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I have a friend named Laney who genuinely does not experience mom guilt. Not because she's a perfect mom, but because she's decided her kids are lucky to have her — and she means it! I used to laugh when she said things like that. But, now, after working for years on myself (I've come so far!), I understand that what I was struggling with wasn't only guilt over my shortcomings as a mom, but it was also guilt over the resentment I felt for everything I was carrying that led me to not enjoy my motherhood very much. The guilt was coming at me from every direction! If any of that sounds familiar, this episode is going to feel like a very welcome exhale. This week's guest is JoAnn Crohn, certified life coach and author of The Best Mom is a Happy Mom. She helps moms go from martyr to model, and this conversation is full of honest, practical tools for getting there. ✨ Why JoAnn's husband didn't even realize the imbalance until they did this one exercise together ✨ The "guilt equation" from a psychologist that will completely change how you think about your own expectations ✨ The thing JoAnn's therapist said that cut through all the noise and told her exactly what being a good mom actually requires If you've ever felt like the mental load of your family's life is sitting entirely on your shoulders, and if you've ever felt the guilt coming from every side, this episode is for you. For full show notes, including takeaways, click here. *** Related Episodes: 445: How to Set Boundaries without Damaging Relationships // Rachel on Happy Mom Summit 436: Embrace the Mom You Are—Not the One You Think You Should Be // Julie Bastedo 270: Simplifying Mom-Life // Chanelle Neilson Episode Sponsors: Tushy Bidet: For a limited time, our listeners get 10% off their first bidet order when you go to HelloTUSHY.com and use promo code 3in30. First Day: For a limited time only, our listeners are getting an insane deal. Use code 3IN30 to get up to 57% Off at FirstDay.com. Knix Teen: It's not just underwear; it's giving our girls the confidence they deserve. Go to KnixTeen.com and use code 3IN30 for 15 percent off. Air Doctor: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code 3IN30 to get $250 off select AirDoctor air purifiers, including the 3500, 4000, and 5500 models. Quince: Head to Quince.com/3in30 for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns Fodzyme: We're so excited to partner with FODZYME and offer you 30% off your first order when you go to icaneatagain.com/3in30.com. Let's Connect! Join me on Instagram! Get weekly-ish emails with BTS of my life Find Your Magic in Motherhood: Free 3-Day Email Course ***

Unlocking Your Next Chapter: How Women Over 45 Can Build Healthy Relationships, Set Boundaries, and Thrive Through Change with Monica Madden Are you a woman over 45 navigating a major life transition, questioning what's next, or feeling called to something more? In this inspiring episode of She Shift, therapist Monica Madden shares powerful insights on healthy relationships, setting boundaries, self-discovery, and thriving during midlife change. Whether you're experiencing a career pivot, an empty nest, a shift in relationships, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself, this conversation will help you embrace your next chapter with confidence and grace. Monica opens up about her own journey through motherhood, personal growth, and reinvention, while offering practical advice for women who are ready to stop putting themselves last and start creating a life that feels aligned, fulfilling, and authentic. In this episode, you'll discover: ✔ How to build healthier relationships in midlife ✔ Why setting boundaries is essential for emotional well-being ✔ Ways to navigate life transitions after 45 with confidence ✔ How self-discovery can lead to personal growth and renewed purpose ✔ Why giving yourself permission to change is the key to thriving 3 Key Takeaways to Act On Today 1. Start with Self-Check-Ins Take a few minutes each day to honestly evaluate your emotions and ask yourself: What do I need right now? (22:59) 2. Give Yourself Permission Write or voice a permission slip allowing yourself to release burdens, expectations, and responsibilities that no longer belong to you. (23:16) 3. Set One Loving Boundary Choose one area of your life today where you'll honor your own needs, even if it feels uncomfortable at first. (09:24) If you've been wondering whether it's too late to reinvent yourself, find your purpose, or create healthier relationships, this episode is your reminder that your next chapter is still being written. Your midlife reinvention starts with one decision: choosing yourself. To Stay Connected Follow Us On: www.MonicaMadden.com www.sheshift.co Tool to use to empower the What's Next: Grab your Free 5 steps to Dream. Reflect. Rise https://payhip.com/b/tquL7      

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What happens when you realize you've spent your entire life abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable?In this deeply powerful episode of Casa De Confidence, Julie DeLucca-Collins welcomes back author, energy healer, and boundary expert Stephanie McAuliffe for an honest conversation about generational trauma, emotional healing, boundaries, people pleasing, and learning to trust yourself again.Stephanie shares her personal story of growing up in a family where emotions were silenced through alcohol, how those patterns shaped her relationships and career, and how she ultimately transformed her life after the collapse of her marriage and Wall Street career.This episode dives into:emotional healinggenerational traumafamily dynamicspeople pleasingself abandonmentenergy protectionpersonal boundariesinner child healinglearning to trust yourselfIf you've ever felt emotionally exhausted, disconnected from yourself, or stuck repeating unhealthy patterns, this conversation will resonate deeply.

In a moment when everything feels urgent, this conversation with boundary expert Nedra Glover Tawwab is your reminder: you can care deeply about the world without abandoning yourself. Because burnout isn't always a personal failure. Sometimes it's just a boundary that hasn't been spoken yet. Nedra helps us rethink boundaries—not as walls, but as instructions for how to love and be loved without disappearing. We talk about resentment, overfunctioning, people pleasing, and why all humans are gloriously, beautifully needy. If you're exhausted, stretched thin, or carrying too much: this one is for you. - The five signs you might have a boundary problem - Why we all need to stop pretending we're “not needy”  - How to stop arguing like a lawyer and start communicating like a kindergartener: “That hurt. I don't like that. I need this.” - How to know when to end an argument, exit a friendship, and respond to passive aggressiveness About Nedra:  Nedra Glover Tawwab is the author of the New York Times bestsellers Drama Free and Set Boundaries, Find Peace. A licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert, she has practiced relationship therapy for more than fifteen years. Tawwab has appeared as an expert on Red Table Talk, The Breakfast Club, Good Morning America, and CBS Morning Show to name a few. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, The Guardian, and Vice. Tawwab runs a popular Instagram account where she shares practices, tools, and reflections for mental health and relationships. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her family. Follow We Can Do Hard Things on:  Instagram — ⁠https://www.instagram.com/wecandohardthings⁠

You've been told to set boundaries. You've tried setting boundaries. And somehow you're still exhausted, still over-explaining, still feeling like you have to defend the smallest "no." So today I want to push back on the most-recommended advice in the wellness world and tell you what I actually think happens when you keep being told that the answer to other people's behaviour is just to draw a clearer line. There's a deeper conversation underneath this one, and we're going to have it. By the end of this episode I want you to walk away with a different way of thinking about the energy you keep handing over without realising. Ready to break the cycle for good? If this episode resonated with you, there's something you need to try next…  Take the Happiness Quiz at https://iintendtobehappy.com/ — it's a quick (and eye-opening) way to discover what's actually impacting your consistency, focus, and overall wellbeing. Most people are shocked by their results — and even more surprised by what it reveals about the patterns holding them back. Take the quiz here → https://iintendtobehappy.com/ Let's take this work deeper, together.

Explore how people-pleasing at work becomes a survival strategy leading to burnout, and discover practical techniques for setting boundaries that protect your energy, boost leadership potential, and create sustainable success without sacrificing your reputation.Break the pattern at https://www.nicoletta.coach/ nicoletta.coach City: Rockville Address: 10401 Grosvenor Place Website: https://www.nicoletta.coach/

Do Dads need to have the stepmom's back in disagreements with the stepkids?  The reasons why boundaries might feel different with stepkids vs bio kids How aligned do you need to be with your partner about family rules and boundaries?  Why are men scared to set boundaries with their ex?  How love can feel different for stepkids and biokids… and why that's okay.    Darren joins Jamie for another honest talk about these topics and more in this episode of The KICK-ASS Stepmom Podcast.    Check out The Stepmom Rebrand:                                                                                                              www.stepmomrebrand.com  Work With Jamie www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching   Episode Sponsors:  Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off your order.  Boncharge | www.boncharge.com and use the code SCRIM for 15% off  Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com

