tripled-since-1970s-still-doing-more-unpaid-work/ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/the-stress-of-marriage-shortens-your-life-by-a-year-if-you-re-the-wife-5335547.htmlhttps://www.marripedia.org/effects.of.divorce.on.financial.stability https://zawn.substack.com/p/family-courts-and-child-custody-are https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4804270/ Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

From the time those of us assigned female are birth are little we are told fairy tails of love and marriage. Society has a long history of shaming single women as spinsters and cat ladies, while celebrating their bachelor counterparts. But are women actually happier married?We have deep dived into so many studies and in this episode we are breaking down what the research says about marriage as it impacts both women and men, but with a focus on what the data says about women and marriage.Studies & Sources Referenced in this Episodehttps://www.personalfinance.lawyer/our-blog/2018/may/disinheriting-a-spouse-in-california https://www.investopedia.com/financial-edge/0412/why-marriage-makes-financial-sense.aspx https://www.thesoldiersproject.org/military-marriage-benefits/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy https://www.tlc.com/parenting/married-women-do-more-housework-than-single-moms--study-finds https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/what-is-the-mental-load https://www.cbsnews.com/news/women-breadwinners-tripled-since-1970s-still-doing-more-unpaid-work/ https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/the-stress-of-marriage-shortens-your-life-by-a-year-if-you-re-the-wife-5335547.htmlhttps://www.marripedia.org/effects.of.divorce.on.financial.stability https://zawn.substack.com/p/family-courts-and-child-custody-are https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4804270/ Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We've all had situations where we might have overreacted a bit or maybe we're having a rough day and snap at someone a little faster then we typically would. If you've ever questioned yourself whether you're the asshole in a situation or not, I can promise you you're not alone. And there's no yes or no answer to that because we all can have different opinions and different perspectives. But today we are going to go over a few scenarios from our friends, listeners, and maybe a reddit story or 2 I've come across and try and determine if you are, or you're not the asshole. After that we give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer a few fun random questions!Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In this episode we are diving into some of your most pressing questions for men. We have a guest on the show to give some answers from the male perspective . Jerry is answering questions from women and he doesn't hold back. Do all men actually try to suck their own... ? How do men feel about hookup culture? What do men appreciate most in relationships? Our guest is answering these and so much more. My Ding-a-Ling by Chuck Berry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1S7Eqwmc_BE Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In today's episode we're talking about ways to give our brains a mental work out and try to start having a more positive thought process. We talk about ways to check in with your thoughts and mindfulness, reflecting and not falling victim to your mood, meditation, and more ways to have a healthier mindset. After that we do some role-playing examples of how to change your thought process, then we give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer a few fun random questions! Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We are answering some relationship questions and walking through a few interesting relationship situations… from the most unhinged dirty talk to questions about when staying or leaving for the sex is worth it to Jodi's run in with the WalMart Wacker. Buckle up because you're in for a wild ride on this one.   Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We wanted to put this short episode together to let you know what is going on with all the changes. Boom Tequila podcast has undergone a little make-over and moving forward will be Get Comfortable. All the things you loved about Boom Tequila are here to stay, but we have some things in store that are going to make things even better in this new chapter. We have also changed so much since we started this podcast and recorded our first trailer and introduction episode, so we wanted to sort of re-introduce ourselves also. Whether you are here for the first time today or have been on this journey with us for a while, we hope you are as excited as we about the switch up.  Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Welcome to "Get Comfortable," the podcast where we're tossing aside the rule book and diving deep into the juicy, messy, and sometimes awkward world of sex, relationships, communication, and making our own damn rules.  Grab a drink, find a comfy spot, and join us every Monday as we laugh, learn, and challenge the status quo. Subscribe now for a journey into the uncharted territories of communication, relationships, and self-discovery.Get Comfortable Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @GetComfortablePod Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We have had a few pretty popular episodes about relationships and giving our advice to different scenarios. We've had more friends and listeners sending us their stories so today we're going to be going over a few new ones! After going over a few of these stories we give some new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we play Would You Rather?!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In this episode we delve into the often-overlooked aspect of relationships: the mental load. Do you ever find yourself exhausted in your relationship? Studies reveal that women often bear the brunt of additional responsibilities in relationships, leading to stress and resentment. We explore the concept of the "mental load," encompassing tasks like meal planning, decision-making, and scheduling. Discover how these responsibilities disproportionately fall on women, affecting relationship dynamics. We break down real-life examples, offering insights into the cognitive labor that goes unnoticed.Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on the mental load, gain insights into relationship dynamics, and learn practical strategies for achieving balance. LinksWhy So Many Single Women Without Children Are Happier https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-so-many-single-women-without-children-are-happy Love and the Brain: Do Partnerships Really Make Us Happy? Here's What the Science Says https://www.scientificamerican.com/podcast/episode/love-and-the-brain-do-partnerships-really-make-us-happy-heres-what-the-science-says/ Marriage and Men's Health  https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health Ask an Expert — Five Ways to Share the Mental Load in Marriage https://www.usu.edu/today/story/ask-an-expert--five-ways-to-share-the-mental-load-in-marriage  Women Carry Most of the Mental Load of Running a Household https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evidence-based-living/202111/women-carry-most-the-mental-load-running-household Time spent in primary activities (1) and the percent of married mothers and fathers who did the activities on an average day by employment status and age of youngest own household child, average for the combined years 2003-06 https://www.bls.gov/news.release/atus2.t01.htm Invisible Household Labor and Ramifications for Adjustment: Mothers as Captains of Households https://www.proquest.com/docview/2169114285?fromopenview=true&pq-origsite=gscholar The Cognitive Dimension of Household Labor https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0003122419859007 Mental Load Self Test for Homework and Domestic Work https://equalcareday.de/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/mental-load-home-en.pdf Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Today's episode is all about normalizing not wanting to have sex. There are countless podcasts, blogs, etc. about ways to make your sex life better, but there aren't as many for the ladies that just really aren't in the mood. Or we don't have time. Or our medications are making us not want to be intimate with a partner. All of these reasons are okay and we are here to give a few options on what to do to help. As always, we also give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer some fun random questions!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In the spirit of fall and all things spooky season we have some horror stories for you. These aren't your typical Halloween tales though… these are more… well… sexual. We have pulled together some of the best sexually horrific experiences for your listening pleasure (?). This episode contains the best of your worst sex stories. These stories are sure to entertain, possibly shock you a little, and he - if nothing else these might make you feel better about some of your own less than stellar moments. If you would like to share a story with us or ask a question you email us at Bomtequilapodcast@gmail.com, fill out the anonymous submission form on our website at boomtequiila.com or hit us up on Instagram at BoomTequila Podcast. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

