Podcasts about Tell Your Friends

Episode 644 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Ludavici."Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Ace Frehley, Nick Drake, Cracker, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard.Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World.Tell Your Friends and Neighbors. 

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt, alongside her special guest Mark Gantt, navigates the intricate journey of evolving as a couple. Drawing from their own 20-year relationship, they explore the three paths couples can take: stagnation in escapism, one partner evolving while the other remains stagnant, or both partners growing together. Brianne and Mark emphasize the significance of conscious evolution in relationships, highlighting the importance of communication, vulnerability, and shared goals.Throughout the episode, they candidly discuss their personal experiences, including the challenges of maintaining connection amidst individual pursuits and the transformations that arise from facing fears together. Listeners will gain insights into the signs of growing apart and practical steps for nurturing a partnership that thrives on mutual support and collaboration. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true partnership requires effort, understanding, and a commitment to evolve together.

Episode 643 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Stellar Son." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, the Kinks, Roxy Music, Kokorok9 Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the intricate concept of the sense of self. With her signature blend of humor and authenticity, Brianne explores how our sense of self shapes our self-image, self-worth, and overall identity. She poses poignant questions to her listeners, encouraging them to reflect on their own journeys and the moments they may have lost their sense of self.Throughout the episode, Brianne discusses the significance of self-awareness and how our interactions with the world around us—family dynamics, societal expectations, and personal experiences—contribute to the development of our identity. She shares her own transformative journey, illustrating how understanding and embracing both the light and shadow aspects of ourselves can lead to profound personal growth.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the signs of a strong sense of self, including the ability to empathize without taking on others' burdens, accepting responsibility for one's choices, and enjoying both social interactions and solitude. Brianne emphasizes that developing a robust sense of self is a lifelong process, one that requires continuous reflection, acceptance, and the courage to evolve. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true strength lies in embracing our authentic selves and honoring our unique paths.

When divorce gets messy, who gets the details, your best friend or your lawyer? Comedian Andrea Rappaport and family-law powerhouse Morgan L. Stogsdill break down exactly what belongs in your attorney's inbox (strategy, facts, timelines, negotiations) and what belongs at brunch (feelings, venting, support). You'll learn how to communicate efficiently to save money, protect leverage, and avoid sabotaging your case, plus how to choose the right friends to lean on without getting “keyed up and liquored up” and firing off expensive emails. Practical scripts, pattern-tracking tips, and a reminder that attorney-client conversations are confidential.Negotiating without lawyers? Tell your attorney first.What to report: “We've been negotiating directly,” plus the round-by-round back-and-forth (Offer → Counter → Counter). This preserves leverage and prevents your lawyer from being blindsided by opposing counsel's “but the parties already agreed…” (≈ 11:00–12:31).Use cost-effective communications.Prefer a short bullet-point email or a 15-minute call to recap facts; end with a clear question (“Is this relevant / do you need more?”) so your lawyer can triage quickly (≈ 12:06–12:41, 16:45–17:45).Medical issues can change your financial outcome.Tell your lawyer the bottom line (e.g., “Follow-up testing showed I had a stroke; next steps include X”). This can impact maintenance/alimony, health-insurance planning, and future medical costs—don't hold back due to privacy; it's confidential (≈ 6:01–8:54).Kids & custody: document patterns, not one-offs.Track behaviors over time (timeline with dates) and escalate only when a pattern emerges. Use a co-parenting app (e.g., OurFamilyWizard) so records are centralized and tamper-resistant (≈ 18:59–20:29, 36:13–36:49).Do not crowd-source legal strategy or finances to friends.Don't pass around your financial affidavit/balance sheet or share strategy; non-experts amp anxiety and can trigger costly re-work by your legal team (≈ 24:07–26:45).Avoid “keyed up + liquored up” emails.Late-night venting to your lawyer = billable time and often requires follow-up to unwind, costing hundreds for nothing actionable (≈ 24:49–25:48).Attorney-client privilege & scope.Your lawyer needs high-level facts and actionable timelines; save feelings for friends/therapist unless they reveal patterns relevant to the case (≈ 4:47–5:37, 18:59–19:46).00:00 Why lawyers need the facts; negotiating w/o attorneys03:38 Attorney vs. friend: who gets what06:01 Medical issues that change financial outcomes09:35 Private negotiations: how to report rounds + counters12:06 Bullets vs. calls; add a question to every email16:45 Kids' issues: patterns, timelines, apps21:16 Choosing the right friend (avoid “Sally Big Mouth” & hidden agendas)24:07 Don't show friends your balance sheet; cost traps32:56 Community + handwritten cards (sponsor segment)41:19 Marathon mindset + resources/community“Your attorney protects your case; your friend protects your heart—don't confuse the two.”“If you're negotiating directly, tell us—and give...

