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Many of the most loyal, dedicated men often find themselves confused when their relationships struggle despite genuinely wanting them to succeed.In this eye-opening episode of "So You're Living in a Simulation," Joli (@joli.artist) shares a fascinating pattern she discovered while reading veteran memoirs that reveals something profound about how we're all programmed to approach love.Men are taught to see women as "base camp" - the safe retreat you return to for rest and healing. But what if she's supposed to be your "battle buddy" instead - an equal partner fighting life's battles right alongside you?"Life is a battlefield for all of us. But while men are trained to see it that way, women are thrown into it without the training - yet we're still here, taking hits right alongside you."The episode invites listeners to consider questions such as:• How the same loyalty skills that work in the military can transform romantic relationships• Why emotional intelligence isn't weakness - it's advanced tactical thinking• The hidden programming that makes successful men fail at love• Real solutions using military-style operational frameworksJoli reads from her powerful article "Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp," breaking down exactly why partners leave after years of feeling like background characters in their man's survival story. But this isn't just criticism - it's a blueprint for change."You know how to assess risk, scan for threats, and triage under fire. So let's run the same framework in your relationship."The breakthrough insight: Men already possess all the skills needed for deep intimacy - they just haven't been taught to deploy them domestically. Using combat metaphors throughout, Joli shows how emotional support is actually advanced tactical operations, and why treating your partner's pain as "real intel" changes everything.For veterans and civilians alike, this episode offers a path from emotional isolation to true partnership, because if you can handle a battlefield, you can definitely handle a relationship. You just need the right operational manual.Article: Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp; She's on the Battlefield Too.https://medium.com/@joli.artist/dear-men-shes-not-base-camp-she-s-on-the-battlefield-too-24000e470f21youroneblackfriend.com•••Timestamps:00:00 Introduction: Veterans and the simulation awakening03:40 The warrior class in a dystopian society07:13 Deep dive into veteran memoirs and war psychology10:58 The intentional cycle: trauma to reenlistment14:54 The recurring pattern: warriors abandoned by love21:05 Article reading: "Dear Men, She's Not Base Camp"42:51 Reclaiming your life after being weaponized•••Key Explored Questions:What's the difference between base camp and battle buddy mentality?Why do men treat male friends differently from female partners?How to respond when your partner is emotionally distressed?How to apply tactical thinking to love and partnership?Why do veterans struggle with civilian relationship adjustment?What does operational respect mean in relationships?How to break free from toxic relationship programming?•••#relationships #veterans #ptsd

We all know the "rules" have changed when it comes to dating and relationships. There are few absolute in terms of how to relate to a dating or relationship partner, which begs questions like:If not money, then what IS the modern man supposed to provide?If you're a man, it may be hard to grasp what a woman truly craves from you. There's good news on this front, though: We women still need you! In fact, many would say we need healthy, passionate, masculine men now more than ever. And there are two very specific things healthy, embodied women truly desire from men. Here we delve into those, and along the way touch on sexy time, how hot it is when a man has a strong backbone, and how to keep up with all the shifting dynamics going on when it comes to sex, love, and dating in the modern world. ---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good. If you're looking for high-quality relationship advice, we've got it.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 262: Are you lonely?Dear Men episode 215: Are you intimidated by her big emotions? Here's what to do.Dear Men episode 329: How do you stay grounded when she's upset or dysregulated?Dear Men episode 305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programmingDear men episode 327: Transforming shame into power---Memorable quotes from this episode: "How do I win in this?""Can you provide me steadiness in a turbulent world?""We men are being asked to show up more — with more complexity.""I just avoided conflict … deny, deflect, defend."“If we don't have a capacity to attune and be present with ourselves, we can't do it with a partner.""Emotional safety does not mean please and appease.""There's not a lot we as a couple can do about that until I've worked with my own shame.""Women, more than ever, want to be polarized!""Most people want to know their partner wants to f*** them!"

Think you're running out of time to find love? Think again. In this video, I'll reveal the shocking truth about relationship timelines and why following society's expectations could be ruining your chances at real happiness.

In this episode, I unpack the real story behind those “age is just a number” relationships. Whether you've dated significantly older, younger, or just sat back watching this type of slow-motion trainwreck... you don't want to miss this! Listen NOW!   Then, check out my book "Don't Be DESPERATE: Get Over Your Breakup with CLARITY & DIGNITY" on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3R2EHiz AND, let's take this a step further... (1) ORDER EMAIL or PHONE coaching at breakupBOOST.com (2) Call Trina direct on The Breakup Hotline ANYTIME! (see website for details: https://www.breakupboost.com/live-coaching-trina-breakup-boost) (3) Check out Trina's BREAKUP AND DATING MERCH: blockandshop.com (4) SUBSCRIBE to Trina's YouTube - search "breakup BOOST" (5) Follow Trina TIKTOK @breakupBOOST (6) Follow Trina's relationship podcast: Help Us Couples Coaching

