Podcasts about fat sex

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CW: Discussion on sex, sexuality, and fatphobiaFriends, I hope you were able to join me last week for part one of this conversation with my guest Angela Corry. Angela is a clinical and sexual health educator, an expert in fatphobia and sex, and last week we talked about body image and fatphobia and how perceptions have changed throughout history. Fatphobia is very pervasive in our society and it shows up everywhere, especially in areas of sexuality and pleasure. This second episode with Angela really focuses on pleasure. It's our right, in whatever body, as a human, to experience pleasure on every level, including sexually. But why don't those of us in bigger bodies often feel comfortable experiencing or seeking pleasure? And how can we change that? As Angela states right at the start of our conversation, “sexy isn't a size”. We deserve to feel good. What feels good for our body, whether a great orgasm or the pleasure of a wonderful bath in a tub that fits us, is pleasurable and we deserve that. Why is that hard for us to accept if our bodies are bigger? It's very much a link between fat and sex and fat and food and the way societal structures drill certain reluctances into us due to size. Much of the work Angela does with her clients starts with confidence and self-esteem, it starts with helping people eliminate the barriers we have between us and experiencing pleasure. We talk about learning to accept our bodies and touch our bodies, bringing all five senses into our pleasure, and not being afraid of sex toys or pillows or adjustments needed to make sex more pleasurable for us. This episode dives into everything we don't talk about enough when it comes to fat, sex, and pleasure. I'm so glad you're here for this!__About Angela Corry:Angela Corry, RN, BScN, ACCN, is a clinical educator and sexual health educator for Loving Choices in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. She earned her Bachelor of Science in Nursing from the University of Alberta, her Advanced Critical Care Nursing (ACCN) specialty from Mount Royal University and her certification in Holistic Sexual Health Education from the Institute of Sexuality Education and Enlightenment (ISEE). Angela has over 20 years of nursing experience in emergency and intensive care as a bedside and clinical nurse educator. During this time, she has contributed to several medical journals, including the Emergency Medical Journal. For the past two years, while focusing on health promotion and wellness, Angela realized that her pre-conceived notions about sexuality and body image were enmeshed with mainstream society's views on what is “normal,” “healthy,” or “feasible.” She believes it is necessary to reflect on the nature of sexuality and size diversity and how they fit and are used in our social, economic, and political structures. Angela wants to help empower individuals to live authentically by helping clients and professionals make choices that cultivate body positivity, accept size diversity and personal empowerment, enhance sexual well-being, celebrate the diversity of sexual expression, and promote equity for all within the current structures of our fat-phobic society.__Resources mentioned in this episode:“Fat” by Hanne Blank“Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire” by Lori A. Brotto, PhDDr. Lori Brotto__Learn more about Angela Corry:Website: LovingChoicePsychology.caInstagramFacebookLearn more about Dr. Michelle Tubman and Wayza Health:Website: www.wayzahealth.comFollow me on Facebook and Instagram

In this episode of the metabolic classroom, Dr. Ben Bikman takes the helm to explore the multifaceted role of fat tissue as an endocrine organ. He begins by challenging the conventional view of fat tissue as merely a storage depot for energy, emphasizing its crucial role in hormone production and regulation.Dr. Bikman introduces the concept of endocrine organs and highlights the often overlooked status of fat tissue as one such organ. He discusses how fat tissue releases hormones into the bloodstream, exerting significant metabolic effects throughout the body.The lecture delves into sex-specific differences in fat distribution and hormone production, with a focus on the influence of estrogen on fat storage and hormone levels in women. Dr. Bikman further explores the impact of menopause on fat tissue and hormonal changes, shedding light on how shifts in hormone production affect metabolism and fertility.Leptin, the first discovered fat-derived hormone, is dissected in detail by Dr. Bikman, who elucidates its role in appetite regulation, metabolic processes, and fertility. He discusses how excess fat can lead to leptin resistance, compromising its effectiveness in metabolic regulation.Other hormones such as adiponectin, estrogen, TNF alpha, plasminogen activator inhibitor 1 (PAI-1), and T3 are also explored for their metabolic effects and their association with fat cell size.The lecture concludes with a focus on brown adipose tissue and its production of T3, highlighting its role in regulating metabolic rate, particularly in response to stimuli like cold exposure.In summary, Dr. Bikman provides a comprehensive overview of the endocrine functions of adipose tissue, emphasizing the intricate relationship between fat cells and hormone regulation, with implications for metabolism, inflammation, and overall health.00:01 - Introduction to Adipose Tissue as an Endocrine Organ01:07 - Sex-Specific Differences in Fat Distribution03:21 - Impact of Menopause on Fat Tissue and Hormone Production05:45 - Endocrine Effects of Fat Distribution07:58 - Role of Fat Tissue in Aromatization and Estrogen Production10:13 - Impact of Fat Cell Size on Hormone Production12:24 - Detailed Exploration of Leptin14:45 - Examination of Adiponectin and its Metabolic Effects18:17 - TNF Alpha and its Impact on Inflammation and Insulin Resistance21:05 - Plasminogen Activator Inhibitor 1 (PAI-1) and its Implications for Clotting22:16 - Brown Adipose Tissue and its Production of T324:30 - Conclusion and Summary#insulinresistance #metabolicsyndrome #metabolichealth #type2diabetes #type1diabetes #weightloss #intermittentfasting #intermittantfasting #fasting #lowcarb Learn more at: https://www.insuliniq.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Fat sex! How does society view fat bodies and how do we view our own fat bodies when it comes to sex and desirability? What impact does that have on the way we relate to others sexually? I talk about how sex was one of the final ways anti-fat bias had a hold on me as desirability is key to seld esteem. TW: mention of fatphobic beliefs about fat bodies. This episode was first aired in December 2020.  Episode show notes: http://www.fiercefatty.com/171 Support me on Ko-Fi and get the Size Diversity Resource Guide: https://ko-fi.com/fiercefatty/tiers Fatphobia is not a sexual preference from The Fat Sex Therapist: https://wearyourvoicemag.com/fatphobia-is-not-a-sexual-preference/ Treating My Friends Like Lovers: The Politics of Desirability from Cale Luna: https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/magazine/how-to-be-fat-caleb-luna-sub/ 3 Reasons Dating, Attraction, and Desire Are Always Political by Hari Ziyad: https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/04/attraction-desire-political/ Fatphobia Exists – and It's Especially Bad in the Bedroom by Marie Southard Ospina: https://www.vice.com/en/article/8894bx/plus-size-girls-sex-stories-fatphobia

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Welcome to "A Big Fat Sex Party Christmas" The 2022 Holiday Special! Look at us dropping our first Christmas Special and shit! HO HO HO! WOAH. Ok. Sorry. So sorry, we've had a bunch of egg nog and we're a little too excited to drop this thing. You should get pumped though, because this one is JAMMED with special holiday appearances from nearly 30 familiar faces, as well as a few Christmas surprises... and of course the main event, three big holiday interviews with three returning friends of the show! First up, Dustin talks with Breakup Coach Dorothy AB Johnson about why breakups skyrocket during the holiday season and what you should do if it happens to you. The two also create the first ever Sex Party Holiday Cocktail and it's... well it's... exactly what you think it would be...Next up, Sex and Relationship Coach Rachel Maine sits down with Dustin to roll out a Sex Toy Holiday Buyer's Guide for 2022! The duo chat about how to buy your partner a sex toy if you've never done it before or want to spice things up, how to know what kind of sex toy to buy for yourself if you're not sure what you're into, as well as what kind of wacky awesome advanced craziness has come to the market this year and what's coming in 2023. Finally, Dustin talks with the Ghost of Christmas Future, Superstar OnlyFans Creator, Ava Marie about A LOT. Including whether her and her friends were naughty or nice this year, her record-breaking year on OnlyFans, creating Christmas OnlyFans content, joining Twitch, going "mainstream", and what exactly Santa is doing up at the North Pole with Mrs. Claus and all of those elves... MERRY CHRISTMAS! HAPPY HANUKKAH! HAPPY NEW NEW YEAR!ENJOY THE SHOW! Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Dorothy AB JohnsonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/breakupcoachdorothy (@breakupcoachdorothy)Work with Dorothy AB Johnsonhttps://dorothyabjohnson.comFollow Rachel MaineInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_rachel_maine (@the_rachel_maine)Work with Rachel Mainehttps://www.wellnesssexpertise.comFollow Ava MarieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theavamariee (@theavamariee)Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@avanextd00r (@avanextd00r)All of Ava Marie's content can be found herehttps://msha.ke/theavamarieeFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Joining me today is my great friend Steph Greene. Steph is an expert on fat sex and in this episode we'll get into the nitty gritty of self-acceptance and what that means within sex and relationships. We'll talk about how there are such societal double standards between men and women and how women especially tend to not believe and even argue with someone who finds them attractive because it's so deeply ingrained that a fat body cannot be desirable. Many of us are uncomfortable asking for what we want, or receiving what we want or need. In intimate relationships and in other areas of life, we need to be able to ask and receive so that others can have the opportunity to give, and so that resentment doesn't have a chance to take hold. All of it comes down to knowing what you like and don't like, getting comfortable with yourself, and getting comfortable speaking up. Check out my resources, course, and membership community “The Body Grievers Club” at https://bodyimagewithbri.com/ A Podcast Launch Bestie production

TRIGGER WARNING: Event dieting, weight gain, sexual trauma, sex and graphic sexual acts, exerciseI cannot believe we have reached episode 80!  After almost three years, a plethora of guests and experiences, and tons of books, we are at the end.  Well, not the end end, just the end for now.  I don't know why I am going on and on about this because I do hope to come back in the new year with a new look and possibly a new format, but for now I just want all of you to know how much it means to me that you listened to and (hopefully) enjoyed this show.  You guys are the best!My last guest is going to knock your socks off so get ready for a really great discussion all around being fat and having sex.  I will admit I'm pretty sexually-inhibited and so I had a hard time getting out what I wanted to say when I was talking to Lala but that did not stop Lala from digging in and giving some great information and really relevant tips.  We talked about a book called (appropriately) Fat Sex so we had a lot of material to work with.  Here are some of the topics we covered:Lala's sex and body positive journeyA discussion of the male gaze and sexualityHow Lala became a sexual educatorAll about Lala's podcast and IG accountThe stories in the book and how Lala related to themMindful sex.Self-esteem and confidence as an attractorDo men like women in larger bodies?How can women get over body image hang ups in the bedroom?Porn - fat porn, regular porn, everything pornIs fatness a fetish?The components of mind blowing sexWomen and orgasmingSexual communicationHow can we make adjustments to sex when dealing with chronic illness or disability?Dating sites and dating app tipsKeep Reading Everyone!Lala's LinksLala's websiteLala's InstagramLala's Bedtime Tales PodcastFat Girl Book Club Podcast LinksFat Girl Book Club InstagramFat Girl Book Club Email: fatgirlbookclubpod@gmail.com Plus Size LingerieTorridShienAmazonFredericks of HollywoodLove HoneyEpisode LinksSex with Emily PodcastSex with Emily InstagramLala's article about positions for larger bodiesDipseaLala's Book RecommendationsYour Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee TaylorPussy: A reclamation by Regina ThomashauerGirl Boner by August McLaughlinCome As You Are by Emily Nagoski

This week we're joined by Sonalee Rashatwar (@thefatsextherapist,) an award-winning clinical social worker and sex therapist. They are a superfat queer bisexual non-binary therapist and co-owner of Radical Therapy Center, specialized in treating sexual trauma, diet trauma, racial or immigrant trauma, and South Asian family abuse, while offering fat positive sexual healthcare. 

Hello everyone! This week we catch up with one another and talk about getting through negative vibes as the week goes on. We talk about what  is an appropriate age to date or be in a relationship with someone, on top of sharing our experiences on dating and hooking up with others who are older and younger than us. Karina shares her experience as a BBW and all the fun, funny and/or uncomfortable activities that happen in the bedroom. Marco shares his experiences as well, and encourages for everyone to do the dam thing regardless of size. The Serious Culture Topic does not stay so serious when discussing the language differences between the Latino and Mexican Culture and we close off this episode with a smelly 'U Member' story. Follow, like, comment, share and subscribe to our social media platforms:IG- @mesith0tspod, @mlc_32, @karinatienetumbao Youtube- Mesi Thots https://youtube.com/channel/UCrEXJQyL8VhM--iWHS8YeNgTwitter- podmesiFB- Mesi Thots TikTok- mesithotspod AND ALWAYS SPREAD OUR PODCAST BY WORD OF MOUTH! THANK YOU!