Episode 642 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Matisse Piece." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Thee Sacred Souls, Esme' Patterson, Joni Mitchell, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this insightful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the journey of transcending the ego. With her signature blend of humor and vulnerability, Brianne explores the importance of self-awareness, mindfulness, and humility as essential tools for personal growth. She candidly shares her own experiences and the transformative power of embracing vulnerability and selflessness.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines practical strategies for breaking free from ego-driven behaviors. She emphasizes the significance of being present in the moment, observing thoughts without judgment, and learning from mistakes. By fostering a mindset of continuous evolution and gratitude, listeners are encouraged to shift their focus from self-importance to connection with the world around them.Brianne also discusses the value of empathy, the dangers of comparison, and the need for self-reflection in overcoming ego. By engaging in selfless acts and practicing emotional awareness, individuals can foster deeper connections and cultivate a healthier relationship with themselves and others. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true strength lies in humility and the willingness to grow beyond our self-imposed limitations.

Mark 5:14-20 (ESV)Andrew, Isack, and Edwin talk about Jesus's commission of the formerly demon-possessed man to stay at home in order to tell others about Jesus. Read the written devo that goes along with this episode by clicking here.    Let us know what you are learning or any questions you have. Email us at TextTalk@ChristiansMeetHere.org.    Join the Facebook community and join the conversation by clicking here. We'd love to meet you. Be a guest among the Christians who meet on Livingston Avenue. Click here to find out more. Michael Eldridge sang all four parts of our theme song. Find more from him by clicking here.   Thanks for talking about the text with us today.________________________________________________If the hyperlinks do not work, copy the following addresses and paste them into the URL bar of your web browser: Daily Written Devo: https://readthebiblemakedisciples.wordpress.com/?p=23043The Christians Who Meet on Livingston Avenue: http://www.christiansmeethere.org/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TalkAboutTheTextFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/texttalkMichael Eldridge: https://acapeldridge.com/ 

Episode 641 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Autumn Son." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Art Blakey & the Jazz Messengers, Stevie Wonder, Manchester Orchestra, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the often misunderstood concept of enabling in the context of addiction. With her characteristic honesty and humor, Brianne sheds light on how enabling behaviors can mask deeper emotional discomfort and perpetuate the cycle of addiction. She shares her insights from years of personal experience in recovery and her work with others, emphasizing that enabling is not an act of love but a misguided attempt to exert control over a loved one's addiction.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines the signs of enabling, including making excuses for a loved one's behavior, prioritizing their needs over your own, and feeling anxious when unable to help. She passionately argues that true support for an addict requires setting boundaries and allowing them to face the consequences of their actions. Listeners will learn practical steps to break the cycle of enabling, such as empowering loved ones to take responsibility for themselves, reframing financial support, and prioritizing personal well-being.This episode serves as a crucial reminder that recovery is a personal journey and that sometimes the most loving thing we can do is to step back and allow our loved ones to confront their challenges head-on. Join Brianne as she navigates the complexities of enabling and offers hope for healthier relationships and personal growth.

Episode 640 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled "Evolution Starts with and R." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Plains, Waxahatchee, the Rolling Stones, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the pervasive issue of toxic productivity. With her unique blend of humor and vulnerability, Brianne explores how the relentless drive to produce can lead to burnout and a distorted sense of self-worth. She shares personal anecdotes and insights into the detrimental effects of equating productivity with value, highlighting the importance of rest and self-care.Throughout the episode, Brianne identifies key signs of toxic productivity, such as guilt over downtime, neglecting self-care, and the pressure to constantly be busy. She candidly discusses how societal expectations and childhood experiences contribute to this unhealthy mindset, urging listeners to recognize the negative impact it has on their mental and emotional well-being.Listeners will gain practical strategies for combating toxic productivity, including setting boundaries, practicing self-compassion, and reframing their perception of rest. Brianne emphasizes the necessity of defining personal values separate from work accomplishments, encouraging everyone to embrace moments of stillness and self-reflection. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true success lies in balance and self-acceptance, rather than relentless hustle.

