ReconstructHER Podcast

We are officially on the LAST episode of The ReconstructHER Podcast! Back on August 11, 2020 at 11:11pm, I felt God download 30 episode topics that would later become this podcast. Today's episode is so timely to what this entire journey has been for me and that's OBEDIENCE! I pray that as you listen, you will feel encouraged to just start with what you have. If God has placed something on your heart to do, GIRL JUST DO IT! I love you all so much and look forward to what God has next for me to do! Feel free to share The ReconstructHER Podcast with another woman in your life that may need to hear it! Follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER as well as my personal page @Lashawnda.Michelle Also be sure to leave a RATING and REVIEW to help this podcast continue to reach women all around the world! Definition: Obedience - an act or instance of obeying. (merriam-webster) Earnestly - with sincere and intense conviction; seriously. (oxford languages) Biblical References: Hebrews 11:6 NIV - "And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him." Hebrews 11:8 NIV - "By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going." Matthew 6:33 NLT - "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously and He will give you everything you need." Jeremiah 29:11 NIV - "For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

What if I told you that stepping into all that God has called you to do was as simple as just starting? On today's episode, "Age", I speak about how no matter what season of life you are in, God is looking for you to have FAITH paired with ACTION in order to receive all that He has purposed for you! If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to leave a COMMENT down in the RATINGS and REVIEW section of my showpage as well as SHARE this episode with another woman in your life! Doing so allows this message to reach women all around the world! To keep up with me on Instagram, follow me @ReconstructHER. Thank you so much for listening and your continued support! Definitions: Age - a distinct period of history. (oxford languages) Steward - the careful and responsible management of something entrusted to one's care. (merriam-webster) Establish - to make firm or stable, to introduce and cause to grow and multiply. (merriam-webster) Biblical References: Jeremiah 1:5 NIV - "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations." Ephesians 2:10 NIV - "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Proverbs 16:9 AMP - "A man's mind plans his way (as he journeys through life), But the Lord directs his steps and establishes them." Galatians 6:4 NLT - "Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won't need to compare yourself to anyone else. For we are each responsible for our own conduct." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

As we get ready to close out this year, what things are you believing God for in 2024? On today's episode, I speak about the principle of "Gratitude", and how as we are believing God for what's next we are to praise Him in the hallway! I pray that this episode will leave you feeling encouraged to simply thank God for all that He's done and what's He's getting ready to do! If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share it with another woman in your life! SUBSCRIBE to the podcast show page as well as FOLLOW ME on Instagram @ReconstructHER! Definition: Gratitude - (noun) the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. Biblical References: 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NLT) - "Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you who belong to Christ Jesus." Luke 16:10, 12 (NLT) - "If you are faithful in little things, you will be faithful in large ones. If you are dishonest in little things, you won't be honest with greater responsibilities.", "And if you are not faithful with other people's things, why should you be trusted with things of your own." Galatians 6:7-8 (NIV) - "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever found yourself asking God the question, "what's next?" Well in today's episode, Episode 27 - "Cleanliness", I speak about the three things God has been teaching me about how to keep our hearts and minds clean as we move forward into all that God has for us! Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to my podcast show page as well as SHARE this episode with another woman in your life that may need to hear it! You can also follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! Definitions: cleanliness (noun) - the state of being clean, or the act of keeping things clean. (Merriam-Webster) contaminate (verb) - to make unfit for use by the introduction of unwholesome or undesirable elements. (Merriam-Webster) Biblical References: 2 Chronicles 7:14 NIV - "if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." Isaiah 43:18-19 NIV - "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." 2 Corinthians 7:1 TPT - "Beloved ones, with promises like these, and because of our deepest respect and worship of God, we must remove everything from our lives that contaminates body and spirit, and continue to complete the development of holiness within us." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever stopped to ask yourself the question, "what if God has me in my family, my workplace, or even in my friend circle to be a light in the midst of darkness?" On today's episode, Episode 26 - Positivity, I am speaking about how each of us as believers have a circle of influence that God has given us in order to show the people that we love most what it looks like to be in relationship with Jesus. I pray that this episode is a blessing to you in your walk with Jesus and if you would like to share it with a friend in your life, hit the share button! Also SUBSCRIBE and FOLLOW ME on Instagram @ReconstructHER! Bible Verses: Philippians 2:1-8 NIV - "Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death-even death on a cross!" Matthew 5:14-16 NIV - "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." Philippians 2:12-16 NIV - "Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed-not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence-continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose. Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, 'children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.' Then you will shine among them like stars in the sky as you hold firmly to the word of life. And then I will be able to boast on the day of Christ that I did not run or labor in vain." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Who loves being in a wilderness season? No one? Okay cool lol! On today's episode of The ReconstructHER Podcast, I speak about "Health" and how we should allow God to prepare us for the desires of our hearts while in the wilderness. Trust me, it is not easy to "wait on God" for the things we truly desire, but God ultimately wants us to be healthy if and when He does bring these things into our lives! Be sure to leave your thoughts on today's episode by dropping a comment down below in the RATINGS/REVIEW section. You can also follow me on INSTAGRAM @ReconstructHER! Definition: Health (noun) - the condition of being sound in body, mind, or spirit. (merriam webster) Biblical References: 3 John 1:2 (AMP) - "Beloved, I pray that in every way you may succeed and prosper and be in good health (physically), just as (I know) your soul prospers (spiritually)." Romans 12:1-2 (NIV) - "Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God, this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is, His good, pleasing and perfect will." Hebrews 10:22-25 (NIV) - "let us draw near to God with a sincere heart and with the full assurance that faith brings, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water. Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful. And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day approaching." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

