Podcasts about not about you

Do you ever feel like you need others to approve of your choices? When was the last time you did something just for yourself? In this heartfelt episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty sits down with award-winning actress and singer Cynthia Erivo for a raw and inspiring conversation. Cynthia opens up about her whirlwind year—filming back to back movies, performing at the Oscars, and pouring her soul into her deeply personal new album, I Forgive You. Even in the busiest seasons of her life, Cynthia is discovering the power of stillness—making space to rest, reset, and care for herself mentally, emotionally, and physically. Cynthia opens up about the emotional weight she’s carried—the pain of feeling abandoned by her father and the relentless pressure to keep proving herself. She and Jay explore the exhausting chase for external approval—and how it often leads to burnout, disconnection, and a version of success that doesn’t feel like yours. Cynthia’s path has been one of unlearning—releasing fear-based patterns and learning to create from a place of wholeness. Her journey is one of deep self-reflection and healing, which shines through in her new music. Together, Jay and Cynthia unpack what it really means to own your truth, make peace with your past, and finally feel at home in the present. Cynthia’s stories of heartbreak, transformation, and creative rebirth offer powerful insights for anyone navigating change or searching for their purpose. This episode is rich with wisdom, warmth, and a reminder that healing and growth are always possible. In this episode, you'll learn: How to Build Daily Habits That Ground You Anywhere How to Embrace Rest Without Guilt How to Heal from the Need for External Validation How to Let Go of the Pressure to Overachieve How to Share Your True Self Without Fear How to Create from a Place of Love, Not Pain Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, chasing your dreams, or simply learning how to slow down, know this: you are allowed to evolve, to let go, and to begin again. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty Join over 750,000 people to receive my most transformative wisdom directly in your inbox every single week with my free newsletter. Subscribe here. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:39 Have You Had a Moment to Take a Break? 04:34 How Do You Take Care of Yourself? 06:12 Are You Good at Slowing Down? 08:25 Why Your Body Needs to Follow Rituals 12:00 Difference Between Achieving and Overachieving 13:34 What Drives You to be an Overachiever? 16:59 Using Childhood Trauma to Transform Your Life 18:31 The Three Modes to Help You Achieve Your Goals 20:17 Missteps are the Steps We're Meant to Take 23:56 Choose to Live for Yourself First 26:16 Have You Ever Felt Like You Don’t Fit In? 29:23 Focus on Sharing Positive Energy 32:29 The Frequency Illusion 33:44 Empower People to Own Their Confidence 37:50 Teaching Kids About Confidence and Self Love 39:40 How to Show Up as Yourself 45:24 Behind the Glamourous Life of Celebrities 47:55 The Power of Music 51:00 How Do You Share Your Emotional Journey? 55:23 How Do You Live Through Heartbreak? 01:00:26 Can You Peacefully Disconnect Yourself from Someone? 01:05:16 Sometimes, It's Not About You 01:07:35 What is the Right Type of Validation to Crave? 01:14:20 The Core of Being a Good Person 01:21:13 The Experience of Abandonment Isn't Always Your Reality 01:25:10 Which Emotion is the Hardest to Face? Episode Resources: Cynthia Erivo | Website Cynthia Erivo | Instagram Cynthia Erivo | Facebook Cynthia Erivok | TikTok Cynthia Erivo | YouTubeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Warriors! Here are the strategies that work when interacting with narcissists or emotionally immature people. These are ways that I've kept my cool even in the craziest of situations and I'm so excited to share them with you. You know those conversations that leave you feeling drained, confused, or like you're the one who did something wrong — even when you didn't? The person you're interacting with may be a narcissist, or maybe just acting like an emotional child. No matter, these tools work!  Instead of spiraling into frustration or self-doubt, doing these 4 things help you feel more calm and in control.  In this follow-up episode, I'm sharing clear, actionable tools to help you communicate with all our people, whether they're currently acting emotionally immature or narcissists. These tools help you stay grounded no matter what they're throwing your way.  Whether it's a partner, parent, teenager, coworker, adult child, or friend, these tools will help you so much. They help me navigate tricky dynamics with more ease, clarity, and confidence.

In this episode, Phil Treadwell chats with Alexis Valladares about embracing growth, resilience, and purpose-driven success. Alexis shares how choosing excitement over fear and setting higher personal standards can create momentum in life and business. He highlights the importance of solving problems, tapping into emotions, and adopting the “as if” mindset to align with your goals. From the urgency of a “drowning person's focus” to learning what not to do, Alexis offers powerful mindset shifts. He reminds listeners that failure is a part of success—and that the journey itself is where the real value lies. Alexis Valladares is a real estate sales coach and entrepreneur who started his business journey at 14. After 12 failed ventures, he became a licensed real estate agent in 2020 and found success, closing over $150 million in transactions by mastering FSBOs and expired listings. He now leads Valladares Real Estate Academy, training over 10,000 agents worldwide in cold calling, objection handling, and sales mastery. With 200+ live events and 3,000+ active students, Alexis is passionate about helping agents become top communicators and closers. 01:30 Meet Alexis 04:25 Excitement over Fear 07:40 Set New Standards 11:05 Find Opportunities to Grow 14:20 Look for the Problems 19:25 It's Not About You 25:10 Tap into the Emotions 30:30 The “As If” Mindset 33:00 A Drowning Person's Focus 36:40 Fail to Succeed 39:10 The Journey is Everything 42:30 Knowing What NOT to Do 45:20 Be Courageous Connect with Alexis: Instagram | Website BE IN THE ROOM WHERE GROWTH HAPPENS: M1A Mastermind Group If you are enjoying the MME podcast, please take a second and LEAVE US A REVIEW. And JOIN the M1A Text Community: 214-225-5696