Episode 639 features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Jettison." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Junior Murin, Fela Ransome Kuri & His Koola Lobitos, World Party, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the complex phenomenon of cognitive dissonance. With her trademark blend of humor and authenticity, Brianne unpacks the psychological discomfort that arises when we hold conflicting beliefs, ideas, and values simultaneously. She shares her personal experiences and insights gained from years of navigating the challenges of addiction recovery.Throughout the episode, Brianne illustrates how cognitive dissonance manifests in various aspects of life, from toxic relationships to unhealthy habits. She emphasizes the struggle between the comfort of familiar patterns and the discomfort of making healthier choices. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the mental tension that accompanies these conflicts and learn practical strategies for confronting and overcoming them.Brianne provides relatable examples, from the allure of unhealthy foods to the difficulties of breaking free from toxic relationships, and encourages listeners to sit with their discomfort rather than seeking immediate escape. By recognizing the signs of cognitive dissonance and the impact it has on decision-making, individuals can begin to align their actions with their true values and long-term goals.

Episode 638 also features an EW Poetic Piece titled " Embrace." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Dr. Dog, Charley Crockett, of Montreal, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this transformative episode, Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the compelling world of shadow work. With her signature blend of candor and humor, Brianne shares her personal journey of embracing the darker aspects of herself and how this process can lead to profound self-acceptance and personal growth. She discusses the importance of acknowledging our shadow selves—the hidden, often repressed parts of our personality—and how doing so can improve our relationships and overall well-being.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines her own experiences with shadow work, revealing how it has shaped her life and her approach to helping clients. She emphasizes that everyone has a shadow and that recognizing and owning our darker traits is essential for true healing. Listeners will learn practical strategies for engaging in shadow work, including prompts to identify hidden emotions and patterns that may be holding them back.Brianne also shares the signs that indicate someone has begun to effectively engage in shadow work, such as the ability to laugh at oneself, assertiveness in setting boundaries, and the courage to confront challenges with grace. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that embracing our full selves—both light and dark—is key to living authentically and fostering meaningful connections with others.

Yo, people. Hope you've had a good week so far. In this week's episode, we talk about the death of Charlie Kirk, the importance of long suffering as a Christian and how often we tell our friends to “man up” As always, any questions or message please drop us a DM

Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Aistis, the Mountain Goats, Adrianne Lenker, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the fascinating yet troubling world of emotional addiction. With her characteristic blend of humor and raw honesty, Brianne explores the intense highs and lows that come with seeking emotional drama as a coping mechanism. She reveals how many individuals find themselves caught in a cycle of destructive behavior, constantly craving the rush of emotional intensity to fill an inner void.Throughout the episode, Brianne discusses the signs of emotional addiction, including the compulsive need for drama, the dopamine hits that accompany these emotional highs, and the detrimental effects on mental health such as increased anxiety, mood instability, and chronic stress. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and offers practical strategies for breaking free from the cycle of emotional chaos.Listeners will learn how to pause and sit with discomfort instead of seeking out drama for a quick emotional fix. By embracing stillness and self-reflection, they can begin to regulate their emotions and appreciate the beauty of everyday life without relying on the highs and lows of emotional addiction. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that true fulfillment comes from within, not from the chaos of external drama.