Gabby (@gabriellekassel) and Bobby (@bybobbybox) kickoff episode three with a conversation on body image before chatting with Megan MsGiggles about a topic that isn't talked about nearly enough: Fat sex. The conversation covers body shaming and fatphobia, how society is keeping people from pursuing fat partners and when a sexual interest in fat people borders on fetishization.Produced by Vivian McCall (@pansyisgay). Music is by Hot Machine, a collaboration between Philadelphia musicians Star Moles and Rubber Band Gun.

Wowee, what a show we have for you. Tim the Italian makes an appearance, there are more stories of our week in England, hanging up on important calls and the ring dinger. Big news on the house move, being shoulder deep in boxes, angry trolley boys, angry guy or flaccid guy? The sex quiz, spiky d*cks, country download update and guilty pleasures.  ENJOY!!   Follow us on the gram @almosteverythingpodcast   Check out our twitter for updates & spontaneous tweets @ALMOSTEPODCAST   Or flick us a testimonial and genuine dilemma via email to thealmosteverythingpodcast@gmail.com

Fat sex! How does society view fat bodies and how do we view our own fat bodies when it comes to sex and desirability? What impact does that have on the way we relate to others sexually? TW: mention of fatphobic beliefs about fat bodies. Episode show notes: http://www.fiercefatty.com/088

Quick reminder our Champagne Room Zoom party is June 5th so be sure to send us your email's so we can send you a free ticket! On this episode we talk about sex flashbacks, holding in farts on facetime, answering a late DM, communicating with your partner, kissing after getting some neck, and much much more! we also answered emails and responded to our IG story topics. We'd like to give a special shoutout to our intern (@_iam.legend) and his podcast (@culturecaviarpodcast) go check that out! Also we'd like to give another shoutout to (@dotbot) and (@heatrofa) clothing brand they hooked us up so be sure to check out their brand and go support a black business!!! Be sure to follow us on all social media platforms (@lerandlionel) for extra content!

***Content Warning: Discussion of racism, fatphobia, colonization, white supremacy, and death threats.*** Aliza Kelly ( https://www.instagram.com/alizakelly/?hl=en ) connects with The Fat Sex Therapist, Sonalee ( https://www.instagram.com/thefatsextherapist/?hl=en ) (Aquarius Sun, Capricorn Moon, Gemini Rising), a clinical social worker, sex therapist, adjunct lecturer, and grassroots organizer. In this episode, Aliza and Sonalee discuss fatphobia, sex, and shame through the lens of white supremacy and capitalism. Sonalee tells Aliza about their upbringing as a fat person and their journey to become a sex therapist. Sonalee explains the importance of popularized, politicized therapy, and the necessity of uprooting white supremacy through healing, rebellion, and disobedience. Find their upcoming workshop here ( https://www.radicaltherapycenter.com/events ) ! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/stars-like-us-astrology-with-aliza-kelly/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Whether you're constantly grappling with the unrealistic size standards of the society we live in, or you're super confident in the skin you're in, dating in a bigger body is minefield. In this episode, we're taking a close look at dating with a lot of body - the positive, the negative, and the neutral.

Whether you're constantly grappling with the unrealistic size standards of the society we live in, or you're super confident in the skin you're in, dating in a bigger body is minefield. In this episode, we're taking a close look at dating with a lot of body - the positive, the negative, and the neutral.

Whether you're constantly grappling with the unrealistic size standards of the society we live in, or you're super confident in the skin you're in, dating in a bigger body is minefield. In this episode, we're taking a close look at dating with a lot of body - the positive, the negative, and the neutral.

Whether you're constantly grappling with the unrealistic size standards of the society we live in, or you're super confident in the skin you're in, dating in a bigger body is minefield. In this episode, we're taking a close look at dating with a lot of body - the positive, the negative, and the neutral.

On this episode we sit down and talk about the gentle, tender subject of letting someone love you through weight gain and enjoying your body as it is. Follow Alicia here: https://www.instagram.com/aliciamccarvell/ Try BetterHelp now, an online therapy platform connecting you to real therapists! Get 10% off with http://www.tryonlinetherapy.com/kenzie Produced by Brett Kibbler

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Allison's fat liberation journeyAllison's last experience with Weight WatchersThe divergence Allison's art has taken over this last yearThe beauty of community when talking sex and bodiesThe scope of Big, Big Love by Hanne BlankMyth: fat people are lazy and bad at sexBoundaries.  How Allison recognizes and enforces themHow your body type plays into your privilege and/or oppressionWhat is a fat admirer and why is it problematic?Allison's fat liberation journeyAllison's last experience with Weight WatchersThe divergence Allison's art has taken over this last yearThe beauty of community when talking sex and bodiesThe scope of Big, Big Love by Hanne BlankMyth: fat people are lazy and bad at sexBoundaries.  How Allison recognizes and enforces themHow your body type plays into your privilege and/or oppressionWhat is a fat admirer and why is it problematic?LinksAllison Tunis WebsiteAllison Tunis InstagramAllison Tunis TwitterBody Love: A Fat Activism Colouring BookThe Quilt BagThe Traveling Tickle TrunkThis is Thin Privilege blogI Wish I Were Me WebsiteAllison's Book PicsHealth at Every Size by Lindo BaconBody Respect by Lindo Bacon and Lucy AphramorThe Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee TaylorFearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings 

On this episode Chris Reiter and Chris Bazemore welcome Comedian/Actor Tony Sykowski and they have a lot of explaining to do in the SEARCH HISTORIES portion, especially Tony & Chris Bazemore. From Occupy Japan to secret of fat sex and why don’t white people don’t use wash cloths. The PRIVATE MODE is leads to a real conversation about pregnancy porn. The Comments on those videos are crazy and hilarious. LISTEN LAUGH ENJOY RATE and SUBSCRIBE.Host: Chris Bazemore @chrisbazemore_ and Chris Reiter @Christopherthecomic Guest: Tony Sykowski @tonysykowskiShow: @icetpodcastYouTube: I Can Explain That Podcast

