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Two girlfriends with battle wounds from childhood become parents, wives and eventually friends who help each other survive the everyday challenges. Listen in while we discuss real topics, overcoming obstacles and try to conquer the everyday battles of REA

Ash & P


    • Apr 24, 2025 LATEST EPISODE
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    Episode 117 - Final Reflections: Time, Health, & a Final Trip to Conspiracy Corner

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2025 87:37


    In the heartfelt finale of SWAP, Ash & P close out the podcast with a reflection on time and how precious and limited it truly is. They open up about the need to prioritize their lives, focusing on what matters most - family, self-care, and health. True to form, Ash takes us on our final visit to Conspiracy Corner to discuss RFJK Jr and dyes, Dr. Fauci & the official origins of COVID, MH370, 9-11, & more! Join Ash & P for this rollercoaster extended episode. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Rewind: Revisiting Episode 67: Meet Dustbowl Champion

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 10, 2025 58:02


    Rewind: Here's a blast from the past! Today we're revisiting episode 67 to meet Dustbowl Champion again!!! From the original release: This week Ash & P have a special treat! DustBowl Champion joins the ladies to discuss it all! Ash & P discuss Jaron's journey as a musician and P's baby brother! Listen in this week to learn about where DustBowl Champion has been and where he is headed. Follow Jaron on Instagram @jarondaniel and @dustbowlchampion and download his music on Spotify, Apple Music or wherever you stream your music!Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 116 - Miles & Milestones: Travel Tales & Graduation Plans

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2025 61:51


    This week, Ash & P are excited to be recording in person. P kicks things off by sharing her travel adventures as she looked like a poser! Ash talks about her oldest son's upcoming graduation and whether she feels ready to send him out into the real world! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp Rate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 115 - Bloody Noses, Late-Night Joysticks, & Fluoride Fears

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2025 52:20


    In this episode, P opens up about a chaotic morning when she had to drop Dani off at school with a bloody nose and the lengthy wait for an ENT appointment. She shares her frustrations about feeling that everything is seemingly left on her shoulders to manage. Ash shares a relatable story about a time she lost it when her husband stayed up late playing a video game. Ash also discusses a recent visit to the dentist with her sons, diving into her growing concerns about fluoride. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp Rate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 114 - Linktree Blunders & Auction Drama

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2025 66:45


    In this episode, Ash shares about her recent platelet donation and whether or not it is for her. The ladies dive into their linktree, where Ash reveals a hilarious and wild mistake she made with it. P shares her silent auction experience forthe new school and the challenges of navigating it with a less-than-friendly co-room mom.  Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp Rate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 113 - Cirque de Soleil, Little Sister Woes, and Conspiracy Corner Unleashed Part II

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 27, 2025 72:37


    In this episode, P shares her family outing to a Cirqe De Soleil show. She also shares Dani's story of being left behind while Gigi was out with a friend. Ash puts her "glass hat" back on to finalize her summary of Thank You, Dr. Fauci. She shares the many FOIA's (Freedom of Information Act document drops and answers P's questions.Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 112 - Spring Break & Fauci's Secrets: Conspiracy Corner Unleashed Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 25, 2025 57:32


    In this episode, P kicks things off by sharing her spring break adventures. Meanwhile, Ashley puts on her signature "glass hat" and steps into Conspiracy Corner. Ash begins to unpack the controversial documentary Thank You, Dr. Fauci, directed by Jenner Furst.

    Episode 111 - Wedding Bells, Hubby Frustrations, & Spring Break Chaos

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2025 61:56


    In this episode, Ash & P recap the excitement of Tony & P's church wedding and all the fun that came with the big weekend! They also get real about some husband-related frustrations - because marriage isn't always smooth sailing. Plus, with Spring Break around the corner, the ladies talk about plans, expectations, and the chaos that comes with it. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 110 - Vegas Jobs, SKIMS trials, & Fasting Insights

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2025 72:19


    In this episode, Ash & P explore potential job opportunities in Vegas and what the city has to offer. P shares her experience with SKIMS - does it live up to the hype? Plus, the ladies dive into the world of eating and fasting after hearing insights from Dr. Mindy Pelz. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 109 - Chaos, Coffee Shop Stranded, & Grandbaby Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2025 63:43


    In this episode, Ash & P dive into the chaos of their nonstop busy lives. P shares a wild and unforgettable coffee shop story that you don't want to miss, while Ash gives an update on her grandbaby! From juggling life's craziness to sharing personal moments, this episode is packed with laughs & real talk!Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 108 - Band Chaos, Valentine's Day, & A Dash Of Elon Musk

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2025 72:43


    In this episode, Ash & P dive into the chaos of band scheduling struggles, the excitement (and pressure) of Valentine's Day gifts and plans, & P's upcoming trip back home. Plus, the ladies get into a conversation about none other than Elon Musk. Tune in for laughs & relatable moments.Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 107 - 18th Birthdays, Independence & Letting Go: The Mom Balancing Act

