Honeymoon Mindset

How do you know the person you are with is the right one?  How do you find the right one? Finding the right partner isn't so much looking for them.  However, knowing when they come into your life. First thing is to stop looking.  Looking for the right person usually doesn't go the right way and leads to disaster. Second, improve who you are.  Working on yourself, helps you know who you need in your life and make you an even better person. Third, when the right person comes into your life.  You will take a natural interest in their life.  You will want to continue improving yourself for them and will want to come along side them to help make them better. Fourth, you will want to spend time with this person.  Learning about who they are and why. Fifth, when you are troubled; you want them by your side helping you.  When they are troubled you will want to be by their side helping them.  When you two are at odds, their is no one you want but them.

Is it ok to say no in a relationship? Doesn't saying no tell your partner you don't care? Did you know that saying no is healthy? In society, we are led to believe that we need to say yes and on to be on the go.  However, in a relationship, and for ourselves and family, that can be very dangerous. In this episode, we talk about why it's important to say no in a relationship.  Saying no can make a us, our relationship and family stronger.

STOP NEGATIVE THINKING!!! Negative thinking causes so many issues in you and your relationship.  It takes the passion out of your relationship and yourself. The best way to put passion is with positivity!   Here are 4 tips to stop negative thinking: 1. Tell yourself and brain that you don't think or talk that way.  Also, write it down. 2. Start thinking positive about yourself and things. 3. Go to bed thinking postivite thoughts and the goods that happened during the day and what you accomplished. 4.  Start to figure out where the negative thought is from and start to change those thoughts. When you start thinking positively it will spark the passion in you and your relationship and Honeymoon Mindset! For more tips and ideas in dealing with negative thinking: email us: james@honeymoonmindset.com                info@honeymoonmindset.com For help with changing negative thoughts check out at Nuero-Shine Technology Academy https://www.shinyunsal.com/

What the background on Honeymoon Mindset Academy?  What is their point? How are they going to help you? This episode we talk about the history of Honeymoon Mindset.  What we have planned for the company. Who is Honeymoon Mindset for and how it can help you.  We also talk about how we can come along side you. Finally, we talk about where you can find us For more information email us:  admin@honeymoonmindset.com info@honeymoonmindset.com

To keep the Honeymoon Phase going is by creating the Honeymoon Mindset. One of the best ways to do that is by keep dating. Dating is very benificial in any and all relationships. Are you dating?

Skip the traditional date night or Valentine's Day stuff!!! Instead, build a stronger relationship with your partner! There are 4 requirements needed to be building a stronger relationship. First:  Communication Second:  Time Together Third:  Improving Who You Are Finally:  Intimacy, Emotional and Physical Listen to the episode for more information and details If you still have questions or not sure how; Email Us! email:  admin@honeymoonmindset.com             info@honeymoonmindset.com

In this week's episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we discuss why dating your kids is so important to them and to you! The most important thing you can give to your children is your time.  And by time we mean your undivided attention, your listening ear, your intentional connection. All humans want to matter, belong, be heard, and feel loved.  Kids are no different and when you let them know they matter by spending one on one time with them they can truly blossom. This time will grow their self-esteem, confidence, and sense of identity. It will remind you to tap into your childlike joy.  And it will build an everlasting bond between you and your child/ren.  And it doesn't have to cost a thing to Date Your Kids! https://www.facebook.com/groups/dateyourkids/

This is going to be a quiet intimate night for the 2 of you.  No phones or other electronics.  Your going to come home make dinner together, get dressed up and each others company. Listen to how this will boost the intimacy between you and your partner.

