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The Dapper Team returns after some quiet time to reflect on what has been going on in the world and more specifically the United States. It is clear that there is a lack of true leadership. What does it take to be a leader? Where are the Martin Luther King Jr.'s of our generation? Tune in for a poignant and essential conversation that we all need to be having.   Check out the full show notes on DapperEffects.com

The Dapper Team analyzes the thoughts and concepts behind products that promote make-up for men. A deep dive into Alex Rodriguez's product line may reveal to one that the "lines" are certainly blurred. Where is that line drawn today? Is there a "line"?   Check out the full show notes on DapperEffects.com 

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Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike are joined by a special guest today!  Tune in as the team takes a deep dive on the power of words and how the era of keyboard warriors and internet banter can be poisonous to your mind if you're not careful. Stick around till the end for some age old life lessons that are truly powerful to help you transcend in today's advanced world.Today's show is sponsored by Duke Cannon

Well wishes from the Dapper Effects Team!What effect does the pandemic quarantines have on men?Many men measure their manhood by what they can provide and being locked down candiminish his opportunity to do that, resulting in this feeling of a lowered self-worth.What is the importance of men feeling ‘like a man’ in their relationships?Men want to be appreciated as a man from the women in their lives.Men want to “feel comfortable in their own skins.”It is important for men to feel like he is PURPOSEFUL.Whether he works a 9-5 or stays at home and cooks while facilitating the kid’s remote learning, every man needs to be celebrated for his energy and efforts.When a man doesn’t feel like man in his relationship, when he feels like he doesn’t matter; itcan have negative effects in other areas of his life as well. Feeling emasculated can lead to two, mature, grown-ass men; almost fighting over who gets the front seat.How you ask? TUNE IN! Every man wants to feel like they MATTER and LIVE with CONFIDENCE and SWAGGER!

On this week's Dapper Dossier file, we highlight an inspiring woman who has made her mark in the braiding space of the barbering industry. From losing her father at 15 after immigrating to the United States from Chile, to getting after it and starting work to make a living, Natalie is no stranger to what it means to put in sweat equity. Today? She focuses on being authentic, enjoying work every day and honing her craft. How was 2020 for Nataly? Her business doubled during the quarantine, and we believe that is just a true testament to her artistry and outright positive outlook on life. Whether it's the culture of Miami, the art of braiding and what it takes to make it in this industry, we talk about it all. From famous artists to the MLB and NBA, Nataly's hard work has brought her some amazing opportunities and now she looks forward to 2021 and to future endeavors to teach others what she knows. Join us for some great conversation and Miami Heat. Find her on IG @NatalyStyles1  Expect a one-on-one experience with Nataly in the chair and be sure to bring your best braid request so that she can do what she does best. Join us each week for a new file of the Dossier as well as every Friday for a Dapper Debrief with Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet. As always,Stay Positive - Stay Productive - Stay Dapper & Stay Tuned.

On this week's Dapper Dossier file, we highlight a young and inspiring barber who has been working diligently at his craft for over 10 years. Building upon skills from childhood over the love of artwork, Jeff Quispe shares some of “behind the scenes” behind the fades as well as some his favorite past times. You can’t help to be inspired by Jeff’s hustle, down to earth philosophy and love for the art of barbering. 4 times licensed to create and 2 times behind the chair nominations, Jeff is a true example of what it means to be an artist in 2020. Find him on IG @JeffTheBarber Expect a one-on-one experience with Jeff in the chair and be sure to bring your best fade request so that he can do what he does best. Join us each Monday morning for a new file of the Dossier as well as every Friday for a Dapper Debrief with Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet. As always,Stay Positive - Stay Productive - Stay Dapper & Stay Tuned.

