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What does marriage look like when two lives collide? Hosts DJ and Lucretia will be tackling conversations involving faith, purpose, and relationships. Their hope is to empower those that are single and dating with an intent to marry and those that are mar

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    • Dec 10, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    I Can't Pay the Rent TikTok Trend & Men Not Approaching Women|S6 EP10| WMPC Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2024 69:49


    In this episode, we dive into the latest TikTok trends making waves on social media. Are these trends helping or harming the Christian community's understanding of marriage between two believers? We unpack the implications and explore how they align with biblical principles. We also tackle the topic of modern dating dynamics: Why are fewer men approaching women today? Could fear of rejection be holding them back, or are women's expectations simply too high? Join us as we listen to insights from three single men and discuss the impact on Christian dating. Can't Wait to Date Course for Christian Single Women- Pre-Sale https://bit.ly/cantwait2date2024 Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet for Couples https://bit.ly/CommGameChanger Date to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bride https://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademy For ebooks, resources, and more https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley

    Finding Love at Afrotech? |Holiday Family Expectations & Voting Differences a Deal Breaker?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2024 63:32


    In this episode, we dive into the exciting possibilities of finding love at conferences, summits, and conventions, including events like AfroTech. We also explore the dynamics of introducing your special someone to your family during the holidays—what should you expect, and how can you navigate it successfully? Lastly, we tackle a thought-provoking question: Are differences in voting choices a dealbreaker in Christian relationships?  Tune in for a candid and insightful conversation, and don't forget to share your thoughts on these topics—we'd love to hear from you! Can't Wait to Date Course for Christian Single Women- Pre-Sale https://bit.ly/cantwait2date2024 Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet for Couples https://bit.ly/CommGameChanger Date to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bride https://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademy For ebooks, resources, and more https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review ⁠YouTube ⁠ ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329⁠ ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672⁠ Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley

    Can Virtual Blind Dating Work for Christian Singles? The Surprising Results”

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2024 63:06


    We're keeping it real about our Intentional Dating event for Christian singles—the good, the bad, and the no-shows. From blind dates to big lessons, we felt the highs and the heartache.. singles go through. Tune in for the raw truth about faith, dating, and finding your person Can't Wait to Date Course for Christian Single Women- Pre-Sale 11/29 Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet for Couples https://bit.ly/CommGameChanger Date to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bride https://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademy For ebooks, resources, and more https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley

    After We Denounced Secret Societies

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2024 109:54


    Lucretia sits down with India Martin and Gigi Gilliard. They open up about their experiences with sisterhood and relationships after renouncing and denouncing Greek sororities. Together, they unpack the emotional and spiritual journey of redefining connections, including the most important one—our relationship with God. Whether you're seeking deeper friendships, spiritual growth, or clarity in setting boundaries, this episode will challenge and inspire you to transform from the inside out. Connect with India Martin IG: @indy_yuh  FB: India Martin Watch India's Denouncing DST Testimony https://youtu.be/B-fvw0U2B4I?si=AGD88HMbzeU-c7Jx Connect with Gigi Gilliard www.gigigilliard.com   IG:@Officialgigigilliard  FB: Gigi Gilliard Watch Gigi's Denouncing Zeta Phi Beta  Testimony https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1cYbrOMjLQ Watch Lucretia Denouncing Zeta Phi Beta Testimony https://youtu.be/ZEPqLmY2Kqs Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet for Couples https://bit.ly/CommGameChanger Date to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bride https://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademy For ebooks, resources, and more https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley

    The Friendship Reset | Friendship Series |S6 Episode 6 | When Marriage and Purpose Collide Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 63:10


