The Evil Stepmother Speaks

The book, The Stepmoms' Club by Kendall Rose, shares best practices for the issues we all share: passive partners, challenging stepchildren, ex-wives...and more! The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  THE BLOG:  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP   PUBLIC FACEBOOK PAGE:  Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl  PRIVATE FACEBOOK PAGE:  The private Facebook group, Stepmom Life Class.  Friend Barb Goldberg on FB to gain entry.   Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx    ONE ON ONE COACHING:  Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com   READ THE BOOK:   THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.  I promise you that you will laugh and cry.  Amazon  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE  or you can order the Book from The Evil Stepmother Speaks and get a free recording of me teaching the first few chapters!. ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!  Find info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.

Our guest, Anna De Acosta of The Mindful Stepmom has developed a series of meditations designed especially for us.  Let's face it, we have one of the most stressful jobs in the world, mainly because our roles are confusing which leads to stress.  When we're stressed, we just don't think straight.  Let's fix that.  Join us as we talk about how to calm down. As always, I thank you for listening. If you would like additional support like one on one coaching or even a fun Stepmom T-shirt, click onto the website:  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Do you feel as if you need one on one help? Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!  Can you imagine getting away from it all?  Jenna Korf of StepmomHelp.com and I are holding stepmother etreats. Jenna and I will be taking care of you and we promise to change your entire stepmother experience.  Your life will change.  Find all the info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.  

Judy Higgs, author of Ella, A Stepmum's Story, writes a fictional tale of a celebrity columnist who decides to find out the truth behind Cinderella.  Who is truly evil?  Or, is anyone evil?  Ella is a quick and fun read and will leave you with great hope and an honest look at stepmothers and their stepdaughters.  If you need additional support, don't hesitate to contact me at The Evil Stepmother Speaks.  You will find my book, The Evil Stepmother Speaks:  A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.  Or, find my Facebook pages, private and public:  Stepmom Life Class and The Evil Stepmother Speaks.  I am happy to help you family through one on one coaching.  For the ultimate transformation, join me at the Stepmom Sanctuary Retreats.  They are life changing for any stepmother.  Interested, email me at Barb @TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com

Abandonment.  It is a feeling that many stepmothers feel and may be scared or unable to express.  Do you feel like your family and/or your partner has left you hanging out there?  Dr. Susan Anderson is a psychotherapist and best selling author of The Abandonment Recovery Workbook as well as Taming Your Outer Child.  Susan has dedicated the past 30 year of clinical experience and research to helping people resolve abandonment and overcome self-sabotage.  If this sounds like you, please join us. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: If you would like additional support like one on one coaching or even a fun Stepmom T-shirt or READ THE BOOK, click onto the website:  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!  Can you imagine getting away from it all?  Jenna Korf of StepmomHelp.com and I are holding stepmother etreats. Jenna and I will be taking care of you and we promise to change your entire stepmother experience.  Your life will change.  Find all the info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.  

Cristy Tusing-Borgeld, the founder of National Stepfamily Day, talks about why she has pursued the creation of this holiday.  This is our chance to celebrate our families.  No more shirking in the corner.  Listen to Cristy talk about how you can celebrate and why it is important. If you feel as though you could use some help, contact me.  I can help you with one-on-one coaching, classes, retreats, Facebook pages, etc.  All the best...   The Evil Stepmother Speaks:  http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Link to Twitter: http://bit.ly/135aHAx READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE and You can Order the Book from The Evil Stepmother Speaks and get a free recording of me teaching the first few chapters! ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!  Can you imagine getting away from it all?  Jenna Korf of StepmomHelp.com and I are running retreats.. Jenna and I will be taking care of you and we promise to change your entire stepmother experience.  Your life will change.  Find all the info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.    

Christy Tusing-Borgeld is the founder of National Stepfamily Day, celebrated on September 16th.  Her vision in creating this holiday is to celebrate our strong commitment to support the stepfamilies of our nation in their mission to raise their children, create strong family structures to support the individual members of the family, instill in them a sense of responsibility to all extended family members.  A strong leader for all step family memers, Christy also works at the The National Stepfamily Resource Center (NSRC) is a division of Auburn University's Center for Children, Youth, and Families (CCYF). Let's talk all things step families with one of our leaders.  

