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The talking stage can feel like an actual breakup when it ends suddenly, even if you never made it official. So I am teaching you how to let go of a connection that never became a relationship, and why it's okay to grieve the what ifs! And we're also tackling the feelings that come up when his feed is full of other girls.

We always hear about red flags, but what about the green ones? Today, I'm sharing the 10 green flags that I appreciate and believe contribute to making my relationship strong, happy, and peaceful.

He proposed, but what happens when you hate the ring? Plus, the moment one listener finally found the courage to walk away for good, and I am SO proud!!

What happens when you reach the pinnacle of success, only to decide it's time to start fresh? Today, I'm joined by three time Olympian and Olympic gold medalist Brianna Throssell. At 29, she stepped away from professional swimming and into a brand-new career, proving that growth doesn't stop at the finish line. We chat about her transition from athlete to corporate life, her love of routine and structure, how she balances ambition with finding joy, and the lessons she's carried from the pool into everyday life. Whether you're craving change, chasing balance, or looking for a little inspiration, this episode will light a fire in you.Stay up to date with Brianna on IG, TikTok & YouTube!

Is Mercury in retrograde? Because my ex's ex just showed up out of nowhere! Plus, when your FIFO boyfriend makes you question if you're asking for too much (spoiler, you're not), and the mother in law dessert disaster you'll never forget.

Last time, I shared the mistakes and regrets. Today, I'm talking about the choices, lessons, and experiences I'd do over again and again. From investing in myself and travelling to friendships, heartbreak, and saying yes before I felt ready. I hope this episode is your reminder to take risks, embrace the chaos, and create the moments that future you will thank you for.

What hurts more? Catching your man on Tinder or losing your best friend of 7 years? On today's episode, I'm tackling both. Please grab a cup of tea or a hot choccy, it's a longgg one.

Today I'm joined by Claire Bridgett, the beauty creator and educator known for her product reviews, new beauty finds, and user-friendly makeup tips. From the things to keep in mind with beauty, to the products worth your money, Claire shares her journey, her favourite picks, and the lessons she's learned along the way.If you've ever felt lost in the beauty aisle or overwhelmed by trends, this episode is your guide to keeping everything beauty simple, fun, and effective.Stay up to date with Claire on IG, TikTok & YouTube.

Can you be happy for your friends and still wish it were you? And what to do when baby fever hits before your life's ready for it? I loved unpacking jealousy without guilt, the clash between biology and reality, and finding peace with your own timeline, rather than the one imposed by society!

Imagine being in your early 20s, planning your future and suddenly, you're diagnosed with a chronic illness that will change the rest of your life. That's exactly what happened to my beautiful friend, Maddison Cottle. In this episode, she opens up about living with Multiple Sclerosis, the reality of those first months after diagnosis, and how it's shaped the woman she is today. We also talk about love, planning her wedding, and the mindset shifts that have helped her find strength and joy along the way. Her story will leave you inspired, informed, and maybe even rethinking how you see your own life.Stay up to date with Maddison on IG & TikTok. If you'd like to learn more about Multiple Sclerosis or find support, visit MS Australia.

What do you do when you love your job, but your boss won't stop flirting? And when you're splitting things 50/50, even though your partner earns way more? Today we're unpacking workplace boundaries, money convos in relationships, and why 50/50 isn't always so simple. HR girlies, brace yourselves!!

Ever felt weird sharing your wins? Or judged someone else for theirs? You're not alone. This week, we're unpacking Tall Poppy Syndrome, looking at where it comes from, how it shows up (even in us), and how to break the cycle. Because there's room for all of us to win!

Are your friends acting weird now that you're in a relationship? Still falling for guys who say the right things but only want one thing? This week, we're exploring why this happens, how to identify the patterns, and what you can do to protect your peace in both friendships and romantic relationships.

Ever felt like you don't belong, like you're not good enough, or that you just got lucky? You're not alone; imposter syndrome is something many of us deal with, especially when stepping into new or bigger spaces. In this episode, we're breaking down what imposter syndrome is, why it shows up, and how to stop letting it hold you back. You'll walk away with practical tools to quiet that inner critic, own your achievements, and stop dimming your light.