    Is having a best friend still a thing? And what does friendship look like as a follower of Christ? How do you navigate friendships when other best friends are involved? In this episode, we sit down with Precious Whitener and Darlyshia Menzie to explore the ups and downs of their friendship. They share how they overcame a rough patch, grew closer, and became more spiritually grounded and accountable to each other. Tune in for an honest conversation about faith, forgiveness, and the beauty of Christ-centered friendships. Precious Whitener and Darlyshia Menzie are Authors, Speakers, Kingdompreneurs, and best friends who aim to live life out loud while pointing people to Jesus. They believe they are called to inspire, empower, and exhort people concerning their purpose in life. More specifically, they focus on healthy relationships, effective communication, inner confidence, and leading a life of accountability. Countless people have raved about their passion, energy, and hope-filled messages. After one encounter with them, the evidence will speak for itself—these ladies don't just talk the talk, they walk the walk.  Connect with Precious Precioussimone.com IG: @precioussimoneinspires  FB: ItsPreciousSimone TikTok: precioussimoneinspires Connect with Darlyshia DarlyshiaMenzie.com IG: @darlyshia_theprayingrealtor TikTok: theprayingrealtor Free Registration for Intentional: Dating and Marriage Panel October 26th, 7pm https://bit.ly/connectWMPC Communication Game Changer: Check-In Cheat Sheet for Couples https://bit.ly/CommGameChanger Single Christian Ladies-Free Training https://bit.ly/ChristianSingleWomenFreeTraining2024 Date to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bride https://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademy For ebooks, resources, and more https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley

    Join Us! Intentional: Christian Dating and Marriage Panel

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 28, 2024 132:41


    Thank you for watching!!! Married Couple and Singles chatting about dating and marriage trends from a Christian perspective. Communication Game Changer- Link https://bit.ly/CommGameChanger Free Training for Single Christian Women https://bit.ly/ChristianSingleWomenFreeTraining2024 Date to Mate Academy Start Nov.14th, Schedule Your Session https://calendly.com/lucretia_haley/datetomateacademy Single Men's Coaching calendly.com/djhaley87 Connect w/ Candace Graves/ Reviving Celibacy 10 Week Program https://linktr.ee/candacegraves Interested in partnering or sponsoring future event email lucretia@crespeakslife.com Tune in to When Marriage and Purpose Collide Podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL_KqlZri7TdEDNwVC8Dr0jmpZvHYN4F51

    Grown Woman Conversations & Sisterhood After Denouncing

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 14, 2024 154:07


    In this episode, we sit down with India Martin and Gigi Gilliard to explore the evolution of friendships through life's transitions, navigating conflict, and establishing healthy boundaries. We also open up about our experiences with sisterhood and relationships after renouncing and denouncing Greek sororities. Together, we unpack the emotional and spiritual journey of redefining connections, including the most important one—our relationship with God. Whether you're seeking deeper friendships, spiritual growth, or clarity in setting boundaries, this episode will challenge and inspire you to transform from the inside out. Connect with India Martin IG: @indy_yuh  FB: India Martin Watch India's Denouncing DST Testimony https://youtu.be/B-fvw0U2B4I?si=AGD88HMbzeU-c7Jx Connect with Gigi Gilliard www.gigigilliard.com   IG:@Officialgigigilliard  FB: Gigi Gilliard Watch Gigi's Denouncing Zeta Phi Beta  Testimony https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1cYbrOMjLQ Watch Lucretia Denouncing Zeta Phi Beta Testimony https://youtu.be/ZEPqLmY2Kqs Date to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bride https://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademy Free Registration for Intentional: Dating and Marriage Panel October 26th, 7pm https://bit.ly/connectWMPC For ebooks, resources, and more https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast

    Are We Friend-ish? w/ Kelly Needham

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 7, 2024 74:06


    In this episode, we will have a conversation with Kelly Needham author of the Friendish and discuss what is never talked about when it comes to Christian friendships, unrealistic expectations, navigating different season with friends from childhood to adulthood, crucial conversations to have with friends. Can't wait for you to listen!Kelly Needham is a follower of Christ, Bible student, and COO of her home, where she lives with her husband, Jimmy, and their five children. She's the author of Friendish and Purposefooled, and has contributed to several other books like Faithful and Beautifully Distinct. Kelly serves in women's ministry, co-leads a teaching program at her church, and co-hosts the Clearly podcast with Jimmy. Her mission is to help others discover that nothing compares to knowing Jesus. Learn more at kellyneedham.com.Instagram: @kellyneedham Twitter: @kellyneedham Facebook: @mrskellyneedhamFriend-ish: Reclaiming Real Friendship in a Culture of Confusionhttps://a.co/d/dhlaEVBPurposefooled: Why Chasing Your Dreams, Finding Your Calling, and Reaching for Greatness Will Never Be Enoughhttps://a.co/d/eyUjRe2Clearly Podcast w/ Jimmy and Kelly Needhamhttps://www.youtube.com/@clearlypodcastDate to Mate Academy: For Christian Women: From Dating Confidence to Becoming a Future Bridehttps://bit.ly/Date2MateAcademyFree Registration for Intentional: Dating and Marriage Panel October 26th, 7pmhttps://bit.ly/connectWMPC

    Pop The Balloon and Found Love?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2024 65:27


    Free Registration for Intentional: Dating and Marriage Panel https://bit.ly/connectWMPC For ebooks, resources, and more To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaleyDJ's TikTok:dmastashonuffhttps://www.tiktok.com/@dmastashonuff?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pchaleysplaceproductionshttps://www.tiktok.com/@haleysplaceproductions?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

    We're Back!! Summer Recap, and Planning Our Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2024 72:58


    In this episode, we share exciting podcast updates and reflect on how our summer went. We also dive into how we plan our year, offering insights on what it looks like to plan your year with your partner—or even your future partner. Whether you're curious about goal setting as a couple or preparing for a new season together, this episode provides helpful tips and inspiration for intentional planning. Tune in for a thoughtful discussion! Free Registration for Intentional: Dating and Marriage Panel https://bit.ly/connectWMPC For ebooks, resources, and more To order ebooks and get resources, click https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Connect w/Lucretia https://sociatap.com/lucretiahaley

    From Breakup to Second Chances

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2024 105:57


    DJ and Lucretia sit down with Brandon and Emily Lee to delve into their unique love story. After meeting online, Brandon and Emily dated for a few months before breaking up. About a year later, they reunited online and began a new chapter together. They share the transformations that occurred during their time apart, the boundaries they established upon reuniting, and their journey toward marriage. Brandon and Emily, both Christian Life Coaches, specialize in guiding singles through the complexities of dating. Brandon focuses on helping Christian men create a roadmap for dating with integrity and effectively.. Contact Brandon today to start your free roadmap session. IG @@bglee001 @bglee0015  bglee001.wixsite.com/grace4you To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    What Led to the Divorce?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2024 86:51


    Join DJ and Lucretia as they sit down with John Pledger for a transparent and vulnerable discussion about the pressures in marriage that led to his divorce. John is honest and doesn't hold back as he shares his ongoing healing journey and what's next for him. This insightful conversation sheds light on the importance of accountability and maintaining a strong relationship with Christ before and during marriage. Tune in for an honest and inspiring discussion. HELP US WIN THE FINAL ROUND as “Best Podcast” https://kcpcawards.com/2024-finalists/2024-finalists-arts-entertainment/ To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Subscribe for News and Updates Here

    Dating Within Your Church, Married Couples Attending Separate Churches

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2024 66:20


    Join DJ and Lucretia discuss the complexities of dating within your church community. They explore the dynamics of couples attending church together, weighing the benefits and challenges. But what about married couples attending different churches? And what about dating someone who only attends church online? They share their own personal story of how they navigated the church scene after tying the knot. Tune in for a candid and thought-provoking conversation that promises to spark reflection and connection. To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Soft Guy Era, Earning a MRS Degree, and a Husband's Tone