Sometimes we can chase the wrong glory in life making our life and our moments about us instead of focusing on the eternal story that is going on around us and the opportunity to make a positive difference in the lives of other people. As Ritchie McKay, Head Men's Basketball Coach of Liberty University says, "When we chase the wrong glory, we can go to one of 2 extremes: Self Promotion or Self Protection."In this podcast episode of Monday Morning Moments in our series entitled "It's Not About You," I offer some thoughts on pursuing the right "glory" and 2 ways we can do that in all areas of our lives.  Show Notes:Glory, Fame, RenownIsaiah 26:8, Colossians 3:17, 1:27Make our lives about His Glory:Glorify Him in everything we say and do.Do things with excellence.Do things with integrity.Allow Jesus to live through us.Rely on His strength, peace, wisdom, and discernment.Be a light.        New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

In today's episode, I delve into three powerful strategies to help you stop overreacting, especially during times of grief. We'll explore understanding defensiveness, getting to know your grief, and recognizing that it's often not about you. These insights aim to provide practical steps to manage emotional responses, particularly for those dealing with the loss of a baby and the raw emotions that come with it. I'll also share personal analogies related to allergies and defensiveness, drawing a parallel to how our bodies sometimes overreact to harmless triggers, just like our emotions. Tune in to learn how to interrupt this cycle and gain tools to manage your reactions effectively. By the end, you'll have concrete ideas and examples to start thinking about and implementing in your journey through grief. Join me and let's navigate this path together. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:09 Springtime and Allergies 01:45 Understanding Overreactions 03:41 Watch Out for Defensiveness 07:25 Get to Know Your Grief 11:29 It's Not About You 18:59 Embracing the Full Human Experience 23:44 Conclusion and Invitation to Join the Challenge   Embrace Mother's Day starts April 12, 2025 Click HERE to join! Get support from Amy! Click HERE Follow me on Instagram! @amy.smoothstonescoaching Visit my website. Photo by Canva Music by ZingDog on Pond5  

Today Heather chats with two of her 50 (or near 50) year old friends about what it's really like to experience aging at midlife. They talk about perimenopause, menopause, symptoms of both, the impacts of aging on our brains, bodies, and emotional lives. They also talk about what they've found helpful as they age, the parts of aging they enjoy, and the parts of aging they can do without. You'll enjoy this fantastic group chat with three fifty-year-olds about what it's really like to be fifty years old and be a woman facing midlife. Listen to other episodes with Rosie Makinney: His Lust Problem is Not About You:https://omny.fm/shows/compared-to-who/his-lust-problem-is-not-about-you-or-your-body Help My Husband Looks at Porn How Do I Heal: https://omny.fm/shows/compared-to-who/comfort-after-deep-hurt-his-lust-problem-is-not-ab What to Do if Husband Looks at Porn: https://omny.fm/shows/compared-to-who/what-to-do-when-your-husband-is-looking-at-porn Listen to other episodes featuring Stephanie Rouselle: https://omny.fm/shows/compared-to-who/make-bible-reading-more-interesting-and-spicy Connect with Stephanie: https://www.gospelspice.com Connect with Rosie: https://www.fightforloveministries.org Connect with Compared to Who?: https://www.improvebodyimage.com Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Knowing why you are here is key component of life. In today's podcast, we continue the series "It's Not About You" and talk about why discovering and living your purpose is key to living a transformational life that is meaningful and impactful! You will learn 3 reasons why discovering your purpose is essential to your everyday life. I also share 3 tips on how to find your purpose and calling in life.   Show Notes:Jon Tyson: "You! Here! Now!"Purpose“Life is a series of assignments that brings clarity to our purpose along the way.” - Scott KauffmannKey Questions:Am I becoming who He created and intended me to beAm I being faithful with the people and opportunities He has purposed in my path?Placed in my path in a purposeful and intentional way.Why is it important to know and align with our purpose:Gives meaning to everything we do.Keeps us focused on doing the right things and staying on course along the right path.Provides resilience in the midst of challenging circumstances3 Keys to discovering and living out your purpose:Reflect: Look for themes in past moments.Be present, grateful, and faithful with this current moment.Pray for future moments...For wisdom, discernment, direction, and expanded opportunities     New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

In 2021, the Baylor Men's Basketball Team won a National Championship! In his book "The Road to JOY," Baylor Head Coach Scott Drew talks about how they built a culture of JOY (Jesus, Others, Yourself) in order to become champions on the court and in life.In this podcast episode in our series entitled "It's Not About You," I share why "playing with JOY" is so important on the court, field, office, home, and community and highlight 3 characteristics of people and teams that are joyful.   Show Notes: The Road to Joy: Leading with Faith, Playing with Purpose, Leaving a Legacy Fear of death versus the joy of living Happiness is initiated and controlled by circumstances. Joy is sustained by a deep, inner contentment. Joy transcends circumstances. 3 Characteristics of a Culture of JOYLead with FaithBe grateful for the moments. Play with PurposeTeams that play with joy play for something bigger than themselves.Leave a LegacyKnowing your purpose and defining Your Why allows you to persevere when things get tough and challenging.New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

Comparison is the thief of joy, and it can lead you into a downward spiral of performance. In today's Monday Morning Moments podcast episode in our series entitled "It's Not About You," I share different ways that we can compare ourselves, the trap of comparison and 6 ways it can steal your joy and lead you into a downward spiral, and 3 ways you can combat comparison in sports, business, and life. Show Notes:Comparison can be defined as "the thief of joy."Ways we can compare:To othersTo our previous selfTo what others haveTo what we wished we hadWhen we fall into the trap of comparison, we forsake the opportunity to step into the current moment with joy, gratefulness, and faithfulness.6 Ways Comparison Leads Us Into A Downward Spiral:Comparison steals our joy.Comparison wastes our time.Comparison robs us of being fully present and giving our best.Comparison leads to complacency."At least I am doing better than them."Comparison leads to a scarcity mentality.Versus having an Abundance mentality.Idea that there is only so much glory to go around and that if someone else wins or succeeds that we begin a downward spiral of doubt towards ourselves versus knowing we can also have another opportunity to succeed in the next moment.Comparison undermines a growth mindset.Comparison nurtures a fixed mindset. Joy nurtures a growth mindset.Comparison discredits God who created us.He has uniquely created you with gifts and talents and given you moments to glorify Him in the process of using your gifts and talents in all areas of your life.He did not create us to compare ourselves to others. He wants us to be content with who we are and make the most of the moments we have been given.Ways to combat comparison:Be grateful for who you are and what you have.Be content in all circumstances. Paul in Philippians 4Become a "Rejoice Always" type of person“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” ‭‭1 Thessalonians‬ ‭5‬:‭16‬-‭18‬ ‭ESV‬‬"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalm 118:24        New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