Step into Episode 177 of On the Delo as David DeLorenzo sits down with hospitality builder Mikis Troyan—the behind-the-scenes operator who helped launch American Junkie, co-founded Clive Collective, and now steers concepts like CALA, Tell Your Friends, and Neon Spur. From Phoenix roots and a real-estate grind (think 600–700 foreclosure homes a year) to design-driven restaurants and bar programs, Troyan lays out the unvarnished reality of building places locals actually love—and what's next: Kuza (robata + hand rolls) and a downtown Phoenix trio (Love Call, Ada, Kuza Tori).Chapter Guide (Timestamps): (00:15 - 01:36) Intro & long ties: Episode 178, decades-long friendship, and fathers who've known each other ~50 years. (01:46 - 04:09) Origin story: Phoenix-born; real name Michael; family called him “Matthew”; nickname “Mikis”; Chaparral → SDSU → LA (PA gigs, CAA) → back to help dad; foreclosure wave (600–700 sales/yr). (04:09 - 06:23) Jump to hospitality: American Junkie → Ride Hospitality Group → founding Clive Collective (CALA, Tell Your Friends, Neon Spur); why he prefers staying off-camera. (06:23 - 07:52) Family & leadership: 15-year marriage (March), kids Asher (9½) and Ivy (7½); team-first ops. (07:52 - 11:20) Design lens → CALA: Value-engineering (“if you can't touch it, it doesn't have to be real”); hotel partner Tyler Kent; vibey Mediterranean gap; patio built from scratch; opened in ~4 months; PV Mall #2 targeted next. (11:27 - 12:22) Food matters: Chef Bo's role; why timing made the partnership click post-Sanctuary. (13:30 - 15:29) Neon Spur & Tempe's revival: A country-lean dive on Mill Ave; landlord vision + Mayor Corey; why the opportunity was a no-brainer. (18:08 - 19:34) CALA reality check: Open 7 days (hotel F&B), breakfast/lunch/dinner daily, brunch daily; seasonal menu updates. (21:24 - 23:06) Tell Your Friends: Basement lounge under The Americano; partners Dave Sellers & Bob Agahi; designer Paul Basile; global Bar & Restaurant Design Awards nod; Thu–Sat live music; Americano menu available downstairs. (23:31 - 25:32) Kuza: Robata, sushi, hand rolls in the former Chauncey Social space; aiming for October; Bo is crafting the menu. (25:43 - 27:44) Downtown trio: Love Call (dark neighborhood bar), Ada (mostly outdoor, seafood-lean), Kuza Tori (alley-entry listening bar with hand rolls) with Intersection Development (see “Rainbow Road” apartments shout-out). (28:25 - 31:55) People, seasonality & habits: Why summer slumps test Phoenix operators; his 6am news + breakfast routine, kids at St. Francis, Thursday date nights.

Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Johnny Cash & June Carter Cash, Adrianne Lenker, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard.Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World.Tell Your Friends and Neighbors 

In this empowering episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the world of people pleasing and the critical importance of setting boundaries. With her signature blend of humor and candor, Brianne defines what it means to be a people pleaser—someone who prioritizes the happiness of others at the expense of their own needs and desires. Through personal anecdotes and relatable insights, she highlights the detrimental effects of people pleasing, including low self-esteem, difficulty saying no, and the tendency to neglect self-care.Brianne outlines the signs of being a people pleaser and offers practical strategies for breaking free from this cycle. From learning to say no to recognizing the value of self-worth, she guides listeners on how to reclaim their autonomy and prioritize their own needs without guilt. Throughout the episode, she emphasizes that it's okay to be unliked and that conflict can lead to deeper intimacy in relationships.Listeners will walk away with actionable steps to start setting healthy boundaries, including how to communicate their needs effectively and remove toxic relationships from their lives. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that self-care is not selfish, but a vital part of living a fulfilling life.

Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Jimi Hendrix, Sarah Vaughn, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard.Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World.Tell Your Friends and Neighbors 

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the pervasive issue of perfectionism and its profound impact on mental and physical health. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, Brianne explores the pressures that drive individuals to seek perfection, revealing how these high expectations can lead to anxiety, depression, and burnout.Throughout the episode, Brianne outlines the five distinct types of perfectionism: classic, procrastinator, messy, intense, and Parisian. She shares personal anecdotes and observations, including her experiences with her own child, to illustrate how perfectionism can manifest in everyday life. Listeners will learn to identify the signs of perfectionism and how it can trap them in a cycle of self-criticism and dissatisfaction.Brianne offers practical strategies for breaking free from the constraints of perfectionism, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating progress over perfection. She encourages listeners to embrace their flaws and recognize that perfection is an unattainable ideal. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that the journey toward self-acceptance is far more rewarding than the pursuit of perfection.

Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Richie Havens, Nina Simone, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World.Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

Episode 633 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Blue Sky Freedom." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Courtney Marie Andrew's, Gilberto Gil, Kokoroko, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this insightful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt unpacks the complexities of Relationship Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (ROCD), a condition that plagues many individuals with intrusive and obsessive thoughts about their romantic relationships. With her signature blend of humor and candidness, Brianne explores the symptoms and behaviors associated with ROCD, shedding light on how this disorder can create emotional turmoil and self-doubt.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her own experiences and the stories of those who have battled with ROCD, illustrating the relentless cycle of doubt and anxiety that can arise in relationships. She discusses the key characteristics of ROCD, including compulsive behaviors like seeking constant reassurance, comparing relationships, and the emotional exhaustion that comes from ruminating over perceived flaws in partners.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the difference between normal relationship anxiety and the obsessive nature of ROCD. Brianne emphasizes the importance of recognizing these patterns and offers practical coping strategies, such as grounding techniques, journaling, and focusing on the present moment. This episode serves as a powerful reminder that understanding and addressing one's mental health is crucial for building healthy relationships.