You've landed the full-time job, so why do you already feel so lost? In today's episode, we're talking about the 9 to 5 dread, adjusting to a life that feels like an endless cycle, and what to do when work starts messing with your sense of purpose. Plus, calling off your wedding and trading a manchild for a fur baby!

Are you asking for too much or just finally asking for what you truly deserve?This week, I'm sharing my thoughts on the Bare Minimum vs Princess Treatment conversation. From shoelace tying husbands to Birkins and free petrol, the internet has been a little wild with what actually counts as care IMO. So let's talk about why some of us settle, how attachment styles and people-pleasing play a role, and how to raise your standards without the guilt.It's not about being high maintenance, it's about being self-aware. And you're allowed to want more!

One juicy confession and one heartfelt question. This week, we're unpacking emotional cheating, fake Instagrams, and blurred boundaries. Plus, what to do when a lifelong friend doesn't show up in a moment that mattered.

Success, but make it soft. In this episode, we're diving into my take on the real habits of successful people, the ones that help you feel grounded, confident, and at peace. No 5 am cold plunges, no burnout. Just sustainable habits that work. We're talking self-trust, boundaries, being a little bit delulu, and redefining what success looks like. Peace > perfection, always.P.S. My rec won't let you down, they are amazing: Maddie, Debbie & Emily!

Today I'm talking love, anxiety, and the what-ifs we don't say out loud. From spiralling over social media when you're in a healthy relationship (anxious girlies, this one's for you). And then we chat about what to do when you're still thinking about an ex while you're married; it's a little bit messy!

Is the party girl lifestyle all it's cracked up to be? Julia Rangiheuea gets real about sobriety, social media, and what happens when you walk away from the chaos. From wild nights and benders to quiet, uncomfortable moments of self-discovery, Julia shares how she rebuilt her identity, self-worth, and life without drugs or alcohol. Whether you're sober, sober-curious, or feeling stuck in a lifestyle that doesn't feel like you anymore, this is a raw, powerful conversation you don't want to miss.Support and keep up to date with Julia on IG, TikTok & her podcast Soberly Speaking/ Soberly Speaking IG.

One listener hasn't seen or heard from her dad in 10 years… until now, when he offers her $ 25,000 to reconnect. WTHELLY! Another is doing everything right in the dating world, but can't get past the first date, and she's ready to give up on love. If you have been ghosted, can't get to date two, and aren't having luck in the dating pool, this one's for you.

Feeling behind or stuck in a slump? You're not alone and Bec Stewart, is here to help. We chat about her Mid Year Wobbles, how to rebuild when you've lost momentum, the habits that actually stick, and the power of self-discipline.We also talk joy, self-doubt, and what stepping into your power really looks like. Your mid-year reset starts here, big sister energy included. Send this to someone who needs a little pick-me-up today.Support and keep up to date with Bec on IG, TikTok, YouTube, her podcast In Her Power & more.Bec's book recommendations are also linked here: 10x Is Easier than 2x & The Conditions of Will!

This episode includes discussions around addiction and substance use. Big hugs all around in today's show as we're getting into the messy, real side of love and relationships. One listener is dealing with the heartbreak of separation and wants to save her marriage after kicking her husband out during a fight. Then another is torn, she's in a safe, loving relationship, but can't shake the feeling that her boyfriend's weed habit might be a dealbreaker.If you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, remember you're not alone. Help is always available.

She's loud, speaks her truth, and is the epitome of main character energy. In today's episode, I'm joined by the one and only Jamie Marinos, I loved Jamie on MAFS and wanted to get her on for a raw, unfiltered chat about red flags, real love, female friendship, and what it means to be “too much” in a world that tries to tone us down. Plus, we get the tea from her dinosaur Rara, what her must-haves are in her handbag on a night out, plus so much more. You're going to LOVE this one!Keep up to date with Jamie on TikTok and IG!

Your boyfriend's going to a bucks night and there are strippers. Can you trust him? Plus, what to do when you're always the one putting in effort with a friend who doesn't seem to care anymore. We're unpacking the ick, the hurt, and the hard truths.

From solariums to situationships, Afterpay to overdoing it with partying, these are the things I wouldn't do again in my 20s, not from shame, but from growth. In this episode, I walk through 10 personal regrets (some light, some deep), and what I've learned the hard way, so maybe you don't have to!

