Apta Sophia Podcast

On this episode we talk about our principles/philosophy on screen time generally, and video games specifically, when it comes to what we engage in as a family within our own homes. We also talk about some pitfalls Christians can encounter when thinking through these issues. Listen and be encouraged.

On this episode we discuss the concept of "mother culture" that is popular in the Charlotte Mason philosophy of education, and how this could compliment a biblical view of self-care. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss the importance of treating your work in the home like a REAL job - of approaching your tasks with intentionality and efficiency, and the importance of making space for planning and prep so that you can be successful in these endeavors. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we talk about all of the ways a home-focused woman benefits her household MONETARILY. That's right my friends - we are talking cold hard cash. Even if your work in the home does not lead to an official paycheck, you are making a positive and measurable financial impact on your household. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode Kristin and her son Knox discuss the classic novel The Secret Garden, and their takeaways on how to be a friend.

On this episode we discuss the importance of preparing our daughters for their role in the home by educating them for more than the domestic arts. Listen and be encouraged!

In this episode we discuss our tendency to compare our home practices and pursuits to the women we see online or in real life, and how important it is to have solid biblical convictions but to hold them in such a way that they impact your own practice but do not lead you to judge others or meddle in their affairs. There are principles we can agree on in scripture, but the application is going to look different from person to person and family to family. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss the Tradwife movement, and how important it is for any pursuit of right gender roles within the family to be tethered to a biblical worldview and a Christian vision for the family. Listen and be encouraged.

On this episode we discuss the idea that there is a division between sacred and secular in the work that we do in the world, and how this unbiblical distinction has impacted our ability to see that as we serve our neighbor, even in the most menial ways, we serve the Lord. The people we serve are masks of God. Listen and be encouraged.

On this episode we discuss oath making and the importance of being women who do what we say and know how to hold back from making commitments and promises we cannot keep. Listen and be encouraged.

On this episode we discuss the importance of avoiding the common temptation to label our kids, especially when we are labeling them according to their individual weaknesses and sin habits. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss what it looks like to handle a repentant child's doubts over whether they have truly been forgiven for their sin. We discuss what their concern could be pointing to, and how to coach our children to take their thoughts captive and stand on biblical truth in spite of their feelings. Listen and be encouraged!

We get a little spicy in this episode, and discuss some homeschool myths that are less frequently addressed - Is it important to enroll our children in a public (or private) school so that they might be exposed to sin and learn from their their failures? Is homeschooling just "Plan B" if private school is too expensive? Do boys NEED to be enrolled somewhere outside of the home in order to grow into the men God calls them to be? Listen in and be encouraged.

The title says it all! On this episode we discuss the benefits of a plain, direct, systematic reading through of the scriptures with our children, and we focus on the sufficiency of this practice as the "bible curriculum" in our homeschool day.

On this episode we talk about our approach to two of the most common parenting demands - settling disputes over coveted toys and handling the infamous tattle-tale. Listen in and be encouraged!

On this episode we talk about what scripture calls us to as the friend of those in hard circumstances. We talk about practical ways we can be a support, and dive deep into discussion over various pitfalls our friends may face when they're in pain and how we can offer a hand out of the ditch instead up jumping into it with them. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we are interviewing Sean-David McGoran, who is a veteran homeschool dad, lifelong musician, and the founder and director of The Tuned in Academy in Olympia WA. We talk about what music reveals to us about our Creator, why it's important to incorporate music education in the schooling of our children, and why we should pursue it ourselves in our everyday lives. Listen and be encouraged!

Mother's Day can bring all manner of temptation to weary mothers who are desperate for rest, recognition, and grand romantic gestures. So we decided to work through a battle plan for mamas who, like us, would like to make it through the day without allowing unmet expectations to turn us into bitter Betties. What is at the root of it all? What can we do, practically, to keep our head where it should be? Listen and be encouraged.

On this episode we talk about the importance of generosity towards those in our household - especially our children! We discuss material generosity and general open-handedness with our time, as well as the importance of having a godly and joyful attitude when much is asked of us. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we talk about what has become in many Christian circles the "office" of Pastor's Wife. We work through some of the unbiblical expectations placed on her shoulders, and talk about the importance of her ministry to her own household.

On this episode we talk about surviving cold and flu season, from practical tips and tricks to good guidelines on what to expect with a house full of kids and when to stay home and keep those germs to yourself. Take a listen and be equipped!

On this episode we discuss "Mommy Wine Culture". How should we handle alcohol as mamas stretched thin? Is it okay to unwind with a nightly glass, or two, or three? We know wine is a blessing - a means to relax and to lift the spirit - but where do we draw biblical lines and set wise boundaries for ourselves as Christian women? Listen and be encouraged.

So often we succumb to the temptation to push our husband down the priority list, when the Lord has called and created us to be his helper and companion. We give everyone else our best and give our husband "the leftovers". On this episode we talk about ways that a married woman can be intentional about investing in her relationship with her husband. We also discuss ways that we can and should be considerate of his needs and preferences. Listen in and be encouraged.

One this episode we interview Rachel Lane, who works for Human Coalition, a national pro-life organization that serves women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy. Human Coalition works with pregnancy centers all over the country and also owns and operates their own women's care clinics providing medical care, social services/resources, and counseling to mothers. Rachel has a passion for both rescuing the unborn from death and extending hope to women in hard circumstances. Listen in, this is a tough topic, but we hope you are encouraged and equipped through our conversation!

On this episode we interview our pastor, Dr. Brant Bosserman, on the topic of forgiveness. What is forgiveness? To whom is it due? Does God require us to forgive all those who sin against us, or only those who have met certain requirements? When should we overlook an offense, and when do we have a duty to confront someone? Listen in, this is one you won't want to miss!

On this episode we discuss the topic of meekness - what IS meekness? How do we cultivate this quality? How do we pursue meekness in the way that we approach our work and our roles as women in the home and outside of it? Listen in and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss taking pleasure in our work as homemakers - Why it is imperative that we do so, how it connects to our life's purpose: to glorify and enjoy God, and what we can do to savor the graces that He weaves into even the hardest of circumstances. Listen and be encouraged!

On this episode we discuss homeschooling, the myths and the realities - what about socialization? Are mothers qualified to provide an education for their child? Is there "one right way" to educate a child? What is the primary goal of educating our children? Listen in and be encouraged!

On this episode we reflect on our various postpartum experiences, and share tips/wisdom we've picked up along the way. We discuss breastfeeding, after-pains, sleep deprivation, bed rest, post-partum depression, and a myriad of other common challenges mamas face in those first weeks/months after baby is born.

On this episode we discuss how we should view the challenges we encounter in life, and how we should bring our grievances before the Lord. We work through the difference between grumbling/complaining and obeying the command to cast our cares on God in prayer.

On this episode we discuss how familial sin cycles are broken in Christ. We discuss how we should approach our reflections on our childhood, confronting sins committed by our parents, taking responsibility for our own sin, setting new patterns in our own family, and most importantly.. where we can find true healing and restoration - Jesus.

On this episode we talk about how the concept of self-esteem, and the cultural push to pursue it, fits (or doesn't fit) into the Christian life. We focus heavily on where we should and should not find our identity and establish our value as individuals. We work through various pitfalls and common sources of self-worth that rob us of true security in Christ. Take a listen, we hope this episode is a blessing to you!

On this episode we discuss prayer. What is it? What is the extent of our duty to engage in it? What should we pray for? How do we get out of a prayer slump, when every word seems pointless drudgery and our minds are quick to wander? Take a listen, we hope you're encouraged in the practice of prayer.

In this episode we discuss what it looks like (and doesn't look like) to set biblical boundaries in relationships. We dive into our relationships with our parents, our spouses, friendships, and relationships in the church. We cover what our ACTUAL duties are in each of these circumstances and give practical tips on boundary setting when lines are crossed. This is one you won't want to miss!

