Daring Parenting's Podcast

Brett and Natasha, an interracial couple return with tips on making progress in the "racism dialogue". Why do whites need to be the ones to start this? Brett and Natasha both give their input on how to proceed and what a bright future is possible if we do!

Brett and Natasha are an inter-racial couple with 2 young children. They talk to me about the experiences involved in her being with a white man, his desire to protect her from constant and ongoing racism and how they navigate the world. 

Wimbi Simbi, environmental scientist and Global Citizen speaks to us from her native Zimbabwe. We continue the conversation surrounding systemic racism in healthcare internationally. This time, Wimbi gives great tips on ways we can resolve the racist and gender biases in healthcare.

In this episode we talk to Wimbi Simbi, who is an environmental scientist in Zimbabwe and has lived in Australia and South Africa. Wimbi tells her personal stories of being dismissed by much of the medical community because of her race and then gender. This part of white privilege isn't often addressed and Wimbi weaves the narrative beautifully.

Chisa Johnson shares her experiences of being in the workplace as a black woman, her best bosses and the sometimes subtle spillover of white privilege into the workplace.

Recovery Coach, Peta Dukes of South Africa talks to us about the trauma of Apartheid and racism. Peta reveals what her Zulu mother taught her about the true meaning of "Ubuntu". There is hope and healing we can achieve together by exercising compassion and seeing humanity as a whole.

Peta Dukes, a Recovery Coach, pianist and political activist in South Africa shares the story of Daphne, the Zulu mother who helped raise and inspire her. Peta talks to us about Apartheid, propaganda, the facade of freedom in 1994 when Apartheid ended and her hopes for the future.

Elke Geising, author of, Can We Talk, Will I Listen?  (available on Amazon) joins us again for a continuing discussion of racism in South Africa, white power and taking active steps against racism leading to self-healing.

Our guest is Elke Geising, the author of the book, Can We Talk...Will I Listen? A journey towards the healing power of dialogue Elke recounts the horror of finding out about the holocaust as a young teen in Germany and then discovering that she was facing that same denial of horror living in South Africa, post-Apartheid. Elke Geising's healing journey can inspire each of us to face our truths and break the white silence.

In America, the narrative is: This is a Pandemic of the Unvaccinated. Is it right to throw everyone into the same category? Pastor Kristian A. Smith  talks to us about the difference between harm and discomfort. Are the unvaccinated deserving of the scapegoating going on? Tough questions, provocative answers!

We talk to superstar guest, Alesia Graves about white privilege, slavery, apologies, forgiveness and teaching the true history of America. Why is the political "right" so afraid of #BLM and teaching the truth of American History? 

We are pleased to have Kristian Smith   as a returning guest to discuss Father's Day, God as Father/Mother/Universe and what forgiveness looks like with boundaries. Kristian's book, Breaking All The Rules is  a  great gift, whether it's for Father's Day or another special occasion.    

Deacon Kenneth L. Radcliffe joins us again this week as we discuss his book, The Disease of Racism (Applying the 12 Principles of Alcoholics Anonymous) We didn't cause, nor can we control or cure racism, but the disease, like alcoholism can be arrested. How do we do this? Deacon Radcliffe spells it out clearly and reminds us that we all must do our own inner work first.

Deacon Kenneth L. Radcliffe, author of the book, The Disease of Racism (Applying Alcoholics Anonymous Principles) is our guest this week and we cover a lot of territory. From the Black Americans in the 1600s to white supremacy today, Deacon Radcliffe reveals how the disease of racism can't be controlled, but it can be arrested and treated. If you're familiar with the 12 steps of AA, the language will be familiar and if not, you're in for a great learning treat.

Dr. Rodney Sadler, the Director of the Center for Social Justice and Reconciliation at Union Presbyterian Seminary is our guest. I ask Dr. Sadler about his thoughts on racism being similar to alcoholism. We know that a hallmark of alcoholism is denial and it appears that this is also the case with racism. How is white privilege, white fragility and racism amongst white people hiding in plain sight?

White supremacy is expensive to maintain and Reverend Amber Lowe-Woodfork spells out the reasons. There are steep financial costs and spiritual costs that we pay daily to keep the status quo. Dismantling white supremacy would add trillions to the economy and help the spiritual health of the nation. What's there to lose?