Laura Bogart is the brilliant writer behind the recent Buzzfeed piece entitled: Quitting Sex Was The Best Thing I Ever Did For Myself. In it, she discusses her experiences with dating and sex as a fat woman, and this week she joins the podcast to discuss these experiences and to answer questions inspired by this piece that came in from the podcast audience. Anyone who has ever experienced the unique exhaustion that comes along with constantly worrying about how "f*ckable" you are will appreciate this discussion. Laura on TwitterLaura's website Books mentioned in the episodeDon't You Know I Love You, by Laura BogartWow, No Thank You, by Samantha Irby Fat Girls Deserve Fairy Tales Too, by Evette Dionne Fat!So? by Marilyn Wannshanisilver.comA Single Serving Podcast Facebook GroupShani on InstagramAnti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & ReadersPodcast logo by Johanna PendleyPodcast hosted on Buzzsprout*Some links above are affiliate links Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)

I often see in the media images of fat people being admonished as unattractive and desperate for sex. Therefore, today I am going to cover some popular myths about sex with fat people to enlighten people about fat sexuality. So let's cut to the chase and dig right into some of these myths.

Today I'm bringing you a long and wonderful conversation with Sonalee Rashatwar, aka The Fat Sex Therapist on instagram. She talks about the experiences that led her to do the work she does, and have the perspective she has around body autonomy and gender identity. We talk about PCOS, being put on diets when we were young, and way more! Show Notes: 0:00 Hello AGAIN for god's sake 2:29: My convo with Sonalee (find her on instagram here!) 58:22 Let's talk about my oily hair! Also, The Fuck It Diet Book Club, my group coaching program, is enrolling now through May 6th, 2020! Watch my Free Workshop on The 5 Tools for people who've read the book!

Sometimes we think MAFS couldn’t possibly get juicier but then it turns around and surprises us. This week, Ivan called out the experts after he’d had enough of their intimacy questions. And all we’d like to say is...Trish, we told you so.  Speaking of Ivan, he was absolutely heartbroken when Aleks didn’t jump for joy at the plate of meat and one breadstick he put together for their date. And in other news, the dinner party lived up to its usual dramatic standard and exposed both a big sex lie and a cheating scandal.  Clare & Jessie Stephens are here to share their gut feelings on what went down... CREDITS Hosts: Jessie Stephens & Clare Stephens Producer: Leah Porges LINKS: Get the latest reality TV recaps news by joining our Recaps newsletter... https://mamamia.com.au/newsletter/ Read all our MAFS Recaps here... Ep 1: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap/  Ep 2: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-amanda/ Ep 3: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-hayley/ Ep 4: http://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-tash  Ep 5: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-ivan/ Ep 6: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-michael-stacey/  Ep 7: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-stacey/ Ep 8: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-dinner-party-hayley/ Ep 9: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-hayley-david/ Ep 10: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-who-left-married-at-first-sight/ Ep 11: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-hayley-and-david-sex/ Ep 12: https://mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-mikey-tash/ Ep 13: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-tash-amanda/ Ep 14: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-2020-hayley/ Ep 15: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-2020-cheating-scandal/ Ep 16: http://mamamia.com.au/mafs-2020-poo-toothbrush  Ep 17: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-hayley-david/ Ep 18: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-lizzie/  Ep 19: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-steve/ Ep 20: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-mishel/ Ep 21: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-mishel-steve/ Ep 22: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-lizzie-seb/  Ep 23: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mafs-recap-aleks-ivan-heartbreak/ Ep 24: http://www.mamamia.com.au/aleks-ivan-sex CONTACT US: Bring the lols in our Facebook group, MAFS Lols... https://www.facebook.com/groups/1613407402085696/ Send us an email at podcast@mamamia.com.au or call us on the podphone at 02 8999 9386. Love the show?  You'll find more Mamamia podcasts here... https://mamamia.com.au/podcasts/

Sex-cation interview with Matie! This is a really fun episode with Matie Fricker of Self Serve Toys! It was recorded while we were at Desire Riviera Maya – a swinger resort. We were there on a takeover of the resort with The Swingset Takes Desire. We get deep in it and talk about so may sweet and sexy things.   Self-Serve Toys was kind enough to give us a promo code: Exxxxtraordinary  and listeners will get 20% off!    Matie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, Self Serve Toys. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times. Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 13 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award. http://selfservetoys.com Here’s the highlights! In finding her fat identity: Overcoming child sexual abuse Coming out as queer Touching a girl’s hand for the first time Learning to feel hunger for sex and eat again “I’m so sure that you’re wrong that your body is wrong. I am 100% confident that you’re wrong about hating your body” Mattie Fricker Virgie Tovar’s “You Have the Right to Remain Fat” https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat “We deserve to be treated well” – Briana Cavanaugh The tension of “the good fatty role” v the “good activist role” Food is not poison. My relationship with my body has to be a practice. And my relationship with food has to be a practice. I love your feelings Secrets and being healthy or unhealthy Resources: The Body is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books Not having to earn love. About Fat SEX! “Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds” by adrienne maree brown  “Pleasure Activism” also by adrienne maree brown  Standing up to a fat fetishist at sex party Mattie: I want somebody to tell me that I... they love how they love how heavy I am. They love how things feel. They love, they want to, they want to f^&*( me until I juggle… but respectfully. Care about having sex with fat people. Touch us and listen to us. Sex Out Loud podcast with Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/ All bodies are good bodies, deserving of love, exactly as they are. This is what my body looks like when it’s not aroused and you have to add arousal. It was so cool to use my body to teach. It was so cool to teach the whole time I was having an orgasm! We help each other feel safe. “Curvy Girl Sex” by Elle Chase: https://shevibe.com/curvy-girl-sex-by-elle-chase.aspx Matie is awesome! You can find Matie at https://www.selfservetoys.com/

Lindy West is an opinion writer for The New York Times and is the author of the bestselling memoir Shrill and the new book The Witches Are Coming which exposes all the misogyny that has come squealing to the surface of culture as a result of the #MeToo movement. She also executive produces and writes the acclaimed Hulu comedy series Shrill, based on her life, which just kicked off Season 2 on January 24. And in this episode of Poptarts, she opens up about confronting her trolls, casting Aidy Bryant to play her, and writing a show that normalizes fat sex.