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2024 72:44


    Join DJ and Lucretia in this episode as they dive into the latest TikTok trends and share their thoughts and perspectives. They explore the concept of the "soft guy era" and why it's gaining popularity among single men.  In addition, the hosts discuss the topic of whether college-aged women should prioritize pursuing a husband or focusing on their degree. They also delve into the roles of husbands in setting the tone and women in setting the atmosphere within relationships. To top it off, they reflect on insights from Jackie Hill Perry about stewarding singleness. Tune in for a lively discussion filled with valuable insights and engaging commentary! To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Dating Lessons Learned

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2024 59:59


    In this episode, DJ and Lucretia chat with John Burleson about his experiences with purposeful dating. John shares valuable lessons learned from his journey, offering practical insights for those navigating the dating scene today. Tune in for actionable advice and personal stories that can help you find your future purpose partner. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or simply curious about dating with intention, this episode is sure to inspire and enlighten. To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide/id1609528329 https://open.spotify.com/show/5kwGxopvICxnWtlTzzlitq?si=8fd00a6d1dbb4672 Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Growing Together: Navigating Parenthood's Highs and Lows

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 22, 2024 68:50


    In this episode, DJ and Lucretia deep into the early years – from those relentless nights of no sleep to juggling the chaos of multiple kiddos. Join us as we stroll down memory lane, sharing the good, the bad, and the messy milestones that define parenthood. Get ready for some real talk about what works (and what doesn't) in the world of parenting, and maybe even pick up a few survival strategies along the way. To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  Apple Podcast Google Podcast  Spotify Podcast Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Dating and Abstaining at 40

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2024 60:23


    Join us for an inspiring conversation with Russelyn Williams, a Christian Speaker, Author, and Blogger, as she shares her journey of maintaining purity into her 40s. With over 9 years of experience empowering young people and women, Russelyn discusses the value of personal worth and the benefits of saving sex until marriage. Through her transparent testimony and commitment to helping single Christian women find wholeness and confidence, Russelyn provides invaluable insights and encouragement for navigating the journey of purity and faith. Tune in as we delve into her experiences, wisdom, and the transformative power of walking in God's purpose. Connect with Russelyn & Get Resources Below Blog: www.intercession4ageneration.org  www.russelynwilliams.com IG: @intercession4ag and @russelynwilliams FB: Russelyn Williams and Intercession for a Generation TikTok: Russelyn Williams  Free handout 4 Practical Purity Tips for Singles at this link: https://mailchi.mp/d46fb8fb1108/free-practical-purity-tips-handout To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  Apple Podcast

    Y'all Don't Want To Get Married Anymore?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2024 71:05


    Join DJ and Lucretia as they dive into the ups and downs of single life and the daunting prospect of marriage. They share relatable stories and explore the pressures singles face in today's society. They also discuss the vital role married friends play in offering support and understanding to singles. Plus, they dish out essential questions every potential spouse should ask before saying "I do." Tune in for a candid conversation packed with insights and advice for anyone pondering the path to a healthy marriage. Please ADD to the bottom of the description  To order ebooks, resources and register for coaching programs, click here.   (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  Apple Podcast Google Podcast  Spotify Podcast Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    I Survived!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2024 89:18


    DJ and Lucretia invite Sonni, Founder of Heart and Home Community, to speak about her journey of surviving loss, abuse, and  toxic relationships.  Sonni Pitts is a mom of two beautiful boys, Christian counselor and MSW. She has a passion for people and seeing them whole, healed and thriving.  Website itstheheart.org Get Your Heart and Health Scripture eBook  https://www.itstheheart.org/store Wake Up Queen Guided Journal https://a.co/d/cAh33Zp IG  @heartandhomecommunityinc  @seeds_n_sunflowers FB @heartandhomecommunityinc @sonnirachel To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/)

    I'm Not Attracted to Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2024 74:27


    "In this engaging episode, Dj and Lucretia delve into the complexities of physical and sexual attraction within the realm of dating and relationships.  Join us as we explore the nuances of attraction, share personal insights, and invite listeners to chime in on the discussion. Your feedback is invaluable to us, so don't hesitate to share your thoughts! Tune in and join the conversation." To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube  Apple Podcast Google Podcast  Spotify Podcast Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    First Date Expectations

