Podcasts about set boundaries

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Brene Brown teaches that the most compassionate people have the strongest boundaries. This is because when we have clear and strong boundaries, we protect the relationship from resentment and anger and clear the way for compassion. Only when we are honest about what is okay and not okay with us can we create the partnerships that we seek in our most intimate relationship. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #7 Boundaries Part 1 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #47 Thoughts, Consequences, & Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #378 What Can Happen When We Don't Set Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #381 Psychological Boundaries on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

SummaryHave you ever felt like losing weight means saying no to everything you enjoy?Maybe you avoid social events, spend all week waiting for a cheat meal, or feel like one meal can ruin all your progress. You may be able to follow a strict plan for a few days or weeks, but it starts to fall apart as soon as life gets busy.In this episode, Chase and Chris explain why you should not have to put your entire life on hold to lose weight.The problem may not be that you need more discipline. Your plan may simply not fit your real life.Chase and Chris talk about the difference between following a temporary diet and building a lifestyle you can maintain. A diet often gives you strict rules to follow. A lifestyle helps you learn how to make choices during busy weeks, weekends, vacations, stressful days, and social events.That does not mean you never have to make sacrifices. You may need to drink less at some events, choose a different meal, skip an appetizer, plan ahead, or say no sometimes. But you should not feel like you have to be perfect or avoid everything you enjoy.They also explain why your sleep, stress, schedule, boundaries, routines, and relationships can affect your progress just as much as your food and workouts.The goal is not to get better at suffering through another diet. The goal is to create healthy habits that feel like a normal part of your life.Want to join us for the All or Nothing Masterclass on Monday July 20th, 2026 at 8pm? Text 'MASTERCLASS' to +1 (517) 948-5178 and we'll register you and send over all the details to join for free!Chapters(00:00) You Shouldn't Have to Put Your Life on Hold(02:03) Signs You Are Just Surviving Your Diet(04:04) Why Strict Plans Work for Only a Short Time(05:03) Stop Treating Weight Loss Like It Has an End Date(06:54) How Diets Create an All-or-Nothing Mindset(07:51) Why You Keep Restarting Every Monday(09:39) Your Results Depend on More Than Food and Workouts(11:24) Making Healthy Habits Work During Busy Weekends(12:42) Why Lifestyle Changes Can Feel Harder Than Dieting(15:02) The Trade-Offs That Come With Reaching Your Goals(17:43) How to Enjoy Social Events Without Losing Progress(19:13) You May Not Need More Discipline(21:34) Following a Plan Versus Making It Part of Your Life(22:44) Stop Waiting for Life to Calm Down(24:26) Why Taking Time for Yourself Matters(25:20) Learning to Plan Ahead, Say No, and Set Boundaries(28:23) Your Schedule Has to Change if You Want Different Results(31:17) Start Keeping the Promises You Make to Yourself(33:56) Are You Truly Committed or Just Trying to Get Through the Week?(36:01) Build a Lifestyle You Do Not Need to Escape FromSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective

Comedian and Wait Wait... Don't Tell Me! panelist Paula Poundstone splits her time among a grueling tour schedule and a chaotic home life, but she wants to find the focus necessary to manage her household staff and stop letting her deep aversion to conflict ruin her business. Enter Nedra Glover Tawwab, relationship expert and author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, who advocates for establishing extreme clarity and asserting direct workplace rules rather than falling into the trap of passive-aggressive avoidance. She introduces Paula to an evaluation rubric for vetting potential employees, advising her to utilize trial workdays and custom hiring assessmentsShe exposes the traps of management neglect that trick empathetic bosses into prioritizing an applicant's personal hardships over their actual ability to complete high-stakes tasks. Executive Producer Corey Wara Edited by Geoff Craig Booking by Ben Astaire Do you have a burning question or a problem you need help with? Email us at howto@mikepesca.com and we will consider your topic for the show. For full Pesca content and updates, check out our website at https://www.mikepesca.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To receive ad-free content, become a Pesca Plus subscriber at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://subscribe.mikepesca.com/ For Mike's daily takes on Substack, subscribe to The Gist List https://mikepesca.substack.com/ Follow us on Social Media:⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/pescagist/ X https://x.com/pescami YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@pescagist⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@pescagist To advertise on the show, contact ⁠⁠⁠⁠ad-sales@libsyn.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ or visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://advertising.libsyn.com/howto Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Welcome back to the Coffee with Heather series! This week, we're talking about something that has completely transformed the way I parent: connection before correction.For a long time, I believed it was my job to control my boys' behavior. I thought that if I could just get them to listen better, behave better, or make fewer mistakes, then I would be doing my job as a mom. But if I'm honest, that mindset left me feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and disconnected from the very people I wanted to love well.The more parents, mentors, and experts I interviewed over the years, the more I realized something beautiful: God never called me to control my children. He called me to guide them, disciple them, and build a relationship where they know they are deeply loved and safe.When connection becomes the foundation, correction becomes so much more effective.In this episode, I share some of the parenting lessons that have given me freedom, including insights from Jim and Lynne Jackson and the biblical reminder that God's kindness leads us to repentance. That verse has changed the way I think about discipline—not as punishment, but as teaching, guiding, and helping my children grow.When our children know they are loved, enjoyed, and accepted, trust begins to grow. And trust creates partnership. From that place, correction feels less like control and more like discipleship.In this episode, we'll talk about: The difference between behavior management and heart transformation. Why discipline is really about teaching, not punishing. How to become a safe place for your children. The importance of staying calm and regulating your own emotions. Why giving your child—and yourself—a "do-over" can strengthen your relationship. Practical ways to create meaningful one-on-one connections, even during busy seasons. Connect with Jim and Lynne Jackson:  Website: Home | Connected Families  Instagram: Connected Families | Parent with Confidence and Grace (@connectedfams) Facebook: Connected Families Links Mentioned:  Heartfelt Discipline: By Clay Clarkson Discipline that Connects by Jim and Lynn Jackson Don't Mom Alone book  Related Episodes: Discipline 101 (LIVE Event–Friday Night) :: Jim and Lynne Jackson [Ep 221] Parenting a Spicy Child: How to Stay Calm, Set Boundaries, and Keep the Connection :: Mary Van Geffen [Ep 558] Choosing Connection Over Critique :: Rachel Macy Stafford [Ep 280] Featured Sponsors:  Hiya health: We've worked out a special deal with Hiya. Receive 50% off your first order on any of their products. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/DMA. This deal is not available on their regular website. Get your kids the full-body support they deserve. Branch Basics: And here's the good news—Branch Basics is now available everywhere you shop: at Target, Target.com, Amazon, and of course, BranchBasics.com. Tossing the toxins has never been more convenient! For anyone grabbing the Premium Starter Kit, you can still get 15% off at BranchBasics.com with our code [DMA]. The Premium Starter Kit comes with The Concentrate, and refillable bottles for your surface cleaners, including All-Purpose, Bathroom, Streak-Free, Foaming Hand Wash, and Laundry. It also comes with Oxygen Boost for extra stubborn stains on pots and pans, laundry, bathroom tile and more. This kit is a great way to kickstart your human-safe cleaning routine.

Boundaries are imperative if you are to have strong and healthy relationships. And I know that seems counter-intuitive, but when we don't have good boundaries, we end up swimming in resentment and anger, and that makes it really tough to show up the way we want to, which is generally loving and kind. In this episode we talk about boundary basics, what they are and why they're so important. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #8 Boundaries Part 2 on Apple on Spotify #9 Boundaries Part 3 on Apple on Spotify #47 Thoughts, Consequences, & Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #174 Better Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #314 When Setting Boundaries Is Hard on Apple on Spotify #378 What Can Happen When We Don't Set Boundaries on Apple on Spotify #381 Psychological Boundaries on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

⚠️ Are constant food and body conversations draining your energy and self-esteem? In this episode, Registered Dietitian Rachel Fine shares how dancers can build emotional resilience and set boundaries against the pressure of diet culture.Learn how to:✅ Recognize and communicate your needs with confidence✅ Set and honor boundaries in dance environments✅ Reclaim your self-worth from external expectations✅ Protect your mental health around food and body image✅ Embrace a values-driven approach to nutrition

Setting boundaries doesn't make you selfish—it helps you stop people-pleasing, release guilt, and protect your peace with calm confidence. Do you feel guilty saying no or worry that setting boundaries will disappoint others? In this video, we explore why people-pleasing creates unhealthy patterns and how Taoist wisdom can help you set healthy boundaries without anger, conflict, or self-doubt. You'll learn how to communicate with calm clarity, build self-respect, and create relationships based on honesty instead of approval.With your hosts, David James Lees (ordained Taoist monk, emotional and spiritual health teacher) and Alexandra Lees (mindset and business coach).Learn more about David's online consultations, events, books and audio teachings: https://www.wuweiwisdom.comSubscribe to David's FREE Journal: https://davidjameslees.substack.com/Other related teachings on our YouTube channel that will help you:Our INNER CHILD PLAYLIST  https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qqOur GOLDEN THREAD PROCESS PLAYLIST https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyDIs there a question you'd like answered on the show? Submit it at: https://bit.ly/askusyourquestion Join our free Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity  If you love our work, you can now make a small donation to help fund the continued production of our weekly teachings by buying us a 'virtual coffee'! https://www.buymeacoffee.com/wuweiwisdom Follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdomSign up to receive a relaxing guided meditation gift, plus our weekly newsletter + offers via email:  https://www.wuweiwisdom.com/signup Music by Earth Tree HealingDisclaimer: This podcast and any associated teaching and comments shared are not a substitute for professional therapy, mental health care, crisis support, medical advice, doctor diagnosis, or professional healthcare treatment. Our show episodes provide general information for educational purposes only and are offered as suggestions for you and your professional therapist or healthcare advisor to consider and research.

On this week's podcast, host Charlotte is joined by Billie Bhatia and Hermione Olivia to talk about celebrity weddings, summer hotspots and dealing with burnout. First up: the wedding of the year. The team unpack that star-studded Taylor Swift guest list (Hugh Grant and Jamie Oliver, anyone?) and debate whether the whole thing was actually an elaborate music video. Plus, Billie shares the behind-the-scenes secrets from her latest sell-out fashion collab and Hermione drops her ultimate London hidden gem: a moody, Ibiza-style spa cave in central London.We also get into the new Katie Price documentary and discuss the collective responsibility of noughties media culture. Then, we're tackling a topic that hits close to home: burnout. Having all teetered on the edge, the trio share their raw, practical advice on setting boundaries, ignoring the pressure of wellness "should," and learning to say no. Hermione also gives us a sneak peek at her brilliant new book, ‘CEO Yourself'. Finally, we answer your listener dilemmas on everything from workplace friendships to relationship red flags.Get SheerLuxe Straight To Your Inbox, Daily | http://sheerluxe.com/signup AD | FAQ 202 by FOREO | https://flip.go2cloud.org/aff_c?offer_id=4&aff_id=2114&url_id=889&source=BDLUXYTExtra 35% OFF, stackable on existing savings.Code: LUXE35PANELCharlotte Collins | @charlotteleahcollins | https://www.instagram.com/charlotteleahcollins/ Topshop Oversized Shirt | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70272844 Jimmy Fairly Glasses (Similar) | https://www.jimmyfairly.com/en-gb/products/m157-m1-rocky Hermione Olivia | @hermioneolivia | https://www.instagram.com/hermioneolivia/ Camilla And Marc Darien Blazer (Similar) | https://uk.camillaandmarc.com/products/darien-blazer-cream TOTEME Straight Jeans | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70273252  YSL Le Loafers | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70273307 Maria Frering Pontos Earrings | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70273375 Billie Bhatia | @billie_bhatia | https://www.instagram.com/billie_bhatia/ RIXO Aprilia Midi Dress | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70273488 RIXO x Billie Bhatia Maxina Necklace | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70273586 THINGS WE LOVERIXO x Billie Bhatia Amoura Necklace | https://go.shopmy.us/p-70273664 RIXO x Billie Bhatia Liana Shell Cord Chain | https://go.shopmy.us /p-70273735 Damu Spa | https://www.damu.uk/ Pyro | https://pyrorestaurant.co.uk Nammos | https://www.nammos.com/london ‘CEO Yourself' by Hermione Olivia | https://www.waterstones.com/book/9781529147315 CEO Yourself Podcast | https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/ceo-yourself-with-hermione-olivia/id1735920152

En esta Rebanada hablamos de por qué sobre-explicarnos es una señal de que estamos pidiendo permiso, no dando contexto — y de cómo aprendimos desde chicas que decir que no sin justificación era grosero.Con ideas de Nedra Glover Tawwab, terapeuta y autora de Set Boundaries, Find Peace, y una reflexión desde el budismo sobre el desapego del resultado.Ejercicio de la semana: la próxima vez que vayas a decir que no, di que no. Sin "es que." Y cuando sientas la urgencia de seguir explicando, haz una pausa y quédate ahí.Keywords: límites, explicarte, decir no, boundaries, Nedra Glover Tawwab, culpa, desapego, budismo, mujeres, autoestima, Marisa Lazo, Compartiendo con Marisa Lazo

Feeling exhausted in a way that sleep can't fix? You're not alone. This week on the podcast, the conversation focused on the unique burnout parents face when homeschooling neurodivergent kids—and why compassion fatigue is so real in our community. Key Takeaways Burnout Is More Than Tired: The exhaustion from parenting neurodivergent kids goes deeper—rest alone doesn't fix it. Micro Rest Counts: Slip in short, intentional moments of downtime throughout the day—they add up and make a difference. Delegate & Let Go: Release some control by assigning tasks, even if they aren't done perfectly. Set Boundaries for Survival: Protect your time and energy by saying "no" and establishing clear limits with family and commitments. Release the Guilt: Prioritizing your own care isn't selfish—your kids need a parent who's healthy, not perfect. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling outside-the-box learners! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Finding Wonder and Joy in Everyday Homeschooling and Parenting Relationships Matter More Than Anything Parenting Gifted Kids with Gail Post Ph.D. Self-Care and Co-Regulation | Balancing Parenting and Sensory Needs Comparison: A Toxic Parenting Trap Parenting in the Moment with Your Child RLL #105: Parenting ADHD and Autism with Penny Williams Parenting and Teaching a Twice Exceptional Child Creative Summer Activities to Strengthen Family Connection and Boost Learning Why Family Connection Matters Most as Kids Grow Up Building Strong Family Bonds | A Conversation with Andee Martineau Strengthening Bonds | Building Family Routines and Rituals Building Strong Family Teams | Tips for Connection and Collaboration Homeschooling Success | The Role of Strong Family Connections Activities to Strengthen Your Family Team Create the Best Homeschool for Your Family  

On today's Get It Off Your Chest, one listener says she's at breaking point with a friend who treats her house like it's her own. Niamh says her friend regularly shows up at her door without calling or texting first, often while she's working from home, cooking dinner or simply trying to enjoy some downtime. Once she's inside, the visit can last for hours, leaving Niamh feeling obliged to make tea, entertain her and put everything else on hold. She doesn't want to hurt her friend's feelings, but she's struggling to find a polite way to ask for a bit of notice—or to let her know when it's time to head home. The gang debate friendship boundaries, surprise visits and whether it's ever acceptable to call over unannounced. It's a relatable dilemma that had listeners sharing their own stories and advice.