Meet Brian Basilico, the founder of B2B Interactive Marketing. Brian is a seasoned thought leader with over 45 years of experience with traditional, digital, and relationship marketing.   Brian is an internationally known author, podcaster, and speaker respected as an expert in using content marketing and distribution technologies to supercharge sales and prospecting efforts. He is the author several books, including It's Not About You, It's About BACON!   Brian and his team of experts understand the powerful synergy between compelling content and strategic networking on LinkedIn. This includes websites, social media, email, SEO, Google, artificial intelligence, and LinkedIn advertising and utilizing current business relationships within your accounting and CRM systems integration. His unique systems and approach have helped companies turn every $1 spent on marketing into a 10-15 times return on investment for sales to current and prospective customers.

I believe every one of us has been created for a unique purpose and has been called to make a positive and meaningful impact with our lives. The key question is: Will you accept the invitation and answer the call?We are extending our podcast series entitled "It's Not About You." In this podcast episode, I share some thoughts about one of the greatest invitations you can choose to accept, answer, and embrace in order to make the most of your moments in life.  Show Notes:What is Your Calling:Sweet spot of passion and purposePurpose: Your Why; Calling: How and WhatA role you play in the eternal story that is going on.An impact you were set apart for.An invitation to make a positive difference with your life.A mindset that transcends and permeates everything you do and every area of your life. A calling is not tied to or limited by your job title or current role you play in life.A moment you must embrace.New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

I recently had the incredible opportunity to be a guest on Gary Thomas' podcast. If you've been around Delight Your Marriage for a while, you know what a dear friend Gary has been to this ministry. Not only is he a best-selling author and speaker, but he's also been so generous in inviting us to share on his platform in the past. And this time? I got to be part of a panel alongside two truly amazing women: Juli Slattery—President and Co-Founder of Authentic Intimacy and author of several life-changing books, including God, Sex, & Your Marriage and Rethinking Sexuality. Debra Fileta—Creator of the #1 faith-based relationship advice blog TrueLoveDates.com and author of True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life and Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love (among many others). We came together for a powerful discussion about helping wives awaken to intimate pleasure—such an essential and often overlooked topic. The wisdom and insights from these women were just incredible, and I cannot wait for you to hear this conversation. Here were some key takeaways from our panel discussion: The Challenge of Awakening Sexual Fulfillment For so many women, the journey toward enjoying sex in marriage isn't a simple switch—it's a process. If you've spent years saying "no"—whether because of purity culture, past wounds, or just never learning that sex is a gift—it makes sense that "yes" doesn't come easily. And you are not alone in this! How Husbands Can Help Their Wives Awaken to Pleasure Men, you've likely never been discipled in how to help your wife step into her own sexual enjoyment. Many husbands enter marriage assuming their wife will naturally embrace sex, but the reality is, she may feel lost, hesitant, or even afraid. This is where your role as her safe place matters deeply. Here are some questions that Debra suggested as conversation starters on sex: What's something you're looking forward to in our sex life? What's something that makes you nervous or unsure? What beliefs about sex do you want to hold onto, and what do you want to let go of? Overcoming the Weight of Purity Culture Many women who "did everything right" and waited for marriage still find themselves struggling. Why? Because purity culture often framed sex as something to avoid, not as a gift to embrace. As Juli Slattery puts it, "Just because I waited, doesn't mean I know how to start." That's the truth. And if this is you, grace upon grace, my friend. Sexual wholeness isn't about following a list of dos and don'ts. It's about stepping into the fullness of what God has given and allowing Him to reframe any distorted views we carry. The Power of Emotional & Spiritual Connection Debra Fileta says, "What you do above the sheets paves the way for what happens under the sheets." I could not agree more. Emotional and spiritual safety fuels physical intimacy. Husbands, if your wife doesn't feel safe, known, and whole-heartedly cherished, her body won't naturally respond to you with desire. So, before you think about sex, think about: Playfulness in everyday life (it builds intimacy!) How you affirm and admire her body How well she feels known and cherished by you It's Not About You, It's About Her A massive shift for many husbands is realizing that sex in marriage isn't just about "getting my needs met." If your wife doesn't feel safe, it's no wonder intimacy feels like a duty rather than a desire. You have an opportunity to disciple your heart in a new way. Instead of seeing your wife as the "acceptable outlet" for your sexual needs, ask: "How can I be the safest place for her to enjoy intimacy?" When she feels safe, she will want to engage. Not out of obligation, but because she feels free to. How to Move Toward More Desire in Marriage Wives, rather than wondering and praying, "Why am I broken?" for not wanting intimacy, instead ask, "How can I cultivate a desire for intimacy?" Some ideas: Non-sexual sensual touch with no pressure Playfulness in your daily life (This is huge!) Embracing a "turning a dial" rather than "flipping a switch" approach to intimacy    Addressing Past Trauma & Emotional Wounds Even in strong marriages, past sexual trauma or unhealthy conditioning can affect intimacy. And let's be real: just having a great marriage doesn't mean sex will be effortless. For some, the body's response to past wounds will still show up. That's okay. It's part of the journey. Healing takes time, patience, and sometimes outside help. If this is part of your story, give yourself permission to process what's needed. The Role of Faith & Hope in Sexual Fulfillment God is a God of hope. If your marriage has felt disconnected, there is hope. If you've never truly enjoyed sexual pleasure, there is hope. Your story isn't over. Pursue wholeness—emotionally, spiritually, and physically—and trust that intimacy can be more fulfilling than you ever imagined. Final Thoughts Husbands: Emotional and spiritual intimacy first, pleasure follows. Wives: You are not broken. Your pleasure matters. Both: Intimacy is a journey, not a destination. Keep taking steps, and trust that God is working in it all. Friend, you are not alone. Your marriage can grow, your desire can awaken, and your intimacy can thrive. Keep leaning in, keep growing, and keep trusting that God has more for you than you even realize. Be blessed! Love,   Belah & Team  

