Podcast appearances and mentions of Tim Matthews

Tim Matthews chats with the Delano Royalty.

Episode #1151 What does your calendar say about your priorities? In this episode of The TPM Show, Tim Matthews and Lawrence Davis dive into a simple but powerful idea: if you want to know what someone truly values, look at their calendar and their bank account. The way you spend your time and money reveals what you're actually committed to, not just what you say is important. They discuss why so many men fill their schedules with work while leaving family, health, relationships, and personal growth as afterthoughts. They also explore how intentional planning can help create more freedom, better boundaries, stronger relationships, and a greater sense of purpose. You'll hear practical insights on: Why your calendar reflects your real priorities How to stop living in constant reaction mode The connection between boundaries and personal freedom Why investing in yourself isn't selfish Simple ways to create more connection in your relationship How structure can reduce stress and improve performance The importance of scheduling what matters before life gets busy If you've ever felt like there's never enough time for yourself, your family, or the things that truly matter, this conversation will help you take a fresh look at how you're spending your days and what needs to change. If your relationship feels like it's running on autopilot, or you've been putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own, it's time to understand what's really happening beneath the surface. Get access to a free training that walks you through the hidden patterns that create disconnection in relationships and the practical steps you can take to rebuild trust, respect, and intimacy. Watch the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales  

Episode #1150 What happens when success no longer feels fulfilling? In this episode of The TPM Show, Tim Matthews sits down with Lawrence Davis to explore the difference between being driven by fear and being pulled forward by purpose. Lawrence shares his journey from operating in survival mode, carrying years of stress and self-doubt, to building a business and life focused on legacy, family, and long-term impact. Together, they unpack why so many high-achieving men stay stuck chasing more success while still feeling restless, overwhelmed, or never quite good enough. They discuss the hidden cost of fear-based motivation, how it affects leadership, business growth, relationships, and personal fulfillment, and what changes when you finally give yourself permission to pursue what you truly want. You'll hear practical insights on: The difference between being pushed by pain and pulled by purpose Why achievement alone doesn't create fulfillment How fear quietly shapes decisions in business and relationships The leadership shifts that create more freedom and better results What it takes to move from survival mode into a life of meaning and impact Simple ways to reconnect with what genuinely motivates you If you've built success but still feel like something is missing, this conversation will help you understand why and show you a different path forward. If your relationship feels disconnected and you're not sure what's causing it, we've put together a free training that breaks down exactly what's happening and what you can do to turn it around. You'll learn why the love, respect, connection, and intimacy may have faded and the practical steps you can take to rebuild them. Get instant access to the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

Tim Matthews chats with Wright County Commissioner Tina Diedrick.

Episode 1149 This is a special revisit episode of one of our most popular conversations about growth, leadership, and the power of surrounding yourself with the right people. Many successful men reach a point where they realize more information isn't the answer. They've built the business, achieved financial success, and checked many of the boxes they once chased. Yet the next level requires something different. In this episode, Tim Matthews sits down with Arthur Magoulianitis and Andrew "The Gift" to pull back the curtain on The Powerful Man Inner Circle and discuss what happens when ambitious men commit to growth alongside other high performing men. The conversation explores why accountability matters, how the right environment can accelerate personal and professional growth, and what separates men who continue to level up from those who stay stuck doing everything on their own. You'll also hear why some of the most successful men in business still invest heavily in coaching, mentorship, and community. Whether you're focused on your marriage, business, health, or leadership, this episode is a reminder that lasting success rarely happens in isolation. The quality of your results is often tied to the quality of the people you surround yourself with. If you've ever wondered what it looks like when successful men challenge each other, support each other, and refuse to let each other settle, this conversation will give you a glimpse inside that world. If your relationship is missing the connection, trust, respect, or intimacy it once had, get access to The Powerful Man's free training. You'll learn the key patterns that create distance in a marriage and the practical steps you can take to start rebuilding connection today. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode Notes For the interview episode to finish off Part 9 of the series, Tim Matthews who played Alex Penkala in the series discusses his experiences making the series with Rob.