This episode may not be suitable for kids! We are a week away from Valentine's Day! One of the biggest thoughts in someone's mind is sex. Is there a difference between sex and Love making?  What is the difference between lovemaking and sex? This episode, we talk about the differences between sex and love making. We talk about the difference about talking about it with your partner and often.  We also explain why it is different for every couple and how it changes as life changes. There is a difference in each one of us that has an effect on the relationship towards sex.  This difference doesn't need to be negative but can be used as a positive.  When you talk about it, it will enhance the relationship. This will help spark the passion in the relationship! Would you like help with this discussion with your partner; email us: admin@honeymoonmindset.com

We as parents will always have those awkward, difficult and uncomfortable conversions with a child. How do we handle these moments with love and grace? We talk about this, give tips and ideas. When you are able to handle these awkward situations with love and grace.  It will only strengthen your relationship with your child. For additional resources or assistance email us:  admin@honeymoonmindset.com

This tip we want you to just enjoy the holidays and let them happen.  When can do this by being grateful for those around you and what you have.  If you still struggle please reach out and we will listen.

Everyone has this ideal vison of their perfect life, partner and dream job. We call this the Trophy Syndrome! We put a lot of time and effort to get these trophies.  When we get them sometimes it is not what we thought it would be. There are times, we need to remember that we need to keep bettering ourselves, so we are able to keep the trophy.   Are there things we can do to help with Trophy Syndrome? There are a couple things we can do. First, we can continue bettering who we are as an individual. We are constantly learning, growing emotionally and spiritually. Secondly, we need to be grateful for what we have, the work we put into getting it and what it means to us. Thirdly, we need to be thankful. If you are not sure how to deal with Trophy Syndrome, listen to this episode on How to Deal with Trophy Syndrome! From additional resources in How to Deal with Trophy Syndrome, email us:  admin@honeymoonmindset.com

Kids are natural pleasers! We make the stressed out with perfection by not expressing our expectations, being critical with them and not picking our battles.  We need to teach our kids to be okay with finishing things, their way of doing something is ok and letting them discuss things with us. They learn from watching us, listening with our hearts and validating their thoughts and emotions. Need additional resources email us at: admin@honeymoonmindset.com

The activity will give you the chance to truly enjoy what you are passionate about. Doing the complete opposite of what you are passionate about gives you a new appreciation for it.  It helps you see it in a new way.  It gives you a chance to expand your knowledge a of it.  Finally, it gives you a chance to learn something new.  

This episode is in response to a TikTok video I saw. The gentleman in the video says that society says everyone needs to have more passion.  He claims that not everyone's thing is passion, but some are curious, some are funny.  I agree with him in what he is saying in general.  However, we all need more passion in our lives and in this world.  That is why we created Honeymoon Mindset! Listen to how we can add more passion in our life without changing who we are.  Using passion as an adverb not as a verb.

This is a fun little activity to help you get a little closer to what your values are.   These are not just any values, but the values that you run your life with. Take a listen and have fun figuring out your true values are. Any Questions email us at: james@honeymoonmindset.com  

It is a new year and must people want a new you.  People want a change because they do like something about themselves. So, they decide to make a change. One will in magazines, friends, family, social media and all around them for ideas and inspiration.  You will find things that you want to change to.  When they do this; they are still unable happy. Maybe you are looking in the wrong area?  Maybe you have your wants confused for your needs? What are your needs? Listen to this episode to help you find you on the way to your true happiness.

Divorce through the eyes of a 13 year old! Caroline Martins tells of her experience, thoughts and emotions that she had when her parents divorced. When she realized that it wasn't her fault she decided to write a book for kids. To help them know that what they are feeling is normal and they are not alone in this journey.  Her book is filled with tips, activities and ideas to help them processes those thoughts,  feelings and emotions.  Caroline and I talk about her experiences and the process of writing her book.  Her book is due out in January on Amazon.  We will have a link available when it is available.  If your family is going through a divorce and struggling. Please reach out to us at Honeymoon Mindset  Click the link below and we will get ahold of you! James@passionateliferanch.com