The Dapper Effects Live Podcast is now officially named The Dapper Dossier! Join us each week where we highlight a professional in the grooming industry to talk about their come up, their values and their purpose of why they do what they do. Each week we will be joined by the best in the business to share their stories and have a few laughs as well. In this week's dossier file, we dive into the story of the owner of Red Horse Hair Studio, Joel Sharp. Also known as @JoelTheHairSurgeon, you'll hear how Joel has used his experiences in life, the military, higher education and ultimately his curiosity in the world to build a positive environment and experience for every single patron that sits down for a cut at his studio. Expect a welcome inclusive environment for men and women at Red Horse when you come in for a cut or conversation.  On the show we touch on all things barbering as well as some current events.Joel will have you fired up after listening to his story. Join us each Monday morning for a new file of the Dossier as well as every Friday for a Dapper Debrief with Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet. As always,Stay Positive - Stay Productive - Stay Dapper & Stay Tuned. 

EPISODE INTRODUCTION: Are the days of dressing dapper done? During these tough times, people have less opportunity and/or reason to get dressed up...to get ‘Dap’d Up’.  Is this going to be normal? Dressing in only jeans, sweatpants and shorts? Adhering to social-distancing guidelines have changed our society in ways none of us could imagine, and not being able to go out as much; has had a direct effect on how often we get to dress up and get Dapper. Are the days of dressing dapper done?  On episode 4 Mr. Mike discusses: How the quarantine has affected how men and women dress.The lack of opportunity and/or reasons to dress up.Certain changes in our jobs and/careers have changed how we dress and prepare for our workday.Young people are missing out on a huge milestone by not being able to experience their Prom and graduation.Having masquerade parties may become more common considering people’s want to get dressed up, while also having to adhere to social-distancing guidelines. ie: masksWe at Dapper Effects believe the days of dressing Dapper WILL come back and come strong!   Quotes from the show: “Are the days of dressing dapper done?” “All of us enjoy getting Dap’d -Up from time to time. All of us enjoy stepping out and looking sharp; looking sexy...having that Swag.” “Going to the prom used to be a huge milestone in a young person’s life.” “Man, you’re sharp! You’re looking good. You’re so Dapper!” “The days of being Dapper will be back! And they’ll come back strong.”  Stay tuned for the next Dapper Debrief Podcast! Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION: These 4 long months of self-isolation has been tough on everyone, but in this episode, we discuss how the pandemic has affected men specifically. Although we are in an age where we are discussing and re-defining what it is to be a ‘man’, there are certain aspects of being ‘manly’ that will never change. In this episode, we look at how the lack of earnings and a decrease in access to sports & recreation can have a direct, negative effect on a man’s self-identity and livelihood.    On episode 3 Mr. Mike discusses: How the quarantine makes a man feel emasculating.Men are being diagnosed with COVID-19 and dying at much higher, disproportional rates.Many men define themselves by their jobs, or what they do for a living. How does losing one’s job affect their livelihood?Not being able to go to the barbershop doesn’t just affect our grooming and the way we look, but it also removes one of the main ways in which we engage with our community.How having regular routines is an important aspect of how a man lives his life.How men have adapted to self-isolation and working from home.Not being able to exercise and work out the way you're used to, can affect our moods and well-being.How men are coping and adapting to change.   Quotes from the show: “The responsibility for men out there who choose it,...is to provide.” “Going to the barbershop is one of our (men) favorite pastimes” “Let’s face it. Us men...we need our ‘routines’!” “When our routines get disrupted, it affects our livelihood.” “A lot of us pride ourselves on our physical stature and maintaining a healthy physicality.” “Men are not the best when it comes to dealing with change.” “A lot of us have had to ‘Man-Up!” “Men have done a GREAT job of adapting to this new way of being!”    Stay tuned for the next Dapper Debrief Podcast! Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

Following Your Passion With A Dapper Mindset Join Dr. Tom as he gives his reflections on last week's guest  Brian Basile from Strong Island Styles. Listen in as Dr. Tom reflects on: Brian Basile and the power of following your dreamWhy the "right" opportunity doesn't always look like what you think it does at the momentWhy it's important to get after it every single day "4C" Living We welcome any topic suggestions or show ideas. We here at Dapper Effects would love to feature you, or someone you know who is doing amazing things, and/or making a positive impact. Please comment and join the conversation!Like, follow, share & subscribe. Join the Dapper Community!  LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Strong Island Styles BarbershopFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

