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In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD is joined by entrepreneur and fitness expert Bedros Keuilian for an in-depth conversation about leveraging adversity to achieve success in life and business. Bedros shares his powerful personal story of immigrating to the US, enduring poverty and abuse, and transforming those hardships into strengths that fueled his journey to building a $200 million business empire. Together, they explore the mental and emotional muscles built through overcoming challenges, the significance of physical fitness beyond aesthetics, and the process of healing from past traumas. Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:00:46 Overcoming Adversity 00:08:38 Building Resilience in Children 00:12:31 Healing from Childhood Abuse 00:32:33 Physical Fitness Transformation 00:37:17 Confidence and Relationships 00:47:42 Avoiding Life Ruining Mistakes 00:55:21 Choosing the Right Partner 01:23:04 Fatherhood and Raising Sons 01:30:38 Entrepreneurship Challenges Books metioned in the podcast: Man Up: How to Cut the Bullsh!t and Kick @ss in Business (and in Life) https://amzn.to/3WF0rTy The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma https://amzn.to/4hCwNGt Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood https://amzn.to/42H5erp The Way of Men https://amzn.to/4aLvmnc Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
What does it mean to be a R.E.A.L. man? In this episode, Dave Wilson breaks down the four pillars of manhood that will challenge and change you. Plus, you'll hear practical tips on prayer, fasting, and leaving a good legacy. Tune in and get inspired to be the husband, father, and protector you were created to be. Key Takeaways Courage is contagious, but so is passivity. Real men reject passivity, engage with God, accept responsibility, and lead courageously. True life is only found vertically. Do what is right, even if no one is cheering for you. The next time you feel afraid, step up, lead boldly, and trust God with the outcome. Dave Wilson Dave Wilson and his wife, Ann, are hosts of FamilyLife Today® and authors of two books. They have been married for more than 38 years and have spent the last 33 years teaching and mentoring couples and parents across the country. Dave and Ann have three grown sons, as well as three daughters-in-law and seven grandchildren. Key Quotes 10:36 - "One of the big things I've tried to pass on is don't be passive, be a man who sees a need and acts, be a man who sees his wife needing him to be sensitive in that moment, be sensitive and gentle. Or maybe she needs him to be firm in that moment, be firm. I think passivity in us men is rampant and that's contagious." 12:49 - "Scripture says the sins of the father visit down the third and fourth generation. That's a promise. It's going to happen unless you intentionally stop it. And a lot of people don't know, in that same verse in Exodus 20, God says yes, but the Father who is righteous, I will bless his legacy to a thousand generations. So, there's this promise on both sides. You better be very careful how you live because it's going into your legacy, good or bad. To watch that is pretty powerful." Links from Today's Conversation Send a Voice Message to DadAwesome Apply to join the next DadAwesome Accelerator Cohort: Email awesome@dadawesome.org Subscribe to DadAwesome Messages: Text the word “Dad” to (651) 370-8618 FamilyLife® Vertical Marriage: The One Secret That Will Change Your Marriage by Dave & Ann Wilson No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality, and Discover the One Secret That Will Change Your Parenting by Dave & Ann Wilson Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood by Robert Lewis How to Speak Life to Your Husband: When All You Want to Do Is Yell at Him by Ann Wilson Dan Orlovsky takes a moment to pray for Damar Hamlin | ESPN Connect with dadAWESOME Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618
In this conversation, we discuss the reality of spiritual warfare, emphasizing the active role of Satan in seeking to destroy men, marriages, families, and testimonies. I want to stress the seriousness of this battle and the need for discernment and vigilance as we live out authentic manhood in the end times.Show Notes: I highly recommend books, teaching, and videos by:Dave Hunt - Dave's teaching can be found on YouTube and at the ministry site of The Berean Call. He went to be with the Lord in 2011.Roger Oakland - Roger is the founder of Understand The Times. His books and teachings are on his ministry site, and teaching videos are also on YouTube.Send us a textConnect with us at: concerningthetimes.com
Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson concludes his heartfelt discussion with Dr. Robert Lewis about his book, Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood. Dr. Lewis shares the widespread need for community among men, especially in today's society where fatherless homes have become exponentially more common. Without strong male role models, young boys have lost that crucial link to bridge the gap between boyhood and manhood. Join us as Dr. Lewis and Dr. Dobson explain the lost art of authentic manhood and point us back to the Bible which outlines God perfect plan for men to become great leaders, husbands and fathers. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1091/29
Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson concludes his heartfelt discussion with Dr. Robert Lewis about his book, Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood. Dr. Lewis shares the widespread need for community among men, especially in today's society where fatherless homes have become exponentially more common. Without strong male role models, young boys have lost that crucial link to bridge the gap between boyhood and manhood. Join us as Dr. Lewis and Dr. Dobson explain the lost art of authentic manhood and point us back to the Bible which outlines God perfect plan for men to become great leaders, husbands and fathers. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1091/29
Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson concludes his heartfelt discussion with Dr. Robert Lewis about his book, Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood. Dr. Lewis shares the widespread need for community among men, especially in today's society where fatherless homes have become exponentially more common. Without strong male role models, young boys have lost that crucial link to bridge the gap between boyhood and manhood. Join us as Dr. Lewis and Dr. Dobson explain the lost art of authentic manhood and point us back to the Bible which outlines God perfect plan for men to become great leaders, husbands and fathers. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1091/29
Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson concludes his heartfelt discussion with Dr. Robert Lewis about his book, Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood. Dr. Lewis shares the widespread need for community among men, especially in today's society where fatherless homes have become exponentially more common. Without strong male role models, young boys have lost that crucial link to bridge the gap between boyhood and manhood. Join us as Dr. Lewis and Dr. Dobson explain the lost art of authentic manhood and point us back to the Bible which outlines God perfect plan for men to become great leaders, husbands and fathers. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1091/29
Send us a textIn our latest episode of Foxhole Symphony, we welcome Jarrett Samuels, the dynamic force behind the Pursuit of Manliness podcast, who shares his incredible journey from merely existing to living a purpose-driven life of faith. Jarrett opens up about his transformative experiences, from his childhood in the church to the birth of his son, which reignited his commitment to God. His story is a testament to how renewed faith can reshape personal roles and mission, impacting his life as a husband, father, and pastor.Listen as we uncover Jarrett's passion for building a global community of men focused on spiritual growth and genuine connections. Learn how "The Tribe," a community that started from a simple Facebook post, grew into a comprehensive discipleship program, bringing men together through daily Bible readings and weekly challenges. Jarrett also introduces "The Herd," a platform offering exclusive content and retreat experiences, and discusses the unique challenges introverts might face in these communities. The discussion highlights the power of finding godly men who inspire and support one another, creating a kingdom-minded network that transcends generations.Dive into a compelling exploration of authenticity, vulnerability, and heart change in men's groups, as Jarrett emphasizes the importance of honest relationships within families and communities. We discuss the significance of being proactive in one's faith journey and the need to protect one's heart from bitterness. Hear inspiring stories of men who have found strength through community connections, and discover upcoming retreats and initiatives designed to foster a stronger, more connected community. This episode is filled with practical insights and encouragement for men seeking to embrace authentic masculinity through faith and fellowship.Support the showWe have BIG plans at Foxhole Symphony and sure could use your financial support. Would you prayerfully consider a small monthly contribution to support us in our mission to catalyze transformation in the hearts of men? Support Our MissionFind us at:https://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw
Today on Family Talk, Dr. James Dobson concludes his heartfelt discussion with Dr. Robert Lewis about his book, Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood. Dr. Lewis shares the widespread need for community among men, especially in today's society where fatherless homes have become exponentially more common. Without strong male role models, young boys have lost that crucial link to bridge the gap between boyhood and manhood. Join us as Dr. Lewis and Dr. Dobson explain the lost art of authentic manhood and point us back to the Bible which outlines God perfect plan for men to become great leaders, husbands and fathers. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/707/29
Get The Disciple Makers Podcast Premium Feed: https://disciplemakerspodcast.supercast.com/ Click here to view BetterMan: https://betterman.com/ Join Chris Harper from Better Man at Discipleship.org as he passionately discusses the crucial need for genuine discipleship in men's ministries. With over 30 years of history evolving from Men's Fraternity to Authentic Manhood, and now Better Man, Harper emphasizes the substantial gap in men's ministries and the pressing need to reclaim authentic manhood. He explores causes like the 'curse of modernity,' historical church movements, and the feminization of the church, offering a comprehensive, clear path to restoration. Through personal anecdotes and concrete steps, Harper illustrates how returning to multi-generational, gender-based discipleship can vitalize the church and cultivate real transformation in men's lives. Check out Discipleship.org for resources on disciple-making: https://discipleship.org/resources/ Check out Discipleship.org Audio Books: https://discipleship.org/resources/ebooks/ Key Takeaways 00:00 Introduction and Background 13:18 The Importance of Multigenerational Discipleship 28:13 The Path to Winning Men Back to Church 30:54 The Concept of Better Man 36:23 The Father's Blessing 57:11 Closing Remarks and Prayer Resources on Manhood Discipleship in the Modern Church: Empowering Men | Chris Harper How to Disciple Men Q&A | Anthony Walker, Chris Harper & Bobby Harrington How to Disciple Men | Chris Harper Breakout Forum 4: How Discipling Men Changes Everything (2016 Nat'l Forum) Stay Informed - Get our newsletter: http://eepurl.com/hPViAr In this episode, Chris from Better Man leads a discussion about men's discipleship. Better Man, which builds on 30 years of men's fraternity and manhood initiatives, now focuses on Millennials, Gen Z, and Gen Alpha. Chris points out the urgent need for men to be guided spiritually, noting that while 80% of Western churches have functional women's ministries, fewer than 7% have similar programs for men. He critiques superficial men's ministries that only offer occasional gatherings. Chris introduces Better Man's two-year program designed to create effective men's ministries. Instead of reinventing manhood, the program aims to restore it, modeled after Jesus Christ as the ultimate example. Using anecdotes like his conversation with his son about a classic car's lack of Bluetooth, Chris emphasizes restoring rather than modernizing, aligning this idea with Ephesians 2:8-10, which describes men as God's masterpieces meant to be restored to their original value. Chris highlights a masculinity crisis, noting that 41% of men now grow up in fatherless homes, compared to 4% in 1960. He links this to a generational disconnect in values, similar to the biblical Judges 2 scenario where a new generation lacked knowledge of the Lord. He attributes today's issues in men's discipleship to three historical shifts: Curse of Modernity: This era, as discussed by Anthony Gideons, saw men shift their spiritual responsibilities to church leaders, turning pastors into potential celebrities and distancing men from active church roles. Church Growth Missteps: Based on Donald McGavran's 1970 book, churches focused on attracting children and women, which feminized many congregations and led to male disengagement, with women outnumbering men in church activities. Shift to Communal Spaces: From the 1980s, church education moved to age-segregated life groups, which stifled multi-generational discipleship. Chris advocates for a return to mentoring models where older men guide younger ones. Chris also addresses the "masculinity fog," where confusion about manhood leads to flawed types of men: Uninitiated Men: Passively follow their wives, lacking direction. Self-Initiated Men: Pursue accolades at the expense of their personal and professional lives. Peer Initiated Men: Engage in prolonged adolescence without real growth. Culture-Initiated Men: Follow societal trends due to weak foundational principles. In contrast, Chris calls for "Spirit-Initiated Men," like Caleb from the Bible, who have the courage and spirit to follow God's path. Follow us at Discipleship.org!
What do women really need from their brothers in Christ? What are they looking for? Let's chat about it as we finish up our Authentic Manhood series! Connect Form: https://radiantonline.org/welcome Online Giving: https://radiantonline.org/give Worship Guide: https://radiantonline.org/guide REACH Initiative: https://radiantonline.org/reach
Shadows have fallen over the hearts of many men today. How can we overcome the challenges men face and step into the light? Connect Form: https://radiantonline.org/welcome Online Giving: https://radiantonline.org/give Worship Guide: https://radiantonline.org/guide REACH Initiative: https://radiantonline.org/reach
Shadows have fallen over the hearts of many men today. How can we overcome the challenges men face and step into the light? Connect Form: https://radiantonline.org/welcome Online Giving: https://radiantonline.org/give Worship Guide: https://radiantonline.org/guide REACH Initiative: https://radiantonline.org/reach
Who's ready for a new series! With all the conversations in our culture about masculinity, let's take a look to see what the Bible has to say about authentic manhood! Connect Form: https://radiantonline.org/welcome Online Giving: https://radiantonline.org/give Worship Guide: https://radiantonline.org/guide REACH Initiative: https://radiantonline.org/reach
Join us in this episode as Justin Buonomo, host of The Holistic Hustle podcast, opens up about his journey from financial turmoil in his teenage years to becoming a successful advocate for financial literacy. Justin shares his deeply personal story, discussing the struggles he faced, including his family's bankruptcy, their subsequent divorce, and a traumatic car accident that led to a mismanaged financial settlement. His raw and candid storytelling highlights the critical need for financial education and mentorship among young men today.In our discussion, we debunk the myth that material success equals happiness. Authentic manhood, as we explore, is more about emotional vulnerability and genuine connections than accumulating wealth or possessions. Drawing from personal experiences, we talk about overcoming strained relationships with our fathers, navigating toxic family dynamics, and the invaluable lessons learned from spiritual growth. This conversation is a testament to the power of vulnerability and emotional expression in achieving true fulfillment and maturity.As we anticipate Father's Day, the emotions run high. Reflecting on the joys and challenges of fatherhood, I share my excitement for my first Father's Day with my daughter, Peyton, and the deliberate approach I'm taking in raising her. Justin and I also explore practical financial advice for teens and parents, the benefits of early investing, and Justin's inspiring transition from a career in medicine to successful entrepreneurship. His story underscores the importance of aligning professional success with personal well-being, offering invaluable insights for young men and business owners striving for a balanced and purposeful life.Chapter Breakdown:(0:00:02) - Personal Finances and Childhood Trauma (12 Minutes)We introduce Justin Buonomo, who shares his personal journey through financial struggles during his teenage years. He recounts his family's bankruptcy, their subsequent divorce, and a traumatic car accident that led to a mismanaged financial settlement. This chapter emphasizes the importance of financial literacy and mentorship for young men.(0:12:19) - Journey to Authentic Manhood (5 Minutes)This chapter explores the realization that true manhood is about becoming the most authentic version of oneself rather than accumulating material achievements. We discuss the misconception that accomplishments and possessions are the ultimate sources of happiness and highlight the importance of vulnerability and emotional expression in maturity.(0:17:14) - Fatherhood Reflections and Self-Improvement (13 Minutes)With Father's Day approaching, we delve into the emotional nuances it brings. I share my excitement for my first Father's Day as a father, reflecting on my journey with my daughter, Peyton. The conversation shifts to my complicated relationship with my own father and the importance of cherishing every moment with our children.(0:29:59) - Financial Planning for Teens and Parents (9 Minutes)We explore the importance of early investing, particularly in the S&P 500, for long-term financial growth. We discuss the value of compound interest, building good credit, and making informed investment choices, including riskier investments like NFTs and cryptocurrency.(0:39:24) - Journey to Financial Freedom and Passion (5 Minutes)Justin shares his inspiring journey from a promising career in medicine to becoming a successful entrepreneur. We discuss the significance of aligning professional success with personal well-being and the impact of mentorship and continuous learning.(0:44:13) - Building Holistic Success and Purpose (6 Minutes)We focus on creating a holistically successful life by balancing professional accomplishments with personal well-being. Justin emphasizes the importance of having the right intentions behind one's goals and offers practical advice for young men and business owners.Key Quotes:"True manhood is about becoming the most authentic version of oneself rather than accumulating material achievements.""Vulnerability and emotional expression are key aspects of maturity.""Early investing and building good credit are crucial steps for long-term financial growth."Connect with Justin Buonomo:IG: https://www.instagram.com/justin_buonomo/Freebie: https://www.group.journeytofinancialfreedom.co/free-masterclassBook a call: https://calendly.com/smuhall/journey-to-financial-freedom-stephanie?month=2024-04Resources Mentioned:Book High Performance Habits by Brendon BurchardApp: Robinhood for accessible investingDon't forget to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review! Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and continue bringing you valuable content.Tune in next week for another insightful episode! 