What does it mean to be a good husband?Many men we work with were trained to take care of everyone else before themselves. They often feel burnt out, and like they don't get nearly as much back as they give.If you've ever felt like you've tried everything you can to make your woman happy, but this only results in both of you being miserable ... you might be able to relate.Or perhaps you've lived some version of, "No matter how hard I try to please her -- how much I do -- it's never enough."Here, we talk about why this is. If he's bending over backwards to do what he thinks she wants, why doesn't it work?The answer lies in part with polarity, in part with childhood trauma (because of course), and in part with the fallacies of being a lone wolf.Related questions we cover:What does it mean to be a provider in modern times? (Hint: It's got nothing to do with money)How does this pattern impact sexual polarity?If it's not about sacrifice, then what does it actually mean to be a good husband?---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good. If you're looking for high-quality relationship advice, we've got it.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“If we're used to taking care of everyone else, we'll often attract someone who needs to be taken care of.”“The trouble with ‘please and appease' is that it leads to deep resentments.”“We have this fantasy that if she were happy, she'd naturally give me what I need, whether sexual connection, support, time, etc.”“When we feel a partner not respecting themselves, it causes contempt or disdain.”“What it means to be a provider is changing.”“The most valuable status is connection to community.”“Our relationships should be a source of wellness.”---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men 196: Were you a child of emotional neglect?Dear Men 345: The 4 male "types" who partner with Borderline women (Borderline Personality Disorder)Dear Men 292: Sex life with your wife not where you want it to be? This could be the culprit

Hi everyone!Today, I interview a special man in my life and allow him to share his not-so-robust thoughts on skincare and his regimen. This episode is short, sweet and hilarious, you do not want to miss it.Are you thinking of ways you can support me?1. Follow and Share this Podcast2. Support by donating to it, it helps in creating fantastic content3. Check out my Amazon storefront where I have curations for hair and skin. Use this⁠⁠ link⁠⁠ . If you do purchase using my link, I earn a commission. I would appreciate your support!Thank you so much and happy listening!

Does a part of you ever feel like just giving up? It's too much, it's too heavy, it's too complicated, it's too hard. Or has it ever felt like, "What's the point?"The truth is, we all have points in our lives when we feel overwhelmed. This can also show up in the, "Here I am again… I'm in the SAME SPOT. I always circle back to this.'"If you're single, perhaps it's: "Nothing's working in dating." If you're partnered, it could be: "I'm trying and trying, but nothing's working to get us reconnected."Or as Jason says, "In my relationship, it would be anytime that I would get activated into feeling like I'm not enough."Here we go into what's happening on a physiological level when this part is showing up for you -- the two poles. These are dorsal shutdown — disassociation/sleepy/collapsed/yawning; and sympathetic overdrive — hyper/activated/manic/wired/anger.We talk about how to recognize these states, and what to do it when you do. Hint: "Connection and movement are two of the most important things. And sometimes to shift our mindset, we have to shift our body first."---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:"Our whole system just shuts down, and we're frozen or disassociated."“What's the point of trying? What's the point of getting angry? What's the point of connecting with someone online? It's not going to change.”"It's a deep place of suffering when we don't feel like we have agency over our own life.""Rumination — our mind is racing but our body isn't moving.""The optimal place is in the middle: We're engaged, and we're relaxed.""One of the ways we get back to that relaxed state is through social connection.""One breath, one step."“If we can be with it, we can be free from it.”---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men 196: Were you a child of emotional neglect?

Ever been with a woman partner who was emotionally volatile? Ever felt like you were walking on eggshells, or that no matter what you did it wasn't enough and she was always disappointed in you?If so, she may have had Borderline Personality Disorder ... or at least traits of it.More people are diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) than schizophrenia and bipolar combined, yet few are familiar with it. Some mental health professionals estimate that a whopping 10% of the population contends with BPD, which psychologists are working to get renamed Emotional Regulation Disorder.Here, we break down the 4 archetypes of Borderline women, and their male counterparts. Much of this is gleaned from Christine Lawson's book Understanding the Borderline Mother.We also go over the ways each of the male archetypes can heal from the intense and unstable, exhausting, and often depleting relationship dynamics involved.Remember: growth and healing are always possible, and nothing is set in stone. Personal growth works, so work it.---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality DisorderDear Men episode 313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder)Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder (book)Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship (book)Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents (book)Subreddit for BPD Loved Ones ---Want to support wildfire survivors in the LA area?Go here. They list the families in the most dire need at the top. The long URL is:https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1pK5omSsD4KGhjEHCVgcVw-rd4FZP9haoijEx1mSAm5c/htmlview---Memorable quotes from this episode:"'Children are the first to recognize and the last to admit that something is wrong with their mother.'" (from Understanding the Borderline Mother)"My wife is the fortress and I'm here to protect that.""There's a theme of icing people out.""I'm willing to leave the relationship if you/we don't get help.""You CAN change your patterns of attraction."

