The Be A Man Podcast

In this episode of the Be a Man Podcast, host CJ Wilkins delves into the nuanced discussion surrounding emotional intelligence (EI) in boys and its impact on their competitiveness as men on the global stage. With the evolving definitions of masculinity, CJ explores how cultivating EI—encompassing self-awareness, empathy, and effective communication—can be a strength rather than a hindrance in today's interconnected world.Key Topics:The role of emotional intelligence in personal and professional success.Balancing emotional expression with resilience and determination.Strategies for developing EI in boys without compromising competitiveness.Real-world examples of emotionally intelligent leaders thriving globally.Join CJ as he navigates this critical conversation, challenging traditional notions and advocating for a balanced approach to raising emotionally intelligent and globally competitive men.

In this raw and unfiltered conversation, I break down the uncomfortable truth behind modern dating struggles—and why accountability isn't always on the table.

In this episode, we delve into the Black Boycott of 2025—a powerful movement where Black communities across the nation harnessed their economic influence to protest corporate rollbacks of diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) initiatives. We explore the origins of this boycott, its key players, and the broader implications for economic justice and systemic change

In this season opener, we delve into the unexpected journey of Shedeur Sanders, who, despite a stellar college career, experienced a significant slide to the fifth round in the 2025 NFL Draft. We explore the factors contributing to this outcome, including perceptions of entitlement, pre-draft interview performances, and the influence of familial legacy. This episode offers insights into the importance of humility, self-awareness, and resilience, providing valuable lessons for Black men navigating personal and professional challenges.

CJ gives his take on 90s R&B and how it applies to Modern Women.

CJ gives a PhD level breakdown of the Travis Hunter and girlfriend situation and what all men could learn from this scenario

CJ goes into a tanget in Season 8 on the importance of having orginal thoughts. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a tangent about the importance of voting smart this Nov. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ Opens The Prelude to Season 8 with a motivating pod on the importance of Focus in life. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ opens Season 8 talking about the 3 things that will add value to your existence in 2024. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ opens Season 8 talking about Life fulfilment and purpose in 2024. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ talks about the importance of enjoying content but work on yourself as well. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: @mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ talks about the importance of knowing that we control both our failures and our successes in life and how to navigate both oceans. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: @mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ talks about the importance of being able to compartmentalize and take all online content for what it is but don't allow it to ruin your real life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ talks about the importance of realizing you're not as far off as you think from your goals. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ talks about the importance of eliminating the whole self in order for the new self to have room to grow and come into fruition. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

A quick breakdown of the cocky skank in 2023 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

All new season 7 banger

CJ goes into a deep rant about the importance of Men knowing how to select a suitable mate in today's time. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: @mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a tangent and breakdown about the importance of knowing how to actively pray as opposed to talking at God or the Creator. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a tangent about the fact that Beta Males will forever exist. Deal with it! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a deep spill about the importance of removing and identifying roadblocks in one's life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a tangent about how delayed gratification can improve your life. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a Ted Talk on self accountability and poor actions as it pertains to the Modern human connection and the legion of zombies who enable it. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

Christopher goes into a speil about the importance of men learning how to take constructive criticism in order to improve in life in business. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes deep into the JA scenario in the season 7 opener --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ talks about the importance of men never exchanging their freedom and or life for a vagina. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a deep dive about why it's hard for Modern Men to find a woman to take Serious in today's dating market. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

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CJ goes into a deep field about the importance of man having enough equities in life in order. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ breaks down the horrific Murder of Memphian, T. Nichols in Jan 2023. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

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CJ goes into a deep tangent about the importance of men having a principles base and standard for their life that all capacities. enjoy them --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

CJ create a new episode that talks about the importance of people reaching New heights and new levels in life toward all stagnation and the repetitive visiting of negative moments from the past. Always create new moments. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

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1. Lust 2. Insecurities 3. Money --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

CJ highlights of video that went viral that shows her husband confronting his wife for being pregnant years after his vasectomy. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

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CJ goes into a spill informing men of the importance of protect their gifts and talents. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

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CJ talks about the importance of Men being able to create and generate their own happiness for our sustained and fruitful life. Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: &mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 Twitter: @CWILK1989 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

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