A fun little game you can do by yourself, with your partner, family and in your business or profession. How can visioning the future help you now?  How can visioning the future make you a Visionary? A visionary is someone who looks out into the future and makes a plan.   This is what you are doing with dreamcatcher! You are envisioning the future for yourself, with your relationships and professionally.   If you are having difficulty with this or what someone to guide you through the process.  Email us at:  james@passionateliferanch.com

It is that time of your when a lot of people set New Year's Resolutions.  They do with the greatest of intention and want to seriously make a change.  However, majority of the resolutions do not make it past the first month. Why?  I talk about why resolutions do prosper and how to set goals that will spark the passion in you and succeed.   Setting goals takes 4 steps. 1. Looking to the past to see what did and didn't work and why. 2. Look to the future to see where you want to go and become. 3. Look at today and figure out what you need to change now to make it to your future. 4. Make a plan of what worked in the past to help fuel the passion to the future.   If you would like to talk with us about how to do it or need help?  Email us:  james@passionateliferanch.com

In this week's episode: James and Kimberly discuss how to help kids with goal setting. Start small with daily “to do” lists and work up to bigger goals. How can they break them down, so they are achievable? How can they prioritize where to start? You will be surprised how daily goal setting will have a ripple effect reaching out to all aspects of their lives... mood, self-esteem, how they interact with others, etc. Need help learning how to set goals for yourself or how to teach it to your kids? Reach out to us! https://www.facebook.com/groups/sunrisemindsetcoaching/   https://www.facebook.com/groups/308821070493093/?ref=share

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! From All of Us here at Honeymoon Mindset Academy

What happens when you have sparked the passion in you?   You become grateful which is what this time of year is all about.  We can so easily get caught up in the hustle and bustle of Christmas that we forget and have a hard time adjusting and going with the flow. Do you want to be able to go with the flow?  You want to be more grateful, especially this time of year? Then contact us about how we can help you become more grateful and going with the flow.   james@passionateliferanch.com 

In this week's episode James and Kimberly discuss how to help kids with goal setting. Start small with daily “to do” lists and work up to bigger goals. How can they break them down, so they are achievable? How can they prioritize where to start? You will be surprised how daily goal setting will have a ripple effect reaching out to all aspects of their lives... mood, self-esteem, how they interact with others, etc. Need help learning how to set goals for yourself or how to teach it to your kids? Reach out to us! https://www.facebook.com/groups/sunrisemindsetcoaching/   https://www.facebook.com/groups/308821070493093/?ref=share

When you think about honeymoon, we instantly think of a relationship.  When you think about relationships, everything starts as a relationship.  Therefore, you have a relationship with yourself!  You in a relationship with someone!  Business is a relationship!   Honeymoon Mindset is for you!  It is a process and takes time to develop it.  When you start to develop it, it sparks the passion in you.  When you have developed the Honeymoon Mindset that passion will naturally flow over to others in your life. Is Honeymoon Mindset for You?  Do you know how to develop a Honeymoon Mindset? https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192 https://www.instagram.com/honeymoonmindsetacademy/

The side of Christmas that many parents do not want to see or address.  When their kid/s struggle with Christmas. There are kids who struggle during this time of year.  They struggle because of the loss of a loved one, a change with the family or because of a situation. This episode, I talk about to help your children if they are struggle during the holidays.  How to make them feel heard and important about what they are thinking and feeling. Listen to Honeymoon Mindset with Kids to help your kids that are struggling this time of year.

It is crazy, hectic and unbearable!  The pressures of the holidays and expectation can be to much.  Take a break!  Taking a break will help you get through it, inspire you and or refocus you for the holidays.  Learn about the benefits of taking a break.