Tim Matthews talks with University of Minnesota Extension Crop Specialist Taylor Herbert.

Episode 1148 What happens when you achieve everything you thought would make you happy... and it still doesn't feel like enough? In this episode, Tim Matthews and Lawrence Davis unpack a challenge that many successful men quietly face. From the outside, life looks great. The business is growing. The money is there. The family is thriving. Yet underneath it all, there's a feeling that something is missing. They explore why so many high-achieving men struggle to enjoy the success they've worked so hard to create, how the constant pursuit of "more" can leave you feeling empty, and why fulfillment doesn't automatically come with achievement. The conversation dives into the hidden stories that drive ambitious men, the pressure to keep pushing, and the fear that slowing down might mean losing your edge. Tim and Lawrence also share practical ways to reconnect with what actually matters, celebrate progress instead of constantly chasing the next goal, and redefine success on your own terms. Because real success isn't just about what you've built. It's about being able to enjoy it. If you've ever felt like you're winning on paper but still feeling unfulfilled, this episode will challenge the way you think about achievement, happiness, and what it truly means to live a successful life. If you're successful on the outside but struggling with connection, fulfillment, or purpose in your relationship, get access to The Powerful Man's free training. You'll learn the hidden patterns that create distance in your marriage and discover practical steps to rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

Tim Matthews chats with local dairy producer and Midwest Dairy Board Chair Board Charles Krause about June Dairy Month.

Tim Matthews talks with Buffalo Area Chamber of Commerce President Sue Olmscheid about Buffalo Days 2026.

Episode 1147 Most men are taught that being independent is a good thing. Figure it out yourself. Handle your own problems. Don't rely on anyone else. For a lot of successful men, that mindset has helped them build businesses, lead teams, and create results. But what happens when the same strength starts creating distance in the relationship that matters most? In this episode, Tim Matthews and Lawrence Davis have an honest conversation about self-reliance, vulnerability, trust, and why so many men struggle to let their partner fully into their world. They share personal experiences of keeping people at arm's length, fearing weakness, and learning that real connection isn't built through independence alone. You'll hear why many men unknowingly reject support, how self-reliance can turn into isolation, and why emotional intimacy requires a different kind of strength. Tim also shares how learning to move from independence to interdependence transformed his relationship and helped him create deeper trust, connection, and partnership. If you've ever felt like you're carrying everything on your own, struggle to ask for help, or find yourself withdrawing when things get difficult, this conversation will give you a new perspective on what strong leadership in a relationship really looks like. If you're noticing distance, frustration, or a lack of connection in your relationship, get access to The Powerful Man's free training. You'll learn why relationships lose trust, intimacy, and connection over time, and what you can start doing differently today to rebuild it. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode 1146 What happens when life is already going well, but you know there's still another level waiting for you? In this revisit episode, Tim Matthews sits down with members and coaches from The Powerful Man community to explore what real growth looks like when you're no longer trying to fix a crisis. Instead, the conversation shifts toward something many men struggle with: expanding their capacity for more. More purpose. More fulfillment. More impact. More connection. The discussion dives into the difference between solving problems and pursuing personal excellence. You'll hear why some men get stuck once things become comfortable, how growth can become a choice rather than a reaction, and why many high performing men unknowingly cap their own potential. Tim and the team also share insights on personal development, self awareness, leadership, and the power of continuing to invest in yourself even when life feels "good enough." The conversation challenges the idea that success means you've arrived and instead asks a bigger question: What else is possible for you? If you've ever found yourself feeling comfortable, wondering what's next, or questioning whether there's another level of growth available to you, this episode offers a powerful perspective on why the best seasons of your life may still be ahead. If your relationship has lost its spark, connection, or sense of direction, get the free training from The Powerful Man. You'll learn the key reasons relationships drift apart and the practical steps you can take to rebuild trust, connection, intimacy, and respect. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales The training is completely free and gives you a clear roadmap for creating the relationship you truly want.