Why do so many people feel guilty for saying no, protecting their peace, or walking away from toxic relationships?In this Q&A episode of Empowered With Gina, Gina Zapanta answers some of the most common questions women ask about boundaries, people pleasing, emotional exhaustion, unhealthy relationships, and self-worth.From struggling to cut people off, to wondering if you're being “too cold,” to trying to unlearn toxic relationship patterns from childhood, this conversation dives into the emotional conditioning that keeps so many people stuck in cycles that no longer serve them.Topics covered in this episode include:How to set boundaries without feeling guiltyThe truth about people pleasingToxic relationship patternsSigns a relationship may be unhealthyHow to leave someone you still loveEmotional chaos and childhood conditioningProtecting your peace without apologizingBuilding healthier relationships with yourself and othersWhy guilt is often a sign of growthHow to stop overexplaining your decisionsIf you've ever felt emotionally drained, responsible for everyone else's feelings, or afraid to choose yourself, this episode will challenge the way you think about boundaries, accountability, and self-respect.Subscribe to Empowered With Gina for weekly conversations about healing, confidence, personal growth, discipline, relationships, and living life intentionally.#Boundaries #ToxicRelationships #PeoplePleasing #SelfWorth #HealthyRelationships #EmpoweredWithGina #PersonalGrowth #Healing #Confidence #MentalHealth

What does healing from people-pleasing look like in real life, not just at the beginning, but years later? In this episode, I share my personal story of people-pleasing, where these patterns began for me, how God brought healing, and what it looks like now to live on the “maintenance side” of emotional healing. We talk about fear of abandonment, over-functioning in relationships, parenting adult children, nervous system vigilance, and the ongoing process of learning how to stay grounded in safety and trust instead of falling back into old survival patterns. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN [00:00] What Healing from People-Pleasing Actually Looks Like Over Time [03:00] The Fear Underneath My People-Pleasing Patterns [05:00] How Parenting Adult Children Triggered Old Patterns Again [07:00] Why People-Pleasing Is Really About Safety + Emotional Survival [10:00] The Family Roles That Quietly Shape Identity [13:00] How Childhood Survival Patterns Affect the Nervous System [16:00] The Medical Crisis That Forced Me to Look at These Patterns [19:00] Why Over-Functioning Can Feel Like Love [22:00] The Anchor Analogy God Keeps Bringing Me Back To [25:00] What It Means to Live on the “Maintenance Side” of Healing  RESOURCES: The People Pleasing Mindset Makeover is an 8-session one-on-one coaching process designed to help women understand the deeper roots of people-pleasing, rewire unhealthy patterns, and build healthier emotional responses through brain science, biblical truth, and practical tools. Learn more or apply here:

Whether you are struggling with "constant availability" or the guilt of leaving tasks unfinished, this conversation provides a realistic roadmap for reclaiming your mental space. Tune in to Discover The Identity of Boundaries: Why boundaries are like the walls of an office—essential for knowing where you begin and where work ends. The Lumberjack Principle: Why taking intentional breaks actually makes you more productive and sharpens your axe for the tasks ahead. Red Flags of Porous Boundaries: How to recognize the signs, from logging back in late at night to feeling resentment when a notification pops up. Concrete Skills for "No": How to use assertive communication and "delayed yeses" to honor your capacity without damaging your professional reputation. Practical Tips for Your Work-Life Separation Post-Work Rituals: Create a physical transition, such as changing out of work clothes immediately or shutting down your laptop completely rather than just locking the screen. The "Supervisor Strategy": If you struggle to say no to a boss, try: "I'd be happy to help with this. Can you show me how to prioritize this with my current workload?" Embrace the Discomfort: Understand that setting a new boundary will feel anxious at first. Growth and change often come with short-term discomfort for a long-term payoff. Resources Sagent Behavioral Health Contact the podcast: Podcast@SagentBH.com Subscribe & Review If you found this episode helpful, please consider subscribing to Everyday Therapy and leaving us a review. It helps others discover the podcast and take the next step toward meaningful mental health support. Do you have feedback or topic requests? Email us at Podcast@SagentBH.com We'd love to hear from you! Follow along:InstagramFacebookNystrom & Associates

What do you do when the person who raised you... is also the person who keeps hurting you?In this personal episode, Esther — your host from Switzerland and a Tony Robbins Senior Leader — opens up about a phone call that happened just days ago. A call with her 91-year-old father that lasted 13 minutes. A call where she asked about his life, his meals, his days — and received nothing but blame in return.She shares the moment her father told her she was mentally ill. The years of driving 2+ hours every week just to show up for him. And the decision she finally made — not out of cruelty, but out of survival.This episode isn't just about Esther's story. It's about yours. In this episode you'll discover:→  Why protecting yourself from a parent feels like betrayal — and why it isn't→  How empathy and firm limits can exist in the same heart at the same time→  What “forgiveness without being a doormat” actually looks like in real life→  How one person breaking a pattern frees the generations that follow→  Why it is never — ever — too late to choose your peace Raw. Honest. And deeply needed. Press play.DO YOU WANT TO GET COACHED BY ESTHER?✨ Book a free Discovery Call: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://swissmadestory.ch/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Follow Esther on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/esther_buerki⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Join Esther on Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/esther.buerki1⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Connect with her on LinkedIn:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.linkedin.com/in/estherbuerki⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✨ Stay connected with her: https://swissmadestory.ch/stay-in-touch/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠✍️ Get in touch with her through e-mail:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ contact@swissmadestory⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠BOOKS:

Do You Have a Toxic Parent? In the Episode you will Understand the Patterns. Examples of Setting Boundaries to Manage Difficult Interactions. Have you felt dismissed instead of being heard. Controlled instead of supported. Feel emotionally drained after interactions, that is toxic. Included: Do You have a Toxic Parent Checklist Use your own dog for anxiety relief. 30-second free guide ServiceDogPro.com! https://podcast.feedspot.com/anxiety_podcasts/ https://podcast.feedspot.com/us_psychology_podcasts/ sts/  

Mother's Day can feel complicated when you're walking through infertility or loss.You want to show up. You want to celebrate others. But there's also a part of your heart that feels heavy, tender… maybe even exhausted.In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about what this day can bring up—and how to walk through it with grace, honesty, and support.We talk about: what it looks like to protect your peace without guilt  how to set boundaries (with people, social media, and expectations)  simple ways to prepare for the day so it doesn't catch you off guard  how to respond to questions you may not feel ready to answer  navigating church on Mother's Day and what to do when it feels hard Most of all, this is a reminder that you are not forgotten in this story.You are seen.You are loved.And you don't have to carry this day alone.If Mother's Day has felt heavy before, or you're unsure how to walk into it this year, this conversation is for you.Start your monthly gift$12 for Twelve Giving Campaign Support + communityTwice-a-month virtual support group Twelve 12 MinistriesWebsiteShopInstagram + Facebook: @twelve12ministriesEmail: info@twelve12ministries.org

Are you tired of feeling overwhelmed, overcommitted, or stuck in unhealthy patterns? It may be time to set boundaries—but not just any boundaries, Godly boundaries. Join us for this LIVE Q and A workshop where we'll walk you through practical, biblical steps to set boundaries God's way so you can walk in freedom from codependency. God has timeless truths to help you navigate life and live in freedom as He intended. Join us LIVE on Mondays at 7:30 PM ET where we answer your questions on how to Conquer Codependency God's Way. Do you have a question you would like Aliene to address? We've got you! Just leave your question in the comments below or email questions@treasuredministries.com Don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave a comment if this episode resonates with you! For more information/resources check out the links below: ⇨ Visit the Treasured Ministries Website: https://treasuredministries.com/ ⇨ Sign up for our FREE newsletter and get inspiration for your faith journey https://treasuredministries.activehos... ⇨ Donate: https://treasuredministries.com/donate/ ⇨Sign up for retreat https://treasuredministries.com/retreat/ _____________________ Treasured Ministries provides discipleship, biblical resources, and community for women so they can exchange codependency for God dependency and thrive. For more information visit https://treasuredministries.com ______________________ Aliene Thompson is the president of Treasured Ministries International, the creator of the Nourish Bible Study Method, and the founder of the Treasured Tribe, an online Christian community for women. Her popular series on YouTube, "Conquering Codependency God's Way", helps women worldwide move from codependency to God dependency so they can live in freedom as God intended. #codependence #conqueringcodependency

How to set boundaries when you've spent your whole life saying yes and feeling resentful. This is the Tennis Court Method, the exact system, scripts, and inner work that finally make boundaries hold without guilt, collapse, or counterattack.If you've read every boundary book and still freeze the second someone asks you for something you don't have to give, this video is for you. Kenny Weiss walks you through why boundaries actually fail for high-functioning people pleasers, why "just say no" advice never sticks, and what it actually takes to rewrite the childhood blueprint underneath the resentment, the over-giving, and the constant fear of being seen as mean. You'll get the Tennis Court framework for understanding where you end and another person begins, the Wall of Pleasantness response for when someone takes your inventory or hands you unsolicited advice, and the exact word-for-word boundary script you can practice this week.This video covers the Worst Day Cycle™ (Trauma, Fear, Shame, Denial), the Authentic Self Cycle™ (Truth, Responsibility, Healing, Forgiveness), and the Emotional Authenticity Method™ — Kenny's six-step process for downregulating your nervous system, identifying the feeling, locating it in your body, finding the earliest memory, asking who you'd be without the thought, and using Feelization to rewire the emotional blueprint. You'll also learn the difference between the three internal voices running your reactions, why the survival persona collapses or counterattacks instead of holding the fence, and why traditional therapy, communication tools, and assertiveness training never reach the layer where the people-pleasing was installed.Kenny Weiss teaches that a boundary is not a wall around someone else, it is a fence around your own yard. The fence does not control your neighbor. It simply defines where you end and they begin, and it lets you choose what gets into your space. The Tennis Court is the structure that makes connection possible, because without a net there is no game and no relationship, only enmeshment.The Wall of Pleasantness is Kenny Weiss's adult response to criticism, accusation, or inventory-taking. Instead of collapsing into shame and agreeing or counterattacking and defending, you listen without reacting, take time to process, ask whether anything said is actually true, and respond with a grounded fence-setting sentence such as, "In the future, would you be willing to ask me before you give me unsolicited advice."The reason most boundary advice fails is that it teaches scripts to the adult who is not in the room. The wounded child driving the bus does not care about communication tools. Kenny Weiss's work targets the emotional blueprint underneath the behavior, rewriting the childhood equation that no equals abandonment and yes equals safety, which is why the Tennis Court Method holds when "just say no" collapses.TOPICS COVERED: how to set boundaries, boundaries in relationships, setting boundaries with parents, people pleasing recovery, codependency recovery, how to say no without guilt, boundary scripts, tennis court method,

Monica sits down to answer the juicy questions you left her on Instagram!⇢ WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/Q7JhDbZSiYsFrom baby sleep advice to maintaining polarity, healing trauma, getting started as an entrepreneur, cycle tracking after having a baby, and more, she really goes there with each question, as she always does.Questions answered:

Are you tired of feeling like you have to choose between keeping the peace and being true to yourself in your relationships? Many people mistake silence for harmony, stuffing down their true feelings for fear of conflict, only to wake up one day feeling unheard, unseen, and disconnected. But what if speaking up—being honest about your needs and setting boundaries—was actually the path to deeper connection and intimacy, not the source of division? In this episode, listeners are invited to rethink what it means to be authentic in close relationships, especially when it comes to sharing hard truths or setting limits. You'll hear insights on why self-assertion is not about ruining relationships, but about bringing your whole self into them. By exploring practical strategies, emotional tools, and real-life examples, this conversation guides you in overcoming the fear of rocking the boat—so you can communicate courageously and build relationships where both people feel truly known and valued. Tonya Lester, LCSW, is the author of Push Back: Live, Love, and Work with Others Without Losing Yourself. A Brooklyn-based psychotherapist and writer known for her work with relationships and communication, her essay "Couples Therapist, Heal Thyself" was published in the Modern Love column in The New York Times, and she has been writing the popular Staying Sane Inside Insanity blog for Psychology Today since 2020. She has been featured as an expert in The Guardian, Newsweek, Well+Good, HuffPost, Fatherly, and the Bumble site, The Buzz.   Episode Highlights 04:03 The link between speaking up, emotional intimacy, and common gendered roles. 07:18 Navigating differences: collaboration, needs, and the relationship as a system. 12:40 Embracing discomfort and staying present with unresolved issues. 13:53 The importance of vulnerability and framing difficult conversations safely. 17:02 Applying healthy pressure: strengthening or releasing relationships. 19:56 Recognizing the "shock absorber" role and its impact on self and intimacy. 23:10 Identifying "shock magnets": escalation, withdrawal, and unhealthy conflict cycles. 27:29 Communicating effectively with kindness. 30:38 Defining self-possession and its role in relational health. 32:49 Using internal signals and "weathervane" emotions for personal growth. 38:11 Building emotional maturity: self-compassion, timeouts, and ongoing practice. 40:38 Understanding and managing emotional activation. 42:42 Addressing hidden relationship dynamics and the importance of modeling boundaries. 48:21 Exploring possibilities: challenging feelings of being trapped and opening to choice. 51:41 Putting clarity into practice: actionable tools and lasting relationship change.   Your Checklist of Actions to Take Practice Soft Startups: Begin hard conversations with vulnerability and clarity about your intentions rather than leading with anger or accusation to lower defensiveness in your partner. Name Your Emotions: Before raising a difficult topic, identify and share your underlying emotions, such as fear, anxiety, or longing, to increase openness. Set Boundaries with Clarity: Clearly state what is not working for you in the relationship and propose specific changes, avoiding blame or generalizations. Tolerate Unresolved Issues: Accept that not every problem will have an immediate solution and practice tolerating the discomfort of ongoing, in-process conversations. Take Breaks When Activated: When conflict escalates, or emotions run high, pause the conversation and use activities like taking a walk or shower to regulate your nervous system before returning. Use "I" Statements: Use concise, direct language to express your needs and feelings without attacking or criticizing your partner. Reflect on the System: Regularly assess if both partners are contributing to the emotional work and call out patterns where efforts are imbalanced. Model Self-Possession: Take responsibility for your own happiness and choices, setting an example for both yourself and others—including children—about how to live in alignment with your values.   Mentioned Push Back: Live, Love, and Work with Others Without Losing Yourself (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) About Tonya Lester (Psychology Today) Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication (Free guide) How Being "Difficult" Can Assist Growth & Development In Relationship (ERP 360)   Connect with Tonya Lester Website: tonyalester.com Facebook: facebook.com/tlynnlester/ Instagram: instagram.com/tonyalesterpsychotherapy LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tonya-lester-b9a3ab14 TikTok: tiktok.com/@tonyalesterlcsw  

If you've ever struggled with how to set boundaries without feeling guilty, this episode is for you.In this solo episode of Empowered With Gina, Gina breaks down how to stop people pleasing, say no with confidence, and build boundaries that actually stick.She challenges the idea that boundaries need to be explained, justified, or approved by others. Instead, she reframes boundaries for what they really are: decisions. Clear, non-negotiable standards for what you will and won't tolerate in your life.Gina dives into why over-explaining weakens your boundaries, how inconsistency keeps you stuck, and why other people's reactions are not a reflection of whether your boundary is right or wrong. She also addresses the uncomfortable truth that some people benefit from you having no boundaries at all, and why their pushback is something you need to expect, not fear.If you've ever felt guilty for saying no, struggled with people-pleasing, or worried about being judged for choosing yourself, this episode will reset your mindset.Boundaries aren't about pushing people away. They're about finally choosing yourself.

As Christian women in leadership, it is important to alleviate burnout. When you do, you open the door for peace of mind, healthier relationships, and a closer relationship to Christ. Christian women in leadership who experience anxiety often feel the need for control, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and even avoidance. These can lead to burnout. For overall health and wellness, it is crucial to alleviate burnout. Faith and Leadership: A Seamless Integration Faith isn't just for Sundays. It's about integrating your beliefs into every aspect of your life, especially in leadership roles at work and home. Understanding the Dynamics of Burnout Burnout doesn't happen overnight. It develops subtly, starting with chronic stress and progressing if not managed properly. I Aligning Body, Mind, and Spirit To alleviate burnout, it's crucial to align your body, mind, and spirit. Building Capacity and Setting Boundaries Capacity isn't just resilience; it involves setting boundaries and understanding personal limits. Co-Creation with God Faith is a powerful tool for increasing capacity. Navigating Secular Environments with Faith In secular work environments, openly expressing faith might be challenging. However, actions often speak louder than words. The Role of Community and Support Systems No one should face burnout alone. Harnessing the Power of the Holy Spirit Let the Holy Spirit guide you in your leadership journey. Practical Tools for Daily Renewal Incorporate daily practices that nourish your soul and prevent burnout. A Compassionate Approach to Leadership Incorporating Christian values into leadership roles doesn't just benefit you; it positively impacts your team and community. Website for Dr. Ioana Popa Renewal Template Read the full show notes and access all links. Additional Resources Do You Believe Your Self-Talk? Healing Starts Beyond the Brain. How to Set Boundaries. Every Relationship Needs Them. Why Are You People-Pleasing? Adopting the Holy Pause to Stop Overreacting Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Additional Resources Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind

✨ Set Boundaries or Stay Stuck ✨Protect Your Time or Lose Your Future.You're not stuck because you're incapable.You're stuck because you're too available.Every time you say yes to everything…you delay what actually matters.This episode is about setting real boundaries — not out of attitude, but out of alignment. Learning how to say no, protect your time, and focus on your assignment so you can finally move forward.Because the truth is:If you don't protect your time,you will lose your future.

Today's Scripture is: Psalm 68:4-10 If you've felt the ache of loneliness, this episode offers a deeply grounding reminder: your longing for connection is not a weakness, it's part of how you were created. Blending Scripture with attachment psychology, Dr. Alison explores how God meets us within loneliness, not just after it's resolved. In this episode: *The difference between loneliness and disconnection *How attachment needs shape your emotional world *Why loneliness is a signal, not a failure *A reframe of the “in-between” (wilderness) season *How to notice small, real forms of connection already present Go Deeper: Episode 142: How to Honor & Set Boundaries with Sadness & Loneliness Visit our new The Best of You Every Day web page here Connect with Dr. Alison on Instagram: @dralisoncook Join 80,000+ Soul Menders in Dr. Alison's free email community for ongoing reflection and support. While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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“Boundaries – the invisible fences we build to protect our peace, energy, and heart - kindness with limits – a gift to others and yourself” How do we protect our energy? How do we implement boundaries in a healthy way? Alyssa Utecht is a Holistic Boundaries Coach who helps anyone navigating change to stop trying to fix themselves and start protecting their energy. She guides people to release old stories, expectations, and emotional patterns, making boundaries feel safe and natural. The result? More ease, joy, and abundance in life.   In this episode, Alyssa shares: The signs that your energy is being drained and you need to set a boundary. Create boundaries with power and certainty. How to neutralize a toxic relationship How to Identify Your Money Ceiling Seven Simple Ways to Soothe Your System and Shift Your Mood   Connect with Alyssa: Website - www.alyssautecht.com Email - alyssa@alyssautecht.com LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyssau-align-and-thrive/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alyssaucoaching/   CONNECT WITH DEBI Website – https://www.debironca.com Instagram - @debironca Email – info@debironca.com Free Group Coaching - https://debi.sequoiatransitioncoaching.com/group-coaching YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@DebiRoncaOfficial Amy Throw | Stylist & Image CoachI style women in clothes they love & build opportunities they believe in http://www.Styledwithsoul.cabionline.com   Check out my online course! Your Story's Changing, Finding Purpose in Life's Transitionshttps://course.sequoiatransitioncoaching.com/8-week-program The Family Letter by Debi Ronca – International Best Sellerhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SSJFXBD Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/debironca/free-clarity-call

This week, we wrapped up our five-episode series all about social life and friendship for neurodivergent homeschooled kiddos. Episode 311 digs into a topic many families experience but often don't have a name for: social hangovers—the aftermath of social time when kids (and adults!) crash, resist future invitations, or need days to recover. Key Takeaways Social hangovers are the nervous system's delayed response to social effort, especially common in neurodivergent kids who mask, self-monitor, and process a ton during interactions. Signs include: Irritability or emotional explosions Withdrawal/shutdown Physical complaints (headaches, stomachaches) Refusal of future plans Reframe the behavior: This isn't poor behavior—it's delayed processing, not avoidance. Build recovery plans BEFORE burnout happens! Include: Predictable ending times and visual cues Leaving while things are still going well Immediate decompression time (quiet, silence, snacks, audiobooks) Regulation through movement or sensory comfort No reflection or questions until after decompression Proactive Strategies Know your child's social energy window—how long they can handle interactions before going into yellow or red zones. Support with lighter academic loads or more autonomy the day after social events. Avoid stacking multiple social events together; buffer days matter! Teach kids to name their feelings and advocate for breaks without shame. The Learner's Lab & Friendship Pathways If you want more strategies, real-time classes, and a supportive community, check out the Learner's Lab! Plus, grab our Friendship Pathways Handout (linked above!). The Learner's Lab is open to families using charter/ESA funds—reach out if you'd like us to become an approved vendor for your organization.   Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Nurturing Neurodivergent Friendships: Practical Tips for Parents and Kids RLL #42: What It's Like to be Homeschooled with Best Friends Molly and Ella Teaching Kids About Being a Good Friend with Help From Great Books and Netflix Teaching Kids to Befriend Others 5 Tips for Helping Gifted Children Make Friends Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments The Not-So Friendly Friend: How to Set Boundaries for Healthy Friendships Social Skills Activities for Kids Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids One Big Heart: A Celebration of Being More Alike than Different Life Skills for Kids: Unlocking a World of Possibilities through Friendship, Decision-Making, Cooking, Achieving a Success Mindset, Time-Management, Budgeting, and More  Empathy Workbook for Kids: 50 Activities to Learn About Kindness, Compassion, and Other People's Feelings  

Stop being a slave to your cell phone and your "pain-in-the-ass" customers. If you don't draw a line in the sand right now, your busy season isn't going to make you rich, it's going to burn you out and steal your life. In this episode, we're talking about the five non-negotiable boundaries you need to set today so you can actually enjoy your summer and keep your sanity.==============================Ready to stop the bleeding? Stop stealing from your family and start building a business that serves your life. Grab "The Contractor's Code to Finally Cracking $1M" here: https://thecontractorfight.com/code================================ Rate the Podcast ==Help your fellow contractors find the podcast! Please leave a rating/review.Apple PodcastsSpotify

What happens when your instinct to help others starts draining your creative energy? Have you ever tried your best to communicate clearly only to realize the other person keeps demanding more, pushing harder, and ignoring your boundaries? In this episode of Your Creative Mind, I explore the psychology of setting healthy boundaries in creative collaboration, volunteer work, and professional relationships. Through real stories, from helping a stranger on subway stairs to handling an email confrontation, I share practical insights on how protecting your time, energy, and creative focus helps you stay productive and emotionally balanced. If you've ever felt drained by difficult people, this episode will help you recognize when generosity becomes overextension, how to hold firm boundaries without guilt, and why protecting your mental space is essential for sustained creativity, effective communication, and a thriving creative life.   Connect with Izolda Website: https://IzoldaT.com Book Your Discovery Call: https://calendly.com/izoldat/discovery-call New Play Exchange: https://newplayexchange.org/users/90481/izolda-trakhtenberg This episode is brought to you by Brain.fm. I love and use brain.fm! It combines music and neuroscience to help me focus, meditate, and even sleep! Because you listen to this show, you can get a free trial and 20% off with this exclusive coupon code: innovativemindset. (affiliate link) URL: https://brain.fm/innovativemindset It's also brought to you by my podcast host, Podbean! I love how simple Podbean is to use. If you've been thinking of starting your own podcast, Podbean is the way to go!** Listen on These Channels Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Stitcher | Podbean | MyTuner | iHeart Radio | TuneIn | Deezer | Overcast | PodChaser | Listen Notes | Player FM | Podcast Addict | Podcast Republic | **Affiliate Link  

