The Married Life

Discover an all-day foreplay plan to get your wife in the mood. This guide will help you set the mood and create intimacy with your partner.

In this video, we address the common question: Can CHRISTIANS really have AMAZING sex? Watch to find out our thoughts on this topic! Looking to deepen your intimacy with your partner? In this video, we reveal secrets to deeper intimacy in your relationship. Don't miss out on these relationship tips! This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. =============================

Dating can slow down as you become parents. But it doesn't have to stop! Here are some dating hacks to keep your love on fire

Discover 14 thought-provoking questions to ask your spouse on a date night. Strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection with these conversation starters! Plus Date Night Tips! This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. =============================

Discover the real benefits of dating that you never knew existed. From boosting your confidence to improving your communication skills, dating can have a positive impact on your life in more ways than you think! This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Date Night Questions PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/themarriedlife/dzxz2r830v =============================

In this video, we discuss the most overlooked aspect of marriage: dating. Discover why maintaining a strong dating relationship is crucial for a happy and healthy marriage. Marriage's Most Overlooked Aspect: Dating This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Date Night Questions PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/themarriedlife/dzxz2r830v ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:

If you want better intimacy, start with better thinking! Learn how a strong mind can lead to better sex in this eye-opening video. This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:

Looking to spice things up in the bedroom? Check out this video for 1 simple tip for better sex that will take your intimacy to the next level! This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:

Learn how scheduling sex can actually strengthen your marriage and bring you closer together. Find out how this simple practice can reignite the spark in your relationship and improve communication and intimacy. Watch this video to learn more about how scheduling sex can save marriages. This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:

Ready to spice up your sex life? In this video, we'll share secret Number 1 to better intimacy that will bring you closer to your partner and enhance your relationship. Your wife wants you to know this! This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF =============================https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.orgIG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:

What type of sex is allowed in a Christian marriage? And you might be shocked to know the answer. If your a Christian you might think after you hear these answers “I would never think to do that” If your not a Christian you might think “I would never think to do that” The big myth in Christian marriages is sex sucks. Not because there is sucking but because Christian's are prudes. This video is NOT sponsored. Some product links are affiliate links which means if you buy something we'll receive a small commission. ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication=============================https://www.covenantspice.com/?ref=cuockkyshttp://positioncards.com/tmlhttps://www.amazon.com/shop/themarriedlife =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.orgIG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to the Think Media Podcast HERE:

Looking to revolutionize your marriage? Check out these sex tips that will bring excitement and intimacy back into your relationship. 4 tips you can implement tonight. ============================= ⚡️FREE Communication PDF ============================= https://mailchi.mp/ca71c1bf7f65/3-steps-to-clearer-communication =========================== Connect with us! ============================= Tik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@themarriedlife.org IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/themarriedlife.us =========================== Subscribe and Listen to The Married Life Podcast HERE:

Here are 4 secrets to summer success in a busy life.

What are you going to do when your marriage has to get rid of waste? Having a healthy outlet is important. Counselors and pastors are always great resources if you are not able to communicate properly with your spouse. But what we should never do is vent and complain to our friends and family about our spouses. They will most likely take your side in each situation but also you will transfer your bitterness and frustration to them as well. Take some time right now to decide where your safe places are for you and your spouse. Do you have a counselor that you have both decided on? If there are elders or pastors in the church for the both of you to talk to together and separate? Decide now so that WHEN arguments and disagreements happen, you know exactly where you are going to turn. Take some time right now to pray and ask the Lord these first questions separately. What are my passions? If money wasn't an object, what would I do every day? What do I want to say I've accomplished at the end of my life?