Episode 1145 What happens when you join a program to save your marriage and end up saving yourself instead? In this powerful conversation, Tim Matthews sits down with longtime TPM member Lawrence to talk about life after divorce, personal transformation, and what it really means to stop settling for average. After spending more than 30 years married, Lawrence found himself facing a reality he never expected. His marriage ended, but his story didn't. In many ways, it was just beginning. Together, Tim and Lawrence explore the challenges of letting go of old identities, overcoming guilt, and learning how to embrace a new chapter with confidence and purpose. They discuss why so many men dim their light, how self sabotage can show up when life starts going well, and what it takes to expand your capacity for success, happiness, and deeper relationships. You'll also hear an honest conversation about healing after divorce, finding authentic connection, overcoming the need for external validation, and why real growth happens when you're willing to stop performing and start showing up as yourself. This episode offers a refreshing perspective for any man navigating separation, personal growth, or a major life transition. If you've ever wondered whether there's life after divorce, struggled with feelings of guilt around moving forward, or felt stuck between who you were and who you're becoming, this conversation will give you practical insights and a different way to think about what's possible. If your relationship feels disconnected, stuck, or headed in the wrong direction, get the free training from The Powerful Man. You'll learn why relationships drift apart, what causes men to lose connection with their partner, and the practical steps you can take to rebuild trust, intimacy, and respect. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales It's completely free and designed to help you take the first step toward creating the relationship you really want.

Tim Matthews talks with Mykelti Blum with the City of Buffalo about Buffalo Community Connection Collaborative.

Tim Matthews chats with Tom Pawelk about the new community celebration "Heritage Day" in Monticello.

Tim Matthews chats with District 877 Superintendent Dr. Scott Thielman.

Tim Matthews chats with University of Minnesota Extension Horticulture Specialist Robin Trott.

Episode 1143 In this revisit episode, Tim Matthews sits down with Gregory and Derek for a real conversation about what it actually feels like to be lost as a man and how to start finding your way again. They talk openly about disconnection, living for other people, building a life that looks successful on the outside but feels empty underneath, and the moment you finally admit to yourself that something is off. This conversation digs into the pressure men feel to always have the answers, always stay strong, and always know what comes next. The guys share how easy it is to hide behind work, achievement, responsibility, or distractions while quietly feeling disconnected from yourself, your purpose, and the life you actually want. They also talk about what helped them shift out of that place. Things like slowing down, spending time in nature, reconnecting with other men, letting go of pride, asking better questions, and being honest enough to admit when you don't know the answer yet. If you've been feeling stuck, restless, disconnected, or like you're carrying the weight of everything on your own, this episode will help you realize you're not alone and give you a grounded perspective on what it takes to move forward again. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales Inside this free training, you'll learn the hidden relationship patterns that create disconnection, frustration, and distance and what you can start doing differently to rebuild connection, clarity, and trust at home.

Episode 1140 This is a revisit of one of the most powerful and honest conversations we've ever had on The Powerful Man Show. In this episode, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Gary Lester for a raw conversation about the lasting impact of sexual abuse on men, relationships, shame, identity, and emotional connection. Together, they share personal stories about what it was like to carry these experiences in silence for years and how that silence affected their confidence, relationships, intimacy, and sense of self. They talk openly about the shame many men carry, the fear of being judged or rejected, and why so many men never tell anyone what happened to them. The conversation also explores how unresolved pain can show up through emotional shutdown, self-sabotage, addiction, disconnection, workaholism, and struggles in relationships. More importantly, this episode is about what happens when men stop hiding. You'll hear how opening up in safe environments helped each of them begin healing, rebuild trust, create deeper relationships, and finally stop carrying the weight alone. This conversation is honest, grounded, and an important reminder that healing starts when men realize they are not alone. If you've ever struggled with shame, emotional disconnection, feeling broken, or carrying parts of your story in silence, this episode will hit home. Get the free training here: https://thepowerfulman.com/scales You'll learn why so many men feel disconnected in their relationships, what creates emotional distance over time, and practical steps you can take to rebuild connection, trust, and intimacy.

