Podcast appearances and mentions of Susan Anderson

KVMR News correspondent April Glaser explores the history of Black life in rural California through the lens of a new exhibit Rood Administrative Center in Nevada City, entitled We Are Not Strangers Here. Glaser interviews Susan Anderson, history curator of the African American Museum of California, and Linda Jack of the Nevada County Historical Society about the history of slavery in California, rural Black family life in the state, and one prominent family of Grass Valley, The Sanks.We Are Not Strangers Here was made possible by a local partnership with the Nevada County Arts Council, Grass Valley-Nevada City Cultural District, the County of Nevada, Nevada County Historical Society and the Nevada County Historical Commission. The broader exhibit represents a collaboration between the California Institute for Rural Studies, Susan Anderson of the California African American Museum, the California Historical Society, Exhibit Envoy, and Dr. Caroline Collins from UC San Diego.

Ron DeSantis wants the state to assume responsibility of Everglades restoration from the federal government. Terrible idea for the Everglades.Our guest this episode is Susan Anderson, outgoing executive director of the Apalachicola Riverkeeper. Susan grew up on the river and shares what makes it special and the numerous threats it faces."Welcome to Florida" patrons receive exclusive access to our weekly Florida Conservation Newsletter for only $5 per month. Visit www.patreon.com/WelcometoFlorida to sign up and be in the know about the most important conservation and environmental topics from around the state.

Susan Anderson is the founder of Entrepreneurs Gone Wild, a podcast, community, and newsletter where unfettered entrepreneurs have a shared goal is to get outside and spend time in nature to do their best thinking and self-care.In addition, Susan and her husband are in the process of building Idyllwild (Idol-Wild) Woods, a Smoky Mountains retreat center for entrepreneurs on a gorgeous 35-acre property where they will host quarterly retreats. Picture summer camp, but for entrepreneurs. While building their retreat, Susan and her husband are also homesteading and dreaming up other ways for their property to be enjoyed.Here's where to find more:https://entrepreneurretreatcenter.comhttps://entrepreneursgonewild.com___________________________________________________________Welcome to The Unforget Yourself Show where we use the power of woo and the proof of science to help you identify your blind spots, and get over your own bullshit so that you can do the fucking thing you ACTUALLY want to do!We're Mark and Katie, the founders of Unforget Yourself and the creators of the Unforget Yourself System and on this podcast, we're here to share REAL conversations about what goes on inside the heart and minds of those brave and crazy enough to start their own business. From the accidental entrepreneur to the laser-focused CEO, we find out how they got to where they are today, not by hearing the go-to story of their success, but talking about how we all have our own BS to deal with and it's through facing ourselves that we find a way to do the fucking thing.Along the way, we hope to show you that YOU are the most important asset in your business (and your life - duh!). Being a business owner is tough! With vulnerability and humor, we get to the real story behind their success and show you that you're not alone._____________________Find all our links to all the things like the socials, how to work with us and how to apply to be on the podcast here: https://linktr.ee/unforgetyourself

California Riverside Ballet President Susan Anderson discusses GhostWalk Riverside.

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On this episode, we are doing our first posthumous highlight honoring Charlotta Spears Bass, a pioneering African American journalist and civil rights activist, best known for her work with the California Eagle, one of the oldest and longest-running African American newspapers in the United States. For this conversation, we speak with historian and author Susan Anderson. Susan is  the History Curator and Program Manager at the California African American Museum here in Los Angeles, and a member of the editorial board of California History journal. Previously, she was Director of Collections, Library, Exhibitions and Programs at the California Historical Society in San Francisco, as well as Interim Chief Curator at the African American Museum & Library at Oakland, and Curator of Collecting Los Angeles at UCLA Library Special Collections. Susan was also featured on PBS's special on Charlotta Bass titled “Unladylike” and is the author of Nostalgia for a Trumpet: Poems of Memory and History. Resources:www.pbs.org/wnet/americanmasters/charlotta-spears-bass-first-black-woman-vp-nominee-epkd15/15441/www.nytimes.com/2024/02/07/us/california-black-history-month.htmlwww.heydaybooks.com/authors/susan-d-anderson/caamuseum.orgCommunity Announcements:Summer Night LightsJoin us from now to August 10th, every Thursday through Saturday, 6 PM to 11 PM, for a summer filled with fun, food, and festivities. for participating parks visit Instagram.com/mhdcd8Metro Mobility WalletApplications for Phase II of the Mobility Wallet are now open. This prepaid debit card allows recipients to use various transportation services, including Metro Bus, Metro Rail, Metro Micro, bikeshare, e-scooters, taxis, ride-hailing (Uber/Lyft), regional transport (Greyhound, Amtrak, FlixBus), and even bike shop purchases. Participants can receive up to $1800 to spend on these shared transportation options.For more information and to apply, visit metro.net/mobilitywallet1

Join Sam, Ellie, and special guest Susan Anderson as they explore inner and outer child dynamics, the path to authentic self-love, and overcoming abandonment issues.

Our friends at the Wiregrass Hope Group have a new leader. Our long-time friend Susan Anderson is the new executive director for Wiregrass Hope and she joins Ken and Martha to talk about her journey to leading this wonderful ministry "Sunday Morning with Love In Action" airs every Sunday at 10:30 a.m. on The Joy FM thanks to a generous donation from Weed Man, who provides quality lawn care services for the greater Dothan area. Please subscribe to the Love In Action Podcast anywhere you listen to podcasts, including Podbean, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and Spotify.

In “California Dreams and Flossie's Mississippi Tamales,” journalist and Gravy producer Eve Troeh joins businesswoman Sandra Miller Foster to tell the story of the restaurant Flossie's, and the mother-daughter dream that fueled it. This story grew from a simple question: “Does anyone serve Mississippi-style hot tamales in Los Angeles?” The answer was clear, but complicated. There was just one documented place that sold the specialty, and it brought Troeh to Foster.  The narrative of Sandra, her mother Flossie Miller, and their celebrated Southern cooking spans from a Cleveland, Mississippi fine dining restaurant in the 1950s to an empty strip mall storefront in 1980s Los Angeles. Flossie's grew famous for beloved “meat and three” plate lunches and dinners at its southern California location—with, yes, the simmered and spicy hot tamales on offer as well. They struggled to get their business off the ground, closing their first place after just three years. But eventually they built a celebrated restaurant that lasted decades, and defined success on their terms.  Owning a restaurant, for so many people, is more than just a business venture. It represents pride, the joy of service, and the ability to work for yourself. Restaurants are more likely to be owned by women or people of color than other businesses. And nearly half of restaurant businesses are owned by women.  For this episode, Troeh interviews Sandra Foster and her best friend of forty-plus years, Susan Anderson, to learn how hard work and self-reliance made a Southern soul food institution thrive in Los Angeles. The story of Flossie's twenty-plus years in business is one of family triumphs and losses, critical acclaim that led to lines of customers out the door, and many more twists and turns. It prompts bigger questions of who gets opportunities in the restaurant business, what it takes to make it as an independent owner, and what success really means at the end of the day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your host, Catherine Cantey, talks with Executive Director of The University of South Carolina Board of Dance and the Artistic Director of South Carolina Summer Dance Conservatory, Susan Anderson.Susan recounts the remarkable story of planning and realizing a multimillion-dollar dance facility at the university. Despite initial challenges, her passion for dance led her to open doors, eventually establishing one of the top three dance programs in the country. From humble beginnings to a state-of-the-art center, Susan emphasizes the importance of perseverance and seizing opportunities.We talk about:-Taking care of people-Surrounding oneself with excellence-Finding alternate pathways to achieve goalsIf you'd like to be a guest on The Business Vitality® podcast, click HERE.For more information, visit CatherineCantey.com.