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2024 74:27


    In this episode, Lucretia and DJ discuss first date expectations among singles nowadays. They also discuss their own first date expectations when they first met. Are expectations to high? We will discuss in this episode. To order eBooks and get resources, click here. (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review YouTube Apple Podcast Google Podcast Spotify Podcast Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    My Testimony| Denouncing Zeta Phi Beta Sorority After 20 Years

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2024 134:27


    In this episode, Lucretia will share how God led her out of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. Correction: I crossed Fall 2004. If you are a Christian in a Greek org, get your rituals and oaths and line it up with scripture. Pray, Fast, and Seek God completely!! Something to help on your journey to understanding

    Your Questions, Our Answers

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2023 73:59


    In the season finale, DJ and Lucretia dive into the world of relationships, addressing burning questions from their devoted listeners. From dating and marriage dilemmas and insights on navigating the single season, join them for a candid and engaging episode.  See you all in Season 5!!! To purchase Schedule A Dating with Confidence & Clarity Strategy Session, Purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos & Check-In Cheat Sheet, click here (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast) YouTube: www.youtube.com/@crespeakslife Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lucretiamhaley  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@crespeakslife  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CreSpeaksLife  Email: lucretia@crespeakslife.com

    Does He Feel Safe With Me?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2023 72:59


    Dive into a thought-provoking conversation on our latest podcast episode as we explore the crucial yet often overlooked topic of Black men's emotional safety in relationships. we unravel the stigma surrounding therapy and discuss the importance of creating a safe space for our boyfriends and husbands. From challenging societal norms to fostering open communication, we explore actionable steps to build emotional security and strengthen the bonds that truly matter. Tune in for a candid discussion that aims to break barriers and empower listeners to prioritize emotional well-being in their relationships. Register for 3-day challenge A Good Thing In The Making - Preparing For The Husband You've Been Praying For To purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos, 14-Day Journal Workbook” & Check-In Cheat Sheet, click here (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/when-marriage-and-purpose-collide-podcast) Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lucretiamhaley  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@crespeakslife  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CreSpeaksLife  Email: lucretia@crespeakslife.com To purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos, 14-Day Journal Workbook” & Dating and Relationship Resources, click here (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast) Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lucretiamhaley  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@crespeakslife  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CreSpeaksLife  Email: lucretia@crespeakslife.com

    Save My Relationship!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2023 62:11


    Discover the enduring love sparked by 12 dates! Join Dj and Lucretia in the latest "When Marriage and Purpose Collide" episode as they chat with Rabbi Shlomo Rivka and Slatkin. Dive into the couple's journey, exploring the trials of marriage and gaining insights into their unique approaches to restoration. Whether you're a newcomer to love or a seasoned partner, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of intentional connections. Special Offer Just for You! Unlock a $200 discount on the Costa Rica Marriage Retreat by tuning into this episode. Click https://themarriagerestorationproject.com/imago-couples-therapy-retreat-costa-rica-getaway/ref/lucretia/  to claim your exclusive savings. Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin MS, LCPC is a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist (Advanced Clinician) and Certified Imago Workshop Presenter. Together with his wife Rivka, they founded The Marriage Restoration Project, a global initiative to help keep couples together and happy. Out of concern for the global breakdown of relationships and families, Rabbi Slatkin has made it his mission to help save marriages in 2 days by way of marriage-intensive retreats. He has also created an Online Marriage School self-guided program as an affordable solution to quality marriage help.  For more information about his work, please visit www.themarriagerestorationproject.com For resources that deal with dating, premarital, attachment trauma, and more on how to have a healthy relationship are in https://www.etsy.com/shop/marriageworksheets.Get their free guide https://themarriagerestorationproject.com/free-guide-60-second-plan-to-a-happy-and-healthy-marriage/ Register for 3 day challenge A Good Thing In The Making - Preparing For The Husband You've Been Praying For To purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos, 14-Day Journal Workbook” & Dating and Relationship Resources, click here (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast) Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lucretiamhaley  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@crespeakslife  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CreSpeaksLife  Email: lucretia@crespeakslife.com

    Love, Money, and Merging Lives w/ The Wilson's

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2023 88:43


    Join us for an insightful episode as we sit down with power couple Thomas and LaTasha Wilson, founders of Wilson & Wilson Consulting. As successful business owners running not one, but four businesses, Thomas and LaTasha bring a wealth of experience. They open up about the trials they faced, the lessons they have learned, and the strategies they employed to tackle finances in their marriage and across their entrepreneurial ventures. Get ready for an engaging and informative discussion that will inspire you and equip you with practical takeaways for your journey. Connect with The Wilson's! Wilson and Wilson Consulting IG:@wilsonsconsult The Oil and Water Lifestyle Modestly Adorn Accessories & Apparel Full Circle Beauty Consulting To purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos, 14-Day Journal Workbook” & Dating and Relationship Resources, click here (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast) Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lucretiamhaley  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@crespeakslife  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CreSpeaksLife  Email: lucretia@crespeakslife.com

    Does he make enough?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2023 47:03


    In this episode, we explore the concept of a 50/50 relationship in dating and marriage, delving into the dynamics of shared financial responsibilities. Is this approach viable in today's relationships? Join us as we discuss the pros, cons, and challenges of splitting finances and find out if a 50/50 relationship can truly work To purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos, 14-Day Journal Workbook” & Dating and Relationship Resources, click here (https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast) Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/lucretiamhaley  TikTok:  https://www.tiktok.com/@crespeakslife  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CreSpeaksLife  Email: lucretia@crespeakslife.com

    Selfish Boundaries: The Power of Setting Healthy Boundaries

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2023 58:15


    Step into this enlightening episode of 'When Marriage and Purpose Collide' as we embark on a profound exploration of the art of setting boundaries in relationships. Moreover, we'll unravel the complexities behind the challenge of setting boundaries and offer personal insights on strategies to overcome these hurdles. Join us as we navigate the intricate landscape of love, purpose, and self-awareness, providing valuable guidance to cultivate more enriching and harmonious relationships. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click here to download for FREE! Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here. To purchase “Finding Purpose Within the Chaos, 14-Day Journal Workbook”.

    The Truth About Dating an Introvert

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2023 92:06


    In this engaging podcast episode, DJ and Lucretia team up with singles,  Tae'Lor and Josh to delve into the complexities of dating introverts. Lucretia, an extrovert, shares her unique perspective on what it's like to date DJ, an introvert. Whether you identify as an introvert seeking relatability or an extrovert looking to gain insight, this episode aims to provide both understanding and knowledge. Meet Tae'Lor Landa, a Kansas City native and dedicated school counselor. She's also the host of the award-winning podcast "The Grief Journal" and an accomplished author with published books on Amazon.  https://www.instagram.com/taeyamarie94/ Meet Josh Haley, a Kansas City native and business owner, who values his individual path and is dedicated to continuous self-development. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click here to download for FREE! Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here. ( hyperlink the link below)  https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Dating Trends & Moving in Before Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2023 56:50


    Join us in our latest episode as we delve into modern Christian dating trends. We explore the challenges and triumphs of sustaining love after intimacy and discuss the growing choice among Christian singles to move in before marriage. Tune in for a faith-centered conversation on purposeful dating, committed relationships, and spiritual growth. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click here to download for FREE! Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here. ( hyperlink the link below)  https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Are Men Pursuing Anymore?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2023 47:09


    Tune in as Lucretia and DJ dive into the evolving dynamics of men's pursuit of women today and the changing expectations. Discover DJ's journey of spiritual growth before his connection with Lucretia. Join us for insightful conversations on relationships and personal development. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click here to download for FREE! Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click to download for FREE! Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.

    Let's Talk “ Body Count”.