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews this week!

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews this week!

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews this week.

With Jeff Smith, Cam Benty and Steve StropePresented by ARPTim Matthews, the curator of Speedway Motor's Museum of American Speed, joins Jeff and Steve to share their love of horsepower, and BMX bikes as well as Steve's latest project, a nod to retro altered fuelies.Visit the Museum of American Speed at @museumofamericanspeed and https://www.museumofamericanspeed.org/.Visit ARP Bolts at https://www.arp-bolts.com for all of your engine fastener and hardware needs.Recorded at the Grand National Roadster Show. Checkout Rod Shows at @grandnationalroadstershow and https://www.rodshows.com/.Checkout OBS Truck Parts for your 88-98 at https://www.obsclash.com/For more automotive podcasts, videos and TV shows, visit Auto Revolution at https://www.autorevolutiononline.com/

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews this week!

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews this week and next week!

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews this week!

Tim Matthews talks with guests with the Wright County Horticulture Society.

Tim Matthews chats with Mykelti Blum with the City of Buffalo Community Connections Collaborative and Adam Leiferman from the Buffalo Area Community Center.

Tim Matthews chats with Wright County Horticulture Specialist Robin Trott.

Tim Matthews talks with District 877 Superintendent Dr. Scott Thielman.

Tim Matthews talks with Alexis Rian, Crisis Nursery Facilitator for Wright County.

Tim Matthews chats with Adam Leiferman and Teri Welter with the Buffalo Area Community Center.

Tim Matthews chats with Wright County Historical Society archivist Marisa Campanaro.

Tim Matthews chats with cast members with SOAR Regional Arts about their upcoming Rock of Ages Broadway Brunch.

Tim Matthews talks with University of Minnesota Extension Crop Specialist Taylor Herbert.

Tim Matthews talks with Holly Johnson with the Wright & Hennepin FSA Office.

Tim Matthews and Shelly Garvey join Adam Leiferman for an on-location Spotlight program as they tour the new Buffalo Area Community Center building.

Tim Matthews talks with Wright County Commissioner Kirby Moynagh.

Otto the Mouse plays private detective in order to locate Tim Matthews.

Tim Matthews talks with Kim Fox with Wright County 4-H.

Episode #1121 In this episode of The TPM Show, Tim Matthews and Stephen discuss the invisible force that governs every household: the man's energy. Most men operate in "doing mode" all day solving problems and driving results. The issue arises when they bring that same "doing" energy home instead of switching to "being." Stephen shares a powerful realization that his wife could sense his mood before he even entered the house, highlighting how a man's presence, or lack thereof, dictates the emotional safety of the entire family. The conversation covers practical strategies for mastering your internal state, from the "Alpha Rise and Shine" morning routine to the importance of somatic work and breathwork. They break down why the relationship acts as a mirror, reflecting a man's internal distance or connection back to him. If you've ever felt a lack of physical intimacy or felt disconnected from your spouse, the answer likely lies in your willingness to be emotionally available and present. Stop performing and start leading from a place of grounded authenticity. Learn how to stop being "in your head" and start being the man your family needs. To learn more about how to reclaim your power and lead your marriage, visit https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Tim Matthews chats with members of Buffalo Community Theater about their production of Proof, which opens April 10th!

Dave Larcom and Otto the Mouse fill in for Tim Matthews.

Tim Matthews talks with District 877 Superintendent Dr. Scott Thielman.