Reverend Amber Lowe-Woodfork, creator of the website Truth is Trouble gives us 3 action items for unity and none of them involve holding hands and singing Kumbaya! Rev. Amber is her always authentic, humorous, outspoken self and is ready to give white allies the steps we need to move into real unity today.

Dr. Stephen Preas, renowned Atlanta psychiatrist returns to Daring Parenting for a stellar episode! The pandemic changed the things we grieved and how we grieved. Get tips on the quickest ways to move through grief in the comfort of your own home. If you grieve now, you're able to grow and not get caught in the grips of sadness later.

Kristian A Smith leads us through the events of the Capitol riots, what could be ahead and why white people need to stop being shocked at white supremacy. What does the Greatest Commandment tell us about the times we are in and self-love? As always, Kristian uses his knowledge as a pastor and author of Breaking All the Rules to help us see more clearly.

Kristian A Smith  discusses with us why the Capitol riots shouldn't surprise us and why the and flagrant display of white supremacy is not new to America. 

Our guest, Rhett Solomon was recently ordained as a Deacon in the Episcopal Church and is in line for the priesthood in June. Rhett graces us with his thoughts on politics, racism and battling the complacency we experienced when Obama was elected. The election in 2016 was a racist backlash and the insurrection at the Capitol is a symptom of the deep-seated hatred in the country. Silence is not an option!

Today's riot and taking over of the Capitol is the fruit of 4 years of hatred.

Reverend Amber Lowe-Woodfork, founder of Truth Is Trouble.com  is our guest again and she is ready to set us straight! White people need to buckle up and get ready to learn more about how our black brothers and sisters need us to stand up, be counted and be willing to lose relationships and jobs to keep integrity against racism

Reverend Amber Lowe-Woodfork (TruthIsTrouble.com) is our guest and she gives a deep look inside the Atlanta Black Lives Matter protests. What was it like to be hemmed in by police in full riot gear? Why were the innocent labeled "curfew-breakers"? How can we take the momentum from the BLM movement and use it for real change in systemically racist aspects of society? Reverend Amber gives us her insight and shares with humor!

Kristian A. Smith, author of Breaking All the Rules, An Ancient Framework for Modern Faith, joins us again to further explore this new book. Learn about Kristian uses the "Greatest Commandment Theology" as a way to look at every aspect of life and how to move to forgiveness in 3 Simple Steps (not easy, but simple).

Kristian A. Smith  discusses his new book, Breaking All the Rules in this episode. He addresses using the Greatest Commandment Theology in everyday life and what it means to "agree to disagree" from a spiritual and racial perspective.

If you're a white ally and not sure what to do next to help with BLM, Breanna Bellinger, LSW, gives us some clear direction. Watch the "Monopoly" video, do your research, support the movement, support your black friends and co-workers. It's a simple path to becoming a better ally!

Dr. Beth-Sarah Wright, author, speaker, professor, wife and mother of 5, gives us a glimpse into her new book, Dignity: 7 Strategies for Creating Authentic Community We discuss how to see the dignity in every human being, how the dignity lens is a useful way to look past race and how to create a life filled with integrity and dignity. 

Dr. Rodney Sadler, author, professor and racial activist gives us a clear definition of "de-funding" the police and why it's necessary.  He also explains what is being done to correct racist flaws in the judicial system and why decriminalizing marijuana is a big piece of the change needed.

Our guest, Alesia Graves, owner of RUspiritdriven.com  has great suggestions for whites becoming allies and how to teach our children about BLM, discussing slavery, acknowledging the past and owning the present.

My dear friend, K, shares her thoughts on what white Americans may be missing with the BLM movement, what are the vestiges of slavery haunting us in today's world and the search to find a white supremacist for her to have a conversation with. It's an exciting half-hour!

On Tuesday, October 6th, the full episode of "Alma, Am I Racist?" airs and will be available on AlmaAmIRacist.com  and also on your favorite podcast sites, including Apple Music. This is a sneak peek at one of the questions posed to K, who talked about the vestiges of slavery alive today in the U.S.

This first episode of "Alma Am I Racist" begins with  us talking to Kristian A Smith, author of Breaking All the Rules, pastor and founder of The Faith Community, owner of P-Squared Custom Clothiers and the podcast, Holy Smokes: Cigars and Spirituality.  How can whites get "woke"? Kristian enlightens us as to ways that whites can be the best allies, plus he shares some of his life experiences as a black man.         