I interview Mattie Fricker naked at Desire in Cancun! Sex-cation interview with Matie! This is a really fun episode with Matie Fricker of Self Serve Toys! It was recorded while we were at Desire Riviera Maya – a swinger resort. We were there on a takeover of the resort with The Swingset Takes Desire. We get deep in it and talk about so may sweet and sexy things. Self-Serve Toys was kind enough to give us a promo code: Exxxxtraordinary  and listeners will get 20% off!  Matie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, Self Serve Toys. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times. Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 13 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award. http://selfservetoys.com   Here’s the highlights! In finding her fat identity: Overcoming child sexual abuse Coming out as queer Touching a girl’s hand for the first time Learning to feel hunger for sex and eat again “I’m so sure that you’re wrong that you’re body is wrong. I am 100% confident that you’re wrong about hating your body” Mattie Fricker Virgie Tovar’s “You Have the Right to Remain Fat” https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat “We deserve to be treated well” – Briana Cavanaugh The tension of “the good fatty role” v the “good activist role” Food is not poison. My relationship with my body has to be a practice. And my relationship with food has to be a practice. I love your feelings Secrets and being healthy or unhealthy Resources: The Body is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books Not having to earn love. About Fat SEX! “Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds” by adrienne maree brown  “Pleasure Activism” also by adrienne maree brown  Standing up to a fat fetishist at sex party Mattie: I want somebody to tell me that I fucking love my fat pussy and they love my rolls. And they love how they love how heavy I am. They love how things feel. They love, they want to, they want to fuck me until I juggle… but respectfully. And I fuck feminists who won’t say things like that. Care about fucking fat people. Touch us and listen to us. Sex Out Loud podcast with Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/ All bodies are good bodies, deserving of love, exactly as they are. This is what my body looks like when it’s not aroused and you have to add arousal. It was so cool to use my body to teach. It was so cool to teach the whole time I was having an orgasm! We help each other feel safe. “Curvy Girl Sex” by Elle Chase (link on website) Matie is awesome! You can find Matie at https://www.selfservetoys.com/

Nikki DaVaughn joins Jess to share insights on Domination, dirty talk, fat sex and body confidence. We cover: Scripts you can use if you want to try being more Dominant with your lover. The difference between being a Dominant and a top; the difference between being a sub and a bottom. The language of fatness: plus-size vs curvy vs fat. How her mother's voice offset the potential effects of a fat phobic and objectifying culture. Body positivity versus body neutrality. Follow Fat Bottom Cabaret on Instagram and Facebook. Follow Nikki on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts. If you've got questions or topic suggestions for the podcast, submit them here. As well, you can now record your messages for us! Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone's headphones with a built-in mic if possible. And be sure to subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Google Podcasts, Amazon Music & Stitcher! Rough Transcript: This is a computer-generated rough transcript, so please excuse any typos. This podcast is an informational conversation and is not a substitute for medical, health or other professional advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the services of an appropriate professional should you have individual questions or concerns. Fat Sex, Topping & Bottoming and How To Be a Dominant in Bed 00:00:05 - 00:05:01 You're listening to the sacs with Dr Jess podcast sacks and relationship advice you can use tonight Hello Hello Jessica Riley your friendly neighborhood sexologist here and today we are talking to Nikki Devan a writer storyteller a a performer. A dominatrix the host of fat bottom cabaret yes. Hi Hello thank you for being here so excited site to be here. Oh so you host fat bottom cabaret tell us all about that so fat. Bottom cavalry is a plus size cabaret troupe. Based here in Austin Texas and I am the founder and director but as a troop we put on a show once a quarter. Call them in nursery and It is a powerhouse collective of POC performers. You either have to be a person of color a person of size or you have to be queer. And it's just A. It's a SEC Obama's Obama's way to showcase people of color during their art and create visibility. And you have fun and it's a party on stage and I am see awesome. The Harry coming up soon. Yes December seventh. It's called fanciest. Eff that way so many times it. It is a great description we mutual friend Adam from. Yes our counseling on. I would describe him as oh absolutely absolutely. Adam is one of our sponsors sponsors for our show and every time he's okay. I want to sponsor the show them like. That sounds great. And he's like I'm just GonNa give you this. And every time he offers something it turns terms are show into the FA- oh you just took us up a notch on like that. He's fancy I like it. If you're not following moon tower counseling. I highly right. Yes check them out because what Adam has a unique ability to do Adam and sex positive families have this skill where they can give re-lease elise thoughtful and practical insights in like eight words right. I can't do that. I need a lot of words. I'm chatty yeah talking to a turtle the other up. Can we talk about the Turtles Austin. Because you're from Austin yes I am from here yes. I was walking along the river the other day and I saw seven turtles and the almost looked as though they were top a top of one another. Yeah right and Adams saw it on my instagram was like Oh so you went to a turtle orgy. Of course Adam said that I like Oh my God the turtles are I am very biased. They are the cutest God. Damn things in the world and is though they congregate where they know. They're going to be a lot of people and then they do cute things like each other's backs or like pop up on land and look around and like crawl right up to you and they'd be like nope never mind go away.

Nikki DaVaughn joins Jess to share insights on Domination, dirty talk, fat sex and body confidence. We cover: Scripts you can use if you want to try being more Dominant with your lover. The difference between being a Dominant and a top; the difference between being a sub and a bottom. The language of fatness: plus-size vs curvy vs fat. How her mother’s voice offset the potential effects of a fat phobic and objectifying culture. Body positivity versus body neutrality. Follow Fat Bottom Cabaret on Instagram and Facebook. Follow Nikki on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. This podcast is brought to you by Desire Resorts.

This episode is all about sex!  Today we discuss the difference between married sex vs single sex. When we lost our virginity and how its different between sex with a bigger person vs a smaller person!

Have you ever taken a bubble bath with a fat person? Should you dress up for a first date? Should you bathe before and after sex? What's the proper protocol for texting? And what do men really think when women post pics of their booties on Instagram? In the second episode of their new podcast, Ganious and Setra answer these questions and more, sharing their thoughts and experiences over a glass (or two or two or three) of wine.