Episode #1118 Most men in leadership positions, entrepreneurs, executives, and business owners learned to be hyper-self-reliant at a young age. While this independence is a superpower in business, it often becomes a weakness in marriage. Many men struggle with the guilt of having needs, or worse, they express those needs in a way that feels like begging, which kills attraction and connection. In this episode, Tim Matthews and Stephen explore the art of expressing needs without sounding needy. They discuss the critical difference between being independent and being interdependent, and why moving from a place of "fullness" is the only way to communicate effectively. When you are grounded and centered in yourself, a "no" from your wife isn't a catastrophe it's an opportunity to get curious. The conversation also tackles the necessity of expectations. Just as a business requires clear agreements and KPIs to function, a healthy marriage relies on communicated expectations. Learn how to trade covert contracts for clear agreements and how to navigate the "gray area" of communication to build a relationship that compliments your life rather than just trying to complete it. To learn more about how to transform your marriage and your leadership, visit https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews today. Join Dave Larcom and his little buddy Otto the Mouse as they take you through your Saturday Morning with fun trivia, weather, Tradio, and so much more!

Dave and Otto fill in for Tim Matthews today. Join Dave Larcom and his little buddy Otto the Mouse as they take you through your Saturday Morning with fun trivia, weather, Tradio, and so much more!

Tim Matthews chats with Geoff Welles with the Wright County Historical Society.

Episode #1104 Many men mistake confrontation for leadership, believing that "putting their foot down" is the same as setting a boundary. In reality, a boundary is never about controlling someone else's behavior; it is a clear statement of what you are willing to accept in your own life . When you approach your wife with confrontational energy, it often leads to temporary compliance rather than genuine connection or respect . In this episode, Tim Matthews is joined by Lawrence and Paul to break down real-world challenges from the TPM community. They discuss why many men fumble when they first start speaking up for themselves and how to navigate the "messy" transition of reclaiming your authority as a husband and father . You will learn why curiosity is a more powerful tool than blame and how to ask for grace while you learn to lead your family effectively . The conversation also tackles the heavy burden of "abdicating" leadership in territories like finances . When a man defaults to "whatever works best," he often leaves his wife exhausted and carrying a load she was never meant to bear alone . The guys share how to shift from "having" to lead to "getting" to lead, transforming a source of shame into an opportunity for growth and partnership . Finally, we explore the vital practice of decompression—the daily habit of reflecting on your emotions so you don't push them down . Decompression isn't just a "fluffy" self-care routine; it is a necessary tool to stop depression in its tracks and ensure you show up as your best self for your family . Whether it is learning to hold space without trying to "fix" everything or becoming brutally honest with yourself, this episode provides the language and rhythms every businessman needs to move from average to extraordinary . If you are ready to stop guessing and start leading your family with clarity, take the next step by accessing our free training. This is designed for the man who is tired of the distance and ready to see exactly where his relationship stands.  Visit  https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales to get started .

Episode #1101 Most men are conditioned to believe that any "dark" part of their personality is inherently toxic and must be suppressed to remain a "nice guy". However, this suppression often leads to a "gray man" existence where a man's natural boisterousness and drive are quashed, making him feel incomplete and unintegrated. In this episode, Tim Matthews, Lawrence, and Stephen discuss why "darkness" is not the same as evil, but rather represents mystery, depth, and a source of life force that most men have exiled. The conversation highlights that when a man denies these parts of himself, his energy inevitably leaks out in unhealthy ways such as manipulation, addiction, aggression, or emotional shutdown. This occurs because it takes immense energy to pretend a side of yourself doesn't exist, which ultimately robs you of your ability to be fully present in your marriage and your life. By contrast, the integrated dark masculine is grounded in love and clarity rather than ego or fear. A man who has integrated his "full stack" is able to set unbreakable boundaries, protect what he loves, and lead with a steady, sovereign presence. This transition involves moving through the five virtues of presence, peace, power, passion, and purpose to replace the "agonies" of greed, anger, and shame . Ultimately, the goal is to stop dimming your light and start living authentically, ensuring you don't end up with the common regret of wishing you had the courage to live a life true to yourself. If you are ready to stop guessing what is broken in your relationship and want a step-by-step methodology to get back the love and respect you used to have, head over to the link below to access our free training: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales