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Yes, we're married. No, we don't HAVE to agree on everything, and guess what? THATS FAIR! It's fair to have different views on parenting, family, politics, church, sex, pop culture... pretty much everything, but that's what keeps us learning. We learn mor

Courtney & Dereka Newsome


    • Dec 2, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
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    • 24 EPISODES


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    Can You Go Back To Normal After Infidelity?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2021 36:08


    Do you think it's possible to return to normal after cheating happens in a relationship? Actually, do you want to return to normal?  Wait, what is normal? Tap in as we discuss what our normal was after our own experience of infidelity. Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast. https://www.New2someEmpire.com____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    We're Back!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2021 20:42


    We are 7 years old, in marriage of course & our podcast is a year old!! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    Affairs And Sexin And Brain... OH MY!!

    Play Episode Play 50 sec Highlight Listen Later Aug 5, 2021 32:15


    They say the best revenge is success... we're talking about having affairs, moving forward, and then seeing the person your spouse had an affair with. Do you cringe? Do you attack? Do you laugh and chat it up? What?! Oh, then of course, we somehow find ourselves talking about sex... oops, can I say that? Not in the church they say, what who are they?  ... Just tune in, this one is a good one!____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#Affairs#Sex#Forgiveness#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    I Thought Someone Single & Miserable Said Something

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2021 18:50


    Stop letting everyone have something to say about your marriage...your business.. your family... it's yours, and everyone doesn't deserve to have 2 cents! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Champions Must Dye Clothingwww.ChampionsMustDye.com____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies


    Yep! We are talking about the d-word, amongst other words... one of them being masturbation. This is something that affects many marriages but not many people are willing to talk about it while they're in it, but how else do you defeat the devil? Exposure leads to freedom! Tune in as we get deep and emotional, all for the purpose of deliverance and to help another couple out there experiencing the same thing! Follow Court & Dereka's YouTube Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to the Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    Your Triggers, Your Problem. Cucumber Or Eggplant?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2021 71:25


    Y'all!! This episode took a lot of work because Court and Dereka were talking for 2 hours!! This one hit home and was real to them. It was almost like taking a page out of the memory book. Familiar behaviors were coming to the surface- who should be the one to deal with them.. the acting party or the one bothered by them? Man this one was deep. Oh, do you know your partner's love language? IT AINT "BIBLE"!____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    The Cheating Episode

    Play Episode Play 50 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 25, 2021 68:48


    Yep, we went there! We talked about Derrick Jaxn and his wife, there is more than what us speculators know, but of course everyone has an opinion, and that includes us too! Tune in as we chat about cheating and reconciliation. We also had a quick little chat about culture appropriation, y'all may not like what we have to say but tune in nonetheless lol____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#DerrickJaxn#Infidelity#CultureAppropriation#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    How Did We Get On Kirk?

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 42:55


    Lets have some fun! We love The Terrell Show & we thought it would be fun to play a bit of  song association. DEREKA WON!! Lol ... Just kidding. Tune in and laugh with us. Oh, but wait! How did we end up talking about Kirk Franklin? Whew chileeee! Do not miss out! ____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage  And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage"  available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast. Find Rio Holman on Facebook for "The Town" - Buffalo Hoodie! Find God is Dope on Facebook & Instagram for all God is Dope apparelFollow The Terrell Show @terrellgrice on everything!  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some #FunWhileMarried#SongAssociation#KirkFranklin#Singing #MarriedAndSaved #BlackLivesMatter #Family #Romance #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLife

    You Do Me, I Do You

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2021 80:38


    We're back! It seems like it's been so long since we have been together! We had a little guest this week too, come say hi to Courty... he's always on the show lol... Families on the move understand being exhausted, lets chat about how to handle that and be empathetic to one another as husband and wife. Also, let's dive deeper into this music debate!! Listen up and comment below your thoughts! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#Music#Debate#Married#Exhausted#BookedAndBusy#LateNight#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    BLACK MARRIAGES DO LAST!

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2021 70:26


    BLACK MARRIAGES DO LAST!! That's It! Court & Dereka get the wonderful privilege to sit with Court's grandparents, Gammie & Pop, Valerie & Robert Taylor... They have been married for 61 YEARS and together for 66!! How beautiful! Listen in with us, as we listen to the wisdom! ____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage  And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage"  available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some  #BlackMarriagesLast #GOALS #SixtyYears#MarriedAndSaved #BlackLivesMatter #Family #Sex #Romance #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLife

    Remarriage, Rebuilding & Blended Families with special guests Mercedes & Duane Thomas Jr.

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2021 65:05


    Tune In As We Chat With The Thomas' About Love, Life, Ministry, Being A Blended Family & Defeating The Stigma Of Remarriage. We Know Church Folk Can Be Chatty, Or Some May Say Messy, But Watching Someone's Love Life & Talking About It Is A Biggie... Well Pastor Duane & First Lady Mercedes Thomas Beat The Odds & Joined Together Their Families & Are Here To Chat About Overcoming The Chatter!! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#Remarriage#BlackMarriage#Divorce#BlendedFamily#Love#Gossip#Victorious#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    Talking Business & Balance with Special Guest Courtney & Allen Knight IV

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2021 47:42


    We're back!!! We have another inspirational love for you all to tune in & listen! All month long we are bringing in couples to inspire! The week we are talking with Courtney and Allen Knight IV, they are married, parents, entrepreneurs, they work, they're active in church, and they are in love, but how do you do it all & still stay afloat? Listen in as the Knights drop some AWESOME nuggets on finances, balancing, even gender roles in their home! This isn't one you want to miss! Go check out Courtney & Allen's website www.knight.enterprises & give them some business!! ____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage  And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage"  available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some #MarriedAndSaved#Finances#PowerCouple#Balance#Entrepreneurs #BlackBusinesses#BlackOwned#Freedom#Knowledge#Power#Money #BlackLivesMatter #Family #Sex #Romance #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLife

    Let's Talk Healing With Special Guest Pastor & First Lady Tucker

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2021 72:32


    Listen guys!!! February is the month of love & this week we brought one of the absolute GREATEST examples of love & marriage- Pastor Robert J. Tucker & First Lady, Prophetess Alicia Tucker, our leaders at The Light Church in Buffalo NY, and our amazing spiritual parents! They are amazing & we heard their love story of 25 years of marriage & we continued our conversation on healing! This episode was full of fun, laughs, help, inspiration, and most of all LOVE!! Please tune in & get you some of this good teaching!Like "The Light Church" On FacebookFollow @TheLightChurchBFLO On Instagram____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage  And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage"  available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some #MarriedAndSaved#MarriageAndMinistry#NoDivorce#Teaching#Love#Marriage #BlackLivesMatter #Family #Sex #Romance #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLife

    Are You REALLY Healed?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 53:13


    Listen, being healed is a process and Dereka and Court kinda discuss real or fake healing, inward or outward healing, what is it? We talked about how Kamala just can't win... just be happy for her her y'all! Geez! We also share our eventful next few weeks! We have some amazing couples joining us: Pastor Robert Tucker & First Lady Alicia Tucker, Courtney & Allen Knight, Pastor Duane Thomas Jr. & First Lady Mercedes Thomas, Gammie & Pop Taylor =)  & In March, The Studleys From @AnatomyOfMarriageWe are going to dive deep in inspiration and laughter and love! Do not miss it! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedLife#Healing#Infidelity#KamalaHarris#Process#Love#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    Lust Is Blind!

    Play Episode Play 55 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 21, 2021 53:13


    Is lust blind? Or is that love? Court and Dereka see differently, but that's nothing new! Oh and fellas do you go IN the room with your girlfriend or wife when she has .... an OB/GYN appointment? That's a bit much right? Court doesn't think so! Tune in this week and LAUGH with us and even get a little look at Dereka's birthday love! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Court's Custom Black Lives Matter Bracelet- FB: Alexis Anderson ____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#Lust#Love#Credit#Marriage#Podcast#RuthAndBoaz#LoveIsBlind#Birthday#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    All is Fair in Love & Marriage : After Dark!

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 80:40


    HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! It is lit lit & we are back!! Things have changed- including Dereka's hair lol... it's late and we are talking REAL & we are letting out the silly side of us! Tune in as we dive into who's role is more important, the US Capitol, and Wakanda forever! Do not miss this one! Also, tune into Ruth & Boaz on Friday Jan 15th at 8pm as we dive into Marriage!!! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#Foundation#MarriedWithChildren#AfterDark#Balance#NewYear #2021#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    Are We Too Different?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 24, 2020 59:07


    Maybe there's some unspoken words we need to chat about because again- the tension rises! You better not whoop my child, period! It got tense guys, listen in!! Dereka has another "on the spot" ... are we from two different worlds? How does that work? Maybe that was a question to ask before marriage! Oh, and we chat about the lack of super powers from 12/21/20 ... no fair! Lol ... Listen, tune in to our last episode of 2020!! Thank you for your love & support this year! We have big plans for 2021; so "stick with us, we're going places!" MERRY CHRISTMAS & HAPPY NEW YEAR!! ____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage  And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some  #MarriedAndSaved#NewYear#ItTakesAVillage#WinterSolstice#SuperPowers#Discipline#OppositesAttract #BlackLivesMatter #Family #Sex #Romance #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLifeblack love, black marriage, black families, religion, sex, love, family, conversation, married life, young and married, romance, intimacy

    Burfday Special!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2020 44:32


    Issa celebration!!!! McKaila is 14 today! So we let her skip virtual school to give her brain & eyes a break! .. Judge food shows not my parenting.. this 100% virtual life is tough! Tune in as we chat blended families from a teen's point of view, mom and daughter relationship, life with limited socialization, and of course birthday tings! Oh, and listen in as McKaila gets two special birthday shout outs!!____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!McKaila has one too : gamingwithKaySearch : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us!Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#Teen#Poiised#DSquad#Cameo#MotherDaughter#BlendedFamily#BlackMoms#Birthday#MarriedLife#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies

    I'ma Whoop Yo Butt!

    Play Episode Play 55 sec Highlight Listen Later Dec 10, 2020 70:25


    Happy 1 Month AFLM!! This Episode got heated a bit.. what happens when two parents have different parenting styles? Well, listen to find out how we handle it- added aspect, blended family! Oh, we had a little guest this week, not planned, but he wanted his little moment to shine too lol... our son Courtney Jr. joined us.. over and over again. Listen in!____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some  #MarriedAndSaved #Family #Parenting #BlendedFamily #Children #Discipline #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLife

    You Do You, Let Me Do Me

    Play Episode Play 45 sec Highlight Listen Later Dec 3, 2020 68:58


    Christmastime is here! Whose traditions should we embrace during the holiday season? Our "origin" family or our "created" family? Traditions aren't the only things pushed on to people, society pushes it's beliefs on to everyone. Court & Dereka chat religion, sex, gender, race and family- oh let's not forget farting and pooping! Yep, that too! Lol .... you have to listen to understand! Our new intro song is dope right? ALL COURT! Courtney Newsome Sr./CNewsome Music____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to the Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLivesMatter#Family#Romance#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies#MarriedLife#Society

    Stay In Your Lane!

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 26, 2020 72:02


    Remembering the life & Legacy of Dereka's Late Grandmother. Maxine Black... chat about Thanksgiving traditions... and if Dereka cooks better than Court's mom .. then somehow find themselves debating being Black and social injustice in America... tune in!____________________________________________________  Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!  Search : All is Fair in Love & Marriage  And download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage"  available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.  ____________________________________________________  Follow us!   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some  #MarriedAndSaved #BlackLivesMatter #Family #Sex #Romance #BlackLove  #BlackMarriages #BlackFamilies #MarriedLife

    Yo Ex Slid In Whose DMs?

    Play Episode Play 45 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 19, 2020 65:34


    Boos, exes, sliding in the DMs, friends, frenemies, and all of that! We're getting answers this episode & we want you to listen in! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLivesMatter#Family#Sex#Romance#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies#MarriedLife

    Fornicating WITH My Spouse

    Play Episode Play 30 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 12, 2020 52:30 Transcription Available


    What? How do you fornicate WITH your spouse? You have to tune in! We got a lil petty, a lot lit, a little sticky & it ended all in tears! Oh, let's not forget gigging vs. ministry! Yup, it got real! ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLivesMatter#Family#Sex#Romance#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies#MarriedLife

    All is Fair in Love & Marriage!

    Play Episode Play 60 sec Highlight Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 49:57


    Sometimes, society makes us feel that everything we like, enjoy, discuss, or support has to be in agreement with our spouse, but it doesn't have to be! Courtney & Dereka have different views on many things and that's fair! Sometimes we don't agree on political views, sometimes we don't agree on parenting choices, sometimes we don't agree on music choices- often actually, but it's fair to be ourselves & stay in love and marriage.  This is just the introduction to the madness! =) ____________________________________________________Follow Court & Dereka's YT Channel!Search : All is Fair in Love & MarriageAnd download, listen & subscribe to their Podcast "All is Fair in Love & Marriage" available on Apple Music, Spotify & Google Podcast.____________________________________________________Follow us! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AllisFairCDNInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/new2some#MarriedAndSaved#BlackLivesMatter#Family#Sex#Romance#BlackLove #BlackMarriages#BlackFamilies#MarriedLife

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