Send us Fan MailSetting boundaries is one of the greatest acts of self-love. In this episode, we talk about what boundaries really are, why they're essential for your mental health, how to say no without guilt, and how to protect your peace from people who drain your energy. If you're tired of people-pleasing and ready to prioritize yourself, this episode is for you.Watch the full episode on YouTube! https://youtu.be/fjz2o7PIpVw?si=qk0iXXl5_gJRvrzNSupport the podcast ! ❤️ https://www.buzzsprout.com/1981728/support  Follow the vibes on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listalksvibes/?hl=enLis Talks Vibes TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listalksvibesThreads: https://www.threads.net/@listalksvibes?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ== Pinterest: https://pin.it/3Z7wssI6V Subscribe to the Lis Talks Vibes CLIPS YouTube channel where I post short segments of the full podcast! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp-V4pnjcFfOzONkHgCR3sw Checkout my audio Podcast on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3TSyq7RWoplDc27T7MQZHc?si=943b284a0eff4d00Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lis-talks-vibes-podcast/id1623209652 All my main social media accounts:-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/listapiaaaa/?hl=en-TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listapiaaa?_t=8e4Y9ZpHVH9&_r=1Support the show

In this episode, Dana is joined by Chris Shurian, a self-proclaimed "entrepreholic" who has spent 39 years building, operating, breaking, and resurrecting companies. Chris shares his story of achieving massive success only to face financial devastation during the 2008 recession. He reveals the mindset of an entrepreholic (where chasing new business opportuntities and building companies feels addicting) and how that can be both a superpower and a critical weakness. Chris explains why life balance isn't a luxury but a core business strategy, and how setting firm boundaries from day one is the only way to play the long game without burning out.  Chris's Website Chris's Linkedin ---------------------- Watch this episode. Learn more about Phoenix and Flame, connect with Dana, and listen to more episodes here. Book Dana for your next speaking event or workshop.

Do you owe your toxic aging parent everything... or nothing? Clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Stinson, author of The Obligation Myth: Rethinking What You Owe Your Difficult Aging Parent, joins the show to unpack what happens when a critical, dismissive, or covertly narcissistic parent starts needing care — and why "I do everything" or "I do nothing" was never the real choice. We dig into the specific family roles that get assigned in childhood — the scapegoat, the golden child, the invisible child, and the enmeshed child — and how each one carries a different wound, gets triggered differently, and needs a completely different approach to setting a boundary. Dr. Stinson also breaks down how fear, obligation, and guilt (FOG) get weaponized differently depending on which role you were handed, and why your role can shift as the family system changes around you. If you've ever walked into your parent's house and instantly felt five years old again, this episode will help you understand why — and what to actually do about it. Lisa D. Stinson, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist specializing in complex PTSD, narcissistic abuse recovery, adult children of dysfunctional families, and the psychology of toxic family obligation. Her expertise was forged through extensive experience as an active-duty Navy psychologist, where she predominantly worked with trauma patients. Dr. Stinson holds both a Master's degree and Doctorate from the California School of Professional Psychology at Alliant International University, following her undergraduate studies at the University of Alaska Anchorage. Substack:  lisadstinsonphd.substack.com Website:  lisadstinsonphd.com The information provided by Renee Swanson, Covert Narcissism Podcast, and CNG Life Coaching is for educational purposes only and is not to be used for diagnosis purposes and not intended to be a substitute for clinical care. Please consult a health care provider for guidance specific to your case. This material discusses narcissism in general. Renee shares stories from her personal experiences as well as from those she has talked with for several years. Her material does not claim that any specific person has narcissism and should not be used to refer to any specific person as having narcissism. Permission is not granted to link to or repost this material to support an allegation or support a claim that any specific person is a narcissist. That would be an unauthorized misuse of the material and information provided. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

You know what you want to say. You can feel it in your body. It doesn't feel good. Something is off. You want something different.And then… you don't say it.Not because you don't know how. Not because you haven't read the books or listened to the podcasts. But because in that moment, it feels risky.What if they get upset? What if they pull away? What if you lose them?In this episode, we're talking about what boundary setting actually looks like in real, everyday life… not the big, obvious, “cut them off” moments, but the small, quiet ones where it's just you, your body, and that split-second decision.We'll walk through:Why setting boundaries feels so hard (especially if you've been punished for it in the past)How your nervous system confuses present moments with past experiencesWhat to do in the moment when you feel yourself freeze or fawnWhy you don't have to get it right the first time (and how to take a “do-over”)How to tell the difference between unsafe people and uncomfortable momentsWhat it actually means to stay connected to yourself when it would be easier to abandon yourselfThis is not about perfect wording or getting it right on the spot.It's about learning to notice, trust, and act on what your body is already telling you… and staying with yourself, even when it's uncomfortable.Because that's the work.Connect + Continue the Work:If you're ready to practice this in real time, inside a space where you don't have to do it alone, you can join us in Mayhem Daughters, our online community for daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers.Or, if you're looking for language to help you say hard things, you can check out my guide: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

Boundaries, but make them stick. Say it calmly, say it clearly and mean it. Because if you won't follow through, it's just a suggestion. We break down the 6 no-skipping steps (plus the unspoken side-eye step

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Struggling to set boundaries at work? In this episode of the Confident at Work Podcast, confidence coach Anna Manning explores why setting boundaries is essential for professional confidence, preventing burnout, and creating sustainable ways of working.You'll learn a simple definition of a boundary, why people often struggle to enforce them, and how concerns about conflict, being liked, or appearing capable can stop us from protecting our time and energy.In this episode:​What boundaries really are (and what they're not)​Why confidence is key to setting and holding boundaries​Common workplace boundary challenges​How to communicate consequences effectively​The link between boundaries, respect, and professional confidence​Why people-pleasing can undermine your success at workKeywords: workplace confidence, setting boundaries at work, professional confidence, people pleasing, leadership skills, workplace communication, burnout prevention, confidence coaching, career development, work-life balance.Want to be more Confident At Work?Get your own Podcast Prescription free, fill out this quick form Take our free: Confidence Assessment ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to find out if you're in a low confidence cycle and what you can do about it Get private support to feel confident at work - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book a call to explore private coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Cover art by Jacob McFaddenTheme song by Melissa Carter @ Making Audio Magic 

Have you ever been hurt by someone and had no idea what to do with the pain?Maybe it was a friend who betrayed you. A parent who let you down. A coworker, an ex, someone in your own family. And somewhere along the way, you were told the "Christian" response is to just smile, stay silent, and let it happen again.Here's the truth: that's not what Jesus taught.In this message, we're breaking down one of the most misunderstood passages in the Bible — Matthew 5:38-48 — where Jesus talks about turning the other cheek, going the extra mile, and loving your enemies. For centuries people have read this as "be a doormat." But Jesus wasn't asking you to be a doormat for people to trample on. He was inviting you to become a doorway His grace can flow through.We'll walk through Jesus' actual 4-step plan for conflict and pain:1. Refuse retaliation — don't become what hurt you2. Create healthy boundaries — turning the other cheek isn't surrendering your responsibility for your life3. Choose generosity over bitterness4. Love and pray for the people who hurt you mostThis isn't about pretending you weren't hurt. It's about not letting what hurt you decide who you become. Whether you're walking with Jesus already or just trying to figure out what real faith, hope, and forgiveness actually look like — this one's for you.

