Blended Views Unfiltered Podcast

In today's episode, Kaneesha and Sio are back with their foolishness for pure entertainment lol. We jump around on many different topics from current events to digging into their personal lives. What are some things that men do that they think are turn ons but really women think they are turn off's, have you ever revealed the wildest place you've ever had a quickie, how about snapchat sexting and feet pics, all these topics and more including scheduled crying and weird confessions revealed in today's episode.

In today's episode, we are joined by Caylin and Coco and we sit down and chop it up about a few interesting topics that have been floating around as well as things that come up through our conversation. Everyone knows that we love starting off episodes with a little bit of banter and today we started off with a little bit of shower etiquette and what area we usually start off washing first which happens to say a lot about our personalities. When we think of love, we often think it's automatically unconditional but we are selfish by nature so do we look out for ourselves more times than others or are we genuinely operating to have the best interest of the relationship at heart and top priority. We speak on these topics as well as girls trips being birthday priority over spending that time with their men, podcast drinks, stolen buns, and who's worse out of the cheater, or the person who cheats back, tap in to check out the convo.

In todays episode, Dre sits with Caylin and has a candid conversation about different life scenarios, mindset shifts and circumstances that inevitably led to something she takes extremely serious, mental health. Have you ever wondered what had to end in order for you to start  over, what has to be let go or addressed as well. Necessary actions must take place in order to become the person you want to be. What makes you give someone the title of "friend"? Is the title freely given with no requirements or are there standards that must be met. When was the moment you fell in love with yourself, how often do you examine yourself to make sure you're the best you?  We talk about these things and more, giving you thought provoking conversations to have with those around you.

In today's episode, the fellas do a check in with one another and put a huge emphasis on the MEN part of MENtal health. We as men often  times go without expressing ourselves and releasing a lot of the things we go through on a day to day basis and as good as we are at processing things ourselves and keeping it moving, there  are times that you need to talk, ask for help, seek out advice or just simply vent. We may have great women in our lives but, realistically there's just some thing they won't get and understand nor know how to properly deal with so having the right circle as a man is more important than we give it credit for. We dive into vulnerability's, the expectation of our friends, appreciation, critical changes that are needed, taking correction and criticism from other men and share stories, thoughts and opinions aimed at helping and growing as men and also giving women some insight into the minds of men, that maybe will help them with the men they are married to, dating, related to or  friends  with. Let's all start to check in with those around us and continue to grow together!

In today's episode, Dre and Sio chop it up about a lot of random topics that we can all relate to. Memories of excitement the night before a field trip as a kid, reminiscing about our last favorite moment, would Sio be with a man who request wild fantasies to be played out in real life and if a man fell on hard times would his lady be there for him or leave him because he asks her for help. These and more wrapped up in another quick convo with Dre and Sio.

In today's episode we sit down with Wade & Jasmin Hampton a power couple bursting onto the scene in the beauty industry. We often times see couples that are entrepreneurs highlighting all the success and good things that are happening and we're left in the dark about the failures, pit falls, road blocks and breakdowns, so today we got the good, the bad, and the ugly side of being in business while married and parenting 4 children and how it  takes a special harmony to make it work. Wade being a master barber and Jas being an aesthetician offering multiple services they've experienced a multitude of seasons in business which has brought them to introduce the Fades & Facials movement, we talk about what it stands for whats to come and how creating as well as restoring the standard is of the utmost importance in this new season. We have some fun with episode as we get some real raw talk as well as some gems to take with us along the way.

In today's episode, we have a wide range of topics  we discuss in order to gather the perspectives from the single male and single female and how they may align  or differ. Ladies have you ever bought your man or  a guy flowers and fellas would you be receptive if a woman bought them for you?  What's a good character trait of yours that someone else has said about you? These are  just teasers for the episode, but we explore if men look at women differently if they try and initiate sex  first on the first date, why women ask for divorces and  reasons for not wanting kids right now  and even not at all.

In today's episode, valentines conversation leads to other hot topics and revelations. Dre digs deep into Sio and Carlin's personal business about dating, sex life and in turn the ladies ask questions to better understand a man's perspective on things. Ladies would you ever go on a On The Spot date with a complete stranger, fellas would you run the light if she wanted it that bad and could we all just relax a little bit more now days when it comes to the dating game. We discuss all these topics and more, leaving your imagination to explore a little.