Are you gettin' out onto the dating scene in 2025? Whether you're newly single, a refugee from the world of pickup, recently divorced, or you've been dating for a while now, there are a few myths we see as obsolete that we wanted to bust.Sex, dating, and relationships can be confusing territory, and there are a lot of dos and don'ts when it comes to dating in the modern world. This is especially true in a post-#MeToo culture, where a lot of men have deep-seated concerns around coming off as creepy.If you've ever wondered whether it's "right" to text her right away (will you come off as thirsty if you text too soon?), whether you need to hide your nervousness (hint: you don't), or how to ask her out respectfully, listen on.If you're looking for pickup artist nonsense, you won't get it here. But if you're seeking attuned, loving dating advice for men from people who deeply care about men, women, and all human beings -- and staying openhearted -- then you're in the right spot.---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men 138: GirlTalk: When to text her vs. call her!Dear Men 274: How do you make sure you're not coming across as creepy?Dear Men 296: What does it actually mean to step into your power?Dear Men 332: Ever gone into freeze? Here's what's actually going on---Memorable quotes from this episode:"I don't want to ever make anyone else feel uncomfortable, so I want them to initiate and drive.""There's a belief that I need to hide my attraction or first establish a friendly relationship.""It's another type of pressure men carry about a certain way they have to be in order to be seen as worthy.""Seven years into your marriage you're still going to have to share something that's scary."

Do you wish your woman was more open to sex? Not just intercourse, but the fun of the whole sex thing -- kissing, making out, foreplay, getting hot and heavy, doing the dirty.Ever longed for more from your wife/girlfriend/partner when it comes to sexuality -- and not just "from her" but with her? Ever wished she had more fun when it came to sex, that she enjoyed it more, was more expressed and into it?Many of our clients feel a yearning to connect more with their woman, but aren't even sure how to bring it up. Talking about sex is sensitive, and even more so if sexual trauma is part of the picture. And masturbation can be even harder to discuss, especially in partnership.Here, we talk all things sexual opening and awakening when it comes to the feminine. We draw from our own personal journeys as well as countless stories from other women who've learned how to connect to their own erotic essence (separate from a partner), and the myriad benefits associated with that. We cover the many health benefits of masturbation, yoni eggs, cervical wands, breast massage, G-spot de-armoring and more.To close this out, I'm gonna drop some slang terms for women getting themselves off, because they're all kinds of fab:Ménage à moiAuditioning the finger puppetsWomansplaining yourselfFanning the furChecking the undercarriageButtering your muffinDiddling Miss Daisyand my personal favorite ... Paddling the pink canoe---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men 153: Her sexual healing: How to support her *and* get your needs met (ft. Violet Lange)Dear Men 191: Supporting a woman in her sexual pleasure & healing (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola) -- the one about jade eggsJaiya's erotic blueprintsPlease Her In Bed (my streaming course for men who have sex with women)Evolutionary Couples (Violet & Jason's new course for couples)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“I'm in a relationship, I'm finally happy! Why don't I want to have sex with my partner?!”“I hear this from moms all the time: sex is not a priority for me.”“Even if your libido feels like it's dormant, you can still work with responsive desire.”“I really miss the closeness I feel with your body … I long for you.”“Let's swim in the sea of erotic energy.”

Do you know men who don't have close friends?It's a common problem (one that I cover in Episode 31 and Episode 32 of this podcast) with major implications. Poor social and mental health in men is connected with all kinds of other issues ranging from suicide and depression to gun violence.Joining me to talk about this issue is Antonio Neves, a leadership expert, motivational speaker, award-winning journalist, bestselling author of Stop Living on Autopilot, host of the podcast The Antonio Neves Show, and founder of Man Morning.This episode is full of great advice for men who are looking to rebuild their social circles. His major suggestion: take action! Find a group. Give a friend a call. Put something on the calendar. It might feel awkward, but it's all part of the process.In this episode you'll hear about:My personal experience seeing the downside of poor friendship support networks when my mom passed away and my dad became a single parent of three kidsFace-to-face communicators vs. side-to-side communicators, and the difference between big conversations at 7 a.m. vs. 7 p.m.Antonio's advice on how to push past the “Level 1 Listener” status; plus, five of the most powerful words you can say in a conversationThe power of investing in ourselves, particularly our support systems, BEFORE we hit rock bottomResources & Links:Want to hear more on this topic? Be sure to listen to Episode 31 and Episode 32.Check out Antonio's book Stop Living on Autopilot, listen to The Antonio Neves Show, and learn about Man Morning.Like what you hear? Visit my website, leave me a voicemail, and follow me on Instagram and TikTok!Want to take this conversation a step further? Send this episode to a friend. Tell them you found it interesting and use what we just talked about as a conversation starter the next time you and your friend hang out!

