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Dating is hard, dating when you're fat is even harder. In this weekly podcast, Alex Stewart and Nicci Nunez will take you through the chronicles of dating as a plus-sized woman.

Alex Stewart & Nicci Nunez


    • Jul 29, 2022 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 51m AVG DURATION
    • 94 EPISODES
    • 1 SEASONS

    4.9 from 228 ratings Listeners of Swipe Fat that love the show mention: fat girl, plus size, nothing is off limits, two girls, modern day, tiktok, girlfriends, date, body, hanging, would recommend, women, single, word, relatable, conversations, loved, honest, sharing, hard.



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    THE ONE WHERE WE ANSWER YOUR ANONYMOUS QUESTIONS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 46:45


    We decided to jump on the NGL trend that all over instagram stories and answered your anonymous questions!

    THE ONE ABOUT REJECTION

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 51:45


    We reflect on our first week of our dating app detox and then discuss how being rejected has been making us feel. What's worse: being rejected for your weight or your personality? 

    THE ONE WITH DATE BRAZEN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2022 92:05


    This week we're joined by dating coach, Lily Womble (@DateBrazen) and it was a rollercoaster emotions! We discuss how to make dating an act of self care with self compassion, bragging and I am for the few not the many. Why the number game and dating apps are a scam and how to have a more joyus dating life with "thank you, more please." Lily also has all of her clients do a dating app detox, and one of us had an emotional response to it.

    THE ONE WITH MARY FRAN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2022 74:47


    This week we're joined by Mary Fran (@itsmaryfran) to discuss fat phobia, how being comfortable in your body effects your wardrobe, the 2000's trends & diet culter and how we should normalize that it's okay if you've never been in an adult relationship.

    THE ONE WITH JERRIN NICOLE

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2022 80:19


    We're joined by Jerrin Nicole (@awkwardfatgirl on tiktok) to learn about her confidence journey, talk about her dating life and gross messages from men on the internet.

    THE ONE ABOUT FAT CHAT

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2022 90:59


    Every month on our Patreon we do a Fat Chat - where we talk to you!! Since they're some of our favorite conversations we've had since starting the podcast, we thought we'd give you a taste. 

    THE ONE ABOUT OPENING LINES

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2022 40:32


    What's the best opener on dating apps? We found a list of some real losers and then try to come up with our new go-to line!

    THE ONE ABOUT PORN

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2022 49:18


    We both had a life-changing experience when we watched the same porn video. We dig into that, our experience with porn and learn more about why people in the industry use bbw.

    THE ONE ABOUT...ALL OF THE THINGS

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2022 31:49


    This is about all of the things. Alex is mad about people suggesting toxic responses to Nicci's rejection text, opening up when dating new people and a little refresher on Alex's bumble profile.

    THE ONE ABOUT FAT HOT GIRL SUMMER

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2022 52:44


    We both have dating updates that lead to a discussion about ghosting AND we give you our tips to have the best fat hot girl summer!

    THE ONE ABOUT EGG FREEZING WITH WHITNEY BISCHOFF ANGEL

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2022 61:02


    We're joined by Whitney Bischoff Angel, our nurse at Ova Egg Freezing!! We get a lot of questions about the egg freezing process and if our weight is a factor, so we're going straight to the source!   Use code SWIPEFAT for $100 off Ova View Testing through July. Use code SWIPEFAT for 30% off your order at dia.com

    THE ONE ABOUT NICE GUYS

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2022 32:30


    We all know the "nice guys" that turned out to f*ck boys in disguise and we finally figured out how to spot them and we get dating updates for Alex.

    THE ONE ABOUT SEX POSITIVITY & LATE IN LIFE VIRGINITY

    Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2022 26:40


    Does the sex-positive movement alienate people who aren't sexually active? Is the next phase of sex-positivity waiting to have sex? We discuss a vogue article and how waiting to have sex can feel isolating. https://www.vogue.com/article/sex-positivity-late-in-life-virginity

    THE ONE WITH THE FAT SEX THERAPIST

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 29, 2022 41:38


    This week we're joined by Sonalee Rashatwar (@thefatsextherapist,) an award-winning clinical social worker and sex therapist. They are a superfat queer bisexual non-binary therapist and co-owner of Radical Therapy Center, specialized in treating sexual trauma, diet trauma, racial or immigrant trauma, and South Asian family abuse, while offering fat positive sexual healthcare. 

    THE ONE ABOUT SEX INSECURITIES

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 21, 2022 43:18


    A listener got us thinking about why a guy not being able to perform in the bedroom makes us so insecure and how more communication can help with that. Alex had a scratched her itch before her three upcoming dates this week & Nicci is feeling very discouraged on the apps.

    THE ONE ABOUT EATING ON DATES

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 15, 2022 62:47


    We both went on first dates last week! Those dates got us thinking about eating on dates and the feelings we have about that as plus size women. 

    THE ONE WITH JAMIE VARON

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 8, 2022 65:38


    This week we're joined by Jamie Varon (@jamievaron), who is an author and novelist, and her new book Radically Content is out on April 12th! We find out what it means to be radically content, how to find self-trust and live with intention.

    THE ONE ABOUT A SPRING REFRESH

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 1, 2022 38:04


    Our dating app matches and conversations have been worse than normal, so we're doing a little spring cleaning!

    THE ONE WITH JOYNIECE K

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2022 49:44


    We're joined by Joyniece K (@flynfluffy) - a super fat model, writer, and influencer who encourages people of all sizes to live unapologetically! We discuss doing things in the world even if you're worried about your size, how she met her boyfriend, dating people who haven't dated anyone plus-size before and not being everything to your partner.

    THE ONE ABOUT WOO PLUS

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2022 48:44


    We're finally giving Woo Plus a chance. Together we make our profiles and see who's on there. We're off to a rocky start but fingers crossed it gets better.

    THE ONE ABOUT ASTROCARTOGRAPHY

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2022 63:53


    Have you ever felt more attractive or confident in a certain city? That's because of Astrocartography! This week we had our resident astrologer, Lauren (@themodernastrologer) on to give us a rundown of the map and what all of those lines mean for love, work, partnerships, and yourself. Visit astro.com to check out your chart and follow along.   Use code BEBOLD to get $300 of a Big Fig Mattress through March 15th. Use code SWIPEFAT for 30% off your next Dia.com order

    ThE ONE ABOUT LOVE IS BLIND

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 4, 2022 41:22


    We had so much hope for Season 2 of Love Is Blind because they promoted that they'd have TWO plus-size women on the cast. We discuss our disappointment and opinions of the season.

    THE ONE WITH ANOTHER Q&A

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2022 39:52


    You asked so many questions we had to do a part 2!! This round we answer questions about dating, sex, and traveling.

    THE ONE WITH A SWIPE FAT REFRESHER

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2022 60:54


    It's our 60TH EPISODE and we thought it would be fun to do another Ask Us Anything!! We got so many questions - so here's a little Swipe Fat 101. Part Two to follow next week!

    THE ONE FOR THE PLOT

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2022 41:06


    This week we're doing it for the plot and learning lessons along the way. Nicci had a whirlwind romance with a man who was moving and Alex gives details about two dates she went on. 

    THE ONE WITH DREW AFUALO

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2022 60:35


    This week we're joined by Drew Afualo, The Crusader of Women on Tiktok. We discuss misogyny and the patriarchy, how she started fighting back at bigots, why men get away with the bare minimum, and the steps you can take to defend yourself.   Use code SWIPEFAT for 30% off at dia.com/swipefat and 20% off at manscaped.com

    THE ONE WITH A DATING COACH

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 62:39


    Dating Coach, Christan Marashio (@dateologycoach on tiktok) joins us this week after reviewing Nicci's dating profile on Tiktok!! We review Alex's Bumble profile and then she gives us dating profile tips and how to weed out people who aren't interested in a relationship and gives her theory on the "if he wanted to he would theory." Spoiler Alert: one of us cries

    THE ONE ABOUT FEELING OBLIGATED

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2022 40:32


    Alex had a dating marathon this week and one of her dates leads us to a discussion about feeling obligated to hook up after a date. When is the right time to have sex and why do we feel like once you walk into their house that you're agreeing to it? Does it even matter if they put us in a hook-up box or relationship box before the date?

    THE ONE ABOUT REJECTION

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2022 53:30


    We're back from winter break and have a lot of dating updates! We talk about rejection and why our internalized fatphobia always makes us think it's because of our weight and then we play a fun dating game.

    THE ONE ABOUT SLEEPING NAKED

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2021 36:38


    It's the last episode of the year!! We recap our holiday party and then discuss sleeping naked. When did you feel comfortable, why do you do it, and how it can help you accept your body!

    THE ONE ABOUT BEING FETISHIZED

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2021 40:02


    We get dating updates from Alex, Nicci got a very disturbing email and we get into a discussion about fat fetish vs fat preference and how fatphobia comes into play. 

    THE ONE WITH A THERAPIST

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2021 43:39


    We're joined by our friend Carli, a  Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor to answer questions from YOU that we're not quite qualified to answer.