Resentment can create roots in your soul.  It starts to creep into your head and then seems to seep into every part of our body.  The worst part is that it never seems to go away.  Today, we talk about resentment and its cure.  Join me.  The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  THE BLOG:  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP PUBLIC FACEBOOK PAGE:  Like us on Facebook PRIVATE FACEBOOK PAGE:  The private Facebook group, Stepmom Life Class.  Friend Barb Goldberg on FB to gain entry. Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx ONE ON ONE COACHING:  Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE and You can Order the Book from The Evil Stepmother Speaks and get a free recording of me teaching the first few chapters! THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.  I promise you that you will laugh and cry.  It's a quick read. ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!  Jenna Korf of StepmomHelp.com and I will be taking care of you and we promise to change your entire stepmother experience.  Your life will change.  Find all the info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.

Internationally acclaimed psychologist and best selling author Dr. Carmen Harra and her daughter, life coach, Alexandra Harra  gives us tips on how to deal with an ex after a break up and help to recognize if an attempt at friendship is the best move.There are no perfect relationships, but we can have better experiences by becoming aware of our karma and the people we are allowing into our lives. Dr. Harra's and Alexandra's book reveals the secrets of how to transform the karma in all of your relationships—especially our stepfamilies.  You can find their book, The Karma Queens' Guide to Relationships:  The Truth about Karma in Relationships The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.   THE BLOG:  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP PUBLIC FACEBOOK PAGE:  Like us at The Evil Stepmother Speaks.  ONE ON ONE COACHING:  Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh. The Evil Stepmother Speaks and get a free recording of me teaching the first few chapters! ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!   Find all the info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.

Did you ever feel as if you just want to walk away?  Or, not feel as strongly as you do about the children, the ex, your partner?  It may be time to DISENGAGE.  But, what does that word mean?  Do you leave town?  Do you stop talking to everyone?  Do you just stop doing anything?  It all may sound great or very scary.  Barb Goldberg gives you tips on how to disengage and find the life you may be looking for.  As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. Email me at Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks or click on the Stepmom Support tab on the website.

Yes, I know.  Who would ever speak the words?  "I feel as if I am in constant competition with my stepchildren for their bio parents' love and attention."  Okay, I said it.  As creepy as that may sound, it may be true.  Let's explore the thought and find a solution. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at:   The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamiles Who Want to Love and Laugh You can buy the book at the site where you get a free recording of me actually teaching the first 7 chapters! Or, you can find us at any e-reader like AMAZON:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE  

Mother's Day is the perfect time to be reminded how much we matter.  The truth is only we can write our Mother's Day story.  Enjoy this show as I take a stab at the perfect Mother's Day card.  I would love your feedback.  As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

APOLOGIZING.  Do you hate the sound of that as much as I do?  Do you feel confused as to when you should apologize?  Or, do you know how to apologize?  Like all things stepfamily, it's more complicated.  Right?  So, let's talk about apologizing. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

Have you ever been frustrated by all that you are doing?  Then, no one seems to notice anything that we do.  Or, we feel totally ignored or disrespected.  In today's show, I challenge you to think about how we might spend your time in a little different way.  It's a start to a journey towards getting to a state of freedom.  Let me know if this short show resonates with you.~ Barb Let's tear it apart a bit and see if we can find some peace.~Barb The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  Please enjoy that which will help you! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl The private Facebook group, Stepmom Life Class.  Friend Barb Goldberg on FB to gain entry. Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh

Our stepmother saga continues as we study chapters 4++.  Yes, it's time to talk about the kids and our homes.  What's the story with our houses anyway?  We probably did not think about our housing when we remarried, but it becomes an issue.  Where are the boundaries?  Do we have any space to call our own?  Got to read the book and join class to find out! If you are having one of those times where you just don't feel as if you can figure things out on your own, that is what I'm here for.  Just send me an E-mail at Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com.  Or see my website under Stepmom Support http://theevilstepmotherspeaks.com/stepmom-support/ The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl The private Facebook group, Stepmom Life Class.  Friend Barb Goldberg on FB to gain entry. Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx

Ever feel as if you are your family's back up plan?  You know what I mean.  Mom can't do something.  Stepmother does it.  Dad has to work.  Stepmother steps in.  Stepchildren coming this weekend?  Stepmother cooks. Stepmother makes the plans.  Stepmother does the laundry.  Stepchild needs to be picked up from an activity?  Stepmother gets the call.  Does this resonate with you?  This is the show for you. Let's tear it apart a bit and see if we can find some peace. The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  Please enjoy that which will help you! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl The private Facebook group, Stepmom Life Class.  Friend Barb Goldberg on FB to gain entry. Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me or SCHEDULE A COACHING SESSION:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh  