A few episodes ago we gave some great relationship advice. Well it looks like our advice helped and you're moving on in your relationships and getting a little more intimate! In today's episode we're talking all about sex. You guys sent in some great questions and we cover some really interesting topics! After that we give some new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we play 'Smash or Pass'!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Today we are talking about the orgasm gap. Studies have shown over and over that heterosexual men consistently have more orgasms than heterosexual women in sex with a partner. In this episode we are going to discuss the orgasm gap, why it exists, what needs to change and some things that men and women can do to increase female pleasure and help decrease this gap in your personal experiences. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

If you've been listening to us for a while then you might have heard our episode about Dreams. Today we are getting a little more intimate and specific. In this episode we are talking all about sex dreams! Their possible meanings and then going over some really crazy personal stories from some of our listeners and their sex dreams! After that we give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer some fun random questions!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In this episode we walk you through several questions that can help you determine if a relationship is toxic. Are you not 100% sure if someone is your friend or frenemy or do you sometimes just get an off vibe from that one friend? Recognizing toxic behaviors can be hard to do, but this episode will definitely help bring you some clarity. In addition to signs of a toxic relationship, we also walk through signs of a healthy relationship. If you can check these things off, your relationship might very well be on the right track. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Last week we had an episode with so many great relationship stories and scenarios that we ran out of time and had to split it into two parts!  Today's episode is continued with more from our last episode! Relationships can be tough. You have to work at them, no matter how long you've been with your partner or partners. Sometimes things happen, feelings change. Even we as people change and grow. In today's episode we are going over some relationship issues and will be giving our advice. After that we give a few new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we answer a random fun question!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Relationships can be tough. You have to work at them, no matter how long you've been with your partner or partners. Sometimes things happen, feelings change. Even we as people change and grow. In today's episode we are going over some relationship issues and will be giving our advice. After that we give a few new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we answer a few random fun questions!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We asked listeners and are sharing some of your feedback and the top turn offs that give people the ick. We kick things off talking about some of our personal turn offs and then share what y'all said, including some fun stories that were sent in. Per usual we throw our some music in Jo Jam and then wrap things up on a more positive note diving into some turn ONs in Dish Bish at the end. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Today's episode is all about the fantasy land we live in when we're really crushing on someone or just can't stop thinking about all the possibilities for the future with them, or the possible meanings behind the small things they do. 9 times out of 10 the reality that we come up with in our heads about relationships is better than the actual reality we're living in, so it's easy to see why so many of us are living in  Delulu Land.  We also give some new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we play 'Would You Rather'!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