Strong Island Styles With Brian Basile Join Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike as they take a deep dive into the superhero origin story of Brian Basile and his barbershop brand Strong Island Styles. Listen in to learn about:Brian's story on how he got started as a barberOrigin of Strong Island StylesReminisce on Long Island CultureWhy Barbering Is Brian's PassionThe importance of STARTING with what you're passionate aboutWe welcome any topic suggestions or show ideas. We here at Dapper Effects would love to feature you, or someone you know who is doing amazing things, and/or making a positive impact. Please comment and join the conversation!Like, follow, share & subscribe. Join the Dapper Community!  LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Strong Island Styles BarbershopFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION: Dapper Effects stands in solidarity with the black community and the families of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, Brianna Taylor, and the many others who have lost their lives due to Police misconduct and unfair, violent, and fatal tactics. Mr. Mike shares from his perspective and experience living as a black man in American society. Call it a movement. Call it a revolution. Whatever we call it...It is undeniably time for a change because these injustices and atrocities have been victimizing the black community for way too long.We stand with those who are tired and have had enough.Dapper effects supports life. Dapper Effects supports fair equity. Dapper Effects supports change. On episode 2 of the Dapper Debrief, Mr. Mike discusses: The injustices black men in America have faced since the countries beginning.Standing in solidarity and supporting peaceful protestsRespecting the right to other’s having their own opinion and honoringEveryone’s RIGHT to self-expression.Growing up fearing the police and law enforcement.The long, overdue need for this conversation and movement in the United States.The role social media has played in perpetuating this conversation.A call to REAL systematic and societal change, starting with our mindset and what we choose we want this county to stand for. Quotes from the show: “We stand with the families of Ahmaud Arbery and Brianna Taylor”“The treatment of black men in this American society is 100% unjust, unequal, and inequitable”“The playing field is uneven"“It all goes back to how this county was formed and it’s foundations”“Black Lives Matter!”“It’s time for us to come together and make effective, positive social and system change” Stay tuned for the next Dapper Debrief!  LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION: Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike dive into what's going on with COVID-19 and how it's affecting men right now. Not to downplay in any way the pain that has been caused by the lives lost from COVID-19, with that acknowledged, there's no denying the pain that COVID-19 has also caused in uprooting so many lives. Join us for some good conversation and tune in for another episode of the Dapper Debrief that will be dropping tomorrow morning.  On episode 14 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss: The power of connection“COVID19 Is Emasculating!” - What?Has purpose been uprooted?Did you hear episode 1 of The Dapper Debrief?Small business owners out there struggling? We Hear You.Reflections on the power of choice and how to tackle your daily choices "post-COVID-19"Taking the news with a grain of salt We welcome any topic suggestions or show ideas.We here at Dapper Effects would love to feature you, or someone you know who is doing amazing things, and/or making a positive impact.Please comment and join the conversation!Like, follow, share & subscribe. Join the Dapper Community! “We cannot control this virus, we cannot control the economy, we cannot control the government. But we can control what we ingest, what we partake of, what we put into and how we grow and develop through these adverse conditions” - Audio Velvet LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Mr. Mike asks the question “why should men be dapper, even during the quarantine. Why should we even care if we are not leaving our houses and people really never see us? We talk about how the temptation to stop caring and to get lazy when it comes to our appearance can be very strong. By taking a deeper look, Mr. Mike breaks down how our mindset is an integral part of being dapper and talks about the benefits of being disciplined and having healthy routines.On episode 1 Mr. Mike discusses:What does it mean to be dapper during the quarantine?What does it mean to be Dapper?Why should you take the time to care about your look during these times?The importance of having healthy routines.Strengthening integrity through fashion.How can we be Dapper while social distancing?How being chivalrous can play a role in proper social distancing?Being charitable.How the shutdown affects our minds and motivation.What will dating look like post-pandemic?The Benefits of physical activity and discipline. Quotes from the show:  “Being Dapper is a mindset...a state of being?”“Being Dapper is about Leadership.”“Integrity is doing the right thing whether someone is around to see it or not."“Putting people first, it is the most dapper thing anyone can do.”“It’s the little things the end making big impacts in our lives.” “We are all essential!” Stay tuned for the next Dapper Debrief!  LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike riff on Dapper Effects Live’s new Podcast spin-off show, titled ‘The Dapper Debrief’ (the first episode drops Saturday) Hosted by Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet. In today's episode, Dr. Tom and Mike muse on life during these strange times that we have found ourselves in and how seemingly "normal" things like morning routines and grooming tactics have been turned on their head.On episode 13 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss:What is the Dapper Debrief?How has the COVID-19 pandemic affected men’s personal grooming routinesWhy the pandemic feed into mediocrityWhy we wear nice clothes and how can they build character during this unprecedented timeHow morning routines important more than ever nowCBS Article: Corona Virus Pandemic Upends Men’s Grooming RoutinesMusing on beard carePutting a spotlight on barbersAre masks going to be a long term addition to our society?How do we:draw the best conclusion?How do we sharpen our perspective?Tap into our inner confidence?The power of brandingWe welcome any topic suggestions or show ideas.We here at Dapper Effects would love to feature you, or someone you know who is doing amazing things, and/or making a positive impact.Please comment and join the conversation!Like, follow, share & subscribe. Join the Dapper Community! A person’s truth is a person’s truth. You can never assume to know why they think a certain thing because they’ve had certain experiences that we haven’t had” - Audio Velvet LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:CBS Article On Men's GroomingFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike introduce Dapper Effects Live’s new Podcast spin-offshow, titled ‘The Dapper Debrief’. Hosted by none other than Mr. Mike a.k.a.Audio Velvet himself; this fun, lighthearted podcast is designed to support ourmission of helping men live with confidence and swagger, by providingstimulating conversation, and combining humor and helpful tips. This fastpaced, short podcast experience will inform, encourage, inspire and motivateyou; and give you a great start to your weekend. On episode 12 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss:The Dapper Debrief, which is a 10-15 minute show airing every Saturday!It is available on ALL of your favorite podcast platforms. Apple Podcasts, Google Play, Stitcher, Spotify, Podbean, etc...The Dapper Debrief will...Discuss Dapper-worthy news and current eventsHighlight dynamic people doing dynamic thingsShare positive, uplifting stories from our diverse, dapper communityFashion and men’s grooming tips and talkHighlight both famous and local ‘Dapper Ambassadors’ Fun, jokes...and mature, respectful ’grown-up’ talk We welcome any topic suggestions or show ideas.We here at Dapper Effects would love to feature you, or someone you know who is doing amazing things, and/or making a positive impact.Please comment and join the conversation! Like, follow, share & subscribe. Join the Dapper Community!  “Dapper Effects is NOT a lifestyle brand. Being Dapper is a part of who you are” - Dr. Tom“There’s nothing wrong with self-promotion. Sometimes you gotta promote yourself!” - Audio Velvet  Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Charlie The Barber Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet as they connect with a man who is on an incredible journey of transformation and has continued down this path even amidst the COVID-19 crisis in our nation. Meet Anthony DiDomenico. A man who has a life long battle with his weight. Tune in to hear him share insights into this powerful journey he's on while he also peeling back the curtain so to speak into his life as a professional comedian. We here at Dapper Effects love Anthony. He has inspired us and we believe he will inspire you too. On episode 11 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss:Anthony’s 22-year journey into comedy and why you should never give up on your dreamWhat does a comedian’s background look like?How Anthony built self-accountability through his most recent calling - The WW Bro PodcastAnthony’s weight watcher’s journey and the 3-year anniversaryWhy we believe Anthony is a true example of what it means to be DapperWhat were some of Anthony’s triggers that led to the weight gainAddictionsHow everything in life that’s worth it is never as simple as “point A to point B”Musing on the fast-food industryWhy the pandemic is all the more reason to eat healthilyControlling what you can controlThe power of gaining control and getting everything “on the inside” rightThe ups and downs of a weightless journeyThe hidden dangers of lying to yourselfThe dapper man’s goalThe importance of finding a support systemWhat is Weight Watchers all about?Importance of taking the time to get educated on your healthWhy comedy is a truly fine example of courageHow are comedians innovating during the COVID-19 shutdown?Why comedians are essentialHow Anthony’s comedy evolved to where it is todayThe man in the mirror poem75Hard program Quote Anthony shared from his dad: “The time is going to go by anyway, what are you going to do with it?”

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet as they delve into a barber's perspective from across the pond. Charlie Baker from Studio NINETY3 in England weighs in on what it means to be a barber, what it takes to succeed, and what he's doing to be successful during this transition the entire world is going through. On episode 10 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss:Putting a spotlight on the barber communityHow has COVID-19 affected the U.K.Charlie’s journey into the barbering worldHow the path led to entrepreneurshipCharlie's thoughts on following passionThe magic behind the barber communityThe social aspect of barberingHow each barbershop has it’s own vibePlans for local businesses to open back up in the U.K.Charlie's thoughts on how the barber community will evolve post COVID-19Charlie shares some thoughts about East Grinstead, the community where he runs his shopBiggest struggle as an entrepreneur Questions from the audience:What do you miss most right now, is it the interaction with your customers or perfecting your craft? or just the grind of building your business as an entrepreneur?

 EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet as they sit back and listen to the journey of Hillary Romeo of Classics Barbershop in St. Louis. Need a break from the negativity? Grab a pair of earbuds, maybe a cup of coffee and listen in on your favorite podcast platform. On episode 09 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss:Introductions - Hillary Romeo from Classics St LouisHow has COVID-19 impacted the Shop Hillary works at and barbers in generalHow important Barbers are to their respective communitiesWhy a lot of barbers were not eligible for the 1st round of COVID-19 PPP fundingWhy house calls for barbers are probably not a good idea right nowFinding opportunities in adversityHillary’s recap on her journey on the #75Hard programWhy everyone should be doing #75Hard, and start todayBuilding a better relationship with your barberWhat is the Covid Barber Fund?What are the criteria for a barber to become a part of the Covid Barber Fund?Dr. Tom & Audio Velvet’s ignorance of Fried RavioliHillary’s thoughts on necessary health precautions upon re-opening “Stay positive, something I really learned through 75 hard, just focus on the good things, everyone is going to come out of this, just stay together as a community and we will get through this” - Hillary Romeo “With failures come life lessons” - Hillary Romeo “do what you gotta do to keep a good headspace. A little distraction is always good but focus is a little better. So have a good balance of both” - Audio Velvet Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Cabin Fever? Dapper Tips To Cure Your Covid-19 Mental Hangover - DE08Classics Barbershop@AndyFrisella#75HardFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom and Mr. Mike AKA Audio Velvet to open your mind to possibility during this difficult time in our nation and our world. While we may not have control of the situation, we all have the ability to make choices every single day on what we are going to do with this time that we have. Whether you're sheltered in completely at home out of work, working from home or your job requires you to go in, you can benefit from stepping up your routine game. We can all benefit from a little re-invention of ourselves every so often. Using this time now where the world feels like it sort of has slowed down is not only a good choice, it's smart. When we come out of this, and we WILL come out of this, your mind will be ready and clear to take on life at full speed again. On episode 08 Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike discuss:Staying positive amidst a crisisHow to stay and feel "essential" when you are told you are "non-essential"Recap on the #75Hard program and why you NEED to do itBuilding and renewing good habitsPositive ways to reconnect with yourself and loved ones while in quarantineTips on reconnecting with your children Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Dapper Effects Blog Post - Dapper Things To Do While Quarantined, Isolated and Shut-in@AndyFrisella#75HardFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom as he muses on his thoughts surrounding this unprecedented time in our world surrounding the COVID-19 outbreak. Now is the time more than ever to take massive action on putting in the internal work so that we ultimately show up better and stronger once we get through this. On episode 07 Dr. Tom discusses:Importance of putting in the workTaking massive action nowWhy we need to stick togetherBeing a beacon of hopeAndy Frisella and his #75Hard programWhy you absolutely should be doing the FREE #75Hard program right now  Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:@AndyFrisella#75HardFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike AKA “Audio Velvet” as they muse on the discussion regarding high performance in life and in the workplace. Are you a high performer? Do you want to be a high performer? Are you curious maybe what the distinctions are? Tune in as Mr. Velvet and Dr. Tom have a light-hearted discussion pulling in some great comments from the live audience on Instagram. On episode 06 we discuss:What does it mean to be high performingHow does being “dapper” relate to being one who is a high performing individualThe work ethic of NFL quarterback Tom BradyCharacteristics of high performing individualsWhy be high performing?One of life’s greatest secrets to happinessHow does a toxic work environment affect high performers? *see article below*Asset vs. CommodityWhy work needs to be value-driven. The power of TRUST in the workplace.Lead by example.       Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Qualities of High Performing People A toxic work culture is forcing high-performing people to quit (Tim Dennings)Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike AKA “Audio Velvet” as they tackle the discussion on the recent G7 summit where 32 fashion companies (like Chanel & Ralph Lauren) announced a signing of the Fashion Pact which is "a non-legally binding agreement to combat greenhouse gasses and emphasize sustainability in the industry". Is it good? Is it too late? Regardless of what side of the fence you're on, it's great to see companies with large bankrolls making positive sustainable decisions. Join us on the discussion as we dive deep on this very positive news. On episode 05 we discuss:The juxtaposition of Sustainable LuxuryThoughts on the G7 summitThoughts on our “responsibility to being green”Where “sustainable responsibility” startsThoughts on why some people chronically litter How the social media explosion has impacted sustainabilityWhere did the practice of “having the woman you’re walking with walk on the inside to safely avoid road traffic”Have we reached the tipping point on the point of no return for sustaining the earth’s natural ecosystem? (22mins in)Consumerism vs CapitalismIs it trendy to be sustainable?Why is it Dapper to be sustainableThe Aura of Dapper “The universe is on the side of justice” - Martin Luther King Statement from one of our Instagram followers: Dapper is Beauty - Jazy'sGirl     Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:GQ Article: How Sustainability Became A Luxury Value - RACHEL TASHJIANFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge 

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Join Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike AKA “Audio Velvet” as they take a digital deep dive on the concept of emotional intelligence. Do you know what it is? Do you practice it? do you work that mental muscle? Today they unpack what it is, why it's so important and why it's an essential element of being Dapper. With a recap on last week's killer episode of the 4C Mantra, today will certainly be an episode you will want to take heavy notes and listen to multiple times. Not to mention, have a few laughs as well. Btw, Mike mentions in the intro, "this is going to be a quick episode" LOL - nope! They ended up going long. Enjoy! SHOW NOTES:What is emotional intelligence?Recap on the 4C mantra we discussed last week: character, courage, chivalry, charityWhy character building is not an overnight processThe parallels of tracking growth for fitness and emotional intelligence/characterThe charisma “video game” analogy (Dr. Tom representing #GeekLife :D)Analyzing the “inside voice”Power of an “emotional oil change” and building up “situational awareness”Self-checking the energy that you put out into the worldThe ripple effect of your emotionsThe difference between a “reactionary thought” and a “response”The self-reflection roadmapTherapy? What? I’m a man!Using emotional intelligence as a weapon of positivityThoughts on working out one’s emotions “You can’t have strength without being courageous.” Mike Pierce“You have to do the internal work before you can be externally awesome” - Mike Pierce“People that live long lives, typically, are well connected with the people around them” - Dr. Tom Question asked to our Instagram followers: How do you personally help clear out the "emotional cobwebs"?     Stay tuned for the next Dapper Effects Podcast! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Dictionary.com definition of Emotional IntelligenceFollow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects LoungeThe Positivity Effect Podcast with Dr. Tom

 EPISODE INTRODUCTION:TodayJoin Dr. Tom & Mr. Mike AKA “Audio Velvet” as they record live from the desert. OR did they record in the matrix? You will never know…;) Today they discuss the values and standards that form the cornerstone of the Dapper Effects brand. SHOW NOTES:Why the values you live your life by hold more weight than your personality when it comes to relating to other peopleCharacterWhy being a gentleman should be the starting pointThe power and importance of integrity“Doing what’s right whether people are watching you or not”Taking inventory of your daily actionHow to build characterCourageDefinition of courage in it’s purest formThe courage to say noAcknowledge/Manage/OvercomeUtilizing courage the right wayInfluence through integrity"can't" vs. "unable"“I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not the one who does not feel afraid, but the one who conquers his fear” - Nelson Mandela“Courage is what it takes to stand up to speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen” - Winston Churchill“Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go” - T.S. ElliotChivalryWhy it needs to be a way of lifeA discussion on common chivalrous actsHow to develop your chivalryOld school chivalrous tactics long forgottenQuestion from Instagram: Do you think James Bond is acceptable to emulate in both professional and chivalrous ways?     Happy post-Memorial Day! - Thank you to all who serve to protect our freedoms LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Today Dr. Tom and Mike AKA "Audio Velvet" take a deep dive into the social phenomenon of The "Mama's Boy" label. Is it positive? Is it negative? Well, that depends really on how you look at it. Is salt bad? If you sprinkle too much on your favorite dish, sure it might make the taste intolerable and it will certainly pose a negative risk to your health. But... just the right amount? Yep... now we're in business. Here at Dapper Effects, we believe in this concept that every woman secretly wants a man with a little "Mama's Boy" in him. We also don't take that phrase lightly because of how much respect and love we hold for all the amazing women out there. We wouldn't be the kind of men we are today without the love of some incredible sacrifices made and love given by our moms. With Mother's day just passing, let this podcast be a homage to all the amazing mothers and mother's to be and mother's who are now gone. We love you, we support you and we certainly have just a little bit of "Mama's Boy" in us to share with the rest of the world. SHOW NOTES:Definition of a "Mama's Boy"Symptoms of a full-blown "Mama's Boy"Signs that you may BE a "Mama's Boy"Benefits of having a little "Mama's Boy" in youWhat if you are a man who never grew up with a mother figure in your lifeThe profound and awesome responsibility of a mother to her sonA beautiful insight on something many find to be negative in today's societyWhy you should be careful with the statement, “mmm, yeah this doesn’t taste the way mama made it” :D Happy post Mother's Day 2019! - Nothing but love for all you awesome mom's out there! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects Lounge

Three years ago, three friends launched what is today known as the brand Dapper Effects set on the mission to help men live with more confidence and swagger. Tom, Mike & Mike quickly realized they had something to share with the world when the three of them just as quickly realized that they shared very similar values on what it means to be a man in today's world. Achieving this lofty goal hasn't always been easy. Our company wasn't one that was backed by millions of dollars from outside investors. In the beginning, all we had was our combined savings and a dream. We started by selling t-shirts from our online store and even crafted our own light box out of cardboard to photograph our products in order to avoid the expense of hiring a professional photographer. These early days of starting our company were no-doubt challenging, but they made us who we are today, and we wouldn't trade them for the world. EPISODE INTRODUCTION:Today is not only a chance to share the inception story of Dapper Effects but to share in the inception of the Dapper Effects podcast. This resource is for the men (and women) out there who associate with what it means to truly be Dapper in a world that seems to have forgotten old school simple values. One such value being Chivalry. Join us now as Mike AKA "Audio Velvet" and Tom AKA "Dr. Tom" take you down memory lane into the not so distant past circa 2015 where they share how and why they started this brand and why they believe it will be relevant for years to come. We appreciate you being here as we know that you too respect the 4C values Dapper Effects: Character, Courage, Charity & Chivalry. SHOW NOTES:The origin story of Dapper EffectsIs Chivalry dead?The power of properly appreciating the things that you’ve earnedConverging on core values and standing strong in the flux of an ever-changing and polarizing worldIs Dapper Effects a “lifestyle” brand?What does it truly mean to be “Dapper”?The power of organizing your EFFECTSThe Dapper mindsetThe evolution of Dapper EffectsSimple ways for a man to level up Happy Mother's Day Eve 2019 - be sure to show some love for the ladies in your life! LINKS MENTIONED IN THE SHOW:Follow Dapper Effects on InstagramFollow Dapper Effects on FacebookJoin the Dapper Effects LoungeThe Dapper Effects Valet TrayThe Positivity Effect Podcast