If you're a woman in healthcare leadership and you feel guilty setting boundaries, constantly over-giving, or emotionally drained after work, this episode is for you.In healthcare, we're often taught that being compassionate means being available, flexible, and selfless. But over time, that leads to burnout, resentment, and a loss of clarity in how we lead. The truth is, boundaries do not make you less caring. They make your care sustainable.In this episode, we talk about how to set boundaries without guilt, why burnout in healthcare often comes from over-functioning, and how to lead with both compassion and clarity. You'll learn how to protect your energy without losing your empathy, why structure matters more than willpower when it comes to burnout prevention, and how boundaries actually improve your relationships with patients and clients.If you're tired of feeling drained but still deeply committed to your work, this will help you shift how you lead in a way that feels supportive, not restrictive.Ready to build a business that supports your life, your energy, and your leadership? Learn more about DPT to CEO here.Mentioned in this episode: Women in Healthcare Business: Why Being Nice Causes Burnout and Weak Boundaries --- Morgan Meese, the founder of a successful out-of-network physical therapy practice, has transformed her expertise into a role as a dedicated business and marketing coach. Specializing in cash pay physical therapy, Morgan owns a digital business where she collaborates with fellow clinicians, guiding them in launching and expanding their own cash-based solo practices. Her coaching extends to helping new business owners navigate the complexities of owning a physical therapy practice, incorporating elements like mobile physical therapy and telehealth. Morgan's unique approach incorporates niche marketing strategies, addressing the specific needs of clinicians and entrepreneurs. As a woman in business with ADHD herself, she also offers insights on time management for business owners, emphasizing the importance of digital marketing to attract more clients. Join Morgan on her journey of empowering women entrepreneurs, physical therapists and healthcare providers, combating burnout, and building a thriving business so you never have to go back to the clinic again.Find me on IG: ⁠DPT to CEO⁠ and ⁠Dr. Morgan Meese⁠---To learn more, visit ⁠our website⁠.Free eBook ⁠“So You Want To Start a Solo Practice” ⁠DPT to CEO: ⁠Youtube⁠⁠Apply ⁠for the DPT to CEO 1:1 Coaching Program with Morgan.Just getting started? ⁠The Therapy Business Basics Mini Course⁠ is the place to start!⁠Buy me coffee⁠

Send us Fan MailHave you ever found yourself thinking:I don't understand what is happening in my relationship.You're trying to communicate, but every conversation turns emotional.You're watching your partner pull away, but they won't actually say why.Or maybe they ended the relationship… and yet they're still showing up in ways that make it almost impossible to heal.That kind of confusion can make you question everything.And that's what this episode is about.In this special Q&A-style episode of Love Shack Live, Brooke brings in real questions from social media comments and DMs from people who are right in the middle of heartbreak, mixed signals, emotional overwhelm, and relationship confusion.Together we're unpacking what may actually be happening underneath these painful dynamics, including:what to do when your partner gets emotional every time you bring something uphow to share insight without sounding like you're labeling or criticizingwhat may be happening in an “avoidant reverse discard”how to make sense of a breakup where someone ends the relationship but still acts emotionally connectedwhy confusion hurts so much more when you can't understand the patternThis episode is for the person who feels stuck in the in-between.The person trying to make sense of behavior that doesn't add up.The person whose mind keeps filling in the blanks because no one is saying the quiet part out loud.If your relationship feels unstable, emotionally charged, or impossible to read right now, this conversation will help you slow it down, see the pattern more clearly, and understand what to do next.In this episode, we talk about:emotional reactions during hard conversationswhere your feelings end and your partner's beginwhy some people withdraw instead of ending things directlythe confusion of mixed signals after a breakuphow to stop guessing and start getting claritywhat emotional safety actually requiresIf you heard yourself in any part of this episode and want help understanding your specific situation, you can book a clarity call here:stacibartley.com/applyBecause love isn't enough. But skills are.Timestamps:02:31 Question One: Emotional Reactions04:19 Boundaries And Pausing06:50 Emotional Backlog Triggers10:09 Manipulation Avoidance Loop14:37 Miscommunication Cup Story17:42 Question Two: Share Insight20:53 Stop Speaking For Them24:18 Question Three: Reverse Discard26:20 When It Really Ends27:32 Cowardice and Avoidance29:03 Why People Ghost30:44 Rationalizing Hard Truths33:30 Question Four: Abrupt Breakup Mixed Signals34:57 In Out Attachment Cycle38:32 How to Confront the Rollercoaster39:56 Set Boundaries and Separate

Sleep Hypnosis for Women 40+ with Chronic Exhaustion (8 Hours) – Reclaim Your Energy & Set Boundaries Without Guilt is designed to help you release deep burnout, restore your nervous system, and gently reconnect with your natural energy while you sleep, inspired by the principles of Set Boundaries, Find Peace.This powerful overnight session blends burnout recovery, nervous system reset, deep sleep meditation, and stop feeling drained techniques to support lasting renewal.Through soothing guidance and subconscious reprogramming, you'll experience release anxiety before bed, quiet the mind, and learn how to set boundaries when you're always “nice”—without guilt, pressure, or force.

This week, we're exploring an important and sometimes misunderstood topic: what to do when our neurodivergent kids are happier alone and genuinely prefer solitude over social interactions. Key Takeaways: Solitude Can Be Healthy: Recognize that some children genuinely enjoy being alone, and this can be restorative, not problematic. Honor their need for quiet time without assuming something is wrong. Distinguish Between Solitude and Isolation: Pay attention to signs. Healthy solitude is chosen, flexible, and doesn't carry shame, while isolation is often rigid, driven by fear, and paired with sadness or avoidance. Listen More Than You Talk: When your child expresses a preference for being alone, approach with curiosity rather than correction. Ask open-ended questions and avoid jumping into problem-solving. Don't Force Social Exposure: Avoid pushing frequent social situations or using solitude as a consequence. Let your child take breaks and control their level of social participation. Offer Invitations Without Pressure: Always keep low-demand connection options available. Respect "not now" and provide different types of social opportunities to let your child decide what feels safest. Honor Individual Differences: Never compare your child's social preferences to siblings or peers. Each child's needs and approach to friendships are unique and deserving of respect. Keep Connection Accessible: Even for children who prefer solitude, periodically check in. Offer short, interest-based activities, familiar settings, or intergenerational relationships to keep social muscles warm. Connection Isn't Linear or Urgent: Reassure your child (and yourself) that social growth happens at their own pace. Deep friendships may come later and are worth waiting for. Gentle Check-Ins: Periodically ask your child if they feel lonely or peaceful in their solitude, and discuss what helps them recharge and feel connected, without requiring action. Encourage Self-Discovery: Support your child's exploration of what types of friendships and connections work for them. Provide opportunities but let them drive the process. Cherish the connections your child finds, offer gentle support, and remember: The world would be boring if we all fit the same mold. Your child's unique wiring deserves celebration, not correction. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Nurturing Neurodivergent Friendships: Practical Tips for Parents and Kids RLL #42: What It's Like to be Homeschooled with Best Friends Molly and Ella Teaching Kids About Being a Good Friend with Help From Great Books and Netflix Teaching Kids to Befriend Others 5 Tips for Helping Gifted Children Make Friends Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments The Not-So Friendly Friend: How to Set Boundaries for Healthy Friendships Social Skills Activities for Kids Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids One Big Heart: A Celebration of Being More Alike than Different Life Skills for Kids: Unlocking a World of Possibilities through Friendship, Decision-Making, Cooking, Achieving a Success Mindset, Time-Management, Budgeting, and More  Empathy Workbook for Kids: 50 Activities to Learn About Kindness, Compassion, and Other People's Feelings   Grab Your FREE Friendship Guide!

Do friends and family assume you'll watch their pet just because you've said yes before? What starts as a favor can quickly turn into an expectation that's hard to undo.In this episode, I break down how to figure out your limits, why too much explaining usually backfires, and how to respond in a way that is clear, respectful, and hard to argue with.BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL LEARN: • Why this kind of frustration is usually about boundaries, not the pet • How to decide what you are and are not willing to do before the next ask comes in • Simple ways to respond when someone expects free pet careIf you know someone who keeps getting stuck as the family or friend group go-to pet sitter, please send them this episode.Stuck on a pet problem? Send it here.Support the showExpert Pet Advice for busy pet parents! Love the show? Leave a 5-star review so more pet parents can find us, and share this episode with someone who needs it. Follow:

As moms, we are like a life support system for our kids. To keep our families healthy, we need to be healthy. A key part of our overall well being is setting healthy boundaries. But boundaries are hard. They require uncomfortable, direct conversations. We may need to put a limit on really good things or draw a line in the sand with our in-laws or parents. My guest, Dr. John Townsend literally wrote the book on boundaries and he shares some deep wisdom on how to set healthy boundaries while honoring our family members and others. “You've got to take care of your energy, your heart and your emotions. You've got to take care of yourself and your health. If you don't guard that heart, then the wellsprings of life won't come out from it. Boundaries are basically about how to set healthy, loving limits in our life. So we have something to offer to our children.”Townsend answers your tough questions about setting limits with in-laws, making healthy boundaries for the holidays and even models having a tough conversation with a parent about a boundary. This is an episode packed with great information and Townsend has several books and resources available if you want to go deeper. Let's make setting healthy boundaries a priority and guard our hearts and our time to bring life to our family!Connect with John Townsend:  Instagram: John Townsend (@dr.john_townsend) Facebook: Dr. John Townsend Website: Home - Dr. John Townsend Links Mentioned:  Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: By John Townsend Relational Nutrients (new layout) - Dr. John Townsend People Fuel: By John Townsend Related Episodes: Parenting a Spicy Child: How to Stay Calm, Set Boundaries, and Keep the Connection :: Mary Van Geffen [Ep 558] Good Boundaries and Goodbyes :: Lysa TerKeurst [Ep 387] Strengthening the Relationship with Your Adult Child :: Kathy Cunningham [Ep 543] Featured Sponsors:  Thrive Causemetics: Amplify your spring look with Thrive Causemetics. Go to thrivecausemetics.com/DMA for an exclusive offer of 20% off your first order. 

