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Send us a textSubmission isn't weakness. It's power offered—not power lost.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood dynamics in kink: how to top as a submissive.This isn't about topping from the bottom. It's about guiding the scene with your breath, movement, and energy — without ever taking control away from your Dominant.We'll explore: 

Send us a textWhat if the key to fixing your sex life wasn't more talking… but smarter tech?Whether you're dealing with a dead bedroom, long-distance disconnect, or just feeling stuck in a sexual rut, today's episode is all about the new generation of smart sex toys designed to help couples reconnect in ways that actually work.I'm joined by Toon Timmermans, CEO and founder of Kiiroo, the company behind the groundbreaking Luxus — an interactive couples toy built to close the pleasure gap, boost intimacy, and make communication in the bedroom easier (and hotter).We're diving into: ✨ How smart sex toys are changing intimacy for real couples 

Send us a textWhat if locking it up could actually unlock better sex?Welcome to Locktober 2025, the orgasm control challenge that's helping men become more attentive, connected, and seriously better lovers. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Lilith Fox — a queer, BIPOC, neurodivergent, kinky, and polyamorous Board-Certified Sexologist and Certified Sexuality Educator who actually practices chastity play with her partner.Together, we're breaking down: 

Send us a textWhat if the hottest thing you could do for your partner… was not come?Welcome to Talk Sex with Annette, where we're diving into one of the most misunderstood—and surprisingly intimate—kinks out there: male chastity. Whether you've seen the cages popping up all over your feed this “Locktober,” or you're just curious what all the denial hype is about, this episode breaks down how to try chastity play without freaking out, fumbling it, or killing the mood.You'll learn: 

Send us a textWhat happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn't hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or finally become safer and more accessible?In this Kinktober special, I'm joined by Amanda Dames, kink educator, coach, and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast. Together we explore: ✨ How TikTok & social media helped normalize kink ✨ Why chastity & Locktober are exploding in popularity ✨ The rise of femdom, cuckolding, foot fetishes, and more ✨ Why some gatekeepers resist kink going mainstream ✨ How to safely dip your toes into kink this Kinktober—without shame

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Send us a textPremature ejaculation is the most common sexual struggle men face—yet almost no one is talking about it honestly.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Jeff Bennett, CEO of Morari, to unpack what really causes PE and explore the many solutions men can try. From lifestyle shifts and breathwork to cutting-edge sexual health tech, we dig into how you can last longer, reduce performance anxiety, and actually enjoy sex without the pressure.Because let's be real: PE isn't just about control—it's about confidence, connection, and pleasure for both partners.What You'll Learn in This Episode:Why premature ejaculation is so common (and nothing to be ashamed of)The science behind PE: mind, body, and nervous systemSimple strategies you can try tonight to last longerEmerging solutions that combine technology and pleasureHow lasting longer changes not just sex, but your relationshipCheck out Mor and/or Join the research www.yourmor.com Use Code Annette25 for 25% offYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWe're told some things in the bedroom are off limits — too risky, too taboo. But the truth? Those “forbidden” moves might be the key to more trust, more intimacy, and more unforgettable connection.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm sharing 7 forbidden-ish intimacy moves that surprise, excite, and actually bring you closer. From consent contracts to mirror play to controlled pauses, these science-backed techniques turn taboo into trust.This is also your Kinktober primer

The Bishop's Hotwife: Part 1When Mormon mothers go wild, they go really wild.Based on a post by Wendy Trilby, in 5 parts. Listen to the Podcast at Explicit Novels.Chapter 0: Gideon's Dilemma.Despite living in a large home with four brothers and two sisters, Gideon Barton had little privacy. When you're 18 just about everything gives you an erection and most young men turn to porn for relief.But in Gideon's strict Mormon household, his father, The Bishop, a respected pillar of the church, imposed restrictions on internet access, computers, and phones. Visiting sites like Pornhub or Literotica was nearly impossible.But then again, nothing's as vivid as the mind of a horny teen, and Gideon could create fantasies from just about anything. He had masturbated to thoughts of the weather girl on channel 5, several of his teachers, and right now, his mother's good friend, Kristi Haskett.It was the Barton's big summer backyard barbeque and Mrs. Haskett had just emerged from the pool with firm, erect nipples poking through her bathing suit. She went for her towel, but the image of her thick nipples tenting the nylon of her modest swimsuit would remain burned in his memory to be recalled for countless masturbation sessions in the days to come.That's all it took to make Gideon's balls swell. He needed to masturbate right now. With two brothers and two sisters plus a houseful of guests for the cookout, jerking off in a bathroom wasn't going to happen.That wasn't an issue for Gideon as he entered the spacious car barn to conduct his personal business. Much more than just a garage, The Bishop had built the car barn to house his collection of cars, cars he felt promoted his masculinity. The barn housed seven vehicles and the family's Gulfstream trailer.Gideon noticed how dusty his dad's 19 74 green Bronco was. He coveted this vehicle, even if that was a sin. His mom was trying to convince his dad to let him take it to college after his mission. After all, he was an adult, and his mother believed he needed to take on responsibilities, like owning a car.But right now, he needed to masturbate and quietly entered his go-to spot, the Gulfstream trailer.This had become his favorite place to masturbate. It was private, and he could concentrate on his fantasy as he stroked himself.Getting some hand lotion from the bathroom, he sat on the couch, pulled his shorts down, and lathered himself up. Gently grasping his cock, he began slowly gliding up and down the shaft.He closed his eyes and imagined Mrs. Haskett taking him by the hand behind the garage and showing him her tits. She held them out for him, offering him one to feed on.This wasn't going to take long. He could feel his balls swelling and then;He heard the side door to the car barn open and someone entered.Fuck, not now.Mrs. Haskett's tits would have to wait. He could hear two people talking in hushed tones."Wow, is this what you wanted to show me? It's great. Look at the condition. This is wonderful."The voice was familiar, and Gideon moved to the window to see who it was."Want to see something even better?" came a voice he recognized as his mother's voice. Why was she in here?He peered into the car barn, trying to see who she was talking to and if they were going to leave.Looking out, he saw his mother leaning back on the hood of his father's green Bronco like a teenage girl flirting on a date.Whomever it was, Gideon felt he was way too close to his mother. She then turned around, leaned forward, and her skirt hiked up slightly, but not enough to reveal anything. Reaching back, she flipped it up exposing her soft white ass.Gideon nearly fell over in shock. What was she doing?Just then, he could see the face of the other person. It was Ethan Bryant. He lived next door; he was in his last year of law school in Boston and home for the summer, clerking for The Bishop. He was probably around 25 or 26 years old."You wore the red lingerie," Ethan said with a lascivious smile.Gideon's mother was always talking about Ethan's success at law school and kept encouraging Gideon to use him as a role model."That's not all," his mother replied to Ethan as she put her thumbs in the bands of her panties pulling them down to reveal her bare ass. Ethan's eyes were fixated on her behind. Gideon strained to see, but from his angle, there was no looking into that dark abyss."How long have you;""All day. Just for you," she interrupted."Oh my God. How does it feel?" Ethan asked.Gideon's mind was racing. How does what feel? Did she get some kind of piercing? What was he looking at?"Full, I feel wonderful, but full. I had a spontaneous orgasm about an hour ago. I was sitting there, and it hit me when I was talking to Sara Carlton. She asked if I was Okay."Gideon remembered noticing his mother shivering earlier when she was talking to Mrs. Carlton. What the hell was going on?"You're amazing," Ethan said in a loud whisper.Gideon's mother remained slumped over the car."Make it fast," she replied.Ethan had his cock in hand in seconds. Gideon's eyes were wide. This was it. He was going to see someone have sex. Not just someone, his mother. He resigned himself to worry about that later.Gideon watched as Ethan gently inserted himself into his mother from behind. She let out a long, plaintive groan, enjoying the moment.Gideon thought he should run out there and put an end to this.But he didn't.Above anything in the world, he wanted to see people having sex. And here it was, just fifteen feet from him, a man riding an older woman from behind. They were carnal, and they were desperate. Never mind that it was his mother; this was sex, raw and unbridled, and he began to masturbate as he watched.His mother's pelvis hitched as Ethan began increasing his cadence. It started slow, but they were picking up the pace.Her red panties were now around her ankles. Her torso lay flat against the Bronco, and her face was a portrait of bliss.If there was any doubt his mother wasn't a willing participant, the wet sounds of her pussy, and her less than muffled moans testified just how much she was enjoying the moment.Gideon continued to stroke himself, pacing with the couple, not wanting to blow his load too soon.His mother put her hands back, grasping her ass cheeks and spreading them, offering Ethan a better view of his target.Then, out of nowhere, Ethan pulled himself out, revealing his sizable cock, dropped to his knees and planted his face in between her ass cheeks. The sounds of his mouth on her pussy echoed off the walls."We don't have time for you to;"Gideon's mother never finished her sentence as she froze with pleasure."Oh, that fucking tongue of yours. That motherfucking tongue of yours."From his hiding spot, Gideon was about to hyperventilate, having never heard his mother say anything more substantial than "darn it.”Ethan stood, wiped the wetness from his face and then returned to fucking Gideon's mother from behind.Their body friction increased, and it was evident the two were to about cum, as was Gideon. Mrs. Barton groaned loudly, followed by a metallic clank on the floor like someone had dropped a tool.The two lovers didn't seem to notice or care and kept at each other, intent on reaching a mutual climax quickly. While Gideon's only experience with orgasm was his own, he watched his mother plateau, determined to burn the memory into his brain.Inside the trailer Gideon was about to cum despite slow strokes, just the visuals were enough to finish him off. When he heard his mother's final groan he felt his balls swell and his cock erupted in a geyser of cum spraying on the walls and window.With his pants around his knees, he staggered back and knocked over a box of cooking utensils, making a slight but audible clatter.Fuck!Gideon looked out the window again. The sound had spooked the two as his mother pulled up her panties and flipped back her dress, while Ethan zipped his shorts and straightened up.She then led Ethan out of one of the side doors.When Gideon was sure they were gone, he quietly exited the trailer and walked to the Bronco. The dust on the hood was disturbed, showing the buxom outline of a woman's body. On the floor was a puddle of what could only be spent cum and his mother's fluids combined.Gideon took a rag and wiped off the dust, wiping off any evidence, then took the rag to wipe up the fluids on the ground. On his knees, he noticed something shiny under the Bronco. Reaching for it, he held it in his hand; a metallic gold ass plug, covered in a sheen lube and a bejeweled handle.He knew what he had to do.Chapter 1: The Homecoming.Two years of law school were behind me, and I was returning home to Provo for my last summer. I was happy to be going home and sleeping in my old room, and equally excited that my neighbor, Bishop Barton, had secured me a legal clerking internship in his firm.There was no better way to finish a successful law degree than clerking for Utah's most prestigious law firm, Pratt, Collins, and Barton.I can't remember the last time I heard anyone call Rob Barton by his name. He was known as "The Bishop" due to his high standing in the LDS Church. That's the term that Mormons preferred, with LDS meaning The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Although they did use the term "Mormon," that name was sometimes used in a pejorative way. Thus, using LDS avoided any possible negative connotations.The Bishop was a mountain of a man, imposing and always the center of attention. Despite having been our neighbor for as long as I can remember, I rarely spoke to him, but my dad and The Bishop's wife had secured me this internship last year.Then the worst happened. My father passed away suddenly ten months ago. At just 25 years old, I had faced the loss of both my parents. My mother had died when I was only three, leaving Dad and me together all those years. Our relationship was rocky at times, but he always supported me and kept me focused on a prosperous future. I felt his absence deeply now that he was gone.He was disappointed that I had left the Mormon faith. It wasn't that I questioned the faith itself, but all faith. Still, I was respectful of his beliefs and those of my LDS neighbors.Living in Provo meant having LDS neighbors everywhere. Honestly, I can't think of a better place and better people. Despite the slurs and jokes about the faith, my LDS neighbors were some of the kindest people on earth. When Dad died, The Bishop and his wife, Amanda, traveled to Harvard to convince me to stay in school and finish. He reminded me how important it was to my Dad that I get that degree and assured me of the clerkship. Mrs. Barton promised to take care of my dad's home. They came through on both accounts.These were good people, and I felt fortunate to have pillars of society in my life.Mrs. Barton was younger than The Bishop and could have been a recruiting poster for Mormon wives. She was sporty, with blond, shoulder-length hair that framed her face effortlessly. She had an attractive figure, and her larger-than-average tits always caught the church dads' attention; and their wives. But if there was one feature that could stop me in my tracks, it was her smile. It made me feel welcomed and safe.I grew up with the Bartons. I was seven when they bought the huge house next door. My memories of Mrs. Barton are that she was always pregnant. She had her first child, Gideon, that year, and then it seemed like she was always expecting right up until last year when she had her fifth child. Perhaps that explained her large tits, which I must confess, I'd sneak a peek at whenever I could.Mrs. Barton was a traditional wife who began by having children to continually increase the LDS population. She was always busy, driving carpool, cooking meals, and doing everything necessary to support The Bishop's vital role as a community and church leader. The affectionate term for a woman devoted to her husband and family was helpmeet. As in, she was The Bishop's helpmeet.Of course, being seen and at the center of attention due to her husband's status caused some jealousy, and some of the catty mothers called her the "More Mom," which is a bit of a slur, especially coming from other members of the LDS faith, demeaning her role to merely being attracted to the attention she received from her status.I found an Amazon package at the door when I arrived home. After taking it inside, I turned on the lights. The place was clean and bright for a home that hadn't been lived in for several months. Mrs. Barton had undoubtedly ensured it was cheerful upon my return.I sorted through the stack of mail, opening some items and throwing away others, and then remembered the Amazon package. Opening it up, I was surprised to see a delicate but revealing lingerie set. I held up the red thong and bustier top, wondering where they had come from. Looking back in the box, I found a sex toy, the Womanizer. It was a vibrating suction toy that only added to the mystery.I looked at the box and noticed that it was addressed to me, but I certainly didn't order this. I put the items back in the box and set it aside.A day later, I was finishing my paperwork for the clerk internship when I heard someone at the door.I opened it to see Mrs. Barton, who walked into the house as if it belonged to her. I understood her actions because she had cared for it for so long."Come on in," I said with a joking smile. She looked at me with a smirk."Sorry, I just barged in, didn't I? I'm so used to coming over here and just decompressing."She gave me a warm hug, pressing herself against me."Welcome home, Bryant. We have missed you. I've missed you."I smelled toast burning and rushed to the kitchen. She followed me. It was burnt, so I tossed it out and poured myself a cup of coffee.I had never tasted coffee until my first year of law school. Shunned by the LDS faith as a stimulant, I avoided it until midterms, but after my first cup, I was hooked."Coffee? Tisk tisk, what'll I ever tell The Bishop?""Law school, late nights. If this is a sin, let me be burned at the stake," I replied."I'm sure it can be overlooked. You know how many exceptions we must make to keep the faith. I had a Long Island iced tea a few weeks ago."Mormons don't drink coffee, and they sure as hell don't drink alcohol, let alone a strong drink like a Long Island Iced Tea."I was out with some friends who weren't from church. They had wine, and I innocently asked for tea. Well, I said Long Island Iced Tea. I assumed it was like a tea and lemonade drink.""That's an Arnold Palmer," I added."So, I found out. I took a sip and instantly realized it wasn't made with lemonade."

Send us a textEver feel like you and your partner just aren't speaking the same sexual language? You're not “broken,” you might just be mismatched. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I sit down with Nicholas Velotta, Head of Relationship Research at Arya and PhD researcher at the University of Washington, to unpack the Erotic Persona Framework—the 4 sexual archetypes that explain why routine sex fizzles, why desire misfires, and how to finally sync with your partner.We cover:

Send us a textMost men think oral sex is about fancy tongue tricks or lasting as long as possible. But here's the truth: the #1 mistake isn't about your technique — it's about what you're missing.In this episode, I break down: ✨ The biggest oral  sex mistake men make (and why it ruins connection) ✨ Common myths that sabotage you — like the dreaded “lizard flick” move

Send us a textIf they finish… then shut down, this episode is for you. Today we break down dismissive-avoidant attachment in the bedroom—why someone can crave the physical but avoid the intimate—and what actually works to make connection (and foreplay/aftercare) easier.I'm joined by Dr. Sam Zand, holistic psychiatrist, Chief Medical Officer at Better U, and founder of Anywhere Clinic. We cover:How dismissive-avoidant shows up in flirting, foreplay, sex, and aftercareWhy intensity ≠ intimacy (and the “walls up after sex” moment)Common patterns: control kinks, porn/solo focus, skipping aftercare, substance-aided intimacyNervous system basics: safety, arousal, orgasm, and freeze responsesTangible tools both partners can use tonight: eye contact, breath syncing, clear aftercare scripts, and “safe-to-connect” micro-habits

Send us a textFemDom doesn't have to be scary, it can be soft, playful, and insanely hot.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 5 simple steps to Gentle FemDom, so you can explore dominance without latex, whips, or dungeon vibes. Because real FemDom is about confidence, not costumes. What you'll learn:The body language shift that makes you instantly more commandingHow to use your voice to turn requests into irresistible commandsSimple touch and rituals that make your partner crave your leadWhy praise and aftercare are the real secret weapons of dominanceIf you've been curious about FemDom or just want to shake up your sex life, this episode gives you the tools to lead with confidence—and make your partner melt.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textCurious about butt stuff but don't know where to start? You're not alone. In this beginner-friendly guide, I sit down with Tim Lagman, certified sex educator and host of Sex Ed With Tim, to break down how to make backdoor play fun, safe, and yes—seriously pleasurable.Together we cover: ✅ How to warm up the right way ✅ What lube + toys make it easy and enjoyable ✅ Tips to keep things sexy (not awkward) ✅ How to let go of shame and actually enjoy itThis isn't about porn myths—it's about real pleasure, confidence, and connection. Whether you're curious or ready to dive in, you'll leave knowing exactly how to do it right.ou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWant to last longer in bed—without numbing creams, pills, or awkward distractions? You've been told to count backwards, think about baseball, or change positions… but none of that actually works. And worse? It disconnects you from your partner.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'll show you 3 science-backed moves you can use tonight to control your arousal, boost her orgasms, and turn ordinary sex into the kind she replays in her head for days.Here's what you'll learn:The truth about why you finish too fast (and how to retrain your nervous system)The Grind & Anchor: How slow circles can align with her clitoral network and keep you in controlThe Edge & Tease Reset: How to build anticipation while resetting your arousalThe Root Lock Pulse: A pelvic floor hack that intensifies her orgasm while giving you staminaNo gimmicks. No distractions. Just moves that make you unforgettable in her bed and her brain.By the end of this episode, you'll know exactly how to last longer, keep your erection strong, and give her orgasms that feel deeper and more intense.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Bryony is back and this is such a fun episode where we cover all sorts of weird and wonderful topics including:Small dogsHoliday friendsThe vet who calls me mummySeriously good sex toysTal the tattoo artistGreat beauty recommendationsAs promised, the sex toy I mention is called...drumroll please....the Womanizer!

Send us a textKinky couples are some of the most communicative, consent-savvy lovers out there—but that doesn't mean their relationships are drama-free. Sometimes the same power dynamics that light you up in the bedroom can throw things off outside of it.In this episode, I talk with Wendi L. Dumbroff, MA, LPC, a kink-affirming couples & sex therapist, about the struggles kinky couples don't always see coming—like mismatched appetites, shame, or when D/s roles bleed into daily life.What you'll hear:The biggest red flags of a kink-shaming therapistWhy mismatched kinks hit harder than mismatched libidosHow neglecting aftercare can quietly damage connectionSimple ways to keep your play hot and your relationship healthyIf you've ever felt like you had to shrink your desires to keep the peace, this one's your permission slip: protect your intimacy and find support that actually gets you.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textIs your intimacy starting to feel predictable? You're not alone. Most couples fall into the same positions, the same rhythm, and the same script — and that's when connection can start to feel routine instead of exciting.In this episode, I'm revealing the #1 move that transforms ordinary intimacy into an unforgettable experience — the kind your partner can't stop thinking about afterward. Backed by science and packed with real-world techniques, you'll learn how to:✅ Use brain chemistry to spark anticipation and desire✅ Apply the “Interrupt & Intensify” method during foreplay and penetration✅ Turn predictable moments into powerful, crave-worthy encounters✅ Avoid the common mistakes that make intimacy feel boring or forgettableWhether you've been together for years or just started something new, this technique will help you reconnect, build more intensity, and leave your partner craving more.✨ For my orbiting demo subscribe to my OF✨ Don't miss my  episode on the Cowgirl position: https://youtu.be/srwXCqB5l8MYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWhat happens when kink becomes the key to healing religious shame? In this raw and redemptive episode I sit down with Lauren Elise Rogers, a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator who grew up in a high-control religion. Together, we unpack how purity culture distorts sexuality—and how kink can actually be a path to freedom, power, and deep healing.Lauren shares her personal story of leaving behind religious indoctrination, rediscovering her body, and exploring kink as a way to reclaim desire. We break down:The four cornerstones of eroticism and how they show up after religious traumaWhy fantasy, taboo, and power dynamics can be healing (not harmful)How writing and playing out a kinky “scene” can renegotiate traumaThe difference between reenacting pain and reclaiming power through playHow to identify safe vs. unsafe partners or spaces for explorationWhether you've lived through purity culture, survived religious trauma, or love someone who has—this episode gives you tools to rewrite your sexual story and step fully into your pleasure.

Send us a textQuickies don't have to be rushed, sloppy, or forgettable. In fact, when you know what to do, a 10-minute quickie can be hotter, more intense, and more memorable than an all-night session.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm breaking down the science of why urgency and anticipation heighten arousal, the mistakes most people make that ruin quickies, and the exact step-by-step moves that will make any quickie feel like the best sex of her life.You'll learn: ✅ The brain chemistry that makes quickies so powerful (dopamine, adrenaline, and oxytocin) ✅ The biggest quickie mistakes that kill desire instantly ✅ How to prime her body and mind so she's ready fast — without rushing or skipping arousal ✅ The best quickie-friendly positions for maximum sensation in minimum time ✅ How to stack sensations to make 10 minutes feel like 60 ✅ Why the afterglow is the secret to making her crave the next oneWhether you're short on time or just want to inject more passion into your relationship, this episode will give you the tools to make quickies unforgettable.Watch what to do after sex to make her crave the next time: https://youtu.be/_fWyLBt3xJoYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a text What's the “right” size to satisfy a woman? How often should you really be having sex—or masturbating? And is it weird if you're into something like ball-busting? Today, I'm joined by certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein to tackle the most-searched, most-avoided questions men have about sex, performance, and pleasure. We're breaking down the myths, the science, and the real answers you won't get from late-night Googling—no shame, no judgment, just straight talk (and maybe a few surprises) about how to actually be great in bed. Check out Dr. Sue's podcast here: https://milsteinhealthconsulting.com/Check out my podcast on small penis sizes: https://youtu.be/6ftr82bpJ_QCheck out my podcast on how larger Penis sizes affect pleasure: https://youtu.be/SAuCBBnqaqkYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textJessica and Zach are back, baby!  This week they discuss the Womanizer Trope.  Thank you for your patience during our hiatus.  It's been a hell of a year.  We're back and will continue our biweekly schedule. Episodes Watched This Week:Fonzie: Happy Days S3E10: A Date with Fonzie S4E1 (2+3 recommended): Fonzie Loves PinkySam Malone: Cheers S3E19: Behind Every Great Man S4E4: The Groom Wore Clearisil S4E11: Don Juan is HellCharlie: Two and a Half Men S1E21: No sniffing, no wowing S5E10: Kinda Like Necrophilia S6E16: She'll Still Be Dead at Halftime S7E6: Give Me Your Thumb S9E1: Nice to Meet You, Walden SchmidtSupport the showPlease consider supporting the show on Patreon.Follow us on social media:TikTok (this is where we are most active!)FacebookInstagram