    THE ONE ABOUT OUR FEELINGS

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2021 40:21


    Taylor Swift dropping her 10-minute version of All Too Well on Red (Taylor's Version) brought up A LOT of feelings for one of us, we got dating updates and a new manifestation mantra!

    THE ONE WITH RAEANN LANGAS

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 68:34


    It's our 50th episode and we're joined by Raeann Langas (@raeannlangas) from The Confident Collective!! We're talking confidence in dating and how to get it, the ick list, and male validation.

    THE ONE WHERE WE TURN ONE

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2021 35:19


    It's been an entire year since we launched Swipe Fat and it's been a wild ride!! We go down memory lane and talk about the lessons we've learned so far.

    THE ONE ABOUT RED FLAGS

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 22, 2021 40:43


    Everyone is talking about red flags, so we had to get in on the action! We get a dating update, discuss some of our red flags AND our green flags.

    THE ONE ABOUT DATING BURNOUT

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 31:35


    We all getting dating burnout, especially with the mental energy that goes into online dating. Here are ways to help it not take everything out of you!

    THE ONE ABOUT MERCURY IN RETROGRADE

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2021 34:13


    Lauren, @themodernastrologer joins us to talk about the dos and don'ts of mercury in retrograde. 

    THE ONE ABOUT KINKS

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2021 49:57


    This week we take a kink quiz and find out which one of us is kinkier. The results are surprising and things get weird!

    THE ONE ABOUT ONE NIGHT STANDS

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2021 30:30


    Vacation Alex came out to play and had a hook-up! It got us talking about how we're less self-conscious about our bodies when we're with a stranger.

    THE ONE ABOUT GETTING THROUGH A BREAKUP

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2021 44:22


    How do you get over someone? We go through a list of "healthy" ways and how we deal with a breakup. 

    THE ONE ABOUT 2021 DATING TERMS

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2021 37:25


    Nicci has a little life update and Alex breaks out a list of 2021 Dating Terms!  Do we know what they mean? Do we do them? Are they are toxic? We're now on Patreon!! We'll be putting out at least two extra episodes a month on there, as well as other fun things! https://www.patreon.com/swipefat

    THE ONE WITH SEAN TAYLOR

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2021 52:43


    We're joined by Sean Taylor (@heyseantaylor) from Season 1 of The Circle!!! We talk about her time on The Circle, fat representation in reality TV, and learn the story of how she met her boyfriend.

    THE ONE ABOUT SOCIAL CURRENCY

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2021 31:37


    Why is it easier to hook up with an extremely hot guy than with an average dude? We dig into social currency and how it affects our relationships.   Tiktok we discuss is by: @queenreenuka  

    THE ONE ABOUT SEXTING

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2021 39:01


    Let's talk about sexts, baby! Alex is in two sexting situationships, we get details on those, talk sexting rules, our preferred ways of doing it, and our regrets.

    THE ONE ABOUT SHAMING

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 39:43


    This is a true look into a typical Alex & Nicci conversation that jumps between ghosts, shaming, pimps, and MMA. The bulk of our discussion is shaming which stems from Tess Holiday being named one of the "worst beach bodies" and we talk about how it's affected us and our relationships.

    THE ONE WITH ELLE CHASE

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 46:22


    This week we're joined by body-positive sex educator Elle Chase @theellechase. We talk body confidence, sex positions, and even get some personal advice!

    THE ONE WITH THE WORST DATES

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2021 65:03


    We get an update on Alex's second date she told us about last week and then dive into the worst dates you all have been on!

    THE ONE ABOUT INTERNALIZED FATPHOBIA

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2021 50:55


    While out at a bar Nicci was accosted by a drunk woman and then she was given an unsolicited pep talk that Alex got unwillingly dragged into.  This starts a discussion about people commenting on our bodies because of their internalized fatphobia and then we open up about our own internalized thoughts. We also give a listener some advice after she sent us a DM seeking help with battling her insecurities of dating someone shorter and thinner.

    THE ONE AFTER SUMMER BREAK

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2021 55:11


    We're back and we have updates!! A lot has changed in two weeks! Alex and Nicci recap their vacation, they had some adventures, we get dating updates, one went to an astrologer and the other got a drawing of their future partner from a psychic and they both open up about feeling a little insecure at the moment - but in different ways.  

    THE ONE WITH MEGAN IXIM

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2021 69:36


    We're joined by Megan (@msgiggles) who is a content creator, fat activist, business owner and OnlyFans content creator. We talk about dating after the pandemic, what Megan's looking for in a partner, OnlyFans, she gives us her dating tips and Alex gives us a Happy Endings update!

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