If burnout and stress are following you home from the workplace, you're not imagining it. When your personal life starts shrinking, it's often because your mind never truly leaves work. And if you can't set boundaries at work mentally, your body stays in fight-or-flight after hours. In this conversation, I'm joined by Dr. Guy Winch Ph.D., an internationally renowned psychologist who advocates for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. We're talking about what happens when work hijacks your mind, your energy, your relationships, and your ability to actually be present in your own life. If you've been trying to figure out how to stop thinking about work, how to leave work at work, or how to set boundaries at work in a way that truly protects your personal life, this episode is for you. We unpack why burnout is not just about long hours, but about rumination, emotional overload, and staying mentally switched on long after the workday ends. Dr. Guy shares practical ideas for burnout recovery, including how to stop ruminating after hours, shift out of autopilot, and create simple transition rituals that help you reconnect with yourself and the people you love. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 When Work Follows You Home 04:52 Dr. Guy Winch's Burnout Wake-Up Call 10:11 Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Work 15:19 How to Stop Ruminating After Hours 21:56 How Burnout Hurts Relationships 31:17 How to Leave Work at Work 36:37 Why Autopilot Makes Burnout Worse 39:44 What Burnout Recovery Actually Looks Like 42:59 When Burnout Starts Affecting Love 48:58 Dr. Lisa's Takeaways and Next Steps If this conversation felt a little too familiar, I'd love to offer you a next step. At Growing Self, we help people work through burnout, relationship stress, and the patterns that keep life feeling harder than it needs to. You can schedule a free consultation by answering three quick questions. It's private, secure, and designed to help you find the right support for you. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast: Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. Working Genius — A powerful assessment that helps entrepreneurs and leaders focus on what they naturally do best. Get 20% off with code LHS at workinggenius.comStrawberry.me — Career coaching that helps you gain clarity, build a strategic plan, and take confident steps toward the career you want with expert support. Get 50% off your first coaching session at strawberry.me/LHS.

In this episode, I'm talking about the "laziness lie" from Dr. Devon Price's book Laziness Does Not Exist and how believing you're lazy if you don't help people can quietly destroy your boundaries. I get into why some relationships leave you exhausted, how over-helping actually keeps people stuck, and what it looks like to start pulling back in small, realistic ways.  Get support in Jen's "We Are A Lot" online community. An interactive (yet self-paced, no forced socializing) group giving you 24/7 peer to peer support. It's designed for ADHD/AuDHD humans that need connection and gentle accountability with taking action, so you're not doing it all alone. You get daily body doubling sessions with Jen, weekly check-in progress meetings, extras like live Q&A's with Jen, book club meetings, journaling sessions with Jen, instructional videos for nervous system regulation, a private chat community, free worksheets, guides and printables, journal prompts, as well as all of the podcast episodes early and ad-free, video versions with transcripts, and four audio bonus episodes per month. This monthly membership supports learning things at your own pace so that you can act like your own ADHD/AuDHD coach whenever you want. Join the "We Are A Lot" Community for $24.99/month, or I am offering over 3 months free if you join annually and check it out no pressure with a one-week free trial! Quick Links To Things Mentioned in This Episode: Episode 40: How to Set Boundaries as an Adult with ADHD   Episode 41: The ADHD and People Pleasing Connection  Laziness Does Not Exist by Dr. Devon Price (20% off with this link) Unmasking Autism by Dr. Devon Price (20% off with this link)  Unmasking For Life by Dr. Devon Price (20% off with this link)  Unlearning Shame by Dr. Devon Price (20% off with this link) Send an email to the show at alotadhdpod at gmail dot com  For ad-free episodes, weekly bonus episodes, the video version and transcripts join the Patreon for $7.99 per month. [Jen to create this link when adding the new paid version] Shop to Support the Show: Jen's Favorite ADHD Supports (with Discounts) Brain.fm — A Focus Tool I Use Every Day I listen while I work and I can feel my brain lock in. It's not AI, or binaural beats. Brain.fm is science-backed sound made by musicians and scientists for ADHD brains. I want you to try it for 30 days free, with my link! The Big A## Calendar I have the Big A## wall calendar that maps out the entire year and the Big A## personal planner with 365 days in one view, dry erase markers, color coded labels. With my unique link you can get 10% off of your order. Hugimals — Weighted Comfort for Kids & Adults I own Hugimals, give them as gifts, and love that they're made by a neurodivergent founder who understands nervous system needs. These weighted stuffed animals and pillows help with anxiety and overwhelm, and you can get 15% off anytime using my link and code JENKIRKMAN (it never expires). Bookshop.org — Books I Recommend I love Bookshop.org because every purchase supports your local independent bookstore, not Amazon, while still shipping directly to you. I've curated book lists on ADHD/AuDHD and mental health, and you can get 20% off everything when you shop using my link. The Time Timer - a Cute Visual Time Tool! I use my Time Timer every single day to help me visualize time during work blocks, and to gamify chores. There's no discount, but when you use my link I earn a percentage that goes directly into supporting this podcast. Appointed — Planners, Notebooks & Desk Goods Appointed notebooks are my go-to for my spiral notebooks, day planners, calendars and Le Pen pens for list-making, journaling, and planning. Save 15% off with my link and code JENKIRKMAN. UnHide — Soft, Weighted Comfort I love UnHide's products. Their faux fur weighted blankets, pillows, robes, and socks are incredibly soft and calming. You can get 20% off with my link and code JEN20.  

Setting boundaries in relationships can create quiet relational strain and fear of losing connection. This episode explores why boundaries feel risky, not because you're harsh, but because identity and belonging have been intertwined — and how recalibration restores alignment.Can you set boundaries without losing people?For many capable, high-responsibility adults, the real fear behind boundaries is not conflict.It's distance.Less warmth.Less access.Less relevance.In this Reinforcement episode of The Recalibration, we explore the identity-level tension beneath relational boundaries — especially for those who learned early that being needed secured belonging.When usefulness becomes identity, clarity feels dangerous.You're not afraid they'll explode.You're afraid they'll quietly adjust.You're afraid of becoming less necessary.Less central.Less indispensable.This episode gently names what often goes unspoken:The fear that alignment will cost you attachment.Through the lens of relationships, attachment, and nervous system regulation, we examine why boundaries are not just behavioral shifts — they are identity shifts.When we stop over-explaining, people feel it.When we stop rescuing tension, dynamics change.When we stop being the emotional thermostat, the room recalibrates.And that shift can feel like loss before it feels like depth.This is where Identity-Level Recalibration (ILR) is distinct.ILR is not a communication technique.Not a productivity tool.Not boundary scripts.It is the root-level recalibration that makes every relational behavior sustainable. Because identity precedes behavior.This episode supports:– Relationship strain without visible conflict– Identity misalignment beneath burnout– Fear of losing relevance in leadership relationships– Emotional exhaustion from over-functioning– Attachment anxiety in high-performing adultsToday's Micro Recalibration:In one conversation this week, experiment with saying one sentence less than usual.Don't clarify it.Don't justify it.Let it stand.Notice what rises in you.Not to judge it.Just to observe it.Reinforcement is how new identity becomes embodied.Explore Identity-Level Recalibration→ Schedule a conversation with Julie to see if The Recalibration is a fit for you→ Learn about The Recalibration Cohort→ Join the next Friday Recalibration Live experience → Take your listening deeper! Subscribe to The Weekly Recalibration Companion to receive reflections and extensions to each week's podcast episodes.→ Follow Julie Holly on LinkedIn for more recalibration insights→ Download the Misalignment Audit→ Subscribe to the weekly newsletter→ Books to read  (Tidy categories on Amazon- I've read/listened to each recommended title.)→  One link to all things...

As parents and educators, we all want to nurture resilience and empathy in our children—especially when it comes to social skills and building friendships. In the latest episode of the podcast, Colleen dives deep into how to help children cope with rejection and social setbacks. Here are three key takeaways from the episode: Validate Their Feelings First When kids experience rejection, don't rush to "fix" things. Instead, acknowledge and validate their emotions. Statements like "That hurt. I get that, and I'm glad you told me," create a safe space for your child to process feelings without shame. Separate Facts from Stories Teach children to distinguish between what actually happened and the negative narratives their minds might create. A practical visual exercise: Have them write down the facts ("The child didn't want to play with me") versus what their brain is telling them ("I'm not likable"), and then gently challenge those interpretations. Skill Building Over 'Bouncing Back' Rather than pushing for immediate resilience, focus on slowly building the skills your child needs to handle social setbacks. This may include providing emotional support, practicing exit strategies for tough situations, and encouraging safe social interactions for therapeutic "wins." If you're supporting neurodivergent learners, remember: Just by showing up and validating their emotions, you're doing something truly meaningful. For more resources and strategies, check out the full episode and join the community in the Learner's Lab. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Nurturing Neurodivergent Friendships: Practical Tips for Parents and Kids Beyond Be Yourself: Social Scripts That Build Connection for Neurodivergent Kids RLL #42: What It's Like to be Homeschooled with Best Friends Molly and Ella Teaching Kids About Being a Good Friend with Help From Great Books and Netflix Teaching Kids to Befriend Others 5 Tips for Helping Gifted Children Make Friends Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments The Not-So Friendly Friend: How to Set Boundaries for Healthy Friendships Social Skills Activities for Kids Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids One Big Heart: A Celebration of Being More Alike than Different Life Skills for Kids: Unlocking a World of Possibilities through Friendship, Decision-Making, Cooking, Achieving a Success Mindset, Time-Management, Budgeting, and More  Empathy Workbook for Kids: 50 Activities to Learn About Kindness, Compassion, and Other People's Feelings  

New York Times bestselling author and therapist Nedra Tawwab shares her journey of discovering the need for finding healthy, dependable relationships instead of clinging to hyper-independence. She shares how others benefited while she paid the cost of staying strong for everyone else but neglecting her own needs. She shares her healing roadmap from her new book Balancing Act. Nedra Glover Tawwab is a licensed therapist and the author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, an instant New York Times best-seller translated into over 35 languages worldwide. In addition, she has authored six other books, including Drama Free and, most recently, a children's book titled What Makes You Happy. A sought-after relationship expert, she has practiced relationship therapy for more than fifteen years. With more than 2.5 million followers across her social media platforms, Tawwab has appeared as an expert on Red Table Talk, The Breakfast Club, Good Morning America, and CBS Morning Show, to name a few. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, The Guardian, and Vice, and has appeared on numerous podcasts, including The School of Greatness, We Can Do Hard Things, and Ten Percent Happier. She lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, with her family.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share.

Welcome back to part 2 of this PROFOUND conversation with my girl, Sarah Jakes Roberts. And homies, she was just getting started in part 1 of this episode. In part 2, we dive into some deep topics around power and how you can use power to help you become a better, more authentic version of yourself.  We're discussing:  - WHY women avoid power  - What you can do to stay away from the “dark” side of power - The importance of having CORE VALUES to keep you aligned and accountable - How to overcome competition so it doesn't strip you of your power - The small ways you are slowly giving your power away without you even realizing it & how to catch yourself so you can keep your power  - And muchhhhh more! Don't miss out on the final part of this amazing conversation with Sarah Jakes Roberts. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Welcome back to part 2 of this PROFOUND conversation with my girl, Sarah Jakes Roberts. And homies, she was just getting started in part 1 of this episode. In part 2, we dive into some deep topics around power and how you can use power to help you become a better, more authentic version of yourself.  We're discussing:  - WHY women avoid power  - What you can do to stay away from the “dark” side of power - The importance of having CORE VALUES to keep you aligned and accountable - How to overcome competition so it doesn't strip you of your power - The small ways you are slowly giving your power away without you even realizing it & how to catch yourself so you can keep your power  - And muchhhhh more! Don't miss out on the final part of this amazing conversation with Sarah Jakes Roberts. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable for many moms, especially when people-pleasing patterns are deeply ingrained. In this conversation, Melissa Urban, co-founder of Whole30 and author of The Book of Boundaries, breaks down why boundaries are essential for emotional health, strong relationships, and family wellbeing. We talk about unearned guilt, over-explaining, people pleasing, and how past experiences shape our ability to speak up. Melissa shares practical scripts, real life examples, and simple frameworks to help moms communicate clearly with partners, in laws, coworkers, and even their children. This episode will help you feel more confident expressing your needs, protecting your energy, and creating boundaries that allow everyone to thrive. Topics Covered In This Episode: Boundary setting without guilt Overcoming people-pleasing patterns Clear communication scripts for moms Boundaries with family and partners Building self-trust and confidence Show Notes: Check out Melissas website: melissau.com  Follow Melissa on ​Instagram: @melissau Watch Melissa's TikToks: tiktok.com/@melissa_u Follow Melissa on Twitter: twitter.com/melissa_urban Check out Melissa on Facebook: facebook.com/melissauauthor Click here to learn more about Dr. Elana Roumell's Doctor Mom Membership, a membership designed for moms who want to be their child's number one health advocate! Click here to learn more about Steph Greunke, RD's online nutrition program and community, Postpartum Reset, an intimate private community and online roadmap for any mama (or mama-to-be) who feels stuck, alone, and depleted and wants to learn how to thrive in motherhood. Listen to today's episode on our website Melissa Urban is the co-founder and CEO of Whole30 and an authority on helping people create lifelong healthy habits. She is a seven-time New York Times bestselling author, including the instant best-seller, The Book of Boundaries, debuting at #3. She has been featured by The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, People, Forbes, Good Morning America, and CNBC; is the host of the Do the Thing podcast; and is a prominent keynote speaker on boundaries, building community, health trends, and entrepreneurship. She lives in Salt Lake City, UT. INTRODUCE YOURSELF to Steph and Dr. Elana on Instagram. They can't wait to meet you! @stephgreunke @drelanaroumell