Be careful what you ask for.  This is a poignant message for all stepmothers to heed during the year and during holiday seasons.  If you have ever had times when you secretly wished that your stepchildren or the ex-wife would go away?  Have you ever had a moment when you wanted to leave?  If so, this show is for you.  You may learn a few techniques to stay on track with the deep love you have for your family. Let's tear it apart a bit and see if we can find some peace. The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  Please enjoy that which will help you! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh

Did you ever wonder why the ex-wife just can't get over it?  Maybe, you are a stepmother who has been a part of the family for years, yet you still feel as though the ex-wife hates you.  You just don't understand it.  As you know, we study the art and science of stepfamily management here at The Evil Stepmother Speaks.  In this class, we are going to learn a little more about the science behind the ex's behavior.  This one is a little different than the lessons we have learned before.  Please join me! Let's tear it apart a bit and see if we can find some peace. The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  Please enjoy that which will help you! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE If you purchase the book on my site, you get 4 free classes as I teach the first several chapters of the book.  THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh

Just like when you learn how to play the piano, deep practice is the key to mastering the challenge.  It is no different when you are learning how to be a stepmother.  The key is learning how to practice, then practice and the result will be a new habit. This show explains how to form a new stepmother habit.  Let's tear it apart a bit and see if we can find some peace. The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  Please enjoy that which will help you! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSw Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE  Or, if you buy the book on my site, you get to listen to me teaching the first four chapters. THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh  

Halloween is a stepmother's haven and gift to the planet.  It is our time.  This is the day of the year where every stepmother can be anything she wants with her stepfamily  Yes, you can be the good fairy today.  Yes, you can laugh today.  If you are a crafty stepmother, this is your big opportunity to be a hit. Here are a few quick tips so that Halloween is less scary!  Boo!  Trick or Treat! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

Tell me if I'm wrong, but we've either said or thought it, "We don't want to go to that birthday party or sporting event or dance recital or holiday party...anything involving the entire extended stepfamily.  We don't want to be with the ex.  We are exhausted.  Yet, we feel guilty.  We feel as if we SHOULD go.  So, the question remains, "Do we have to go?"  That question is quickly followed by that age 'old' stepfamily query, "Should I go?" Let's tear it down and see what works for you. Don't you wish the answer was a simple one.  Maybe, it is.  As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

Can we talk?  Have you ever dreamed of being able to say whatever you want?  "Oh! Grow up!" As Joan Rivers, famous comedienne and actress, passed away this week in 2014.  She was known for speaking her mind.  How great would it be to be able to speak your own mind? Just saying whatever you want. Let's face it.  Many stepmothers feel as if they have to measure their words. If you dream of talking freely and knowing where to draw the 'line', this show is for you.  Join us for a tribute to Joan Rivers and the lessons that all stepmothers can learn from her.  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. FINALLY!  The book that tells me exactly what to do is here!  What took you so long?     ~Jill  

As a mother and stepmother and with a blended "yours, mine and ours" family of five kids, Holly Robinson has written extensively on the topics of marriage, divorce, blended families and stepfamily dynamics. Now, she has written a novel, Beach Plum Island, with the stepfamily right in the middle of it.  The best part is that there is a family mystery that we need to discover.  Holly  is an award-winning journalist whose work has appeared in Better Homes and Gardens, Family Circle, Huffington Post, Ladies' Home Journal, More, Open Salon and Parents. Let's talk the secrets of blending a family with Holly Robinson. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP   Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl   There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg    Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx    Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching.  

Stepfamily wellness is a goal that we all seek.  This show is one where I share some tips on how to get there.  I know!  I know!  You think there is nothing I can do!  Not true.  This show is based on scientifically proven concepts from the field of positive psychology.  You never know when an idea may spark that thought that makes life better.  Enjoy and let me know what has worked for you. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

Searching for happiness is that age old journey.  I want to be happy.  That is all that I ask.  I only want my children to be happy.  I want a happy marriage.  The true solution to being happy is not what you think.  As I may have shared, I am a businesswoman as well as a stepmom, mom, friend, sister, wife, etc., etc.  As a businesswoman, I train salespeople.  In my last round of classes, I was grateful to have the opportunity to teach from Shawn Achor's best selling book, The Happiness Advantage.  In this show, I'll review some basic concepts and it will probably change the way you look at life. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP  Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Like us on Facebook There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me.     