In this episode we discuss what our priorities should be as we are working in the home, and how to balance those priorities when there is a practical need to keep your home clean, your kids bathed, and your fridge full. We work through what scripture has to say about sloth and productivity, and how our expectations are shaped by instagram posts and comparing ourselves to others.

Part 2 of our conversation with Young and Wifed up - In this half of the convo we talk more about what it means to win our husbands (without a word), the importance/role of the local church body in the life of unequally yoked spouses, and practical ways we can support women who are in this specific circumstance.

In this episode we were invited to join our friends at Young and Wifed Up for an interview on the topic of the unequally yoked marriage. Ash shares her personal experience from before her husbands conversion, and we all discuss biblical wisdom for women who find themselves in this circumstance or for women who want to support someone who is unequally yoked. This is part 1 of 2! Part 2 will be released next week.

On this episode we discuss ways that we can make the family dinner table a joyful place where our families are blessed by and brought near to the Lord.

In our loosiest goosiest, least theologically driven podcast episode yet (and probably ever), we kick back and talk about our favorite things - makeup, gadgets, apps, podcasts, books, the works! We hope you enjoy some laid back schmoozery, and get some good ideas while you're here!

We are back after a holiday hiatus! On this episode we are joined by a very special guest, Kristin's son Knox Hedgcock! We spend the episode doing something we don't do too much of - shootin the breeze. We discuss fast food hacks and our tried and true kid hacks (from quick breakfasts, to nap schedules, homeschool tips, and more)! Listen in, we've missed you!

On this episode we interview our Pastor, Dr. Brant Bosserman, on the topic of the marriage bed. We go deep into the theological implications in our approach to sexual intimacy, what it means to keep the marriage bed pure, how to maintain sexual fidelity, the importance of maintaining healthy and regular communication with your spouse, the dangers of pornography use.. and more. This isn't one you'll want to miss! Disclaimer: Though our discussion is tasteful and careful, this episode best suited for adult ears.

On this episode we interview Elder Scott Hedgcock on the topic of money and marriage - what are some common issues that can crop up in regard to finances? How can we avoid them? How should we think about building and managing wealth biblically? Listen in!

On this episode we talk about how we should think about personal possessions - how we aquire them, how we manage them, and when it's wise to let them go. We talk about consumerism, minimalism, the extremes on both sides, and how to strike a biblical balance. *WARNING: Our would you rather question involved discussing the possibility of carpeted bathrooms - which led to some puke/poop stories you may want to skip over, fast forward to 6:50 if thats you!

On this episode we continue our discussion on the myth of neutrality. Dive a little deeper with us as we discuss how this impacts our view of education, politics, parenting, friendship, and apologetics.

One this episode we talk about the myth of neutrality, as it pertains to theology, morality, and worldview as a whole. We also start working through how this popular cultural mythological "virtue" has infiltrated our thinking in our approach to evangelism, our personal lives, and the way we approach the application of God's law.

With the passing of her daughter Kayla, Sonya shares her journey of grief, trial and renewed hope in Christ. Join us as we glean wisdom from this mom of 8.

On this episode we discuss the fear of man. What is it? Why is it dangerous? How does it creep in to the way that we parent our children? Listen in and be encouraged!

On this episode we deal with the topic of anger, especially as it relates to parenting. We tackle questions like: What is the difference between righteous and unrighteous anger? What are some lies that we believe that lead us into unjustified anger? What are some practical ways to avoid and war against the temptation to sin in our anger?

On this episode we discuss ways that we can encourage and aid others in their pursuit of joy - in our marriages, in our parenting, and in the local church.

On this episode we talk about JOY - What is it? Where do we get it? What is it rooted in? How can we pursue it?

Join us as we discuss navigating friendship in the age of social media - the benefits, the pitfalls, the opportunity, and the danger.