Ever chased emotionally unavailable women? Ever dropped a connection because you felt overwhelmed, or like something was "off" but you couldn't quite name what it was? Ever been uncomfortable with the "mess" of dealing with someone else's emotions, or been hesitant to share your own out of a fear of rocking the boat? Then this episode will resonate.Here we talk directly about avoidant attachment traits -- including what they've been like for us personally. For example, finding something small but unappealing about someone (like what kind of shoes they wear), and having that get in the way of relationship.We do this to bring these patterns to light, so that we can learn to work with them. When it comes to the different attachment styles, including anxious, avoidant, and anxious/avoidant (aka disorganized attachment), we also want to be clear that we can always move towards secure attachment, and that learning and growth are more than possible.---More episodes on this topic:Dear Men episode 196: Did you experience emotional neglect as a kid? Here's how to knowDear Men episode 62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper) (this one goes more into de-activating strategies mentioned on this episode)---Work with usWant to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)

It's a solo episode! I pulled together some questions from clients or listeners, and go into depth on them.Remember that you can always send me your question or questions -- just email me at dearmenpodcast@gmail.com. Everything is on the table, from sex and dating to relationships and repair. I want to hear from you!Here are the questions I answer on this episode:How do I rebuild trust with a partner after a rupture, or a lack of leading over time?How do I date someone in the same friend group without it getting weird?I went on a date with a woman and it went pretty well, but we didn't kiss at the end. I got the sense (especially in thinking back) that she wanted me to kiss her when we were outside waiting for her ride. It's tough because it's so hard to know what the right thing to do is. How do I know when it's time to kiss her on a date??---Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love lives for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 238: How do I approach a woman at the gym? How do I approach a woman at work?

Ever been in a relationship where you felt like it started off GREAT, but over time it became really hard? Ever felt like you had electric sex with someone, especially at the beginning, but then you were often put in the doghouse for doing something "wrong," and that eventually you ended up constantly walking on eggshells to try not to trigger your partner? Then you'll likely resonate with this episode.If you're someone who struggles with setting healthy boundaries, you may have noticed a certain pattern in terms of the dating and relationship partners you've ended up with.In our work with men we've often seen a certain kind of polarity where men with Nice Guy tendencies attract women with traits of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). These women are often brilliant, funny, engaging, witty, exciting to be around ... and volatile. Romantic relationships with them can be a rollercoaster with precipitous highs and lows.Fortunately, we've also seen countless men overcome this pattern and grow beyond it. Here we delve into the pattern itself, reasons behind it, and what to do about it.Memorable quotes:“One of the hallmark traits of Nice Guys is overextending.”“It's often the volatile person's nervous system that gets centered.”“If you don't see reality their way, you're the enemy.”“There's a fear that if I end this, I'm going to be alone."“At an early age, the Nice Guy had to regulate one of his parents, or the family system itself.”“Maybe me speaking up isn't aggressive.”---Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 239: Just realized I'm a nice guy. Now what?Dear Men episode 128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder

Dear Men,Please listen to this episode about consent and rape culture. Hugh, Ryan & Josh xOn the face of it, this Academy of Imperfection with Chanel Contos may seem like a heavy episode. An episode about consent, rape culture and sexual violence might not seem like an episode that concerns you. That may be true, but if the #MeToo movement taught us anything, it's that you probably know someone who's either been raped or sexually assaulted in some way. We have a lot to learn about consent, and we owe it to the women in our lives to listen to Chanel Contos.To learn more about Chanel, her work and the Teach Us Consent campaign, follow this link: https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0 To purchase Chanel's book, 'Consent Laid Bare', follow this link: https://bit.ly/40Z0XghRecommended TV series, Sex Education and Heart Break High can be viewed on Netflix.  To view a version of the 'rape culture pyramid', follow this link: https://bit.ly/49XPFgh If you have experienced, or are at risk of sexual violence, sexual assault, family or domestic violence, call the 24 hour national counselling service 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). In an emergency, or if you are feeling unsafe, always call the police on 000.The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you're struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cheating is both a sensitive and complex topic. It lies at the intersection of sexuality, betrayal, needs, wants, and power.Here we explore something we've noticed in our work: the correlation we've witnessed between the pattern of cheating, and not being in your power as a man. We go over both the experience of cheating as well as being cheated on.In Jason's words, “One of the shadow sides of a lot of Nice Guys is tolerating not being treated well, and in a weird way this has partners treat them even worse.”To be clear, cheating is wrong and causes harm, and we are not condoning it. What we are doing is discussing questions like: What happens when your needs aren't met in a relationship?How do you handle feeling stuck when it comes to sex and relationship?Whether you're dating or in a committed partnership, how do you effectively communicate with a partner when were never taught how to do so?Work with usReady to go deeper than the podcast? Jason and I are ready to work with you! We specialize in helping men break old patterns and transform their sex & love life for good.To see if there's a fit for our flagship program Pillars of Presence, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)---Memorable quotes from this episode:“I wasn't taught to attune to myself, or advocate for myself.”‘“Life just happening to us' (as Nice Guys) vs. ‘I have the power to impact my life.'”“Confrontational tolerance is critical.”“It tends to bring guys alive.”Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 128: Recognizing Borderline Personality DisorderDear Men episode 196: The “invisible” relationship pattern that can affect everything -- this is the one I reference, where we talk about emotional neglect250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? ft. Jason Lange -- this one explores the concept of polarity as well as reverse polarity