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In this powerful episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher sits down with Mark Craven, bestselling author of Dads, Kiss Your Sons. Mark's journey into fatherhood and his personal transformation story will inspire and challenge you to rethink what it means to be a man in today's world. Mark shares profound insights on the importance of showing up for those who need you, even when you don't feel like it, and the true essence of masculinity beyond biological definitions. Discover how embracing vulnerability and authenticity can lead to personal growth and deeper connections with your loved ones. You'll also hear Mark's touching nightly affirmations to his son, Kai, a testament to his commitment to fostering love, security, and confidence in his family. Whether you're a new dad, about to be a dad, or simply seeking wisdom on living a purpose-driven life, this episode is packed with actionable advice and heartfelt stories that resonate. Tune in to explore: The transformative power of fatherhood Practical steps to becoming a more authentic man How to navigate and appreciate differing views on gender and identity The importance of resilience and showing up when it matters most Don't miss this enlightening conversation that blends humor, honesty, and profound life lessons. Listen now and start your journey toward a more fulfilling and authentic life. More From Mark Craven: Dads, Kiss Your Sons: https://www.amazon.com/Dads-Kiss-Your-Sons-Craven-ebook/dp/B0BXQ35H6N Website: https://www.successupahead.com/ In this episode of the Manlihood ManCast, host Josh Hatcher is joined by Mark Craven, author of 'Dads Kiss Your Sons.' Mark shares his unique journey to fatherhood, including the challenges he faced growing up without a father and learning at age 25 that he was biracial. Mark discusses overcoming fears as a new dad, the importance of positive affirmations and physical affection, and his experiences with mental health. Mark also offers valuable advice on handling divorce and custody battles from his own recent experiences. Tune in for an insightful conversation on resilience, love, and personal growth. In This Episode: 00:00 Introduction to Mark Craven's Journey 00:50 Supporting Manlihood ManCast 01:59 Introducing Mark Craven 02:55 Mark's Fear of Fatherhood 05:23 The Reality of Becoming a Dad 13:04 Mark's Childhood and Family Background 14:20 Discovering His Real Father 18:13 Mental Health and Parenting 21:41 Political Views and Mental Health Advocacy 28:04 Writing 'Dad's Kiss Your Sons' 31:47 Navigating Uncomfortable Conversations 32:26 The Importance of Physical Affection 32:58 Science Behind Physical Touch 35:13 Balancing Affection and Boundaries 36:58 Roughhousing and Parenting 37:57 Coping with Divorce and Fatherhood 39:52 Self-Representation in Court 42:35 Therapy and Emotional Health 47:26 Defining Manhood 52:30 Affirmations and Self-Love 54:07 Final Thoughts and Advice 55:40 Closing Remarks and Resources --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/manlihood/message
Purpose. What is our true purpose?Guest Geoff VanLeewen, a fellow disciple, joins us to share some of his journey.You will be encouraged and challenged as we talk about:What do you find security (salvation) in?"Salvation by the System"You find the end of your own means no matter what.If you are not saved by grace, an authentic faith in Christ; then you are not saved (you can't truly be saved by works).How do we operate in the mission field around us?What is a healthy fear of God?What we do is a reflection of who we are.Masculinity involves rejecting passivity.Insecurity is something we all share in common.Letting God change our heart to be loving and missional.Some resources mentioned:Book of Jeremiah in the BibleCourage to Stand: Jeremiah's Message for Post Christian Times by Philip Graham Ryken,Raising a Modern Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood, by Robert Lewis.Geoff's talk at Grace Community Church on 12/16/2023https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pOqQFNMcIuw"Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Do everything in love.."1 Corinthians 16:13-14 ESV
One day, your child will transition into a young adult. Fathers play an essential role in recognizing those moments through ceremony and celebration. In the second half of this conversation, Michael Warren explores how dads can support their children by welcoming them into a larger community and fostering a sense of belonging. Key Takeaways Don't talk about it; be about it. Present your son to a community of men and vocalize why he belongs there. Create milestone moments for all of your children. Make the courageous call to the person you think would be willing to meet with you to talk about being a dad. Michael Warren Michael Warren is a dad of four who is passionate about equipping fathers to lead their sons into REAL masculinity. He lives in Anchorage, Alaska, where he facilitates the Alaska Knights program at ChangePoint. Key Quotes 4:31 - "When it comes to my daughter, it's been a little extra work. I've had to learn a lot about her heart, a lot about how God has made her, it's been a little slower for me, and I've had to run some experiments and try things out. What's caused me to not give up and all that's complex and, quite frankly, confusing to me sometimes, about pursuing the heart of preteen, early teen daughter has been this, I'm going to reject passivity and expect the greater reward by stepping in and creating some milestones for her, too." 20:26 - "If there's something that you want, what responsibility comes with the burden? What responsibility comes with a heightened sense of urgency? And that's not to shame, guilt, pressure, it's not about that. If this is on your heart, I would say just move with it. Find another person and just take the next step. Our God is a God of next steps, practical next steps. Because what kind of a God would He be if He showed us the entire landscape and made us feel overwhelmed and discouraged? That's not His character. " Links from Today's Conversation DadAwesome Activation Events Host an Event in Your Area: Contact Us Alaska Knights: Raising a Modern Day Knight Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood by Robert Lewis Connect with dadAWESOME Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618
Michael Warren is passionate about equipping fathers and mentors to guide young boys into manhood. His goal is to facilitate adventure moments that give sons an answer to the question, “When did I become a man?” In part one of this conversation, Michael describes how dads can define and model the timeless principles of manhood to their kids. Key Takeaways Fathers must communicate a clear definition of manhood. Middle school is a strategic time to start calling boys up and out of the home—away from distractions like video games—and into learning led by dad. A REAL man Rejects passivity, Expects God's greater rewards, Accepts responsibility, and Leads courageously. REAL men have a work to do, a will to obey, a woman to love, and a world to serve. Michael Warren Michael Warren is a dad of four who is passionate about equipping fathers to lead their sons into REAL masculinity. He lives in Anchorage, Alaska, where he facilitates the Alaska Knights program at ChangePoint. Key Quotes 17:38 - "The longevity that we've enjoyed has been tied to the fact that it's really transforming men's hearts and their families and the definition of manhood and the context that we teach, where that definition plays out are really transferable and in every season." 20:54 - "A real man, R-E-A-L, R, rejects passivity. A man rejects passivity. E, expects God's greater reward. A, accepts responsibility, and L, leads courageously. So, rejects passivity, expects God's greater reward, accepts responsibility, leads courageously. Expect God's greater reward, what does that mean? Well, that means delayed gratification. That is a principle that every man needs to entertain and think about. I'm going to make sacrifice now, but I know what I'm doing and why I'm doing it. I've got energy, I've got time, I have my purity. I have these things that are God given that once I spend them, I don't get them back. Those are the main principles, this R-E-A-L. What's important to mention is that we call them the four W's. The four W's are the contexts where you can directly apply the R-E-A-L. So the four W's arem a man has a work to do, a will to obey, a woman to love and a world to serve." Links from Today's Conversation Spring 2024 DadAwesome Accelerator Group: Email awesome@dadawesome.org to learn more Raising a Modern-Day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood by Robert Lewis 215 | Creating Ceremonies, Building Life-Changing Committed Friendships & Raising Modern Day Knights (Robert Lewis) Connect with dadAWESOME Make a Donation to dadAWESOME Join the dadAWESOME Prayer Team Receive weekly encouragement by texting "dad" to 651-370-8618
As the golden rays of New Jersey's long-awaited sun seep into our studio, we're joined by the inspiring Bryan Byrd, who brings tales of camaraderie from the fires of Wild Courage. Brian's vision of a sanctuary for men to connect through the raw honesty of their shared stories has lit a beacon for many seeking solace from the solitude of recent times. Our conversation meanders through the birth of this ministry, its ethos, and the life-altering moments that occur when men from all walks of life gather to offer support, listen, and grow together. It's these encounters, rich with vulnerability, that underscore the innate power of a community built on the courage to share.The symphony of voices at our table echoes with the harmony of men finding their equilibrium within the group dynamic. Sarge, Mark, and Bryan weave narratives of how a delicate balance is struck in guiding the conversations of our groups. From the tales of individuals who learn to modulate their need to "show up and throw up," to celebrating the silenced ones who finally find their voice, our episode is a testament to the transformative strength of brotherhood. We delve into the art of patience, the breakthroughs that bond, and the simple yet potent act of being present for one another—without the need for fixing or unsolicited counsel.As we draw the curtains on this episode, we leave you with a mosaic of stories that speak to the heart of healing through shared experiences. Each anecdote, laden with the wisdom of hindsight, paints a vivid picture of the journey from trauma to redemption. Our shared laughter, moments of silence, and the occasional crackling from the fire pit serve as a backdrop to the rich dialogue about the importance of authenticity, the pitfalls of prioritizing achievement over relationships, and the communal pilgrimage towards a simplified life. We extend an invitation to you, our dear listeners, to join us in this movement of earnest reflection, connection, and spiritual discovery, right here on Foxhole Symphony.Support the showWe have BIG plans at Foxhole Symphony and sure could use your financial support. Would you prayerfully consider a small monthly contribution to support us in our mission to catalyze transformation in the hearts of men? Support Our MissionFind us at:https://www.foxholesymphony.comhttps://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw
In this episode, we delve into the intricate journey of self-discovery and reclamation with our guest, Ken Mossman. Ken, who works closely with visionaries, map makers, and iconoclasts, brings a unique perspective to the conversation. He shares his insights on the importance of persistence and the power of embracing one's true essence. From the very start, Ken's story resonates deeply with those who have ever questioned their path or struggled to find their place in the world. He highlights the common thread of persistence that runs through the stories of all successful individuals, emphasizing the importance of staying true to oneself despite the challenges that may arise. Ken's journey is one of rediscovery and empowerment, as he recounts his experiences navigating societal expectations and personal struggles. He shares candidly about the pivotal moments that led him to embrace his authentic self and reclaim his sense of wholeness. Throughout the conversation, Ken and our host, Mike "C-Roc", explore the complexities of masculinity and the societal pressures that often accompany it. They discuss the need for men to redefine traditional notions of manhood and embrace a more holistic approach to self-expression and fulfillment. Ken's work with men is deeply rooted in his belief in the power of vulnerability and authenticity. Through his podcast, "Mojo for the Modern Man," and his intensive program, "Integrated Adult Man I Am," he guides men on a journey of self-discovery and transformation, helping them expand their vision and create legacies of positive change. Join us as we unravel the layers of Ken's story and uncover the profound insights he offers on the path to authentic manhood. Website: https://kenmossman.com Social Media Links/Handles: https://www.facebook.com/ken.mossman.79 https://www.linkedin.com/in/ken-mossman-3649b5/
Former NFL Seahawks quarterback Jeff Kemp offers four solid strategies toward a powerful, humble, and fearless biblical manhood that goes the distance. Build a brotherhood and grab a copy of Jeff Kemp's Level Five Friendship Playbook: MenHuddle.com ..And listen in on Jeff's Podcast, Every Man Ministries And grab his book, Receive: The Way of Jesus for Men —or receive it free with your donation. Tune into more episodes by Jeff Kemp on FamilyLife Today! Check out all of JP's podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com. See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spotify. Check out all the FamilyLife podcasts on the FamilyLife Podcast Network
Former NFL Seahawks quarterback Jeff Kemp offers four solid strategies toward a powerful, humble, and fearless biblical manhood that goes the distance. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/84/29
The acclaimed actor/director/producer expounds on the danger of toxic masculinity; sheep will be sheep, so let's wake up the lions; the purpose for/push back against his children's book, “The Test of Lionhood”; Biden's administration has us set up for a worse than 9/11 attack; debunking mail-in voting; both political parties have shifted more left each […] The post United Patriots Uprising: Kevin Sorbo Takes The Toxic Out Of Masculinity, Advocates for Authentic Manhood appeared first on Radio Influence.
The acclaimed actor/director/producer expounds on the danger of toxic masculinity; sheep will be sheep, so let's wake up the lions; the purpose for/push back against his children's book, “The Test of Lionhood”; Biden's administration has us set up for a worse than 9/11 attack; debunking mail-in voting; both political parties have shifted more left each […] The post United Patriots Uprising: Kevin Sorbo Takes The Toxic Out Of Masculinity, Advocates for Authentic Manhood appeared first on Radio Influence.
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Why would two guys with very busy lives...family, career, recreation, hobbies, etc...prioritize the construction of a foxhole? In today's episode, Mark and Sarge unpack not only why they do this podcast, but also why they remain so committed to living in authentic Christian community with others. Listen in for some good 'ol fashioned perspective and hopefully some encouragement that might catalyze movement toward living a more authentic life filled with grace and love.Be sure to engage with Foxhole Symphony on your go-to social media platform. Follow and share with others who you think might be encouraged by the topics we cover. And thank you for your continued support.Find us at:https://www.foxholesymphony.comhttps://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw
Welcome to "New Path, New You," a podcast series dedicated to guiding you on a transformative journey with God. In this special episode, "Shaping Thoughts for God's Purpose - A Recap and Teaser," we take a moment to reflect on the profound insights shared during our first month of "Shaping Thoughts for God's Purpose."Trust in God- https://music.apple.com/us/album/can-you-imagine/1680568635Recap - Episode 1: "The Journey Begins - Embracing Your New Path" In our introductory episode, we embarked on a transformational journey together, emphasizing the importance of aligning our thoughts with God's divine purpose.Recap - Episode 2: "Renewing Your Mind - Transformative Power of Romans 12:2" Episode 2 delved into Romans 12:2, exploring how renewing our minds can lead to life-changing transformations. Inspiring stories of personal growth through renewed thinking were shared.Recap - Episode 3: "Leading with Humility - Balancing God's Strength and Human Abilities" Our most recent episode focused on the concept of leading with humility. We learned from biblical examples and modern leadership practices, highlighting how Christian men can harness their talents while relying on God's strength.Teaser for Month 2: Embracing Life's Challenges with Faith As we conclude our first month, get ready for an exciting glimpse into what's ahead. In the second month of "New Path, New You," we'll explore the theme of "Embracing Life's Challenges with Faith." Discover how faith can guide you through life's inevitable obstacles, transforming challenges into opportunities for growth.Thank you for joining us on this journey of transformation and renewal. Stay tuned for our upcoming episodes as we continue to explore how faith can lead us through life's challenges. Remember, God has a purpose for your life, and your thoughts can shape the path to fulfill that purpose. Until next time, may you walk in the light of God's purpose and embrace life's challenges with faith and hope.
In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into a profound exploration of modern masculinity and its intricate dimensions in today's dynamic world. Our special guest, Steve Eckert, is a peak performance coach specializing in personal discipline and development. Beyond his coaching role, he wears many hats—husband, devoted father, US Marine veteran, and entrepreneur. Steve is also a mentor in The Squire program, a transformative father-son journey aimed at shaping authentic manhood. Join us on a transformative journey as we navigate the depths of masculinity, empowering men to embrace their genuine identities. The conversation begins with Steve's candid recollections of his childhood, marked by isolation and the absence of a meaningful relationship with his father. He opens up about the challenges of feeling like an outsider and lacking a guiding figure during those formative years. Steve recounts his tumultuous teenage years, including multiple incarcerations, which ultimately led to a pivotal decision: jail time or enlistment in the Marine Corps. He shares insights into the inherent primal nature within every man and how his Marine training enabled him to harness and channel that energy constructively. Discover how Steve's Marine experience ignited his passion for fitness and personal training. He pursued certification as a personal trainer while serving in the Marine Corps, laying the foundation for his future entrepreneurial endeavors, including gym ownership and training programs. If you're intrigued by Steve's transformative journey and eager to gain insights into the multifaceted essence of masculinity, don't miss this insightful episode. Connect with Steve:https://www.instagram.com/steve.eckert1/ Achieve your next level with Relentless Goal Achievers: https://relentlessgoalachievers.com/opt-inConnect with Eric: Be sure to connect with me in the Lead Sell Grow - The Human Experience Mastermind Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/leadsellgrow/Learn more about our services: www.TheGoalGuide.comImprove your sales and stay connected – Free Gifts Here https://shor.by/TheGoalGuideCheck out cool swag and shirts here: Shopthegoalguide.com Timestamps:0:00 - Intro3:20 - What you need in your life5:45 - Before the Marines8:10 - Being shaped by the Marine Corps11:45 - Training your breaking point16:00 - Breaking the cycle18:30 - Forgiving your father20:25 - Coaching men22:20 - Common mistakes of men26:40 - Doing things as a family33:10 - How do you set goals?36:30 - Getting clear on your lifestyle39:10 - Working with Bedros41:05 - Message for men44:15 - Diet of discipline46:25 - Conclusion
In this candid and heartwarming episode of Uncommon Conversations, hosts TJ and Joshua embark on an intimate exploration of a topic that universally touches lives - Anxiety. The post Authentic Manhood appeared first on UNCOMMEN.