I have a friend named Laney who genuinely does not experience mom guilt. Not because she's a perfect mom, but because she's decided her kids are lucky to have her — and she means it! I used to laugh when she said things like that. But, now, after working for years on myself (I've come so far!), I understand that what I was struggling with wasn't only guilt over my shortcomings as a mom, but it was also guilt over the resentment I felt for everything I was carrying that led me to not enjoy my motherhood very much. The guilt was coming at me from every direction! If any of that sounds familiar, this episode is going to feel like a very welcome exhale. This week's guest is JoAnn Crohn, certified life coach and author of The Best Mom is a Happy Mom. She helps moms go from martyr to model, and this conversation is full of honest, practical tools for getting there. ✨ Why JoAnn's husband didn't even realize the imbalance until they did this one exercise together ✨ The "guilt equation" from a psychologist that will completely change how you think about your own expectations ✨ The thing JoAnn's therapist said that cut through all the noise and told her exactly what being a good mom actually requires If you've ever felt like the mental load of your family's life is sitting entirely on your shoulders, and if you've ever felt the guilt coming from every side, this episode is for you. For full show notes, including takeaways, click here. *** Related Episodes: 445: How to Set Boundaries without Damaging Relationships // Rachel on Happy Mom Summit 436: Embrace the Mom You Are—Not the One You Think You Should Be // Julie Bastedo 270: Simplifying Mom-Life // Chanelle Neilson Episode Sponsors: Tushy Bidet: For a limited time, our listeners get 10% off their first bidet order when you go to HelloTUSHY.com and use promo code 3in30. First Day: For a limited time only, our listeners are getting an insane deal. Use code 3IN30 to get up to 57% Off at FirstDay.com. Knix Teen: It's not just underwear; it's giving our girls the confidence they deserve. Go to KnixTeen.com and use code 3IN30 for 15 percent off. Air Doctor: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code 3IN30 to get $250 off select AirDoctor air purifiers, including the 3500, 4000, and 5500 models. Quince: Head to Quince.com/3in30 for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Fodzyme: We're so excited to partner with FODZYME and offer you 30% off your first order when you go to icaneatagain.com/3in30.com. Let's Connect! Join me on Instagram! Get weekly-ish emails with BTS of my life Find Your Magic in Motherhood: Free 3-Day Email Course ***

Unlocking Your Next Chapter: How Women Over 45 Can Build Healthy Relationships, Set Boundaries, and Thrive Through Change with Monica Madden Are you a woman over 45 navigating a major life transition, questioning what's next, or feeling called to something more? In this inspiring episode of She Shift, therapist Monica Madden shares powerful insights on healthy relationships, setting boundaries, self-discovery, and thriving during midlife change. Whether you're experiencing a career pivot, an empty nest, a shift in relationships, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself, this conversation will help you embrace your next chapter with confidence and grace. Monica opens up about her own journey through motherhood, personal growth, and reinvention, while offering practical advice for women who are ready to stop putting themselves last and start creating a life that feels aligned, fulfilling, and authentic. In this episode, you'll discover: ✔ How to build healthier relationships in midlife ✔ Why setting boundaries is essential for emotional well-being ✔ Ways to navigate life transitions after 45 with confidence ✔ How self-discovery can lead to personal growth and renewed purpose ✔ Why giving yourself permission to change is the key to thriving 3 Key Takeaways to Act On Today 1. Start with Self-Check-Ins Take a few minutes each day to honestly evaluate your emotions and ask yourself: What do I need right now? (22:59) 2. Give Yourself Permission Write or voice a permission slip allowing yourself to release burdens, expectations, and responsibilities that no longer belong to you. (23:16) 3. Set One Loving Boundary Choose one area of your life today where you'll honor your own needs, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. (09:24) If you've been wondering whether it's too late to reinvent yourself, find your purpose, or create healthier relationships, this episode is your reminder that your next chapter is still being written. Your midlife reinvention starts with one decision: choosing yourself. To Stay Connected Follow Us On: www.MonicaMadden.com www.sheshift.co Tool to use to empower the What's Next: Grab your Free 5 steps to Dream. Reflect. Rise https://payhip.com/b/tquL7      

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What happens when you realize you've spent your entire life abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable?In this deeply powerful episode of Casa De Confidence, Julie DeLucca-Collins welcomes back author, energy healer, and boundary expert Stephanie McAuliffe for an honest conversation about generational trauma, emotional healing, boundaries, people pleasing, and learning to trust yourself again.Stephanie shares her personal story of growing up in a family where emotions were silenced through alcohol, how those patterns shaped her relationships and career, and how she ultimately transformed her life after the collapse of her marriage and Wall Street career.This episode dives into:emotional healinggenerational traumafamily dynamicspeople pleasingself abandonmentenergy protectionpersonal boundariesinner child healinglearning to trust yourselfIf you've ever felt emotionally exhausted, disconnected from yourself, or stuck repeating unhealthy patterns, this conversation will resonate deeply.

In a moment when everything feels urgent, this conversation with boundary expert Nedra Glover Tawwab is your reminder: you can care deeply about the world without abandoning yourself. Because burnout isn't always a personal failure. Sometimes it's just a boundary that hasn't been spoken yet. Nedra helps us rethink boundaries—not as walls, but as instructions for how to love and be loved without disappearing. We talk about resentment, overfunctioning, people pleasing, and why all humans are gloriously, beautifully needy. If you're exhausted, stretched thin, or carrying too much: this one is for you. - The five signs you might have a boundary problem - Why we all need to stop pretending we're “not needy”  - How to stop arguing like a lawyer and start communicating like a kindergartener: “That hurt. I don't like that. I need this.” - How to know when to end an argument, exit a friendship, and respond to passive aggressiveness About Nedra:  Nedra Glover Tawwab is the author of the New York Times bestsellers Drama Free and Set Boundaries, Find Peace. A licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert, she has practiced relationship therapy for more than fifteen years. Tawwab has appeared as an expert on Red Table Talk, The Breakfast Club, Good Morning America, and CBS Morning Show to name a few. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, The Guardian, and Vice. Tawwab runs a popular Instagram account where she shares practices, tools, and reflections for mental health and relationships. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her family. Follow We Can Do Hard Things on:  Instagram — ⁠https://www.instagram.com/wecandohardthings⁠

You've been told to set boundaries. You've tried setting boundaries. And somehow you're still exhausted, still over-explaining, still feeling like you have to defend the smallest "no." So today I want to push back on the most-recommended advice in the wellness world and tell you what I actually think happens when you keep being told that the answer to other people's behaviour is just to draw a clearer line. There's a deeper conversation underneath this one, and we're going to have it. By the end of this episode I want you to walk away with a different way of thinking about the energy you keep handing over without realising. Ready to break the cycle for good? If this episode resonated with you, there's something you need to try next…  Take the Happiness Quiz at https://iintendtobehappy.com/ — it's a quick (and eye-opening) way to discover what's actually impacting your consistency, focus, and overall wellbeing. Most people are shocked by their results — and even more surprised by what it reveals about the patterns holding them back. Take the quiz here → https://iintendtobehappy.com/ Let's take this work deeper, together.

Explore how people-pleasing at work becomes a survival strategy leading to burnout, and discover practical techniques for setting boundaries that protect your energy, boost leadership potential, and create sustainable success without sacrificing your reputation.Break the pattern at https://www.nicoletta.coach/ nicoletta.coach City: Rockville Address: 10401 Grosvenor Place Website: https://www.nicoletta.coach/

Do Dads need to have the stepmom's back in disagreements with the stepkids?  The reasons why boundaries might feel different with stepkids vs bio kids How aligned do you need to be with your partner about family rules and boundaries?  Why are men scared to set boundaries with their ex?  How love can feel different for stepkids and biokids… and why that's okay.    Darren joins Jamie for another honest talk about these topics and more in this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast.    Check out The Stepmom Rebrand:                                                                                                              www.stepmomrebrand.com  Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order.  Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off  Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com

Why do so many people feel guilty for saying no, protecting their peace, or walking away from toxic relationships?In this Q&A episode of Empowered With Gina, Gina Zapanta answers some of the most common questions women ask about boundaries, people pleasing, emotional exhaustion, unhealthy relationships, and self-worth.From struggling to cut people off, to wondering if you're being “too cold,” to trying to unlearn toxic relationship patterns from childhood, this conversation dives into the emotional conditioning that keeps so many people stuck in cycles that no longer serve them.Topics covered in this episode include:How to set boundaries without feeling guiltyThe truth about people pleasingToxic relationship patternsSigns a relationship may be unhealthyHow to leave someone you still loveEmotional chaos and childhood conditioningProtecting your peace without apologizingBuilding healthier relationships with yourself and othersWhy guilt is often a sign of growthHow to stop overexplaining your decisionsIf you've ever felt emotionally drained, responsible for everyone else's feelings, or afraid to choose yourself, this episode will challenge the way you think about boundaries, accountability, and self-respect.Subscribe to Empowered With Gina for weekly conversations about healing, confidence, personal growth, discipline, relationships, and living life intentionally.#Boundaries #ToxicRelationships #PeoplePleasing #SelfWorth #HealthyRelationships #EmpoweredWithGina #PersonalGrowth #Healing #Confidence #MentalHealth

What does healing from people-pleasing look like in real life, not just at the beginning, but years later? In this episode, I share my personal story of people-pleasing, where these patterns began for me, how God brought healing, and what it looks like now to live on the “maintenance side” of emotional healing. We talk about fear of abandonment, over-functioning in relationships, parenting adult children, nervous system vigilance, and the ongoing process of learning how to stay grounded in safety and trust instead of falling back into old survival patterns. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN [00:00] What Healing from People-Pleasing Actually Looks Like Over Time [03:00] The Fear Underneath My People-Pleasing Patterns [05:00] How Parenting Adult Children Triggered Old Patterns Again [07:00] Why People-Pleasing Is Really About Safety + Emotional Survival [10:00] The Family Roles That Quietly Shape Identity [13:00] How Childhood Survival Patterns Affect the Nervous System [16:00] The Medical Crisis That Forced Me to Look at These Patterns [19:00] Why Over-Functioning Can Feel Like Love [22:00] The Anchor Analogy God Keeps Bringing Me Back To [25:00] What It Means to Live on the “Maintenance Side” of Healing  RESOURCES: The People Pleasing Mindset Makeover is an 8-session one-on-one coaching process designed to help women understand the deeper roots of people-pleasing, rewire unhealthy patterns, and build healthier emotional responses through brain science, biblical truth, and practical tools. Learn more or apply here:

Watch the Youtube video here:   Join My Vancouver Realtor Team https://www.thealigngroup.ca/join-our... Burnout is not a badge of honor and it is not inevitable, but if you are a real estate agent grinding without the right structure in place it will find you. In this video a 149 deal solo producer breaks down exactly why burnout happens in real estate, the warning signs most agents ignore until it is too late, and five proven strategies to stay sharp, stay hungry, and stay in the game at the highest level for the long term. This is not a motivational pep talk, it is a practical roadmap built from real experience in the field. The five strategies cover setting and defending office hours, delegating the low value work so you can focus on the high value activity, separating your self worth from your production numbers, building recovery into your schedule like a listing appointment, and staying connected to the deeper why that keeps you moving when the grind gets loud. Whether you are a new agent feeling the pressure or a seasoned producer starting to feel the weight of it, this video will give you the honest conversation that real estate culture refuses to have. Pick one strategy, start today, and protect the career you are building.

Whether you are struggling with "constant availability" or the guilt of leaving tasks unfinished, this conversation provides a realistic roadmap for reclaiming your mental space. Tune in to Discover The Identity of Boundaries: Why boundaries are like the walls of an office—essential for knowing where you begin and where work ends. The Lumberjack Principle: Why taking intentional breaks actually makes you more productive and sharpens your axe for the tasks ahead. Red Flags of Porous Boundaries: How to recognize the signs, from logging back in late at night to feeling resentment when a notification pops up. Concrete Skills for "No": How to use assertive communication and "delayed yeses" to honor your capacity without damaging your professional reputation. Practical Tips for Your Work-Life Separation Post-Work Rituals: Create a physical transition, such as changing out of work clothes immediately or shutting down your laptop completely rather than just locking the screen. The "Supervisor Strategy": If you struggle to say no to a boss, try: "I'd be happy to help with this. Can you show me how to prioritize this with my current workload?" Embrace the Discomfort: Understand that setting a new boundary will feel anxious at first. Growth and change often come with short-term discomfort for a long-term payoff. Resources Sagent Behavioral Health Contact the podcast: Podcast@SagentBH.com Subscribe & Review If you found this episode helpful, please consider subscribing to Everyday Therapy and leaving us a review. It helps others discover the podcast and take the next step toward meaningful mental health support. Do you have feedback or topic requests? Email us at Podcast@SagentBH.com We'd love to hear from you! Follow along:InstagramFacebookNystrom & Associates

What do you do when the person who raised you... is also the person who keeps hurting you?In this personal episode, Esther — your host from Switzerland and a Tony Robbins Senior Leader — opens up about a phone call that happened just days ago. A call with her 91-year-old father that lasted 13 minutes. A call where she asked about his life, his meals, his days — and received nothing but blame in return.She shares the moment her father told her she was mentally ill. The years of driving 2+ hours every week just to show up for him. And the decision she finally made — not out of cruelty, but out of survival.This episode isn't just about Esther's story. It's about yours. In this episode you'll discover:→  Why protecting yourself from a parent feels like betrayal — and why it isn't→  How empathy and firm limits can exist in the same heart at the same time→  What “forgiveness without being a doormat” actually looks like in real life→  How one person breaking a pattern frees the generations that follow→  Why it is never — ever — too late to choose your peace Raw. Honest. And deeply needed. Press play.DO YOU WANT TO GET COACHED BY ESTHER?✨ Book a free Discovery Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://swissmadestory.ch/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Follow Esther on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/esther_buerki⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Join Esther on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/esther.buerki1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Connect with her on LinkedIn:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbuerki⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Stay connected with her: https://swissmadestory.ch/stay-in-touch/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✍️ Get in touch with her through e-mail:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ contact@swissmadestory⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BOOKS:

Do You Have a Toxic Parent? In the Episode you will Understand the Patterns. Examples of Setting Boundaries to Manage Difficult Interactions. Have you felt dismissed instead of being heard. Controlled instead of supported. Feel emotionally drained after interactions, that is toxic. Included: Do You have a Toxic Parent Checklist Use your own dog for anxiety relief. 30-second free guide ServiceDogPro.com! https://podcast.feedspot.com/anxiety_podcasts/ https://podcast.feedspot.com/us_psychology_podcasts/ sts/  

Mother's Day can feel complicated when you're walking through infertility or loss.You want to show up. You want to celebrate others. But there's also a part of your heart that feels heavy, tender… maybe even exhausted.In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about what this day can bring up—and how to walk through it with grace, honesty, and support.We talk about: what it looks like to protect your peace without guilt  how to set boundaries (with people, social media, and expectations)  simple ways to prepare for the day so it doesn't catch you off guard  how to respond to questions you may not feel ready to answer  navigating church on Mother's Day and what to do when it feels hard Most of all, this is a reminder that you are not forgotten in this story.You are seen.You are loved.And you don't have to carry this day alone.If Mother's Day has felt heavy before, or you're unsure how to walk into it this year, this conversation is for you.Start your monthly gift$12 for Twelve Giving Campaign Support + communityTwice-a-month virtual support group Twelve 12 MinistriesWebsiteShopInstagram + Facebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministries.org

Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, overcommitted, or stuck in unhealthy patterns? It may be time to set boundaries—but not just any boundaries, Godly boundaries. Join us for this LIVE Q and A workshop where we'll walk you through practical, biblical steps to set boundaries God's way so you can walk in freedom from codependency. God has timeless truths to help you navigate life and live in freedom as He intended. Join us LIVE on Mondays at 7:30 PM ET where we answer your questions on how to Conquer Codependency God's Way. Do you have a question you would like Aliene to address? We've got you! Just leave your question in the comments below or email questions@treasuredministries.com Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment if this episode resonates with you! For more information/resources check out the links below: ⇨ Visit the Treasured Ministries Website: https://treasuredministries.com/ ⇨ Sign up for our FREE newsletter and get inspiration for your faith journey https://treasuredministries.activehos... ⇨ Donate: https://treasuredministries.com/donate/ ⇨Sign up for retreat https://treasuredministries.com/retreat/ _____________________ Treasured Ministries provides discipleship, biblical resources, and community for women so they can exchange codependency for God dependency and thrive. For more information visit https://treasuredministries.com ______________________ Aliene Thompson is the president of Treasured Ministries International, the creator of the Nourish Bible Study Method, and the founder of the Treasured Tribe, an online Christian community for women. Her popular series on YouTube, "Conquering Codependency God's Way", helps women worldwide move from codependency to God dependency so they can live in freedom as God intended. #codependence #conqueringcodependency

How to set boundaries when you've spent your whole life saying yes and feeling resentful. This is the Tennis Court Method, the exact system, scripts, and inner work that finally make boundaries hold without guilt, collapse, or counterattack.If you've read every boundary book and still freeze the second someone asks you for something you don't have to give, this video is for you. Kenny Weiss walks you through why boundaries actually fail for high-functioning people pleasers, why "just say no" advice never sticks, and what it actually takes to rewrite the childhood blueprint underneath the resentment, the over-giving, and the constant fear of being seen as mean. You'll get the Tennis Court framework for understanding where you end and another person begins, the Wall of Pleasantness response for when someone takes your inventory or hands you unsolicited advice, and the exact word-for-word boundary script you can practice this week.This video covers the Worst Day Cycle™ (Trauma, Fear, Shame, Denial), the Authentic Self Cycle™ (Truth, Responsibility, Healing, Forgiveness), and the Emotional Authenticity Method™ — Kenny's six-step process for downregulating your nervous system, identifying the feeling, locating it in your body, finding the earliest memory, asking who you'd be without the thought, and using Feelization to rewire the emotional blueprint. You'll also learn the difference between the three internal voices running your reactions, why the survival persona collapses or counterattacks instead of holding the fence, and why traditional therapy, communication tools, and assertiveness training never reach the layer where the people-pleasing was installed.Kenny Weiss teaches that a boundary is not a wall around someone else, it is a fence around your own yard. The fence does not control your neighbor. It simply defines where you end and they begin, and it lets you choose what gets into your space. The Tennis Court is the structure that makes connection possible, because without a net there is no game and no relationship, only enmeshment.The Wall of Pleasantness is Kenny Weiss's adult response to criticism, accusation, or inventory-taking. Instead of collapsing into shame and agreeing or counterattacking and defending, you listen without reacting, take time to process, ask whether anything said is actually true, and respond with a grounded fence-setting sentence such as, "In the future, would you be willing to ask me before you give me unsolicited advice."The reason most boundary advice fails is that it teaches scripts to the adult who is not in the room. The wounded child driving the bus does not care about communication tools. Kenny Weiss's work targets the emotional blueprint underneath the behavior, rewriting the childhood equation that no equals abandonment and yes equals safety, which is why the Tennis Court Method holds when "just say no" collapses.TOPICS COVERED: how to set boundaries, boundaries in relationships, setting boundaries with parents, people pleasing recovery, codependency recovery, how to say no without guilt, boundary scripts, tennis court method,

Monica sits down to answer the juicy questions you left her on Instagram!⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Q7JhDbZSiYsFrom baby sleep advice to maintaining polarity, healing trauma, getting started as an entrepreneur, cycle tracking after having a baby, and more, she really goes there with each question, as she always does.Questions answered:

Are you tired of feeling like you have to choose between keeping the peace and being true to yourself in your relationships? Many people mistake silence for harmony, stuffing down their true feelings for fear of conflict, only to wake up one day feeling unheard, unseen, and disconnected. But what if speaking up—being honest about your needs and setting boundaries—was actually the path to deeper connection and intimacy, not the source of division? In this episode, listeners are invited to rethink what it means to be authentic in close relationships, especially when it comes to sharing hard truths or setting limits. You'll hear insights on why self-assertion is not about ruining relationships, but about bringing your whole self into them. By exploring practical strategies, emotional tools, and real-life examples, this conversation guides you in overcoming the fear of rocking the boat—so you can communicate courageously and build relationships where both people feel truly known and valued. Tonya Lester, LCSW, is the author of Push Back: Live, Love, and Work with Others Without Losing Yourself. A Brooklyn-based psychotherapist and writer known for her work with relationships and communication, her essay "Couples Therapist, Heal Thyself" was published in the Modern Love column in The New York Times, and she has been writing the popular Staying Sane Inside Insanity blog for Psychology Today since 2020. She has been featured as an expert in The Guardian, Newsweek, Well+Good, HuffPost, Fatherly, and the Bumble site, The Buzz.   Episode Highlights 04:03 The link between speaking up, emotional intimacy, and common gendered roles. 07:18 Navigating differences: collaboration, needs, and the relationship as a system. 12:40 Embracing discomfort and staying present with unresolved issues. 13:53 The importance of vulnerability and framing difficult conversations safely. 17:02 Applying healthy pressure: strengthening or releasing relationships. 19:56 Recognizing the "shock absorber" role and its impact on self and intimacy. 23:10 Identifying "shock magnets": escalation, withdrawal, and unhealthy conflict cycles. 27:29 Communicating effectively with kindness. 30:38 Defining self-possession and its role in relational health. 32:49 Using internal signals and "weathervane" emotions for personal growth. 38:11 Building emotional maturity: self-compassion, timeouts, and ongoing practice. 40:38 Understanding and managing emotional activation. 42:42 Addressing hidden relationship dynamics and the importance of modeling boundaries. 48:21 Exploring possibilities: challenging feelings of being trapped and opening to choice. 51:41 Putting clarity into practice: actionable tools and lasting relationship change.   Your Checklist of Actions to Take Practice Soft Startups: Begin hard conversations with vulnerability and clarity about your intentions rather than leading with anger or accusation to lower defensiveness in your partner. Name Your Emotions: Before raising a difficult topic, identify and share your underlying emotions, such as fear, anxiety, or longing, to increase openness. Set Boundaries with Clarity: Clearly state what is not working for you in the relationship and propose specific changes, avoiding blame or generalizations. Tolerate Unresolved Issues: Accept that not every problem will have an immediate solution and practice tolerating the discomfort of ongoing, in-process conversations. Take Breaks When Activated: When conflict escalates, or emotions run high, pause the conversation and use activities like taking a walk or shower to regulate your nervous system before returning. Use "I" Statements: Use concise, direct language to express your needs and feelings without attacking or criticizing your partner. Reflect on the System: Regularly assess if both partners are contributing to the emotional work and call out patterns where efforts are imbalanced. Model Self-Possession: Take responsibility for your own happiness and choices, setting an example for both yourself and others—including children—about how to live in alignment with your values.   Mentioned Push Back: Live, Love, and Work with Others Without Losing Yourself (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) About Tonya Lester (Psychology Today) Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication (Free guide) How Being "Difficult" Can Assist Growth & Development In Relationship (ERP 360)   Connect with Tonya Lester Website: tonyalester.com Facebook: facebook.com/tlynnlester/ Instagram: instagram.com/tonyalesterpsychotherapy LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tonya-lester-b9a3ab14 TikTok: tiktok.com/@tonyalesterlcsw  