Every day, you have a choice to make life all about you or to connect your life to an eternal story and make a positive and transformational impact in the lives of other people. We are in the middle of a series entitled "It's Not About You." In this episode, I share a third "I" word of Impact and offer 3 principles you can use to make a positive impact in sports, business, and life.  Show Notes:"Sociologists have found that even the most introverted person will impact and influence 10,000 people in their lifetime." John MaxwellWhile influence may be tied more to to character development and foundational beliefs and principles, impact has more to do with the choices and decisions that you make.Being a leader is where we make a positive impact within our sphere of influence and fulfill our calling.To make an impact, I must personally act.3 Principles for Making a Positive Impact:Be AwareLook for people who need what you have.“The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet.” - Frederick BuechnerKey Insight: Being aware is where we begin to discover our calling.Be Present and Engaged“The legacy you live is the legacy you leave.” - Ken BlanchardBring yourself - the person God created you to be - to the story!Don't try to be someone else, and don't sit on the sidelines hoping someone else will step up.Be ActiveLeadership is ultimately about influence and using the platform and opportunities that you have for God's glory!Know and play your role.Consider the following passage from my friend Louie Giglio's book I Am Not But I Know I AM: “It's a place that requires a constant choice. We can choose to cling to starring roles in the little-bitty stories of us, or we can exchange our fleeting moment in the spotlight for a supporting role in the eternally beautiful epic that is the Story of God. Think of it as trading up. Abandoning the former and embracing the latter will allow our little lives to be filled with the wonder of God as we live for His fame and the unending applause of His name. And joining our small stories to His will give us what we all want most in life anyway: the assurance that our brief moments on earth count for something in a story that never ends.”Isaiah 26:8 - "YES, LORD, WALKING IN THE WAY OF YOUR TRUTH, WE WAIT EAGERLY FOR YOU, FOR YOUR NAME AND YOUR RENOWN ARE THE DESIRE OF OUR SOULS."       New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

How to Remember Life is Not About You

This is the second podcast episode in our series entitled, "It's Not About You." Every one of us has the power to influence others either positively or negatively, and we can allow ourselves to be influenced in the same way.In this episode of Monday Morning Moments, I share the second "I" word of Influence and discuss 2 different ways to think about influence in terms of our Circle of Influence (the people who are influencing us) and our sphere of influence (the people who we are influencing). I also offer some key questions for you to ponder and proactively take action steps toward in order to leverage your influence in the best way and not make life just about you.  Show Notes:Definition of Influence: "the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something"3-12-120 (Andy Crouch)Circle of Influence: the people who influence youKey Questions:Who is in your circle of influence?Do you have the right people in that circle?How are they influencing you and are you leveraging their insight, wisdom, and guidance?Sphere of Influence: the people you influenceKey Questions:Who is in your sphere of influence?Are you focused on the right sphere and one that is within your control?How are you influencing them?New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

At the beginning of a new year, we can hear various types of promotions and messages like "New Year, New You!" and "It's All About You in the New Year!" These messages promote the false sense of purpose that life is all about us.As we begin this new year, we are beginning a new Monday Morning Moments podcast series entitled: "It's Not About You." In this series, I will share 3 "I" words that can help us reframe what life is all about and help us focus on the most purposeful foundation in order to make our lives count for what matters most!In today's first episode, I share some thoughts on identity and ask the key question: Who or What is the foundation of your identity?      New Episodes of the Monday Morning Moments Podcast are released every Monday on your favorite podcast platforms as well as on YouTube. We also release The Coach's Corner segment on Thursdays. You can subscribe below and never miss a new episode.JOIN NOW!

Episode #145: Picture this: a luxurious escape to Deer Valley's St. Regis, where the opulence of a ski-in, ski-out experience amidst twinkling Christmas trees awaits. Our timing—a week before the holiday rush—meant fewer crowds and better deals, a win-win for relaxation and enjoyment. Thanks to an Amex membership, a delightful room upgrade added a sprinkle of magic to our stay, allowing Brian and me to hit the bunny runs stress-free, courtesy of the hotel's daycare. The simplicity of green slopes provided the perfect backdrop for rekindling our love for skiing. The journey didn't stop there. I recount the joys of family travel, from teaching our little ones to ski to savoring a memorable dinner with friends from the podcast "JK, It's Not About You." Our adventure through Park City's gated communities unveiled a paradise of amenities, from ice skating to bowling, ensuring entertainment for all ages. Wrapping up, I share a practical travel hack that promises a smoother journey home—because every glorious adventure deserves a peaceful ending. Episode Highlights:  (00:00) Traveling Adventures and Personal Growth (13:25) Luxury Ski Vacation at St. Regis (17:00) Family Ski Vacation and Restaurant Recommendations (29:48) Luxury Community and Family Activities (42:03) Travel Hacks and Family Packing Follow Kimberly on Instagram and TikTok @kimberlylovi or @iconicnationmedia      

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Against The Grain // It's Not About You, It's All About Jesus Romans 8:31-39 (NIV)“What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: ‘For your sake we face death all day long;we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.' No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”   1.     “If God is for us, who can be against us?” Romans 8:32 (NIV)“He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?”           2.     “Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen?” Revelation 12:10 (NIV)“Then I heard a loud voice in heaven say: ‘Now have come the salvation and the power            and the kingdom of our God,            and the authority of his Messiah.For the accuser of our brothers and sisters,            who accuses them before our God day and night,            has been hurled down.'”  1 John 2:1-2 (NLT)“My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins—and not only our sins but the sins of all the world.”  3.     “Who then is the one who condemns?” Romans 8:1 (NIV)“there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” 1 Peter 3:18 (NIV)”For Christ died once for all the righteous for the unrighteous to bring you to God.  He was put to death in the body but made alive by the Spirit."   Isaiah 53:5 (NIV)“But he was pierced for our transgressions,            he was crushed for our iniquities;the punishment that brought us peace was on him,and by his wounds we are healed.” John 3:18 (NIV)"Whoever believes in him is not condemned"   4.     “Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?” Romans 8:35 (NIV)"Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?”