We can help you resolve not just your current heartache but the underlying primal wound of abandonment – the source of your depression, isolation, low self-esteem, and self-defeating patterns. I am Susan Anderson, psychotherapist and founder of Abandonment Recovery. Trying to overcome abandonment trauma, shame, and anxiety can seem overwhelming, but the program treats the source of the problem to help you find greater life and love than before. As a clinician, I developed the special tools of Abandonment Recovery while recovering from my adult abandonment trauma. There is a way to redirect the energy within abandonment's wrenching pain toward empowering the deepest possible recovery and growth: Akēru. I'm making these life-changing tools available to you through a series of videos you can download where I guide you step by step through a program of Abandonment Recovery, or you can access this Program through my books or workshops. The program has been helping thousands of people worldwide resolve their abandonment wounds, past and present, and it will help you, too. @theliberatedhealer @ginacavalier Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode of the Sharing Without Shame podcast, host Donna Marston welcomes Susan Anderson, a private practice psychotherapist and author. They discuss the power of sharing stories without shame and how it can help individuals and their loved ones navigate the challenges of addiction. Susan shares her personal journey and expertise in abandonment recovery, offering insights and support for those going through similar experiences. Tune in to hear inspiring stories of love, courage, and unwavering support in the face of adversity. Susan Anderson is a private practice psychotherapist in New York, Licensed Drug and Alcohol Counselor, a member of the National Association of Social Workers, Author of Journey from Abandonment to Healing, Taming Your Outer Child, The Black Swan and Founder of Abandonment Recovery.   Abandonment Recovery: https://www.abandonment.net/ Tune in for an inspiring conversation that aims to break down stigma and foster understanding in the realm of addiction. Don't forget to subscribe, like, and leave a review to support the podcast. Website: https://sharingwithoutshame.com/

In Episode 15 of Diamonds in the Rough Draft, Eric and Emily are joined by Eric's mother, Susan Anderson, and mysterious brother, Brother (also known as J.M. Anderson). They drink more beer from Resting Pulse Brewing Co in Opelika, including, but not limited to, Peach Bellini IPA, and discuss Emily's tale of the Selkie. Eric calls dibs on the coffee shop name: "Java's Palace," and Emily recounts the tale of someone hiding in the bathroom during her wedding. 

The fear of abandonment is universal. The problem is – we try to medicate that feeling with whatever gives us instant gratification (drugs, alcohol, food, television, sleeping, social media, shopping, etc.)  Whatever that looks like, addiction can stem from an unhealed abandonment wound. And when you fail to take care of that wound, it can lead to self-sabotage. So how do we heal our abandonment issues? On today's episode, Duane speaks with Susan Anderson, founder of Abandonment Recovery, a program that helps people with numerous issues such as heartbreak loss, self-sabotage, addiction, and compulsion. Susan shares her own story of how she got into this work of dealing with abandonment. Susan gives us an illustration of what abandonment looks like, how it impacts our life, and what we can do to overcome it. Susan points out that overcoming abandonment is a doing process. Therefore, just knowing about it isn't necessarily going to help you overcome the wound that may be negatively impacting your life. There needs to be action. In this episode, you will hear: Why abandonment is universal The correlation between abandonment and addiction Loneliness as a huge adult trigger Early abandonment vs. normal level of abandonment Self-sabotage and the outer child Forms of self-sabotage The power of visualization Key Quotes: [02:36] - "Abandonment translates to separation anxiety, which is something we all share as human beings. It's universal and we medicate that feeling.” [04:16] - “We all have a fear of abandonment, and when it's triggered by an adult experience, it can create a cascade of hormonal processes in the brain. No matter how strong we are, we can all experience a serious emotional crisis if the trigger is big enough in adulthood." [05:37] - "Overcoming abandonment is a doing process, not just a feeling process. It's a recovery. It's an ongoing process." [10:53] - "When we are going through an adult trigger, even if it's a mild trigger, the thing that we are most vulnerable to is becoming addicted to a substance or to an activity." [19:01] - "If you've had a lot of abandonment, you have a lot of self-sabotage... and you repeat the thing that's so familiar." [29:16] "You don't have to make gigantic changes to have your dreams start to line. You need to make enough of a change just to get that door to swing. It's an amazing thing that small changes make huge differences." [34:18] "Everyone's looking for a magic bullet that's why addictions are so popular... but they have to enter on a journey of developing a new relationship with themselves and it's something they have to really work out and take very seriously." Subscribe and Review Have you subscribed to our podcast? We'd love for you to subscribe if you haven't yet.  We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. If you really enjoyed this episode, we've created a PDF that has all of the key information for you from the episode. Just go to the episode page at www.theaddictedmind.com to download it. Supporting Resources: NovusMindfulLife.com Abandonment Recovery https://www.abandonment.net/  Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

With host Wolfgang Klein. Tech companies build their business on the advertising revenue generating model, Join The Wolf of Bay Street and Canaccord analysts to know where the market is going. Guests: Robert Young joined Canaccord Genuity as a technology analyst as part of the integration of Genuity Capital Markets in 2010. Previously, Robert worked as a technology strategy consultant with IBM and as a systems engineer for Nortel Networks. Robert was ranked as a top earnings estimator (software/ IT services) in the 2018 StarMine Analyst Awards from Refinitiv. He holds an MBA from the Richard Ivey School of Business at the University of Western Ontario, as well as a Bachelor of Engineering from McMaster University.  Susan Anderson joined Canaccord Genuity as a Managing Director in 2022. She has 18 years of experience covering consumer names on the sell side, with prior research positions at Deutsche Bank, Citi and B Riley (formerly FBR). Susan is known to investors for her in-depth, quantitative fundamental company research, backed up by qualitative analysis. Investors have come to rely on Susan's detailed insights across brands and the entire industry. She is a CFA® charterholder and holds an MBA from the University of Southern California's Marshall School of Business and a BS in Civil Engineering from Cal State Long Beach.