Hey welcome to the married life!  Step 1: Research and hire the building team One of the most important decisions in building the home of your dreams is choosing the right team for what you want to build. If you want a strong healthy marriage, you need to surround yourself with a good support system. Since the 5 people (or marriages) you surround yourself with are who you will be in the future, who are the friends that you are going to hang around? Will you see a counselor regularly? Who are you going to talk to when you need to? Are you going to get plugged into a church and a small group? Talk about these things now. List names and frequencies. Step 2. Clear the property, level the site, and prepare the foundation Before you build a house, the land that you purchase must first be cleared and removed of any debris, vegetation, trees, bush and rocks. In your marriage, forgiveness and the things from the past need to be cleared out and up rooted before you can build a vision and future. Use this time right now to humble yourself, ask for forgiveness and really talk about the issues that are holding you back from moving forward in your marriage. Allow your spouse to share anything that has caused them to have unforgiveness in their hearts too. Create a safe place where you can share your thoughts and feelings. Step 3. Pour the Foundation Your home will have either a slab foundation, a crawlspace, or a full basement poured or constructed. The concrete will also go through a curing process to reach maximum strength. You will need to decide what the foundation of your home is. What will the basic foundation of your marriage be when everything you thought you had control over, falls apart, what are you going to lean on when you feel like life is crushing you, or if everything is stripped away from you, what do you want to have left? Our life is not set in stone, and we do not have control over our lives. So what is the foundation in your marriage? For us, it's scripture and prayer. We believe the whole Bible in its entirety. We have certain scripture that we hold on to when life gets hard, jobs are uncertain or our children are not looking like the fruit of the seed we planted. If you are a bible believing Christian, we believe that this is something that should be essential in your marriage.  October 14-18, 2024. https://form.123formbuilder.com/6533514/keeping-it-hot-2024 Zoom every Tuesday night at 6pm  https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88127652268?pwd=Djw1KhFckaOxYksvq1gQWhznSMwq3m.1 Meeting ID: 881 2765 2268 Passcode: 402400

The Blueprints of Marriage: A blueprint is a guide for making something — it's a design or pattern that can be followed. This Blueprint isn't just for your marriage, it's for your children. This is an investment that you're going to pass down from generation to generation. You teach what you know, but You duplicate who you are. So the blueprint of your marriage isn't just for you to follow, but your children and your children's children. Royal Caribbean Cruise // October 14-18, 2024. https://form.123formbuilder.com/6533514/keeping-it-hot-2024 Join us live on zoom every Tuesday night at 6pm Pacific time. https://us06web.zoom.us/j/88127652268?pwd=Djw1KhFckaOxYksvq1gQWhznSMwq3m.1 Meeting ID: 881 2765 2268 Passcode: 402400

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Struggling to get your spouse a gift? Do you know their love language? Today we break down each language and what gift that language would enjoy the most! Welcome to The Married Life 50% OFF SALE! Use Promo Code: Christmas Also we have a 50% OFF SALE right now for Christmas on our website. Check out our eCourse Marriage Coaching Marriage Consultation 3T PDF (How to have healthy conflict) Use Promo Code: Christmas

50% OFF SALE! Use Promo Code: Christmas The No. 1 thing that makes relationships successful (From a psychologists who studied 40,000 couples) A psychologist has studied more than 40,000 couples about to begin couples therapy. In a lab study they were able to predict with 94% accuracy whether a marriage would last — after observing the couples for just 15 minutes. One of the biggest determining factors was how often a couple “turned toward” their partner instead of “turning away.” What does that mean? To turn towards and not away? When would we do that? Today we break it down and what that looks like. Welcome to The Married Life! Also we have a 50% OFF SALE right now for Christmas on our website. Check out our eCourse Marriage Coaching Marriage Consultation 3T PDF (How to have healthy conflict) Use Promo Code: Christmas

Live Q&A // Questions you're asking yourself but don't know what to do.

The 4 Killers of Marriage are easy to see, but hard to stop. We have to recognize them and hold ourselves accountable. Here are the 4 and ways to fight them. Welcome to The Married Life

Pastor Shannon O'dell has a new book out and Krissy and I are diving into it to invest in our own marraige. He hits on 10 ways to honor your spouse and we want to share that with you. Honoring your spouse is easier said than done especially when you're at the end of your rope. So how do we honor? Here are 10 practical ways to honor your spouse and see God move in your marriage! This content is from Pastor Shannon O'dells new book "40,000 Words on Marriage and Parenting". Get your book here

Add these 3 things to your marriage to see your marriage thrive! Plus we do live Q&A to answer your marriage questions. Want to invest in your marriage? Check out our eCourse and Marriage Coaching and other free resources. https://linktr.ee/themarriedlife

Do you feel stuck right now? Or have you in the past and didn't know what to do. We are going to dive into a simple question that you can ask yourself when your feeling stuck. Welcome to The Married Life.