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 55:45


    Join hosts Lucretia and DJ as they engage in candid conversations about the concept of "body count" in the context of their past dating and relationships. Explore their views on when and how to discuss purity while dating. To order ebooks and get resources, click here. ( https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/) Subscribe and Leave A Review Apple Podcast Google Podcast  Spotify Podcast Subscribe for News and Updates Here https://sociatap.com/crespeakslife/wmpc-podcast

    Season 4 Trailer

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2023 1:12


    What does marriage look like when two lives collide? Hosts DJ and Lucretia will be tackling conversations involving faith, purpose, and relationships. Their hope is to empower those that are single and dating with an intent to marry and those that are married. Along the way, they will reveal their road to marriage and beyond. Topics include dating, communication, future dreams, children, conflict, pre-marital counseling, and more.

    Seven Year Itch & Recap Of The Season (Spotify Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2023 61:18


    Is the 7-year itch just a theory? Dj and Lucretia discuss the symptoms of the seven-year itch as they approach 7 years of their own marriage. They will also recap guests' episodes this season. Lucretia finally announces what she's been working on behind the scenes! Tune in to this conversation and the last episode of season 3. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click here to download for FREE!   Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here. 

    Trust Issues? (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2023 67:41


    Lucretia and DJ discuss what trust may look like in a new relationship. They share their story about opposite-sex friendships and give tips on how trust can evolve over time. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here. 

    Healthy Co-Parenting and Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2023 90:24


    Anthony Johnson, the Co-Parenting Coach, speaks with us about his reality of becoming a co-parent and ways someone can effectively communicate and become a team with the other parent. Additionally, Anthony gives tips about navigating co-parenting with a new partner.  Anthony Johnson is a proud Native of Buffalo, New York, and owner of Continuous Journey LLC. He recently authored his first book, entitled It's Not About You, where he outlines his ten foundational principles to establish and maintain a solid co-parenting relationship. To connect with Anthony, visit @ajthecoparetingcoach on IG or www.coparentingjourney.com. Click here to purchase a copy of his new book. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.  

    Scared to Commit? (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 21, 2023 56:03


    One reason dating is difficult is because of fear of commitment. Dj and Lucretia share common reasons people fear commitment and ways to avoid self-sabotaging future relationships.

    The Problem with Love Languages (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2023 66:57


    Dj and Lucretia share why we speak our partner's love language and uncover the problems that may arise if we misuse them. Tune into this episode if you are interested in learning more about how love language can be used correctly and help build a healthy relationship.

    Therapy Saved Our Marriage (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2023 106:21


    Mychal and Taylor Williams were engaged and married within 7 months of meeting one another. In this episode, they both are transparent about their single journey before meeting one another and how therapy played a dynamic role in keeping their marriage together. This episode is full of laughter, surprises, and moments that will encourage those seeking to build a healthy relationship with their partner. To connect with Taylor and Mychal @freeyourroots and to purchase products visit www.FreeYourRoots.com.   Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.

    Coming Out Again Pt. 2 (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2023 71:13


    DJ and Lucretia sit down with Angalina and Melinda as they share the journey into the LGBTQIA+ lifestyle and community. Breaking free was not easy for them. Tune into Part 2 where they share more about breaking free from their relationships and misconceptions about leaving the LGBTQIA community.  We can't wait to hear your feedback! Follow Angalina @iam_angalinamcclinton and Melinda @melindavdouglass IG. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Before the Husband: A Seven-Day Devotional for Single Women Pursuing Purpose,  click here.

    Coming Out Again PT.1 (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2023 75:05


    DJ and Lucretia sit down with Angalina and Melinda as they share the journey into the LGBTQIA+ lifestyle and community. Breaking free was not easy for them. Tune into this enlightening conversation about leaving unhealthy relationships that led them to fully Come Out Again and surrender their life to Christ.  We can't wait to hear your feedback! Follow Angalina @iam_angalinamcclinton and Melinda @melindavdouglass on IG. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Before the Husband: A Seven-Day Devotional for Single Women Pursuing Purpose,  click here

    Love Unexpected (Video)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2023 70:05


    Dennis & Jackie Sutherlin celebrate 39 years of marriage and share their unexpected journey to love. Both were on different paths and met in an unexpected way. This conversation is centered around dating (in the 80s), choosing the right mate as a single parent, and learning to grow together in marriage.