This is the last in the series of Black Lives Matter, #BLM with our guest, Alesia Graves. We talk about why Black History Month is a sign of "white privilege", what do white people call themselves if they're learning to be anti-racist and why slavery is closer than we think. 

What does it take to begin the healing process between whites and blacks in America? It starts with talking about slavery and acknowledging the truth of slavery. Yes, it's hard to talk about and it would've been hard to live it. Whites can begin by speaking that truth and much more as we continue our talk about #BLM.

We continue our discussion of Black Lives Matter with Alesia Graves in this episode. Why is it that many white people are afraid of the BLM movement? Alesia addresses this from her perspective as a black woman. 

We are talking to Alesia Graves, a black friend of mine who has been willing to answer some of the questions that I and other white people have had about the BLM movement. This is the 2nd in a series about Black Lives Matter and we are going deep, friends! 

#BLM, Black Lives Matter, White Privilege, Anti-racist...what the heck are people talking about. I sit down with Alesia Graves and have her walk me through the beginnings of a race conversation. I'm white, Alesia is black and I have a lot of questions and lots to learn. Join us and let's get uncomfortable!

In this segment, Cheryl Denham discusses the need for a schedule for our dogs as restrictions from the lockdown begin to lift. What do you do when one partner is permissive and one is the disciplinarian? And best of all....how to use 15 minutes of training is equal to a 1 hour walk!

We all are wondering what life will look like as restrictions are lifted from the Covid 19 lockdown. What does it mean for our dogs? They've gotten used to us being at home more and we need to be mindful that this change will also affect them. Dog trainer, Cheryl Denham gives us tips, insights and clues into how to make it an easier transition for us and our dogs.

A Danish mother and her grown son share with us the difficulty of being physically separated from family in Denmark and what it's like for their family on their farm in South Africa. This is a touching and informative look at what life is like on another continent and how families are dealing with their lives.

A single mom who is working from home with her elementary school-age son shares some of the tips that have made quarantining at home because of Covid-19. How do you take care of your child and yourself and stay sane? Follow some of these great tips!

In this episode on Neuroplasticity, Dr. Stephen Preas will give us a layman's definition of neuroplasticity. In addition, we explore the impact of genetics, trauma, medication and meditation on the brain's ability to change.

Renowned Atlanta psychiatrist, Dr. Stephen Preas explains the concept and reality of "neuroplasticity". What part does genetics play? How can we use our will to change our brain? This and more that every parent will want to hear.

We talk to Jabula Dog Academy founder and trainer, Kate Jackson. If your child or dog is compliant does it mean they're happy? Could compliance be a sign of "learned helplessness" where the kid or dog just gives up? Kate answers these questions and more as we delve deeper into the psychology of forcing a behavior that's unnatural.

Kate Jackson, founder of Jabula Dog Academy  is our guest and discusses what can be done for a dog that is mentally ill and how we can use many of these methods to address human mental health. Hear how a dog rescue "rags to riches" story teaches the importance of having a purpose and we take  questions from listeners with practical dog training solutions.

Today's guest is Kate Jackson, Founder of Jabula Dog Academy (JabulaDogs.com.) Kate is a master dog trainer and the mother of twins! She shares her expertise in dog training and we discuss how these ideas apply to our kids and other humans. This psychology is applicable across species and simple to follow!

Kate Jackson, the founder of Jabula Dog Academy (JabulaDogs.com)is our featured expert and this segment deals with genetics, how repetitive actions create neural pathways in the brain and why dogs and kids manifest behavioral problems. Oh yes, and solutions to the behavioral issues!

It turns out that "blended families" and "step families" are not like The Bunch from the 1970s sitcom. Being a stepparent can be a challenge no matter how old the kids are. If the "ex" is still in the picture, how do you remain civil and what's best for the kids? Find out in this forthcoming interview from mom and stepmom, "Belinda". 

Parents...wait up for your kids after a party, random drug test, don't be afraid to know the truth. Dr. Tara Arnold educates parents

Are you looking for an expert's opinion on the warning signs of drug use? Dr. Tara Arnold educates parents as to how parents can easily spot signs of drug use or underage drinking.