One of the things we hear SO much from listeners, primarily heterosexual women - is that they struggle to have sex that feels pleasurable and struggle even more to climax with a partner. This is a common issue, and while it does probably mostly affect straight women, it is something that can be a struggle for anyone and today we are going to talk about some things that can affect pleasure in partnered play and how to address them so that you can enjoy sex more. We also share music to check out and answer some personal questions in our Dish Bish segment at the end. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In today's episode we're here to make you feel better about your love life. We've all had at least one or two and, in this episode, we tell a few of our listeners stories, a few we found online and maybe one or two of our own! After telling all the juicy and sometimes kind of gross details we give a few music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we answer some fun random questions!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Today we are going to talk about dating and when to take things to the next level… physically. Over the years we have both learned a lot about what we want,  don't want and what a healthy approach to sex looks like for us. What works for me might sound awful for someone else, but there are some grounding questions that we think are helpful to figure out if you are dating. In this episode we talk about our sexual history and relationships with sex, how we've approached it, and walk through some question scenarios. We are also going to offer some guidance and questions that you can work through to figure out what makes sense for you. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We've all probably fumbled the bag at least once or twice. We're seeing someone we're really into and they're into you and something happens and it just doesn't work out. And I get it things happen, but we're all about accountability here, and instead of wondering why he's not calling anymore you might need to consider that you fumbled the bag. But keep in mind, nobody's perfect! Including the dude you're super bummed about that's not responding to your texts anymore! So in today's episode we talk about a few ways that you might have fumbled the bag and not even really realized it. After that we give a few music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we play He's a 10 But..!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Most women have at some point of another experienced a man (or let's be honest lots of men) who don't see women as humans. In this episode we are talking about what it looks like when men don't see women as fully human and breaking some things down from the female perspective. We walk through what women mean when they say that men don't see women as humans and give insight to what it is like to experience this on the receiving end. We also go over some things that we've seen men do that are green flags and talk about how men can show women they do see them as equal humans. Then we go over music recommendations for the week in Jo Jam and wrap things up with some fun would you rather questions in Dish Bish at the end. This episode includes What do we mean when we say that men don't see women as humans?Why do men not see it and what is male privilege? What are some things men do that indicate they do not see women as humans?Feedback from men about feminism and seeing women as humanWhat are some ways that men can show women they do see them as human and care about women in a healthy way? Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Have you ever had a secret that you were just DYING to get out and tell somebody but you knew you couldn't because they would tell other people or judge you or you were just scared for people that know you to know? Well in today's episode we are spilling all the tea and telling all your secrets! And maybe one or two of our own? But sorry, we're not telling names, just the juicy details! After spilling all the details we give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we play 'Pick One'!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

This episode is packed with some wild questions and scenarios that we have come across or were sent in  by listeners. What would you do if your partner told you their other sexual partners were better in bed? Do women have it easier in dating? What are our thoughts on a surprise birthday BJ threesome situation? Do women actually love one night stands as much as guys do? Find out our thoughts on these questions and more in this episode!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

We've all been there. You're into this guy and he seems into you but then you don't hear from him for a few days. Or he stopped liking your photos on instagram but then he sends you a selfie on snapchat. And I know it's easy to say “just pick up the phone and send them a text or call and ask! Are you into me or not?” Yeah it's easier said than done. So in today's episode we are gonna find out, does he want me? Or not? We also give a few new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we're playing 'He's a 10 but.."Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

It this episode we are walking through some wild relationship questions and scenarios. From a girlfriend who is obsessed with sniffing her boyfriend's crotch to a guy who can't stop stealing panties to smell. Will AI raise the bar for relationships or replace women? One guy seems to think it could... Listen to find out why. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In today's episode we talk all about modern day arranged marriage. Alot of people that aren't quite familiar with the subject might have their own ideas on how it all works, but today we learn that in most cases (not all) it's not as scary and forced as you might believe it to be. Actually, more often than not, arranged marriages really do last a lifetime and the couples are very happy together. Then before answering some fun random questions in our Dish Bish segment, we give a few new music recommendations! Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In this episode we are discussing social norms - specifically looking at how these cultural defaults impact how we do relationships and how we communicate within them. We will talk about several social norms, what they are and share some personal stories or stances on each of these topics. This episode touches on topics including: the relationship escalator, communication norms in relationships, mononormativity, platonic vs romantic relationships and relationship hierarchy. Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In today's episode we answer some serious questions about life, relationships, harassment in the workplace, and more! After that we give a few new music recommendations and last in Dish Bish we play the game "He's a 10 But.."Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