In today's episode Dre and Sio decide to have some lighthearted fun and ask would you rather questions. You never know what's going to be asked and more importantly you never know what someone's answer is going to be, especially when sitting down with Sio! 

In today's world we  tend to have blurred lines when it comes to the breaking up or breaking off of a relationship, situationship or even a friendship  that has certain benefits attached to them, who's the blame when it happens or is that blame shared? Unfortunately there's one narrative that holds more weight then the other in a lot of cases and somewhere in the mix of things accountability is lost and never to be found. In today's episode we jump into this topic presenting scenarios and sharing our opinions of who, how, and why someone has to be held accountable, must take responsibility, and share in the blame not minimizing their role in how the end of their "ship" happened. Things get a little testy on the episode, but it's all love and that's why at the end of the day it's Blended Views Unfiltered.

In today's episode Sio and Dre has a conversation deriving from random thoughts and questions. Have you ever wondered what would happen to your relationship if a freak accident happened and it caused physical damage to you, would you expect your significant other to stay with you or would you stay if it was flipped? If your man wanted a meal made at 3am would you get up and make it or would he have to wait? We discuss these topics in a funny/serious way and we also talk about seasonal depression, awkward runs to Walmart, non-sexual turn ons and what kind of questions to ask to find out more about your significant other or someone you're interested in.

In today's episode, Josh and Caylin join us in the first podcast of the year as we discuss a few hot topics. The year has started off hot with the Katt Williams interview, the Swag Surfing controversy, Simon Biles husband and TD Jakes possibly being a power bottom and we touch on all these topics to get everyones perspectives, thoughts and concerns. We also dive into a convo about how black women's strength may be a hindrance when it comes to the dating scene and reason as to why black men may over look the masculine woman vs the feminine woman. When you have honest conversations, clarity is provided and perspectives may even shift and even if not then at least we know where those outside of ourselves are coming from and we can develop a deeper respect for them and their situations. 

In today's episode, the crew is back along with our guest co-host Kenny and we're at it with a mix up of topics. Jonathan Majors is a hot topic right now with a verdict of guilty coming in from him, we touch on this along with scenarios about what happens if our phones were snatched by a significant other, what would our reaction be. Have you ever had to deal with your significant others family coming at you in a not so good way, making you feel awkward or just out right pissing you off, did your partner come to your defense or did you have to defend yourself and then remove yourself. We live in a social media world, and we all know the saying if you're not posted then it's not real, or it's not official til it's official on social media, well today we discuss whether or not it's important to us to be posted or not and in what cases should this be a red flag and in what cases should you not be concerned. Do you keep everything that your exes give you, or do you part ways with it once you're in a new relationship? We dive into all these topics, and with multiple different perspectives you'll be sure to spark convo amongst your own groups and relationships.

The holiday season is here and with Thanksgiving right around the corner we decide to have a couple friends on for a Friendsgiving chat. In today's episode we mix it up with a variety of topics that are sure to have you laughing, thinking, and shifting your perspective as well. The phone on the ceiling challenge starts things off along with the crew revealing or pleading the 5th on when was thee moment they knew they were good in bed. We also talk about the blueprint or template to a good man or woman and if there really is such a thing. Do you cheer on and for your loved ones on a regular basis like you cheer for your favorite team or celebrity crush, because we need that same level of energy and excitement shown to feel just as seen and important. To everyone tuning in Happy Thanksgiving and we appreciate you making us apart of your holidays.

In today's episode, we have Mel on with us again, and we jump into the topic of career choices over relationships and friendships. We often times out the cart before the horse and fail to have certain hard conversations such as, if my career takes me out of state or out of country would you come with me or is our relationship over, the crew shares thoughts and opinions and our shares her story of how her and her husband overcame this hurdle prior to marriage. Have you ever thought about if you'd put your career on the line for a friend? We jump into this topic as well in another enlightening week on the pod. 

In today's episode, Mel joins us in a conversation full of very interesting topics. Have you ever wondered about your partner's past? What if you could watch a highlight reel of their past, especially past relationships, would you hold what you seen against them, would you be able to keep in mind it was before you or had absolutely nothing to do with you, would you let it affect your relationship in any capacity? We also discuss first dates and what they'd look like in reality to whats been circulating social media. Does this list apply to all women and does it fit every situation? We give our thoughts and opinions about these and much more in this semi serious yet funny episode.