Have you ever felt as if your stepfamily life mirrored your high school years?  Girls talking about one another?  Never feeling as if you were good enought?  Pretty enough?  Smart enough?  (Sounds like the SNL character Stuart Smalley) Life in high school was stressful. It was like you were uncomfortable in your own skin, right?  Do you feel the same within your own home? By now, we should know better! As always, let's tear it down and find solutions. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

A familiar stepmother/stepfather lament is, "I didin't ask for this!"  Who knows what we were all thinking?  I just know that many of us are shocked at what stepfamily life can be like.  We meant no harm.  We wanted to help,  Somewhere along the line it became something else.  As always, I hope that the lessons learned in this radio show resonate with you and make your life better. I'm Barbara Goldberg of The Evil Stepmother Speaks.  I teach the art and science of stepfamily management.  Don't forget about our other resources! The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me. 

Sometimes I wonder if we are all looking to make this huge impact on our families on a day to day, minute by minute basis. 24 hours a day/7 days a week.  Our measurement of accomplishment seems to be never ending.  A clean house.  Obedient children.  Control over our lives.  It's as if we are looking to win.  When you truly think about it, we are looking to have influence.  In today's show, I give you the secret to having MASSIVE INFLUENCE.  This may change your life. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me.   

When I surveyed the stepmothers who follow The Evil Stepmother Speaks, they said that their #1 concern is dealing with the ex.  Other coaches as well as publications will tell you the same thing.  So, I ask you, can you ever have too many tips on this subject?  Probably not.  This show is a quick one with 3 quick tips that I hope will change your stepfamily life.  Who knows?  Maybe, one of these tips is something that you never thought of and could change your entire attitude! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks:http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks:http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazonand all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me.   

Have you ever said or thought, "I hate the way my stepchildren are treated!"  Or, "I would do it differently!"  But, everyone knows that I can't do anything about it.  Is that true?  In this show, I propose that it is time to review the Pygmalion Effect.  The Pygmalion Effect is named after a sculptor, Pygmalion, whose story is told in an old Greek myth.  What does that have to do with being a stepmother?  Everything.  Listen to this show and learn that there is much that you can do to affect your stepchildren's future and behavior. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks:http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks:http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazonand all other e-reader sites. Need more support?  I offer one on one coaching any time that you need me.     

I've heard it a bunch of times.  Why does the mom have to brag and talk about the kids as if they were their best friends?  Why do they feel that they have to give the impression that they are doing everything? Are they telling the world that they are single moms and it drives you nuts?  We know that Dad is co-parenting and we are supporting in a big way!  In some case, Stepmom has the kids more than Mom, but the proclamations of mommy-hood continues. Let's talk about why this behavior happens and what we can do about it. Should be an intereating session. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites.  

Where do I draw the line?  Sometimes, I feel as if I just don't have any lines or boundaries.  The gift of learning how to say 'no' and understanding how we fit into our family's lives is the subject of today's 'Evil Stepmother' tip.  Creating boundaries may be the greatest gift we give ourselves and our families.  As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at:   The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx

What would be the greatest Father's Day gift you could give?  A tie?  A shirt? Another piece of electronics?  Nah!  The best present you can give is acknowledgement and compassion.  It's free!  Take a listen to today's call.  If you like it, download it and send the mp3 recording to your husband/partner. Who knows?  It may be the greatest gift he ever received? As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: For blogs, freebies and one on one coaching, The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Want to change your life? Try the book  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: A Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh.   You can buy it on my site or on Amazon and all other e-reader sites.

Brenda Ockun is the creator and passion behind Stepmom Magazine, a leading, online resource for anyone who is married, living with or dating a partner with children.  Brenda says that her “…commitment is to bring you the most comprehensive, informative, and solution-oriented resource available, every month, in one beautifully designed package. I promise that we'll tackle the issues you can't talk about anywhere else. And we'll do it with a highly qualified, hand-picked team of stepfamily experts who, like you, understand, because they're stepmoms too.”  Today, we'll talk about our experiences and try to cram in as much as we can to make your life better! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx    

What??? Step Parenting addicting?  No way.  I can make the case that we get addicted to our situation, which may only make it more difficult to make the changes that we want in our lives.  I know it's a weird concept, but let's discuss and just make sure that we aren't in this quandry. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Do you feel as if you need one on one help? Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh Want more support?  Find one-on-one coaching and email coaching on The Evil Stepmother Speaks  

All I ask is for some control over my life.  Sound familiar?  On this show, I am actually highlighting a rerun.  Yes, this is one of the first reruns that I plan on playing for you.  My guest was Jeannette Maw and the subject was how to gain control by understanding and utilizing physics.  (I didn't want to say Law of Attraction because I want you to listen!) This is a favorite of mine and I hope it gives you an AHA moment. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.comTheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Do you feel as if you need one on one help? Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh Want more support?  Find one-on-one coaching and email coaching on The Evil Stepmother Speaks    

Haven't we all said it?  How could he have possibly married her?  What was he thinking?  And there's more to that...isn't there?  We'll talk and get some rational thinking around the "Ugh! Where was your head?" As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh Want more support?  Find one-on-one coaching and email coaching on The Evil Stepmother Speaks    

Help me welcome Andrea Brandt, author of 8 Keys to Elminating Passive-Aggressiveness.  Andrea is going to teach us how to improve our lives. Passive aggressiveness.  You know what I mean.  It's when someone doesn't exactly tell you what they want or how they feel, but you can just tell that they are really angry.  I had a feeling that passive aggressiveness plays a big role in the world of stepfamilies. After all, a stepfamily is the perfect haven for people who just can't say what they mean.  We're afraid, right? This is a class that we all need and can't wait for all of you to join us! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh Want more support?  Find one-on-one coaching and email coaching on The Evil Stepmother Speaks

Yes, Sarah Haskins, co-creator of the ABC hit TV show, Trophy Wife, joins us on The Evil Stepmother Speaks radio show. Trophy Wife is a truly funny show that takes a look at the life of a blended family from the perspective of the third, younger wife. If you haven't seen the show, watch it and have a laugh! Of course, we are going to talk about all things 'stepmom'.  Sarah is a stepmom in real life and, of course, we're going to ask her about that!  She, also, has a long history in comedy and movie making.  Finally, we have our voice out in the mass media.  Join us and have a laugh with both of us. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh Want more support?  Find one-on-one coaching and email coaching on The Evil Stepmother Speaks

In typical ‘Betsy Chasse' style, Betsy tells it like it is in her new book, Tipping Sacred Cows. I love this book because it challenges all the ‘spiritual teachings' that we have heard about happiness, love, and spirituality.  Of course, the irony of this book is that these challenges/questions are coming from the ‘mother' of spirituality. Most of us know Betsy best as being one of the producers of the award-winning film, What the Bleep Do We Know?!  If you are unfamiliar with this film, it is probably one of the quintessential pieces of work that explores the connection between quantum physics and consciousness.  On our show, we're going to talk about Betsy's latest journey through divorce and the spiritual questions that it sparked.  Speaking of being a mom, Betsy is the mom to two children, Elora and Max. We're going to question and, maybe, answer some of life's greatest questions.  What a tremendous honor to welcome Betsy Chasse.   

They say that the definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result.  Today's quick tip challenges all of us.  If we were to be honest with ourselves, do we do the same things?  Do we avoid the hard work associated with change?  Do we want to avoid any vulnerability to our stepfamily members? Do we just want things to be the way we think it should be rather than seek to understand?  Let's talk.  As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh Want more support?  Find one-on-one coaching and email coaching on The Evil Stepmother Speaks  

"I was never an angry person until I became a stepmom."  Have you ever felt this way?  Do you sometimes feel as if you don't recognize yourself?  Anger.  It hits all of us.  We are angry at our partners.  At the kids.  At the ex-wife.  Let's talk about it and explore some solutions, together. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh

I feel as if I "HAVE" to do this and I have no "CONTROL" over that...especially over the holidays.  Actually, I feel that way everyday.   Well, you are not a slave to everyone else.  There are 3 simple tactics that can help you in every situation.  Listen to today's podcast and I'll tell you all about them.  Hint...it's called the 3 Bs.  Huh? As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh    

I used to love the holidays and, now, I don't!  I don't want to go to that holiday celebration!  I wish I didn't have to be with those people.  There is no easy answer to our feelings at all the holiday times.  I define holidays as any celebration throughout the year that may dictate a joint celebration.  Don't you just hate that?  Don't you feel exposed? Let's tear it apart a bit and see if we can find some peace. The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred space for stepmothers.  We have a myriad of resources for you.  Please enjoy that which will help you! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh  