Send us a textBefore you even touch her, you can have her thinking about you, craving you, and pulling you closer. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I reveal the exact blueprint for what to do hours before sex so she's already turned on and fully invested when you get to the bedroom.✅ The psychology & science of building anticipation ✅ Step-by-step moves that work without crossing her boundaries ✅ Common mistakes men make that kill her desire instantlyWhether you've been together for years or you're just starting to date, these tips will change the way she experiences you — and the way she remembers your time together.⏩ Watch next: What to Do After Sex to Make Her Crave You → https://youtu.be/_fWyLBt3xJoYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textLooking for sex positions that actually feel good—not just the ones you see in magazines or corn?In this episode , I'm joined by therapist, and author Suzannah Weiss to break down the truth about what makes a sex position great—for your body, your pleasure, and your real life.Whether you're dealing with size mismatches, limited flexibility, queer pairings, or past discomfort in bed, this conversation is packed with insights, adaptations, and expert advice that actually work.We cover:✔️ The best positions for cl*toral stimulation, deeper connection, and strong orgasms✔️ What to try if you have a larger or smaller p*nis✔️ Positions that support comfort after injury or during pregnancy✔️ Queer-friendly positions for v/v✔️ How to modify classic positions for real bodies✔️ Tools, toys, and furniture that can help✔️ How to know when a position isn't working—and what to do insteadThis isn't about performance. It's about pleasure that fits you—your shape, your needs, your turn-ons.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textMost people think the secret to the female orgasm is a technique. But the truth? The biggest mistake is a mindset.In this episode, I reveal the #1 reason she's not finishing—and it's probably not what you think. You'll learn:The real science behind female orgasmWhat turns her OFF (even when she loves you)How to use sound, breath, and feedback to get her deeply turned on4 surprising ways to increase HER pleasure—and your own This episode will help you become a more confident, connected lover—while getting way more turned on yourself.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textIn this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into the surprising ways sex toys are revolutionizing sexual health—and why more medical professionals are finally taking pleasure seriously.You'll learn:Why vibrators are being recommended by doctors and therapistsThe science behind using pleasure tools to treat conditions like pelvic pain, low libido, and arousal disordersHow integrating toys into your health routine can improve intimacy, confidence, and connectionWhat to look for in a “therapeutic” toy—and where to startWhether you're navigating postpartum sex, menopause, erectile dysfunction, or just want better orgasms—this episode is packed with insight, guidance, and the kind of real talk your doctor should be having.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textEver fantasized about a threesome—but worried it might get… complicated? In this episode, I break down exactly how to plan a threesome without turning it into an emotional mess. From red and green flags when choosing a third to the real reasons you shouldn't go there, we're covering the stuff most people skip.✅ Why your reason for having a threesome matters 

Send us a textWhat happens when bad sex, emotional labor, and a complete lack of foreplay push you to swear off men altogether? In this spicy and unfiltered Pride Month episode, I'm joined by three of my closest queer friends to unpack a rising trend: women “coming out” after a string of terrible relationships with men.We ask the big, controversial question: Can a man be so bad in bed that he turns you gay? Spoiler: it's not that simple.From religious shame and lesbian bed death to strap-ons, sex toys, and how emotional safety impacts arousal, we dive deep into the raw realities of sexual identity, relationship fatigue, and the fluid nature of desire.You'll hear:Why some women say “never again” to men—and mean itThe difference between being queer and just being tired of bullshitOne woman's switch from dating only women to finding true safety with a manHow emotional intimacy and creativity in bed make or break attractionAnd what men actually need to know if they're worried about their partner leaving them for a womanWhether you're a man wondering what not to do, a queer woman navigating your own desires, or just someone curious about how love, lust, and fluidity collide—this episode is for you.

Send Mary and Kelsey a Message!In this episode, Mary and Kelsey sit down with Grammy-award winner and visionary film and music video director Joseph Kahn. They discuss Joseph's new 2000s nostalgia-packed horror comedy movie “Ick” which hits theaters for a limited time July 27-29, how he became one of the most sought-after music video directors in the industry, and his work with with the world's biggest names in music including Backstreet Boys (Everybody, Larger Than Life, Incomplete), Britney Spears (Toxic, Stronger, Womanizer), Taylor Swift (Blank Space, Bad Blood, Wildest Dreams, Look What You Made Me Do, End Game, Delicate) and more. Find Ick showtimes near you at www.icktheflick.comFollow Joseph at @josephkahn on IGSupport the show Instagram: @whentheypoppedpodTikTok: @whentheypoppedpodEmail: whentheypoppedy2k@gmail.comWebsite: linktree.com/whentheypopped Subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=85610411

Send us a textMost people treat hand jobs like a throwaway move—a lazy warmup or a teenage fallback. But done right? A hand job can be more intimate, dominant, and orgasmic than penetration or oral.In honor of National Hand Job Day, I'm breaking down exactly how to use your hands to blow someone's mind—whether you're stroking a penis, massaging a vulva, or pleasuring a nonbinary partner. This is the Ultimate Hand Job Guide you never got in sex ed.

Send us a textEver wonder why she's not as turned on—or as fast—as you are? You're not alone. And she's not broken.In this episode, I'm joined by sociologist, intimacy coach, and TEDx speaker Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus to unpack one of the most misunderstood issues in sex and relationships: the arousal gap.We'll break down: ✅ Why men often feel ready in seconds—and women don't ✅ What's really going on when she “seems like she's not into it” ✅ The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire ✅ How mental load, emotional safety, and shame kill arousal ✅ What you can do to actually close the gap—in bed and beyondWhether you're a man trying to better understand your partner, or a woman wondering “what happened to my libido?”—this episode is for you.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textIs body shame secretly killing your sex life? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're diving into one of the biggest (and most overlooked) blockers of desire and orgasm—body image anxiety.If you're hiding under the covers, turning off the lights, or keeping your shirt on during sex… this episode is for you.You'll learn: 

Send us a textIs sex addiction even real?In this bold and much-needed episode, I'm joined by Dr. Sue Milstein and her co-host Charlie for a raw conversation that takes on the myths and misinformation around hypersexuality and so-called “sex addiction.”We talk about: – Why “sex addiction” isn't actually a clinical diagnosis – How pathologizing pleasure fuels shame and repression – The difference between compulsive behavior and healthy desire – What queer folks, women, and survivors need to know about how this label has been weaponized – And how we can stop framing desire as a diseaseWhether you've been told you're “too much,” “out of control,” or “addicted” to sex—or just want to understand how shame shapes our sexual culture—this one's for you.Pleasure isn't the problem. The story we've been told about it is.You can listen to Unzipping Taboos here: Check out Unzipping Tabboos: https://open.spotify.com/show/0W4qb8B7nZW8O3GMoQUZ5E?si=3cd730666f3d499aYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textYou don't need to touch his penis to turn him on. In fact… you don't even need your hands.In this how-to episode, I'm teaching you how to seduce and dominate a man using nothing but your feet, your voice, and your eyes.We're diving into the art of foot play—how to use your toes to tease, your arches to apply pressure, and your whole body to command his attention. You'll learn:How to give a beginner-friendly footjob (that doesn't feel awkward)How to use your gaze to control the moment and keep him locked inThe seductive power of verbal domination—and exactly what to sayThis is your step-by-step guide to flipping the power dynamic, igniting his desire, and taking total control of his arousal—without ever taking your clothes off.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWhat happens when a woman truly owns her sexuality?The s*x gets better. The spark comes back. And trust us—he'll feel it too.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I'm joined by Dr. Bonnie Comfort—psychologist, author, and expert in helping women ditch sexual shame and step into real, raw pleasure. We're breaking down how to stop performing, start feeling, and completely transform your sex life—from the inside out.You'll learn:

Send us a textLet's talk about one of the most craved beginner kinks—spanking—and why most people are doing it completely wrong.In this episode, I break down the art and psychology of erotic spanking: how to build anticipation, where to touch before you strike, and how to use your hand to sting, seduce, and satisfy. You'll learn how to read her body's response in real time, avoid common mistakes, and make it so good she'll beg you not to stop.We're going beyond tired clichés—this isn't about punishment, it's about pleasure with precision. Backed by science, psychology, and coaching insights, I'll teach you how to turn a simple spank into a deeply erotic power move.By the end of this episode, you'll know:The best positions for safe, sexy spankingWhere (and how) to strikeWhat rhythm and hand placement actually do to the nervous systemHow to read her skin tone and breath like a proAnd why this kink hits deeper than you think✨ Whether you're brand new to kink or ready to level up your skills, this is your permission slip to spank with confidence—and connection.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textLicensed clinical social worker and poly coach Emily Lambert Robins joins me for a no‑fluff guide on coming out as polyamorous—gracefully. We unpack the most common slip‑ups, why it can feel scarier than coming out LGBTQ+, and the essential conversations you need to have before going public. You'll hear real scripts to make the moment smoother, wild reaction stories (and how to handle them), plus how to address family, partners, and fears around losing it all. If you're curious about a more expansive way to love, this episode gives you the roadmap, compassion, and tools to do it right.ou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.comUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textWe've been taught that power is all about being on top. But I'm here to show you why missionary—yes, missionary—is a secret dom move when you know how to work it. This episode is all about owning the position we were told to just lie there in. Because power? It's not about where your body is. It's about your intention.You'll learn:• How to control the angle, rhythm, and pace from below• Verbal cues that act like erotic commands• Why eye contact, moaning, and breathwork are your stealth power tools• Six step-by-step moves to take charge while lying on your back• Plus a bonus on “submission as domination in disguise”And yes—this is science-backed and pleasure-forward.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.comUse code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textThink gender is just “man” or “woman”—and anything else is made up? Then this conversation is for you.Because understanding gender-expansive identities isn't about being “woke” or politically correct—it's about being human. About expanding your capacity for empathy, connection, and truth.In this episode, I'm joined by Kate S. Logan, a Marriage & Family Therapist Associate at Gender Wellness Los Angeles. Kate specializes in working with gender-expansive clients and guiding people through identity, relationships, and radical self-expression.We're diving into: 

Send us a textYou've been doing cowgirl all wrong—and no, it's not your fault.Most people are never taught how to ride in a way that actually feels good, builds orgasmic rhythm, and keeps your partner completely wrecked beneath you. That ends today.In this episode, I'm breaking down 4 powerful cowgirl techniques that make you feel confident, connected, and absolutely unforgettable on top. You'll learn:✨ How to ride for your pleasure (and why it leads to stronger orgasms)