In today's episode, Chris Gunther joins in on the conversation that has several different topics all from the males perspective. Rekindling an old flame can be a difficult in some cases and in other case it can actually be easy and delightful, and today we give our opinions on how we would attempt to rekindle with an ex girlfriend or old flame. We also talk about what it takes to cause an instant break-up and we discuss part 1 of the viral  unacceptable first date list of restaurants that a group of women came up with. We give our experiences, opinions and advice on this particular topic and part 2 with the ladies will surely be an interesting one.

In today's episode, we sit down and interview our co-host Nick. Many of you have grown to love  his humor, perspectives, and opinions that strike up great debates, but today we get to dive into the man, husband, friend, entrepreneur that Nick is. We often times get a good look at the outer shell  of a person  and we take that and run with it never really appreciating who we've befriended or fell  in love with, sometimes until it's too late and in other times it's when  certain situations arises and the true person  reveals themselves. Nick's outer shell is great, but beneath the surface him at his core is a phenomenal man, who reveals what fuels him, what makes him want to be a great  husband, he reveals some  of his downfalls that made him into the man he is today and shares a lot of his mindset, dropping some major gems and giving insight into things that we can not only listen to but implement into our everyday life, especially from the stand point of a man.

In today's episode, we have another episode that we just sit and have a casual conversation about random topics, having sex with kids in the house, weaponizing sex, sex teasing, apologies, idolizing celebrity relationships, and the ladies give the fellas some advice about cuffing season as it's about to be in full swing. With many opinions and perspectives given in this episode,  you'll be sure to have your own take and will for sure spark convo in your group chats as well as with your significant other.

In today's episode, the crew is joined by a familiar face Chayla in a host of hot topics that are sure to get your mind going. How does friend-zoning really work and do you treat people the same after they reveal their feelings to you? Some revelations and perspectives changed during this convo and we give our thoughts and opinions about this. Would you have a child for your friend or sibling? Would you have a child with your friend without being in a relationship? We share our feelings and real life experiences around these topics as well as touching on the difference between flattery and honesty and the actions we'd display if our significant other came home hours after the event they attended was over.

In today's episode, the spotlight shines on one of our favorites when Nick & Dre interview Sio. For all  those who has followed BVU we've done a 1 on 1 with Sio before but it's been well over a year so we chopped it up with her to pick her brain, borrow a piece of her heart, indulge in some laughter and learn more of who Big Mama is at her core. It's our assumption that most and maybe closer to majority of people has the goofy, fun, uplifting, positive, always there for you person in their lives and in most cases not much is given to them but that never stops them from giving themselves to other even in thee most inconvenient times and well, that's Sio!! Today you get to learn more about one of God's jewels that he specially placed here on earth.

In today's episode, we sit and chop it up with Jas the founder and CEO of J.Jenee Spa. Everyone has the need or want for relaxation and to look and feel good, especially the everyday woman who puts everyone above herself and often neglects this area due to working, being a mom, wife etc. and it ends up driving you straight to the therapist vs. the spa. Well at J.Jenee Spa you get the pleasure of not only the relaxation benefits and aesthetically getting yourself together but you get a peaceful environment along with an extra personal touch, imagine being able to talk woman to woman, gaining knowledge, advice and leaving not only feeling good on the outside but also the inside. In today's episode, Jas gives us the back story as to how and why she chose to get into the beauty industry and begin to carve out her own niche lane with what she offers, after becoming a wife and mom at an early age and battling depression and anxiety she began her journey into entrepreneurship and is now beginning to thrive. She opens up and shares how her adversities and life experiences have not only made her into a better woman, wife, mom, and entrepreneur but also how doors have opened up for her to help women not just see their potential but operate in their purpose and help show them that there is more to them than the everyday titles that they carry, creating safe spaces for women by way of not just the spa but also events, brunch's, and most importantly a listening ear.,. Here's another living example that everyday people can be superheroes too. 