In this episode, we have a big fat juicy conversation with returning guest, Meghan Clarke. We talk about the misconceptions of fat sex, how & why we need to see more body variety in sexualized media, the language we use to describe larger bodies and some of the personal challenges Meghan has faced in a larger body, while having sex. This ones hella juicy! ⠀ Let’s connect! Find us: www.instagram.com/momgasmpodcast/ www.facebook.com/momgasmpodcast⠀ Need a safe space to connect to us further and deepen the juicy conversations? Then join us in The Momgasm Den. ⠀ bit.ly/momgasmden ⠀ Become a Patron and help us create even more juicy content! www.patreon.com/momgasmpodcast

Did you read this amazing article about the FUPA from Vice.com? How To Have Sex With a Fat Girl from VICE I talk about how I still struggle with this area of my body even though I consider myself a Fat Activist and that I believe in Body Acceptance and Fat Acceptance! Yes, I still struggle with that area of my body being touched by my partner. (As usual, I also share my fatsex discount code for 30% off on my website BlissConnection.com )

This short podcast is about 10 minutes of me talking about why I love my Liberator Jaz pillow and other sex furniture products from Liberator. The sex furniture we own from Liberator always hold up to my large body and my intense sex life. I talk a bit about how I use my sex furniture to cut down on the NOISES my body makes, sometimes, when we have sex. (Think flapping body part like breasts and lower tummy.) If you want to check out any of our sex furniture products for fat sex, use the code podcast for a discount at check out from my website BlissConnection.com

Wereeee backkkk! With episode 3! Sorry we took so long life has been happening. Anywho tune in to hear how I found out my boyfriend was gay, talking about my crazy dms on these dating apps and some other reckless stuff. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/taniqua-elder/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/taniqua-elder/support

Supersize BBW Siren Isabella Martin (LosAngelesBBW.com) discusses FAT SEX (part 1)Twitter: @BBWBadgirlPODIG: BBWBadgirl NiteFlirt.com/IsabellaBBW

Welcome to season 2 episode 7 of Matter of Fat: a body positive podcast with Midwest sensibilities! Co-hosts Cat Polivoda and Saraya Boghani highlight community voices with a focus on body size, body positivity, & fat liberation. The Fat Dish is popping! There will be a Big Babywearing class on the day of release. Both ladies are psyched to attend the MN Fringe show Size. The Fat Folx Ensemble present Fat Fest in Chicago from August 10th to the 11th. The Smitten Kitten will be hosting a Fat Sex 101: Fat Sex for Beginners on August 11th. Real Life Coffee and Yoga will be hosting a book group featuring “Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fatphobia” on August 15th. ALSO! At the time of episode release, KFAI has wrapped the first ever summer pledge drive. You can still contribute to KFAI to support this mission - for us and everyone misrepresented or underrepresented in media. You can donate at KFAI.org. Be sure to write in “Matter of Fat” when you select the program! As for personal dish, Cat loves audio books and talks about meeting a favorite author Jasmine Guillory, both gals finally experienced the timeless magic of the Riverview Theater. Saraya is out of touch with the youths and Fat Girl Fall but is excited about finding a new doctor and figuring out if she’s haunted or into sleep walking. Both lasses wax poetic on their dreamy experience at the Fat Splash. The guest this episode is the original Amy Siegel. Amy is a beam of joy and tells us about growing up and making space for herself and others, a budding burlesque experience, dominating the women’s arm wrestling arena, giving us all the insight into Mall life *meow*, and extolling the virtues of building a virtual community of music lovers through the Suga Network and the Emotional Response Hour, her history with Wynonna Judd, and a take on Old Town Road. Let it be noted that OTR (not to be confused with Jay and Bey’s On the Run) was just breaking at the time of this interview. Here’s to Lil Nas X and his endless remixes so this is still relevant. Saraya has no regrets for this question. The Dirt and Discourse is quick and dirrty. Maybe you know, maybe you don’t. Forever 21 sent a buncha diet bars in their packages and there was a HULLABALOO. The gals, bless their hearts, are not fazed or surprised by F21 making poor decision. Cat does love a good lemon bar, tho. Thanks for listening and reading! Make sure to rate and review to help MoF engage with the algorithm and engage with the MoF hosts further through the Friends and Fans Facebook group. Thanks to KFAI! Find us! Website: www.kfai.org/matteroffat FB: www.facebook.com/matteroffatpod/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/matteroffatpod/ Twitter: twitter.com/matteroffatpod Email: matteroffatpod@gmail.com FB Fans and Friends Group: www.facebook.com/groups/625543661184306/ Fat Dish Size MN Fringe Show - last showing on August 8th https://www.facebook.com/events/427551151173280/ Big Babywearing Class with Doula Kaytee https://www.facebook.com/events/1116121065263798/ Fat Sex 101: Fat Sex for Beginners https://www.facebook.com/events/362168734457884/ Smitten Kitten www.smittenkittenonline.com “Fearing the Black Body: The Racial Origins of Fatphobia” book group https://www.facebook.com/events/332440084347043/ FAT FEST in Chicago https://www.facebook.com/events/475454253015799/ Cat’s audiobook recc Jasmine Guillory https://www.jasmineguillory.com/ Riverview Movie Theater http://www.riverviewtheater.com/ Interview with Amy Siegel Arm Wrestling Feature http://www.startribune.com/women-arm-wrestlers-focus-on-fun-and-philanthropy/199896731/ The Coven https://thecoven.com/?gclid=Cj0KCQjwp5_qBRDBARIsANxdcikSr9ef89oVDF06M5EYRueiNM8umi9VJEfyISS5uTwRgkhUFI3XBocaAussEALw_wcB