Dear Men! Finally, our day is here and as usual, no one is going to wish us. If we keep that aside, we have our Cricket World Cup Finals. Let's wish the Indian Cricket Team, very good luck. Let's hear our cricketers giving tit-bits about their life.    #WorldCup #CWC2023 #CWC23 #CricketWorldCup #Cricket #AMB #AaduMagaduRaBujji #MensDay #InternationalMensDay #RedFMTelugu #RedFM See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Ep 336: For Men Who Want to Get Women Off & the Women Who Want To Understand Them Better with Melanie Curtin. Melanie is a sex & relationship coach for men, sex researcher, and podcast host of the show Dear Men Podcast. We chatted about how her research has shown that men love to get women off, but that only 10% of women (or less!) reported that men are good in bed. We chatted about this disconnect, why it commonly happens, and how it can be fixed. She offered smart advice for men on how to succeed in sex, dating, relationships, and marriage.  She shared about the heart/cock matrix, good guys vs. the men who don't get labeled that way, bad boys, and what women really want. We also discussed personal opinions and shared dating, relationship, and personal opinion stories. We had a great chat!Connect with Melanie Curtin on her podcast Dear Men, available on podcast apps. Check out her website at https://www.melaniecurtin.com/work-with-me/She is also on Instagram as melaniebcurtin and find her on LinkedIn as well.This show is published as a video on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/3lAO_gQSOY8I hope you find this relationships self help, self care,  heterosexual sexual health and fitness episode helpful!RUAN'S most recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS:Neighborhood Sex Secrets: author Ruan WillowBuy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales):https://books2read.com/u/3R5MZjhttps://amzn.to/3CVxzw8Decadent Erotica: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/decadenteroticaaudiobookThe Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thelimosexchallengeRuan's Books, Audiobooks: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.comNew Cuckold audiobook: https://www.chirpbooks.com/audiobooks/cucked-by-the-college-jock-the-biker-bull-and-the-bbc-workout-trainerhttps://www.kobo.com/us/en/audiobook/cucked-by-the-college-jock-the-biker-bull-and-the-bbc-workout-trainerhttps://play.google.com/store/audiobooks/details/Ruan_Willow_Cucked_by_the_College_Jock_the_Biker_B?id=AQAAAEDiUTQRxMCatch my podcast on tv! PodNation TV Network/Roku TV! My sThe BEAM ChroniclesThere are no heroes. Fiction podcast/Superhero Audiobook by MJ DooneyListen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify Support the showSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan is a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ Ruan is a Kiirro Toys Ambassador get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/Copyright 2021-2023 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC

In today's show, a sex therapist, Melanie Curtin, joins us to discuss our sex lives -  how we can create safer spaces, the importance of sexual communication and she addresses some hot issues such as, does dick size matter?  How many women end a relationship because of dick size?  Why are women more likely to discuss their sexual needs with a fling?  She covers this and a WHOLE lot more, so don't miss it!***** You can find Melanie Curtin @ www.melaniecurtin.com and be sure to check out her podcast - Dear Men! ***** Do you want to be a guest on the show?Do you have a show idea?Email us today at lovesexpodcast@gmail.com!Visit Pink Cherry for some sex toys and explore your wildest fantasies!Join the Love & Sex Facebook Group!Visit the Love & Sex Podcast and support the show by buying us a cup of coffee!Get ED pills at Hims or Roman at much lower price then Viagra, and have them discreetly shipped directly to your house!Support the show

Ever found yourself resentful of a relationship partner? Maybe you feel like you're always giving and never getting much in return. Perhaps you've seen her as selfish, not providing you with the respect, love, attention, or sex you need in order to feel connected.Everyone has heard, "You can't love someone else until you love yourself," but what does loving yourself actually mean? Hint: It's not just taking bubble baths or treating yourself to fancy pastries.Self-love is the bedrock of relationship, and it's deeply related to resentment, fulfillment, and -- perhaps unexpectedly -- parenting. It's also linked to healthy sex, dynamic dating, and honest relationships.Whether you're currently in a romantic relationship, want to be in a relationship, or are somewhere in between, this is a critical skill to build. There are 3 myths about self-love. Can you guess what they are?Memorable quotes from this episode:"Oh my God, I don't even love myself, and this could be driving some of our relationship patterns.""It was like a low-level sadness, like something was missing in my life but I didn't know what it was.""Anything I didn't deem as a positive emotion, I didn't make space for ... and that translated to my kids.""We are never the same self; you are always relating to a different self.""'I've got to work harder' is a trigger thought"“I need novelty.”---From this episode:Megan's podcast: Amory (amorypodcast.com)Megan's mini-course on self-love (Our retreat, The Nature of Relating, in Costa Rica, Nov 9-14. Use code FRIENDOFMEL for $200 off (https://tinyurl.com/2p2ykrkz)---Work with usReady to break old patterns and transform your sex & love life for good? Jason and I are ready to work with you in our flagship program, Pillars of Presence. To see if there's a fit, book a call here. Start anytime. (https://evolutionary.men/apply/)More upcoming live events:The Heart of Shadow program run by Jason & Luke starts Sept 19th and includes a live retreat Oct 18-22. Dear Men listeners get 10% off tuition here: melaniecurtin.com/shadow

Shadow work is popular in the personal growth community, and for good reason — it can be deeply transformational. Many people report deeper and more lasting shifts with shadow work than with years of talk therapy.But what's talked about less often is how sexy shadow work can make you. As a woman who has sex with men, I can attest to this — a man who does real shadow work is hot. Period.Here, Jason and I join forces with Luke Adler, doctor of Chinese medicine, healer, and men's coach, to talk all things shadow work, sex, relationships, masculine identity, and the freedom that comes from doing deep work with trustable people.Dear Men listeners get 10% off registration using the coupon codes in the link below.Memorable quotes from this episode:"Actual table flip!“Mentioned on this episode:melaniecurtin.com/shadow

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As we celebrate Father's Day and the men in our lives who've had impact and influence, let's be sure we let them know that we need them and the gifts and talents we bring to this world. Even and especially with all their cracks, for this is how the light gets in. And we need their light.Visit www.kellybargabos.com to listen to all past episodes and/or connect with Kelly.

CJ talks about the importance of men never exchanging their freedom and or life for a vagina. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christopolis-tha-great/support

Special Guest IG: @jtlinde - Credentials-10+ years Men's work-RisingMan Movement, MPowered Brotherhood, Sacred Sons, Red Rocks Austin Men's Grow Group. 7+ years corporate sales coaching & training.

Ever experienced the relationship pattern where she essentially says, "I was hurt by this thing you did," or, "I need you to love me better/differently" — and then you feel like you've failed, pull away, and maybe even have the desire to just stop trying altogether?Whether you're in a dating relationship or a long-term, committed relationship like a marriage, this is a very common relationship pattern. It can be easy for women to be critical or share feedback in ways that are not at all constructive (sometimes even bullying). And it can be easy for a man, when he feels he has let down/disappointed his partner, to get defensive or withdraw (or both), which can trigger even more upset. This, then, can affect your sex life as well as your emotional intimacy.How do two people meet in the middle here? How does she soften and share feedback in an openhearted way, and how does he receive it without collapsing and/or entering into a shame spiral?The good news is that it is possible to grow here, and for both partners to meet each other in the middle.Memorable quotes from this episode:"Hearing that nothing was ever good enough for her made me withdrawal into passivity and inaction. Why do anything for her when I'm always going to be shot down for trying?""One of the masculine's main fears: We can't provide enough, we're not emotional enough, we're not communicating enough … we're not enough.""I felt deeply met by him when he did that ... it was the first time I'd ever felt fully expressed that way with a man."Mentioned on this episode:Dear Men episode 128: Recognizing the signs of Borderline Personality DisorderReady to go beyond the podcast?We love to work with men who are ready to do the work! If something isn't working in your sex or love life and you want to transform it, break old patterns, and move forward in a real and lasting way, we can help. Take action here.

It's a pro-male episode but there's still some anti-man action that's being talked about. From a recently approved anal condom to the comparison between monogamy and hypergamy, Sir Denver B takes his witty insights as he seeks to search for truth, comedy and a whole lot of opinions... Viral Tea Article: https://viraltea.co.ke/denver-b-why-finding-a-mate-is-harder-for-women-todayBreak Time on Westside Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/breaktimeonwestside/My Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/denver_bagaka/My Twitter:https://twitter.com/BagakatheD

We're baaaaaack! It gets real personal for Christine on our first episode of season three! We decided to revisit our "Dear _____ Men" series after enough of you said you were ready for the air sign slander! Christine takes us on a journey to answer the tough questions about these future trippin' mfers, such as "Are Aquarius men players?" (Definitely) "Will Aquarius men apologize?" (Probably not) and "How much space do you give an Aquarius man?" (A lot, apparently) Meanwhile, Shelby fights her inner Aquarius Venus and Mars signs to stop hating on things just because they're popular. Send us your questions, comments, or things you'd like to hear about on the show! Our email is suchapiscespod@gmail.com and we're @suchapiscespod on Tiktok, Twitter, Instagram and Facebook. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Welcome to a brand new episode of the ¿Quién Tú Eres? podcast, where we explore the conflict we often face between "professionalism" & being our authentic selves. This week, we have the pleasure of speaking with Jason Rosario...who is the Chief Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Officer at BBDO Worldwide. An Afro-Latino native New Yorker, Jason Rosario has spent most of his life breaking down barriers and building up inclusive cultures. He is passionate about innovation and the power of creativity to drive change. Jason is Global Chief Diversity, Equity & Inclusion Officer and sits on the BBDO Worldwide Board of Directors. In this role, he impacts agency diversity policy, influences the agency's creative to ensure it reflects inclusive principles, and counsels clients on inclusive marketing best practices. As part of the OPEN Leadership team, he partners with other Omnicom agencies to help execute the holding company's diversity and inclusion strategy. Jason is an expert at helping brands identify and implement inclusive practices at the enterprise level, having worked with top clients including Netflix, Yahoo!, Spotify, and Huffington Post. Prior to joining BBDO, Jason worked for Verizon Media Group as Manager of Global Diversity & Inclusion and was the Executive Producer and Host of the Yahoo! News original web series “Dear Men.” In 2017, he founded The Lives of Men, a social impact creative agency that explores themes around masculinity, mental health and culture. And in 2022 was recognized by ADCOLOR as the first ever DE&I Executive of the Year. He is a MBA graduate of NYU's Stern School of Business and sits on the board of Made of Millions, a non-profit organization changing the negative stigmas around mental health. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/quientueres/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/quientueres/support