Has it ever crossed your mind how you'd react to the death of an ex, even if you happened to be in a new relationship and maybe even married? Many different scenarios could be played out surrounding this topic and many have lived through times like this and there's been many different outcomes.  In today's episode we discuss  this topic and break down exactly how  we feel and what we "think" we'd do in the unfortunate case of one of our ex's passing away,  how long would you give your significant other time to grieve if any time at all, would you support them, would it change how you look and treat them, and would it lead to ending the relationship. We also talk about things that disappoint you after finally linking up at the persons house that you've been talking to or lusting after as well as how often do women friend groups lie for one another to keep them out of the dog house with their men.  

In today's episode real estate and financial consultant Tone Robinson joins the crew for another power packed episode. Coming out of one of the best real estate era's post  pandemic we witnessed a massive shift in the market in which many consumers took advantage of, but for people like Tone who does this for a living he was already in position pre and post pandemic real estate market shifts, so much so that he's put together some amazing courses as well as events, teaching as well as hands on demonstrating the ins and outs of the  real estate  and financial industry. In this episode you'll hear about the importance of team, credit, alternative options and you'll see that literally anyone can get into this industry even if you have little to no money and  still come out on top, following the blueprint given. The Real Lit Bus Tour is on the move again with Tone and his team providing all of their knowledge and expertise when it comes to, buying, flipping, selling, renting homes, short term and long term housing, credit, contractors, bids, literally nothing will be missed in this all day event in Cleveland, OH on September 30, 2023. Jump into the episode so that you aren't left out!

In today's episode, the crew covers various  topics but there's a couple that really stand out. Does semen really aid in easing headache's, does it help with morning sickness and is it good for the skin or are  these just man made facts in order for men to get off their sexual urge? The  crew has a funny explanation to this question as well as some interesting commentary. There's also a discussion about wha's revealed during the "talking" stage, and how much is too much information when getting to know someone. Confidence and options are also touched on  in this light hearted episode.

In today's episode we take a gut check and evaluate not only how we view ourselves but also how those in close proximity view us as well. Is  your reputation accurate to how you are in your everyday life or is it just a version of you while the rest  of you is hidden or maybe even just simply put, fake. Does being the bigger person always feel good? Is it meant to  make you look better or display discipline and self control? A hard lesson to learn is that being the bigger person won't always get you the outcome you thought it might. Have you ever thought to take a step back and ask yourself, am i a transactional person or a transformative person. A lot of us are blind to that question not actually realizing that how we operate and conduct ourselves day to day not only affects those around us but also shapes our character and how  we treat people is ultimately attached to our name no matter if it's good, bad or ugly only we can change our own narrative. Today the crew talks about these topics along with life stories and scenarios given to them to formulate an opinion whether a popular one or not, it's the reality that many of us face today.

In today's episode we discuss ego boosting by way of dating someone who may be considered "ugly". Have you ever considered "talking" to or dating someone who you find less attractive, but they checked off most or even all of your boxes? Finding someone who is below your normal standards in the looks department may be of huge benefit to you especially if your current standard of man/woman doesn't seem to be working out for you. The crew presents several scenarios in this episode to get some different opinions and to see if anyone is more shallow than they think, and maybe shift some perspective as well. When does "shooting your shot" go too far, should women not be going after men, whats considered ugly, are looks really everything, all these and more are talked about, let's jump into the convo.

In today's episode we dive deep into some juicy topics that will be sure to strike up conversation with not only your spouse or bf/gf but also in your group chats and friend groups. After an apology most people want the issue or situation to go back to normal or to simply move on but do we ever stop to think that although the apology was warranted, reconciliation may not be apart of the plan. The crew talks about this in great detail along with several other topics such as the difference between vacation cheating and cheating while living your everyday life, is one easier than the other? There's sometimes the "risky" or "risqué" friend in the bunch and your significant other may be cool with them and all but when it comes to girls night out or guys night out, maybe even brunch or a weekend trip, well It's A No For Me!! How would you handle your significant other asking or even telling you no you can't go out or on a trip with a certain individual because of thee lifestyle they live and what they always end up getting themselves into, would you go against you lover or would you go for the sake of your friendship, the crew has a discussion about this very scenario.

Everyday people is a new segment that we will be doing that will highlight the people we come across everyday single day. Often times we as a society put a lot of focus on celebrities and entertainers as well as endlessly scrolling not realizing that we have heroes among us as well as people that we would 100% relate to and with if we actually knew their story. This isn't to highlight just those in the spotlight but our neighbors both near and far, whether they are in business, teaching, cleaning, social work, construction worker etc or any other everyday job, this is to give a behind the scenes look into who they are and why they do what they do. In today's episode I sit down with Jessica Viera of Viera's Vision Photography and Studio. We learn not only about her profession but she also gives us a look into what happens behind the lens, and what drove her to photography, overcoming obstacles and battles to get to where she is now. We often look at a person and see the smile and happiness but never ask how one has gotten to that place, well  in this episode you'll hear why happiness is Jessica's choice and how choosing herself and making necessary changes in her life catapulted her into the woman, mother and entrepreneur she is today while still on the ongoing journey of continual learning of herself.

Today a couple crew members along with a special guest Jessica of Viera's Vision, has an enlightening conversation about several different topics regarding differences and similarities between men and women. Why does there have to be a villain in every break up no matter if it's a romantic relationship, friendship or partnership? One has to wonder is it all emotion and anger mixed with some truth or is it all just smoke and mirrors. Is a woman's intuition a general feeling covering many areas or is it targeted only at one specific thing, cheating! Before watching a movie most of the time you watch a trailer, what if prior to getting into a relationship, friendship or partnership you came along with a trailer, what would your potentials be watching, and would they proceed or take off running? We discuss all these topics which are sure to make you laugh, think and maybe even shift your perspective.

In today's episode, the crew talks about the Alabama brawl that went viral and how things would have gone down had we been a part of it as well as pointing out some key brawlers that were in the action. We also talk about struggle meals and the back-to-school season and how we use to do things back in the day compared to now, going to sleep early, and saving money on bills and school clothes are all on the itinerary.

The ladies give us their opinion on CIS women and if they buy into it, think a lot into it, or just simply don't care, we also talk about the new tip culture and how that is expanding. Have you ever wondered how it looks behind the scenes of a therapist, counselor, or physiatrist? We often times unload our issues, problems, concerns, etc onto others or, more specifically a therapist and although it's their career choice or some may say "job" to listen or help, we don't often why they got into the field or,  how much of their mental and emotional state is affected if at all, so also in today's episode, we sit down with Shavaughn a therapist/counselor and host of The Comfy Couch LLC. Shavaughn gives us an in-depth look into her career, her calling, her purpose, and her daily life and we also talk about the importance of mental health. Perspective is everything some may say and Shavaughn gives us plenty to think about, shift and thrive on. 

In today's bonus episode, we do something outside of the norm and Dre asks the ladies to pour into one another verbally, whether it be by encouragement, compliment, advice, direction, or prayer. Although we're sure it does happen, not publicized as often as it should be, women genuinely conversating and uplift one another with no hidden agenda and with no expectation of anything in return. We don't take away from any other group but amongst african american women they are typically portrayed as loud, obnoxious, non-articulate, mean, jealous, dumb, rachet and always fighting and especially all things amongst one another. Today we're flipping the narrative and showing that we're more than what the media and stereotypes say we are and showing that black women not only care and love one another but, can also communicate in the most healthy way towards one another and uplift, empower, be friendly and get along with each other even if they do have differences of opinions. Listen in as these 3 women "speak" to each other in much-needed conversation.

In today's episode, in Sio's words, "We have a freaking blast" discussing her new venture, utilizing her talents as a producer. We also have a guest from The Comfy Couch and we dive into questions about fantasies, weddings, toxic traits, and much more. This is a very funny yet enlightening conversation as you'll learn some new things as well as get some laughs in and we all know how we love blending views along the way.

In today's episode, Sio speaks about her imaginary relationship with Sammie after going to his concert, she also gives a detailed story about her sex on the beach experience. We also speak on a number of other topics such as the mile-high club, getting knee-grow surgery, liking big bodies or not, 600lb life, if it's right or wrong to keep you changing your gender a secret when dating, and a few what-ifs situations are asked in order to get different opinions and perspectives. 