She says we're best friends... but I don't feel the same. In today's ep, we unpack friendship guilt, one-sided vibes, and how to ask for more in your relationship, without the drama!

Beth Kelly joins me for a beautiful conversation about love, self-worth, and being true to yourself. You might recognise her from this season of MAFS, and because I loved her on the show, I had to get her on air! I wanted us all to get to know Beth and today, we go deeper.We chat about navigating your 20s, how her idea of love has evolved, the biggest lessons she's learned in dating and friendship, and what it means to show up authentically. This episode is real, refreshing, and full of big sister energy and laughs.If you've ever felt behind in love, struggled with confidence, or needed a reminder to back yourself, this one's for you.Beth's recommendation is linked here!

In today's episode, we're unpacking the struggles of being the solo friend in a world full of couples and what to do when you're always the third wheel. Plus, I'm giving some big sister love to a listener who's still hung up on an ex who's moved on.

Chloe Pink's wedding should have been one of the happiest moments of her life, instead a wave of cruel online hate followed it. In this raw and honest chat, Chloe opens up about the body shaming she faced, how it impacted her mental health, and what gave her the courage to speak out. We also get to know the woman behind the headlines, her love story, what keeps her grounded, and the important message she wants everyone to hear about changing the conversation around online trolling.Keep up with Chloe on IG & TikTok! And see her recommendation Sleep Ins here!

Today I'm diving into two very different listener submissions. One is about hooking up with a personal trainer who turned out to be MARRIED and another is about navigating the heartbreak of a mutual breakup that still really hurts. Especially when you've got to show up to a wedding solo and face all the awkward family questions. I'm sharing my best big sister advice, plus some practical tips, journal prompts, and affirmations to help you through it!

Today's episode is a closer to home. I'm opening up about Motor Neurone Disease (MND), a devastating illness that changed my family forever. In 2017, my uncle Mark lost his battle with MND, and back then, I had no idea what the disease even was.This chat is about sharing his story, raising awareness, and shining a light on the incredible work of organisations like FightMND. I'll break down what MND actually is, how it impacts not just the body but entire families, and how you can help, even in small ways.FightMND: Learn more, donate, or grab a Big Freeze 11 beanie!MND Australia: Info, support services, and research updates.

This episode has my whole heart. Today, I'm joined by Georgia & Josh, Valerie the dachshund's parents to share the unbelievable story of how their dachshund went missing for 529 days and then was rescued. It's emotional, it's hopeful, and it honestly gave me goosebumps!!Then we dive into something I know a lot of you will relate to, that feeling of losing your spark and wondering how to find joy again when life feels like it's on repeat. Hope you love this one as much as I loved recording it!

We went to South Korea and now it's time for the debrief! From the culture, shopping and food to our favourite activities and couple travel advice I'm answering all your questions. My boyfriend also joins me on air too to share his take on the trip. The activities mentioned, Lotte World, N Seoul Tower, Baseball, Nami Island & the Rail Park. Plus, the dinner spot we both LOVED: Shin Mi Kyung, Seoul - in Hongdae.

When a harmless crush hits a little too close to home… like, say, your dad's coworker. We're talking about catching feelings in unexpected places! Plus, the stress of friendship shifts when you're going through big life changes. If you've been feeling distant from your inner circle, overwhelmed by new chapters, or outgrowing people you never thought you would, this one's for you.

If dating feels like a loop of red flags, bad vibes, or situationships that leave you questioning your worth, this one's for you.We're overdue for a chat about the mindset shifts that made dating less exhausting and actually fun. From letting go of the spark obsession to swiping with purpose, this is your no pressure, no BS dating pep talk. P.S. Happy Mother's Day to all the beautiful YSS mums out there!!!

Ever caught yourself thinking your new partner doesn't stack up to your ex? You're not alone and it's more common than you think. In today's episode, we're unpacking why we compare, what it says about where you're at emotionally, and how to stop your past from sabotaging something that could be really good. Plus, we answer a dilemma for a listener from a bride-to-be whose fiance is clashing with her social life.