A talk recorded at the Association of Counselling Psychologist (ACP) Conference, Oct 2024. Taking aim at doing the right thing, and not just doing things right. Watch the video version to make sense of the references made in this talk: https://youtu.be/Pa-cv9V3_ZM?si=FTSstO9Ex8g-WLgr CHAPTERS: - Intro: (0:00) - Performing vs. Learning (4:20) -Concept Creep ((10:40) - What is Deliberate Practice(11:39) - Profile of Highly Effective Therapists aka Supershrinks (15:45) The Seven Mistakes: 1. DP is Not Clinical Practice (22:55) 2. DP is Not Model Specific (25:36) 3. DP is Not Reflective Practice (32:48) 4. DP is Not Purposeful Practice (36:25) 5. DP is Not About You (38:04) 6. DP Needs Guidance (41:39) 7. DP Should Not Be Mandated (41:13) Closing: My Three Wishes for You (46:49) ---

Welcome back for Episode 161! On today's episode:Mack & Steel Are On Location Of The 2024 Win In Life Meetup!What Has Impressed The Guys So Far at Equip!Keith Kalfas Joins The Show!The Guys Talk About The Support Of The #LBCToday's Guest:Keith Kalfas (@keithkalfas)Power Move Of The Show!"Make It About The Customer. It's Not About You or Me!"Intro/Outro MusicTrek Manifest - BL3$$3DFree Jobber 14-Day Trial + Exclusive DiscountSave 40% On MyServiceArea.com Annual PlansCheck us out on your favorite social media platforms!YouTube:Mack Landscaping & Lawn Care | Steel Cuts Lawn & Landscaping Show Links:Mack's Links | Ced's LinksJoin Us Wednesdays @ 9PM EST For The Lawn Care Power Moves Instagram Live Show!

In this episode of Cult Film School, hosts Adrian and Dion dissect David Gordon Green's Halloween trilogy. They discuss the successes and shortcomings of Halloween (2018), Halloween Kills (2021) and Halloween Ends (2022). The conversation spans the trilogy's themes, character arcs, and narrative choices, while also comparing the recent films to previous entries in the iconic Halloween franchise.   Chapters: 0:00:14 Welcome to Cult Film School 0:02:47 The Halloween multiverse (of continuities) 0:06:21 Halloween (2018): IMDb Plot Summary 0:10:26 2018 Michael Myers “on brand” + futile searches for motivations 0:16:29 Why comedy kills tension in Halloween (2018) 0:20:40 Legacy Sequel / Soft Reboot / Halloweens Redux 0:26:39 Halloween (2018): Tagline 0:28:08 Halloween Kills: IMDb Plot Summary 0:31:19 Michael Myers - Man or Supernatural? 0:36:35 “Evil Dies Tonight!” (And Other Attempts at Subtlety) 0:38:29 “It's Not About You! It's About Me!” 0:42:31 Is Halloween Kills a Black Comedy or Satire? 0:52:24 Halloween Kills: Tagline 0:52:51 Halloween Ends: IMDb Plot Summary 0:53:32 A Halloween Love Story 0:55:45 Carpenter's Halloween or Carpenter's Christine? 1:00:53 A Character Arc for Laurie Strode? 1:06:17 Allyson forgotten 1:11:43 Halloween Ends: Tagline 1:14:23 Trilogy Postmortem 1:20:13 Next Episode Preview   Connect with Adrian & Dion: Instagram ~ @cultfilmschool  Threads ~ @cultfilmschool Facebook  ~ Follow Us! Letterboxd ~ CultFilmSchool Send an Email ~ cultfilmschoolpodcast@gmail.com  Don't forget to leave a rating and review!  

In this video, I explore the powerful message from Rick Warren's A Purpose Driven Life, particularly the chapter titled "It's Not About You." This chapter challenges us to shift our focus away from ourselves and toward God's greater plan. It's a message that hits home for me as I reflect on my personal journey, especially when I launched my podcast in 2021. Looking back, I realized that I didn't always consult with God on what to share, often seeking approval from others instead of listening to Him. This led to discouragement and burnout. But through this chapter, I'm reminded that true purpose is not about what I want, but what God wants for me. As I refocus my efforts on becoming who God created me to be, I'm reminded of Matthew 7:7-8, which encourages us to keep asking, seeking, and knocking. This video is about taking small steps, being obedient to God, and realizing that success and fulfilling your life purpose are not the same thing. It's not about me—it's about Him. Join me as I share how I'm applying these lessons in my life and how you can do the same by focusing on what really matters.