As Christian women in leadership, it is important to alleviate burnout. When you do, you open the door for peace of mind, healthier relationships, and a closer relationship to Christ. Christian women in leadership who experience anxiety often feel the need for control, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and even avoidance. These can lead to burnout. For overall health and wellness, it is crucial to alleviate burnout. Faith and Leadership: A Seamless Integration Faith isn't just for Sundays. It's about integrating your beliefs into every aspect of your life, especially in leadership roles at work and home. Understanding the Dynamics of Burnout Burnout doesn't happen overnight. It develops subtly, starting with chronic stress and progressing if not managed properly. I Aligning Body, Mind, and Spirit To alleviate burnout, it's crucial to align your body, mind, and spirit. Building Capacity and Setting Boundaries Capacity isn't just resilience; it involves setting boundaries and understanding personal limits. Co-Creation with God Faith is a powerful tool for increasing capacity. Navigating Secular Environments with Faith In secular work environments, openly expressing faith might be challenging. However, actions often speak louder than words. The Role of Community and Support Systems No one should face burnout alone. Harnessing the Power of the Holy Spirit Let the Holy Spirit guide you in your leadership journey. Practical Tools for Daily Renewal Incorporate daily practices that nourish your soul and prevent burnout. A Compassionate Approach to Leadership Incorporating Christian values into leadership roles doesn't just benefit you; it positively impacts your team and community. Website for Dr. Ioana Popa Renewal Template Read the full show notes and access all links. Additional Resources Do You Believe Your Self-Talk? Healing Starts Beyond the Brain. How to Set Boundaries. Every Relationship Needs Them. Why Are You People-Pleasing? Adopting the Holy Pause to Stop Overreacting Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Additional Resources Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind

Today's Scripture is: Psalm 68:4-10 If you've felt the ache of loneliness, this episode offers a deeply grounding reminder: your longing for connection is not a weakness, it's part of how you were created. Blending Scripture with attachment psychology, Dr. Alison explores how God meets us within loneliness, not just after it's resolved. In this episode: *The difference between loneliness and disconnection *How attachment needs shape your emotional world *Why loneliness is a signal, not a failure *A reframe of the “in-between” (wilderness) season *How to notice small, real forms of connection already present Go Deeper: Episode 142: How to Honor & Set Boundaries with Sadness & Loneliness Visit our new The Best of You Every Day web page here Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison's free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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This week, we wrapped up our five-episode series all about social life and friendship for neurodivergent homeschooled kiddos. Episode 311 digs into a topic many families experience but often don't have a name for: social hangovers—the aftermath of social time when kids (and adults!) crash, resist future invitations, or need days to recover. Key Takeaways Social hangovers are the nervous system's delayed response to social effort, especially common in neurodivergent kids who mask, self-monitor, and process a ton during interactions. Signs include: Irritability or emotional explosions Withdrawal/shutdown Physical complaints (headaches, stomachaches) Refusal of future plans Reframe the behavior: This isn't poor behavior—it's delayed processing, not avoidance. Build recovery plans BEFORE burnout happens! Include: Predictable ending times and visual cues Leaving while things are still going well Immediate decompression time (quiet, silence, snacks, audiobooks) Regulation through movement or sensory comfort No reflection or questions until after decompression Proactive Strategies Know your child's social energy window—how long they can handle interactions before going into yellow or red zones. Support with lighter academic loads or more autonomy the day after social events. Avoid stacking multiple social events together; buffer days matter! Teach kids to name their feelings and advocate for breaks without shame. The Learner's Lab & Friendship Pathways If you want more strategies, real-time classes, and a supportive community, check out the Learner's Lab! Plus, grab our Friendship Pathways Handout (linked above!). The Learner's Lab is open to families using charter/ESA funds—reach out if you'd like us to become an approved vendor for your organization.   Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Nurturing Neurodivergent Friendships: Practical Tips for Parents and Kids RLL #42: What It's Like to be Homeschooled with Best Friends Molly and Ella Teaching Kids About Being a Good Friend with Help From Great Books and Netflix Teaching Kids to Befriend Others 5 Tips for Helping Gifted Children Make Friends Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments The Not-So Friendly Friend: How to Set Boundaries for Healthy Friendships Social Skills Activities for Kids Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids One Big Heart: A Celebration of Being More Alike than Different Life Skills for Kids: Unlocking a World of Possibilities through Friendship, Decision-Making, Cooking, Achieving a Success Mindset, Time-Management, Budgeting, and More  Empathy Workbook for Kids: 50 Activities to Learn About Kindness, Compassion, and Other People's Feelings  

Stop being a slave to your cell phone and your "pain-in-the-ass" customers. If you don't draw a line in the sand right now, your busy season isn't going to make you rich, it's going to burn you out and steal your life. In this episode, we're talking about the five non-negotiable boundaries you need to set today so you can actually enjoy your summer and keep your sanity.==============================Ready to stop the bleeding? Stop stealing from your family and start building a business that serves your life. Grab "The Contractor's Code to Finally Cracking $1M" here: https://thecontractorfight.com/code================================ Rate the Podcast ==Help your fellow contractors find the podcast! Please leave a rating/review.Apple PodcastsSpotify

This week, we're exploring an important and sometimes misunderstood topic: what to do when our neurodivergent kids are happier alone and genuinely prefer solitude over social interactions. Key Takeaways: Solitude Can Be Healthy: Recognize that some children genuinely enjoy being alone, and this can be restorative, not problematic. Honor their need for quiet time without assuming something is wrong. Distinguish Between Solitude and Isolation: Pay attention to signs. Healthy solitude is chosen, flexible, and doesn't carry shame, while isolation is often rigid, driven by fear, and paired with sadness or avoidance. Listen More Than You Talk: When your child expresses a preference for being alone, approach with curiosity rather than correction. Ask open-ended questions and avoid jumping into problem-solving. Don't Force Social Exposure: Avoid pushing frequent social situations or using solitude as a consequence. Let your child take breaks and control their level of social participation. Offer Invitations Without Pressure: Always keep low-demand connection options available. Respect "not now" and provide different types of social opportunities to let your child decide what feels safest. Honor Individual Differences: Never compare your child's social preferences to siblings or peers. Each child's needs and approach to friendships are unique and deserving of respect. Keep Connection Accessible: Even for children who prefer solitude, periodically check in. Offer short, interest-based activities, familiar settings, or intergenerational relationships to keep social muscles warm. Connection Isn't Linear or Urgent: Reassure your child (and yourself) that social growth happens at their own pace. Deep friendships may come later and are worth waiting for. Gentle Check-Ins: Periodically ask your child if they feel lonely or peaceful in their solitude, and discuss what helps them recharge and feel connected, without requiring action. Encourage Self-Discovery: Support your child's exploration of what types of friendships and connections work for them. Provide opportunities but let them drive the process. Cherish the connections your child finds, offer gentle support, and remember: The world would be boring if we all fit the same mold. Your child's unique wiring deserves celebration, not correction. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Nurturing Neurodivergent Friendships: Practical Tips for Parents and Kids RLL #42: What It's Like to be Homeschooled with Best Friends Molly and Ella Teaching Kids About Being a Good Friend with Help From Great Books and Netflix Teaching Kids to Befriend Others 5 Tips for Helping Gifted Children Make Friends Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments The Not-So Friendly Friend: How to Set Boundaries for Healthy Friendships Social Skills Activities for Kids Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids One Big Heart: A Celebration of Being More Alike than Different Life Skills for Kids: Unlocking a World of Possibilities through Friendship, Decision-Making, Cooking, Achieving a Success Mindset, Time-Management, Budgeting, and More  Empathy Workbook for Kids: 50 Activities to Learn About Kindness, Compassion, and Other People's Feelings   Grab Your FREE Friendship Guide!

As moms, we are like a life support system for our kids. To keep our families healthy, we need to be healthy. A key part of our overall well being is setting healthy boundaries. But boundaries are hard. They require uncomfortable, direct conversations. We may need to put a limit on really good things or draw a line in the sand with our in-laws or parents. My guest, Dr. John Townsend literally wrote the book on boundaries and he shares some deep wisdom on how to set healthy boundaries while honoring our family members and others. “You've got to take care of your energy, your heart and your emotions. You've got to take care of yourself and your health. If you don't guard that heart, then the wellsprings of life won't come out from it. Boundaries are basically about how to set healthy, loving limits in our life. So we have something to offer to our children.”Townsend answers your tough questions about setting limits with in-laws, making healthy boundaries for the holidays and even models having a tough conversation with a parent about a boundary. This is an episode packed with great information and Townsend has several books and resources available if you want to go deeper. Let's make setting healthy boundaries a priority and guard our hearts and our time to bring life to our family!Connect with John Townsend:  Instagram: John Townsend (@dr.john_townsend) Facebook: Dr. John Townsend Website: Home - Dr. John Townsend Links Mentioned:  Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: By John Townsend Relational Nutrients (new layout) - Dr. John Townsend People Fuel: By John Townsend Related Episodes: Parenting a Spicy Child: How to Stay Calm, Set Boundaries, and Keep the Connection :: Mary Van Geffen [Ep 558] Good Boundaries and Goodbyes :: Lysa TerKeurst [Ep 387] Strengthening the Relationship with Your Adult Child :: Kathy Cunningham [Ep 543] Featured Sponsors:  Thrive Causemetics: Amplify your spring look with Thrive Causemetics. Go to thrivecausemetics.com/DMA for an exclusive offer of 20% off your first order. 

If burnout and stress are following you home from the workplace, you're not imagining it. When your personal life starts shrinking, it's often because your mind never truly leaves work. And if you can't set boundaries at work mentally, your body stays in fight-or-flight after hours. In this conversation, I'm joined by Dr. Guy Winch Ph.D., an internationally renowned psychologist who advocates for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. We're talking about what happens when work hijacks your mind, your energy, your relationships, and your ability to actually be present in your own life. If you've been trying to figure out how to stop thinking about work, how to leave work at work, or how to set boundaries at work in a way that truly protects your personal life, this episode is for you. We unpack why burnout is not just about long hours, but about rumination, emotional overload, and staying mentally switched on long after the workday ends. Dr. Guy shares practical ideas for burnout recovery, including how to stop ruminating after hours, shift out of autopilot, and create simple transition rituals that help you reconnect with yourself and the people you love. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 When Work Follows You Home 04:52 Dr. Guy Winch's Burnout Wake-Up Call 10:11 Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Work 15:19 How to Stop Ruminating After Hours 21:56 How Burnout Hurts Relationships 31:17 How to Leave Work at Work 36:37 Why Autopilot Makes Burnout Worse 39:44 What Burnout Recovery Actually Looks Like 42:59 When Burnout Starts Affecting Love 48:58 Dr. Lisa's Takeaways and Next Steps If this conversation felt a little too familiar, I'd love to offer you a next step. At Growing Self, we help people work through burnout, relationship stress, and the patterns that keep life feeling harder than it needs to. You can schedule a free consultation by answering three quick questions. It's private, secure, and designed to help you find the right support for you. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast: Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.comStrawberry.me — Career coaching that helps you gain clarity, build a strategic plan, and take confident steps toward the career you want with expert support. Get 50% off your first coaching session at strawberry.me/LHS.

New York Times bestselling author and therapist Nedra Tawwab shares her journey of discovering the need for finding healthy, dependable relationships instead of clinging to hyper-independence. She shares how others benefited while she paid the cost of staying strong for everyone else but neglecting her own needs. She shares her healing roadmap from her new book Balancing Act. Nedra Glover Tawwab is a licensed therapist and the author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, an instant New York Times best-seller translated into over 35 languages worldwide. In addition, she has authored six other books, including Drama Free and, most recently, a children's book titled What Makes You Happy. A sought-after relationship expert, she has practiced relationship therapy for more than fifteen years. With more than 2.5 million followers across her social media platforms, Tawwab has appeared as an expert on Red Table Talk, The Breakfast Club, Good Morning America, and CBS Morning Show, to name a few. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, The Guardian, and Vice, and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including The School of Greatness, We Can Do Hard Things, and Ten Percent Happier. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her family.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share.

Welcome back to part 2 of this PROFOUND conversation with my girl, Sarah Jakes Roberts. And homies, she was just getting started in part 1 of this episode. In part 2, we dive into some deep topics around power and how you can use power to help you become a better, more authentic version of yourself.  We're discussing:  - WHY women avoid power  - What you can do to stay away from the “dark” side of power - The importance of having CORE VALUES to keep you aligned and accountable - How to overcome competition so it doesn't strip you of your power - The small ways you are slowly giving your power away without you even realizing it & how to catch yourself so you can keep your power  - And muchhhhh more! Don't miss out on the final part of this amazing conversation with Sarah Jakes Roberts. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tired of saying yes when you mean no and feeling resentful later? In this powerful compilation episode, you'll learn how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, conflict, or losing the people you care about.If you're exhausted from overgiving, overworking, people-pleasing, or overfunctioning, this conversation will feel deeply familiar. We explore why so many high-functioning adults struggle to communicate limits and how small, clear boundary shifts can radically change your relationships, work life, and inner peace.Today's episode features insights from therapist and bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab, author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, and psychotherapist and relationship expert Terri Cole, author of Boundary Boss. Together, they unpack the psychology of boundaries, codependency, people-pleasing, and how to finally talk true and live free.In this episode, you'll discover:A one-sentence boundary formula that prevents arguments and shuts down guilt spiralsThe hidden secondary gain that keeps you stuck in overgiving and overfunctioningThe six dysfunctional boundary styles and how to identify your “boundary blueprint”A simple way to set time boundaries at work without risking your jobPractical scripts you can use when someone asks intrusive questions or ignores your limitsIf you're ready to stop feeling unseen, stretched thin, or quietly resentful, press play and learn how to create the boundaries that make a good life possible.Episode TranscriptYou can find Nedra at: Website | InstagramYou can find Terri at: Website | Instagram | Discover Your Secondary Gain | The Terri Cole ShowNext week, be sure to tune in for my conversation with Gretchen Rubin about what actually happens when kids leave home and how that season reshapes identity, relationships, and purpose.Check out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.