Do you ever think that you are just white knuckling through your life?  Sometimes, stepmoms feel that way. That's no way to live!  On today's The Evil Stepmother Speaks Radio Show we are going to examine what happens when you white knuckle your way.  And, of course, we give you tips how to relax and calm down.  Thanks for joining us. The Evil Stepmother Speaks is a sacred place dedicated to the stepmom. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh  

Have you ever thought or said, “I'm so tired of being last on the list!.”  If this sounds like you, this is the show for you.  And, if you have never thought or said this statement, your day may come, so stick with me. Know that I have said this one many times during my career as a stepmother.  In fact, I have thought about this so many times that I've given it some real thought.  I want to share with you my thoughts and my conclusions. I hope you feel better after listening! As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamilies Who Want to Love and Laugh

Stepmoms on The Evil Stepmother Speaks Facebook page posed today's radio show topic. Should Stepmom have a private meeting with Mom? It's a common question. The answer is unique to every family.  If you are new to the family, you may want to let Mom know that you want the best for the kids and do not want to replace her.  Or, there may be other issues and you wonder if you should initiate a meeting.  Today's show, I give you some things to consider in making this decision.  I also give you a few pointers regarding how to make these meetings effective. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamiles Who Want to Love and Laugh All the best, Barb  

Ever think that stepmothers and the ex-wife are "Bringing Bitchy Back".  You know what I mean.  All of a sudden, you have become this person who is constantly frustrated...complaining...and focused on another women who you barely know. Does any of this sound familiar?  Then, this show is for you.  Maybe, there is more to it and we can make it better.   As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamiles Who Want to Love and Laugh

When you marry and form a stepfamily, one of the foremost thoughts and fears is to make sure that we know that we are not Mom.  We know that.  But, it made me think about Mom and some of the classic teaching philosophies Moms have passed on throughout the centuries.  It begged the question, “Do we want to be Mom?  Why does everyone just assume that every stepmother wants to be Mom, pretend to be Mom, or aspire to be Mom? The truth is that one of the things that Mom always has to offer is her unique brand of wisdom.  This show gives some stepmother wisdom that will rival Mom anyday. Enjoy! Barb As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at:   The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP   Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com   READ THE BOOK:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamiles Who Want to Love and Laugh    

It's that old stepmom lament!  No one listens to me or respects me.  I work my ass of and get nothing in return.  Okay.  Got that.  So, today's show is to suggest the idea that we are looking for RESPECT in ALL THE WRONG PLACES.  I give 5 tips to help us feel better about the whole stepfamily things.  Give it a listen.  By the way, if you want to continue the conversation, let's continue to talk.  I'm Barb Goldberg and you can find me at: As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at:   The Evil Stepmother Speaks:  http://bit.ly/lBKSwP   Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl By the way, there's a Secret Facebook group as well called Stepmom Life Class.  The only way to get in is to let me know on The Evil Stepmother Speaks FB page. Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks:  http://bit.ly/135aHAx   Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com   READ THE BOOK:  THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamiles Who Want to Love and Laugh   AMAZON:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE      

We are so tough on ourselves.  Sometimes, I think we are our own worst enemies.  I have found great peace in some of the lessons that I learned from Dr. Martha Beck.  I studied with Dr. Beck and I am a Certified Martha Beck life coach.  One of the lessons that Dr. Beck teaches is about The Change Cycle and how it fits into our lives.  If you understand waht is really happening, then you can cope much better! Join me as we take the pressure off of our stepfamily lives!  As always, the conversation continues on Facebook, on The Evil Stepmother Speaks site (http://bit.ly/lBKSwP) , on Twitter or through the Book! Like us on Facebook Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks   You'll love the book.  It's a fast, funny read that will help!  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE All the best, Barb Goldberg

Here's the show that most of you have been waiting for.  It's the show where we are going to interview and coach a stepmother who claims she has the craziest (she calls it bat s--- crazy) ex wife on the planet.  This is actually a famous person, but you know how it is.  We're going to keep it anonymous.  Sorry. Let the conversation start. Let the suggestions flow.  Get ready to laugh and cry.  It's going to be one of those!  I set this one up for an hour and a half. It may go on and on!   As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at:   The Evil Stepmother Speaks:  http://bit.ly/lBKSwP   Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl   Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks:  http://bit.ly/135aHAx   Email me:  Barb@TheEvilStepmotherSpeaks.com   READ THE BOOK:  THE EVIL STEPMOTHER SPEAKS:  The Guide for Stepfamiles Who Want to Love and Laugh   AMAZON:  http://amzn.to/17VMKPE