Curiosity-Driven Leadership and Co-Parenting Insights with Jon Bassford John's Consulting Firm: ThinkLateral.com John's Personal Website: JohnBassford.com About the Guest(s): Jon Bassford is an operations professional and entrepreneur, specializing in curiosity-driven leadership. With a background in law, John has launched and managed operations for various organizations including venture-backed startups and global nonprofits. He is the founder of Lateral Solutions, a consulting firm that helps organizations scale efficiently by analyzing and optimizing their operations. John's curiosity is his superpower, and he channels it to foster cultures of innovation and inquiry within organizations. He is also an author, with upcoming books focusing on effective co-parenting and leadership through curiosity. Episode Summary: In this episode of The Chris Voss Show, host Chris Voss sits down with Jon Bassford, an operations expert and entrepreneur, to delve into the art of curiosity-driven leadership and effective co-parenting. Drawing from his diverse experiences in launching startups, managing global nonprofits, and his personal challenges, Jon shares insights from his two upcoming books: "The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About You" and "The Curious Leader: Navigating the Power of Asking Questions and Fostering a Culture of Inquiry." Throughout the conversation, Chris and Jon explore the significance of asking the right questions to drive organizational growth and innovation. John discusses how an inquisitive mindset can enhance decision-making processes and lead to more efficient operations. The conversation also touches on the importance of intentionality in both leadership and co-parenting, highlighting how these concepts are woven into his books. The episode is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and practical advice, making it an engaging listen for entrepreneurs, leaders, and anyone interested in personal development. Key Takeaways: Curiosity in Leadership: Cultivating a curious mindset in leadership can drastically improve organizational efficiency and foster a culture of innovation. Effective Co-Parenting: The key to successful co-parenting lies in realizing it's not about the parents but about creating a supportive environment for the child. Intentionality is Crucial: Being intentional in both professional and personal aspects can lead to more meaningful and productive outcomes. Psychological Safety: Creating an environment where employees feel safe to express their ideas can lead to significant growth and innovation. Learning Culture: Establishing a culture of continuous learning and inquiry can help organizations stay ahead in a rapidly changing environment. Notable Quotes: "The quality of your life is the questions you ask." "Leaders speak last." "Curiosity cultivates change, which fuels innovation and growth." "It's not about you; it's about the kids." "Creating a curious culture requires intentionality."

The podcast makes its second visit to Connecticut. UIAAA Connection #195 – Damian Frassinelli, CMAA, current NIAAA Past President and Director of Athletics at Stafford High School, in Stafford Springs, Connecticut, is now available. Damian spent time in the business world before coming back to education. One of the sayings that Damian loves comes from growing up with his four older brothers. "It's Not About You!". If you remember nothing else about this podcast, remember that. His advice regarding surrounding yourself with quality people is not to be missed. Please Listen, Learn and Share! You can subscribe to UIAAA TV on YouTube! This podcast is also available on Amazon Music, Apple Podcast,  Breaker, Castbox, Google Podcast, iHeartradio, Overcast, Pocket Casts, RadioPublic, Spotify, Sticher and YouTube.

Open Source: Die schöne heile Welt - Oder doch nicht?Die meisten sprechen über Open Source mit einem positiven Mindset. Die Kultur ist einzigartig. Leute, die sich noch nie gesehen haben, arbeiten zusammen an etwas Großem. Als Anwender ist man oft beeindruckt, was für eine großartige Software allein durch freiwillige Arbeit erschaffen und auch bereitgestellt wird.Doch in der Realität sieht es oft ganz anders aus. Wenn mal wieder einer der Open Source Incidents in die Tagesschau geschafft hat, wird das ganze Set an Problemen, die es in der Maintainership von Open Source Projekten gibt, sichtbar. Und genau darüber geht es in dieser Episode.Wir klären, welche Probleme es beim Maintainen von Open Source gibt, warum diese nur auf wenige Schultern verteilt sind, aber Milliarden Menschen vom positiven Open Source Output profitieren und welche Lösungen es dafür gibt. Viel Spaß.Bonus: Viel Negativität auf wenigen Schultern verteilt.**** Diese Episode wird von We Manage gesponsert.Für Agenturen und kleinere Unternehmen ist es oft eine Herausforderung, ein vollständiges DevOps-Team aufzubauen. We Manage bietet DevOps und SRE as a Service an – passend für alle Projektgrößen. Ob als Unterstützung für bestehende Mitarbeiter⋅innen, damit diese in den Urlaub fahren können, oder als vollumfängliches Infrastruktur-Team mit optionaler 24/7-Bereitschaft. We Manage ist der ideale Partner für Digitalunternehmen, Startups und Agenturen, die auf der Suche nach finanziell vernünftiger und robuster Infrastruktur sind. Mehr Infos findest du unter https://engineeringkiosk.dev/wemanage ****Das schnelle Feedback zur Episode:

#Episode 218: Being Visible Online is Not About You it's About Serving The human need for significance can cause you to do unnatural actions in your business & life. What comes natural to you? How does that translate into your business activities? What does that look like in your personal life? We both have been drawn to deep conversations our entire lives, so we made that a huge part of our business plan. “Meet and connect deeply with fun, motivated, & interesting people.” When you're unclear of what comes natural to you, it's easy to look outside of yourself to see what others are doing. The problem comes from the fact that we're all so different, and if you setup your business & life so it fits you like a glove, it will look different than most others. Model others who are living a life you desire, but don't forget to tailor it towards your own creativity and uniqueness. When you're doing the thing that lights you up, you'll impact your clients drastically, and unconsciously give them permission to do the same. What activities feel like they're coming from your soul? What activities feel like they're coming from fear? Tony Mitchell #TheLindsayAndTonyPodcast

"It's Not About You, Thomas" – John 20:19-31 Sermon by Dr. Jacqueline E. Lapsley, President of Union Presbyterian Seminary, on the Sunday of the Kitty Susan Trent Symposium for Newly Ordained Ministers, April 7, 2024.