On episode 114 of Inside the SCCA we continue our series of shows previewing the 50th Solo Nationals. Our guest on this episode is Solo Nationals 100%er Sue Anderson. Not sure what a 100%er is -- you'll have to tune in to find out! Partners - A big thank you to our partners who help make Inside the SCCA possible! Our coverage of the 50th SCCA Solo Nationals in Lincoln is presented by Mazda Motorsports -- Please check out these links to learn more about all they do for grassroots racers. Spec MX-5 Challenge – THE Driver Development Series https://specmx-5.com/ Updated 1.3.23: Spec MX-5 Four Pillars + Rules & Regs (VTS with Penalties) – Mazda Motorsports https://www.mazdamotorsports.com/2023... ---- Our Coverage of the 2022 and 2023 SCCA Runoffs is presented by Goodyear Racing - https://www.racegoodyear.com/ Become a patron to support the channel and gain access to exclusive giveaways, Livestream Q&As and more: patreon.com/racingwirenetwork

Rejection is one of the greatest fears we have as humans. Even simple rejections like not making the team or being chosen for a job – things we know aren't personal – still sting deeply. Why does rejection seem to hit at the core of who we are?   Susan Anderson began asking this question when she went through a personal experience of abandonment. The love of her life left her suddenly for another woman, and although she was a practicing psychotherapist with immense knowledge of the human mind, she still found herself in emotional crisis and doubting herself and her worthiness.    As she dug more into this topic, she discovered that we as humans have a primal abandonment wound – a universal experience that begins when we are born and go from deep union and connection with our mother to a feeling of being separate. This creates deep shame and causes us to search for belonging and worthiness throughout our lives.   And this is why rejection hurts so much: it triggers this deep fear that we might not belong and we might not be worthy.    In this fascinating and important episode, Susan shares her discoveries on the topic of abandonment, why we experience it the ways we do and how a whole host of other issues in our lives can stem from this wound. We discussed why healing abandonment trauma looks different from healing other traumas, the five stages of healing and the tools (all of which are part of The Adult Chair® model) that can heal it.   Listen to discover: The hidden shame we all have and the root of it The different defenses we put up against shame How to raise our awareness to our abandonment wounds Why healing from abandonment looks different from other forms of trauma healing Steps to healing abandonment wounding How working with abandonment wounding can help with people pleasing, codependency and self-sabotage  5 stages of processing abandonment hurt  The primal wound of abandonment is also an opportunity for primal healing. When we learn to love and accept ourselves as worthy and recognize how deeply connected we truly are, we not only heal our abandonment wound, but we can change almost anything in our lives. "The loneliness is sort of a secondary feeling. The primary is the primal fear and the shame of maybe never being worthy of keeping someone." - Susan Anderson   "The personality itself is a defense against the shame." - Susan Anderson   "When we look at a relationship that ends, it is a retraumatization of what we experienced as a child." - Michelle Chalfant   "The history that leads to a strong reaction in adulthood to abandonment could be very subtle." - Susan Anderson   "You have to take this step, and you go through it...The pain is there, but you go through it, and you get to the other side." - Michelle Chalfant   "Your adult self can now develop an intense, loving, reassuring relationship with your inner child."  - Susan Anderson   "It turns this awful emotional crisis that's so painful into an opportunity for something that's probably long overdue, which is self-love." - Susan Anderson   "Doing these steps, you will become an even better, stronger, more self-loving person on the other side of it...even stronger than you were prior to this abandonment wound." - Michelle Chalfant   "The kind of self-love that we're developing is deeper, more mature self-love...the kind of love you give yourself because you respect yourself so much." - Susan Anderson   "We have to stop looking outside of self and turn our attention inward. That's where healing, that's where love, that's where hope, that's where peace, that's where all the things are that we're looking for outside of ourselves." - Michelle Chalfant   "When the adult gets strong and is in command, it limits all of this self-sabotage." - Susan Anderson   LINKS & RESOURCES    Susan Anderson Website  https://www.abandonment.net/  https://abandonmentrecovery.com    "The Journey from Abandonment to Healing" (Susan Anderson book) https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Abandonment-Healing-Surviving-Recovering/dp/0425273539   Green Chef https://www.greenchef.com/adult50 Use code ADULT50 for 50% off + free shipping   MORE ADULT CHAIR   The Adult Chair® Website https://theadultchair.com     The Adult Chair® Events https://theadultchair.com/events/   The Adult Chair® Coaching Certification - Join the 2024 Waitlist!  https://theadultchair.com/certification   STAY CONNECTED   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant/    The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant  

Listen, Watch, & Support DTP: www.thereadinesslab.com/dtp-links #emergencymanagement #disastertough #leadership #mentorship #education #emergencyservices #ASPCA #animalrescueOne of the main purposes of Emergency Management is to protect life, property, and continuity of operations in time of disaster. When it comes to protecting life, that purpose isn't limited to people, but animals as well, particularly pets.Susan Anderson is at the forefront of that effort as Director of Disaster Response for the ASPCA. With multiple years of experience in local government and animal welfare, Susan has a unique perspective on how to handle issues and concerns relating to animals in times of disaster response.In this episode of the Disaster Tough Podcast, Susan shares experiences of the ASPCA's response efforts during recent real life disasters. It also emphasizes the importance of collaboration between the ASPCA Disaster Response or “A” team, and other organizations when properly taking care of animals in time of crisis.L3Harris's BeOn PPT App. Learn more about this amazing product here: www.l3harris.comDoberman Emergency Management Group provides subject matter experts in planning and training: www.dobermanemg.comThe Readiness Lab Podcast Network:Disaster Tough Podcast is part of The Readiness Lab Podcast NetworkFor sponsorship requests: contact@thereadinesslab.com or visit our website: www.thereadinesslab.com

In this episode, Anne has a chat with Susan Anderson, the editor of the Journal of Scottish Yarns, about her fiber background and the birth of the Journal. They cover some of the topics in past issues as well as issue three, which will provide the patterns for a make along starting on June 28! Listen to the episode for details! Links to Things Mentioned in the Episode The information about the Icelandic Goats is in episode 81, an interview with Johanna Thorvaldsdottir of Haafell Goat Farm Tangled Galashiels Seed.ed on Instagram Di Gilpin Scottish Yarn Festival Scottish Wool Producers Showcase The Journal of Scottish Yarn Make Along will require a copy of Issue 3. Use code ITIKH3 to save £3 on a print copy, or ITIKH3DIG to save £3 on a digital copy. Order here. Participate on Instagram using #yarnmal2023, Facebook, or Ravelry Order the Zoom Loom from designer and teacher, Ange Sewell, based in the UK Order a Zoom Loom on Amazon US

¿Qué pasa cuando vivimos un abandono por parte de nuestra pareja? (O una relación importante), cuando nos dejan por alguien más o simplemente nos terminan y lo vivimos como un abandono. Nos cuestionamos qué nos fantasmear, qué nos sobro por qué no fuimos suficientes. Cuando vivimos el abandono de la persona que amamos, no sólo nos queda una herida por sanar, sino que también hay vergüenza al rededor de la misma situación y no tiene lógica por qué no podemos simplemente dejar ir a alguien que nos hizo tanto daño.En el episodio de hoy, les platico del ciclo de atravesamos cuando estamos sanando el abandono basado en el trabajo de Susan Anderson algunos puntos a tomar en cuenta para atravesarlo. Recuerda que puedes encontrarme en Instagram como:@eva_latapi@superaloporfavor En TikTok como: @eva_latapi

Susan Anderson psychotherapist is an expert on how to overcome abandonment and its aftermath of self-sabotaging patterns. Author of four books including Journey from Abandonment to Healing, The Abandonment Recovery Workbook, and Taming Your Outer Child, she reaches out through her websites, workshops, and media to share her methods of abandonment recovery with victims of abandonment trauma, heartbreak, and loss around the world. Her groundbreaking program is the product of over thirty years of research and clinical practice. Susan Anderson has devoted more than 30 years of clinical experience and groundbreaking research to working with victims of abandonment trauma. Founder of the Abandonment Recovery and Outer Child movements, she is author of Journey from Abandonment to Healing, The Abandonment Recovery Workbook, Taming Your Outer Child, and The Black Swan: 12 Lessons of Abandonment Recovery, she reaches out through her website, workshops, recordings, and media to share her methods with victims of abandonment trauma, heartbreak, and loss around the world.  https://www.abandonment.net/meet-susan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're talking self-sabotage! You know that thing you always do even though you know you shouldn't? That thing that you just can't seem to shake? Well, hopefully, today's episode will loosen its hold on you just a little. It's time to learn how to live from the 'creation orientation', follow your own trail of breadcrumbs, and listen to your heart's desire when making decisions.

Czy dzięki Susan Anderson i jej teorii Zewnętrznego Dziecka cokolwiek zdziałamy, by przeciwdziałać makabrze? Przekonajmy się. Ja nazywam się Andrzej Tucholski i zapraszam do odsłuchu. Oprócz tego podcastu prowadzę też koślawy komiks na instagramie i popularny newsletter, który raz głaszcze, a raz szturcha. Wszystkie linki znajdziesz tutaj: https://andrzejtucholski.pl/ (Piosenka w intro to "Amsterdam" by lately lui.)

On our fifty-first episode, Allen talks to members of Cork Monkey Racing: Laura Kline, Sarah Hess, & Susan Anderson about their team, their strong support system, the state of women's cycling, payouts, their disciplines, and so much more!!! Cork Monkey Racing is a Women's Elite Racing team out of Syracuse, New York that supports women in all aspects of bicycle racing and an extremely strong support system!!! Their conversations definitely show what this team means to each of these ladies!!! It's an inspiring, passionate, and empowering listen!!! Thanks for joining us for this episode!!! Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/stokedonspokespodcast Facebook: The Stoked On Spokes Podcast | Facebook Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stokedonspokespodcast/

Today we are joined by returning guest, the QUEEN of abandonment trauma recovery,  In today's episode, we discuss the difference between the Inner Child & Outer Child, how to communicate with the Inner Child to self-sabotaging ways, and why we are attracted to the available, and how abandonment trauma leads us to be subconsciously attracted to the unavailable. Susan Anderson has devoted more than 30 years of clinical experience and research to helping people overcome abandonment trauma and its aftermath of self sabotaging patterns. Founder of the abandonment recovery movement, she reaches out through her websites, workshops, and media to share her methods of abandonment recovery with abandonment survivors from around the world. Susan is author of four trailblazing books including The Abandonment Recovery Workbook & Taming Your Outer Child: Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Healing from Abandonment.www.abandonment.net⬇️DAMN THE JOIN PATREON - ADULT CHILD HEALING C OMMUNITY⬇️https://www.patreon.com/adultchild

#3 - Mente Blindada - Susan Anderson - Todas as pessoas, estruturalmente falando, são ambiciosas, pois desejam ter uma vida amanhã melhor do que ontem. - Os Conceituadores da Inovação Pessoal, mesmo que não tenham a noção clara do momento, estimulam esta migração do Sapiens 1.0 para o 2.0. - Hoje há não só a demanda, mas o estímulo para que as pessoas sejam muito mais personalizadas, criativas, originais do que no passado. - Vivemos, assim, um Momento Civilizacional Bimodal, uma passagem entre duas Civilizações - entre dois Sapiens o 1.0 e o 2.0. - Mídias Mais Centralizadas têm como consequência, no médio prazo, a Massificação das formas de sentir, pensar e agir das pessoas. - Nestes momentos de Crise Civilizacional Estrutural temos um aumento da Taxa de Massificação do Sapiens. - A atual Crise Civilizacional Estrutural é provocada pela incompatibilidade do Macro Modelo de Cooperação com o novo Patamar Demográfico. - Estamos vivendo o início de uma Revolução Civilizacional - um Fenômeno Macro-Histórico, que terá reverberações nos próximos séculos. https://bit.ly/artigobimodal230123 Inovação com Ciência Zap: 21-996086422 (Nepô, chega de MIMIMI!) Está começando a nona imersão (de janeiro a julho de 2023) - não perca! R$ 700,00 no Pix! É isso, que dizes?

#2 - Mente Blindada - Susan Anderson - Mercadar o nosso melhor passa a ser uma demanda cada vez mais urgente no Mundo Digital. - Temos agora no Digital que promover um longo e difícil processo de aprender a mercadar as atividades que nos motivam. - - Não sabemos o que realmente nos motiva, pois não fomos formatados para olhar de dentro para fora. - O sucesso é um processo, uma estrada, com vários pontos de idas e vindas, que são as estações. - O sucesso, visto de forma adequada, é muito mais a estrada do que estação de trem. - Temos que combater a ideia de Sucesso como Substantivo e colocá-lo como um verbo, um processo e não um ponto de chegada. - O importante é desenvolver a referência de dentro para fora e não de fora para dentro do que é uma vida bem sucedida. - Se você ganha muito e gasta mais do que ganha, está ficando cada vez mais pobre. https://bit.ly/artigobimodal200123 Inovação com Ciência Zap: 21-996086422 (Nepô, chega de MIMIMI!) Está começando a nona imersão (de janeiro a julho de 2023) - não perca! R$ 700,00 no Pix! É isso, que dizes?

#1 - Mente Blindada - Susan Anderson - Conceituador Percepcionista - aquele que baseia suas análises mais em percepções do que em padrões. - Ambientes de Cooperação Mais Descentralizados aumentam a Taxa do Sucesso Mais Endógeno do que Exógeno. - A Jornada Humana pede que, de tempos em tempos, tenhamos um processo exponencial de personalização. - Todos nós somos egoístas, mas praticamos diferentes tipos de egoísmo, que podem ser mais tóxicos ou saudáveis. - Quando os conceitos são mais bem definidos, melhoramos a capacidade de compreensão para estabelecer um diálogo. - Muito dos ruídos que ocorrem nas conversas se deve a conceitos vagos e imprecisos. - Quando se adjetiva determinados conceitos, você limita a sua interpretação e explícita do que você está se referindo. - Sem adjetivos, determinados conceitos geram uma Confusão Conceitual. https://bit.ly/artigobimodal190123 Inovação com Ciência Zap: 21-996086422 (Nepô, chega de MIMIMI!) Está começando a nona imersão (de janeiro a julho de 2023) - não perca! R$ 700,00 no Pix! É isso, que dizes?

7.21 - Featuring interviews with Ron Marz, Phil Hester, Susan Anderson, and Rob Guillory. Ron Marz - https://twitter.com/ronmarz Phil Hester - https://twitter.com/philhester Susan Anderson - IG: _lonk__ Rob Guillory - https://www.robguillory.com/ Voicemail: wednesdaycomics.com or 605-215-1849 Twitter: @wednesdaycomics @TheAPKeaton @garot2188 @marvin_salguero Email: wednesdaycomics605@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/wednesday-comics-podcast/message

The fear of abandonment is universal. The problem is – we try to medicate that feeling with whatever gives us instant gratification (drugs, alcohol, food, television, sleeping, social media, shopping, etc.)  Whatever that looks like, addiction can stem from an unhealed abandonment wound. And when you fail to take care of that wound, it can lead to self-sabotage. So how do we heal our abandonment issues? On today's episode, Duane speaks with Susan Anderson, founder of Abandonment Recovery, a program that helps people with numerous issues such as heartbreak loss, self-sabotage, addiction, and compulsion. Susan shares her own story of how she got into this work of dealing with abandonment. Susan gives us an illustration of what abandonment looks like, how it impacts our life, and what we can do to overcome it. Susan points out that overcoming abandonment is a doing process. Therefore, just knowing about it isn't necessarily going to help you overcome the wound that may be negatively impacting your life. There needs to be action. In this episode, you will hear: Why abandonment is universal The correlation between abandonment and addiction Loneliness as a huge adult trigger Early abandonment vs. normal level of abandonment Self-sabotage and the outer child Forms of self-sabotage The power of visualization  Key Quotes: [02:36] - "Abandonment translates to separation anxiety, which is something we all share as human beings. It's universal and we medicate that feeling.” [04:16] - “We all have a fear of abandonment, and when it's triggered by an adult experience, it can create a cascade of hormonal processes in the brain. No matter how strong we are, we can all experience a serious emotional crisis if the trigger is big enough in adulthood." [05:37] - "Overcoming abandonment is a doing process, not just a feeling process. It's a recovery. It's an ongoing process." [10:53] - "When we are going through an adult trigger, even if it's a mild trigger, the thing that we are most vulnerable to is becoming addicted to a substance or to an activity." [19:01] - "If you've had a lot of abandonment, you have a lot of self-sabotage... and you repeat the thing that's so familiar." [29:16] "You don't have to make gigantic changes to have your dreams start to line. You need to make enough of a change just to get that door to swing. It's an amazing thing that small changes make huge differences." [34:18] "Everyone's looking for a magic bullet that's why addictions are so popular... but they have to enter on a journey of developing a new relationship with themselves and it's something they have to really work out and take very seriously." Subscribe and Review Have you subscribed to our podcast? We'd love for you to subscribe if you haven't yet.  We'd love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast. If you really enjoyed this episode, we've created a PDF that has all of the key information for you from the episode. Just go to the episode page at www.theaddictedmind.com to download it. Supporting Resources: NovusMindfulLife.com Abandonment Recovery https://www.abandonment.net/  Episode Credits If you like this podcast and are thinking of creating your own, consider talking to my producer, Emerald City Productions. They helped me grow and produce the podcast you are listening to right now. Find out more at https://emeraldcitypro.com Let them know we sent you.

Going public for the first time about the work I lead in my private Beautiful Connection Method community (a division/branch of Together Good Co.). I sit down with Susan Anderson - one of my very first students in this community. Susan and I talk about her experience in BCM: From a stressed, "Traumatized and Damaged" Picker...to Healing, Peace and freedom when it comes to love, life and men. I also share about how to build a life you love while feeling whole as a single woman. What do you resonate with in this chat? I'd love to know! ❤️ . . . . #christiandating #goodmenexist #christiansingles #womensupportingwomen #womenwholoveGod #howsyourpicker LINKS: The Beautiful Connection Method Bloom Sessions Together Good Co. on Instagram --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/togethergoodco/support

This week I'm diving deep into the complex world of abandonment with the psychotherapist and abandonment expert Susan Anderson. We talk about the universal experience of abandonment fear, why it affects some of us more than others, and the work we can do to overcome it.If you're looking for further information on abandonment, you can find out about Susan's books and events on her website.The book I mentioned was Healing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw.Please let me know what you thought of the episode. You can contact the lab on any of these links: Instagram, Facebook, Twitter or Email: hello@wellbeinglabpodcast.comThe Wellbeing Lab is produced by AudioAF and is part of the Acast creator network. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Susan Anderson LCSW, therapist, author, and expert on abandonment joins the show today. Susan discusses the wounds of physical and emotional abandonment and the long-term impact of both of those unhealed wounds. Having a core wound of being abandoned can cause us to look for love in the wrong places, depression, attempt to seek out comfort in abusive relationships and so much more. Abandonment wounds can be healed, but it takes time, motivation, intention, and consistency to work through the layers.  *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general suggestions and is not applicable to every situation or person. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. Some of the information discussed on the podcast can be sensitive in nature, therefore listener discretion is advised. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.  Connect with Susan Anderson, LCSW here: Susan Anderson's Website Check out Susan Anderson's books here: The Journey From Abandonment to Healing The Abandonment Recovery Workbook Taming Your Outer Child Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery *This page contains affiliate links. If you choose to purchase after clicking a link, Dr. Jones may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.* Watch the video podcast on Youtube: A Date With Darkness Email questions or comments to Dr. Jones adatewithdarkness@gmail.com  Sign up for the free ebook on Red  Flags in Your Relationships and the free weekly newsletter for tips about narcissistic abuse at www.drnataliejones.com Individual and group membership coaching sessions opening soon. Get on the mailing list to be the first to know here. Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: A Date With Darkness Twitter: @Adatewdarkness Facebook: A Date With Darkness To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group

This is part two of our exploration on BPD and fear of abandonment for my premium subscribers! We're taking what we learned in part one and going even deeper. 

Rejection is one of the greatest fears we have as humans. Even simple rejections like not making the team or being chosen for a job – things we know aren't personal – still sting deeply. Why does rejection seem to hit at the core of who we are? Susan Anderson began asking this question when she went through a personal experience of abandonment. The love of her life left her suddenly for another woman, and although she was a practicing psychotherapist with immense knowledge of the human mind, she still found herself in emotional crisis and doubting herself and her worthiness.  As she dug more into this topic, she discovered that we as humans have a primal abandonment wound – a universal experience that begins when we are born and go from deep union and connection with our mother to a feeling of being separate. This creates deep shame and causes us to search for belonging and worthiness throughout our lives. And this is why rejection hurts so much: it triggers this deep fear that we might not belong and we might not be worthy.  In this fascinating and important episode, Susan shares her discoveries on the topic of abandonment, why we experience it the ways we do and how a whole host of other issues in our lives can stem from this wound. We discussed why healing abandonment trauma looks different from healing other traumas, the five stages of healing and the tools (all of which are part of The Adult Chair® model) that can heal it.   Listen to discover: The hidden shame we all have and the root of it The different defences we put up against shame How to raise our awareness to our abandonment wounds Why healing from abandonment looks different from other forms of trauma healing Steps to healing abandonment wounding How working with abandonment wounding can help with people pleasing, codependency and self-sabotage  5 stages of processing abandonment hurt  The primal wound of abandonment is also an opportunity for primal healing. When we learn to love and accept ourselves as worthy and recognize how deeply connected we truly are, we not only heal our abandonment wound, but we can change almost anything in our lives.   "The loneliness is sort of a secondary feeling. The primary is the primal fear and the shame of maybe never being worthy of keeping someone." - Susan Anderson   "The personality itself is a defence against the shame." - Susan Anderson   "When we look at a relationship that ends, it is a retraumatization of what we experienced as a child." - Michelle Chalfant   "The history that leads to a strong reaction in adulthood to abandonment could be very subtle." - Susan Anderson   "You have to take this step, and you go through it...The pain is there, but you go through it, and you get to the other side." - Michelle Chalfant   "Your adult self can now develop an intense, loving, reassuring relationship with your inner child."  - Susan Anderson   "It turns this awful emotional crisis that's so painful into an opportunity for something that's probably long overdue, which is self-love." - Susan Anderson   "Doing these steps, you will become an even better, stronger, more self-loving person on the other side of it...even stronger than you were prior to this abandonment wound." - Michelle Chalfant   "The kind of self-love that we're developing is deeper, more mature self-love...the kind of love you give yourself because you respect yourself so much." - Susan Anderson   "We have to stop looking outside of self and turn our attention inward. That's where healing, that's where love, that's where hope, that's where peace, that's where all the things are that we're looking for outside of ourselves." - Michelle Chalfant   "When the adult gets strong and is in command, it limits all of this self-sabotage." - Susan Anderson   LINKS & RESOURCES  Susan Anderson Website (all workshops and resources can be found here) https://www.abandonment.net/  https://abandonmentrecovery.com    "The Journey from Abandonment to Healing" (Susan Anderson book) https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Abandonment-Healing-Surviving-Recovering/dp/0425273539    The Adult Chair® Membership (May Theme: How to stop negative thinking)  https://theadultchair.com/membership/   MORE ADULT CHAIR The Adult Chair® Website https://theadultchair.com     The Adult Chair® Membership https://theadultchair.com/membership/   The Adult Chair® Events https://theadultchair.com/events/   The Adult Chair® Coaching Certification  https://theadultchair.com/certification STAY CONNECTED Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michelle.chalfant   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfantCo/    The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair/   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

Susan Anderson - Communicating with Grace - The Awakening of a Psychic Medium (June 2008)

Susan Anderson - Communicating with Grace - The Awakening of a Psychic Medium (June 2008)

Jennies softball is on tap this week. Nick visits with sophomore outfielder Makenzie Cooper and head coach Susan Anderson in this week's episode. And of course, sports news and a preview of of the coming week in UCM Athletics.

Sadie Hawkes, age 37 is a strong athlete I have come to know in a daily workout routine at the Orange Theory Gym here in Utah, where her mom, Susan Anderson comes all the way across town to work out at 6:00 am with her daughter.  Sadie is strong and competitive and that personality is most likely the grit it took to overcome the powerful adversity of prescription drug abuse and addiction starting at a young age.  Overcoming the intense need for drugs and fighting off crippling waves of depression related to the addiction, Sadie shares what it was like to fight this battle, and her mom, Susan chimes in from a mother's perspective what it was like during those years that nearly took Sadie away.  This story will test your heart strength.  Thank you both for a very vulnerable interview and allowing me to experience what you went through.   --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/bob-howard9/message

Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast! Go straight to THE RED FLAG PROJECT course for womenClick here for the Break-Up Guide Visit our website THE GOOD MOOD CLINIC  (Go to our website to download Ten Characteristics of an Emotionally Unavailable Partner on the Podcast Page!) Instagram https://www.instagram.com/theredflagproject._/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/The-Red-Flag-Project-103442091937249 Check out what's new on our LEARNING HUB Ask us a question or suggest a topic by emailing: justineandgemma@goodmood.com.auGemma and Justine have another conversation in their series on breakups and schemas today. If you have ever experienced a breakup when you have an abandonment schema, you know how traumatic it is. So it is understandable if you would want to avoid going through that pain again. In this episode, Justine and Gemma share a mailbox segment. They answer a question sent in by a client of Justine, who is in the process of addressing her abandonment schema. Although she is doing well and has started experimenting with finding a relationship, she has become aware of a strong urge to avoid looking for a partner because she fears the feelings that might arise if things fail to work out. In trying to care for herself in the longer term, Justine's client is struggling to deal with her fears around the possibility of having to feel the feelings of abandonment again.  Be sure to stay tuned today to find out what to do and how to cope if you are in that situation.Show highlights:Gemma and Justine explain why people might intentionally choose to avoid relationships.There is a difference between someone avoiding finding a romantic partner due to the pain of an abandonment schema and someone who is not interested in a relationship.Life can be easier if you avoid relationships, but it can also be lonely.Even when you understand your schemas and can use that framework to understand your past relationship decisions and how they played out, it can still be difficult to muster the confidence to trust your decision-making and avoid choosing an unavailable partner. In their Red Flag Project, Gemma and Justine share a specific strategy to help you avoid becoming attached to people too quickly.Once you can spot the red flags, you will realize how much you have changed. Although you cannot avoid your emotional triggers, you can learn to respond in healthier ways.How to cope when you realize that your defectiveness schema has been triggered.Download Ten Characteristics of an Emotionally Unavailable Partner on the podcast page on our website!What you can do if you are struggling to find someone you like.Even if you do not feel it initially, you could end up having amazing chemistry with someone who meets your emotional needs.Dating is about self-development as well as finding a partner. Doing the right kind of work can help shift your thoughts and feelings of hopelessness and remove your internal barriers to finding someone.Books:Reinventing Your LifeReinventing Your Life By Janet S. Klosko and Jeffrey Young        The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson

Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast! Go straight to THE RED FLAG PROJECT course for womenClick here for the Break-Up Guide Visit our website THE GOOD MOOD CLINIC Instagram https://www.instagram.com/theredflagproject._/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/The-Red-Flag-Project-103442091937249 Check out what's new on our LEARNING HUB Ask us a question or suggest a topic by emailing: justineandgemma@goodmood.com.auThe break up of a romantic relationship causes so much angst and heartache for so many of us. Some people can't stop thinking about their ex, and regardless of whether they did the breaking up or someone broke up with them, they cannot get that person out of their mind. They remain emotionally invested and find it hard to stop ruminating, even if they were with the person only for a few dates or a short-term relationship.Today, Gemma and Justine continue with their conversation on the theme of romantic break-ups. In this episode, they talk about some of the ways that schemas can trip you up during a break-up. You might become distressed and confused when you cannot stop thinking about the person with whom you have broken up. You might dream about your ex-partner, and it could even reach a point where your friends and family start becoming frustrated with you for not moving on. Yet, you still find yourself trapped in a continuous loop from which you feel unable to break free. When a schema gets activated, it adds another layer of emotional suffering to something that is already hard, so be sure to stay tuned today to find out what to do when you cannot get over your ex after breaking up.Show highlights:Although it can be very distressing and confusing when an abandonment schema gets activated during a break-up, you can still choose how to respond to it.Gaining some insight and knowledge can help you not to be so hard on yourself.Many people get triggered when photos get tagged on social media.What happens when your preoccupation with your ex is based on guilt.After a break-up, people need time to disconnect, heal and reinvest their energies into themselves. Why abandonment schemas can lead to rumination after a break-up.How to help yourself become less inclined to go down the tracks of rumination.Understanding your abandonment schema.How schema therapy and schema mode therapy empower people.Resisting the allure of your abandonment fantasy and learning to tend to your own suffering after a break-up.Some tips for coping when your abandonment schema gets triggered.Gemma and Justine have put together a manual for strategies to help cope and minimize your suffering after a break-up.Other links and resources mentioned:Books: Reinventing Your Life By Janet S. Klosko and Jeffrey Young          The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson

In this episode, Susan Anderson shares her knowledge about how The Gold Rush Era marked the real beginning of African American migration into California: around 200 to 300 slaves came to work the gold fields, followed by free African Americans. We learn something about their stories as well as their history.Susan also dropped genealogical knowledge about the 1850 census, where best to find records for African Americans in the west during the 1850s, and more. If you missed this show yesterday you are going to want to watch it today!Susan D. Anderson is History Curator and Program Manager at the California African American Museum in Los Angeles, and a member of the editorial board of California History journal. She has published and lectured widely with an emphasis on California's hidden African American past. Susan's book, Nostalgia for a Trumpet: Poems of Memory and History was published by Northwestern University Press. Her forthcoming book, African Americans and the California Dream, is under contract with Heyday Books Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/genealogy-adventures. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.

Codependency is a behavioral condition in a relationship where one person enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. Among the core characteristics of codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity. - Wikipedia   Show Resources:  Do You Have a Codependent Personality? https://www.everydayhealth.com/emotional-health/do-you-have-a-codependent-personality.aspx  The Journey from Abandonment to Healing by Susan Anderson https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Abandonment-Healing-Surviving-Recovering/dp/0425273539/ref=sr_1_2?crid=3VQKWHIVF7ZV3&dchild=1&keywords=susan+anderson+books+abandonment&qid=1605538156&sprefix=susan+ander%2Caps%2C154&sr=8-2  Follow @KevinDwaynePod on Instagram Follow @KevinDwaynePod on Twitter www.Kevindwayne.com   

Susan Anderson - Communicating with Grace - The Awakening of a Psychic Medium (June 2008)

Four years ago, I applied online to the AAUW Women Artists Exhibition...you can imagine my excitement when I found out my landscape had been accepted into the show. As i sat in the opening and awards ceremony, i was overcome with feelings of validation and support as i listened to members of the local chapter who so graciously put on this labor of love to the community...their experiences as well as those of each trustee family member, who share about a woman relative who has lifted our art community...whose legacy was now supporting our current and future art community.I remember talking my husband Carl's ear off when i came home...that is...more than usual. It was a night not to be forgotten and in many ways, enough to sustain me in my vision and purpose for quite a while. Two years later i had a similar experience, this time, i sat next to my bestie, college roommate and lifelong friend Nancy Olson who is also an artist. It was such a treasure to share that night together, talking to juror Ashley Whitaker, and artist friends. This year of course, the show was canceled in a traditional way, meaning we weren't able to present our work in person at the UCCC and share in the magic at the opening and awards ceremony. If there is one thing that i've learned from the COVID quarantine it is that there is always another way...i talked with our local AAUW committee chair Marilyn Shearer, this show's juror Susan Anderson, artists Hilary Swingle and Nancy Andruk Olson, and we decided to share a bit of the magic of this show with your here in podcast land and of course on youtube. I am confident that you will be lifted and inspired by these lovely ladies and am so happy to introduce them to you.MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:watch youtube version & see award winning piecesonline show: AAUW online showwebsite: AAUW of utahfacebook: marilyn shearer (committee chair)   facebook: susan m anderson (juror) website: hilary swingle (juror's choice award):  website: nancy andruk olson (ruth e turner honor award)  nancy's artist residency at BDACLEAVE ME FEEDBACK: - what should i talk about next?  let me know in the comments below. - did you enjoy this episode?  if so, leave me a review!CONNECT WITH ME:katrinaberg.cominstagram @katrina.bergemail: k@katrinaberg.comjoin my SWEETlist

Narcissism is: Clinically speaking, narcissitic personality disorder is defined as: a sense of grandiosity (put themselves in a god-like category), sense of entitlement, want to control everything and everyone around them. Their relationships are short term, like a roller coaster. The people they keep around them are ones they can use. They won't be intimate or vulnerable. They lie. They are obsessed with being brilliant, successful, or beautiful. Will only associate with people who are the best. Can be a delusional component; they believe people are jealous of them. They also can feel an intense amount of jealousy, insecurity, or envy. Pop-culture defines a narcissist as: someone who has a lack of empathy, puts their feelings above everyone else's, they feel very entitled, and are very manipulative. Gaslighting. The relationship becomes very parasitic. Dr. Natalie Jones specialises in counseling women of color with narcissistic mothers. She identifies what narcissism means, how to detect if that's what we lived (or live) with, and how to break the cycle. BIO: Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD., LPCC is an Licensed professional clinical counselor and a post doctoral psychologist. She currently has a private practice called Lifetime Counseling and Consulting in Oakland, CA where she specializes in working with women who have been in emotionally and psychologically abusive relationships with narcissists, as well as with individuals who were previously incarcerated for various crimes. Dr. Jones also works for the California Dept of Corrections and specializes in providing individual/group counseling and assessments to prison inmates who have committed various offenses, with a specialization in working with sex offenders. Dr. Jones also has a podcast called A Date With Darkness Podcast, which specializes in providing education and tips from healing from narcissistic relationships. Dr. Jones received her masters in clinical counseling psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology in Chicago, IL, and her doctorate in clinical psychology from the California School of Professional Psychology in San Francisco, CA. Dr. Jones has also written blogs for the Mind Journal and PsychCentral. A few things we talked about: Just like animals who have parasites become sickly, so do we when we have a parasidic narcissist attached to us. There are women who are in abusive relationships lose part of themselves and may become physically sick. Go to 30:17-31:01 to listen to this part People who have been raised by a narcissistist have a greater liklihood of being in a relationship with a narcissist. People who are in a relationship with a narcissist may find comfort in that relationship because there's comfort in what we know. They might not want to change. If the person is a true narcisstic person, you can limit contact or make the coversation superficial. Or limiting talking to once or twice a year at holidays when you can walk away. Know that the narcissist will not change unless they want to, which rarely happens. Do not expect them to change. They feel like they don't have the problem. When narcissists go to treatment, it's usually to prove how you're the problem and they're so wonderful. You can't typically have a superficial relationship with a relationship partner. They need everything focused on them. Don't stay in this relationship for your kids. If the person is treating you like garbage, that's abuse, and your kids are seeing you be abused. Even if they're "nice" parents, if they treat you like dirt that isn't good parenting. If someone is abusing you, there's a chance they're abusing your kids and you don't know it. Narcissism indicators: You have to do a lot of work just to have a relationship with the narcissistic person. (Much more than a normal relationship.) You have to mentally prepare yourself to go "into a war-zone" when you're going to deal with them. You feel like you can't have a healthy conversation with the person. You have to hide part of your life from them because they use information to attack you, use it against you in a moment of weakness, or they'll try to hold it over you later. If you notice those things, ask yourself why. Many people think they have to respect their parents, but don't know exactly what their definition of what respect is. Often, the word respect is misused. Do they respect you, or hold you emotionally hostage? Do they try to control you to be a certain way so they can get what they want, but you don't get what you want from the relationship. We feel like we don't know them. We know how they act, or their behaviors, but we don't know the intimacies and intracasies of their life. Is it healthy to break the tie with a narcisstic person? "Yes, it might even be necessary or life-saving to break that tie." You're in a relationship with two people: you're in a relationship with the actual parent, and they're also in a relationship with the fantasy or idea of what their parent should be, or what they hope one day they can be." It's important to reconcile reality from fantasy. Chances are they are not going to change.   More facts about narcissism according to Dr. Jones: 99.9% of the time, people that were raised by abusive parents, and have children of their own, have the abuse manifest in some way with their own children. The number one indicator is that typically what happens when moms lash out with their own children, is that they have guilt. "I'm acting like the person I never wanted to be." Pay attention to guilt. If you notice it coming up, go to a therapist, or to the bookstore and get a book about this. If the people who know and care about you notice a problem with your own parenting, listen. Don't be defensive. Biggest telltale sign is your kids. If you're manifesting behaviors towards, your kids, there will be a reminder of the past. They might feel like they can't come to you or talk to you. They might even be afraid or intimitated by you. BOOKS to help you learn more: "Narcisstic Families, Assessment and Treatment" "Narcisstic Mothers" Dr. Susan Forward, "Toxic Families" Anything by H.G. Tudor - books and videos on YouTube Kim Saeed has videos on YouTube about narcissism Anything by Lundy Vancroft Anything by Susan Anderson     ------------------- Dr. Natalie Jones' advice to women whose parent is a narcissistic: Find a surrogate parent, or parent-like figure who can fulfill healthier roles for you. The idea of what you thought your parent some day could be. Dr. Natalie Jones' advice to a mom in a relationship with a narcissist: Think about what this means for you and what you want to do about it. Do you want it to stop, or do you want to just have an awareness of what's happening? Research on the internet and bounce ideas off friends. If you're questioning some things, write them down, and think about it more. Get a therapist you can talk to regularly who specializes in working with these kinds of situations. Be safe. You might not want your partner to see what you're reading, or your notes so they can't access it. Be selective about who you share information with so they don't share the information with the narcisstic person. Dr. Natilie Jones' Superpower: She is a human lie detector. She can tell if someone is lying or conning within seconds.   If you need help in the U.S. - The Domestic Violence Hotline in the U.S. is: 1−800−799−7233 If you are needing help with rent, utilites, and more, you can call the United Way at 2-1-1.   You can find Dr. Natalie Jones Contact: https://www.drnataliejones.com https://www.adatewithdarkness.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.nataliejones/ Instagram2: https://www.instagram.com/adatewithdarknesspodcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drnataliejones/ Facebook 2: https://www.facebook.com/adatewithdarkness/ Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/196036654267594/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/Dr_NatalieJones Twitter 2: https://twitter.com/ADateWDarkness   Thank you for joining me today!  Want more? Go to HardyMom.com and you'll find ways to live well, grow, and enjoy your life again -with any health challenges. I'd love to hear what you think about this episode! Send me a message at HardyMom.com/contact Have a blessed week, Jen

In this 33-minute podcast, Susan Anderson of the African American Museum and Library (AAMLO) in Oakland provides the history and context of AAMLO, describes some of its archives and recent events. Shell equally reflects on who writes which narrative, with California not being part of the usual US narrative.  Susan also touches on the digital/analog aspects that archival institutions face, reaching out to students and some of her favorite archives (even though she wouldn't dare take them to a desert island!). She closes up with overview of her book, which is currently in the works.  Next up: California's 49 mile scenic drive/walk.  Feed you soul. Keep listening. 

In this episode, Dr. Jones has an intimate discussion about her own personal journey with hurtful relationships, and how she was able to heal and reover from them. Dr. Jones explores why she is personally invested in helping people heal from painful and abusive relationships. While her toxic relationships were costly, Dr. Jones describes how a healthy support system including her therapist and her mentor and reading self-help books were extremely helpful in overcoming her trauma. The books that were helpful to Dr. Jones were both written by Susan Anderson and include: Black Swan: The Twelve Lessons of Abandonment Recovery and The Abandonment Recovery Workbook.

Abandonment.  It is a feeling that many stepmothers feel and may be scared or unable to express.  Do you feel like your family and/or your partner has left you hanging out there?  Dr. Susan Anderson is a psychotherapist and best selling author of The Abandonment Recovery Workbook as well as Taming Your Outer Child.  Susan has dedicated the past 30 year of clinical experience and research to helping people resolve abandonment and overcome self-sabotage.  If this sounds like you, please join us. As always, I thank you for listening and if you ever want to talk further, you can find me at: If you would like additional support like one on one coaching or even a fun Stepmom T-shirt or READ THE BOOK, click onto the website:  The Evil Stepmother Speaks: http://bit.ly/lBKSwP Like us on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/TheEvilStepMotherSpeaks?ref=hl There is also a SECRET Facebook group called Stepmom Life Class.  It's a sacred space to vent and find solutions.  To get in, you have to friend me at https://www.facebook.com/barbgoldberg Tweet me @StepmomSpeaks: http://bit.ly/135aHAx ATTEND A STEPMOTHER RETREAT!!  Can you imagine getting away from it all?  Jenna Korf of StepmomHelp.com and I are holding stepmother etreats. Jenna and I will be taking care of you and we promise to change your entire stepmother experience.  Your life will change.  Find all the info at The Stepmom Sanctuary Retreat.  

Host Cyrus Webb welcomes author Susan Anderson to #ConversationsLIVE to discuss her new book THE ABANDONMENT RECOVERY WORKBOOK.