    Seven Year Itch & Recap of the Season

    Play Episode Listen Later May 15, 2023 61:18


    Is the 7-year itch just a theory? Dj and Lucretia discuss the symptoms of the seven-year itch as they approach 7 years of their own marriage. They will also recap guests' episodes this season. Lucretia finally announces what she's been working on behind the scenes! Tune in to this conversation and the last episode of season 3. Before You Date: 3 Strategies for Crafting Your Dating Plan, click here to download for FREE!   Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.     

    Trust Issues?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2023 67:41


    Lucretia and DJ discuss what trust may look like in a new relationship. They share their story about opposite-sex friendships and give tips on how trust can evolve over time. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.       

    Healthy Co-Parenting and Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2023 90:24


    Anthony Johnson, the Co-Parenting Coach, speaks with us about his reality of becoming a co-parent and ways someone can effectively communicate and become a team with the other parent. Additionally, Anthony gives tips about navigating co-parenting with a new partner.  Anthony Johnson is a proud Native of Buffalo, New York, and owner of Continuous Journey LLC. He recently authored his first book, entitled It's Not About You, where he outlines his ten foundational principles to establish and maintain a solid co-parenting relationship. To connect with Anthony, visit @ajthecoparetingcoach on IG or www.coparentingjourney.com. Click here to purchase a copy of his new book. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.        

    Scared to Commit?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 17, 2023 56:03


    One reason dating is difficult is because of fear of commitment. Dj and Lucretia share common reasons people fear commitment and ways to avoid self-sabotaging future relationships.

    The Problem with Love Languages

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2023 66:57


    Dj and Lucretia share why we speak our partner's love language and uncover the problems that may arise if we misuse them. Tune into this episode if you are interested in learning more about how love language can be used correctly and help build a healthy relationship.

    Therapy Saved Our Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2023 106:21


    Mychal and Taylor Williams were engaged and married within 7 months of meeting one another. In this episode, they both are transparent about their single journey before meeting one another and how therapy played a dynamic role in keeping their marriage together. This episode is full of laughter, surprises, and moments that will encourage those seeking to build a healthy relationship with their partner.  To connect with Taylor and Mychal @freeyourroots and to purchase products visit www.FreeYourRoots.com.   Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.

    Weathering Transition Seasons

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2023 81:18


    DJ and Lucretia talk about their own seasons of transition within their marriage. They share trials, downfalls, triumphs, and successes. What does it look like to walk in obedience and purpose while weathering seasons of transition?  Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Check In Cheat Sheet: Communication Game Changer,  click here.

    Coming Out Again Pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2023 71:13


    DJ and Lucretia sit down with Angalina and Melinda as they share the journey into the LGBTQIA+ lifestyle and community. Breaking free was not easy for them. Tune into Part 2 where they share more about breaking free from their relationships and misconceptions about leaving the LGBTQIA community.  We can't wait to hear your feedback! Follow Angalina @iam_angalinamcclinton and Melinda @melindavdouglass IG. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Before the Husband: A Seven-Day Devotional for Single Women Pursuing Purpose,  click here.

    Coming Out Again

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2023 75:38


    DJ and Lucretia sit down with Angalina and Melinda as they share the journey into the LGBTQIA+ lifestyle and community. Breaking free was not easy for them. Tune into this enlightening conversation about leaving unhealthy relationships that led them to fully Come Out Again and surrender their life to Christ.  We can't wait to hear your feedback! Follow Angalina @iam_angalinamcclinton and Melinda @melindavdouglass on IG. Leave a review, follow, subscribe, and purchase your copy of Before the Husband: A Seven-Day Devotional for Single Women Pursuing Purpose,  click here

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