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2025 71:20


    In this episode, Ash and P tackle the struggle of shopping for new jeans—because, let's be real, it's not easy at this age! Ash opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of her firstborn turning 18, while P shares her thoughts on why parents need to step back and let their kids gain independence. The ladies also dive into the challenges of balancing school involvement as working moms. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and plenty of relatable moments. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 106 - Aging Woes, Health Progress, & Over-the-Top Parents

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2025 69:44


    In today's episode, Ash & P get real about the struggles of aging. P shares the chaos of her whirlwind day, while Ash gives an update on her health journey and the new workout routine she might consider. Plus, P dives into her experience with over-the-top parents and their coddling behaviors.Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 105 - Kylah Unfiltered: Bodybuilding, OnlyFans, & Keeping It Real

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 27, 2025 61:40


    In this episode, Ash & P welcome a very special guest - Ash's daughter Kylah! She opens up about her journey into bodybuilding, shares her thoughts on OnlyFans, and more! Join Ash & P as Kylah dishes on it all!Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 104 - RFJK JR updates, Blake Lively Drama, and The Must Have Mom Crew

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 25, 2025 66:29


    In this episode, Ash updates us on her RFJK JR lifestyle while she and P dive into the latest Blake Lively drama. They also react to Tony's feedback on the podcast. Plus, the ladies tackle the world of helicopter moms and why finding a solid group of mom friends is absolutely essential.Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 103 - Vegas Birthday, Homesick Struggles, & Conspiracy Corner: Dr. Fauci Edition

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2025 71:10


    In this episode, P shares her experience throwing her daughter's first party in Vegas. P shares her emotional hurdles from the highs of the part to the struggles of distance. Meanwhile, ash takes the spotlight with the Conspiracy Corner, tackling none other than Dr. Fauci. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 102 - Dating After Divorce: Kaylee's Story Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2025 54:04


    In Part Two of Kaylee's story, Ash & P dive into the world of dating after divorce. Kaylee shares her experience navigating dating apps and the steps she took to prepare herself to get back out there. From awkward dates to surprising lessons, Kaylee gives us the inside scoop on what dating looks like after marriage - and how it's going so far!Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 101 - Betrayal & Breakthroughs: Kaylee's Story of Love, Divorce & Shocking Truths

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 54:00


    In this episode, Ash & P sit down with Kaylee for a raw and revealing conversation about her divorce. Tune in for an emotional, eye-opening discussion about love, betrayal, and finding strength after heartbreak.Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 100 - 2025 Goals, Mom Worries, & Book Club Vibes

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2025 83:42


    In this episode, Ash & P dive into their goals for 2025, sharing their plans with a few laughs along the way. Ash opens up about her concerns for Jax and how she's feeling stretched a little too thin lately. Meanwhile, P shakes things up by joining a book club. Tune in for a mix of goal-setting, real-life struggles, and the usual dose of humor and honesty.Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandpRate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 99 - Fire, Flavor, & Finding Strength

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2025 56:51


    In this episode, Ash & P sit down with Destiny De La Cruz to talk about her passion for outdoor cooking, how she's navigated through depression, and the impact of having a supportive partner. Destiny opens up about her love of good food, the challenges of mental health struggles, and how her husband's encouragement has helped her push forward. Tune in for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation filled with honesty, and resilience. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp Rate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 98 - Life After College, Struggles, Growth, & Moving Forward

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2025 74:03


    In this episode, Ash & P are joined by a special guest, Destiny De La Cruz! She opens up about the challenges of finding her way after college, the harsh realities of entering the job market, and the emotional toll of feeling like a failure. Destiny also shares her journey with the military and how she was able to dig herself out of a rut after plans didn't turn out the way she had hoped. Tune in for an honest relatable, and inspiring conversation about navigating life's uncertainties. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp Rate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 97 - Green Bubbles & Fasting Feels

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2025 56:55


    In this episode, Ash reflects on how her 21-days of fasting journey may have awakened her sensitive side, while P shares the chaos of her busy day, balancing laundry, party planning, and her husband's less-than-helpful attempts to assist. The ladies dive into a conversation about Ash's green text bubbles and how Apple might save her from being ousted from the group chats. With humor, relatability, and their signature banter, Ash & P keep it real and entertaining. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp Rate and Review SWAP on your preferred podcast platform!

    Episode 96 - RFJK Jr, New Years, & Wall-E

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2025 46:10


    In this episode, Ash & P discuss Ash's RFJK Jr lifestyle in more depth and how her family is adapting. P explains why her holiday eating has made her relate to the movie Wall-E. The ladies discuss the New Year's Day tragedies and how they prefer to spend the holiday to limit their exposure. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp

    Episode 95 - Goals, Games, & Gangstas

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2025 52:17


    This week Ash & P talk New Year's Eve plans and goals for 2025. As the ladies dive deeper into their plans for 2025, P keeps it gangsta and Ash embraces her RFJK Jr lifestyle. We hear a funny story involving the ever-expressive Dani and Ash questions how her son could get lost driving to a doctor's office he has been going to for the last 9 years. Join Ash & P to hear all about that and more!

    Episode 94 - It's Merry Christmas, Santa Hack, Elf Tricks, and Hosting Woes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 67:21


    Ash & P discuss why they're not politically correct about saying "Merry Christmas." P seeks advice on how Santa can deliver gifts to their out-of-town destination and her plan to step up her Elf on the Shelf game while tricking her kids to keep the magic alive. Meanwhile, P committed herself to too much for Ash, and Ash explains why hosting isn't for her.

    Episode 93 - Christmas Chaos, Elf Shenanigans & MH370 Mysteries

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 59:14


    Ash & P dive into Ash's Christmas card fiasco and why this might be her final year of family cards and ornaments. P shares her experience as an Elf on the Shelf Veteran, while Ash discusses the mysteries surrounding MH370 and the deep rabbit holes she falls into.

    Episode 92 - Hollywood Dreams, Fitness Health, and Conspiracy Theories

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 57:04


    Ash & P chat about P's trip to Universal Studios and the girls excitement for Hollywood. P reflects on prioritizing fitness and health, while Ash delves into conspiracy theories surrounding Anne Heche and potential human trafficking.

    Episode 91 - Leaks, Lost in Translation & Pop Star Drama

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 56:23


    After a 5 day stay in Vegas with P, Ash is back home and the ladies catch up on various topics. They discuss P's plumbing issues and leaks that appear right before Thanksgiving guests arrive, as well as electrical issues and the challenges of working with a contractor who relies on a translator app. P also shares the latest Room Mama Drama , While Ash talks about Britney Spears' bizarre behavior and social media posts.

    Episode 90 - Back to the Grind: Two Moms, Two Years, and a Fresh Start

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2025 62:00


    After a long hiatus, Ash and P are back with a brand-new episode! Join them as they catch up on everything that's happened since February 2023. From major life changes - like moves and turning 40 - to diving into Ashley's bold exit from normalcy, they're sharing it all. Tune in for laughs, insights, and personal stories as they reconnect with listeners and reflect on their journeys.

    Episode 89 - The Real P talks balls?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2023 18:00


    This week Ash & P weren't able to record, so they decided to share an unedited mini-interview with Jaxon (Ash's youngest). Listen in to hear what crazy topics P gets into with a not-so-talkative teenage boy. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 88 - Exes & Hoes

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2023 41:33


    This week Ash & P discuss how exes and hoes impact our current relationships. Listen in as the ladies talk about their pasts! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 87 - Can't we all just get along?

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 8, 2023 41:17


    This week Ash & P discuss the lack of American pride in the younger generations and the divide in the US. Listen in to hear the ladies discuss the current situation of our country. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 86 - No one's gonna carry your fat ass bitch

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2023 37:12


    This week Ash & P discuss how our circumstances are not always the same, but we all have to put the work in ourselves to better ourselves. Listen in to hear the ladies get passionate about the subject. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp

    Episode 85 - You are crunchy

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2023 57:45


    This week Ash & P discuss the crunchy one! Listen in to hear the ladies being crunchy, Dani's dating life, and more! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp

    Episode 84 - You heard it here first...

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2023 56:44


    This week Ash & P discuss parties, passports, tours, and the contest. Ash gives her take on her passport situation and finally commits to it. The ladies also discuss P's tea party for Georgia and how stressful it is to have friends from school over. They also discuss Dustbowl Champion and his recent touring! Listen in to hear about all the details on the contest and more! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook @realashandp

    Episode 83 - New Me in 2023?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2023 59:28


    This week Ash & P catch up on all the craziness that has happened during the holiday season. The ladies discuss New Year's Resolutions and what they would like to happen this year. Listen in as the ladies discuss everything from last year's shortcomings to setting yourself up for success in the new year. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 82 - Timing is everything

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2023 30:54


    This week Ash & P were unable to record so they're sharing what was supposed to be a bonus episode. Jason & Tony join Ash & P to discuss how timing is everything when it comes to relationships. Tony discusses how he overcame the friend zone and started dating the woman he never expected to. Listen in this week to hear the husbands' input on the topic! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 82 - Magical Misery

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2022 59:15


    This week Ash & P discuss the past couple of weeks and the craziness of the holiday madness that starts sinking in around now. P shares how her busy life has been going and discusses the misery that comes along with "Santa's Magical Helper" coming back to join in on the fun. Ash talks about her recent trip to see her youngest daughter compete in a fitness competition. Listen in as they both discuss how they're surviving this holiday season and more! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 81 - Drama Queen

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2022 35:36


    This week Ash & P discuss raising their kids and the different personalities they have. Ash & P also have a possible TMI conversation regarding Ash and her butt. Listen in to hear who gets gnomed and watch the episode (on Spotify) to get the clue for the contest! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 80 - You brought what back with you?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2022 59:37


    This week Ash & P discuss P's trip to Mexico. P shares all the details of her brother's wedding and the trip to Cancun. P shares so much more when she discusses what she came home with. What "souvenir" did P bring back to California without even having to pay for it? Listen this week to hear all about it! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 79 - We're normal moms?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2022 55:19


    This week Ash & P catch up with what has been going on over the past couple of weeks. The ladies also discuss the type of parents they are, and as you probably have guessed, they are not gentle. Listen in as they discuss parenting teenagers and littles, and discuss the differences between the two. The ladies discuss a possible upcoming contest!!! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 78 - You're stuck (Audio only)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 59:10


    Disclaimer: Due to technical issues the video version of this episode was cut short. To hear the full episode please listen to the audio only version. This week Ash & P discuss having to share your children in co-parenting situations. Ash asks P how she handles "first" experiences that Tristan has with her dad. P discusses the challenges of co-parenting and Ash discusses not wanting her kids to date someone with kids. Listen in as the ladies discuss the difficult part of having to share you kids when a relationship doesn't work out, and how they would handle a separation with Jason and Tony. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 78 - You're stuck (video version, cut short for full version, listen to the audio only episode)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 9, 2022 48:37


    Disclaimer: Due to technical issues the video version of this episode was cut short. To hear the full episode please listen to the audio only version. This week Ash & P discuss having to share your children in co-parenting situations. Ash asks P how she handles "first" experiences that Tristan has with her dad. P discusses the challenges of co-parenting and Ash discusses not wanting her kids to date someone with kids. Listen in as the ladies discuss the difficult part of having to share you kids when a relationship doesn't work out, and how they would handle a separation with Jason and Tony. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 77 - Rollin with the gnomies

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 2, 2022 59:22


    This week Ash & P discuss the discuss what they learned about swingers and open relationships. Listen in as they discuss gnomes, pineapples and flamingos! Ash & P also share what rules they discovered and how the relationship should work when swinging or being in an open relationship. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 76 - Homies & Gnomies

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 26, 2022 54:13


    This week Ash & P go down the rabbit hole of swingers and open relationships. The ladies discuss how being jealous and "tutorial" (territorial) would prevent them from surviving as someone in an open relationship or swinging. They also remind you to check the vibe you're putting out based on your yard decor. Listen in as Ash & P question how anyone can manage these relationships.  Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 75 - If you'd listen the first time

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2022 55:30


    This week Ash & P give a little update on their kids. They also discuss kindness and patience with their families. Why is P yelling less and why does Ash feel it's impossible not to fly off the handle? They also discuss becoming the older "not hip" crowd. Listen in as the ladies discuss this and more. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 74 - To apply or not to apply, that is the question

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 12, 2022 60:55


    This week Ash & P discuss P's struggles surrounding her oldest daughter's college applications and why she feels it will test her marriage. Ash discusses her kids' relationships and the struggles a friend is having with her teenager's new relationship. Listen in to hear all about it! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 73 - Everybody's Different

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 5, 2022 64:28


    This week Ash & P discuss pretty much everything under the sun. In an unexpected turn, the ladies end up on a completely different topic than they had expected. Listen in as they discuss family dynamics, how different families are, wedding rings and so much more. The ladies also apologize for the weird audio. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 72 - Till Death Do Us Part

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 28, 2022 71:21


    This week Ash & P have special guests! The ladies discuss the ups and downs of wedding planning with Priscilla's brother Julian and future sister-in-law Alexandria. Listen in as they discuss Julian and Alexandria's special journey from the fair to Cabo. They share with Ash & P what they're most excited and most nervous about! Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 71 - Girth or Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2022 57:25


    This week Ash & P discuss the D! Listen in as the ladies discuss the topic they questioned last week surrounding penis implants. The ladies discuss a few different types and how they work and why they might be options. The ladies also discuss how a girth implant works. Listen in to hear all the ways guys may try to "improve" themselves. Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp

    Episode 70 - Dairy of a Vagina

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2022 56:12


    This week Ash & P discuss all things vagina! Why does your underwear look like that? Why do you smell like that? What causes camel toe? Does pineapple really make you taste like it? Listen in to hear it all!  Follow Ash & P on Instagram and Facebook at @realashandp --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

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