Being a man is more than just a cultural stereotype. As men, we have to stand firm in our faith and set the tone in our homes. We have to be intentional about making it a place of love, peace, and honoring God.Want to learn more about Radical?Instagram: @radicalchurchFacebook: www.facebook.com/radicalchurchtxWebsite: www.radicalchurch.lifeRadical Church | Sundays | 9AM & 11AM1151 Bunton Creek Rd #1001, Kyle, TX 78640
Join Mark and Sarge for an engaging discussion with former commercial airline pilot, Jeff Andrechyn from the beautiful mountains of VA. Jeff has spent years ministering to and engaging men in various foxholes across the country. Most recently, he and The Inklings gather weekly to dig in and do life together. It's beautiful to hear a bit of Jeff's story and what he's doing in the midst of his foxhole. Be sure to engage with Foxhole Symphony on your go-to social media platform. Follow and share with others who you think might be encouraged by the topics we cover. And thank you for your continued support.Find us at:https://www.foxholesymphony.comhttps://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw
Pastor Mike sits down with Pastors Johnny Ingram and Walt Odom to discuss what it means to be a man of God. They also highlight the upcoming "Authentic Manhood" Men's Conference on April 28-29! They talk about their past and how God pulled them out of dark places! Stay Connected with Covenant ChurchWeb: www.CovenantChurch.churchFacebook: www.facebook.com/CovenantChurchNC/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/covenant_church_nc/Covenant Podcast: https://covenantpodcastnc.buzzsprout.com
What is a real man? Dr. Joe Martin exposes the lies we believe about our value as men, in contrast to the example of authentic manhood set by Jesus Christ.Wrong perceptions of manhood (what society says):OccupationCompensationEducationReputationIntimidation Authentic manhood is determined by:Leading spirituallyRejecting passivityLoving and serving sacrificiallyDr. Joe Martin is an award-winning speaker, author, educator, and certified builder of men. He's the author of nine books and the host of Real Men Connect, the top-rated podcast for Christian men. Learn more at realmenconnect.comDr. Joe will be speaking at The Porn Free Man Online Conference on January 6-7, 2023. Register now at thepornfreeman.comTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast—please leave a review! Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 2: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 3: Try the all-in-one solution: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!
On this episode of the Wehry Dads podcast, Coach and PJ discuss how to form good nightly rhythms that lead to more quality time with family and more energy throughout the day.Check out our blog at www.candidgoatproductions.com In one house with three generations, two tired dads take life one episode at a time learning what it means to mentor, be men, and grow in spiritual maturity. Coach Pete Wehry has been coaching, mentoring, and pastoring for over thirty years. He currently serves with Nations of Coaches connecting with college basketball coaches to help them mentor their players. He has lectured on discipleship, regularly gives marriage counseling with his wife, Lisa, and serves as a life coach for business men and women. PJ Wehry runs Candid Goat, a digital agency, with his wife Becky Sue. He has a master's in philosophy of religion, homeschools his kids, Finn and Søren, and hosts Chasing Leviathan, a big questions podcast.
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On this episode of the Wehry Dads podcast, Coach and PJ discuss how changes in their work routines have helped them be more productive and live healthier.Check out our blog at www.candidgoatproductions.com In one house with three generations, two tired dads take life one episode at a time learning what it means to mentor, be men, and grow in spiritual maturity. Coach Pete Wehry has been coaching, mentoring, and pastoring for over thirty years. He currently serves with Nations of Coaches connecting with college basketball coaches to help them mentor their players. He has lectured on discipleship, regularly gives marriage counseling with his wife, Lisa, and serves as a life coach for business men and women. PJ Wehry runs Candid Goat, a digital agency, with his wife Becky Sue. He has a master's in philosophy of religion, homeschools his kids, Finn and Søren, and hosts Chasing Leviathan, a big questions podcast.
Resources: Jeff Struecker on LinkedIn JeffStruecker.com Jeff Struecker's Unbeatable podcast Jeff Struecker's Amazon Author page Dusty Davis The Battle of Mogadishu Arlington National Cemetery The Munga, the toughest race on earth Three Rangers Foundation Raising a Modern-day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood, by Robert Lewis Mogadishu The Road to Unafraid: How the Army's Top Ranger Faced Fear and Found Courage through "Black Hawk Down" and Beyond Summary: Jeff Struecker did not do anything more right or better than anybody who's buried in Arlington National Cemetery. God decided to spare him on the streets of Somalia. Jeff wants people to know he doesn't take credit for the sense of peace that he had. It was a gift from God. It was so overwhelmingly clear to his buddies that they were ready to start asking questions the next day.Jim invites you, the listener, if you are moved, to reach out to Jeff on his website or reach out to Jim on MenBuildMen.com to engage with them about the peace Jeff is talking about. It's a gift, a fruit of the Spirit. Jim and Jeff tell people about the most masculine man that ever existed, Jesus Christ. As men, they follow Jesus and you can too. Jim implores you to read the Bible and to reach out to Jim or Jeff with any questions.Jim invites Jeff to speak about learning to be a Christian in his roles of husband to his wife and father to his boys while being deployed. Jeff has led men in combat in some of the most dangerous situations Americans have seen in 75 years. By far, the hardest thing he has ever had to do is lead his family. He realized what they needed in a husband and a father and how far he was from what they needed. Jeff talked in an earlier part of this interview about coaching his sons. Now he talks about his responsibility to his daughters. He realized that when they looked for a man to marry, they would look for what they saw in their father. He recognized he needed to step up his game to be the example they needed. Jeff took the Bible seriously and they read it as a family. He read it personally and did devotions. The Bible taught him to be the spiritual leader of his family. He realized he needed to be farther along spiritually than his wife to lead her spiritually. He had to put some real work into that. Jeff started seeking out Godly men of all ages and stations in life and asking them what they had done right and what they had done wrong. Jeff repeats this is the hardest thing he has ever done because he knew himself, and what his family needed from him. He knew how far he was from what they needed him to be.Jeff challenges the guys who are listening right now; you need to be farther along spiritually. Your wife should be able to look at you and say, “I wish I had that man's faith.” You should be the kind of guy that your daughter says, “I'm going to marry a man exactly like my Daddy one day,” or a son says, “I'm going to grow up to be exactly like that man one day.” Jeff says if you put it in those terms, we all have some room to grow, right?Jim encourages the guys listening not to be fearful of reading the Bible in a devotional with their family. Just do it! Get after it! If you don't know how just begin to do it and it will grow. If you don't implement anything, then nothing's going to be done.Jeff knows he cannot force his wife or children to believe what he believes. No human being can push that on another human being. But he can live his life so consistently that even if they don't believe what he believes, they know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he believes it. That was Jeff's goal, so he had to be consistent. Jeff admits there were some days when he didn't feel like it! He had to get up and do it anyway because they needed to see it in him. Jeff also realized that God had given him a Godly wise wife, and he needed to listen to her advice. When they had family challenges and decisions to make, Jeff always asked her. He also gave her veto authority in his life for about the first 20 years. He said. “If this ever gets too much, if it's ever too difficult, you have the right to pull the veto card and I will look at doing something different.” Once or twice, the stress of what the military placed on their family was just too much, and at her veto, he made some changes that he didn't necessarily want to make, but he did it to keep his family. When Jeff retired from the Army, he had lots of accomplishments, but he said at his retirement, “None of that matters to me. What matters to me is I'm still married to my high school sweetheart. We have five children and a great relationship with all five of them and most of my friends can't say that. But I can say that because I made some big sacrifices along the way so that my family knew they came first.” Jim affirms that Jeff had been led by the Lord to understand that souls are more important than accomplishments. Why do some men look for accomplishments over a strong marriage or developing and producing Godly children?Jeff doesn't think most guys put accomplishments over family on purpose. They are in a pressure cooker between the needs of the family and the needs of the job that they have so they can feed their family. They don't choose wrong on purpose. They get confused between making a lot of money so their family can have nice things, and spending time with the family. Your family doesn't need nice things. They need Dad or a husband. If that means you don't get the big promotion, OK. When your children are grown and out of the house, when you've been married for 45 years, nobody's going to care about the possessions. It's going to be the time they had or didn't have with Dad that they will remember for the rest of their lives. If you're thinking you can't be great at both of these things at the same time, you are where most men and women are at this time. Jeff wants you to hear this: If you have to choose, then choose your family every time, because that will last for a lifetime. Your job will one day go away. If you've given your family what they deserve, they'll be around you on your deathbed.Jim speaks of the Marks of a Man, and one of them is sacrifice. Jim affirms Jeff for being willing to sacrifice. Some men are unwilling to sacrifice themselves for the betterment of their marriage or children. The Bible tells husbands to love their wives as Jesus sacrificed himself for the church. What does that sacrifice look like in a marriage? Jim affirms that Jeff has done a pretty good job of describing his military sacrifices in Mogadishu. A lot of Christian men are not doing that well in their marriages. Jeff had sought the advice of Godly mentors. A lot of guys try to do it solo but are not intentional about implementing something to correct their deficiencies. Jeff echoes Jim's words. Jeff had to make some sacrifices in his military career for his family. Looking back, he is glad that he made those sacrifices. There were a few dreams that he had in the Army that he never got the chance to pursue. He didn't pursue them because he knew the cost for his family would be too much. Jeff talks to the guy who's giving too much to work, “If you're not willing to make a little sacrifice and somebody else gets promoted in front of you, and you don't maybe make it to the top, but you still have a family, listen, man, part of the sacrifice means being willing to even put yourself in second place to your family. In fact, I kind of wonder sometimes, are you pursuing the corner office and the top job because of what it can give you and hoping that it's going to fill you up on the inside and make you feel good about yourself? Because if you are, it's going to totally let you down, man.” Jeff had to make some sacrifices at home, too. He didn't have hobbies for 20 years. He went to work, he worked a lot of hours, and the Army dictated his schedule. When he went home, he didn't have hobbies because he knew his wife and children needed his undivided attention. When the children left the home, then he felt he could start to pick up a hobby that he's always wanted to pick up. Giving your undivided attention to your family is putting yourself as a servant to them. The Bible challenges men to do that. Lead your family by serving. Jesus said the greatest among you will be the servant. Jeff says that's what God expects of men in the home. Jeff's new hobby will be riding across the desert of South Africa. Jim talks about meekness as strength under control. It is descriptive of Jesus in the Bible. Jim affirms that he hears meekness in Jeff's description of the Battle of Mogadishu. Jim invites you, the men listening, to evaluate yourselves and consider the example of meekness Jeff Struecker has provided for all of us to learn from. Meekness comes from the Bible. Jeff says a guy can't get there on his own. You need God's help to put yourself and your strength under control. Jim talks about the other men that Jeff approached for help to live a Godly family life and how those men helped him. Jim is doing these interviews to help you, the listener, to glean and listen for what you can implement in your life for your benefit. Jim asks men like Jeff to take time out of their schedule to teach you, the listener, how you can improve. Jeff is serving you by sharing his experiences. You can support him by following his experiences on The Munga and support his fundraising effort for the Three Rangers Foundation by providing resources. Jeff tells people as a pastor that you can't be righteous in this culture without help inside and outside you. Outside you, you need a couple of guys you can rely on who know you well and know what your challenges are. Without them, you're open to making some really big mistakes. You need one or two dudes who know you well enough that they can see before you go off the cliff and destroy your life. They can see it coming and they can step in. Inside you, you need supernatural help. It's the boldest, toughest man who ever walked this earth and his name is Jesus. You will need to get up in the morning and know you will mess this up if Jesus doesn't help you. You will need that heavenly help the next day and the next day for the rest of your life. A guy that has the power of Jesus inside and a couple of really good buddies outside has no limit to the good that he can do. You are not strong enough without Jesus. You were built by the Creator from the beginning to lean on God and to have a couple of other men in your life helping you along the way. Jim affirms that message. He thanks Jeff for coming on the show and for his willingness to share his stories, experiences, and insights. Call to Action: To you listeners, thank you for listening to this show in its entirety. Grab a Bible and get into it! Mash that five-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Share the episode link with others that it may benefit. 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On this episode of the Wehry Dads podcast, Coach and PJ discuss how to incorporate effective habits of physical health into busy morning routines.Check out our blog at www.candidgoatproductions.com In one house with three generations, two tired dads take life one episode at a time learning what it means to mentor, be men, and grow in spiritual maturity. Coach Pete Wehry has been coaching, mentoring, and pastoring for over thirty years. He currently serves with Nations of Coaches connecting with college basketball coaches to help them mentor their players. He has lectured on discipleship, regularly gives marriage counseling with his wife, Lisa, and serves as a life coach for business men and women. PJ Wehry runs Candid Goat, a digital agency, with his wife Becky Sue. He has a master's in philosophy of religion, homeschools his kids, Finn and Søren, and hosts Chasing Leviathan, a big questions podcast.
Host Jim Nicklas continues the interview with Jeff Struecker on raising his boys to be men, his service in the Army Rangers, the Battle of Mogadishu, and his calling as a chaplain and a pastor.Resources: Jeff Struecker on LinkedIn JeffStruecker.com Jeff Struecker's Unbeatable podcast Jeff Struecker's Amazon Author page The Battle of Mogadishu Black Hawk Down Dusty Davis Fort Benning, Georgia Columbus, Georgia The Munga, the toughest race on earth Three Rangers Foundation Raising a Modern-day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood, by Robert Lewis Bar Mitzvah Walkabout Jeff Bruckheimer Ridley Scott Mogadishu Mohamed Farrah Aidid Major General William Garrison The Road to Unafraid: How the Army's Top Ranger Faced Fear and Found Courage through "Black Hawk Down" and Beyond Todd Blackburn Dominick Pilla Mike Durant Summary: One of Jeff Struecker's sons got very serious about a young woman while he was a junior in high school. By the time he was a senior, it was obvious that she was the one. Jeff asked him if she was the one that God wants him to spend the rest of his life with. His son said yes. So Jeff told him to go buy a ring and propose to her. Right after graduation, he bought a ring, proposed, and they got married a year later at age 19. All of Jeff's friends asked if Jeff was crazy! Jeff replied that his son was man enough to marry this woman and not to judge Jeff's son by how their sons act. Jeff's son has been carrying a man's responsibility for years, at this point. He's ready. 100 years ago, most men were married at 19 because society treated them like men. If a 29-year-old is not ready to get married, it's society's fault.Jim contrasts Jeff's life at age 18 with his son's life at age 19 and how the Lord has worked in Jeff's life. Jim affirms Jeff as having one of the marks of a Man in raising men in his family who were ready to start their families. Jeff shares his experience of accepting Jesus Christ. Jeff didn't grow up in a Christian home. Jeff never saw his parents read the Bible, pray, talk about Jesus, or go to Church. One night when he was 13, his neighbors came by and shared a message about Jesus with him for the first time. They explained the basics of the faith. After they left, Jeff was lying in bed and it was like the light coming on. Everything they said just clicked and made sense. Jeff got out of bed, knelt, prayed, and asked Jesus to change him. There was something really different about Jeff the next day. He got up on Sunday and walked to church and started attending pretty regularly. He learned what it looked like to follow Jesus by stumbling and through trial and error. Jeff joined the army, got married a couple of years after joining the Army, and realized he needed to learn how to lead a family spiritually. He started getting serious about reading the Word, he plugged into a church, and he got baptized. He learned about being a disciple. He was a Sergeant in the Ranger Regiment when he started to figure out what it looked like to walk with Jesus. He has been continuing to walk with Jesus and to help other men to walk with Jesus. Jeff joined the Rangers when he was 18 in 1987 and retired in 2011. Jeff shares his advice on how to become an Army Ranger. Jeff knew he needed discipline and a challenge so he asked the recruiter what was the toughest job in the Army. The recruiter pointed Jeff to the Rangers. Jeff joined in high school and a couple of months after graduation, he went to basic training and infantry training back-to-back in Fort Benning Georgia. Then he went through the Army's Airborne Course at Fort Benning. Right after the Airborne Course, Jeff went to the Ranger Regiment Assessment and Selection Program, also at Fort Benning. The program is designed to see if you are smart enough, tough enough, and mentally and psychologically prepared to be a Ranger. They look into your background, family, finances, and everything. They're about to give you unprecedented resources and missions that are highly important to the future of our country. There s a huge attrition rate. More than 60% of the guys who start do not finish. Jeff made it through the program and was assigned to the Rangers in Fort Benning. They have battalions on the West Coast and the East Coast, as well as at Fort Benning, which is their headquarters. Jeff started there as a private and spent the next ten years there. He left as a platoon sergeant, ten years later. In those years jeff took part in the 1989 invasion of Panama, Desert Storm in Kuwait in 1991, and was one of the sergeants on the ground leading the Humvees. Jeff loves Jesus, he loves America, and he loves being a Ranger. Those three things never conflicted. Although Jeff expected to remain on active duty, God put him on a path to ministry. The movie Black Hawk Down, produced by Jerry Bruckheimer and directed by Ridley Scott, is based on the book Black Hawk Down. The book is very accurate. As far as major motion pictures go, the movie did a good job of presenting the firefight. Eighteen hours of fighting was condensed to two and a half hours of movie. In the end, instead of drawing a political conclusion, they let the viewer decide what to think. Jeff says the actor portraying him made it as realistic as possible. Jeff didn't want the movie to be made, but he believes they couldn't have done a better job of it. Jeff explains the events behind the movie starting with drought and famine in several countries, most notably, Somalia. A warlord in Mogadishu, Mohamed Farrah Aidid, targeted and killed UN forces distributing food, blew up U.S. supply convoys, shot UN workers, shot down UN helicopters protecting the food, and did a lot of damage in the Spring and Summer of 1993. In June of '93 Aidid killed a huge contingent of UN workers from Pakistan while they were handing out food to his people. That's what prompted the UN Security Council to target Aidid. It was a Kill or Capture mission. The Army Rangers were notified in late June of '93 that they were going over there to take down Aidid and his top-ranking leaders. A planned six-week mission turned into months. Jeff explains how it went wrong, culminating in an unprecedented daylight raid. In an 18-hour firefight, five of the six troop-carrying Blackhawk got shot down that night. Two crashed in the city, the others were able to get back to the bases in UN territory. Everyone Jeff was with felt like they were going to die in the next few minutes. The mission became getting to the Blackhawks and getting the crews alive back to the base. That's what turned the mission into an 18-hour firefight. Jeff wrote about this mission in his book, The Road to Unafraid. Jeff's job was to lead the Humvees through the city streets. He took wounded soldiers out of the city in the middle of the shooting. Jeff had been on site for a few minutes when he was dispatched to get Todd Blackburn, a critically wounded Ranger, and take him to get medical attention, and then come back for the rest of the force that went in by helicopter. On the way back, he drove through an intense gunfight, and Dominick Pilla was shot and killed right behind him. Pilla was the first soldier killed in action in the operation. Jeff still had to make it back to the base. When he did, he learned that two helicopters had gone down in the city. Jeff went to Michael Durant's crash site to find anyone left alive there. On the way out, Jeff's Humvee was shot multiple times again. He grabbed more Rangers from his unit and took them back to the base. He got ready to roll out a third time and realized that going out in unarmored Humvees was too dangerous. They asked for UN help. Pakistanis came with tanks. Malaysians came with armored personnel carriers. At about 11:00 p.m. they rolled back out. Jeff's men stayed on the same two Humvees all night long until they made it back to the base at 9:30 a.m. The Somalis kept shooting and never ran out of ammo. The Rangers were resolved not to leave anyone behind. Special operators are committed to the mission and each other. Jeff was concerned he was going to get everyone in his command killed. He also knew that those at the crash site needed to be rescued. Jeff had to dig deep to find what it took to go back out. That was the moment where his faith made all the difference. When he was 100% certain that he was going to die, he just put it all in God's hands. He prayed and told God that if that was the night, he was ready to go. That gave him a sense of peace with no words to describe it. All he could do was go back out for his men. When he got back to the base, all his men were lined up to talk to him. When they had heard him over the radio, they had heard his voice was totally calm while everybody else was freaking out. They knew he had something besides their Ranger training that kept him at peace. They all wanted to have that peace. The next day he started to tell his buddies about Jesus. Jeff had an overwhelming sense that God wanted him to transition and do something different. That's what set him on the path to becoming an Army chaplain, and now, pastor of a church right outside the same Rangers where he served when he was 18 years old. Jim affirms that Jeff had been given peace, not of this world, and everyone could see it. That is a great indication of what a Christian is supposed to be. Let your light shine so that people may see you and give praise to God in heaven above. Call to Action: Thank you for listening to this show in its entirety. Mash that five-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Share the episode link with others that it may benefit. If you want to leave a productive comment that can help others, please do so. If you have a sincere question about how we can improve our content, or you want to introduce us to other guests, please reach out to us at info@menbuildmen.com. Marks of a Man podcast is a continued production of Men Build Men. Find out more at www.menbuildmen.com. Email any questions to Jim at Info@MenBuildMen.com. See our Website: MenBuildMen.comEmail: Info@MenBuildMen.com Men Build Men on Facebook Jim Nicklas on Instagram
On this episode of the Wehry Dads podcast, Coach and PJ discuss how a few simple steps in the morning can stimulate your mind for the whole day and put you in a better place to achieve your goals.Check out our blog at www.candidgoatproductions.com In one house with three generations, two tired dads take life one episode at a time learning what it means to mentor, be men, and grow in spiritual maturity. Coach Pete Wehry has been coaching, mentoring, and pastoring for over thirty years. He currently serves with Nations of Coaches connecting with college basketball coaches to help them mentor their players. He has lectured on discipleship, regularly gives marriage counseling with his wife, Lisa, and serves as a life coach for business men and women. PJ Wehry runs Candid Goat, a digital agency, with his wife Becky Sue. He has a master's in philosophy of religion, homeschools his kids, Finn and Søren, and hosts Chasing Leviathan, a big questions podcast.
Resources: Jeff Struecker on LinkedIn JeffStruecker.com Jeff Struecker's Unbeatable podcast Jeff Struecker's Amazon Author page The Battle of Mogadishu Black Hawk Down Dusty Davis Fort Benning, Georgia Columbus, Georgia The Munga, the toughest race on earth Three Rangers Foundation Raising a Modern-day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood, by Robert Lewis Bar MitzvahSummary: Jeff Struecker's parents divorced when he was young; he and his mother moved a lot for her work, sometimes two or three times in a school year. He went to four high schools in three states and then joined the Army, spending the next ten years in Fort Benning, Georgia. Jeff has spent the last 30 years between Fort Benning, and Columbus, Georgia, a neighboring community.Jeff's links are listed in the resources. Jeff's podcast, Unbeatable, tells stories of guys and gals that have gone through crazily difficult experiences. When they got knocked down, they got back up, determined not to let life beat them. They figured out a way to handle their circumstances. Jeff has published multiple books available on Amazon and other outlets. Jeff is preparing to ride in The Munga, the toughest race on earth, a 1,000K mountain bike race through the South African desert. Jeff is using it to raise funds for and bring awareness to the Three Rangers Foundation, a charity helping veterans transition from the military to civilian life. His goal is to raise $50K for the Three Rangers Foundation. Please donate through Jeff's website. The Munga takes place in the hottest part of the year in South Africa. Temperatures may run up to 130 degrees Fahrenheit. It's five days with no sleep and no support. You're on your own across the desert. Everyone in the racing community that Jeff has talked to says there is no question it's the world's toughest race. Jeff signed up in January and has been training hard for it. Jeff learned recently that no one else from the U.S. has signed up. The race is a few weeks away at the end of November. There are eight or nine water stops. Jeff compares this experience to long-distance and extreme-condition events he has done on foot with a heavy backpack. He has never gone this kind of distance on a bike. He has spent years in some of the hottest deserts in the world. Water is his biggest concern. You have to know what you're doing or you will get yourself in trouble. Jeff has sought advice and he has a plan for enough water to bring him to the finish line. The race is GPS-oriented. If you leave the course, you retrace your steps to the point where you left it. Every rider will have a GPS beacon. When the race kicks off, you will be able to trace Jeff's progress on the course on his website in real-time, from November 30th to December 5th. Jim asks listeners to donate to this fundraiser for the Three Rangers Foundation on Jeff's website. Jeff lived most of his childhood much below the poverty line. His father was absent. In Jeff's senior year of high school, a couple of months before graduation, Jeff realized the Army would be a quick way out of the small midwestern farming town he lived in at the time. What steered him toward the Rangers was his search for a challenge and some discipline. Because of his path in high school, he recognized that if he didn't turn himself around, he was going to be either in jail or dead. The Army Rangers provided him with all the things he was looking for. As far as the discipline and the challenge go, it gave him a whole lot more than he expected! Jeff says that every teenage boy has to figure out what it means to be a man. He is convinced that in the United States, we do not do a good job of helping boys figure out what it means to b a man. There are many bad definitions of manhood and boys have to figure it out. Jeff entered the military with no idea what it meant to be a man. He found mentors in the military who taught him what manhood is. Jim talks about his organization MenBuildMen.com. Men building boys into men is imperative. Jim asks Jeff how he transitioned from being a boy with no father to a father with a houseful of children. Jeff says he started with a blank slate. When he married his high school sweetheart, he knew he wanted to have children. They've been married for almost 32 years and had five children. Three sons came first and then two daughters. Jeff wants the listeners to know he made a lot of mistakes along the way. Jeff continually prayed for God to take the best he could do and make up the difference. Jeff says the most important responsibility a Dad has is to be present, not just being there but interacting with them, being all the way at home so the family knows that they've got your full attention. Jeff says to give the same amount of energy to your family that you give to your job. When Jeff's boys started becoming teens, Jeff realized he had to teach them to turn into men. He remembered a book he had read by Robert Lewis, when the boys were toddlers, Raising a Modern-day Knight: A Father's Role in Guiding His Son to Authentic Manhood. The book asks, what does your family expect out of the men in your family? What is the rite of passage that lets a boy know he's a man? Jeff started studying how fathers in other cultures teach their boys to be men, and he found some countries do it much better than we do in the United States. He notes the Bar Mitzvah of Jewish culture and the aboriginal walkabout of Australia. Native American tribes and African tribes all have a challenge that a boy goes through. When he comes back from the challenge, the whole village recognizes him as a man. Jeff started putting an idea into place for teaching his boys. He laid out a different challenge for each of his sons, according to his personality. He told each one that he would work through this challenge and when he had completed it, everyone in the family would recognize him as a man. He would have a man's authority and a man's responsibilities. If he doesn't act like a man, he will be treated as a man for punishment and he won't like it. The grace period of boyhood would be over. Jeff told them a man doesn't have a curfew; but when they went out, they were to say what time they would be home, and Dad would wait up for them. As a man, they were expected not to be late. His sons lived up to that as long as they lived at home. One showed up three minutes late once, and he took responsibility for it. When the rite of passage was done for each son, Jeff gave him a weapon that fit his personality. Jeff asked each son to keep it and when he moved out, to display it on the wall of his home as a symbol that he is a man and a man is responsible to protect his home and everybody God has placed inside it. Jeff says he had sons at 16 and 17 years old that had taken more responsibility and acted more like a man than people in their 30s. They thrived, hearing from their father, “That's it, you're a man.” Jim affirms Jeff for being involved in his sons' lives to know what they individually needed, and how to treat a teenager to lead him to be a man with authority and responsibility. Young men want to handle the responsibility of being a man. Our society allows boys to stretch out too long the process of becoming a man. Our society tolerates a 27-year-old boy who wants a man's authority without a man's responsibilities. In Jeff's house, after their rite of passage, they were treated like a man and all that goes with it, including a man's responsibilities. Call to Action: Thank you for listening to this show in its entirety. Mash that five-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Share the episode link with others that it may benefit. If you want to leave a productive comment that can help others, please do so. If you have a sincere question about how we can improve our content, or you want to introduce us to other guests, please reach out to us at info@menbuildmen.com. Marks of a Man podcast is a continued production of Men Build Men. Email any questions about the show to Jim at Info@MenBuildMen.com. Find out more at www.menbuildmen.com. See our Website: MenBuildMen.comEmail: Info@MenBuildMen.com Men Build Men on Facebook Jim Nicklas on Instagram
On this episode of the Wehry Dads podcast, Coach and PJ discuss the practical steps you can take to spend meaningful time with God everyday.Check out our blog at www.candidgoatproductions.com In one house with three generations, two tired dads take life one episode at a time learning what it means to mentor, be men, and grow in spiritual maturity. Coach Pete Wehry has been coaching, mentoring, and pastoring for over thirty years. He currently serves with Nations of Coaches connecting with college basketball coaches to help them mentor their players. He has lectured on discipleship, regularly gives marriage counseling with his wife, Lisa, and serves as a life coach for business men and women. PJ Wehry runs Candid Goat, a digital agency, with his wife Becky Sue. He has a master's in philosophy of religion, homeschools his kids, Finn and Søren, and hosts Chasing Leviathan, a big questions podcast.
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Neil Kennedy is an author, speaker, and founder of FivestarMan ministries. He's authored numerous books including: FivestarMan: The Five Passions of Authentic Manhood, God's Currency: The Entrepreneurial Drive, Speaking the Father's Blessing. Today on Brave Men Neil takes us on the journey of authentic manhood. What are the five key ingredients to a fulfilled life. How do we navigate a life that is adventurous, significant and generous to others. How do we build a life that is resilient and powered by faith? Neil is a mature leader with the answers we all need to hear. Brave Men is a production of the Christian Men's Network (CMN.men). For more information on CMN or our guests please write us at Paul@CMN.men You can follow Paul on social media @paullouiscole.
In this episode, Justin and Jay continue their discussion on "A Man and his Work", calling men to be courageous in life and work, for the glory of Christ.
Do you have a tendency toward action or inaction? The Bible says faith without works is dead. Join Mark and Sarge as they unpack their self-proclaimed bias toward action as they reveal the ups, downs, lefts and rights of being born with this makeup. Depending on who you ask, a bias toward action can be seen as a blessing or a curse, an affliction or a gift. Much of this will depend on who you are and your own wiring. Don't miss this insightful and practical episode...be encouraged, be challenged and prepare to move.If you haven't already, be sure to engage with Foxhole Symphony on your go-to social media platform. Follow and share with others who you think might be encouraged by the topics we cover. And thank you, as always, for your support!Find us at:https://www.foxholesymphony.comhttps://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDw
Today, Sarge and Mark connect with their dear friend and brother, LC. Lawrence is a man on a mission focused on setting mens' hearts on fire for deep, authentic relationships with Jesus and each other. He's a passionate follower of Jesus, serial entrepreneur, radical adventurer and family man. God's taken him on a fascinating journey from full-time vocational ministry into the marketplace and it's an incredible story you won't want to miss. This episode is filled with camaraderie, stories of adventure, hardship, hope, healing and encouragement. Find us at:https://www.foxholesymphony.comhttps://www.facebook.com/foxholesymphonyhttps://www.instagram.com/foxholesymphony/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuvcXdDpE79S_D_hInblcDwMusic Credits:Shout by Richard SmithsonMusic from Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/richard-smithson/shoutLicense code: QPQ5VPGJFPSB8OTNThrive by All Good FolksMusic from Uppbeat (free for Creators!):https://uppbeat.io/t/all-good-folks/thriveLicense code: H2CHVYJ04BONRKSW