Have you ever thought about what happens if you ever said NO to a marriage proposal? How about if you don't receive the blessing from the father or family of the woman you plan to marry? In today's episode, we discuss these scenarios as well as some of our own experiences. We can all say what we'd do in many different instances but, when we face these things in real-time, how will we actually handle the situations that stand before us? Are we willing to still proceed or will the NO from the one we love or the family we love stop us? Let's talk about it.

In today's episode, the crew discusses the very hot topic of Keke Palmer and Usher's spicy interaction and the outfit that came along with it. Was it really the outfit that had her man jumping on social media releasing all of his feelings or was it an underlying issue that he didn't want to reveal? Either way, we share our thoughts and opinions as well as present scenarios of what we'd do in similar situations. For men who are ready to settle down, can they tell the difference between a woman who is ready as well, or has it become very hard to differentiate between a woman who is ready and the woman who is still in her hot girl era? We discuss this along with a few other topics, hearing perspectives from both men and women as well as married and single individuals.  

On today's episode, Dre and Sio discuss various topics that are trending and Dre presents Sio with a variety of scenarios throughout the episode on how she would handle herself and why she thinks others handle themselves in certain situations as well. The best Father's Day gift ever is displayed for everyone to see, how and why are people deciding to take pill-like submarines to the top of the bottom of the ocean with little to no safety measures provided? There was a time that chicken pox was just as normal as the common cold, and now no one ever gets them was it really a vaccine cure or just another thing that was lab-created like our soon-to-be synthetic meat filled with hmmm only the scientist and pharmaceutical companies knows. Remember that man or woman that you had an amazing time with, you may even call it a fling, but it was an amazing short fun-filled time period in your life and you can remember everything about every moment ever spent with them and then you went your separate ways, oh but then down the road years later they pop up somewhere where you and your new man or woman are and you're caught off guard. What's your next move and how would you handle that kind of pressure when that feeling you assumed was gone comes rushing back all at once? Listen in as we discuss all these topics and more.

Who's the real blame? The person who's in a relationship and cheats or the person who they cheat with? We hear so much about the hostility surrounding the person who's not in the relationship and who's usually deemed the "homewrecker" but who really wrecked the home? In today's episode, the crew gives their opinions on the matter opening up a bigger picture of how a couple even gets to the point of cheating and if these reasons can even be discussed amongst the 2 before it escalates to cheating.  If your significant other came to you and shared their lack of interest in the bedroom with you, although may be hard to hear, would you hear them out, address the issue, and make adjustments or would you get defensive and start a war between you 2? All this and more are packed into this episode from different perspectives with brutal honesty.

In today's episode, we pick up the conversation surrounding trauma and how it affects how we approach relationships as well as parenting and friendship.  Not everyone experiences trauma, and for those that do it doesn't all look and feel the same for everyone, but one thing it definitely does for everyone is causes you to change whether that be in a good way or unfortunately bad. We share some of our experiences, thoughts, and opinions of how we got through ours and if it has affected those around us, shifted our perspectives, and also if we project or unconsciously operate from the trauma without even realizing it. This is just one of many conversations that we'll be having, we hope our sharing also helps you and encourages you to also share as well.

Would you date a person who parents a child that is not there's?  Do you date according to how lonely you are? Does a lot of your decision-making depend on your family's opinions? In today's episode, we discuss these topics along with a few more, uncovering different perspectives and even raising concerns about just how scary dating can be if we're not honest with ourselves about what we can handle and what we can't. This conversation unlocks some emotions and realities that many face today, and this is only the beginning of many conversations to come just like this.

In today's episode, we come up with some interesting perspectives when it comes to how and when a man should ask a woman on a date. Is it levels to this dating game, or is it a one size fits all kind of approach. We often find ourselves settling in one sense and in another not giving a chance to someone based on either our standards, others' opinions, fear, or sometimes loneliness among many other things. We discuss these topics along with scenarios like being asked out on a date to a place that one might consider beneath them or too bougie, whether men should chase women or not, and give some advice on different ways to approach dating.

In today's episode, we discuss how our network affects the way we move. More times than not our network includes family and friends, but have we ever evaluated if the people in our network would be there for us in our time of need? Not only financially, but spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and even when it comes to us relocating to another city or state, can we depend on our network to be a resource in our daily life? Not that we're looking for handouts but more so in the sense that people need people and what better people to have than, those closest to us if we can't rely on them then our networks need a big-time makeover. We also discuss the takeover of AI and how the US dollar is quickly losing its value and how now more than ever group economics should be a huge focus in families and friend groups alike.