How do you know if your life is truly moving forward? On today's episode, I speak about "Progress" and the importance of taking moments along our journey to stop and see just how far God has brought us. I believe that as we continue to move forward with gratitude, God will reveal every single thing that He has planned for us! If this podcast has blessed you in any way, please be sure to leave a RATING and REVIEW in the comment section below. You can also follow me on IG @ReconstructHER! Definition: Progress (noun) - forward or onward movement toward a destination. (oxford languages) Biblical References: Matthew 9:17 (NIV) - "Neither do people pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the skins will burst; the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. No, they pour new wine into new wineskins, and both are preserved." 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV) - "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" 1 Peter 5:8-9 (NIV) - "Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Do you find yourself often second-guessing or even doubting the things that God has spoken over your life? What if I told you that when God first spoke that vision, plan, or dream over you, He spoke it from a place of completion. On today's episode, I am speaking about faith, and how God has called each one of us to be set apart in the ways that we trust and believe Him to help us step into every single thing that He has for us! Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to and SHARE this podcast episode with another woman in your life! Also follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER Definition: Faith - Hebrews 11:1 (NIV) - "Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see." Biblical References: Matthew 6:33 (NIV) - "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well." Matthew 5:14-16 (NIV) - "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." Matthew 23:12 (NIV) - "For those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Are you someone who views life from an ABUNDANT mindset or a SCARCITY mindset? On today's episode of the ReconstructHER podcast, I am speaking about Abundance and how the seeds that we sow today, will be the abundance of fruit that we get to reap in our lives later! God's word says that, "I (Jesus) have come that we may have life, and that we may have it more abundantly." And I pray that today's episode will leave you feeling encouraged to allow God to help you sow seeds of ABUNDANCE in your life! Be sure to LIKE and SHARE this episode with another woman in your life. Also SUBSCRIBE to the podcast so that you don't miss out on any future episodes and follow me on Instagram @ReconstructhHER! Definition: Abundance (noun) - the situation in which there is more than enough of something. (Cambridge Dictionary) Biblical References: Proverbs 23:7 (KJV) - "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he." John 10:10 (NKJV) - "The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly." 2 Corinthians 9:6-11 (NIV) - "Remember this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work. As it is written: They have freely scattered their gifts to the poor; their righteousness endures forever. Now He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will also supply and increase your store of seed and will enlarge the harvest of your righteousness. You will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion, and through us your generosity will result in thanksgiving to God." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

On today's episode, I will be speaking about success and how having healthy friendships, relationships, and or family in your life helps add to the FULLNESS of who God has created you to be! Whether you are you currently in a season of building healthy friendships or maybe you desire to, I pray that this episode leaves you feeling encouraged to pray and ask God to bring solid people into your life! If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to LIKE and SHARE it with another woman in your life. Doing so allows this podcast to reach more women all around the world! Also, be sure to FOLLOW ME on Instagram @ReconstructHER, I would love to hear how you related to the episode! Definition: Success (noun) - the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. (oxford languages) Biblical References: Philippians 1:6 (NLT) - "And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns." Ephesians 4:11-16 (NIV) - "So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. Then we will no longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work." Proverbs 22:1 (NIV) - "A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

We are back with a new episode to kick off 2023! Episode 20 - Encouragement is all about the importance of developing a TRUE relationship with God. No more sitting on the sidelines watching everyone else grow in their relationship with Jesus, it's time for you to develop your own! And if you already have one, guess what, it's time to grow DEEPER in your relationship with Him! If this episode encouraged you in anyway, please be sure to leave a COMMENT and SUBSCRIBE to my channel. Also feel free to SHARE it with another woman in your life. Follow me on INSTAGRAM @ReconstructHER! Definition: Encouragement (noun) - the action of giving someone support, confidence, or hope. (oxford languages) Biblical References: Matthew 6:33 (NLT) - "Seek the kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and He will give you everything you need." Philippians 4:6-7 (NLT) - "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:8-9 (NLT) - "And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me, everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

What do you do when it's been 4 months since you last released a new podcast episode? You come back with one that's 50 minutes long of course lol! Let's just say today's episode "Fear" is well worth the wait! Please be sure to SHARE this podcast with another woman in your life and SUBSCRIBE so that you don't miss out on any future episodes from me. You can also follow me on IG and Facebook @ReconstructHER! Definitions: Fear (noun) - An unpleasant emotion of thought that you have when you are frightened or worried by something dangerous, painful, or bad that is happening or might happen. (Cambridge Dictionary) Biblical References: Hebrews 4:16 (NLT) - "So let us come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it most." Philippians 4:6-7 (NLT) - "Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus." Jeremiah 1:5 (NIV) - "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

In a world where we see self-help books and manifestation glamorized, what if I told you that God never intended for us to figure out life on our own? On today's episode, I speak about the power of the Holy Spirit, and how His purpose in our lives is to help lead, guide, teach, comfort, and encourage us as we journey through life with Him. You were not meant to do life alone, and I pray that this episode will cause you to lean more on God and His people (The Church). If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to share it with another woman in your life, and follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! Definition: Pride - an excessive preoccupation with self and one's own importance, achievements, status, or possessions. Biblical References: Proverbs 3:5-7 (NKJV) - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and depart from evil." James 4:6-8 (NLT) - "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. So humble yourselves before God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come close to God, and God will come close to you." Galatians 5:16-18 (NLT) - "So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won't be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. But when you are directed by the Spirit, you are not under obligation to the law of Moses." What is Humility? "Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less." - Pastor Rick Warren --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever heard this statement by Pastor Rick Warren, "God Never Wastes A Hurt"? On today's episode, I speak about how God has used my hurt and pain to birth this podcast. I never imagined that He could and would use someone like me, but God has a special plan and purpose for all of us. Don't allow your hurt and pain to go to waste. Seek Jesus Christ for healing, and allow Him to show you the ways in which He can use your hurt to help others. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to the podcast so that you don't miss out on any future episodes from me. And connect with our community on Instagram @reconstructher and on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/reconstructher. Definition: Pain (noun) - mental or emotional distress or suffering (merriam-webster) Biblical References: John 16:33 (NIV) - "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world!" Psalm 4:4 (NLT) - "Don't sin by letting anger control you. Think about it overnight and remain silent." Revelation 21:4 (ESV) - "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away." John 14:6 (ESV) - "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Romans 6:23 (ESV) - "For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever found yourself comparing your very real behind the scenes to someone else's highlight reel? Yea I have too! On today's episode, I speak about the danger of comparison and how God has made each of us to be who He has called us to be. If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to share it with another woman in your life, and tag me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! Definition: Comparison (noun) - the act of comparing two or more people or things. (cambridge dictionary) Bible Reference: Romans 12:3-8 (NIV) "Comparison is the thief of joy." - Theodore Roosevelt --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

In what area of your life can you say that you've seen God's hand? For me it would be in my family. On today's episode, I speak about how God's love has truly conquered ALL by rebuilding my family to where we are today. Let me know your thoughts about today's episode by tagging me on Instagram @ReconstructHER. Or you can leave a comment down in the RATING/REVIEW section below. Doing so helps to grow this podcast and get it out to more women all around the world.  To Join Our Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reconstructher Follow Us On Instagram: @ReconstructHER Definition:  Family (noun) - A group of people who are related to each other, such as a mother, a father, and their children. (cambridge dictionary)  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever struggled when it came to love? Like no matter how hard you tried, you still seemingly couldn't get it right? Well you are not alone lol! On today's Episode 14 "Love", I speak about how healthy love in our relationships, friendships, and family is attainable and that it starts with getting to know God first! If you enjoyed today's episode, be sure to tag us on Instagram @ReconstructHER and follow me @Lashawnda.Michelle. You can also leave a RATING/REVIEW down in the comment section. Are you looking for a community of like minded women that can help you grow? The ReconstructHER Community is now on facebook! Join our free private community by clicking here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/reconstructher Definition: Love (noun) - an intense feeling of deep affection. (Oxford Languages) Biblical References: 1 John 4:7-10 (NLT) 1 John 3:16-19 (NLT) 1 John 4:17-19 (NLT) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever asked yourself the question, "Why am I here, what is my purpose?" I want you to know that there is someone who wants you to know your purpose more than you do and that's God. On today's episode "Purpose", I speak about the importance of discovering your purpose and how it gives our lives meaning and direction. Be sure to share this podcast with another woman in your life, and if you haven't already, follow and tag us on Instagram @ReconstructHER! We would also love to connect with you over in our community, visit us at ReconstructHER.com Click the link below to purchase the book I referenced in my amazon store: "The Purpose Driven Life by Pastor Rick Warren" https://amzn.to/3DagXyq Definition: Purpose (noun) - the reason for which something exists or is done. (dictionary.com) Biblical References: Romans 5:1-5 NLT Jeremiah 29:11 NIV 1 Timothy 4:12-16 NLT --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Today's episode is a WHOLE word! Ladies if you are currently serving in your purpose, or maybe you are still trying to figure out what your purpose is, this episode is for you. 1 Peter 4:10-11 tells us that God has blessed each one of us with a special gift and talent. I believe that when we tap into the value of those gifts and talents as daughters of God, we can do some amazing things for His Kingdom. Let me know what you think about today's episode! Screenshot it and tag us on Instagram @ReconstructHER. You can also leave a RATING/REVIEW down in the comment section below. Thank you for your continued support of our podcast and community! Definition: Value (noun) - how useful or important something is. (Cambridge Dictionary) Biblical References: 1 Peter 4:10-11 (NLT) Mark 6:1-6 (NKJV) Philippians 1:6-11 (NLT) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

How many of us have ever allowed what someone else thought about us to make us feel unworthy? Whether it be from our childhood, relationships, friendships, or family, negative words hurt and can oftentimes alter the way that we see ourselves. On today's episode titled "Worth", I speak about the importance of coming into relationship with God and allowing His truth (the bible) to override what negative people think about you. You are worthy of being the woman that God has called you to be and I pray that this episode will leave you feeling empowered to tap into God's word and what He says about you. Be sure to leave a RATING/REVIEW in the comments below and SUBSCRIBE. Follow us on instagram @ReconstructHER! Ready to be a part of our ReconstructHER Community? Visit us online at reconstructher.com, to start your monthly membership. Listen to our Apple Playlist here! https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-reconstructher-playlist/pl.u-KVXBBlJuzBb8Wx Definition: Worth - the internal sense of being good enough and worthy of love and belonging from others. (UNCW - Counseling Center) Biblical References: Romans 5:6-11 NCV Philippians 4:8 NLT John 15:18 NIV 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 NLT --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Where do you get your joy from? Is it from people, places, or things? On today's episode, I speak about how I used to solely rely on people to bring me joy. What I've learned is that people may fail you because we are all imperfect. And that true joy comes from having a relationship with God. If this episode has helped you, be sure to leave a RATING/REVIEW in the comments below and SUBSCRIBE. Be sure to follow us on instagram @ReconstructHER! Ready to be a part of our ReconstructHER Community? Visit us online now at reconstructher.com, to start your monthly membership. Listen to our Apple Playlist here! https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-reconstructher-playlist/pl.u-KVXBBlJuzBb8Wx Definition: Joy - the feeling of great pleasure and happiness (Oxford Languages) Biblical References: Joshua 1:9 (NLT) - This is my command, be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. John 15:5 (NIV) - "I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing." Galatians 5:22 (NIV) - But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. Against such things there is no law. 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NLT) - All scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Did you know that there is NOTHING that can separate us from God's love? That it is up to us to choose to love Him back? On today's episode, I speak about SELF LOVE and how choosing to love God has taught me how to love myself and how to love others. I pray that this episode will help you tap into your own personal relationship with God and allow Him to show you what TRUE love looks like, Him. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a RATING/REVIEW in the comments section below. And follow us on Instagram @ReconstructHER! The ReconstructHER Playlist is now on Apple Music! Click here to listen! https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-reconstructher-playlist/pl.u-KVXBBlJuzBb8Wx Definition: Self Love - Regard for one's own well-being and happiness. (Oxford Languages) Biblical References: Galatians 5:22-23 (NLT) - But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control. There is no law against these things! 1 John 4:7-8 (NLT) - Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. Romans 8:38 (NLT) - And I am convinced that nothing can separate us from God's love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow, not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love. Matthew 22:37-39 (NLT) - Jesus replied, "'You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

What if I told you that confidence is not just about your looks, what's in your bank account, or even the car that you drive? Confidence is about putting your trust in something that will help you get through some of life's most difficult situations. On today's episode, I speak about how I used to put my confidence in my looks and when I realized that I needed to trust in something MORE! Be sure to leave a RATING/REVIEW on today's episode down in the comments below. Your feedback helps this podcast grow and get out to more women like yourself who may need to ReconstructHER! Follow our community on Instagram @ReconstructHER Definition: Confidence (n) - the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust. (New Oxford American Dictionary) Biblical References: 1 John 1:9 (NLT) 2 Corinthians 5:17-21 (NLT) Philippians 1:6 (NIV) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you found yourself struggling to show up consistently in your purpose, on social media, or even in your relationships? Girl, I have been there! On today's episode, I speak about how I've had to come to the realization that serving in my God given purpose is not about me. Showing up consistently actually helps another woman break free in the areas that I was once bound in. I pray that today's "Consistency" episode will help you break free from the spirit of comparison and procrastination. You deserve to show up and be all that God has called you to be. Be sure to follow our community on Instagram @ReconstructHER. SUBSCRIBE and leave a RATING/REVIEW to help this podcast reach more women like yourself. Definition: Consistency - the quality of always behaving or performing in a similar way, or of always happening in a similar way. (Cambridge Dictionary) Bible References: Colossians 1:28-29 (AMP) - We proclaim Him, warning and instructing everyone in all wisdom (that is, with comprehensive insight into the word and purposes of God), so that we may present every person complete in Christ (mature, fully trained, and perfect in Him, the Anointed). For this I labor (often to the point of exhaustion), striving with His power and energy, which so greatly works within me. Galatians 6:4 (NLT) - Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won't need to compare yourself to anyone else. For we are responsible for our own conduct. Galatians 6:9 (NLT) - So let's not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don't give up. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Do you find it difficult to set boundaries in your relationships? Whether it be romantic, familial, or even work relationships, setting boundaries can be very difficult. On today's podcast episode I speak about the three things that I've learned when it comes to setting boundaries in my relationships. My hope is that you will begin to stand firm on what you believe in and speak up for yourself, even when it's difficult. Make sure you SUBSCRIBE, and leave a RATING/REVIEW so we can continue to get this podcast out to more women that need some insight on how to navigate in the areas of faith, self love, and relationships. Thank you so much for tuning into today's episode. Remember to connect with our community on Instagram @ReconstructHER! The ReconstructHER Playlist is now available on Apple Music! To hear some of my favorite songs that keep me motivated, click the link below: https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-reconstructher-playlist/pl.u-KVXBBlJuzBb8Wx Definitions: Boundary (noun) - the limit of what someone considers to be acceptable behavior. (Cambridge Dictionary) Self Discipline (verb) - the ability to make yourself do things when you should, even if you do not want to do them. (Cambridge Dictionary) Biblical Reference: 2 Timothy 1:7 (NLT) - For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self discipline. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

How do we gain more respect in our relationships? In this week's podcast episode titled "Respect", I break down the importance of setting the tone for how we want to be treated in our relationships by how we treat ourselves. This includes: setting boundaries, communicating our needs, and showing respect to others. Let me know what you think about this week's episode down in the RATING/REVIEW section. Be sure to follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! Definition: Respect (n) - due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others. (Oxford Languages) Biblical References: Matthew 22:37-39 (NKJV) - Jesus said to him, "'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' Luke 6:31 (NLT) - Do to others as you would like them to do to you. Luke 6:35 (NKJV) - But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is kind to the unthankful and evil. Luke 6:38 (NLT) - Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full --- pressed down, shaken together to make room for more running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever found yourself seeking to have more clarity in your life? Whether it be our purpose, relationships, or a career opportunity; having clarity on what God's will for our life is so important. On today's episode I speak about the importance of clearing out our minds in order to clearly hear from God. Let me know your thoughts about today's episode on Clarity down in the RATING/REVIEW section. Leaving your feedback helps the ReconstructHER podcast GROW! Thank you all so much for your support so far. Be sure to connect with me on Instagram @lashawnda.michelle and with our community @ReconstructHER! Definition: Clarity - (n.) the ability to think clearly and not be confused - Cambridge Dictionary Biblical References: Proverbs 4:20-26 (GNBDC) - "Pay attention to what I say, my child. Listen to my words. Never let them get away from you. Remember them and keep them in your heart. They will give life and health to anyone who understands them. Be careful how you think; your life is shaped by your thoughts. Never say anything that isn't true. Have nothing to do with lies and misleading words. Look straight ahead with honest confidence; don't hang your head in shame. Plan carefully what you do, and whatever you do will turn out right." Proverbs 2:2-6 (GNBDC) - "Listen to what is wise and try to understand it. Yes, beg for knowledge; plead for insight. Look for it as hard as you would for silver or some hidden treasure. If you do, you will know what it means to fear the Lord and you will succeed in learning about God. It is the Lord who gives wisdom; from him come knowledge and understanding." Proverbs 23:7 (NKJV) - "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he." Romans 12:2 (GNBDC) - "Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God what is good and is pleasing to him and is perfect." James 4:8 (NKJV) - "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

How many of us are seeking to have peace in our lives? There are so many things in this world that promise to bring us peace, but I have found that those things often bring the complete opposite. On this week's episode of the ReconstructHER podcast, I will be sharing how I found peace in my life, and the three things that I've learned about it so far. Be sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave a RATING/REVIEW in the comment section below. Your support helps the podcast continue to grow! If you want to be apart of our community, follow us on Instagram @ReconstructHER! References: Peace: freedom from disquieting or oppressive thoughts or emotions (Merriam Webster) Disquieting: causing worry or anxiety (Merriam Webster) Scripture: Philippians 4:6-8 (NLT) - Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Please note: I am not a licensed professional, and all of the information shared on this podcast is my own personal journey with faith, self love, and relationships. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Is there a version of you that you've always envisioned becoming, but you're afraid to take the first step? On this week's episode, I will be speaking about how I got comfortable with being uncomfortable in order to become the woman I've always envisioned. I will also be sharing the three things that I learned about the process of growing physically, mentally, and spiritually. Let me know what you think about today's episode down in the COMMENT section, and be sure to SUBSCRIBE so that you don't miss out on next week's episode. Follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

LaShawnda Michelle is a speaker from Chicago, IL. On her new podcast ReconstructHER, LaShawnda talks about her life experiences with faith, self love, and relationships as a means to help other women. She understands just how hard it can be to rebuild after a break-up, but hasn't allowed that to stop her from serving in her purpose. This podcast will leave you feeling inspired to start your own journey of healing and become the woman you've always wanted to be! Be sure to connect with LaShawnda Michelle on Instagram @ReconstructHER! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support

Have you ever been at a place where everything you tried just seemed to not be working out? Girl, I've been there too! On the first episode of The ReconstructHER Podcast, I talk about how God sat me down during quarantine and literally removed all outside distractions from my life to pull me closer to Him. I will be sharing what those distractions were, the three (3) things that I learned about myself, and how this time started my journey of healing from my past. If you are currently in a season of God removing people, places, and things from your life, I want you to know that you are not alone. Let me know what you think about today's topic down in the RATING/REVIEW section, and be sure to SUBSCRIBE so that you don't miss out on next week's episode! Follow me on Instagram @ReconstructHER! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/reconstructher/support