I understand that this World we currently live in is confusing. There's so much stimuli and so much information that it's extremely difficult to pull fact from friction and make a decision. Millions of people are searching for the truth and anything that may validate how you think or feel, gives you something to cling to. As a middle child, I understand. I can't tell you exactly what to do but this show is designed to share the greatest pieces of guidance I've received throughout my short years on Earth, In hopes that people like you can use it in your life, to improve the quality of yours and the space for others. Todays mantra is Control what you can control. Even more so, understanding the greatest thing you can have control over is your ego. Though everyone has one, men and women, today is dedicated specifically to young men. _____________________ Listen Time: 24 minutes Intro/Outro song: 'Together' by Marshmello (Licensed under Apple Music) Instagram: @DariusMRiddick Facebook: @DariusMRiddick Copyright ©️ 2023. Courtesy of Victorosa Studios. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/la-vida-victorosa/support

Ever frozen up around someone you found attractive? It can be exceedingly frustrating — you're fine around other people, but put you in front of a beautiful woman and your system just shuts down. Before you can even get to dating someone, having sex, or being in a relationship, you've got to talk to them, right!?Many of our single clients want to be confident with women. Yet many men report getting triggered before any kind of interaction at all. Thoughts like these interrupt:"Why would she ever be into me?""I don't even like my body. Why would she like my body?""I'm 35 and not married yet. What's wrong with me?"Underlying all of these kinds of thoughts is the issue of worthiness. We've all heard the adage that you've got to be able to love yourself before you're truly able to love another — but how do you get there? How do you overcome deep-seating self-loathing? The feeling of never being enough is an exhausting one to carry around. Fortunately, you don't have to keep shouldering that burden alone.For example, here are a few thoughts Jason used to have: "Why would she ever want me? I don't have enough experience. I don't get why she'd pick me over other guys."Now he's married to a woman who cherishes and respects him, and is a heathy father to boot. The truth is, overcoming the freeze response is related to your own sense of self-image, as well as your bodymind's capacity to hold intensity. And all of that is changeable, workable, and capable of transformation.If you've ever had thoughts like, "I'm tired of being alone" or, "I'm scared I'll never meet someone," then this episode will also be relevant for you.The Dear Men podcast episode mentioned on this episode (on children of neglect): Episode 196: The “invisible” relationship pattern that can affect everything (ft. Jason Lange)"If you put shame in a Petri dish, it needs three things to grow exponentially: secrecy, silence and judgment. If you put the same amount of shame in a Petri dish and douse it with empathy, it can't survive." - Dr. Brené Brown

Real Men Hurt Too, we need to acknowledge this hurt.  Talitha talks about family and healing by having each individual work on themself.  We prosper with better relationships by having healthy communications between couples.   Let us all heal.Find Talitha:www.talithaharrison.comwww.dearmenofficial.com      For Book, "Dear Men"www.realmenmend.org            For the organization and clothing lineInstagram -    IamtalithaharrisonFacebook -    Talitha HarrisonLife Is Wonderful.Lovewww.lifeiswonderful.loveWork The Steps in 90 DaysThe 12 Steps Explained coursehttps://lifeiswonderful-love.mykajabi.com/storeFacebook Group - The 12 Steps Explained Fellowship | FacebookYouTube -    Life Is Wonderful   Hugo VInstagram -  Lifeiswonderful.LoveTikTok -  Lifeiswonderful.LovePinterest -   Lifeiswonderful.LoveTwitter -     LifeWonderLoveLinkedIn -   Hugo Vrsalovic            Life Is Wonderful.LoveSupport the showRecovery is Beautiful. Go Live Your Best Life!!Life Is Wonderful.Lovewww.lifeiswonderful.loveYour EQ is Your IQRecovery Freedom CircleThe System That Understands Recovery, Builds Character and Helps People Have Better Relationships.A Life Changing Solutionhttps://lifeiswonderful-love.mykajabi.com/storeFacebook Group - Recovery Freedom Circle | FacebookYouTube - Life Is Wonderful Hugo VInstagram - Lifeiswonderful.LoveTikTok - Lifeiswonderful.LovePinterest - Lifeiswonderful.LoveTwitter - LifeWonderLoveLinkedIn - Hugo Vrsalovic Life Is Wonderful.Love

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Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-be-a-man-podcast/id1422487024?mt=2&uo=4 Instagram: &mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/support

CJ goes into a deep tangent about the importance of men having a principles base and standard for their life that all capacities. enjoy them --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

CJ goes into a spill informing men of the importance of protect their gifts and talents. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

In today's episode, Andy lays out the truth about the dire need for strong, uncompromising men to take charge, why crying about the struggles of society is detrimental to the cause, and why it's necessary to take self-accountability & personal excellence seriously to restore freedoms in America.