Julio has diarrhea (01:15) Julio registers for his powerlifting meet (3:00)Article: Low fat diet leading to low testosterone men (11:30)What fats should you eat to increase testosterone (16:40)Soy foods and high levels of estrogen (17:45)Vegan products doesn’t necessarily mean healthy (18:50)Article: The fat sex therapist (20:20)Therapist compares personal trainers to nazis and children dieting to sexual assault (21:40)“phobic” labeling culture (29:00)Did society create a norm for what is attractive (30:00)Whats with the fascination of big butts and small waist (31:20)Why did Julio start working out (32:00)Julio ask girls to “play the guitar” (33:10)Why Yeufre started working out (34:00)Evolutionary perspective of men liking big butts (36:00)Celebrities using sperm for skin care (41:00)Article: Beyonces new diet (42:00)Best diet tip (48:22)Article: Cannabis makes exercise more enjoyable (50:15)Will A.I replace trainers? (55:50)Articles mentionedBeyoncé’s new diethttps://www.health.com/weight-loss/beyonce-coachella-dietCannabis Makes Exercise More Enjoyable and Painless, Says Studyhttps://www.menshealth.com/health/a27343908/cannabis-exercise-recovery-study/The fitness mirror https://www.telegraph.co.uk/health-fitness/body/goodbye-dusty-rowing-machine-hello-virtual-reality-workout-home/'Fat Sex Therapist' compares fitness trainers to Nazis, children's dieting to sexual assaulthttps://www.campusreform.org/?ID=12142Low fat and low testosterone https://www.renalandurologynews.com/home/conference-highlights/aua-2019-coverage/testosterone-may-decline-mediterranean-low-fat-diet/“Facials”https://nypost.com/2019/05/03/sperm-is-the-hot-new-wrinkle-treatment-celebrity-facialist/Support the show (http://Patreon.com/revivalfitness)

Episode #55 feat. Sonalee The Fat Sex Therapist by Ellise

It’s FRIDAY! Michael talks about a diversity program at Wake Forest that is really about segregation. A judge and prosecutor in Massachusetts help an illegal alien escape custody. California is adopting a “thought crime” law to take guns away. And for fun, a Fat Sex Therapist compares dieting to Nazi’s and a UK Study says men’s flatulence can reduce the risk of certain diseases. Yes, it’s a serious and a fun Friday podcast

They say fat girls are better in bed… Come on over to this week’s Pure Filth where your promiscuous presenters talk everything fat sex. From how to combat self-doubt, to the positions you might enjoy; here’s everything you need to know when it comes to more cushion for the pushin’. Welcome to Pure Filth, your new favourite podcast about everyone’s favourite thing: ridin’. Join incomparable hosts Sarah Tyrrell and Michelle McCormick as they lead you on an uncharted journey through Ireland’s sex life, swing scene, kinks and more. Sit tight and prepare to learn of the things your good catholic school never wanted you to know about. Instagram: @purefilthpodcast @sarahandselflove @shellymc @talltalespodcasts Pure Filth is produced by Cassie Delaney at Tall Tales Podcasts. See TallTales.ie for more. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/purefilth/message

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We interview Nilsa's childhood friend and “Sextra” from the movie “Shortbus" Janie Martinez http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2554808/ @MartinezJanie 01:44 "Can anyone truly know Janie Martinez?” No. 03:34 How Nilsa and Janie met 06:15 And almost destroyed their high school 12:30 Chicago suburbanites marvel at the well funded and versed South Texas high school drama program Janie and Nilsa come from: Pharr-San Juan-Alamo High School 15:23 The College of Sexual Frustration 17:15 On not getting cast b/c costumes cost too much to make for a large woman 22:15 Making $186 to be wardrobe supervisor on the original production of “How I Learned to Drive” 26:45 Walking away from a paying gig to pursue more 38:00 Working once or twice a year on something artistic 39:22 Fat Sex by Details magazine comes a calling 54:51 “I just want to hug the screen right now!” screams Laura 59:00 And Janie does a public access TV show once a month called Goddesses: http://www.ustream.tv/channel/goddessbbw 01:05:36 We bring it back around to Bryn 01:12:40 We are blown away by a famous follower of the podcast 01:15:00 Bryn talks about working out. A Lot. 01:22:16 Prince Rupert's Drop: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xe-f4gokRBs Follow us on Twitter or Facebook Intro Music: "Are You Famous, Yet?" - Laura Scruggs. Outro Music: "AYFY 1" - Christopher Kriz

In this episode, Dana hosts guest Andrea Rodriguez for a candid conversation on sexuality and conditioning.

Two things! Sign-up for the Explore More Summit: Bodies Edition at exploremoresummit.com. It's free and kicks off December 4th. Prepare to be challenged and cracked open. My porn workshop, Hands Down: A Workshop on How Porn Can Heal, Connect, and Be Ethical, is now enrolling. Check out the details at dawnserra.com/porn. Let's talk about the porn! Now, on to your questions. GR wrote in asking how porn stars and people in non-monogamous relationships protect themselves. How does safe sex work with multiple partners? It's such an important question. Ultimately, it depends on each of us. We all have different needs, different requirements around risk and prevention, so the answer is really all in how you negotiate it with a partner. The most important this is to remember we always default to the person who wants MORE protection. If you don't want to use their level of protection, then you either don't engage with them or you limit your activities, but we NEVER try to talk someone out of what they need for their peace of mind or bodily safety. Cece is trying to learn how to trust her partner after he betrayed her. How can she stop questioning his word? She even snoops sometimes because she's so convinced he isn't being upfront. How can she build trust? Is there any hope? Betrayals are absolutely something you can overcome, but rebuilding trust takes time. Like, years sometimes. And not just time, but consistent, reliable behavior that proves the person is who they say they are. A lot of people can't stand that uncertainty in the interim, so you have to decide for yourself if you can find some care and support in that uncomfortable space. I also recommend Esther Perel's two books, "Mating in Captivity" and her latest, "The State of Affairs."  There was an unfortunate incident on Dan Savage's podcast recently where a trans listener was misgendered and handled so poorly. If you want to read Bex Caputo's response as well as this great thread on Twitter about the whole debacle, check it out. Trans folks, you deserve better than what Dan & Buck offered you.  LoveAllOfHim wants some advice for having sex with her fat male partner. She loves his body, but sometimes positions are a little tough. Most sex books for fat folks focus on folks with a vulva. LAOH needs some guidance. I definitely recommend LAOH check out Hanne Blank's "Big, Big Love" book. Also, this article on Scarleteen about sex with a fat partner who also has a smaller penis. I also recommend sex furniture and cushions, using ropes and straps to adjust bodies, and also getting creative with sex toys made for a penis to possibly make access a little easier. Be sure to check out Chubstr.com, too. They don't have a sex section yet, but they do have loads of resources for large & fat men and masculine folks, and I suspect it will be added at some point down the road. Natalia wants to know if certain personality traits make for better worse lovers. Also, are artists better lovers? They're fun questions that I play around with for a few moments. Hint: it's not alpha males or folks who have something to prove. Julia is the final question of the episode. It's a heartbreaking, painful plea for help after Julia's husband betrayed her and blamed it on sex addiction and not being able to help himself. How can she recover? In the end, Julia needs to center herself and what she needs to heal, to grieve, to move forward. It's a tough place to be, and there is no easy answer. Can we grapple with that pain and uncertainty? We'll find out. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. It's true. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. About Dawn Serra I am the creator and host of the laughter-filled, no-holds-barred weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real. I lecture at colleges and universities on sex and relationships, too. When I’m not speaking and teaching, I also work one-on-one with clients who need to get unstuck around their pleasure and desire. But it’s not all work! In my downtime, I can often be found watching an episode of Masterchef Australia, cooking up something delicious, or adventuring with my sexy AF husband. Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