Struggling to stay motivated with your fitness heading into winter? You're not alone. In this episode, I'm joined by PT and creator Soph Allen, from Train With Soph to chat about consistency, discipline, and showing up for yourself when it's cold or dark and your energy is low. We're diving into realistic winter goals, mindset shifts, and how to keep going, even when the results aren't instant. This is your winter gym girl pep talk!Follow Soph on IG, TikTok, or join the TWS community and use the code YSS20 to save!

I am trying to get Valerie's mum on air, but until then let's chat together! Today I am unpacking how soon is too soon when it comes to moving on from a long-term relationship... and the heartbreaking question of whether to stay or leave when things don't feel right anymore. If you're thinking about it and writing it in, does that tell you your answer?

Today we're diving into inner child work! I'm covering what it is, how our inner child shows up in our lives, and why connecting with the younger version of you can be so healing. I'm chatting about where the idea of the inner child came from, signs your inner child might need some love and simple ways you can start showing up for them now!If you've ever struggled with overthinking, people-pleasing, low self-worth, or feeling a little stuck, this episode might help you see yourself differently.

It's a short week but a jam-packed episode! Valerie the dachshund is the highlight of my week and a certified icon. We're discussing what you must pack at a sleepover and diving into that painful little sting when your ex moves on, even if it's been years. Why does it still hurt? Why do we spiral from one post? Let's unpack it, together!!

Thinking about moving in with your partner? Whether you're already sharing a space or still in the sleepover phase, this episode is your guide to navigating the leap. I'm sharing what to talk about before the move, what to expect during the adjustment period, and a few things no one warns you about!

Imagine rocking up to the airport to welcome your partner home… only to find out they extended their trip without telling you. Yep, it's giving run for the hills.In today's ep, we're unpacking that, plus what to do when you're 30, still living at home, and your intimacy is suffering because of it.

Feeling that pre-winter energy dip already? Same, but we're not letting the gloom steal our glow this year. This one has the cosy hacks, mood-boosting tips, and the ultimate glow-up plan to beat the seasonal slump before it starts.Pixbee Alarm Clock

Does it matter how you go about finding the truth in a relationship? We're talking about the lengths we go to when we suspect something's off, and whether this kind of catfishing is ok? Plus, we're addressing something many of us can relate to: what do you do when you realise you're codependent in your relationship? How do you break free and start loving your own company again?

AJ Paps is answering your questions, from how to initiate sex without it feeling awkward, common bedroom mistakes, how actually to enjoy going down on someone, and what might be causing unexpected pain during sex (yep, we're going there). And for the girlies navigating growth and routines, we've got you too. AJ and I share our best mindset hacks for staying on track and building confidence from scratch.Follow AJ on IG & TikTok. Shop his store Missionary to Madame.

Today, we're diving into one of the biggest relationship debates: Does taking a break help, or is it simply delaying the inevitable? One listener wonders if stepping away from her long-term relationship will make it stronger or if she's risking losing the best thing she's ever had.Plus, we unpack another confession about ethical non-monogamy, older men, and what the reality of this situation truly is.

Your 20s can feel like a whirlwind, so many choices, so much pressure, and a lot of uncertainty. In this episode, I'm joined by Jemma Sbeg, host of The Psychology of Your 20s podcast and author of Person in Progress, to unpack the biggest myths about this decade, how to stop feeling behind, and why mistakes are a good thing. We're talking friendships, love, career, and everything in between - if you've ever felt lost in your 20s, this one's for you!Follow Jemma on IG & TikTok.

Ever sent a text message to the wrong person? Now, imagine it was a flirty one, and it went to your boss. Plus, we're diving into the big life decision of choosing where to set down your roots and planning our future for you. How do you know which decision is right for you?

Dating can feel overwhelming, but what if you approached it with more intention? I'm joined by Moe Ari Brown, a licensed therapist and Love & Connection Expert at Hinge, to chat about loneliness, modern dating struggles, and how to build real connections. Plus, we break down Moe's game-changing ‘Dating Forward' checklist to help you date with purpose. Follow Moe on IG & TikTok.

Today, we're asking: Do two wrongs ever make a right? Plus, what to do when you don't get an invite to a friend's engagement. Take the hint? Or bring it up?