CJ talks about the importance of choosing the correct woman in dating so that your mental health will not be deteriorated. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

Des's last episode before the new baby!! catch up with us and join us for a discussion about celeb culture, our infatuation with celebrities, and recent scandals. do people ever actually get canceled??   Time Stamps:   (0:10) 100% Des's Last Episode (4:21) Em's Workout Class (12:55) Why Are Celebrities a Thing? (18:10) Parents on Payroll? (29:05) Starting with Kimmy K (49:20) Family Channel Opinion (52:20) Baby Maloney (1:02:00) Dear Men…   P.s. we apologize for the sound issues last episode- it was out of our control!  Please leave us a 5 star rating and review! Follow us on Instagram @belowtheinfluencer to join in on the fun.  Description box links:    EMAIL: DESBFIT@GMAIL.COM or BOGAU1EF@GMAIL.COM   *any brand link below supports us*    EM'S LINKS: find links here➭ https://shor.by/EmB instagram ➭ https://www.instagram.com/dietitian.em.b/ legion athletics supplements (code BTI)➭ BuyLegion.com/BTI   DES'S LINKS: patreon ➭ https://www.patreon.com/DESB/creators instagram ➭ https://www.instagram.com/desb___ twitter ➭ https://twitter.com/desbfit facebook ➭ https://www.facebook.com/desbfittraining my weekly emails ➭ https://mailchi.mp/a0ed2b83e2ec/dbfts... official website  ➭ https://www.desbfittraining.com alani nu supplements (code “desb”)  ➭ https://www.alaninu.com hydrojug (code “desb”) ➭ https://www.thehydrojug.com  tula skincare (code “desb”) ➭  https://www.tula.com free stuff and other codes  ➭  https://www.desbfittraining.com/desb   --------------------------------------------------- Shop DBFT fitness app programs: www.desbfittraining.com/fit-guides    OPEN FACEBOOK FITNESS COMMUNITY: www.facebook.com/groups/dbftcommunity    --------------------------------------------------- ROAST OR TOAST The best way to end every episode and born on the Brunch with Desb Podcast - this gives us a chance to take fun topics, and insert our opinion on whether we ROAST it or TOAST it. Find more dedicated episodes on BWD! Submit weekly on our Instagram to join along on the fun, and let us know what you would do!

Here Are My Platforms E-Mail: Cjwilkins89@gmail.com Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/t... Instagram: &mrcjwilkins Cash App: $ChrisWilkins1989 Twitter: @CWILK1989 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

CJ gives a breakdown on why it's important to always think before you commit poor decisions. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

CJ goes into a tangent and explain to men why it's vital that you primarily deal with women who like and respect you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/christopolis-tha-great/message

Well…qucciE has horrible time management and also really hates men. Quest might have a p0rn addiction but that's for you to decide. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/2qsinapod/message

On this week's episode I think it's appropriate to remind todays men how valuable you are! Wait until you hear these shocking statistics regarding today's men, in addition to how you can help by using your value to inspire the value in others.

Welcome back! In this episode of Sofie & Dana we dive into themes surrounding dating yet again. Specifically, why and how men can date anyone they want. Why is this you ask? Great question!  We explore this topic through our personal experiences in dating thus far and discuss what it is that really attracts women (spoiler: it's not 6 pack abs) and how if a man moves with confidence he can attract any woman he wants.  But what about secure women? We're seeing now more than ever a lot of beautiful, driven, and secure women who are single; and not by choice. Do secure women get the short end of the stick? Or are they just holding out for something bigger and better? We talk about it all in this episode and we hope that if you're having struggles in dating, this makes you feel less alone!  Follow, download and leave us a review!  Follow us on Instagram:  Sofie | https://www.instagram.com/sofiaslez/ Dana | https://www.instagram.com/danapay/ *Intro Music by https://www.instagram.com/beatsbymour/ Want to see this on video? Subscribe to our Youtube channel for Tuesday uploads: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcgzUunsFJbvegrtQ5loLJA (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcgzUunsFJbvegrtQ5loLJA)

V-day is around the corner, actually no there's still plenty of time! Join Nancy & guest speaker Nelly as they talk about what they expect on a perfect vday date.

How should white people respond to their positionality in a world in which anti-black racism proliferates? How should men respond to their positionality in a world in which patriarchy proliferates?What does it mean to be an ally of black people? What does it mean to be an ally of women? What are the true requirements of ubuntu, and what action steps should be taken by allies to truly be productive in helping to smash racism and patriarchy. This episode of In The Ring With Eusebius McKaiser examines both male privilege and white privilege. It features Sue de Groot, deputy features editor of Sunday Times. We explain our respective unearned privileges and engage critically on the wider issues that flow from there.

Diana has a message for all the men of Bravo for 2022: "stop menning, and start living." She spills the Bravo Tea on Andy Cohen's wild NYE, Vicki Gunvalson's ex Steve Lodge's shady new engagement, and an update on Noella and not so Sweet James Bergener's divorce. Plus, she recaps Vanderpump Rules and discusses why Brock continues to be the biggest loser on the beach.

Dear Men, We are pleased to share this episode with you, fully aware that it will change your life and help you find love. Please take our word for it that the tips mentioned in this episode are 100% accurate and will in fact improve your lackluster dating profiles. We're here to help. Sincerely, Smash or Pass Follow Along! Instagram: @smashorpasspod TikTok: @smashorpasspod --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app