In a world where trends, unorthodox parenting, bold face lying and false self perception is the new normal, the lack of common sense and ethics are at an all time high. In today's episode, we discuss Ja Morant, the corny guy kids today vs back in the day and do women answer the door half naked, especially while in relationships. Some say common sense is inherited, some say its taught but now days it just seems like it's a choice or an accessory that's occasionally worn, either way let's make common sense common again!

In today's episode, we sit down with Tone Robinson of DTS Property management and talk about real estate, investing, generational wealth and life hacks that we can use on a daily basis not only in our lives but also for those who have children. If you've ever wondered how to break into the real estate industry or need to know where to put that extra money that you have coming in so that it's working for you and growing, it's all wrapped up in this conversation. We threw real-life scenarios and situations out there so that common misconceptions could be addressed as well as questions that go unasked or unanswered can be talked about in detail so that we not only have a better understanding but also know how to apply the information and strategies that are talked about. This episode is about educating ourselves and truly leveling up no matter where you're at financially there are moves to be made.

In today's episode, we discuss a hot topic surrounding an interview that has gone viral about Grant Cardone's comments about how he targets the african american community and if he will face backlash let alone apologize. We also get into a discussion about the heavy use of the N word and if the use of it will ever come to an end along with many other terms given to african americans. We share stories about our experiences as well as take a look into a little bit of our family's history. Will the next generation mimic the behaviors of generations past or will they not only think more progressively and inclusively but act it out and take a stand against the many wrongs that have been written throughout history.

This week we got all the fellas together for a guys night and decided to do a podcast and share with the world some of the things we talk about when we're all together. We discuss masculine women, cheating, manhood and things we had to do and even go through to make us who we are today. We give you a great look into the mindset of men that will surely keep you intrigued, and this is the first of many open, honest, and transparent conversations that we will have as it is important to see men come together, have a good time as well as share and build off of one another.

There are many things that are deciding factors when it comes to pursuing someone or skipping right past them when you start intentionally dating, especially when you're dating to marry. Often times red flags are ignored due to lust, status, attention, or fear of missing out, and important questions either go unanswered or are never even asked until you're in too deep. In Today's episode, we discuss one of the scary topics, Credit, and why is it scary you may wonder. Well, because maybe you're afraid to offend, maybe yours isn't up to par, maybe you're afraid of the answer you might get, maybe you think you're overstepping, or in some cases, you just don't really care because that's not a deciding factor for you. In any case, this is a topic that we should make normal in order to know where our potential spouse stands when making financial decisions and if that's something you can handle and live with. We get into scenarios, and personal experiences and share different perspectives on the topic of credit and how it does and/or does not affect how we would proceed with a potential mate.

This month we celebrate 2things, Valentines day and Black History month and in today's episode we have a guest couple who will celebrate their 27th wedding anniversary!! It was only right that we start the month off celebrating black love and what better way to learn from the good parts of  love but to  also hear about the ugly side of it as well. In today's society it's common to hear about the hardships, downfalls, struggles and even sometimes craziness after the relationship has ended, but today we get to hear the good, the bad and the ugly of a relationship and how these things  were navigated and brought the 2 closer together and deeper in love, understanding and commitment. 

In today's bonus episode we discuss the very sad unfortunate events that led to the death of Tyre Nichols.  We often times don't see justice and when we  do it's usually not done  so swiftly and in the manner  in which it happened this time. This time we seen it happen how we always thought it should and thats where we now understand  that the system does indeed  work, it just works whenever it fits a certain demographic, culture and narrative. We have a brief discussion with our thoughts about this along with a few other related stories. More discussions should be in  fact had and  heard. 

In today's episode, we jump around on a  few topics to get a few different perspectives, challenge one another as well as ourselves and, to  test and see if we'll be honest about that thing called jealousy. Is there a such thing as healthy jealousy, and when does that go too far? Can love truly have one definition or is it open to interpretation by those who choose to accept and dwell in it? When was the last time you thought about the level of commitment to yourself and, have you honored that commitment?  Today we discuss these topics from different points of views.