JOIN THE BJDW COMMUNITY HERE From the moment we cracked open the pages of her book, “Free Of Me, Why Life Is Better When It's Not About You,” we knew we needed Sharon Hodde Miller's wisdom on this pod, and we're incredibly grateful she accepted our invitation. In a world saturated with the "me" mentality, Sharon shines a light on the pervasive impact of self-centeredness across every facet of our lives. It's a message that infiltrates our friendships, marriages, and even our faith, fracturing each in unique yet profound ways. Pursuing self-improvement often leaves us joyless, our souls diminished, trapped in the cycle of perpetual insecurity. Sharon helps us unpack the intricacies of "image management," exposing its corrosive effect on relationships, where individuals are reduced to mere reflections of our own self-image. Through personal anecdotes and profound insights, she guides us through the labyrinth of toxic thought patterns, offering tangible strategies rooted in God's attributes for healing and restoration. Sharon challenges us to shift our gaze away from ourselves, unveiling a path of profound healing and freedom in loving God and others. Together, we explore the delicate balance between self-care and self-neglect, emphasizing the inherent worth of embracing our identity as beloved daughters of God. We also have a candid chat about the ebbs and flows of waiting seasons, urging us to embrace humility and openness to the transformative work of the Holy Spirit. It's a journey that promises growth, refinement, and, ultimately, freedom from the suffocating grip of self-preoccupation. Join us as we embark on this transformative expedition towards a life liberated from the confines of self.   You can follow Sharon on Instagram at @sharonhmiller.  Check our her books on Amazon:  The Cost of Control by Sharon H. Miller Free of Me by Sharon H. Miller   You can find this episode HERE on YouTube   00:00 Welcome to 'But Jesus Drank Wine' Podcast 00:29 Introducing Sharon Hottie Miller: Author, Leader, and Mom 01:11 The Journey to 'Free of Me': Overcoming Insecurity and Self-Preoccupation 06:11 The Power of Self-Forgetfulness: Finding Freedom from Ourselves 30:18 Navigating the Challenges of Publishing and Staying Humble 31:21 Embracing Humility and the Gift of Hiddenness 43:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement   The creators, hosts, and producers of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast are not healthcare practitioners and therefore do not give medical, psychological or professional advice nor do they intend for the podcast, any communication on behalf of BJDW or otherwise to be a substitute for such. Additionally, the views and opinions expressed in any mention of and/or linked resources are those of the authors/owners of those resources and do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the But Jesus Drank Wine podcast team or guests of the show.    #ChangingPerceptions #NoShame #AlcoholAndDrugs #SubjectiveLabels #getconnected #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #sobriety #alcoholfree #soberliving #alcoholfreelife #thisnakedmind  #lovelifesober #imnotsoberimfree #getconnected  #grayareadrinking #grayareadrinking #butjesusdrankwine #staycurious #changeyourthinkingchangeyourdrinking #christianandsober #christianity #authenticliving #journeytosobriety #wineandotherstories #vulnerabilityinrecovery

Watch video podcast here. We're back to the world of Blade Runner with possibly the best sequel ever made. Miles and James give top scores for this movie's entertainment value and theological depth. Blade Runner 2049 shows how different people react in the face of miracles. If the original blade runner made us ask what it means to be alive, then this movie will make us all ask what it means to love. Cold Open - 00:00 Intro - 02:12 Rankings - 03:47 Ads - 13:36 Popcorn Thoughts - 17:10 Reaction to Miracle Child - 26:35 It's Not About You - 51:20 Nature of Love - 1:05:18 Lightning Round: 1:26:04 James' book Cinemagogue is getting a new edition! Hear more in this episode and read more here. For a sneak peak at the Director's Cut, click here. — We've got new merchandise! Check it out at the merch store. Help us recruit more film lovers and theology nerds by sharing this episode with your friends. Rate and review the podcast wherever you listen to help attract more listeners.  Follow and connect with us on social media. Support us on Patreon.

We're talking kitchens, appliances and what, exactly, should go in the press – trust us, it's more interesting than you'd think! Drew Barrymore's Beautiful range at Walmart Surprisingly, the paint colour is NOT called "articulated beige" and is, instead, called "accessible beige" – by Sherwin Williams Rosemary's Pinterest board of kitchen and home décor dreams, should that be of interest, is hereMaude Apatow's home design Chrissy Teigen and John Legend's house Beatrice's chic plissé kettle Get in touch! DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free! $2 will go straight into the tip jar, to help support NWMS and help pay for editing, production and platform fees.LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're talking about the new study that shows that kids learn better on paper than they do on screens – is it really that surprising? Rosemary's still carrying around her Filofax like a 21st century Maggie Thatcher, while Beatrice is never giving up her good old paperback habit.Let us know how you feel YOUR kids get on with on-screen learning – and whether or not you feel you get the same result from reading on screen vs reading on paper. DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're talking about the 2024 Grammys: the outfits, the awards, the diversity, and the fact that Taylor Swift once more had a man get up on stage to tell the world she didn't deserve her award. Let us know what you thought of all of the goings on at the Grammys – and check out our Instagram for pics of the outfits we discuss! Let us know your thoughts – DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are any boots truly – truly – made for running, though?! We're talking business dress codes on today's episode, inspired by Beatrice's interview, for which she has to dress in "business professional" attire. And we are… confused.Any and all job interview advice welcome by the way – ESPECIALLY if you're someone who works in recruitment or conducts a lot of job interviews… is there such thing as an interview-attire-related red flag?!? If so, what is it??? TELL US EVERYTHING. DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rosemary's birthday is coming up and she's not sure whether she wants to do anything – while Beatrice always wants to do something for her birthday, but only if the soundtrack is right. Plus: does Rosemary really want these Ugg boots? And Beatrice reads an excerpt from her teenage diary wherein she shows her true colours.**DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You can now support the pod from as little as $2/month by joining the Tip Jar tier on patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – help keep the lights on at podcast HQ and show your love for NWMS with less than the price of a black coffee… we love and appreciate every single one of you, but especially appreciate when you choose to support the podcast :) We took six boys to see Wonka and lived to tell the tale – here we discuss the film's controversial casting decisions, Timmy Shimmy's really rather great singing skills, and why Beatrice has been singing the soundtrack ever since. PLUS! We announce everyday February, in which we'll be releasing an episode each and every (week)day – three on the main feed and two for patrons, so please do let us know if you have any topic suggestions, urgent problems you need us to solve, or just something you cannot live without knowing our opinion on… all comments, DMs and emails are welcome! **DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Not About You, Hansen 2038, Gossip, National Days, Dog Toys, Trust God, MasterClass, Monday Song, The Gender Reveal, Cereal Soup; Quotes: “Jesus HIMSELF said you don't have to be anxious.” “I trust the character of God.” “People are fundamentally broken.”

What's your image? Top view on pan with fried egg with bacon Babies are cute, puppies are cute, and bacon is not cute, but I bet your mouth watered a little bit. What if someone recently lost a baby? Maybe they are a cat person? What if they are an animal rights activist or vegan? Then, those first statements could not be any farther from the response you had hoped for. Brands, like cute, are in the eye of the beholder, but as a business, our brand is our image. Branding is complicated. It's more than your logo, your corporate fonts and colors, and how you advertise to your perfect customers. It encompasses everything from the stock images you choose to how you answer the phone (or not) to what platforms you choose to distribute your content. Speaking of content, your content comprises text, images, and media (audio/video). It's Not About You, it's about people choosing you. So, what does BACON (Building Authentic Connections Online Networking) mean or look like to you and your business? I can assure you it is different for almost everyone, but all have some things in common. For B2b businesses, this means investing time in nurturing a long-term relationship. This may mean providing them with information in the form of articles or even providing them with connections that may turn into leads and sales for them first.

Rosemary details her history of misbehaving while Beatrice reveals a night when she stayed out way past her curfew and we come to a shocking conclusion: Rosemary was always insufferable! **DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media and tell alllll of your friends! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You can't control change; it controls you. Chances are, you are in one of two camps: 1) Those who embrace technology or 2) Those who are overwhelmed with all the change. Now, you may still be a damn the torpedos, I am going to use my printed Franklin planner and Palm Pilot Blueberry thingy kind of person, but I want to try and help you understand what change matters and what may not when it comes to you and your business. My goal here is to help you better understand how to embrace the benefits of these changes. Heck, you can always hire an assistant to deal with all those technology changes that keep coming at you like stars in a hyperdrive Star Wars scene. It's Not About You, it's about people choosing you. I'm going to let you in on a little secret: In today's reality, it's not you choosing the customer, advocate, or power partner, they choose you! What you have to do is find a way to become distinctive, memorable, and top-of-mind. This is the power of social networking and social media, getting you to that top-of-mind position and helping you stay there. You just have to learn how to leverage the tools in a way that creates and enhances relationships.

Oh, and other things. Awards season is upon us and you know what that means: open season on discussing the outfits we loved, hated, didn't understand and simply wish would go away. From frills to fascinators, sleek tailoring to embroidered vulvas, we've got the low down on the style at the Golden Globes. **DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

When it comes to rules to live by, it turns out that not a single Guardian journalist is right about, well, anything! Rosemary reveals her one true talent, Beatrice once again brings up blow jobs (so vulgar) and we decide what Dr Dad is truly good at. Happy New Year!!**DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

And, more importantly, what the blazes are we talking about?! **DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is not the episode to listen to with your Santa-fan kids – it's the episode where we discuss our families' Christmas traditions, detail what, exactly, we expect in our stockings and whether or not we felt betrayed when we found out the cold, hard, truth about jolly St Nick.**DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're talking about the wild wild west of the American credit system – and Rosemary is talking about the wild wild west of her credit card collection. It's not her fault! America sucks you right in and spits you right out! P.S. After some belated research, we have discovered that you must be 18 to get a credit card (with someone co-signing for you) in the US.**DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Beatrice has been unemployed since January – and it's not for lack of interviewing! She's applied for 200+ jobs, which means rewriting her cover letter and redoing her CV 200+ times, a trauma no human should have to endure. We talk about job applications, interviews, interviewing red flags, the day Rosemary walked out of the induction portion of a new job… and more! **DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In episode 277 of the Love Your Life Show, I share a life-changing concept: "It's not about you." This powerful four-word phrase has brought me so much ease in my life, and I can't wait to share it with you. ⭐️Find all links and resources mentioned in the show notes here: https://smbwell.com/277 ⭐️See if the Love Your Life School is open for enrollment here: http://theLoveYourLifeSchool.com ⭐️Did you love this episode? Make sure you've listened to all the foundational episodes of the Love Your Life Show. Get the free Podcast Roadmap here: https://smbwell.com/roadmap ⭐️Do you get my weekly Wednesday email? I'm starting a new section: WHAT WARRIORS ARE READING. Come join the fun! http://bit.ly/2gYQMlA ⭐️Are we friends on Instagram? Let's catch up! https://instagram.com/smb.wellness ⭐️I've been sharing videos of my life in Australia on Facebook - I'd love to be friends with you there too! https://facebook.com/strength.mindandbody ⭐️Grab some of my favorite books and products here: https://amazon.com/shop/smbwell ⭐️For the price of a coffee, Support Susie and the Love Your Life Show: https://patreon.com/susiepettit ⭐️Have a child between the ages of 9-25? Learn the basics to support your changing child here: https://smbwell.com/parenting The post It's Not About You appeared first on Susie Pettit.

Rosemary once had a very strong opinion on this but, as with all other things, she's mellowed with age. Beatrice wonders what's the point in blanking out your kids' faces if your social media is set to private, and, above all else, we wonder what kind of social media stage mom Blaire Mac Cabe would have been. **DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Rosemary wrote a piece about tradwives on her Substack, 'I Can See the Appeal of the Tradwife Life', which you can read here.The Most Flattering Tradwife Dresses: https://hannaathome.com/tradwife-dress/Some notable #tradwife accounts include Lex Delarosa, Ballerina Farm and Estee Williams.One in five US households is not online. (Not 50% but anyway…)Jo Piazza's podcast and Substack.**DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It turns out, Beatrice may not have. Things we mention include the Balenciaga towel skirt, Crocs x McDonald's and Katie Holmes' nose ring. Because of course we do.**DM us on Instagram @notwithoutmysister, or email us on notwithoutmysis@gmail.com.Rosemary's book, This is Not About You, is available now wherever books are sold. If you're lazy, check out a few links here.http://www.patreon.com/notwithoutmysister – $5 a month will get you a minimum of four bonus episodes AND your regular episodes will come to you early AND ad-free!LEAVE US A REVIEW! Please, please, please. Failing that, share the pod on your social media – we're trying to make this really worth our while, in other words, a way of keeping Beatrice in Fort Wayne and keeping us TOGETHERRRRRRR!Not Without My Sister is recorded in Fort Wayne, Indiana by sisters Rosemary and Beatrice Mac Cabe. Original music by Don Kirkland. Our artwork is by Lindsay Neilson. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.