The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1032 What do you do when you're fighting with your wife and it feels like you didn't do anything wrong? How do you handle conflict without making things worse? In this episode, Doug and Chris talk through the real challenges men face when arguments come up out of nowhere. They break down what's actually going on under the surface, how to lead with calm confidence, and how to respond in a way that builds connection instead of more distance. They also share personal stories about how they've worked through conflict in their own marriages. You'll learn how to create safety, shift your energy, and set clear boundaries without backing down or giving in. This episode also covers how to turn everyday moments like cooking or cleaning into chances to build intimacy and connection. It's not about doing more. It's about showing up with intention, even in the middle of a busy life. You'll walk away with tools you can use right now to reset the tone in your home and start leading your relationship forward. If your marriage feels off and you're not sure where to start, go watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It shows you exactly what's broken and how to fix it. No guesswork, just a clear plan that works.

Episode #1031 Feeling stuck trying to figure out your purpose or what's next? You're not alone. In this episode, we dive into the real-life tension that comes when your work no longer feels aligned, but walking away from it all doesn't feel right either. Doug sits down with Austin and Alan at the TPM Ranch to talk about the difference between obsessive and harmonious passion, why so many men chase identity through career, and what it really looks like to find purpose that fits the life you want. You'll hear how both men wrestled with their own questions around passion, family, and fulfillment and how small mindset shifts helped them see what they were missing. It's a reminder that you don't need to blow everything up to build a life that feels meaningful. Sometimes, it's about reconnecting to what actually matters to you and getting honest about what's in the way. They also share stories, practical tools, and real conversations on how to reconnect with what brings you joy. Whether you need a full career shift or just a spark in your current role, this conversation will help you stop spinning your wheels and start getting clear. If your marriage feels off and you don't know where to start, watch the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You'll get a clear breakdown of what's missing and how to fix it. No guesswork. Just a step-by-step process that works.

Episode #1030 In this episode, Doug sits down with two longtime TPM members at the end of an unforgettable event at the TPM Ranch. They unpack something a lot of high-performing men wrestle with what self-love really means, how we unknowingly block it, and why most guys don't realize they're missing real male connection until they finally experience it. They talk about the weight of leadership, why so many men feel alone at the top, and how being part of a strong, honest brotherhood changes everything. You'll hear firsthand how these men broke through years of internal resistance through laughter, hard conversations, and yes, even tears and finally gave themselves permission to slow down, reconnect, and show up better for everyone around them. If you're constantly pouring into everyone else and leaving yourself last, this one's for you. Want to take the next step toward showing up better in your marriage and life? Get free access to a training that's helped thousands of men get back their power, clarity, and connection without dragging their wife into another hard conversation. Grab the training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1028 Most couples spend months planning the perfect wedding but how much time have you spent planning your actual marriage? In this episode, Doug challenges you to think beyond the big day and start treating your relationship with the same intention and energy you bring to your business. He walks through why your marriage needs a clear vision, shared values, and regular check-ins just like any successful company. Whether you've been married a year or a decade, this episode is a call to stop coasting and start building the kind of partnership you both really want. Doug breaks it down in a way that's real, practical, and doable so you can lead with clarity and purpose in your relationship, not just your work. If you're ready to stop drifting and start leading in your marriage, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's designed for busy men like you who want more out of their relationship and are ready to do something about it.

Episode #1027 In this episode, we sit down with two TPM men to talk about what it really looks like to start a new relationship after doing the work on yourself. We unpack what changes when you show up with clarity, confidence, and your own life already in alignment. They share honest stories about how their relationships shifted—not because they followed some script or played games, but because they focused on being real, doing their inner work, and raising their own standards. Whether you're newly single, dating again after a divorce, or trying to figure out what a healthy relationship even looks like, this one will help you get grounded. We talk about red flags, energy, attraction, long-distance dynamics, and how being present (with your partner, your kids, and yourself) changes everything. This isn't about chasing “the one.” It's about becoming someone who doesn't need a relationship to feel whole—but is open to one that adds to the life you've already built. Want to go deeper? Get the free training on how to reset your relationship, rebuild trust, and become the man your partner is naturally drawn to again. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1026 Most guys stick to surface-level friendships, talking sports, work, or the usual weekend plans. But deep down, there's a part of you that's craving more. Real connection, honest conversation, and support from other men who actually get it. In this episode, we're recording from the TPM Ranch during the Legends Event with men who've done the inner work and keep showing up for each other. We talk about what it's actually like to build friendships where you can drop the act, say what's really going on, and not get judged for it. The guys share how these bonds didn't just happen. They were built, rep by rep, by showing up even when it felt uncomfortable. If you've ever thought, “I don't have any men in my life I can talk to like this,” this one's for you. We talk about what to do when you feel isolated, how to start small, and why just taking one small risk to connect could change everything. Want to go deeper? If your marriage is on shaky ground or you're just feeling stuck, check out this free training: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It's straightforward, no fluff, and gives you a real path forward.

Episode #1025  What happens when you don't give your team the space to grow? They either leave for somewhere that will or they stay and go stagnant—and that's even worse. In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim break down why investing in your people isn't just a nice idea, it's essential if you want long-term success. They share stories from recent team retreats, the lessons learned from bringing people together from around the world, and why real connection goes deeper than cheesy team-building exercises. You'll hear how culture, clarity, and genuine bonding moments make a huge difference in keeping top players engaged and motivated. If you've ever wondered how to build a team that's aligned, loyal, and excited about the mission, this conversation will give you practical takeaways you can use right now. Want clarity in your own relationship the way you want clarity in your business? Get the free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It shows you exactly what's broken and gives you a step-by-step way to fix it so you can bring back the respect, love, and connection that's been missing.

