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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you always beat your man at the board games he introduced you to, how can you mend his love of them? If your friend loses the key to your building that you gave her as a favor, does that deserve punishment? Is it OK to "therapy police" your husband? And if you find out your dad has been killing squirrels in his spare time, what should you do?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Beating My BF At Board Games Has Made Him Lose Interest In His Hobby—Help! 13:04 - Q2: Should I Ignore My Friend's Birthday Because They Ignored Mine? 21:16 - Q3: My Friend Lost The Key To My Building That I Gave Her As A Favor—Shandy, What Would You Do? 27:09 - Q4: My Husband And I Always Fight About This—Am I In The Wrong? 36:44 - Q5: My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help! 48:05 - Q6: Am I Wrong For “Therapy-Policing” My Husband? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SIDEBAR IS BACK, BABY! This series was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to read yours in the comments! Shandy saw their quarterly in-theater movie—what did they think? Is it possible to get better at holding your pee? Can you guess the cost of two juices in NYC? Are police officers staring at their phones while on the job? Did Shandy like White Lotus Season 3? Are commercials good for you? What are YOUR favorite commercial jingles? What is the least delicious type of potato? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Shandy In-Theater Movie Review 6:19 - Peeing 8:25 - White Lotus Season 3 12:24 - Patrick Schwarzenegger 13:40 - The Cost Of Juice 16:11 - Cops On Their Phones 19:26 - Recognizing Faces 26:15 - Waiting 29:39 - Guns N' Roses 32:07 - Commercials 38:06 - Fingerling Potatoes If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

SURPRISE!!! Today we're joined IN STUDIO by Love Is Blind's Joey and Sara! Going into this recording we truly had no idea what was going to happen. Would this be a group friend hang or a Tell All-turned-Love Fest?? Today Joey and Sara officially set the record straight on the dating rumors and what it has been like being on the receiving end of so much online hate. Sara shares her side of the story when it comes to Monica's betrayal accusations, and Joey shares the ways in which he's been misunderstood. LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know the REAL Sara and Joey and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - The first 1000 Shandies get a $100 credit at https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or by using code SHANDY at sign up! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! More Sara: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/saracarton_ - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@saracarton More Joey: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/joeykid34 - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@joey_exotic Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Joey & Sara! 4:00 - Are They Or Aren't They Dating?? 7:53 - Monica 21:58 - The Love Square 25:08 - Online Hate, The Hardest Parts & Misconceptions 41:42 - That Bachelor Audition 44:07 - Exclusivity 46:27 - They Rank Their Relationship 47:56 - How They Complement Each Other 49:56 - How They Annoy Each Other 54:31 - How They're Different Than They Imagined  1:10:17 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY for a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help! 15:23 - Q2: I'm Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out? 32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name? 46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor! Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Head to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Carolina: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarolinasofia - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscarolinasofia Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She'd Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season's “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation! Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! More Meg: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meggofueggo - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meggofueggo More Mason: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masonhoracek - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@masonhoracek Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason's Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They'd Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

NEW EPISODE SERIES ALERT!!! Dear Shandy has been faithfully relationship-focused for 4.5 years, but we've decided it's about time there was a dedicated space for all the long lost topics and tangents. The Sidebar was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to hear about yours in the comments! What did Shandy think of season 2 of Severance? Would you ever go skiing alone? Do Canadians get road rage? Is reaching at the dinner table really so bad? What was Andy's worst ever "you're welcome"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping + a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:32 - Severance Season 2 (Spoiler Alert) 20:42 - Skiing Alone 25:12 - Laughing Alone 29:27 - Canadians In Cars 33:11 - Reaching At The Dinner Table 36:22 - Andy's Worst You're Welcome 41:03 - What Dogs Think About When They Do Tricks 42:58 - Pretty Privilege If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there a polite way to tell your friends not to bring their messy kids to your new place? Is the way your partner criticizes reality TV contestants' looks a red flag? If you and your partner of nearly 20 years simply cannot agree on where to live, what to do? And finally, what to do if your partner doesn't seem to care about his hygiene! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:18 - Q1: My Friends Want To Bring Their Messy Kids To My Brand New Condo—Help! 13:54 - Q2: My Husband & I Fight Over Reality TV—Help! 32:54 - Q3: We Differ On Where We Want To Live—Is This A Dealbreaker? 54:21 - Q4: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Skid Marks—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you keep having dirty dreams about a friend's husband, is that a type of cheating? Are you too picky for not entertaining men who pursue you "second", *after* showing interest in your friend? If you get a work opportunity that feels better suited to a friend, should you hand over the job? And the age old question: what to do when trapped in Group Text Hell?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:29 - Q1: How Do I Decline My Grandmother's Offer Of Her Engagement Ring? 11:54 - Q2: I Keep Having Dirty Dreams About A Friend's Husband—Help! 25:14 - Q3: Am I Too Picky For Not Wanting To Be Second Choice? 35:29 - Q4: Am I A Bad Friend If I Accept This Work Opportunity? 53:22 - Q5: I'm Trapped In Group Text Hell—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting!

Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to discover SKIMS intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & News 6:05 - Episode 91, from Caller Kiera: “My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?” 9:44 - Episode 133, Q1 from Jess: “I Always Seem To Catch The Ick From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?” 14:42 - Episode 184, Q5 from Anonymous: “The Guy I've Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won't Commit—Snap Me Out Of It” 19:07 - Episode 189, Q4 from Liz: “I Am In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?” 31:10 - Episode 231, Q4 from Maybe Shallow: “I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic Flaw—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?” 35:29 - Episode 304, Q1 from One Bored Babe: “Does Healthy = Boring?” 41:55 - Episode 307, Q3 from Triply Baffled: “Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?” 45:55 - Episode 313, Q6 from Sarah P: “My Aunt's Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents' That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?” 58:35 - Episode 321, Q1 from Passenger Princess: “Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?” 1:02:42 - Episode 340, Q4 from Songless Bird: “My Boyfriend Dislikes My Singing So Now I Don't Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?” 1:05:57 - Episode 346, Q4 from KB: “I'm The Paparazzi In My Friend Group But It's Never Reciprocated—Help!” If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Andy Levine joins Ralph Sutton and Dov Davidoff and they discuss cohosting Dear Shandy with his wife Sharleen Joynt, Andy Levine and Dov Davidoff being weiner cousins, the truths about dating that never change, working with his wife during the pandemic, men who want to be with virgins, whether dating apps are ruining society, why Dov is single and how he ruined a double date with Andy Levine and Sharleen Joynt, a game of Bag or Flag where they decide on what's a red flag and what's ok to look past, Andy Levine's first concert, first drug and first sexual experience and so much more!Air Date: January 8th, 2025)Support our sponsors!YoDelta.com - Use promo code: Gas to get 25% off!To advertise your product or service on GaS Digital podcasts please go to TheADSide.com and click on "Advertisers" for more information!The SDR Show merchandise is available at https://podcastmerch.com/collections/the-sdr-showYou can watch The SDR Show LIVE for FREE every Wednesday and Saturday at 9pm ET at GaSDigitalNetwork.com/LIVEOnce you're there you can sign up at GaSDigitalNetwork.com with promo code: SDR for discount on your subscription which will give you access to every SDR show ever recorded! On top of that you'll also have the same access to ALL the shows that GaS Digital Network has to offer!Follow the whole show on social media!Andy LevinePodcast Instagram: https://instagram.com/dearshandyInstagram: https://instagram.com/machinelevineDov DavidoffTwitter: https://twitter.com/DovDavidoffInstagram: https://instagram.com/DovDavidoffRalph SuttonTwitter: https://twitter.com/iamralphsuttonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamralphsutton/The SDR ShowTwitter: https://twitter.com/theSDRshowInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesdrshow/GaS Digital NetworkTwitter: https://twitter.com/gasdigitalInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/gasdigital/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

It's our last non-recap episode of 2024 and today's all about reflecting on past year! In keeping with tradition, we're answering YOUR questions about our personal bests and worsts of 2024. THANK YOU, lovely Shandies, for yet another year of being the friends we've never met (but in some cases have!) Happy, happy holidays and see you in 2025! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to save over 35% on your order now through January 12! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:01 - Favorite Place Visited 8:07 - Best Animal Encounter 9:17 - Favorite Meal 10:14 - Best Movie 11:00 - Best Escape Room 12:19 - Best Experience 16:09 - Favorite Pair Of Andy's Socks 16:20 - Best Food With Cheese Eaten 19:34 - Best Thing You Spent Money On 21:28 - Worst Movie 23:21 - Worst Book 26:25 - Least Favorite Show That We Recapped 26:35 - Biggest First World Problem 28:53 - Worst Reality TV Villain 30:26 - Biggest Podcast-Related Lesson Learned 38:23 - Most Memorable Fan Encounter  41:38 - Will You Consider Becoming Full-Time Podcasters in 2025? 44:53 - Hardest Lesson 49:00 - New Routines 54:40 - Proudest Moment 57:15 - F*ck, Marry, Kill: Japan, Ireland, New Zealand? Items mentioned: 5-minute journal: https://amzn.to/4iDIHkK Nodpod eye mask: https://bit.ly/41EpJEO If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your maid of honor feels you should have a dry wedding to accommodate your mutual friend, are you the A-hole for taking issue with that? Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow numerous "Instagram models", or is it just today's culture? If you dig up past dirt on your husband's phone, who's more wrong: him for lying, or you for spying? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:18 - Q1: My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help! 7:45 - Q2: I Hate That My Boyfriend Follows Several Instagram Models—Am I Overreacting? 24:01 - Q3: I've Sleuthed My Husband's Phone And Found A Past I Can't Get Over—Help! 43:52 - Q4: I Can't Stand My In-Laws' Gift Giving Etiquette—Am I Wrong? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandies, you asked, and you shall receive! By VERY popular demand, Shandy is recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 3, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:05 - Introduction 11:37 - Couples' Final Night Together 14:44 - Speed Dating 19:02 - Dating Week 29:08 - The Choice 33:10 - Trial Marriages 1:07:25 - Girls' Night/Boys' Night 1:14:50 - Shandy's Predictions 1:18:09 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:18:49 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! We're all told not to quit growing up, but when you're an adult making adult decisions, is it ok to be a "quitter"? Is there anything wrong with a "sexless" but otherwise happy marriage? And if your friend who owes you $1000 then has the audacity to ghost you, what should you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:50 - Q1: Is It OK To Be A Quitter? 10:58- Q2: Is A Sexless Marriage Destined For Failure? 25:20 - Q3: My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - A Very Random Introduction 3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist? 11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question? 21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams? 32:38 - Q4: I'm The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It's Never Reciprocated—Help! 52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/FREESHANDY for 10 free meals! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress? 18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do? 29:37 - Q3: My Friend's Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy? 45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws? 1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It's Because I'm Not “Pretty”—Shandy's Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate?  13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure? 23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend? 33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don't Sing Around Him—Does This Matter? 55:22 - Shandy's Favorite Flavors If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you name your friend your baby's guardian but she doesn't live up to the role, is it OK to rescind the title? Does not wanting to attend your friends' kids' birthday parties make you an A-hole? How to choose between Mister Nice Guy and Mister Good In Bed? And finally, the age old question: Just HOW does one go about hitting on their COUSIN?!?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 2:19 - Q1: I Celebrate My Friend's Birthdays But She Often Forgets Mine—Is She A Hypocrite Or Are We Not As Close As I Think? 11:43 - Q2: Am I The Asshole For Not Wanting To Attend My Friend's 2-Year Old's Birthday Party? 16:32 - Q3: My Baby's Guardians Have Really Disappointed Me—Can I Rescind Their Role? 37:37 - Q4: How Do I Hit On My Cousin? 46:26 - Q5: Mister Nice Guy Vs Mister Good In Bed—How Do I Choose? 59:25 - Q6: To Dye Or Not To Dye My Grey Hair? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We just finished, dare I say it? One of the most dramatic seasons of The Bachelorette ever and we still aren't over it. In this episode we're sharing a clip from our friends Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine's show, Dear Shandy. Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast but they're also known for their hilarious take on relationship reality shows, from The Bachelor to Love is Blind (even Time Magazine wrote about their recaps!). They will be recapping The Golden Bachelorette so you will not want to miss it (if you're reading this, the first Golden Bachelorette recap is up wherever you get your podcasts, so why don't you go check it out?!). Listen to Dear Shandy on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.  

Now we know what you're thinking-it's Friday...why is there a new Dear Shandy episode on my feed?? Well, we wanted to jump in and share a clip from a podcast we love (and know you will love too). The first season of the Golden Bachelorette is here and Joan Vassos is ready for love! In this episode, we're sharing a clip from our podcast besties who host the podcast Love To See It with Emma and Claire. Culture critics Emma Gray and Claire Fallon share their predictions for this season, breaking down everything you need to know about the newest cast of eligible golden bachelors. Listen to Love To See It with Emma and Claire on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's that time of year again... Dear Shandy is officially 4 years old! And what better way to celebrate than to answer YOUR questions! We polled you over on Instagram and received a particularly fabulous selection of Qs about us, our relationship, the podcast, and of course, the random stuff in between! Thank you, Shandies, for another year of making us feel seen, understood, and like we're in the company of found family. We love you guys! Come join us in our living room to chat! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! Previous Anniversary Q&As... 1 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE9711623600.mp3?updated=1694617411 2 Year Anniversary Q&A: https://pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/38G817/traffic.megaphone.fm/BOOJE8112889855.mp3?updated=1694627652 Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:47 - What Advice Would You Give Aspiring (But Intimidated) Podcasters? 3:58 - What's The Best, Most Non-Intrusive Way To Approach You In Person? 6:00 - If You Could Only Watch One TV Show For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would It Be? 15:38 - Is Andy Tired Of Watching The Bachelor Yet? 18:51 - Which One Of You Would Win Survivor?  22:01 - What Animal is Truly The King Of The Jungle? 24:15 - If Asked, Would You Both Host A Reality TV Show? 25:07 - What Type Of Natural Disaster Are You Most Afraid Of? 28:31 - At 4 Years Of Podcasting, What Is More Frustrating Than When You Started And What Is Less? 35:37 - When Are Andy And Thomas Reuniting? 35:36 - When Wiping, Do You Bunch Or Fold Your Toilet Paper? 36:26 - Describe Yourself As A Kitchen Utensil 37:51 - Do You Break Your KitKats Or Bite Into Them With Disregard For The Breaking Line? 40:25 - What Is Something New That Ruby Has Brought Out In Your Relationship? 43:15 - How Did You Choose Ruby's Name? 44:07 - I Know Sharleen Loves Video Games But Has Andy Ever Played One And Enjoyed It? 47:46 - If You Could Each Go Back And Tell Your Partner's Younger Self Something, What Would It Be? 51:45 - How Many 3-Year Olds Do You Think You Could Fight Off Before They Overtook You? 55:29 - If You Could Drop Everything Right Now, Money Is Not An Object, Where And How Would You Go And Live? 58:40 - Thank You If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does breaking a promise more than once make you a "bad" friend? What about costing your friend $$$ because you bailed on her birthday? If your roommate won't stop "complaining" about getting hit on—after always wanting to get hit on—how should you proceed? And another GYM question!!! Woohoo! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.eatfungies.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off science-driven skincare! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:35 - Q1: Am I Delusional For Wanting To Be Friends With This Ex? 11:47 - Q2: Am I A Bad Friend If I Break My Promise Twice? 27:06 - Q3: My Friend Bailed On My Birthday Trip At The 11th Hour—How Do I Address This? 45:53 - Q4: My Roommate Keeps “Complaining” About Getting Hit On—What Should I Say? 1:05:45 - Q5: This Gym Guy Is So Honest But Also Confusing—What's My Next Move? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your long distance boyfriend suddenly stops texting you without warning to go play video games, is that a sign of disrespect or a silly nothing burger? If your friends say they'll visit but routinely show up late (or not at all), what's a Shandy to do? If your dating situation makes you feel like one of the final two women on The Bachelor, how long is too long to give him to make his choice? And if your friend's public breastfeeding makes you uncomfortable, is it OK to say so? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:04 - Q1: My Boyfriend Didn't Make Me Feel Prioritized—Am I Overreacting? 12:21 - Q2: Our Friends Are Chronically Tardy And Have Even Stood Us Up—Help! 21:33 - Q3: I Feel Like I'm Final Two On The Bachelor—How Long Do I Give Him To Decide? 46:06 - Q4: I Told My Friend She Should Be Done Breastfeeding—AITA? 55:56 - Q5: My Brother's Habit Is Driving Me Nuts—Tell Me What To Do, Shandy! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's that time again, Shandies!!! We're back with volume 4 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:30 - Episode 61: Q2, from M: https://youtu.be/kNoYuDE8Pp0?si=nLXIbkxAV-AOfquD 5:54 - Episode 139: Caller Emily: https://youtu.be/wHMVz9lKNCA?si=232hcGf_EwATI4pJ 12:59 - Episode 182 - Q3, from M: https://youtu.be/FgJZYlWYlos?si=pbqYK3YhbUFHew6H 26:01 - Episode 206: Q5, from Jess: https://youtu.be/r4HxaRb6V6o?si=vlKL7Ma_UISDEvBv 32:15 - Episode 235 - Caller Cierra: “https://youtu.be/Kb6eHaAoyKs?si=CqKfWSoOsXQQOqX8 37:19 - Episode 245 - Q1, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/4qeFKaVTQxA?si=aYNdxdgdE6ISqHLu 44:57 - Episode 247 - Caller Elizabeth: https://youtu.be/-vDRYxqpFPs?si=aF2s7oW8YzXDKOVF 48:48 - Episode 274 - Q4, from Carlie: https://youtu.be/U9h3heqGdpQ?si=upXNLSNZ4cm7sT-X 54:18 - Episode 277 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/0Ry4ja3wptk?si=4zFWEjzMkytrQCxV 57:35 - Episode 281 - Q3, from Anonymous: https://youtu.be/cUZ57oKjNMk?si=61lkrg5pihkvuWQW 1:04:36 - Episode 306 - Caller Erin: https://youtu.be/T5abB9KuNIU?si=4TnKBUHQt2A51mJ7 1:08:26 - Episode 309 - Q4, from J: https://youtu.be/jOI51eF3XRs?si=Z8XbR6nEHfznFLDT 1:15:48 - Episode 316 - Q5, from L: https://youtu.be/SfJyODiCxR0?si=W9NO-Y2admzFLUkR If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey legal team! I know this is a week we normally don't release an episode but we wanted to share a show we think you'll love. If you listen to The Bravo Docket, you obviously love reality TV and so do hosts Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine of Dear Shandy. Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where happily married couple Sharleen & Andy (aka “Shandy”!) answer YOUR relationship questions (and you can be anonymous, so nobody has to know!). But they're also known for their hilarious take on relationship reality shows, from The Bachelor to Love is Blind. (Even Time Magazine wrote about their recaps!) They also do episodes called Love Fests, where they have a “double date” with your favorite couples from reality TV and pop culture. They are currently in the middle of recapping the newest season of The Bachelorette and we can't get enough! So after you're done listening to this episode, make sure you find Dear Shandy wherever you get your podcasts (or watch their episodes on Youtube!) so you don't miss an episode! To learn more about Dear Shandy, follow them on Instagram @dearshandy, check out their Youtube and listen every Tuesday and Thursday, wherever you get your podcasts!

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If a guy you meet online copies something from your dating profile and pastes it to his while you're still dating, is it a secret message or just straight-up plagiarism? If you know you're bi-curious but your (straight) wedding isn't far away, is it now or never to act on your curiosity? And if your sister purposely reads your journal and finds the not-so-nice things you wrote about her, who's the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:35 - Q1: Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery? 13:17 - Q2: AITA If I Give My Friend Unsolicited Career Plan Advice? 26:58 - Q3: Might Bi-Curiosity Kill This Cat? 46:02 - Q4: I Vented About My Sister In My Journal & She Found And Read It—Help! 59:05 - Q5: To What Lengths Should My Friend Go To Get Paid Back By Her Ex? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7-11-24 Afternoon Rush - Recap of My Chat With Dear Shandy Podcast & Golden Bachelorette Gets Premiere Date & Call Her Daddy Did Late Night TV! Today's episode of the rush hour is sponsored by Tropical Smoothie Cafe!go to patreon.com/daveneal for more bonus content!

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If the guy you're seeing is TOO good-looking, how to escape the insecurity spiral? If you've planned your friend's bachelorette party AND bridal shower and she can't even remember your birthday, is it worth the confrontation or does she get a bride pass? And if he was the right guy at the wrong time, when circumstances change, could the time be right? Finally, Shandy gives a pep talk to a Shandy newly out of a situationship of 14 YEARS. Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop the Skims t-shirt shop! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:32 - Q1: The Guy I'm Seeing Is TOO Attractive—Help! 14:41 - Q2: I've Planned Her Bachelorette AND Bridal Shower And She Can't Even Wish Me A Happy Birthday?? 22:31 - Q3: Was It Right Guy But Wrong Timing? If So, What If Circumstances Have Changed? 33:20 - Q4: My Future Sister-In-Law Doesn't Seem To Like Me—What Should I Do? 43:21 - Q5: I'm Newly Out Of A 14-Year On-And-Off-Again Situationship—Help Me, Shandy! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your guy says ILY in the heat of the moment but later on "forgets" this happened, is that a sign you need to end things? If your 19 year old sister starts dating a 34 year old, can you express your disapproval or should you back off? And if your family sells a possession of your grandparents that you wanted and even offered to pay for, should you hold onto that grudge and confront them? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYAPPS and use code SHANDYAPPS to get FREE appetizers for life! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 30%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:29 - Q1: Was He Sleep-Talking When He Said He Loved Me? 13:10 - Q2: Was I The A-Hole For Fact-Checking My Guy? 20:54 - Q3: I Hate That My 19 Year Old Sister Is Dating A 34 Year Old—Am I Just Being An Age Gap Hater? 33:31 - Q4: Am I The A-Hole For Not Wanting To Visit My Friends In New York? 41:29 - Q5: Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be “30 And Flirty”? 53:09 - Q6: My Aunts Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Shandy is officially on the Dawg Side! As you may know, 3 months ago we adopted a small dog named Ruby! We hadn't planned on doing a fur baby episode, but it came so hotly requested (and we were so touched by the enthusiasm!), we couldn't help but oblige. Today we're answering YOUR questions all about our pup, her adoption story, and whether or not the famed Cat Person (Andy) has been converted. Warning: unfettered gushing ahead! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box, plus 20% your next month! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for up to 40% off! 0:00 - Introduction 1:35 - Ruby's Adoption Story 10:28 - Andy's Adjustment To Dog Person 12:23 - Ruby's Personality 14:52 - Tips For Fellow Germaphobes 16:10 - What Took You So Long? 20:22 - But I Thought Andy Was A Cat Person? 21:05 - Does Ruby Give Cat Vibes? 21:12 - What Are Your Favorite Dog Toys? 21:58 - Has Andy Been Giving Ruby More Attention Than Sharleen? 24:38 - Who Watches Ruby When You're Away? 24:50 - What Is Your Favorite Thing Ruby Does? 26:34 - Have There Been Any Hurdles/What Have You Learned About Yourself? 31:26 - What Kind Of Food Do You Feed Ruby? 31:31 - How Does Ruby React To Sharleen's Singing? 32:02 - Who Is The Stricter Parent? 32:42 - Nicknames 33:34 - Where Does Ruby Sleep? 34:39 - Is Having A Dog What You Expected? 37:36 - What's Been The Hardest Part Of Having A Dog? 39:12 - Did You Buy Pet Insurance? 39:15 - Who Is Ruby's Favorite? 40:44 - How Has Ruby Changed Since You Got Her? 41:04 - How Has Ruby Changed Your Life? 46:44 - In Conclusion If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! You met your boyfriend shortly after getting laid off—with a new job lined up, is it morally wrong to never tell him about the layoff? If you're single and sharing an Airbnb with couples and even some families, should you pay the same amount for a room in the rental, even if there's only one of you? If your friend unexpectedly invites her boyfriend on your planned girls trip, are you the a-hole if you pull out? And finally, what to do if you simply *dislike* your best friend's fiancé?? Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Shop the Skims t-shirt shop at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYSWEET for FREE dessert for life! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:53 - Q1: If I Have New Job, Is It Morally Wrong Not To Tell My Boyfriend I Got Laid Off From My Previous Job? 6:22 - Q2: I'm The Single Friend In A Large Trip Of Couples And Their Kids—Am I Being Unreasonable About This Airbnb Split? 14:21 - Q3: My Friend Added Her Boyfriend To Our Girls Trip—AITA For Wanting To Pull Out? 30:53 - Q4: My Boyfriend Bailed On Driving Me To My Hometown & I Had To Pay $$$ For A Flight Instead—AITA For Wanting Him To Help Cover The Cost? 46:07 - Q5: My Best Friend's Fiancé Is Just “OK”—How Do I Get Over The Fact That She Deserves Better? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is marriage necessary, or even at all what it's cracked up to be? If your partner struggles in the friendship department, how can you help? How should you respond to a question you hate being asked? And finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question! Where does Shandy stand on unintentional door slamming? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save 35%! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:40 - Q1: To Marry Or Not To Marry? 9:11 - Q2: I Feel Weird Contributing To My Friend's “Honey Fund” As A Wedding Gift—Thoughts? 18:06 - Q3: Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond? 31:58 - Q4: My Fiancé Has No Friends—How Can I Help Him? 48:45 - Q5: Am I The Asshole—Door Slamming Edition If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a surprise all around because Shandy had absolutely zero intention of recapping their experience officiating their friends' wedding. However, on Instagram you requested this with a fiery passion that couldn't be ignored! So today is all about Shandy as WEDDING OFFICIANTS! As you may know, on Saturday April 26th, 2024, Shandy officiated the wedding of Nick Viall and Natalie Joy, their longtime friends. This episode will contain reflections on the experience, tips (and regrets!) for those planning their own weddings/officiant speeches, unexpected moments, and overall takeaways! Listen on for this unique Dear Shandy episode! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! 0:00 - Introduction 2:37 - How/When Did Nick & Natalie Ask You To Be Officiants? 5:58 - How Did You Make The Decision To Officiate As A Couple? 6:10 - Was One Of You The “Official” Officiant? 8:13 - Would You Have Accepted For Any Couple In Your Life Or Only A “Special” Couple? 9:05 - How Did You Prepare? 11:27 - What Sort Of Planning Did You Do With The Couple? 14:50 - Humor 17:20 - How Much Did You Share With The Couple Beforehand? 17:43 - Have Either Of You Ever Officiated A Wedding Before? 17:47 - Since You've Known Nick Longer Was It Difficult To Make It Feel Equally Personal For Natalie? 18:59 - Were You Nervous? Who Was More Nervous? 22:55 - Overall Tips/Regrets 25:31 - Did It Make You Nostalgic For Your Own Wedding? 28:58 - Do You Feel More Responsible To Stay Together Now? 29:38 - Can Shandy Officiate My Wedding? 30:40 - How Did You Enter The Ceremony? 30:58 - The Couple's Vows 31:07 - Unexpected Moment 33:05 - Was The Baby A Part Of The Ceremony? 33:23 - Did Nick Cry? 34:08 - Did You Cry? 35:06 - How Are You Friends With Nick? 38:28 - Did You Ride The Mechanical Bull? 39:09 - Was There Anyone Who Made You Starstruck? 40:22 - Did They Tell You What To Wear? 40:47 - Sharleen's Looks 44:04 - Did You Bring Ruby? 44:50 - People Article Misspellings 46:44 - What Was Your Favorite Things About Savannah? 48:02 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you have a tumultuous relationship history, is "boring" maybe a good thing? If you feel yourself becoming resentful in your relationship because your sacrifices outnumber your partner's, what to do? And not one, not two, but THREE heavy-hitting platonic friendship questions! What does Shandy consider a "friendship-reconsidering" level crime? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: Does Healthy = Boring? 10:35 - Q2: My Friend Accused Me Of “Bitching & Complaining” And Our Friendship Is Suddenly Over—What Happened?! 23:50 - Q3: My Friend Moved Out Of Town And Now Zoom-Joins Our In-Person Hangs—Am I The Asshole For Disliking This? 33:46 - Q4: Should I Let My Friend's Outrageous Wedding Request Make Me See Her Differently? 46:03 - Q5: I've Sacrificed More For This Relationship Than My Boyfriend Has And Am Feeling Resentful—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4-16-24 Afternoon Rush - Bachelor Podcasters Dear Shandy Comment On Golden Bachelor Divorce & The Unsolved $30 Mil Heist! Head to FACTOR MEALS dot com slash rushhour50 and use code rushhour50 to get 50% off. That's code rushhour50 at FACTOR MEALS dot com slash rushhour50 to get 50% off!