What is one thing you an do today to see your marriage strengthened? Speak positive uplifting words to your spouse! Do words matter? The words that you speak, or write or text to your spouse? the Bible says life and death are in the power of the tongue. If that is true, is your marriage dead or alive? Give: https://tml.churchcenter.com/giving/to/general https://linktr.ee/themarriedlife

Have you ever got out of sync with your spouse? Whether the calendar, vision, date nights, sex, disciplining the kids? Here is the fix, a Marriage Meeting. Now we don't actually like calling them a meeting because they aren't boring, but they are useful for setting the marriage up for a win, week to week. Why have a Marriage Meeting? You'll go deeper on things you're already talking about. You'll open up on things you keep meaning to mention but you keep forgetting or because you've felt uncomfortable. They ensure you're on the same page It creates greater connection and intimacy You get ahead of potential conflicts More Info: https://linktr.ee/themarriedlife Free Sticky Notes! https://themarriedlife.samcart.com/products/free-i-love-sticky-note

Marriage can be stressful. Family life can be stressful. So when we hit Labor Day, how do we relax as a husband and wife? How do we relax with littles running around? We are answering those questions plus more from TikTok Live. Welcome to The Married Life

Sex is a huge part in marriage. How much? How often? Who should engage? Whats ok? So today were talking about it and answer your questions live! Welcome to The Married Life.

As Marriage Coaches and Pastors we often face the issues when a spouse doesn't feel prioritized over the kids. What is the right answer? Who comes first? Spouse or kids? Today we answer that question on TikTok Live and take Questions. Thanks for joining Welcome to The Married Life

Do you have a list in your mind of all the things your spouse needs to do? House chores, helping with the kids, amount of sex you want to have, etc. Or maybe you have a list from the past. Ways they have hurt you or broken trust. On this Episode we will talk about how to Rip Up The List and focus on the future of your marriage. Welcome to The Married Life. Visit themarriedlife.org for more resources.

You are what you repeatedly do. Don't say you want a good marriage. Say I am a good wife. I am a good husband. Then put systems in that a good spouse would do. Serve. Plan date nights. Make adjustments to your schedule to benefit each other. On this months Episode we look at the 3 things that you can start doing today to make an impact in your marriage and life immediately. Resources Join our Text Community. Text us at 833-488-2215 In February we are starting a Goals & Systems Course that will take place on zoom once a month. Click here to find out more. Looking for a new journal? Krissy designed one just for your story! "The Best Story Ever Written" is now available on Amazon. Click here. Looking to focus on your health this year but no sure how to start? Joe developed a workout log just for you. "Your Not So Basic Workout Log" is now available on Amazon. Click here. Want to donate to The Married Life? Click here

Life gets crazy...especially in the summer when routines get out of sync. So on this episode of The Married Life we talk about getting back in sync with routines. We will have 4 teachings on routines. The first one being your Spiritual Routine. Without a Spiritual Routine, your marriage will suffer. But we have the solution. Welcome to The Married Life. If you appreciate the free resource we are giving you, you can give a gift at https://www.themarriedlife.org

Sometimes it's the littlest things that can add up to the biggest issues in our marriage. How do we see what those little issues are? Today we take a look in the book of Song of Solomon and dive into what the "little foxes" are. Welcome to The Married Life.

How To Win A Fight With Your Spouse. We all fight with our spouses. It's part of marriage. But how do you win the fight? And what is winning the fight. Today we take a look at how to Fight in Marriage. Welcome to The Married Life

Have you signed a contract in marriage that you're ready to break? Or do you see it as a covenant between you, your spouse and God? What do you do when marriage gets hard, and the only thing between you and the door is a piece of paper? On todays episode we dive into Song of Solomon part 6 and learn about the Vow we made on our wedding day. Welcome to The Married Life.

He wants more sex, she's stressed out. What do you do if you are on the opposite pages when it comes to sex? What does the Bible say about sex? We will see as we dive into Song of Solomon part 5! Welcome to The Married Life!

Do you still date your mate? You should? What does the Bible say about dating? We will see as we dive into Song of Solomon part 4! Welcome to The Married Life!

We're going to be going through the Book Song of Solomon over the next few weeks. This is week 2 of focusing on what it looks like to be a godly woman. Welcome to The Married Life!

We're going to be going through the Book Song of Solomon over the next few weeks. This week we're focusing on what it looks like to be a godly woman. Welcome to The Married Life!

We're going to be going through the Book Song of Solomon over the next few weeks. This week we're focusing on what it looks like to be a godly man. Welcome to The Married Life!

Just because you have a thought, doesn't mean you have to keep it. What are you thinking on about yourself, about your spouse, about your life? Its time to think on the right things, take control of your mind. Welcome to the married life.

Marriage is like being a carpenter, we are supposed to build up. But often time it's easier to be like a demolition man and tare things down. In this episode we will talk about how to build each other up to achieve the marriage you desire.

How did you and your spouse end up together? You where probably friends before anything else. Have you lost that part of your relationship? Do you want to become best friends? On todays episode we talk about getting back to becoming friends with benefits in marriage.

After a year off of the Married Life Podcast, we are back with more resources than ever. A new website, themarriedlife.org, new blogs, new videos, coaching and more! It feels good to be back!

Yea, we named the episode Kanye West. Why? Because it is evident that his life has changed. The way he speaks, raps, leads his family, it has all changed. The question for you and I in our marriage is, does our life look as different as his? Can your wife look at you and say "My husband looks like Jesus." Or when you look at your wife do you say "You give me more grace than I deserve." Our life should look differently daily as we pursue Christ and our spouse daily. If we look like the same husband or wife from last year, we haven't been taking steps to grow and serve our spouse better. Today on the Podcast we are going to talk about how Kanye's life looks totally different, and how you and I can and should always be striving to look more like Jesus. Welcome to The Married Life

When you think of honey, what do you think of? Sweet? Sticky? Soft? What if our words to our spouse was like that? Sweet, stick and soft. Instead of honey sometimes our words are sharp, hard and hurtful. On todays Podcast we dive into how to communicate to your spouse the good over the bad and to focus on what you want most in your relationship. Welcome to The Married Life Sweet things to tell your spouse: Thanks for doing the dishes Thanks for making dinner. It was delicious. Thanks for cleaning up the kitchen Thanks for bathing the children. Thanks for doing the laundry. Thanks for supporting me when I talked about my __________ Thanks for listening to how my day went I really appreciated you being so affectionate lately (give specifics) You look great in that. Thanks for listening to the married life podcast with me Thanks for talking to me I am really proud of you. (Give specifics) Thank you for desiring me (ladies) You are a great kisser Thank you for getting that fixed Thank you for taking the kids to the park

Last week on the podcast we talked about 1. Managing the train and 2. Laying the tracks forward. This week we hit on numbers 3 and 4 of the 4 Responsibilities in Marriage. Today we are going to give practical tips to do with each other to make your marriage even better! It's going to be a fun podcast! Welcome to The Married Life.

On todays episode we breakdown 2 of 4 practical points to help your marriage thrive. These are tips you can do on a date night, when the kids go to bed, even driving in the car. Sometimes we over complicate a healthy marriage when really we just need to be responsible for our marriage. Today we dive into the 4 responsibilities in marriage. Welcome to The Married Life.

Before Krissy and I are devoted to each other, we are devoted to Jesus. We tried a relationship without Him before and it was horrible. We do a simple method for growing our relationship with Jesus daily that we think might help you out too. Incase you are wondering, how to read the Bible or pray, here is quick "how to" grow with Christ. Welcome to The Married Life

Sometimes in a marriage we forget how we got there. What it was like when we first started. What made us fall in love. What causes us to continue to fight for this. Sometimes we have to go back to basics. On today's podcast that is exactly what we hit on. We get open and vulnerable as we show our weaknesses and how we keep it basic to stay strong. Welcome to The Married Life.