Episode 632 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Gift of Michael." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Voices of Concinnity, Kat Edmonson, Sarah Vaughn with the Count Basie Orchestra, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this gripping episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the often-misunderstood world of psychopaths and sociopaths. With her unique blend of insight and humor, Brianne explores the key differences between these two personality types, unraveling the complexities of their behaviors and the underlying causes that shape them.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her experiences working with individuals who exhibit these traits, emphasizing that while psychopaths are often born with certain genetic predispositions, sociopaths develop their behaviors through environmental factors and trauma. She highlights the stark contrasts in their behaviors—psychopaths tend to be controlled and manipulative, while sociopaths exhibit impulsive and erratic tendencies.Listeners will gain valuable insights into the characteristics that define these personalities, from the lack of empathy and emotional connections to the calculated and often charming facade that psychopaths can present. Brianne provides practical advice for recognizing and protecting oneself from these individuals, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing self-care.This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that understanding personality disorders can have on our relationships and well-being. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that encourages listeners to navigate their interactions with empathy and awareness, all while safeguarding their own mental health.

Episode 631 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "I Call Them Out.." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, the White Stripes, Fiona Apple, Tame Impala, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt bravely confronts the often misunderstood emotion of shame. With her characteristic blend of authenticity and humor, Brianne delves into the four distinct types of shame: existential, situational, class, and narcissistic, revealing how each can profoundly affect our self-worth and relationships.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her personal experiences and insights, illustrating how shame manifests in our lives and the detrimental impact it can have on our mental health. She emphasizes the difference between shame and guilt, providing clarity on how these emotions shape our identities and behaviors. Listeners will resonate with her anecdotes of feeling unworthy and inadequate, as she encourages a journey of self-discovery and healing.Brianne also offers practical strategies for recognizing and addressing toxic shame, urging listeners to cultivate self-acceptance, challenge negative beliefs, and seek healthy relationships. This episode serves as a poignant reminder that while shame can feel isolating, it is a shared human experience that can be transformed through awareness and action. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that invites you to face your shame and reclaim your worth.

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the transformative philosophy of intuitive eating. With her signature blend of humor and vulnerability, Brianne shares her personal journey of healing from an eating disorder and body dysmorphia, emphasizing the importance of making peace with food and embracing a non-diet mentality.Throughout the episode, Brianne unpacks the nine key principles of intuitive eating, encouraging listeners to reject the restrictive dieting mentality and instead honor their hunger cues. She discusses the significance of challenging the “food police,” recognizing the satisfaction factor in meals, and discovering the joy of eating without guilt or shame. By sharing relatable anecdotes and practical strategies, Brianne empowers listeners to reconnect with their bodies, appreciate their health, and cultivate a positive relationship with food.Listeners will gain valuable insights into how intuitive eating can lead to improved self-esteem, better mental health, and a healthier body image. Brianne's candid discussion serves as a reminder that nourishing our bodies should be a joyful experience, free from judgment and emotional turmoil. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that invites you to embrace your body and food in a whole new way.

Episode 630 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "We We." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, the MC5, Joe Strummer, Sharon Jones & the Dap Kings, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors 

In this revealing episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the complex dynamics of dysfunctional families. With her trademark authenticity, Brianne breaks down the seven types of dysfunctional family systems, including enmeshment, authoritarianism, and emotional neglect, shedding light on how these patterns can shape our lives and relationships.Throughout the episode, she explores the roles individuals often assume within these families—scapegoat, hero, lost child, and more—demystifying how these roles contribute to the ongoing cycle of dysfunction. Brianne shares her personal insights and encourages listeners to reflect on their own family backgrounds, emphasizing that it is possible to break free from these inherited patterns.Listeners will gain practical tools for recognizing and addressing dysfunction in their own lives, empowering them to take charge of their narratives and create healthier family dynamics. Brianne's candid discussion serves as a powerful reminder that change is possible if one is willing to do the work. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that invites you to examine your roots and redefine your future.