We all do it, but is there a way to do it differently or better if you are a person of size? If he or she keeps showing up for dates with you, they have a pretty good idea of the size of your body EVEN WITH YOUR CLOTHES ON. :)    This is a short and sweet message and I do talk about the Liberator Sex Pillows in this short episode.    www.CurvGirlInc.com is where you can buy them.      

This episode is sponsored by HotelsByDay. Save 5% with code SGR5off. Elle Chase is back, which delights me to no end (though, I'm wrong in the episode - Kate McCombs was the first repeat guest!). I adore this chat despite some audio issues, because we get so personal - sharing sex stories and awkward moments and keeping sex so very real, especially for folks who are fat and curvy. Her brand new book, Curvy Girl Sex, just hit stores, and of course, I use her beautifully curated LadyCheeky.com anytime I want to turn myself or my sweetie on. Rawr. So, here we are talking fat tummies and fat butts and bad backs and awkward sex noises and all the glory of anything-but-elegant sex. About Elle Chase Sex educator and sexuality and body image coach Elle Chase, is a graduate of the comprehensive San Francisco Sex Information, Sex Educator Training Program and a member of the American College of Sexologists. Elle also serves as the Director of Education & Lead Sex Educator at the Los Angeles Academy of Sex Education, which offers pleasure inclusive classes, on sexuality, gender, sexual health and sexual lifestyles. She is also the author of “Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower your Sex Life,” from Fair Winds Press and as her alter ego Lady Cheeky, is the editor of the smash hit (very) adult coloring book, the #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book by SheVibe.com. Elle is also the creator, curator & editor of two award-winning and highly trafficked sexuality websites, www.LadyCheeky.com (NSFW) which has been named as the number one site for porn for women, and its companion editorial site www.SmutForSmarties.com which has been L.A. Weekly’s choice for ‘Best Sex Blog’ since 2013. Follow Elle on Twitter @TheElleChase and @LadyCheeky (NSFW). Listen and subscribe to Sex Gets Real Listen and subscribe on iTunes Check us out on Stitcher Don't forget about I Heart Radio's Spreaker Pop over to Google Play Use the player at the top of this page. Now available on Spotify. Search for "sex gets real". Find the Sex Gets Real channel on IHeartRadio. Follow Sex Gets Real on Twitter and Facebook. Oh! And Dawn is on Instagram. Hearing from you is the best Contact form: Click here (and it's anonymous)

Steve Larkin in from the U.K. joins us to talk about his Vancouver Fringe Festival Show "Fat Sex" and perform some poems from the show.

Elle Chase joins the show this week, and it is such an incredible discussion. LadyCheeky, Elle's very famous Tumblr, is a resource that I mention regularly on this show. Lady Cheeky is not about getting off, but rather about getting aroused and sitting in those erotic experiences a little longer, savoring the sensual. We dive into the back story that brought her to this point with a world-renowned porn site. This episode is all about fat sex, fat bodies, and finding your own way to pleasure. Elle's approach to embodied consent is glorious, and her advice to a listener who can't orgasm without a vibrator is definitely worth a listen. Don't forget: Dawn just revamped her one-on-one coaching packages and spots are filling up. If you need some help around sex, your relationship, and connecting with a loved one, you can check out her programs over on DawnSerra.com.  About Elle Chase: Sex educator and sexuality and body image coach Elle Chase, is a graduate of the comprehensive San Francisco Sex Information, Sex Educator Training Program and a member of the American College of Sexologists. Elle also serves as the Director of Education & Lead Sex Educator at the Los Angeles Academy of Sex Education, which offers pleasure inclusive classes, on sexuality, gender, sexual health and sexual lifestyles. She is also the author of the upcoming book "Curvy Girl Sex: 101 Body-Positive Positions to Empower your Sex Life," due out in January 20, 2017 from Fair Winds Press and as her alter ego Lady Cheeky, is the editor of the smash hit (very) adult coloring book, the #NSFW Totally Naughty Coloring Book by SheVibe.com. Elle is also the creator, curator & editor of two award-winning and highly trafficked sexuality websites, www.LadyCheeky.com (NSFW) which has been named as the number one site for porn for women, and its companion editorial site www.SmutForSmarties.com which has been L.A. Weekly’s choice for 'Best Sex Blog' since 2013. Follow Elle on Twitter @TheElleChase and @LadyCheeky (NSFW). Hearing from you is the best, so here's how to contact the show: Contact form: Click here

Laura is pondering the word "still". Sexologist, sex and cancer, Fat Sex.

Yes, you got that right. Today we'll talking about 'fat' and 'sex' - two words you don't usually think of in the same sentence. But today's guest, Rebecca Jane Weinstein, a person of size herself, and author of Fat Sex, reveals the true inner secrets of romance in today's obesity epidemic. Spoiler alert: Fat people do have sex. Tune in for some honest, heroic, heartbreaking and hilarious foreplay.

Yes, you got that right. Today we'll talking about 'fat' and 'sex' - two words you don't usually think of in the same sentence. But today's guest, Rebecca Jane Weinstein, a person of size herself, and author of Fat Sex, reveals the true inner secrets of romance in today's obesity epidemic. Spoiler alert: Fat people do have sex. Tune in for some honest, heroic, heartbreaking and hilarious foreplay.

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