Episode #1024  Ever feel like you're doing life on your own, even when you're surrounded by people? In this episode, Doug sits down with two TPM legends, Mike and Justin, to talk straight about what real camaraderie looks like, why it matters, and how it changes everything from your business to your relationships. They get into the power of being around like-minded men, how vulnerability actually builds trust (not weakness), and what happens when you stop comparing and start connecting. It's not about fake hype or locker room bravado. This is about having people in your corner who hold you to a higher standard and won't let you fall behind. You'll also hear how these guys built lasting brotherhood through shared struggles, open conversations, and calling each other out with love. If you've ever felt like something's missing in your circle or you're ready to stop lone-wolfing your growth, this episode is for you. Want to stop guessing and actually fix what's broken in your relationship? Grab your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It breaks down exactly what's not working and gives you a clear plan to get your wife looking at you the way she used to. No fluff, just results.

Episode #1023 If you've ever apologized to your wife and felt like it didn't land or made things more tense, this episode is for you. We talk about why “sorry” often falls flat, what your wife is really looking for, and how to approach conflict in a way that actually builds trust instead of just trying to smooth things over. We also break down the importance of knowing your deeper why, not just for your marriage but for yourself. Because if you're not clear on what you're really fighting for, you're just spinning your wheels. This one's about getting honest, showing up with purpose, and learning how to lead with more than just words. If you're tired of trying to fix things with quick apologies and you're ready to actually shift how you show up in your marriage, grab the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's a great place to start getting real change.

Episode #1022 In this revisit, Doug and Erin break down a common disconnect between men and women in relationships. What it really means when she's giving you feedback and how to hear it without getting defensive or shutting down. They explore how masculine and feminine energy play into communication and why so many guys misread what their partner is actually trying to say. Erin brings the female lens to the table, explaining the deeper message behind what can sometimes come off as criticism. Doug shares the patterns he sees in men who feel lost or disconnected and why this moment, when you're feeling stuck, is exactly the time to start leading again. If you've been feeling like something's off but you can't put your finger on it, this one will land. This episode is a real-world look at how small shifts in understanding can open up major changes in your relationship, your energy, and your direction. If you're ready to stop spinning your wheels and start getting real clarity, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It walks you through where things went sideways and shows you how to start getting your power and your marriage back on track.

Episode #1021 In this episode, Doug sits down with Erin to talk about what really happens in a relationship when a man feels stuck. Like he's going through the motions, checked all the boxes, but still feels like something's missing. Erin shares a raw and honest look from the woman's perspective. What it feels like to be partnered with a man who's lost his drive, passion, or sense of purpose. They dig into how that affects the marriage, the energy at home, and why it often pushes her into a role she doesn't want to play. This isn't about blame. It's about seeing what's really going on and choosing to change it. Doug also breaks down how to shift out of that fog and start building real momentum again, in life and in your relationship. If you've ever looked in the mirror and thought, “I was meant for more than this,” this one's worth a listen. If you're ready to stop settling and start leading again, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You'll get a clear breakdown of where things went off track and how to get your power and marriage back on solid ground.

Episode #1020 If you've been grinding to fix your marriage, doing the therapy, the books, the talking but nothing's changing… you're not alone. In this episode, we unpack why traditional counseling often leaves men feeling stuck, and what actually creates real connection at home. Doug and Chris share a real story of a man who spent 20 years trying to fix his marriage the “right” way, only to find out he was missing a system built for men like him. We break down the Triad of Connection, a simple, proven framework that helps you rebuild trust, intimacy, and admiration in your relationship. If you want your wife to feel safe, seen, and desired again (without feeling like you're dragging her through another exhausting “talk”), this episode is a must-listen. Take the next step! Get your free training now. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales You'll get tools you can use right away to start shifting things at home without waiting for her to change first.

Episode #1019 Ever feel like your wife has built a wall between you? Maybe she's more critical, distant, or just not as open as she used to be. In this episode, we unpack why some women “harden” over time, what signs to look for before it gets that far, and most importantly how you can help shift the dynamic. We'll break down the common mistakes men make (often without realizing it), how carrying the mental load impacts your relationship, and why simply suggesting solutions isn't enough you need to lead with action. You'll hear practical ways to create emotional safety, take pressure off her plate, and rebuild trust so she can soften and open up again. Whether your marriage feels stuck or you just want to keep it strong, this conversation is about real, actionable steps you can start using today. If you want to go deeper and learn exactly how to turn things around in your marriage without endless talks or counseling, get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales

Episode #1018 Most men think their wife isn't interested in sex anymore. But what if that's not actually true? In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife Erin for an honest conversation about what women really want in the bedroom and outside of it. Erin shares insights from her own coaching and real conversations with other wives, explaining why emotional safety, shared responsibility, and everyday connection are just as important as physical intimacy. They talk about the things most men miss when it comes to creating lasting attraction, why women shut down, and how small changes in how you show up can reignite the spark in your relationship. If you've ever felt stuck in a disconnected or sexless season, this episode gives you a clear path forward. It's direct, real, and focused on helping you create a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your partner. If things feel off in your relationship and you're not sure where to start, get the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. You'll get clarity on what's going wrong and what you can do right now to fix it.  

Episode #1017 If you're ready to grow but not sure where to start, this episode will help you figure it out. Doug sits down with TPM advisor Christopher to break down the key things to look for when you're choosing a personal development program. Whether it's for your marriage, your business, or your own mindset, not all coaching is created equal and the wrong choice can set you back more than you think. Doug shares his checklist for spotting programs that actually deliver, including what questions to ask, what red flags to watch for, and how to avoid wasting time on quick fixes or hype. They also talk about why so many men hesitate to invest in themselves and what it really costs when they don't. This is a no-fluff, straight-talking guide for any man who's serious about growth and wants to make smart moves with his time, energy, and money. If your relationship isn't where you want it to be, start by getting clarity. Go to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and get the free training. It'll show you exactly what's off and what to do next.

Episode #1016 We're bringing this conversation back because it still hits home for so many men. On the outside, Stu had everything. Successful business. Healthy kids. Good marriage. But behind closed doors, he was quietly falling apart. No one could tell, and he didn't know why. He just wasn't happy. In this episode, Stu sits down with Tim to revisit what life looked like before joining The Activation Method, the hidden cost of having it all, and the slow unraveling that almost broke everything. He shares what finally helped him pull out of that place and how he rebuilt his connection with himself and his family. It all started with one simple decision. If you're a business owner, high performer, or just a guy who feels like he's quietly losing the spark, this one is worth a listen. It's a reminder that you're not broken. You're just stuck. And there's a way forward. If your relationship feels off but you can't quite put your finger on it, this free training will help you figure out what's missing and how to fix it. https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales 

Episode #1015 A lot of guys feel stuck in their relationships but don't know where to start. They wait, overthink, or say things like, “I need to check with my wife first.” Sound familiar? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt sit down to talk about what really makes a man attractive to his partner and it's not about being perfect or waiting for permission. They get honest about what women actually want from their men, why leading yourself first is key, and how personal growth (done the right way) can totally shift your marriage. Whether your relationship feels like it's hanging by a thread or you just know there's more potential waiting, this is a real conversation that gives you clarity and a path forward. You'll walk away with a clearer understanding of what leadership looks like in a relationship, how to break out of a rut, and why taking action, even small steps, can make all the difference. Want to know exactly what's off in your relationship and how to fix it without guessing? Get access to a free training that breaks it all down. Go to https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales and start turning things around today.

Episode #1014 In this episode, Doug sits down with Scott to unpack what it really means to emotionally connect with your partner. And no, it's not about talking more or trying harder. It's about presence, vulnerability, and learning how to show up fully as a man. They talk openly about midlife struggle, emotional safety in relationships, and how most guys are chasing sex when what they're actually craving is connection. You'll hear personal stories from Scott's transformation, going from emotionally reactive to grounded and intentional, and how that shift brought his wife closer than ever. If you've ever felt like something's “off” in your marriage but couldn't quite name it, this one's worth your time. You'll walk away with real insights on what it means to truly penetrate your woman, not just physically, but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. If you're ready to rebuild connection and leadership in your marriage, check out the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. No fluff—just real, actionable tools to help you step up and lead from the front.

Episode #1013 Ever find yourself wondering why you're always the one apologizing in your relationship? You're not alone. In this episode, Doug and Tim dig into a question that comes up all the time in coaching sessions: why is it so rare for women to apologize—and what does it really mean? They break down the emotional weight behind apologies, how gender differences shape communication, and why “I'm sorry” might not come as easily for your partner as it does for you. More importantly, they walk you through what you can do about it. You'll get practical ways to create more understanding, reduce resentment, and open up honest conversations in a way that builds connection instead of conflict. If you've ever felt frustrated or confused by this dynamic, this episode gives you insight and next steps you can actually use. Want more clarity in your relationship? Get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales You'll learn exactly what's been missing and how to fix it—without guessing, overthinking, or waiting for your partner to go first.

Episode #1012 In this episode, Doug and Coach Neil break down what it really means to “eat your own cooking”—doing the work you expect others to do. It's not about having all the answers or reading the next book. It's about actually getting in the arena and being willing to trip, fall, and course correct. If you're tired of analyzing your life but still feeling stuck, this conversation is for you. Doug and Neil get honest about the fears that hold men back—especially husbands, fathers, and business leaders—and they lay out a no-fluff path to real progress. Whether it's your marriage, your health, or your mindset, they challenge you to stop waiting and start moving. Vision, accountability, action. That's the path. You don't need more motivation. You need to take the first step. Ready to get out of your head and back into action? Get your free training here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales It'll show you exactly what's not working in your relationship and what to do about it—step by step. No fluff. No theory. Just tools that work.

Episode #1011 Doug and Coach Neil get into a real, grounded conversation about what it looks like to lead at home when things are shifting—whether it's your kid pulling away for the first time or your marriage feeling a little off. They talk through the quiet stuff most men don't say out loud: feeling alone, second-guessing yourself, and wondering if you're really showing up the way you want to. This isn't about fixing your wife or your kid. It's about you. Are you actually leading, or are you hoping things sort themselves out? Doug shares a moment that stopped him in his tracks, and Neil opens up about what his son—and his ex—are still teaching him about how to show up as a man with purpose and presence. If you've been coasting or caught in blame, this episode's a chance to reset. You don't need to be perfect. But you do need to be honest. That's where change actually starts. If your marriage feels off and you're tired of guessing what to do, grab the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It's direct, clear, and gives you a real starting point without needing to bring your wife into it right away. Just you, leading from the front.

Episode #1010 Most guys don't realize they're wearing a mask. Maybe it's the “successful one,” the “nice guy,” or the “always-in-control” version of you. These masks usually start out as protection—but eventually, they just make life heavier, less real, and more exhausting. In this episode, Tim, Grant, Arthur, and Jared get honest about the masks they've worn, how those masks formed, and what it takes to actually let go of them. If you've ever caught yourself saying “Why did I just react like that?” or “Why does this keep happening to me?”—there's probably a deeper layer at play. This isn't about perfection. It's about awareness, small steps, and being surrounded by people who will tell you the truth—especially when you're slipping back into old patterns.

Episode #1009 What do you do when trust has been broken in your relationship—especially if you were the one who caused the pain? In this episode, Doug and Chris have a raw, no-fluff conversation about what it really takes to heal after betrayal. They unpack how long is “long enough” to sit in guilt, when it's time to start setting boundaries, and why beating yourself up won't rebuild connection. This isn't about quick fixes or fake apologies—it's about doing the real work: owning your part, creating a new path forward, and protecting your self-respect while also holding space for your partner's pain. Whether you're the one who broke trust or you've been betrayed, this one's going to hit home. If you've ever found yourself stuck in the cycle of shame, anger, or not knowing how to move forward—this is the conversation you need to hear.

Episode #1008 Ever find yourself resisting the very tools you know will help you? In this episode, Doug Holt sits down with fellow TPM coach Christopher Hansen to answer a powerful question from the community: “What part of the program do you struggle to live out in real life?” The conversation is refreshingly honest. They talk about slipping on routines like the Alpha Rise & Shine, avoiding conflict cleanup, and the very human reasons why even experienced coaches still fall short sometimes. It's not about being perfect - it's about being real, showing up, and staying in the work. Whether you're deep into personal development or just trying to get back on track, this one's a reminder that growth is messy, personal, and always worth it. Ready for a gut-check? Give me five minutes and I'll show you where you're really standing - no blind spots, no B.S.

Episode #1007 In this raw and honest conversation, Tim sits down with Justin McAuliffe—TPM brother, coach, and long-time volunteer at the Alpha Reset—to talk about what real change actually takes. Justin opens up about the traps so many men fall into: chasing external validation, hiding behind success, or numbing out just to get through the day. He shares how the TPM process helped him stop pretending, start feeling, and finally come home to himself—not by fixing everything overnight, but by taking small, intentional steps forward. They also unpack what happens at the Alpha Reset (without giving too much away), and why volunteering as a leader doesn't mean you've “arrived”—it just means you're still growing. If you're stuck, spinning your wheels, or secretly feeling empty despite checking all the boxes, this episode is your sign to take a deeper look.

Episode #1006 Ever get hit with a comment like “you never help around the house” and instantly go on the defensive? Yeah—most men have. In this episode, Doug sits down with TPM advisor and Alpha Reset grad Chris Hanson to break down a powerful concept: engaged indifference. It's not about shutting down or checking out. It's about staying connected while keeping your cool—especially when your partner is testing the waters. Doug shares real-life examples, coaching insights, and a few tricks to help you lead with calm, stay curious, and create the kind of emotional safety that invites real connection. You'll also hear how this tool can help you in conversations at work, with friends, and most importantly, with yourself. If you're tired of reacting and want a better way to respond, this one's worth a listen.

Episode #1005 Most guys think getting healthy means grinding harder at the gym or forcing themselves into a strict diet. But in this conversation, we go deeper. Doug sits down with Kate Abate—performance coach, former pro bodybuilder, and gerontologist—for a raw, eye-opening look at what real wellness actually looks like for men today. Kate works closely with men in The Powerful Man movement, and she's seen firsthand how physical transformation is just the tip of the iceberg. From emotional eating and decision fatigue to the pressure of always being the provider, Kate breaks down what's really holding guys back—and how to start shifting it. This isn't about doing more. It's about understanding the patterns, the expectations, and the unspoken weight most men carry—and learning how to make space for yourself again. If you've ever found yourself thinking, “I know what to do, I just don't do it,” this episode will hit home.

Episode #1003 Feel stuck in your relationship and not sure whether to work on it or walk away? In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith break down the tough questions men face when their marriage or partnership feels off. No fluff—just real talk about what it means to lead in your relationship, how to stop avoiding the hard conversations, and a simple framework to help you decide if it's time to recommit or move on. If you've been feeling disconnected, unheard, or unsure whether there's still love left, this one's for you. The guys talk about how to be the best version of yourself for 30 days, what to actually say when you're ready to speak up, and what to look for to know if your partner's still in the fight with you. Whether you're on the fence or already drifting apart, this episode will help you see the path forward—with clarity and courage.

Episode #1002 If you've been telling yourself “now's not the right time,” it might be time to take a closer look at what that's really costing you. In this episode, Doug Holt and Coach Mark Smith dive into the common trap a lot of men fall into—waiting, hoping, and putting off action in their relationships, health, and personal growth. This isn't about hype or motivation. It's about being honest with yourself, owning where you're at, and recognizing that hope alone doesn't create change—leadership does. Doug and Mark share real stories from men they've coached, what happens when guys delay action, and how taking even the smallest step can shift everything. If you've been stuck in your head, waiting for a better time, this episode is your call to stop hoping and start doing. No fluff—just real talk, practical insight, and a challenge to lead your life, not wait your way through it.

Episode #1001 Most guys have good intentions. You want to be supportive. You want to lift her up. But what if the way you respond is actually doing the opposite of what you think? In this episode, Doug sits down with Brad Holt to talk about something subtle but powerful: invalidation. It's one of the biggest blind spots men have in relationships—especially when it comes to trying to help, fix, or reassure. From phrases like “You look great” to trying to talk her out of what she's feeling, you might be accidentally sending the message that you don't really hear her. And when that happens often enough, she stops opening up. They break down how this plays out, how to spot it in real time, and what to do when you realize you've already said the wrong thing. This one's a wake-up call—and it's all about showing up with more awareness, not perfection. If you want a stronger connection with your wife, this is where to start. Not sure how you're showing up in your relationship? If you want to know where things really stand—and where you're unintentionally missing the mark—take the free Married Businessman Assessment. It only takes a few minutes, and it'll give you clear insight on how your actions are landing with your wife… and what to do next.

Episode #1000 After 1,000 episodes, we're still getting the same core questions from men: “Why won't my wife forgive me?”, “Why doesn't she feel safe?”, and “Why is nothing I do ever enough?” In this episode, we're cutting the fluff and giving you direct, honest answers. Doug and Tim reflect on what's really going on in your relationship—and how to start fixing it without trying harder or doing more of the wrong things. Whether your marriage feels stuck, your wife feels distant, or you're just tired of trying to guess what she needs, this episode is for you. It's not about chasing her approval. It's about learning to lead again—from a place of calm, grounded strength. Grab a beer (we did), press play, and let's talk man-to-man about what actually works. Want to know where things really stand in your marriage—and what to do about it? Start with a quick gut check: take the free Married Businessman Assessment to get clear on what's working, what's not, and what to do next.

Episode #999 Ever feel like you're just surviving—barely making it through the day, disconnected from your partner, and exhausted from trying to hold it all together? In this episode, Doug sits down with Jason, a husband, father, and business owner who shares the raw truth of how he went from emotional shutdown, chronic pain, and near-divorce to rebuilding connection, purpose, and real partnership. They talk honestly about what most men won't admit: the emotional weight we carry, the struggle to show up at home after long days, and how easy it is to slip into resentment. But Jason's story isn't just about hitting bottom—it's about doing the work to rise from it. He walks through the small but powerful shifts he made that helped him reconnect with his wife, become the dad he wanted to be, and find strength in vulnerability. If you've ever asked yourself, “Is this all there is?”—this conversation is for you. No fluff, no hype. Just real talk and a roadmap out of the fog. Ready to stop surviving and actually fix what's broken? If this episode hit home and you're wondering where to start, check out this free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. It walks you through exactly why things feel off in your marriage—and what you can start doing right now to turn it around. No fluff, just a clear path forward. Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #998 What if that argument about the dishes isn't really about the dishes? Most guys fall into the same trap during conflict—we react. We defend ourselves, make excuses, try to explain things, or just shut down completely. I've been there, and I used to think being “right” would solve everything. It didn't. It just made the fights last longer and left us both feeling more disconnected. In this episode, I'm bringing back a short but powerful conversation that can shift everything. I walk you through how I stopped blowing up arguments in my marriage and started turning those heated moments into connection. We dive into a simple technique I used when things were at their worst—counting to 10. Sounds basic, right? But that pause gave me just enough space to stop reacting and start listening. From there, I used what we call the Hidden Motives Technique to figure out what my wife was really trying to say underneath the complaints. In this revisit, I'll show you how to shift the dynamic, so you're not just avoiding a blowup—you're actually building more trust and intimacy. When your wife feels seen and heard, everything changes—including how she responds to you. This isn't about walking on eggshells. It's about learning to lead better during conflict. And it works.

Episode #997 Most men wait until they hit a wall before they do anything about their health. But it doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, I sit down with Jason Kidman — a tech guy turned health optimization coach — to talk about how he went from burnout and chronic pain to feeling better at 44 than he did at 29. We cover practical stuff: peptides, hormone health, biohacking (yes, without the hype), and how the system most of us rely on — doctors, meds, insurance — often fails to get us feeling better. If you're a guy in your late 30s or 40s thinking, “This is just what aging feels like,” this one's for you. Jason breaks down what's actually possible when you stop accepting brain fog, low energy, and poor sleep as your new normal. We also talk about what to do first if you're just starting out — and how small shifts can help you lead from the front as a husband, father, and business owner. No fluff. No quick fixes. Just real talk and actionable takeaways to get your health back on track.

Episode #996 How often do you find yourself being the one everyone else looks up to—but secretly wondering who's helping you rise? When you're the guy with all the answers, where do you go when you need to level up? In this episode, Tim sits down with Magoo and The Gift—two members of The Powerful Man's Inner Circle—to break down what actually happens behind the scenes of this invite-only group. These aren't just guys chasing success. They're already winning—and still choosing to be pushed, challenged, and held to a higher standard. You'll hear what it's like to be surrounded by men who won't let you shrink, even when it's uncomfortable. They talk openly about the pressure, the honesty, the moments of doubt—and how that friction creates serious growth. One-year visions are getting crushed in under five months. Guys are having the best years of their lives, and it's not by accident. In this episode, you'll hear how they're playing the game differently. And why, if you're ready for something more—this might be exactly the push you didn't know you needed.

Episode #995 In this Revisit episode, Doug and Brad Holt unpack a tough but necessary topic: what really happens when men keep secrets in their relationships. Whether it's hiding money, covering up past mistakes, or just not being honest about getting help, these lies—big or small—start to build walls. The conversation is real and direct. They share stories from the men they've coached and talk through what it actually looks like to come clean. The hard part isn't just the confession—it's facing the fear of what comes next. But if you've been carrying something around and it's starting to feel heavy, this episode might help you see another way forward. This one's not about shaming anyone. It's about getting honest, stepping into leadership, and choosing connection over control. If something in your gut says it's time to stop hiding, this is the episode to listen to. Ready to stop carrying the weight of secrets? Take the quick Relationship Scale assessment to see exactly where things stand—and what's keeping you from real connection. It's free, takes just a few minutes, and gives you a clear starting point.

Episode #994 Are you coasting through life, thinking things are “fine”—but wondering deep down if there's more? You're not alone. A lot of men come into our programs thinking they've already done the work. Marriage is solid. Business is moving. Life looks good on paper. But something still feels... off. That's the power of choosing growth when everything seems okay—before it's not. In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of the latest Rising event—a next-level experience built for men who've already done the foundational work and are now asking, What's next? You'll hear how breakthroughs happened not because of a crisis, but because the guys leaned into the discomfort of growth—even when things were already going well. From coaches stepping up with no ego, to micro-adjustments that unlocked massive shifts, this conversation reveals what's really possible when you stop settling for “good enough.” We talk about how real transformation comes from precision, presence, and the courage to go deeper—not just wider. And why waiting until things fall apart is the slowest path to where you really want to go. If you've ever thought, “I'm doing fine, I don't need that right now,” this episode might just change your mind. If you're coasting in your marriage thinking “it's fine,” that's exactly when you need to act. __________ Grab your free copy of The Married Businessman's Guide to Saving His Marriage… Without Talking About It. It's the same proven framework that's helped thousands of men go from “fine” to fully connected—without the awkward convos.

Episode #993 Ever feel like you've checked all the boxes—career, family, success—but something still doesn't feel right? You're not alone. And more importantly, you're not broken. In this episode, Tim Matthews is joined by Gregory “Dynamite” and Derek “The Redwood” for a down-to-earth conversation about what it really means to feel lost as a man. They get honest about the times in their lives when they realized they were completely off track—and what it took to admit it, face it, and find their way forward. This isn't about having a breakdown. It's about having a breakthrough. They share what it feels like to build a life that looks great on the outside, but doesn't feel right on the inside. The pressure to have the answers. The temptation to sedate with work, alcohol, or just staying busy. The fear of admitting you're not sure who you are anymore. But they also dive into the shift that happens when you stop fighting that feeling—and start listening to it. In this episode, you'll hear how spending time in nature, reconnecting with purpose, and leaning on brotherhood helped each of them move from feeling trapped to truly alive again. If you've ever wondered, “How did I get here?”—this conversation is for you. Sometimes being lost isn't a problem. It's a wake-up call. And it might be exactly what you need to finally find yourself. Feeling lost in your marriage too? Just like in life, the first step to fixing a relationship is admitting you're not where you want to be. This free training shows you exactly how to get clarity, connection, and that spark back.

Episode #992 Are you doing everything “right” in your marriage—and still watching the connection fade? In this special revisit episode, we're bringing back one of our most downloaded conversations that hits hard for a reason. We break down the five subtle but damaging “nice guy” habits that well-intentioned men fall into—habits that quietly kill attraction and connection over time. From being indecisive… To constantly checking in with her emotions… To overgiving while your own tank runs dry… These behaviors might feel like love, but they're often rooted in fear, insecurity, or hidden expectations. In this episode, you'll hear why trying to please your wife isn't the same as leading her… and why true intimacy starts with getting honest about where you've been playing small or playing safe. This one's for the man who's tired of walking on eggshells and is ready to show up with purpose, clarity, and strength—without losing his heart in the process. If you've ever said, “I do everything for her, and it's still not enough,” this revisit is exactly what you need to hear. Not sure which of these “nice guy” habits might be holding you back? Take the free Activation Method Marriage Scale and get clarity fast.

Episode #991 What if selling your business doesn't bring the freedom you expected—but instead leaves you feeling lost? It happens more than you'd think. Too many business owners stay in the game too long, clinging to stress, burnout, or an outdated identity because they're unsure of what's next. Others rush into an exit thinking it'll solve everything, only to realize the money didn't bring clarity—or peace. In this episode, you'll hear from Gary and Derek—two men who've navigated the emotional dynamics of exiting their businesses. One built his company from the ground up and sold it after more than 30 years. The other has gone through four exits and knows what it's like to buy in with the clear intention of getting out. They talk openly about the warning signs they ignored, the personal toll of hanging on too long, and the surprising relief that came from admitting, “I'm done.” You'll also hear how The Powerful Man played a crucial role in helping them step into what's next—with intention, confidence, and clarity. In this episode, you'll get a behind-the-scenes look at what it really takes to leave a business well. Not just with a solid deal—but with your marriage, your health, and your purpose intact. If you've been quietly wondering, “Is it time to let go?”... this conversation is your answer. Want to save your marriage without endless talking or therapy? Grab your free copy of A Man's Guide to Saving His Marriage — just cover shipping.

Episode #990 In this honest, no-fluff episode, Tim, Gary, and Mark open up about something most men never talk about—sexual abuse. They unpack how silence and shame shaped their lives, relationships, and how they saw themselves as men. But this conversation isn't about staying stuck in the past. It's about what happens when you finally tell the truth. You'll hear how opening up became the turning point—not just for healing, but for building real connection, trust, and confidence again. If you've ever felt like there's a part of your story you can't share, or if you're carrying something heavy and silent, this one might hit home. This is for the guy who needs to know he's not alone—and that there's a path forward, even if it doesn't feel like it yet. Ready to stop carrying it alone? If this episode stirred something in you—if you're tired of hiding, tired of feeling stuck—there's a next step. Check out this free training that breaks down why so many men feel disconnected in their relationships and how to start rebuilding that trust and connection—starting with yourself. You're not broken. You just haven't had the right tools—until now. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #989 Can you stay calm and confident—even when your wife is testing your limits? We're bringing this one back for a reason. If you've ever found yourself defending, explaining, or reacting in frustration during conflict… this episode is for you. Because how you show up in those moments—especially when your buttons are pushed—is the difference between a marriage that grows and one that keeps falling into the same fight. In this episode, Doug and Brad break down what it really means to practice "engaged indifference." This isn't about being cold or checked out. It's about being fully present, fully grounded—and totally unshaken by someone else's emotional storm. When you lead this way, you become the lighthouse your wife can count on, no matter how rough the waters get. They also dig into why being reactive turns your wife into your mother (yep, it happens), how to lead with curiosity instead of control, and how to stop tying your self-worth to your wife's mood. You'll hear personal stories, practical tools, and the exact mindset shift that makes deep intimacy—and real leadership—possible again. Revisit this one. Because showing up as the lighthouse isn't just about avoiding drama. It's how you earn trust, spark connection, and lead from a place of strength—even when it's hard. Think you're showing up—but not sure it's enough? Take the free Hidden Motions in Marriage assessment to find out where you're really at. ⚖️ Start here: https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #988 What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things? Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They've built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you'll hear how one man's struggle to say “no” led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit. In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark Smith, and David Mason as they explore what happens when you stop hiding behind productivity and finally start honoring what you really want. They unpack how unresolved childhood trauma shows up in your “yes,” how saying no can feel dangerous when you were never taught it was safe—and how learning to say “yes” without a “but” can radically shift your business, marriage, and life. You'll also hear how David went from working 90-hour weeks to taking 3-day weekends—without losing momentum. And the surprising shift that made his business more successful while he finally felt at peace, connected, and fully alive. If you're ready to stop chasing validation and start leading with purpose, this is your episode. Listen now. Your “yes” might be waiting. Feel like you're doing everything right but still drifting from your wife? This free book will show you how to reconnect—without long talks or therapy.

Episode #987 What if the key to stronger connection isn't about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are? Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka “The Love Power”—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters. They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You'll hear how something as simple as saying “I love you” can completely shift a relationship—even in the middle of a heated disagreement. In this episode, they talk about how knowing yourself can expose hidden triggers, like emotional eating, and how those subtle shifts can create massive change. They reflect on why real connection often gets lost in the day-to-day grind—and how men can reclaim it by owning their truth and leading from love. This is one of those conversations that reminds you: the work isn't about being perfect—it's about being honest. With yourself first. Then with the people who matter most.

Episode #986 You're trying to move forward. You've apologized. You've changed. But the past keeps showing up in your marriage like it just happened yesterday. Every time things start to feel good again, she brings up the affair, the betrayal, or whatever broke the trust—and it knocks the wind out of both of you. In this episode, Doug walks through exactly why that keeps happening and what you can do about it. Not with quick fixes or guilt trips, but with real tools that help her feel safe again. You'll learn how to create the kind of emotional safety that allows her to finally exhale—and how to stay grounded when the past gets brought up, again. This isn't about defending yourself. It's about leading the relationship forward, even if you're the one who caused the pain. If you're serious about rebuilding connection, this conversation is where you start. Want to rebuild trust and stop living in the shadow of the past? Grab the free book and learn how to fix your marriage—starting with emotional safety and real connection.

Episode #985 What does it really mean to be present for your kids—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally? And how do you balance that presence with the pressure you put on yourself to be a better man, husband, and leader? In this episode, one father opens up about the raw and honest journey of leveling up—not just as a dad, but as a man. You'll hear how stepping into deeper accountability led to a powerful realization: the standards we hold ourselves to can also become silent contracts that impact our relationships. We dive into what happens when you stop trying to fix others and start leading with understanding. The conversation explores how to break patterns of judgment, how to truly connect with your children (especially daughters), and why being the “lighthouse” for your family sometimes means taking time to recharge your own bulb. You'll also hear about the surprising shifts that come from doing men's work—not just once, but consistently—and how doing this work together brings clarity, confidence, and a deeper connection to purpose. No fluff. Just real stories from real men doing the work—together. Feel like you're doing everything right but still drifting from your wife? This free book will show you how to reconnect—without long talks or therapy.

Episode #984 Do you ever feel like it's your job to make sure everyone else is happy—your wife, your kids, your team—and somehow, it never quite works? You're not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into a common (and exhausting) trap many high-achieving men fall into: trying to take responsibility for other people's emotions. It feels noble at first—like you're being a great husband, father, or leader. But at what cost? You'll hear personal stories and hard-won lessons about how this pattern often stems from childhood conditioning, religious or cultural expectations, and the desire to create peace and safety. And more importantly, you'll learn what to do about it. This one's a real conversation—unscripted, honest, and revealing. No fluff. Just the stuff that gets in your way and how to get past it. Tired of carrying everyone's happiness but losing your own? Watch the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales to learn why that's happening—and how to turn it around so your wife looks at you like her man again. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #983 Ever find yourself holding back appreciation from your wife because you're not feeling seen yourself? Yeah, I've been there too. In this episode, Andrew and I dive deep into how something as simple as daily gratitude can completely shift your energy—and change the way you show up in your marriage, business, and life. We talk about what happens when you stop looking for what's missing and start appreciating what's already there. This isn't some fluffy gratitude journal talk. We're talking about real, practical ways to use gratitude—even when things feel hard. Like when you're trying to co-parent with your ex. Or when you're waking up at 2 AM with stress. Or when you're biting your tongue in a tough conversation and trying not to blow up. You'll also hear a personal story I've never shared before—the moment I snapped out of a downward spiral thanks to a random triathlon on TV and a guy running without legs. It changed everything for me. In this episode, we unpack how to keep your gratitude practice real (not forced), how it helps you lead better conversations, and why most guys totally overlook the power of being grateful for yourself. Because the truth is, you can't lead your family or your business if you're constantly running on fumes and resentment. Gratitude flips that. Whether your marriage is struggling or you just want to reconnect with your purpose as a man—this is where you start. Feel like you've tried everything to fix your marriage—but nothing's landing? You don't need another long talk. You need a new approach. Grab A Man's Guide to Saving His Marriage Without Talking About It on Amazon and learn the exact steps to lead your relationship back to connection, respect, and passion—without forcing awkward conversations.

Episode #982 What happens when you do everything “right” in your marriage… and it still falls apart? In this episode, Andrew opens up about the painful unraveling of his relationship and how it forced him to face the one person he'd been avoiding—himself. Like a lot of men, he came into the work hoping to fix his marriage. What he ended up doing was far more powerful: he found himself. This isn't just a story of divorce. It's a story of identity, ownership, and the kind of growth most men never allow themselves to experience. Andrew talks openly about the moment he realized his marriage couldn't be saved—and how that loss became the catalyst for becoming a better man, father, and leader. In this episode, you'll hear how suppressing emotions kept him stuck, how real transformation came when he stopped blaming and started owning his part, and how doing “the work” gave him clarity—not just in relationships, but in who he is as a man. Andrew doesn't just share his wins—he shares his breaking point, the uncomfortable truths, and the exact shifts that helped him go from reactive to grounded. You'll also hear why women are so drawn to men who do this work, and how showing up with no agenda is the real game changer in love and leadership. If you've ever felt lost in your role as a husband, father, or businessman—or like you're succeeding everywhere except at home—this conversation will hit home. Don't just listen to this one. Let it challenge you. Feel like you've lost yourself trying to fix your marriage? Get the clarity and tools that helped Andrew—and so many others—lead with purpose, not pressure.

Episode #981 Ever found yourself wondering, “Shouldn't I be further along by now?” You've done the work. You've read the books. Maybe you've even joined a few programs. And yet... there's still something missing. In this episode, I sit down with Arthur Magruniti—one of our lead coaches and a guy who's not just talked about growth, but actually lived it. We have a real, honest conversation about what it actually looks like to keep growing year after year—without burning out or chasing the next shiny thing. We talk about how most men only think they know what they want—and how the real breakthroughs happen when you realize what you actually need. Whether you're dealing with struggles in your marriage, stuck in your business, or just feeling disconnected from who you really are, there's something in here for you. You'll also hear why so many guys who've already “done the work” keep coming back, and what separates the ones who just consume information from the ones who actually transform. This isn't about perfection or chasing some big life overhaul. It's about getting honest with yourself, taking the next right step, and finding out what's truly possible when you stop trying to figure it all out alone. If you're ready to stop circling the same mountain and finally move forward—this is where you start. Struggling in your marriage? If the stress is piling up and the connection with your wife is fading, I've got something for you. I want to buy you a copy of my book, A Man's Guide to Saving Your Marriage Without Talking About It. No fluff. Just real, proven steps to bring back the love and respect. You cover shipping—I'll cover the book. Ready to see where you're really at? If you're tired of guessing and want a clear snapshot of what's working—and what's not—take the free assessment we mentioned in the episode. It only takes a couple of minutes and gives you instant clarity on where you need to focus.

Episode #980 What do you do when your wife says the words you never thought you'd hear—“I don't want to be married anymore”? If you're hearing that now, chances are she's been thinking it for years. This isn't sudden for her. It's a breaking point. In this REVISIT episode, we're going back to one of the most crucial conversations a married man can have—how to respond when your wife emotionally checks out, or worse, tells you she's done. This is a moment where most men panic, try to fix things fast, or shut down completely. But there's another way. You'll learn why women often plan their exit quietly over months or even years, and how your default reactions—defensiveness, excuses, or shutting down—only push her further away. We'll talk through what creates emotional safety, how to respond calmly without losing your ground, and why your self-care might be the key to getting her back. This isn't about manipulating her. It's about becoming the man who can truly hold space, hear her pain, and give the relationship a fighting chance.