We have heard of the 3 phrases: In their honeymoon phase, find something you love, and you won't work a day in your life, and walking on cloud nine. What do they all have in common?   Listen to this podcast to find out what they have in common.  You will also discover how a Honeymoon Mindset can happen every day. Find out how Tony Robbins, Dean Graziosi, Rob Dial and Shiny Unsal have inspired and help us in the creation of Honeymoon Mindset. Resources: https://www.tonyrobbins.com/ https://robdial.com/podcast/ https://www.deangraziosi.com/ https://www.shinyunsal.com/

This time of years is very exciting for kids!  All the talk about Christmas, toys, magic, sweets and more. The way our culture has fast tracked materialism and "keeping up with the Jones syndrome."  That our kids lose the real meaning of Christmas and that is giving and helping those less fortunate.  In this podcast, Kimberly and I talk about traditions and the importance of giving.  Why we as parents need to talk to our kids early and often about giving.  We also have a challenge at the end of the show.   For additional resources and information, please reach out to us at  SunRise Mindsets https://www.facebook.com/groups/1624532541088734   Or Honeymoon Mindset Academy https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192

Another two for the price of one.  A lot of times during the holidays, we get so caught up in the expectations and hype that we forget to communicate.  We forget to ask for help or find out what people are thinking.  In this process, we forget to have fun.  Find out why communicating and fun are so important and will help you survive the holidays

When you have 10 things going on at once; what do we do? We usual get upset, frustrated and take things out on others. Honeymoon Mindset, we are able to come along and help our partner.  We are able to ask for help because we know our partner is there to help us succeed. The power of a Honeymoon Mindset we are able to work together and accomplish things, even if we have to do it ourselves.  It is a daily choice to allow the passion in us to flourish and grow.  So, we can succeed for us and our partner. How do you handle stress?  How do you help your partner when they are stressed? If you would like to talk with us about how to help your partner.  Please, reach out to us on Facebook and Instagram.  You can click on the link below. https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192

This time of years is very exciting for kids!  All the talk about Christmas, toys, magic, sweets and more. The way our culture has fast tracked materialism and "keeping up with the Jones syndrome."  That our kids lose the real meaning of Christmas and that is giving and helping those less fortunate.  In this podcast, Kimberly and I talk about traditions and the importance of giving.  Why we as parents need to talk to our kids early and often about giving.  We also have a challenge at the end of the show.   For additional resources and information, please reach out to us at  SunRise Mindsets https://www.facebook.com/groups/1624532541088734   Or Honeymoon Mindset Academy https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192

Here is a quick tip about how a moment of silence can help calm you down.  During the holiday season and Covid, silence can help keep our sanity and get us back on track to enjoy these Holidays.

I keep asking you to reach out to us to set up a discovery call. This episode, I tell you what is involved with a discovery call and why is important. I also talk about other important information that you need when you are working with a coach.

In this week's episode we discuss how having blinders on when it comes to who your kids are can have a negative effect on them. If you believe they are perfect how can you help them grow and learn from their mistakes? How can you talk to other parents who have blinders on when it comes to their children? Listen as James and Kimberly discuss these questions and more!

The date tip is to play the Game of Life. As you play, stop and talk about, or write down, the topics that come.  As you does you will have a fun way to talk about money issues. This is a great way to talk to your kids about money

One of the leading causes of divorce is money! This doesn't have to be.  Talking about money early and often helps the relationship to work together with the understanding of money.  Money is tool and that is it. If you were in a long committed relationship, it isn't to late to talk about money.  Start now with your partner, it will be stressful at first, and watch you Honeymoon Mindset grow together as you both grow. Here is a link to Financial Peace University: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/financial-peace

In this week's episode we discuss how having blinders on when it comes to who your kids are can have a negative effect on them. If you believe they are perfect how can you help them grow and learn from their mistakes? How can you talk to other parents who have blinders on when it comes to their children? Listen as James and Kimberly discuss these questions and more!

This date night tip can be done individually, as couple, fun this way, or family. The date tip can be long and drawn out or short and sweet.  You can plan a whole evening around it or just 10 to 15 minutes before you and your partner go to bed. You are going to keep an aspect of the future or something and your going to envision what will be like.  You are going to add sound, touch, taste, sight and smell.  You are going to add as many details as possible, more details the better. Together, you will be planning your future together while building a strong Honeymoon Mindset.