Episode 629 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Protest Songs." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Tommy Guerrero, Waxahatchee, Alexander Von Mehren, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World. Tell Your Friends and Neighbors

In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the often underestimated realm of intellectual intimacy. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, Brianne explores what it truly means to connect on a mental level, emphasizing the importance of meaningful conversations that extend beyond surface-level interactions.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares her insights gained from working with a client focused on enhancing his relational skills, particularly in the area of intellectual intimacy. She breaks down practical ways to cultivate a deeper connection through shared learning experiences, stimulating discussions, and mutual exploration of interests. From discussing favorite songs and their meanings to exploring new hobbies, Brianne illustrates how these interactions can significantly enrich relationships.Listeners will discover actionable strategies for fostering intellectual intimacy, such as asking thoughtful questions, sharing educational experiences, and engaging in healthy debates. Brianne stresses that true connection goes beyond physical attraction, highlighting the power of emotional and intellectual bonds in creating a fulfilling partnership. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that promises to inspire you to deepen your connections and embrace the beauty of shared intellectual pursuits.

Episode 628 also features an E.W. Poetic Piece titled, "Talkin' About." Our music this go round is provided by these wonderful artists: Thelonious Monk, Grant Green, Charles Bradley, Ryan Cooder, Manuel Galban, Tracy Chapman, Branford Marsalis & Terence Blanchard. Commercial Free, Small Batch Radio Crafted in the West Mountains of Northeastern Pennsylvania... Heard All Over The World.Tell Your Friends and Neighbors.

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives into the insidious world of gaslighting—a form of emotional manipulation that can leave victims questioning their own reality. With her characteristic candor, Brianne explores the ten signs of gaslighting, providing listeners with the tools to recognize and combat this toxic behavior in their relationships.Throughout the episode, Brianne breaks down the various tactics employed by gaslighters, from denying events and twisting narratives to playing the victim and shaming their partners. She shares relatable anecdotes, including a story from a client who discovered the truth about his own gaslighting experience. By unpacking this complex topic, Brianne empowers listeners to trust their instincts and reclaim their sense of self-worth.Listeners will learn practical strategies to navigate encounters with gaslighters, including the importance of establishing a support system, documenting experiences, and focusing on self-care. Brianne emphasizes the significance of connecting with one's intuition and recognizing the signs of emotional abuse, urging everyone to take control of their narrative and set healthy boundaries. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that promises to illuminate the dark corners of gaslighting and inspire you to reclaim your power.

In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt takes a deep dive into the phenomenon of emotional flooding—a state where overwhelming emotions can lead to a temporary shutdown of our ability to think and communicate effectively. Brianne candidly shares her own experiences with emotional flooding, illustrating how it can manifest during life changes, relationship conflicts, or unexpected stressors.Throughout the episode, Brianne defines emotional flooding and discusses its impact on our mental health and relationships. She explores how our nervous system reacts during these moments, leading to feelings of anxiety, anger, or withdrawal. With her trademark honesty, she provides listeners with practical strategies to manage and prevent emotional flooding, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and emotional self-care.Listeners will learn how to identify their emotions, take necessary pauses, and communicate effectively with their partners during times of distress. Brianne encourages reflection on underlying issues that contribute to emotional flooding, advocating for a holistic approach to emotional health. Tune in for an insightful conversation that promises to equip you with the tools to navigate emotional challenges and foster healthier relationships.

In this revealing episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt uncovers the often-overlooked habits of codependency that can silently sabotage our relationships and self-worth. Drawing from her own experiences and extensive knowledge, Brianne explores the intricate dynamics between codependents and narcissists, highlighting how both seek control and power in their interactions.Throughout the episode, Brianne identifies seven surprising habits that may indicate codependent tendencies. From depending on others for self-worth to the inability to express needs directly, she delves deep into the psychological patterns that keep individuals trapped in a cycle of anxiety and manipulation. Listeners will learn how the fear of abandonment can lead to self-sabotaging behaviors, such as fawning and appeasing others while neglecting their own needs.Brianne's candid approach encourages listeners to reflect on their own behaviors and consider how they can break free from these toxic patterns. By acknowledging and addressing the underlying anxiety that fuels codependency, she provides a pathway to reclaiming personal power and fostering healthier relationships. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that promises to shed light on the complexities of codependency and empower listeners to embark on their own journey of self-discovery.

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the complexities of dysfunctional family systems and offers practical strategies for fostering healthier relationships. Drawing from her extensive experience, Brianne delves into the root causes of family dysfunction, including poor communication, emotional neglect, and unresolved trauma. With her signature blend of humor and honesty, she shares five actionable ways to improve family dynamics and promote emotional well-being.Brianne introduces the concept of the "feelings wheel," a tool designed to help family members articulate their emotions and foster deeper connections. She emphasizes the importance of allowing everyone to experience their feelings without judgment, encouraging listeners to embrace their moods and create a safe environment for emotional expression. The conversation also covers the significance of shared experiences, such as learning new activities together and enjoying quality time without screens.As the episode progresses, Brianne highlights the value of healthy conflict in relationships, asserting that disagreements can lead to greater understanding and intimacy. By demonstrating how to navigate conflicts openly, she aims to equip listeners with the skills to resolve issues constructively. Tune in for a transformative discussion that empowers you to break free from dysfunctional patterns and cultivate a more supportive and loving family environment.

In this enlightening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives into the intriguing world of autosexuality—a term that describes individuals who experience sexual attraction primarily towards themselves. With her characteristic honesty and humor, Brianne unpacks this often-misunderstood concept, shedding light on what it means to be autosexual and how it differs from other sexual orientations.Brianne explores the nuances of autosexuality, discussing how it can manifest in various ways, from self-pleasure to fantasizing about one's own body. She shares insights on how this self-focused attraction can coexist with romantic feelings for others, emphasizing that autosexuality is not a mental disorder but rather a unique sexual preference that celebrates self-love and acceptance.Throughout the episode, Brianne highlights key characteristics of autosexual individuals, including their tendency to find pleasure in their own bodies, the importance of self-connection, and the potential intimacy challenges that can arise. She encourages listeners to reflect on their own experiences and consider how self-acceptance can enhance their relationships with themselves and others.As the conversation unfolds, Brianne reminds us that embracing our identities—no matter how unconventional—can lead to greater fulfillment and connection. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of autosexuality and the importance of understanding our own desires.

Navigating the world of relationships can often feel like a chaotic rollercoaster, especially for those transitioning from toxic dynamics to healthier ones. In the latest episode of the podcast, we delve into the common pitfalls that individuals encounter when they first step into a healthy relationship. Brianne Davis-Gantt, our insightful host, sheds light on the journey of self-discovery and emotional growth that accompanies this transition. After years of grappling with love addiction, Brianne has emerged with valuable lessons that she shares openly with her listeners. One of the most striking revelations is the misconception that healthy relationships are boring. For many, the thrill of chaos and dysfunction has been mistaken for passion. When entering a stable and nurturing relationship, the absence of drama can feel unsettling. Brianne highlights this as a significant hurdle, explaining that individuals often find themselves questioning their feelings and second-guessing their partner's intentions. The episode outlines three major pitfalls: anxiety, confusion, and the perception of boredom. Anxiety often arises from the fear of trusting someone new, especially when past experiences have been fraught with turmoil. Confusion follows, as individuals grapple with the unfamiliar territory of open communication and mutual respect. Lastly, the feeling of boredom can be overwhelming, as the brain struggles to adjust to the calmness of a healthy relationship.Brianne encourages listeners to embrace these feelings, reminding them that it's natural to feel anxious or confused when learning to navigate a new dynamic. She likens the experience to being a baby learning to walk, emphasizing that patience and self-compassion are key during this adjustment period. The episode serves as a reminder that while healthy relationships may initially feel dull, they are, in fact, a safe harbor where individuals can grow and thrive together. As listeners tune in, they are invited to reflect on their own relationship patterns and consider how they can foster healthier connections moving forward.If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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In this powerful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt confronts the challenging concept of radical acceptance, a skill rooted in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). With her signature candidness, Brianne emphasizes that everything in life is ultimately beyond our control, and the key to navigating this reality lies in how we respond to it.Brianne breaks down the 12 steps of radical acceptance, guiding listeners through the process of acknowledging and honoring difficult emotions and situations without judgment. She highlights the importance of accepting life on its own terms, rather than succumbing to toxic positivity or escapism. Through personal anecdotes and relatable insights, she encourages listeners to embrace their feelings, practice mindfulness, and engage in self-compassion.This episode is not just about accepting the hard truths of life; it's about transforming pain into growth. Brianne reminds us that by relinquishing the need to control outcomes, we can find healing and resilience. Tune in as she shares practical strategies for implementing radical acceptance in everyday life, empowering you to face challenges head-on and emerge stronger._____If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In the latest episode of our podcast, we delve into a topic that resonates with many but is often overlooked: high functioning trauma and PTSD. Briannne Davis-Gantt, our host, opens up about the hidden struggles faced by individuals who appear to have it all together on the surface. They may be successful in their careers and maintain an active social life, but beneath that exterior lies a complex web of unresolved trauma that can lead to burnout and emotional distress.High functioning PTSD is characterized by individuals who have experienced significant trauma but choose to suppress it rather than confront it. This suppression can lead to a range of issues, including anxiety, depression, and difficulties in relationships. Brannne shares her personal experiences, revealing how childhood neglect has manifested in her adult life, and emphasizes that trauma doesn't just disappear; it remains trapped in our bodies, waiting to be addressed._____If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this compelling episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives deep into the controversial topic of parental alienation and justified estrangement. With a heartfelt shout-out to those who choose to distance themselves from toxic parental relationships, Brianne explores the complexities of family dynamics and the emotional toll they can take on children.Brianne passionately discusses the distinction between parental alienation—where one parent intentionally undermines a child's relationship with the other—and justified estrangement, which occurs when children make the conscious choice to distance themselves from an abusive or toxic parent. Drawing from her own experiences, she emphasizes the importance of honesty and transparency in parenting, particularly when children begin to ask difficult questions about their family situation.This episode not only sheds light on the psychological effects of parental manipulation but also encourages listeners to reflect on their own behaviors and relationships. Brianne reminds us that children are perceptive and deserve the truth, even when it's uncomfortable. She offers valuable insights on how to foster healthy relationships with our children, urging parents to look inward and consider how their actions may impact their child's well-being.Join Brianne on this enlightening journey as she navigates the murky waters of family secrets, honesty, and the quest for healing. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the impact of parental dynamics and how we can all strive to be better for the next generation.

In the latest episode of our podcast, we tackle a topic that resonates with many: excessive screen time. In an age where our devices are an extension of ourselves, the impact of social media and digital distractions is becoming increasingly evident. Host M. Brianne Davis Gant candidly shares her personal experiences with screen addiction and its detrimental effects on mental health, particularly depression.Brianne opens the episode by expressing her disdain for social media, describing it as a force that "sucks the life out of me." This sentiment is not uncommon, as many individuals find themselves scrolling endlessly, only to feel empty and disconnected afterward. The irony is that while these platforms are designed to connect us, they often do the opposite, isolating us from real human interaction._____If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this thought-provoking episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt explores the complex and often misunderstood realm of antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) and highly functioning sociopaths. With a candid and engaging approach, Brianne delves into the traits that define these individuals, highlighting how they may seamlessly blend into society while harboring a lack of empathy and moral disregard.Throughout the episode, Brianne shares fascinating insights and real-life examples, emphasizing that many people with ASPD are not the violent criminals often portrayed in media but rather everyday individuals who manipulate and exploit for personal gain. She discusses the importance of recognizing the signs of this disorder, such as impulsivity, charm, and a troubling disregard for the feelings of others.Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the origins of ASPD, including the role of childhood trauma and environmental factors in its development. Brianne offers practical advice for those who may be in relationships with someone exhibiting these traits, emphasizing the need for strong communication and self-awareness to navigate the complexities of such dynamics.This episode serves as a crucial reminder that while the journey of understanding and connecting with individuals with ASPD can be challenging, it is not impossible. Tune in to uncover the layers of this often-hidden disorder and learn how to foster meaningful connections, even in the face of adversity._____If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com______To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com_____SECRET LIFE'S TOPICS INCLUDE:addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness._____Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle_____Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon______HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?Tell Your Friends & Share Online!Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | SpotifyFollow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | PandoraSpread the word via social mediaInstagramTwitterFacebook#SecretLifePodcastDonate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)Official WebsiteBrianne's Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterConnect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)Main WebsiteDirecting WebsiteMark Gantt Coaching WebsiteInstagramFacebookTwitterSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy