The Powerful Man Show

Episode #985 What does it really mean to be present for your kids—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally? And how do you balance that presence with the pressure you put on yourself to be a better man, husband, and leader? In this episode, one father opens up about the raw and honest journey of leveling up—not just as a dad, but as a man. You'll hear how stepping into deeper accountability led to a powerful realization: the standards we hold ourselves to can also become silent contracts that impact our relationships. We dive into what happens when you stop trying to fix others and start leading with understanding. The conversation explores how to break patterns of judgment, how to truly connect with your children (especially daughters), and why being the “lighthouse” for your family sometimes means taking time to recharge your own bulb. You'll also hear about the surprising shifts that come from doing men's work—not just once, but consistently—and how doing this work together brings clarity, confidence, and a deeper connection to purpose. No fluff. Just real stories from real men doing the work—together. Feel like you're doing everything right but still drifting from your wife? This free book will show you how to reconnect—without long talks or therapy.

Episode #984 Do you ever feel like it's your job to make sure everyone else is happy—your wife, your kids, your team—and somehow, it never quite works? You're not alone. In this episode, we dive deep into a common (and exhausting) trap many high-achieving men fall into: trying to take responsibility for other people's emotions. It feels noble at first—like you're being a great husband, father, or leader. But at what cost? You'll hear personal stories and hard-won lessons about how this pattern often stems from childhood conditioning, religious or cultural expectations, and the desire to create peace and safety. And more importantly, you'll learn what to do about it. This one's a real conversation—unscripted, honest, and revealing. No fluff. Just the stuff that gets in your way and how to get past it. Tired of carrying everyone's happiness but losing your own? Watch the free training at fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales to learn why that's happening—and how to turn it around so your wife looks at you like her man again. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #983 Ever find yourself holding back appreciation from your wife because you're not feeling seen yourself? Yeah, I've been there too. In this episode, Andrew and I dive deep into how something as simple as daily gratitude can completely shift your energy—and change the way you show up in your marriage, business, and life. We talk about what happens when you stop looking for what's missing and start appreciating what's already there. This isn't some fluffy gratitude journal talk. We're talking about real, practical ways to use gratitude—even when things feel hard. Like when you're trying to co-parent with your ex. Or when you're waking up at 2 AM with stress. Or when you're biting your tongue in a tough conversation and trying not to blow up. You'll also hear a personal story I've never shared before—the moment I snapped out of a downward spiral thanks to a random triathlon on TV and a guy running without legs. It changed everything for me. In this episode, we unpack how to keep your gratitude practice real (not forced), how it helps you lead better conversations, and why most guys totally overlook the power of being grateful for yourself. Because the truth is, you can't lead your family or your business if you're constantly running on fumes and resentment. Gratitude flips that. Whether your marriage is struggling or you just want to reconnect with your purpose as a man—this is where you start. Feel like you've tried everything to fix your marriage—but nothing's landing? You don't need another long talk. You need a new approach. Grab A Man's Guide to Saving His Marriage Without Talking About It on Amazon and learn the exact steps to lead your relationship back to connection, respect, and passion—without forcing awkward conversations.

Episode #982 What happens when you do everything “right” in your marriage… and it still falls apart? In this episode, Andrew opens up about the painful unraveling of his relationship and how it forced him to face the one person he'd been avoiding—himself. Like a lot of men, he came into the work hoping to fix his marriage. What he ended up doing was far more powerful: he found himself. This isn't just a story of divorce. It's a story of identity, ownership, and the kind of growth most men never allow themselves to experience. Andrew talks openly about the moment he realized his marriage couldn't be saved—and how that loss became the catalyst for becoming a better man, father, and leader. In this episode, you'll hear how suppressing emotions kept him stuck, how real transformation came when he stopped blaming and started owning his part, and how doing “the work” gave him clarity—not just in relationships, but in who he is as a man. Andrew doesn't just share his wins—he shares his breaking point, the uncomfortable truths, and the exact shifts that helped him go from reactive to grounded. You'll also hear why women are so drawn to men who do this work, and how showing up with no agenda is the real game changer in love and leadership. If you've ever felt lost in your role as a husband, father, or businessman—or like you're succeeding everywhere except at home—this conversation will hit home. Don't just listen to this one. Let it challenge you. Feel like you've lost yourself trying to fix your marriage? Get the clarity and tools that helped Andrew—and so many others—lead with purpose, not pressure.

Episode #981 Ever found yourself wondering, “Shouldn't I be further along by now?” You've done the work. You've read the books. Maybe you've even joined a few programs. And yet... there's still something missing. In this episode, I sit down with Arthur Magruniti—one of our lead coaches and a guy who's not just talked about growth, but actually lived it. We have a real, honest conversation about what it actually looks like to keep growing year after year—without burning out or chasing the next shiny thing. We talk about how most men only think they know what they want—and how the real breakthroughs happen when you realize what you actually need. Whether you're dealing with struggles in your marriage, stuck in your business, or just feeling disconnected from who you really are, there's something in here for you. You'll also hear why so many guys who've already “done the work” keep coming back, and what separates the ones who just consume information from the ones who actually transform. This isn't about perfection or chasing some big life overhaul. It's about getting honest with yourself, taking the next right step, and finding out what's truly possible when you stop trying to figure it all out alone. If you're ready to stop circling the same mountain and finally move forward—this is where you start. Struggling in your marriage? If the stress is piling up and the connection with your wife is fading, I've got something for you. I want to buy you a copy of my book, A Man's Guide to Saving Your Marriage Without Talking About It. No fluff. Just real, proven steps to bring back the love and respect. You cover shipping—I'll cover the book. Ready to see where you're really at? If you're tired of guessing and want a clear snapshot of what's working—and what's not—take the free assessment we mentioned in the episode. It only takes a couple of minutes and gives you instant clarity on where you need to focus.

Episode #980 What do you do when your wife says the words you never thought you'd hear—“I don't want to be married anymore”? If you're hearing that now, chances are she's been thinking it for years. This isn't sudden for her. It's a breaking point. In this REVISIT episode, we're going back to one of the most crucial conversations a married man can have—how to respond when your wife emotionally checks out, or worse, tells you she's done. This is a moment where most men panic, try to fix things fast, or shut down completely. But there's another way. You'll learn why women often plan their exit quietly over months or even years, and how your default reactions—defensiveness, excuses, or shutting down—only push her further away. We'll talk through what creates emotional safety, how to respond calmly without losing your ground, and why your self-care might be the key to getting her back. This isn't about manipulating her. It's about becoming the man who can truly hold space, hear her pain, and give the relationship a fighting chance.

Episode #979 At some point, almost every married man asks himself the same question: Did I marry the wrong woman? Maybe she doesn't laugh at your jokes anymore. She's not interested in your stories. She seems distant, disconnected—and truth be told, you're starting to wonder if life would be easier with someone else. In this REVISIT episode, we're bringing back a powerful and timely conversation for any man who feels stuck in a marriage that's lost its spark. The truth is, most guys were never taught how to actually make marriage work. We weren't handed the tools to handle resentment, missed expectations, or emotional distance. So when things start to fall apart, we assume we chose the wrong partner—when in reality, we might just be missing the right approach. This episode breaks down why those thoughts of doubt creep in, how resentment quietly builds, and what you can do to clean the slate and reconnect. We'll cover the Triad of Connection—a framework to rebuild emotional safety, get real connection back, and spark the passion you thought was gone for good. You might not need a new wife. You might just need a new strategy. Still wondering if she's the wrong woman—or if something deeper's going on? Take the free 2-minute Marriage Scale Assessment to get the clarity you need—before it's too late. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #978 Ever feel like you've done everything “right” as a husband and provider—yet your marriage still feels off? That's exactly where Matt Euler found himself. In this REVISIT episode, we bring back a powerful conversation that's still just as relevant for high-achieving men today. Matt opens up about how chasing business success left him drained, disconnected, and dangerously close to losing his marriage. This is more than just a success story. It's a raw look at what happens when men ignore the early signs and keep grinding, hoping everything will somehow fix itself. Spoiler alert: it won't. In this episode, you'll hear how Matt went from burnout and panic attacks to reclaiming his marriage, his health, and his purpose. You'll learn what changed when he joined The Activation Method—and why he believes The Brotherhood gave him the deep male relationships he didn't know he was missing. We're revisiting this episode because Matt's story continues to resonate with men who feel alone, overworked, and unsure if they can pull their marriage back together. If that sounds like you—you're not alone, and this episode is for you.  

Episode #977 Are you coming home feeling anxious, short-tempered, or just plain drained? Does it feel like the pressure from work, your relationship, and everything else is piling on at once? In this episode, I sit down with Master Coach Mark Smith to tackle stress, anxiety, and overwhelm—the stuff that sneaks up on every man, especially those trying to lead at home and at work. We talk about what causes this state, how it shows up in your daily life, and most importantly, how to get back in control. It's not about perfection—it's about learning how to reset quickly and show up powerfully. Mark and I share real-life examples from our own lives and coaching experience, including: Why overwhelm makes you a weaker husband, father, and leader How to stop bringing that chaotic energy into your home A simple decompression routine that your wife will support The 5 go-to tools for turning stress into strength What to do when guilt makes you feel like you're always failing In this episode, you'll learn how to create space for yourself, own your energy, and shift out of reaction mode so you can lead with clarity and confidence. This one's real, raw, and packed with tools you can use today. Struggling in your marriage? If the stress is piling up and the connection with your wife is fading, I've got something for you. I want to buy you a copy of my book, A Man's Guide to Saving Your Marriage Without Talking About It. No fluff. Just real, proven steps to bring back the love and respect. You cover shipping—I'll cover the book. Not sure how bad things really are at home? If stress and overwhelm are creeping into your marriage, take 2 minutes to find out where you really stand.

Episode #976 In this episode, Tim and Arthur dive into a powerful metaphor that hits home for a lot of men: are you leading like a lighthouse, or grinding yourself down like a tugboat? A tugboat works hard, constantly pushing and pulling, trying to keep everything afloat—whether it's in business, marriage, or life in general. But a lighthouse? It stands firm. It doesn't chase or convince. It guides. Too many men fall into the tugboat trap—trying to please everyone, dodging conflict, letting things slide to “keep the peace,” and losing themselves in the process. The result? Burnout, resentment, and relationships that lack real respect. Tim and Arthur get honest about what it looks like to lead from strength instead of stress, and how standards, boundaries, and presence can completely shift the way you show up. You'll hear hard-won lessons, relatable stories, and clear, actionable steps you can take right now to stop reacting and start leading. Whether it's setting red lines in your relationship, breaking free from codependency, or reclaiming your own voice—you'll walk away from this episode with more clarity, more confidence, and a better sense of who you're becoming. This one's a wake-up call—with the tools to actually do something about it. If this episode hit home, it's time to stop guessing and start leading.

Episode #975 What if the reason your life feels flat isn't your job, your relationship, or your body—but the fact that you've stopped living on your edge? In this episode, we dive into what it really means to live to your edge—not just physically, but emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and mentally. Tim and Arthur break down why so many men slowly drift into mediocrity without even realizing it, and how that shows up in a distant marriage, a dull business, or just waking up every day feeling a little... gray. This isn't about doing more. It's about doing what actually lights you up—about reconnecting with the part of you that once felt unstoppable, confident, and clear. You'll hear practical ways men are challenging themselves daily inside The Powerful Man movement—from cold plunges and fasting to having real conversations and owning their truth in the bedroom and beyond. In this episode, you'll learn what's really on the other side of discomfort—and why leaning into your edge might just be the fastest way to become the man your wife, your kids, and you remember and respect. Because the guy you used to be? He's not gone. He's just waiting for you at the edge. Feel like your wife barely sees you anymore? Chances are, you've pulled back from your edge—and it's costing you your marriage. That's why I want to send you a free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. No fluff. Just real tools that actually work. I'll buy the book. You cover shipping. Grab your copy now—link's in the show notes.   If this episode hit home, it's time to stop guessing and start leading.

Episode #974 What do you do when your wife criticizes you in front of your kids? Worse—what if she starts pulling them onto “her team” against you? In this revisit episode, we're bringing back a powerful conversation that struck a chord with a lot of men. It's all about what to do when your wife starts undermining you in front of your children—something that's not only painful but can seriously impact your family dynamic if left unchecked. We'll get into why this might be happening, the damage it causes, and what to do when your instinct is to either shut down or fire back. You'll hear how to calmly take the lead, have the hard conversations, set boundaries that stick, and uncover the real reason this is happening in the first place. If you've been in this situation—or want to be prepared in case it ever happens—this episode is worth another listen. Because how you respond in these moments matters… a lot. Let's revisit the playbook and make sure you're ready. Ready to stop walking on eggshells and start leading at home again? Take the free Hidden Triggers in Your Marriage Assessment and find out what's really throwing off the balance between you and your wife.

Episode #973 Ever wonder what staying stuck is actually costing you—not just financially, but emotionally and mentally? We're bringing back this episode because it struck a nerve with so many men. It's one of those conversations that hits differently the second time around—especially if you've been feeling that quiet pull to make a change but haven't moved yet. In this episode, we revisit a powerful concept that came out of a conversation with a high-level business consultant who uses a dead-simple method to get results: calculate the real cost of doing nothing. Not hypothetically—actually write it down. And not just for business, but for your marriage, your health, and your sense of purpose. You'll hear real-world examples of what men lose by hesitating—relationships, time with their kids, even businesses. And you'll get a straight-up challenge: write down the five core areas of your life and ask yourself, “What is inaction costing me here?” This isn't about guilt. It's about clarity—and then making moves that matter. If you're in a season where you're waiting for the “right time,” this revisit might be exactly what you need to hear today.

Episode #972 Ever made a joke that didn't land—but didn't realize until later how deep it cut? We originally released this episode a while back, but it hit home for so many men that we knew it was worth revisiting. If you've ever found yourself thinking, “I'm just joking—what's the big deal?” this might be the perspective shift you didn't know you needed. In this conversation, we get real about the difference between light-hearted teasing and the kind of humor that slowly chips away at trust. We share how even a small joke can come across as criticism, especially when the emotional “bank account” in your relationship is running low. You'll hear why your wife might not find your teasing funny, how to read the energy behind your jokes, and what to do when your humor starts creating distance instead of connection. If laughter really is the best medicine, we need to make sure we're not using it as a weapon.

Episode #971 What if the very thing driving your success is keeping you from feeling fulfilled? A lot of high-performing men are caught in the loop of "once I get this... then I'll finally be happy." Sound familiar? Maybe it's sex, money, business goals, or even just recognition from your wife. But here's the thing: that finish line keeps moving. In this episode, Tim and Arthur unpack a hard truth—chasing happiness through external validation never ends well. They share real stories from men inside the movement (including one powerful breakthrough around intimacy and fulfillment) and dig into why so many of us resist feeling content, even when we say that's all we want. You'll hear how being grateful doesn't mean giving up your edge, why internal validation is a more powerful driver than any goal, and how to make the shift from "pushed by pain" to "pulled by pleasure." If you're tired of hustling without feeling like you've arrived anywhere, this one's for you. Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales You'll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #970 Ever looked around at your life—good income, solid marriage, maybe even some investment wins—and still felt totally disconnected? You're not alone. A lot of high-performing men find themselves here. On paper, life checks all the boxes... but something feels off. That quiet frustration grows, and before long, you're stuck in your head, spinning your wheels, and silently wondering, “Is this it?” In this episode, Arthur Magoulianiti shares his raw and real journey from engineer to successful property investor to personal growth junkie—only to find himself lost and lacking purpose. He opens up about the internal struggle he faced, the toll it took on his marriage, and the powerful transformation that finally pulled him out of the fog. You'll hear: What “being lost” really feels like (and why logic alone won't fix it) Why consuming more books, podcasts, and motivation might be making it worse The surprising moment Arthur realized how much he had been judging himself How men unknowingly carry emotional weight that drains them What actually works when you're ready to reconnect with purpose, power, and passion In this episode, you'll learn how the feeling of being "stuck" isn't a personal flaw—it's a sign that you've outgrown where you are. Arthur's story and lessons provide a roadmap for any man ready to shift from confusion to clarity, from burnout to energized purpose. Ready to Turn Things Around? Click the link below and grab your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. I'm buying the book for you—just cover the shipping. No fluff, no drawn-out therapy talk. Just a proven step-by-step plan to bring the love, respect, and connection back into your marriage. Ready to stop guessing and start fixing your relationship?  Hit play on the free training here: thepowerfulman.com/scales You'll walk away knowing exactly where things went off track—and how to bring it all back. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #969 Why do high-achieving men so often feel stuck, numb, or just... off? They've got the job, the house, the family—and yet inside, it's like something's broken. That's exactly what we unpack in this episode. In this episode, Tim Matthews and Arthur Magulianiti pull back the curtain on the Alpha Reset—a powerful in-person experience that's helped thousands of men stop spinning in their heads and start leading from a place of strength and authenticity. You'll hear what really happens behind closed doors during the Reset, and why men say it's the first time they've truly felt alive in years. We talk masks, emotional suppression, suicidal thoughts, the burden men silently carry, and what it means to stop proving and start leading—from the heart, not just the head. From emotional breakthroughs to the quiet confidence that returns when a man drops the BS and owns who he is—this is a raw, unfiltered look at the journey so many guys are craving but rarely talk about. Want That Look From Your Wife Again? Watch this free training to find out exactly what's missing—and how to fix it. No fluff. Just a clear path to bring back the love, respect, and intimacy.

Episode #968 Ever have a song take you back to a moment in your life—instantly? That's not just nostalgia. It's your nervous system responding to sound. In this episode, I sit down with Levi Goins, the man we call the “ranch wizard” at TPM—but today, we're tapping into one of his true gifts: the healing power of personalized music. Levi's been quietly changing lives behind the scenes using custom music therapy tracks. We're talking about music that's actually designed to anchor you into the man you want to be—whether that's the calm leader walking through your front door or the powerful father fully present with his kids. We get into how sound affects your emotional state, how to create music that becomes a personal trigger for peace, presence, or energy—and why even guys with zero musical talent (like me) can do this. This isn't about learning an instrument. It's about creating something that sticks with you, wherever you go, and gets you back to your best. You don't need a playlist. You need a personal soundtrack.

Episode #967 Ever feel like your body just doesn't bounce back like it used to? You're not alone—and it's not just about getting older. In this episode, I'm joined once again by Dr. Phil Batterson, PhD in exercise physiology, to talk about something most guys overlook: recovery. We dive into why your body might feel stiff, tired, or inflamed… even when you're “doing all the right things.” The truth? Most men are overtraining and under-recovering. And that's exactly why their results suck. We break down how to build a fitness routine that actually fits your life, how stress is crushing your gains, and why things like sleep, breathwork, and protein matter way more than your fancy supplements or ice baths. In this episode, you'll learn what an effective weekly plan looks like for the average high-performing man, why three days a week might be all you need, and how to structure recovery to actually feel better, not worse. This one's for the guy who's grinding in business, trying to be there for his family—and still wants to feel like an athlete without burning out. You don't need to do more. You just need to do it smarter.

Episode #966 What if the biggest threat to your health isn't your diet or your workout routine—but the shape of your cardiovascular system? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Phil Batterson, a VO₂ Max and cardio health expert, who also happens to be the guy that recently tortured me with a fitness test. And by tortured, I mean he showed me where I was really at. We dig into what VO₂ Max actually means in plain English—and why it's one of the most powerful predictors of how long you'll live. Seriously. This isn't about becoming an elite athlete. It's about being able to chase your kids around the yard, keep up with your wife in bed, and not get winded during pickup basketball. Dr. Phil shares why most guys are training wrong for their goals, how you can get way better results in way less time, and why individualized testing beats generic workout plans every single time. In this episode, you'll hear how I got tested, what surprised me most, and what every man should be doing right now to take back control of their health. You don't need to be perfect. You just need to know where you are—and start.

Episode #965 Feel like you're just going through the motions—with no real direction? If you're waking up each day wondering, “Is this it?”, you're not alone. A lot of guys struggle with setting a clear vision for their lives and marriages. And when you don't have one, you end up drifting... reacting instead of leading. In this episode, Chris and I talk about why so many men avoid setting a personal and relational vision—and how to actually get started (even if you feel stuck or overwhelmed). We break it down into a practical process that helps you define what you do want by first identifying what you don't. From sex to shared goals, from where you live to how you connect—it's all on the table. We also share real stories from the Alpha Reset and how just six weeks after setting a vision, one man's entire life shifted—including his marriage and where he lived. This isn't some fluffy “manifest your dream life” stuff—it's a grounded, actionable approach to leading with clarity and creating the life and relationship you actually want. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #964 When was the last time you actually had fun with your wife? Not a “get dinner and talk about the kids” kind of night. Not a “watch TV and pass out on the couch” evening. Actual, flirtatious, playful, can't-wait-to-get-you-alone kind of fun. In this episode, Chris and I talk about something we don't hear enough—fun. Specifically, how a lot of men have traded playfulness for predictability... and how it's killing the spark in their marriage. We unpack what it really means to become the Chief Fun Officer (CFO) in your relationship—not just with your kids, but with your wife and especially in the bedroom. You'll will get some creative (and hilarious) ideas for dates, flirting, and reigniting bedroom passion that feels more like play than performance. This isn't about being silly. It's about being present and playful—the way you were when your relationship first started. Because when you're having fun, she gets to feel desired, seen, and safe… and everything changes. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #963 What if the fear of rocking the boat is exactly what's sinking your relationship? Too many men are quietly stuck—avoiding tough conversations, tiptoeing around decisions, and hoping things somehow just…get better. But that hesitation? It's costing you your peace, your leadership, and the connection you crave with your wife. In this episode, Chris Hansen and I get real about what's actually holding men back. We dig into how fear shows up in marriage, how indecision slowly erodes intimacy, and why taking back leadership doesn't mean being a jerk—it means showing up. You'll hear stories from real coaching conversations where men were scared to set boundaries, afraid to commit to change, or just stuck in that familiar “messy middle.” We break down the identity traps, the ego plays, and the excuses that keep men stuck—and what to do instead. Whether you're feeling stuck in your marriage, your career, or your own head—this one's for you. It's time to stop sitting on the fence and start stepping into the man you know you're capable of being. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #962 When's the last time your wife gave you that look—the one that says, “I want you”? If it's been a minute, you're not alone. A lot of married guys find themselves in that same spot… and yeah, it probably means your Sexual Market Value (SMV) isn't where it used to be. In this episode, Coach Chris and I unpack what SMV actually means for men in long-term relationships. And no, it's not just about being in shape or dressing sharp. It's about the way you carry yourself, how much self-respect you have, and whether you're still showing up like the man she was once drawn to. We also get into the difference between real confidence and just going through the motions. A lot of men don't even realize how far they've drifted until they either catch a glimpse in the mirror—or hear some hard truth from another man. If you've been thinking, “I'm doing everything I should… so why does she seem checked out?”—this conversation might hit close to home. You'll hear how to start rebuilding that quiet, steady confidence that naturally draws people in—especially your wife. We're not talking gimmicks or trying to be someone you're not. Just simple, real-world actions that help you feel solid in your own skin again. And it all starts with self-respect—not chasing approval. So if you've been feeling kind of invisible at home, and you're ready to start leading with presence and purpose again—yeah, this one's for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #961 Ever feel like you're tiptoeing around in your own house? You're doing everything you can to keep things calm—avoiding conflict, keeping quiet, trying not to rock the boat. But deep down, it's eating at you. And here's the tough part: that silence? It might be making things worse. In this episode, I'm talking with Coach Chris Hansen from our Navigate program about something a lot of guys wrestle with—setting and holding boundaries in their relationships. We get into why it's so damn hard, and how avoiding it usually just leads to more resentment, distance, and disconnect at home. This isn't some high-level theory talk. We get into real stuff—actual examples of what setting a boundary really looks like, and how to do it without blowing everything up. We talk about why your wife might not be taking your boundaries seriously—and how to shift that. We also get into the difference between a boundary, a want, and an agreement. (Hint: mixing those up? It causes way more problems than you think.) One of the biggest takeaways? Most guys are accidentally teaching their wives to ignore them—and it's not because they're weak or passive. It's just a pattern they've never noticed. But one honest convo (the kind we usually avoid) can change a lot. We wrap it up by looking at what actually creates respect and connection—and no, it's not raising your voice. Vulnerability, done right, changes everything. When you start showing up differently, the whole dynamic starts to shift. So if you're sick of feeling like your needs don't matter, or like you're always coming in last—this one's worth a listen. You'll walk away with some clear tools to start leading your relationship with more clarity, confidence, and calm. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.  

Episode #960 Ever catch yourself staring in the mirror thinking, “This can't be it… right?” That quiet pull, like there's gotta be more to life—but you're not even sure what “more” means anymore? Yeah. You're not the only one. In this episode, we get into what a lot of people call a midlife crisis—but we see it differently. We call it a midlife awakening. Steve and Mark, two of our Alpha Reset coaches, join me for a real conversation about what it actually looks like to hit that wall… and then move through it. These guys have walked with a lot of men through some serious turning points, and they don't sugarcoat it. We dig into: The silent weight a lot of men carry around without even realizing it Why reading all the self-help books in the world won't move the needle unless you're willing to get uncomfortable What it means when your “little boy” shows up in your marriage—and why your wife feels it even if you don't How most men are chasing a “dream life” they've never actually defined And yeah… we even talk about a guy who had a realization about his own ashes that completely changed where he chose to live—while he was still alive This one's not about fixing yourself. It's about waking up to what's real—and maybe starting to live like you mean it. So if you've been saying “livin' the dream” with an eye roll and a tired laugh… might be time to find out what your real dream actually looks like. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.  

Episode #959 Ever feel like you're doing everything “right” but still not getting what you want—from your wife, your business, or even yourself? In this episode, I sit down with Gary, known in The Powerful Man community as the Gentle Warrior. He opens up about how he went from being the classic “nice guy”—quiet, accommodating, but secretly frustrated—to a man who leads his life with purpose, clarity, and confidence. This isn't a story about a perfect turnaround. It's about doing the real, messy work. Gary gets honest about the anger and shame he didn't even know he was carrying, how he woke up to the truth of a marriage built on obligation, and why ending it was the most loving thing he could do for them both. But the most powerful shift? He stopped trying to earn love—and started showing up as a man who already knows his worth. And that's when everything changed. We talk about what it's like to be seen and respected by other men, how community accelerates growth, and why volunteering at the Alpha Reset hit him harder than his own Reset did. You'll also hear the unexpected way he met the love of his life—when he wasn't even looking. In this episode, you'll get a front-row seat to what it really looks like when a man stops hiding, owns his story, and finally takes the lead—not just in his relationship, but in every area of his life. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

What happens when two of our top coaches stop coaching—and step into the Alpha Reset as participants? That's exactly what Mike and Neil did. In this episode, they open up about the resistance that came up before the Reset, what it took to drop the ego, and what it really means to lead from the front—not just for others, but for themselves. Mike shares the moment he FaceTimed his wife right after it ended. She just stared at him, smiling. “You look different,” she said. “I like this Mike.” That moment? That was the result. Right there. Neil's story is quieter—but just as powerful. He didn't come home and give a big speech. He didn't have to. His son just felt it. The calm. The shift. The safety. No words needed. In this episode, you'll hear: What it looks like when high-level coaches stop leading and start doing the deeper work Why emotional safety is a game-changer—for your marriage and your kids The real reason so many men blame their wives (hint: it's not about her) How showing up differently creates a ripple effect across your entire home This isn't about theory. It's about doing the work—especially when no one's watching. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

What happens when a man hits his limit... and decides not to fold? In this episode, I sit down with Eric and Weston—two guys who went through the Alpha Reset and came out the other side different men. Now? They're giving back and helping other men do the same. We get into what brought them to The Powerful Man, how their marriages shifted, and what they really discovered about themselves along the way. Weston opens up about how hard it was to actually connect with his wife—even though the love was there. And Eric? He was ready to walk away from 25 years of marriage, hoping a new car or a bigger paycheck would fix the emptiness. (Spoiler: it didn't.) Here's what you'll hear in this one: What finally got these guys to stop pretending everything was fine The internal tug-of-war a lot of Christian men feel in marriage Why being truly seen by other men changes everything What it's like to walk into a Reset one guy... and leave someone else entirely How volunteering after the Reset brought even more clarity and growth Truth is, most men are silently struggling, thinking they're alone. They're not. This episode dives into what happens when you drop the guilt, shame, and anger—and finally lead from a place of honesty and strength. You'll see why so many men say the Alpha Reset was the turning point. Not just for them, but for everything. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #956 Why do so many men struggle in silence when it comes to mental health? And more importantly, what can we do about it? In this episode, I sit down with Sean Stiller, a psychotherapist with over 16 years of experience, to tackle the tough conversations around suicide, depression, and hopelessness—topics that impact more men than we often realize. Sean breaks down the common misconceptions surrounding mental health, the warning signs to watch for, and, most importantly, how to shift from feeling hopeless to finding real hope. We also dive into: ✔️ Why high-achieving men often struggle with depression ✔️ How our beliefs and identity can unknowingly trap us in pain ✔️ The subtle (but powerful) mindset shift that changes everything ✔️ Practical steps to help yourself—or someone you love—through dark times If you've ever felt stuck, lost, or like you're carrying the weight of the world alone, this episode is for you. You're not alone, and there is a way forward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #955 Ever feel like you're walking on eggshells in your marriage? You want your wife to feel emotionally safe, but you also don't want to lose yourself in the process. So, how do you strike the right balance? In this episode, we're breaking down what emotional safety really means for women and how you can create it without becoming someone you're not. We'll talk about how to clear the past so old arguments stop coming up, how to communicate in a way that actually lands, and how to stay grounded when things get tough. We're also tackling a big question: how do you lead at home, at work, and with friends without feeling completely drained? If you've ever struggled to set boundaries or find time for yourself, this one's for you. And for the guys looking to keep date nights fresh, we've got some creative ideas to keep things fun and connected. If you've been feeling stuck in your marriage—or just want to step up as a stronger, more confident leader—this episode will give you real, actionable steps to make an immediate impact. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #954 Why is it so hard for men to express their emotions in relationships? In this episode, I sit down with Chris to tackle the challenge of male vulnerability and emotional connection. We dive into real questions from men struggling to open up, rebuild trust, and navigate past mistakes without losing their sense of masculinity. We explore why society conditions men to suppress their emotions and how to break free from that pattern. You'll hear about a powerful way to reconnect with your emotions that doesn't make you feel weak. We also get into what it really takes to rebuild trust after hurting your partner, and how leading emotionally can actually make you more attractive in your marriage. If you've ever felt stuck when it comes to emotional connection, this episode is for you. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #953 Most men don't even realize they're living in quiet desperation—until they finally break free. When your marriage feels off, your business is harder, your energy is lower, and you're just grinding through the motions, it's easy to think this is just “normal.” But what if it's not? In this revisit episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive deep into why so many high-achieving men struggle—not just in marriage, but in life. They reveal how the same tools that restore relationships also transform businesses, health, and personal fulfillment. You'll discover: Why anxiety quietly erodes your business and decision-making. How regaining confidence in your marriage spills over into every area of life. The hidden habits keeping you stuck—and how to break free. What successful men do differently to create lasting change. If you've ever felt like you're just “getting by” instead of thriving, this episode is for you. Take action—because this is about more than your marriage. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #952 What happens when men truly support each other—without ego, without judgment, and with real accountability? In this revisit episode, Doug Holt sits down with Chris Hartig and Matt, two men who've walked the path of transformation through The Powerful Man movement. They share their raw experiences of growth, blind spots, and the power of having a brotherhood that pushes you to be better. Whether it's business, marriage, or personal leadership, this conversation will challenge you to ask: Who's in your corner? Take a moment to reflect—are you leading, or just getting by? __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #951 When was the last time you got truly curious about your wife? Not just about what she's doing, but who she's becoming? In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM advisor Chris tackle a common challenge: emotional distance in marriage. Many men unknowingly stop seeing their wives as evolving individuals, leading to stagnation in communication and intimacy. We answer real questions from TPM listeners, including: How to give your wife space without triggering her fear of abandonment Simple ways to break through emotional walls and spark meaningful conversations The importance of reinforcing emotional safety (hint: you need to say it more than once) Easy, actionable strategies to keep curiosity alive in your marriage If your relationship feels a little off, this episode is for you. Tune in and start reconnecting today.

Episode #950 We're revisiting one of the most important topics for married businessmen—how to lead in your marriage without slipping into controlling behavior. Many men struggle with finding the balance between taking charge and being overbearing. In this episode, Doug Holt breaks down: The key difference between leadership and control How to be the “lighthouse” in your marriage and inspire your wife to follow your lead Why controlling behavior often comes from fear—and how to shift out of it Practical ways to take charge without pushing your wife away If you want to step up as a leader in your marriage without micromanaging or dictating, this is an episode worth revisiting. Tune in now! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #949 We're bringing back this powerful episode because it's one of the most important conversations we've had about marriage. Ever felt like you and your wife are growing apart? Maybe she's pulling away, and you're wondering if you even care anymore. You might even be asking yourself, Did I marry the wrong woman? In this revisit, we break down a common pattern that leads men to disconnect emotionally—and how to shift it. We'll explore: Why uncertainty in your marriage creates distance and what to do about it How your energy impacts her response (and why she might be pulling away) The 30-day challenge that can transform your marriage The key mindset shift that separates men who lead from those who drift This isn't about waiting for her to change. It's about you stepping up, consistently. If your marriage feels stuck, this episode is your wake-up call. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #948 We're revisiting one of the most powerful mindset shifts that can completely change your marriage, your relationships, and even your business. Ever find yourself in a pointless argument with your wife, wondering how a simple comment turned into a full-blown standoff? What if the key to avoiding these conflicts—and building deeper connection—was easier than you thought? In this throwback episode, I break down a simple but game-changing perspective shift that helped one of my clients go from constant tension to a thriving marriage and stronger family bonds. And the best part? It also transformed his success in business. Here's what you'll get from this episode: - A practical mindset shift that eliminates unnecessary conflict - How assuming positive intent can instantly improve your marriage - Why this small change creates massive impact in all areas of life If you missed this episode the first time, or just need a reminder, this is your chance to revisit a key insight that can take your relationships to the next level. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #947 If you've ever felt stuck in your relationship—repeating the same arguments, feeling disconnected, or struggling to understand why you react the way you do—this episode is for you. We're revisiting a powerful conversation with men's coach Casey DeCharneux, diving deep into the impact of early attachment on your adult relationships. Your patterns didn't just appear overnight; they were shaped from a young age. The good news? Once you understand them, you can start rewriting the script. Doug and Casey break down why attachment issues show up in marriage, how unconscious patterns drive your reactions, and what to do when rejection triggers you. They also explore why many men turn to sedation—whether it's work, alcohol, or distraction—and how to break free from cycles that aren't serving you. If you're ready to stop repeating the past and start creating a relationship built on real connection and trust, this is an episode worth hearing again. Listen now and take the next step toward deeper connection. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #946 How do you raise confident, self-assured kids in a world that constantly challenges their self-worth? As parents, we all want to set our children up for success—but are we doing enough to instill resilience, self-love, and a strong sense of identity? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt share real, actionable strategies they use to parent with intention. They discuss simple but powerful habits that help children develop emotional intelligence, confidence, and inner strength. From using positive language and mirror affirmations to modeling self-care and teaching accountability, they break down ways to create a home environment where kids feel safe, loved, and empowered. They also dive into the importance of how you frame conversations with your children, why leading by example is the most effective teaching tool, and how small daily interactions shape their long-term mindset. Whether you're a dad looking for ways to connect with your kids or a couple wanting to parent with more purpose, this episode gives you the tools to make a lasting impact. Listen now and start building the foundation for your child's lifelong confidence. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #945 What do you do when you're committed to personal growth, but your partner isn't? How can you encourage them without making them feel judged or pressured? In this episode, Doug and Chris break down a common struggle for men—wanting their wife to invest in herself but not knowing how to support her in a way that actually works. They reveal why pushing too hard can backfire, why leading by example is the most powerful strategy, and how to create a space where growth happens naturally. They discuss the difference between sharing your journey with excitement versus telling your wife what she “should” do. Doug opens up about his own experiences, the lessons he's learned, and how he's seen transformation happen in relationships when men focus on becoming the best version of themselves first. If you've ever felt frustrated watching your partner stay stuck while you evolve, this conversation will give you the clarity and tools to lead in a way that inspires—not pressures. Listen now and start leading by example. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #944 Too many couples get stuck in a cycle of waiting—waiting for their partner to change, waiting for things to get better, waiting for the right moment. But what if you made the first move? In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the real dynamics of marriage, why so many women initiate divorce, and what men can do to step up before it's too late. They break down the patterns that push couples apart, the hidden signals men often miss, and the power of taking ownership—without waiting for permission. Whether your marriage feels disconnected or you just want to deepen your connection, this episode is packed with practical insights on leadership, trust, and building a stronger relationship.

Episode #943 Ever found yourself reacting in the heat of the moment—only to regret it later? Whether it's frustration with your wife, your kids, or even a stranger cutting you off in traffic, anger can quickly take control if you don't have the right tools to manage it. In this episode, Doug Holt and TPM Advisor Christopher tackle a crucial question from a listener: How do you calm yourself when anger arises or when past issues resurface in your relationship? They break down practical techniques to help you stay grounded, process emotions, and avoid falling into the same old patterns. You'll discover how breathwork can reset your emotions before you react and why shifting your mindset can turn conflict into deeper connection. Doug and Chris also explore how to reframe past hurts so they don't control your present, why unresolved issues keep resurfacing, and what you can do to finally break free. They introduce the "Clean Slate" method—a powerful way to wipe the past clean and move forward in your marriage without carrying old wounds. If you're tired of anger running the show, this episode is for you. Take control, build stronger relationships, and show up as the man you want to be.

Episode #942 Ever feel like you and your wife are more like roommates than partners? You're not alone. Over time, responsibilities pile up, communication fades, and connection slips away—but it doesn't have to stay that way. In this episode, Doug sits down with his wife, Erin Holt, to tackle one of the most common questions men ask: How do I reconnect with my wife? They break down the real reasons relationships drift apart and share practical steps to bring back intimacy, trust, and playfulness in your marriage. They discuss the small, everyday moments that determine whether you grow closer or further apart. Ignoring bids for connection can quietly destroy your relationship, while simple shifts in attention and energy can rebuild it. Doug and Erin dive into why embracing your natural masculine leadership sparks deeper intimacy and how understanding the balance between masculine and feminine energy keeps attraction strong. They also explain why thriving as individuals leads to a stronger, more passionate marriage. This isn't just theory—it's real, actionable advice that works. Whether you're trying to reignite passion or simply strengthen your bond, this conversation will give you the tools to lead in your marriage with confidence. Listen now and start making the changes your relationship needs. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #941 Are you shutting down your emotions without even realizing it? Many men do—pushing down anger, regret, and fear in an attempt to stay "even-keeled." But here's the truth: when you numb the hard emotions, you also numb the joy, passion, and fulfillment you crave. In this episode, Doug and Andy dive deep into emotional intelligence and what it really means to be strong. They unpack: Why suppressing emotions limits your happiness How vulnerability is a sign of strength, not weakness The real meaning behind anger—and how to use it constructively Why emotional attunement makes you a better partner, leader, and man If you've ever been told you're "emotionally unavailable" or struggled to connect with your wife on a deeper level, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now and take the first step toward unlocking your full emotional potential. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #940 Ever feel hesitant to ask your wife for what you truly want—whether it's more appreciation, intimacy, or support—because you're afraid of coming across as needy? You're not alone. Many men struggle with this, and the way you ask can make all the difference. In this episode, Doug and Christopher break down exactly how to communicate your needs with confidence so your wife actually wants to meet them. You'll learn why hesitation makes your wife test you, how to avoid the “nice guy” trap, and what it really means to show up as a grounded, masculine leader in your relationship. They dive into why your wife pushes back when you hesitate, how to make a strong request without sounding weak or demanding, and the secret energetic shift that makes a man irresistibly attractive. When you approach conversations from a place of confidence instead of expectation, your relationship changes for the better. If you're ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start leading with confidence, this episode is for you. Listen now and take action! __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #939 Are you just going through the motions, telling yourself that things aren't that bad? Many men stay stuck in “comfortable” but unfulfilling relationships, careers, and routines—because the fear of change feels worse than the reality of staying put. In this episode, Doug and Chris break down the hidden cost of settling for average—especially in your marriage. They talk about why so many men avoid the tough conversations, how fear of rejection keeps guys stuck, and the real reason your wife might not be showing up for you the way you want. Plus, they share actionable steps to reclaim your confidence, take ownership of your life, and step into the man you're meant to be. You'll learn: Why "playing it safe" is often the fastest way to lose everything How to break free from the patterns keeping you stuck in your marriage The #1 thing men get wrong about their wife's lack of intimacy How to stop feeling like “just a paycheck” and build real connection The power of taking action—even when you don't have all the answers If you're tired of settling and ready to step up, this episode is for you. Listen now and start making a change today. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #938 Feeling stuck? Lost motivation? You're not alone. That's why we're bringing back one of our most powerful episodes to help you break free and regain your momentum. In this Revisit Episode of The TPM Show, Doug and Tim share practical strategies to get back on track when life knocks you down. Whether it's in your health, relationships, or business, they reveal how to shift from inaction to progress—without waiting for motivation to magically appear. You'll rediscover: Why waiting for motivation is a losing game—and what to do instead The small, imperfect actions that create massive change How to reconnect with your "why" and sustain your drive The mindset shifts that turn setbacks into comebacks If you've been feeling off your game, this episode is your wake-up call. Listen now and take the first step toward reigniting your passion. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #937 Many successful men secretly struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don't truly deserve their success or fearing they'll be “found out.” This internal battle can rob them of happiness, even when they've achieved everything they thought would make them feel fulfilled. In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into why imposter syndrome shows up, how it keeps men stuck, and what can be done to break free. They share insights on shifting mindset, building real confidence through simple daily habits, and why having the right group of men around can make all the difference. If self-doubt has ever held you back, this conversation will help reframe your perspective and show you how to step into your full potential. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #936 Ever feel like you're stuck in limbo, not sure which way to go? What if I told you that staying on the fence is actually a decision—and usually not a good one? In this episode, Coach Chris joins me to talk about why taking action is the key to getting unstuck in your relationships, business, and life. We break down the Five Territories—Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business—and how to figure out where you need to focus first. Plus, we dive into why indecision is one of the biggest killers of attraction in a marriage (yes, even when it's just picking a place for dinner). In this episode, we cover: Why “not making a choice” is actually a choice The power of decisiveness in your marriage and life How to evaluate and balance the Five Territories The simple habit that can keep you on track Why men who take action see the biggest results If you've been waiting for the “right time” to step up, this is your wake-up call. Tune in now and start making choices that actually move you forward. __________ Hungry for more? Head over to our Bonus page for special access to some of the deeper tactics and techniques we've developed at The Powerful Man.

Episode #935 This powerful episode struck a chord with so many of you, so we're bringing it back for another listen. How long does it take for someone to truly believe you've changed? In this revisited episode, Doug unpacks the story of a man determined to rebuild his marriage after years of emotional distance. Despite his efforts, his wife remains cautious—why is trust so hard to regain, and how do you earn it back? Doug revisits the critical lessons about consistency, vulnerability, and showing up as your authentic self. Discover why even small missteps can trigger old fears, and learn how calling out your own imperfections can pave the way to deeper connection and trust. Whether you're rebuilding a relationship or striving to be the best version of yourself, this timeless episode is packed with actionable advice to help you lead with confidence and authenticity.