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! How important is "niceness" in a partner, and is it enough? If you have a massive crush on someone out of town, how do you escalate from casual, sporadic dates to long-distance relationship? If you and your partner agree to boycott an establishment and he lies about having caved, is this a red flag? Finally, an epic Am-I-The-Asshole question, board game edition! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cbdistillery.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! - Go to https://www.FastGrowingTrees.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for an additional 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 0:54 - Q1: Is “Nice” Enough? 7:06 - Q2: My BF Lied About Visiting An Establishment We Had Agreed To Boycott—Is This A Red Flag? 21:28 - Q3: I Have A Huge Crush On A Girl & Don't Know How To Escalate Things—Help! 42:37 - Q4: The Transient Nature Of My Career Has Left Me Unmotivated To Date—Help! 53:08 - Q5: Am I The Asshole, Board Game Edition If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3-29-24 Afternoon Rush - Bachelor Joey Gives Fans Credit For Spoiling Ending & Billy Eilish Criticizes Taylor Swift? www.linktree.com/daveneal

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What are Shandy's thoughts on giving it another go with an ex who used to give you The Ick—Is it "Once Ick, Always Ick"? If your generosity with friends feels under appreciated, is it worth bringing up? And if your bestie plans an elaborate Bachelorette party getaway, as a bridesmaid, does not wanting to go make you the A-hole? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box and 2 free wellness shots per box while subscription is active! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: I'm Interested In Trying Again With My Newly Single Ex-Turned-Friend Who Used To Give Me The Ick—Shandy's Advice? 11:08 - Q2: How Should I Handle My Toxic Ex-Coworker And Her Gossip Mill? 23:36 - Q3: I Was Generous With My Friends But Was Shown Little Appreciation—Who's The A-Hole Here? 38:04 - Q4: AITA For Not Wanting To Attend An Entire 8-Day Bachelorette Getaway? 46:04 - Q5: I'm Furious My Mother-In-Law Is Backing Out Of A Very Costly Agreement—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! In Episode 10, Shandy told a caller not to put "doesn't drink" in her dating profile—3 years and a sober social movement later, have they changed their tune? If your mother-in-law calls just to chat on the phone too often for comfort, how to ease phone-talking anxiety or to lessen the pressure without hurting anyone's feelings? And what if your husband wants to give your baby daughter a middle name you hate? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 35%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:27 - Q1: You Once Told A Shandy Not To Put “Doesn't Drink” In Their Dating Profile—3 Years Later, Do You Still Feel This Way? 8:51 - Q2: My Mother-In-Law Calls Too Often And It Gives Me Anxiety—Help! 27:14 - Q3: My Friend Is Now Married To My Narcissist Ex And I Feel Guilty She's Ended Up With Him—Help! 38:04 - Q4: My Husband Wants To Honor His Grandmother Using Our Daughter's Middle Name But I Don't Like The Name—Help! 49:19 - Q5: My Husband Won't Watch Rom-Coms With Me! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Happy 2024, Shandies!!! We're back from our vacation and so excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... today is our 3rd installment of UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:07 - Episode 42: Caller Maya - https://youtu.be/gwJyzdS8NgM?si=pS0LVXjKgqE091IT 7:40 - Episode 154: Q6, from S - https://youtu.be/qyYKy-XiJ1A?si=NFZjCWlELmF_TU5u 12:00 - Episode 170: Q5, from Scared of Falling: https://youtu.be/7kVFN__wbAU?si=-uthJ85Sod6YgX64 14:41 - Episode 183: Caller Rosemary - https://youtu.be/pJdsPIfB3es?si=miKOsexlois7Oet4 20:28 - Episode 193: Caller 2, Siobhan - https://youtu.be/4DPlS4HCDLc?si=Qfgi7lzIZCdDeq-7 25:23 - Episode 197: Q3, from Pickle - https://youtu.be/dtHws_MFWho?si=rwsAq2x_UwIWh6zX 35:47 - Episode 218: Q7 from C - https://youtu.be/W0GWXzZwU0c?si=uZ0NTC7aXui3vNmU 39:55 - Episode 239: Q2 from K - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 43:47 - Episode 239: Q4 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 46:57 - Episode 239: Q5 from A - https://youtu.be/YvOMD4zBo7A?si=gr2yXkFZ_GKgfuqb 51:56 - Episode 263: Q3 from N - https://youtu.be/Ofw1rNoMDiw?si=EjX_gcIlbYVpLaWo 55:15 - Episode 270: Q4 from Anonymous - https://youtu.be/ga4wgRlzIjE?si=WatAdVjOraPqTWaO 1:02:20 - Not An Update But A Shandy Letter The referenced article written by the Shandy from the final letter: https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973https://www.today.com/life/essay-life/sign-universe-right-guy-rcna43973 If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's our last episode of 2023 and today's all about reflecting on past year! We're blending 2 ideas today: keeping with tradition in highlighting our Best Q&As of the year, as well as answering YOUR questions about our personal favorites/bests of 2023. After this, we'll be taking a 2 week break, so we'll see you back here on Jan 11! THANK YOU, Shandies, for another fantastic year of kinship and laughs. We wish you the happiest holiday season and will see you soon! XOXO Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for FREE breakfast for life! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.TakeCareOf.com and use code SHANDY50 for 50% off your first Care/Of order! 0:00 - Introduction 1:31 - Favorite Book of 2023 3:56 - Favorite Escape Room of 2023 4:52 - Favorite Animal Interaction of 2023 7:07 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 270, Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car 18:20 - Favorite Socks of 2023 18:51 - Favorite Beauty Finds of 2023 20:54 - Favorite City Visited in 2023 21:18 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q2: My Friend Group Imploded Over Pickleball—Help! 37:03 - Favorite Restaurant of 2023 39:33 - Favorite Way We Grew As People in 2023 42:31 - Favorite Outfit of 2023 43:04 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 206, Q7: The Ethics Of Tickling 52:41 - Favorite Green Thumb Tip of 2023 54:10 - Favorite Video Game of 2023 54:23 - Favorite Ad Jingle of 2023 56:32 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 245, Q2: My Boyfriend Wants A Private, Locked Room In Our Shared Home—Thoughts? 1:10:20 - Favorite Movie of 2023 1:12:23 - Favorite Deep Conversation of 2023 1:14:55 - BEST OF 2023: Ep 214, Q5: I've Been In An Arranged Marriage For 13 Years & Missed Out On Romance—Help! 1:28:04 - Favorite Moment of Self-Insight of 2023 1:33:21 - Favorite Song We Performed in 2023 1:34:21 - Thank You Shandies! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it acceptable for your best friend to give her boyfriend a key to your shared apartment? For guys wanting to approach women outside the apps, but don't know where to start, Andy gives his 101 tips. Are we all addicted to our phones, and what's an otherwise happily married couple to do when screen time routinely becomes fight time? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Q1: My Roommate Gave Her Boyfriend A Key To Our Shared Apartment—Am I The Asshole For Being Upset? 11:05 - Q2: My Partner Goes Out Partying Late Every Weekend—Am I Being Disrespected? 24:25 - Q3: Shandy's Advice To Men On How To Approach Women IRL 42:39 - Q4: Our Marriage Is Good But Our Phone Addiction Isn't—Any Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Are we ALL pre-date sleuthing one another online, and should you mention what you found to your date? If you're dating someone "perfect", what does it mean when you keep thinking about your ex? And if someone who routinely got in car accidents asked to borrow your new car, what would you say? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save $50! - Go to https://www.skims.com and get free shipping on orders over $75! - Go to https://hellofresh.com/SHANDYFREE and use code SHANDYFREE for free breakfast for life! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: My Pre-Date Googling Revealed Something About My Date—Should I Bring It Up With Him? 12:33 - Q2: My Grandmother Has Passed But Wanted Me To Have Her Wedding Ring—How Do I Bring This Up With Family? 24:23 - Q3: My Boyfriend Is Perfect But I Keep Thinking About My Ex—Help! 39:50 - Q4: We've Gone From Friends To Dating To Friends Again—Shandy's Take? 56:30 - Q5: My Boyfriend Sucks At Driving And Wants To Borrow My New Car 1:06:55 - Announcements If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Does it make you the A-hole to crush on someone you know is unavailable? When your guy is a winner but his kissing is terrible, can you teach an old dog new tricks? And in a romantic relationship, where's the line between the "no eggshells" rule and shared humor? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save 55% off your subscription! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: Am I The A-Hole For Crushing On An Unavailable Co-Worker? 6:24 - Q2: My Wonderful Husband Is A Terrible Kisser—Are My Hot Make Out Days Over? 15:33 - Q3: I Have Fallen For My Best Friend—Help! 34:06 - Q4: In A Relationship, How Does The “No Eggshells” Rule Apply To Humor? 47:18 - Q5: A Guy At My Gym Makes Me Uncomfortable—Shandy's Take? 1:01:32 - Q6: My In-Laws Make Comments About My Hot Dad—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and today is an Am-I-The-Asshole BONANZA! If you're invited to a birthday gathering by the birthday boy, who's paying? Is it wrong to want a new ring when being proposed to for a second time? And is asking a woman to shave her legs akin to a woman asking a man to shave his balls? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.earthbreeze.com/SHANDY for 40% off! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 15% off your first order today! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Q1: My Boyfriend Won't Let Me Go On A Mixed-Gender Climbing Trip—Help! 8:24 - Q2: I Was Invited To A Birthday Gathering And Sent A Venmo Request By The Host The Next Day—Who's In The Wrong? 18:38 - Q3: My Boyfriend Wants To Re-Propose But I Want A Different Ring—Help! 31:29 - Q4: My Boyfriend Hates My Friend And Wants Me To End The Friendship—Help! 38:26 - Q5: Was He Just Not That Into Me? 47:36 - Q6: Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs Vs Asking A Man To Shave His Balls 1:02:12 - Q7: Bad Breath Vs Frizzy Hair If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don't believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them.