What is the best way to get life back in your relationship? What is a way to keep something in common as your goes on through out the years? How do you end the roommate syndrome?  The best way is to talk about your future together?  It isn't a one time discussion.  It is a topic you should have at least once a year. Having the discussion once a year helps keep your vision with each other alive and well.  It gives you a chance to adjust and grow.  Planning your future together is a perfect way to stay in with a Honeymoon Mindset.

During this continuation of How to Discuss Body Image with your kids; We look at how you can use the future as reference point. How look at others image as a way of checking ourselves and the way we live.  Plus, we need to be sensitive to them because we don't know what is going on in the inside. Kimberly and James have a conversation about How to Discuss Body Image.

Idea for Date or Family night is to play the game charades, or something like it. Before you start, make up a sheet with the questions; First impression and why? What memories do you associate with that thought? What emotions do you relate to it? You and your partner will talk about these to help get a better understanding of yourselves.  When you have a better understand where those thoughts come from then you can change those assumptions, or limiting beliefs.

Assumptions are made up and not real.  They are our brain trying to protect us, but in reality it does the opposite.  I share how I struggle with assumptions and what I do to deal with them. It takes time and when you deal with assumptions, your Honeymoon Mindset will blossom even more.

When you look around all you see are these beautiful images.  Images that makes us want to compare ourselves to. This comparison starts at a young age.  If it is not dealt with, it can be very dangerous to kids and give them a lifetime of stress and heartache. Listen to Kimberly and James, we talk about body image.  How and when it starts.  How and why you need to talk to your kids. Links: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Perfectly-Normal-Changing-Growing/dp/0763644846

This date tip, you and your partner are going to use your imagination. Imagination is something you can use to learn new and interesting things about your partner.  It can also be used to help build your future together. Listen to how imagination is used during date night.

You didn't get into a relationship to live with a roommate,  it is someone you care, love and want to be with. How do you get out of that comfort zone? This episode is full of ideas on how to get out of that your partner is your roommate.

Teens are going through so much during those years.  It is all done so they can figure out who they are and want to be. Them seeing a Honeymoon Mindset from you and your partner plays a huge role.  They get to see an example of how to handle issues, relax, be open and vulnerable and live. The relationship you and your partner have not only plays a role but is needed and wanted by your teenager/s. They want you to be there for them!

Life can get very mundane or tried of doing the same old thing. That is why you need to date yourself once and a while.  This keeps you real to who you are.  It expands your knowledge and experiences.  It is also a huge self confidence booster. In turn, it will grow your Honeymoon Mindset because you have more to offer your partner.  You will be able to handle this differently because of this knowledge. Dating yourself help build a stronger Honeymoon Mindset

This podcast, I open up about our relationship.  I am vulnerable with you what it is like in Beth's and I relationship.  I share with you what is like and how I do and don't follow my own advice. I tell you how we make our Honeymoon Mindset and the choices we make daily. This is a raw and real episode .

The best way to bond with your kids is having fun with them. There are so many benefits to having fun with kids.  That we just touch on them in this quick little podcast. Go have fun and bond with your kids.

Scenario 1: You start off in a relationship getting to know each other.  As that connection starts to go and get stranger so does the desire for physical intimacy. You continue to build the relationship on the physical. However, it comes to an end. Scenario 2: You have been in a relationship for years and it just isn't the same.  The intimacy is gone and there is no passion in sex.  It seems like we just don't connect anymore. Both of these scenarios are very common, to common.  However, there is a reason why.  Intimacy has 2 types; the emotional intimacy and the physical intimacy. You need both to have a Honeymoon Mindset.  They ebb and flow with each other. In today's podcast we talk about them, how they work and how to enhance them both.