It's Lisa Bilyeu with an AMAZINGGG episode of Women of Impact for you today that's alllllll about becoming a frikin' POWERFUL force that nobody can push around, walk all over, or manipulate! And today's guest here to help us learn how to make that possible is the one and only Sarah Jakes Roberts. She's a New York Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, speaker, mother of 6, wife, and a BADASS on a MISSION to help women evolve into the best version of themselves! Get ready, because in this episode we are talking about something a lot of women might shy away from or see as “bad” – and it's POWER. And Sarah is going to turn the way you think of power on its head and show you how to use it to become a more authentic version of yourself. We go DEEP and get into: - The false beliefs of power that come from outward success, achievement, or performance - The TRUE meaning of power - How power is different from what we traditionally might think of as “power”  - What you can do to actually ignite your power in just 60 seconds - How fear, insecurity and shame have WAYYYY more power over you that you think  - Why you need to embrace your humanity instead of hide it - How power flows and shows up in different areas of your life at different times And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the tips and tactics we get into in this episode are SOOO frikin' profound and can actually help you ignite your confidence, give you a voice, and OWN you damn power so you can live your life on YOUR terms!  Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's Lisa Bilyeu with an AMAZINGGG episode of Women of Impact for you today that's alllllll about becoming a frikin' POWERFUL force that nobody can push around, walk all over, or manipulate! And today's guest here to help us learn how to make that possible is the one and only Sarah Jakes Roberts. She's a New York Times Bestselling author, entrepreneur, speaker, mother of 6, wife, and a BADASS on a MISSION to help women evolve into the best version of themselves! Get ready, because in this episode we are talking about something a lot of women might shy away from or see as “bad” – and it's POWER. And Sarah is going to turn the way you think of power on its head and show you how to use it to become a more authentic version of yourself. We go DEEP and get into: - The false beliefs of power that come from outward success, achievement, or performance - The TRUE meaning of power - How power is different from what we traditionally might think of as “power”  - What you can do to actually ignite your power in just 60 seconds - How fear, insecurity and shame have WAYYYY more power over you that you think  - Why you need to embrace your humanity instead of hide it - How power flows and shows up in different areas of your life at different times And that's just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the tips and tactics we get into in this episode are SOOO frikin' profound and can actually help you ignite your confidence, give you a voice, and OWN you damn power so you can live your life on YOUR terms!  Follow Sarah Jakes Roberts: Website: https://sarahjakesroberts.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SarahJakesRoberts Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Podcast: https://www.womanevolve.com/podcast Order “Power Moves”: https://thepowermovesbook.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Struggling with social skills practice that actually feels natural? This week on the podcast, we're diving deep into practical, respectful ways to support our neurodivergent kiddos as they navigate friendships and social situations—without the cringe! From conversation entry points (aka scripts that don't turn our kids into social robots!) to playful, low-stakes role-playing at home, Colleen shares hands-on strategies to boost confidence and make socializing just a little easier for everyone involved. If "Just be yourself!" doesn't cut it in your house, you're not alone. Listen to this episode and help your kids build real-world connections, one conversation at a time. Key Takeaways: Scripts as Scaffolding, Not Life Sentences: Social scripts aren't rigid lines for kids to memorize forever. Instead, they serve as supportive "training wheels" to help neurodivergent kids enter, maintain, and exit conversations more naturally—reducing anxiety and offering footholds toward authentic communication. Practice Through Playful, Low-Stakes Moments: Avoid pressuring your child with public corrections or high-stakes rehearsal before social events. Instead, incorporate side-by-side role play, movie-pause coaching, and micro-practicing to gently build and reinforce social skills without making kids feel evaluated. Measure Progress by Initiative, Not Perfection: Success isn't about perfect eye contact or flawless conversation. Celebrate when your child initiates conversations, adapts their scripts into their own words, or asks to socialize again. These signs mean scripts are becoming real-world skills! Parenting and homeschooling neurodivergent kids is tough—but you're already doing amazing work just by showing up, learning, and supporting your child's unique journey. Links and Resources from Today's Episode Thank you to our sponsors: CTC Math – Flexible, affordable math for the whole family! Curiosity Post – A Snail Mail Club for kids – Real mail; Real life! The Learner's Lab – Online community for families homeschooling gifted/2e & neurodivergent kiddos! The Lab: An Online Community for Families Homeschooling Neurodivergent Kiddos The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Raising Resilient Sons: A Boy Mom's Guide to Building a Strong, Confident, and Emotionally Intelligent Family The Anxiety Toolkit Sensory Strategy Toolkit | Quick Regulation Activities for Home Affirmation Cards for Anxious Kids Nurturing Neurodivergent Friendships: Practical Tips for Parents and Kids RLL #42: What It's Like to be Homeschooled with Best Friends Molly and Ella Teaching Kids About Being a Good Friend with Help From Great Books and Netflix Teaching Kids to Befriend Others 5 Tips for Helping Gifted Children Make Friends Navigating Sensory Overload: Actionable Strategies for Kids in Loud Environments The Not-So Friendly Friend: How to Set Boundaries for Healthy Friendships Social Skills Activities for Kids Growing Friendships: A Kids' Guide to Making and Keeping Friends Have You Filled a Bucket Today?: A Guide to Daily Happiness for Kids One Big Heart: A Celebration of Being More Alike than Different Life Skills for Kids: Unlocking a World of Possibilities through Friendship, Decision-Making, Cooking, Achieving a Success Mindset, Time-Management, Budgeting, and More  Empathy Workbook for Kids: 50 Activities to Learn About Kindness, Compassion, and Other People's Feelings  

Tired of saying yes when you mean no and feeling resentful later? In this powerful compilation episode, you'll learn how to set healthy boundaries without guilt, conflict, or losing the people you care about.If you're exhausted from overgiving, overworking, people-pleasing, or overfunctioning, this conversation will feel deeply familiar. We explore why so many high-functioning adults struggle to communicate limits and how small, clear boundary shifts can radically change your relationships, work life, and inner peace.Today's episode features insights from therapist and bestselling author Nedra Glover Tawwab, author of Set Boundaries, Find Peace, and psychotherapist and relationship expert Terri Cole, author of Boundary Boss. Together, they unpack the psychology of boundaries, codependency, people-pleasing, and how to finally talk true and live free.In this episode, you'll discover:A one-sentence boundary formula that prevents arguments and shuts down guilt spiralsThe hidden secondary gain that keeps you stuck in overgiving and overfunctioningThe six dysfunctional boundary styles and how to identify your “boundary blueprint”A simple way to set time boundaries at work without risking your jobPractical scripts you can use when someone asks intrusive questions or ignores your limitsIf you're ready to stop feeling unseen, stretched thin, or quietly resentful, press play and learn how to create the boundaries that make a good life possible.Episode TranscriptYou can find Nedra at: Website | InstagramYou can find Terri at: Website | Instagram | Discover Your Secondary Gain | The Terri Cole ShowNext week, be sure to tune in for my conversation with Gretchen Rubin about what actually happens when kids leave home and how that season reshapes identity, relationships, and purpose.Check out our offerings & partners: Join My New Writing Project: Awake at the WheelVisit Our Sponsor Page For Great Resources & Discount Codes Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Research and surveys showcase that what we most value in our lives are relationships. Yet for all the teaching and training we get as we grow up, how to have healthy relationships is seldom a topic. And we often fall to the examples we are exposed to. In this episode we are looking at identifying unhealthy relationships, healing, and growing. This was the second time I brought Nedra Glover Tawwab. I first had her on with her book, Set Boundaries, Find Peace. This time is for her book, Drama Free: A Guide to Managing Unhealthy Family Relationships. We dig deep into the relational issues that we all tend to just settle for and expect we have to endure long-term. Nedra is a New York Times best-selling author, licensed therapist, and renowned relationship expert. She has practiced relationship therapy for nearly 20 years. Nedra's expertise is in helping people create healthy relationships by teaching them how to implement boundaries. Her philosophy is that a lack of boundaries and assertiveness underlie most relationship issues, and her gift is helping people create healthy relationships with themselves and others. Nedra has grown to be one of the most well-known, modern day therapists, you can find her on Instagram @nedratawwab with over 1.8 million followers. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The fallout of a boundary is usually a war. Here is how to survive it.You watched yesterday's video on the 3 Ways to Set Boundaries with a Narcissist, but now you're living through the reaction. Why do they get more aggressive when you say "no"? Why does a simple boundary lead to a smear campaign or a week of silence?As a self-aware narcissist, I'm breaking down the "punishment phase" from the inside out. In today's LIVE, we are discussing:The Smear Campaign: Why they tell everyone you're the "abuser" the moment you set a limit.Guilt Tripping: How they use your empathy to make you feel bad for having needs.The Escalation: Why things get worse before they get better (The Extinction Burst).Live Q&A: I'll be translating your specific situations in real-time.Don't let their reaction bait you back into the cycle. Let's talk about how to hold the line.Connect with Lee:My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠All My Link: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.page/mentalhealness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.

If you're a parent, you may have heard a million different theories on how to best raise children. But here's the thing: none of those people have ever been in your shoes and they've never raised your kids. In today's episode, Rachel talks about parenting from intuition and from your own lived experience.  Do we really need advice from experts, ChatGPT, or a hundred parenting books telling us what to do, or is this something we just innately know? Is it okay to lecture other people's kids? Can we be friends with our kids or do we always have to be that authoritarian figure? Maybe parents don't need more boxes to check on the parenting checklist. Maybe they just need more support so they can do what they already know how to do. Tune in for an episode that will guide you on your own journey in parenthood and remind you to always lead with love and compassion. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When the world feels overwhelming and out of control, where do we actually regain our power? This week on The Lo Life, Lo sits down with renowned psychologist, bestselling author, and TED speaker Dr. Guy Winch, one of the leading voices in emotional health, for a deeply timely conversation about boundaries, stress, and emotional resilience in chaotic times.Known for his bestselling books Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart, and TED Talks viewed by millions worldwide, Dr. Winch brings practical, real-life psychology to the everyday struggles we all face. Together, Lo and Dr. Winch unpack how to set boundaries with defensive partners, navigate tit-for-tat conflict patterns, and master the art of a healthy apology — especially when the other person struggles with accountability. The episode also explores the hidden signs of chronic stress, emotional overload, and how to focus on what's actually within your control when life, relationships, and the outside world feel overwhelming.Insightful, relatable, and highly actionable, this episode gives listeners the tools to protect their mental and emotional well-being, communicate more effectively in relationships, and stay grounded even when everything around them feels uncertain. A must-listen for anyone feeling emotionally stretched, relationship-fatigued, or craving healthier dynamics in both their personal and professional life.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.