How many of these have you heard or believed? In this episode we are breaking down more sex myths and misunderstandings about sex, reproduction, sexual anatomy and sexual health. Are blue balls real? Do women orgasm like men? Does a man's foot size indicate the size of his penis? What did science determine was the actual average penis size? Are there only two biological sexes?Plus sex toys, masturbation, wet dreams, STIs, sex education myths and more! We cover so much in this episode. So have some fun with us while you learn. Then we let you know what music we are listening to this week and answer some personal questions from y'all in our Dish Bish segment at the end. Links/ResourcesHow Big Is The Average Penis (article) A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15 521 men (study)Can Shoe Size Predict Penile Length? (study) Determinants of Female Sexual Orgasms (study)The 34 Best Sex Toys for Men in 2023, According to Sex Experts (article) The Truth About Sexual Positions and Getting Pregnant (article)Incidence of Sexually Transmitted Infections After Human Papillomavirus Vaccination Among Adolescent Females (study)HPV Vaccine (CDC information)What to Know About a Loose Vagina (article)Comprehensive Sexuality Education (study)Key Issues Facing People With Intersex Traits (article) Sex Redefined: The Idea of 2 Sexes Is Overly Simplistic (article) Are Blue Balls Real? (article) Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

You think you know, but you have no idea! Okay, honestly you might know, but just in case you don't today we are debunking and talking all about sex and the myths surrounding them! There are SO many and in today's episode we only touch on a few of the more common misconceptions about sex. After all the sex talk we give a few new music recommendations, and last in Dish Bish we play a game of Would You Rather!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

In this episode we are breaking down some Body Language signals to look for that will help you spot when someone is lying. We did an episode a while back on how to tell if someone is lying by what they are saying, but there is so much more to it - Body Language being a huge factor. Most people are pretty naturally awful at accurately detecting lies. People tend to believe that they are able to detect deception much more than they actually can. The more information you have, the better off you will be when it comes to knowing when someone is lying, so stay tuned because this episode may just help you spot the next lie someone tells you. Then after our topic discussion we throw out some music recommendations in Jo Jam and finish off with a fun game and some listener submitted questions in Dish Bish at the end. Want more? Check out episode 244: How to Tell When Someone is Lying podcast.Links/ResourcesStudy: Can Ordinary People Detect Deception After All? https://carlsonschool.umn.edu/sites/carlsonschool.umn.edu/files/2019-04/ten_brinke_vohs_carney_tics_2016_lie_detection_0.pdf Is Nonverbal Communication a Numbers Game? https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beyond-words/201109/is-nonverbal-communication-numbers-game Leaving Neverland (documentary referenced, so sorry I am not sure if the interview mentioned is in part 1 or 2): https://www.tvguide.com/movies/leaving-neverland/2030373994/ Some books Erin recommends if you want to learn more: What Every Body is Saying By Joe Navarro with Marvin Karlin, Ph.D https://www.amazon.com/What-Every-BODY-Is-Saying-audiobook/dp/B006ZNFEKWLiespotting by Pamela Meyer https://www.amazon.com/Liespotting-Pamela-Meyer-audiobook/dp/B00797LMRM Spy the Lie by Philip Houston, Michael Floyd and Susan Carnicero https://www.amazon.com/Spy-Lie-audiobook/dp/B008M20SZ0 Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Long before social media or even the internet was thought of, men were finding creative ways to publicly shame women for not wanting to stay with them. As far back as the 1700s there have been countless newspaper articles about “Runaway Wives” leaving their husbands. And just like today when a man takes you out on a date, pays, then tries to claim you just “wanted a free meal” when you don't want to go home with them, almost every single one of these newspaper ads is all about not letting the woman run up debt in her husbands name and financial control. In today's episode we learn about how difficult it was for a woman in an unhappy marriage in the 18th & 19th centuries. We read a few real newspaper articles from men about their wives that have left them and even a few responses from their wives! Then before jumping into Jo Jam with a couple new music recommendations, Erin reads a few newspaper articles from single men looking for a wife and decides if she would swipe right or left on them! Then at the end of today's episode we get a little spicy in Dish Bish with some fun random questions!Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw

Today we are going to talk all about Love Bombing. This is a topic that has recently trended a bit on TikTok and gained some traction with people beginning to talk about and share their experiences. A lot of people seem to be confused about what exactly love bombing is and how it shows up in communication and relationships. So we are covering everything you need to know about what love bombing is, why it matters, how to spot it and more. Then we will let you know what music we are listening to and answer some spicier personal questions in our Dish Bish segment at the end, so stick around.  This episode covers: What is love bombing? Why is love bombing a big deal?What are some red flag behaviors that go with love bombing? What is NOT love bombing? Examples of love bombingWhy do people love bombAnd some personal experience stories Boom Tequila Podcast Links Follow on Instagram: @BoomTequilaPodcast Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/boomtequilapodcast Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqro-8gXjDP_gVfwOhowJVw