Send us a textYou thought dating women would be easier? Think again.This Pride Month, I'm pulling back the sheets on what it really looks like when women date women. Spoiler alert: it's not just soft touches, flannel, and U-Hauls. There's bi-phobia, late-in-life confusion, misread signals, and emotional landmines no one warned us about. But there's also unmatched heat, intimacy, and magic—when you know what you're doing.In this collab episode, I'm joined by Dr. Frankie Bashan, clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and queer matchmaker extraordinaire. Together, we explore why queer femme/sapphic dating can feel so confusing, how trauma and gender roles sneak into our relationships, and what actually builds real, healthy connection—without losing the spark.Whether you're queer, questioning, or just curious about what it's like when two women fall (and sometimes crash) into love, this one's for you.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textThis Pride Month, we're celebrating one of the most iconic, empowering, and downright delicious acts: face sitting. Whether you call it queening, throne work, or just your favorite seat in the house—this episode is your step-by-step guide to doing it with confidence, control, and unapologetic joy.We'll break down:What face sitting actually is—and why it's more than just a sexy poseThe myths that keep people (especially femmes and queers) from fully enjoying itHow to find the best angles, rhythm, and positions for your bodyHow to build confidence (yes, even if you're self-conscious about weight, smell, or taking control)Why the science of pressure, dominance, and anticipation makes this one of the most erotic power moves in partnered sexThis episode is for vulva owners who want to own their pleasure, and for lovers of all genders who want to give their partner a front-row seat to ecstasy.Because during Pride—and always—pleasure is protest. And sitting on their face? That's how you start the revolution.

Send us a textCan you be a mom and a sexual being? Our culture loves moms—as long as they're selfless, sleepless, and silent about their desire. But what happens when a mother wants to reclaim her seductress energy?In this raw and radically honest episode, I'm joined by licensed therapist Emma Shandy Anway to take a wrecking ball to the Madonna/Whore complex and everything it's done to women's sex lives.We talk about:Why birth trauma and invisible labor silently sabotage libidoThe myth of “bouncing back”—and why it shouldn't mean bouncing away from sexWhat partners get wrong about postpartum intimacy (and how to show up right)How moms can start feeling sexy again—even if their body feels like a strangerAnd how reclaiming pleasure can actually make you a better parentWhether you're a mom, a partner, or just sick of purity politics hijacking pleasure, this episode is your permission slip to get turned on—and stay that way.Because sexy isn't something you lose after motherhood. It's something you fight to reclaim.You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get 30% Off Sex Toys & Lube with code EXPLORES30 at thethruster.com: https://bit.ly/3Xsj5wY Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textMost men go straight for missionary, or cowgirl—and completely miss the one position that practically hands her an orgasm on a silver platter.In this episode, I'm walking you through the best sex position you're probably not using—and exactly why it works. We're talking G-spot access, A-spot pressure, clit contact without a circus of props or acrobatics.You'll get:The science behind why this angle turns her onStep-by-step breakdown of how to set it upTips for keeping her in that “right there—don't stop” zoneWhat to say when she's on the edge (and how not to screw it up)Whether you're using a cock or a toy, this move delivers—and it just might become her new favorite. If you want to give her the kind of sex that makes her melt into the sheets and text her best friend about it, press play.Watch my full how-to video here: https://youtu.be/JsoeQLXBDjsYou can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannetteMy free spicy handle is @annettetalkssexSubscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390cAsk a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcastMy substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off all Womanizer Products at Womanizer.com. Get your intimacy questions answered, enjoy erotic audio readings and more.https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/Support the show Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti Connect with usWe are on all the socials: TikTok: @ LockerRoomTalkPodcast LRT's Insta: @Lockerroomtalkandshots Annette's Insta: @BeingBenedetti SEL Inst: @SheExplores_Life LRT's FB: @LockerRoomTalkandShots SEL FB: @ SheExploresLife Annette's YouTube: Annette Benedetti Check Out More Sexy Content:She Explores Life Website: sheexploreslife.comCheers!

Send us a textYou've heard the whispers. Maybe even fantasized about it. But what actually happens behind closed doors at high-end sex parties?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the velvet curtain with special guest Shannon Wong—a performer, kink educator, and fierce advocate for sex-positive, female-led spaces. From her roots as a SuicideGirl and burlesque dancer to curating experiences in the world of ethical non-monogamy, Shannon gives us the inside scoop on what really goes down at elite sex events—and how women are changing the game.We dive into: 

Send us a textYou think she wants you because of how good you were during sex?Think again.What you do after sex is what sets you apart—and makes her crave you all over again.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're flipping the script and diving into what happens in the 5 minutes after you come. Because that window? It's not downtime—it's prime time.You'll learn:

Send us a textYou've heard the jokes. Seen it in porn. Maybe even whispered about it with a friend. But fisting—when done right—isn't about shock. It's about trust, surrender, and full-body pleasure that goes way deeper than you think.In this episode, I'm joined by sex therapist Chelsea Newton, and we're diving into the truth about vaginal fisting: What it really feels like, why it's healing for so many women and queer folks, and how to explore it safely—with confidence, consent, and a whole lot of lube.We cover:

Send us a textThis is your step-by-step guide to vaginal fisting done right—for real connection, full-body pleasure, and the kind of deep, slow sex that leaves her saying “holy fck.”*In this episode, I walk you through: 

Send us a textIs it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head… and maybe hers too? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we're pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: Am I thick enough?Joining me is Dr. Amy Pearlman, board-certified urologist and sexual health expert, here to break down the science behind penile girth, sexual satisfaction, and why so many men tie their self-worth to size.We're covering: