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You've done the work. You've checked every box. But somehow, promotions pass you by, your ideas go unheard, and less qualified people keep rising faster. Why? Because in today's world, connection beats competence. In this episode, you'll learn why being excellent isn't enough—and how to start building the kind of strategic relationships that actually move careers forward. Our guest is a top relationship strategist who has coached leaders around the world on how to turn their network into a true competitive edge. You'll walk away with practical tools to be remembered, respected, and recommended—without ever feeling fake. If your work isn't speaking for itself, maybe it's time to let the right people do the talking. Connect with Ronen Book a call with Ronen Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
NCHA Hall of Famer and co-host Jesse Lennox, aka "The Louis Vuitton Vaquero" is back on the show with cutting horse legend Kenny Platt. With over $4 million in lifetime earnings and an NCHA Futurity win under his belt, Kenny shares the highs and lows of his career, from his mental toughness in the show pen to the life-changing advice that shaped his journey. Dive into raw, unfiltered stories of overcoming setbacks, the art of training great horses, and the importance of gratitude in sustaining success. Kenny reflects on his breakthrough moments, the horses that defined his career, and his vision for the future of cutting as a spectator sport. Recorded at Kimes Ranch in Fort Worth during the Summer Spectacular, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and heart for horse enthusiasts and anyone chasing their passion. Sponsored by Kimes Ranch and Kerry Kelly Bits and Spurs. 00:00 The Best Career Advice 03:58 Consistency in Winning 09:58 The Importance of Family and Roots 15:48 Business and Financial Management 20:02 Gratitude in Winning 26:11 Preparing for Competition 29:09 Mindset on Show Day 30:26 Navigating Challenges in Cutting Competitions 33:02 Understanding Cow Selection and Strategy 34:59 The Art of Coaching and Developing Feel 37:09 Learning Through Experience and Practice 39:52 Breakthrough Moments in Training and Showing 46:07 The Journey to Becoming a Professional Trainer 50:14 Finding Confidence in Cutting Competitions 58:06 Reflections on Winning and Expectations 01:03:32 The Importance of Showing and Timing 01:05:05 Advice: The Good and the Bad 01:06:48 Lessons from Failure and Success 01:08:43 First Fraternity Experience and Its Impact 01:14:38 Favorite Failures and Learning from Mistakes 01:16:31 What Separates Great Horses from Good Ones 01:19:05 The Nature of Horses: Personality and Drive 01:20:00 Preparing for The American Performance Horseman 01:25:40 Goals for the Derby and Competitive Mindset 01:27:34 Future of the NCHA and Potential Improvements 01:28:23 Opportunities for Young Trainers 01:29:20 Enhancing Event Prestige 01:30:46 Making Cutting More Spectator-Friendly 01:31:54 The Role of Jay and Industry Improvements 01:33:32 The Future of Cutting Competitions 01:35:16 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal Insights 01:46:09 Gratitude and Perspective on Life
What if everything you believe about homelessness is wrong? In this eye-opening episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Beth Silverman, co-founder of the Lotus Campaign, to reveal the hidden economic drivers behind America's housing crisis — and why traditional charity models often do more harm than good. Discover how Beth has housed over 430 people at less than $1,000 each by building radical partnerships with landlords, nonprofits, and governments. Learn how to overcome resistance, align competing interests, and persuade private sector players to solve public problems. If you're ready to ditch the myths and discover real solutions, this episode is for you. lotuscampaign.org Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
This sermon describes how Christians can find unwavering assurance and confidence in their salvation, as explored in 1 John 3:19-24. It outlines how genuine love for others, faith in Jesus, and the sealing work of the Holy Spirit provide a rock-solid foundation, even when our hearts condemn us. The sermon explains how to trust God's perfect knowledge over personal feelings and outlines the freedom and confident prayer that comes from abiding in Christ.
Narcissists don't negotiate—they manipulate. In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian interviews attorney and bestselling author Rebecca Zung to break down how narcissists think—and how to outsmart them in any negotiation. You'll learn how to recognize narcissistic behavior, set strong boundaries, and protect yourself from manipulation. Rebecca shares her powerful S.L.A.Y. Method, designed to help you negotiate with high-conflict, toxic personalities at work, in relationships, and beyond. Whether you're navigating divorce, workplace conflict, or family drama, this episode offers practical tools to handle narcissists with confidence, clarity, and control. If you've ever felt powerless with a toxic person, this is your roadmap to take your power back. Follow Rebecca on LinkedIn Rebecca's website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Stephanie Rousselle welcomes back author and speaker Katie Reid. They dive into practical faith lessons rooted in Katie's Bible study, God, What Do I Do?, which explores the first five chapters of Judges—a book that surprisingly offers deep insights for navigating life's uncertainties. Transitions—graduations, moves, empty nesting—often prompt us to ask, “God, what do I do?” Katie Reid begins with the importance of remembering God's past faithfulness. Just as God's people in Scripture set up literal memorial stones to help future generations recall His mighty works, we're called to do the same in our own way. When facing the unknown, look back: Has God ever provided when you couldn't see the way forward? Remembering builds faith for the present and the future. Katie offers a practical tip: Share stories of God's provision with your family or community. This strengthens everyone's faith and creates a culture of expectation for God's continued faithfulness. A common misconception is that God's rules are restrictive. However, the Book of Judges and Katie's personal example remind us that God's guidance is meant for our protection and ultimate freedom. Just as parents warn children out of love, God sets boundaries to spare us unnecessary pain and lead us to fuller life. Katie invites us: Consider a time you resisted God's leading, only to discover later that His way was truly for your good. In Judges 1, the Israelites start out strong in obeying God, but falter when they encounter intimidating obstacles (“iron chariots”). Katie shares from her own experience—facing a daunting move to Florida without knowing all the details—that sometimes God asks us to walk forward in faith before providing the full picture. Partial obedience or giving in to intimidation can rob us of experiencing God's best. Katie suggests, Ask yourself: What are your “iron chariots”—those fears or obstacles tempting you to stop short? Where might God be inviting you to complete, not just partial, obedience? Prayer is our lifeline, especially in confusing times. The Israelites often forgot to inquire of the Lord, leading to trouble. Katie urges that “SOS prayers” (“God, help!”) are not only acceptable, but powerful. Lean into God honestly—He delights in our dependence, not our performance. So, in moments of overwhelm, pause and simply pray. No fancy words needed. Dependence is what God desires. Both obedience and disobedience set ripples in motion for generations. Testifying—sharing what God has done—points others to His ongoing goodness. Judges 5 models this with a “testimony song,” celebrating God's victories. Here's an idea: Write down or verbally share a recent “God moment” with a friend or family member. The Book of Judges isn't just a cautionary tale; it's an invitation to deeper trust and practical obedience. Remember what God has done, trust His commands, move forward in faith—even without all the answers—and don't be afraid to cry out honestly in prayer. Celebrate small wins, and share what God is doing. This is how uncertain times become seasons of spiritual growth and fresh clarity. Throughout the study, Katie invites us to apply these lessons in our transitions, decisions, and daily walk, trusting that God leads, remembers, and is always faithful. Stephanie mentions the Gospel Spice course “In the Footsteps of Jesus” which take you right into First-Century Israel to experience Jesus like never before. More here: https://www.gospelspice.com/footsteps - make sure to sign up to receive the first lesson for free! MORE ABOUT KATIE REID Katie M. Reid is a Bible teacher, author, and podcaster. Trained in education, Katie teaches around her kitchen table, in the classroom, and around the country. She cohosts The Martha + Mary Show and runs the Martha + Mary Show Sisterhood group on Facebook. Katie is a pastor's wife and worship leader. Following Jesus, marrying her husband, and being a mom to five are the best decisions she's made. Find Katie at http://katiemreid.com/ MORE ABOUT THE BIBLE STUDY “GOD, WHAT DO I DO?” Uncertainty about the future--even the very next step--can keep you from making important decisions and cause you to second-guess every decision you do make. You may feel pressured by others to act before you're ready. You just want to be sure that each choice is the right one. But how do you know? And what if you're wrong? Drawing from the story of the Israelites during the time of Deborah and other early judges, Bible teacher Katie M. Reid shows you how to move forward in times of transition and trial when you don't know what to do and God's voice seems silent. Through timeless truths mined from Scripture, personal stories, and accessible study questions, you'll learn six simple guiding principles to help you make good decisions with confidence and clear-headed focus. As you journey through this study, you'll find a sense of peace in decision-making you never thought possible--even when the stakes are high and life feels overwhelming. You seek to know God more in Christ through every aspect of your life. Keeping our gaze fixed on Christ is essential as we go through each day, but it is not easy! Have you ever desired to keep Jesus at the center of your life, but busyness, hardships and afflictions made you forget how to do that? Have you ever wished you could grow closer to Christ through it all? You are not alone. God is with you, and Gospel Spice exists to support you. Everything here aims to invite you towards deeper intimacy with God, through Christ-centered, Scriptural ways. Take the next step today! 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How would your life change if you were more confident? If you're tired of playing small, there's no better time than now to step into the fullness of who you are. True confidence doesn't happen overnight. It's difficult to believe the best about yourself when you've lived most of your life feeling less [...]
What if you could detect a lie without asking a single question? In this episode, we sit down with John R. "Jack" Schafer, a former FBI behavioral analyst and author of The Like Switch, to uncover the elite tools used by the FBI to detect deception—tools you can use in your everyday life. From the subtle power of elicitation to the science behind the word “well,” Dr. Schafer reveals how small signals can expose big lies. You'll learn how to read nonverbal cues, handle omissions, and disarm deception without damaging the relationship. Whether you're negotiating a deal, interviewing a candidate, or just navigating a tough conversation, this episode will change the way you listen, forever. Connect with John R. "Jack" Schafer Buy Now: The Truth Detector: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide for Getting People to Reveal the Truth (The Like Switch Series Book 2) Buy Now: The Like Switch: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Influencing, Attracting, and Winning People Over (1) (The Like Switch Series) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Think you're in control of what you're saying? Think again. Before you utter a single word, elite negotiators are already reading you — through your posture, your gestures, your tone, your tension. In this episode, Kwame sits down with The Master Negotiator Greg Williams, one of the world's top experts in body language, to reveal the invisible signals that shape the outcome of every negotiation. You'll learn how to spot the hidden meaning behind someone's words, how to time your own message for maximum impact, and how to protect yourself when someone tries to use your own body against you. If you're not reading these signs, you're negotiating blind. Connect with Greg Williams Follow Greg on LinkedIn https://www.themasternegotiator.com/ Free Negotiation Blog by Greg Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the key to changing someone's mind isn't speaking louder—but listening deeper? Buy the Book: Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends and Foes - by Emily Kasriel In this episode, Kwame sits down with award-winning BBC journalist and executive coach Emily Kasriel, whose revolutionary eight-step framework for deep listening has trained over 1,000 leaders in 119 countries—from IBM executives to British army officers. Together, they dive into the uncomfortable truth: most of us think we're listening... but we're actually just waiting to speak. You'll learn: Why listening doesn't mean agreement—and how this single idea can transform conflict How to disarm defensiveness with one powerful question The neuroscience behind why we shut down during disagreement How deep listening can unlock collaboration, connection, and even persuasion Whether you're dealing with workplace tension, a heated argument at home, or polarized conversations in your community—this episode shows you how to transform pressure into presence, and resistance into real connection. Because the most persuasive people aren't always the ones who speak best… they're the ones who listen like it matters. Connect with Emily www.emilykasriel.com Buy the Book: Deep Listening: Transform Your Relationships with Family, Friends and Foes - by Emily Kasriel Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Is vulnerability at work a strength… or a trap? In this eye-opening conversation, best-selling author and leadership expert Jacob Morgan challenges the modern myth of vulnerability in the workplace. Together with Kwame Christian, they unpack the difference between being vulnerable and leading with vulnerability—showing how one can build trust and the other can quietly ruin your credibility. Jacob shares the hard truths he uncovered after interviewing 100 CEOs and surveying over 14,000 employees, and reveals how vulnerability—when paired with competence—can become your most powerful leadership and negotiation tool. You'll learn: Why vulnerability without action can backfire The surprising psychology behind how people receive vulnerability A real-life story of how grief in the middle of a negotiation changed the outcome A simple formula to balance transparency and authority in high-stakes conversations This is not about being soft. It's about being smart. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What is trust, really? In this special LinkedIn Live edition of Negotiate Anything, Kwame Christian breaks down the psychology behind trust—and why it's so easy to lose but so hard to rebuild. Drawing on research, real-life examples, and audience questions, Kwame explores how trust is more than a strategy—it's a feeling, a positive bias, and a fragile emotional bank account. You'll learn: Why respect, empathy, and safety are the foundations of trust What it means to make “deposits” into a relationship How to rebuild trust after a mistake—or an ethical breach What to do when you're dealing with someone who doesn't trust anyone And how to protect yourself from the dark side of trust Whether you're leading a team, managing clients, or repairing a broken relationship, this episode gives you the practical tools and mindset shifts to build deeper, more resilient trust—one drop at a time Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most conversations fail before they even begin—because nobody sets the rules. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Lewis VanLandingham from Sandler Training to uncover the hidden dynamics behind unmet expectations. Whether you're in sales, leadership, or just trying to have better conversations in life, this episode reveals why clarity up front changes everything. You'll learn how to set clear agreements before the meeting even starts, how to create trust by giving people permission to say no, and how to take the pressure out of every interaction. From prospect meetings to personal relationships, this is the negotiation skill you didn't know you needed. What Will Be Covered The concept and importance of setting expectations in negotiations The role of upfront contracts in sales processes Practical applications of setting expectations in various aspects of life, including sales, meetings, and personal relationships Follow Lewis on LinkedIn goblueriver.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You've been there—armed with facts, logic, and the truth. And still, they shut down. They argue. They walk away. Why? In this episode, Kwame Christian speaks with Carlos Alvarenga, a persuasion expert who spent years decoding what Aristotle really meant when he said we're persuaded by character, logic, and emotion. But this isn't just theory. Carlos unveils a revolutionary way of understanding persuasion—as a kind of chemistry—with 21 elements you can actually use. You'll learn why most people rely too heavily on logic, why that fails, and what to do instead if you want people to actually listen, believe, and say yes. If you've ever felt frustrated that no one listens—this episode will change how you communicate forever. Connect with Carlos Follow Carlos on LinkedIn Read Carlos' new book: The Rules of Persuasion: How the World's Greatest Communicators Convince, Inspire, Lead—and, Sometimes, Deceive https://www.carlosalvarenga.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Brian Gottlieb and Kwame Christian delve into the seamless integration of business strategy with community impact through innovative initiatives like "Windows for a Cause" and "Baths for the Brave." They explore how aligning a company's mission with genuine employee engagement fosters intrinsic motivation, resulting in improved productivity and job satisfaction. Brian discusses the pivotal role of authentic business culture in negotiating successful exits and business growth, emphasizing the importance of empowering employees to think like owners. This episode is packed with actionable insights for leaders seeking to blend financial success with meaningful purpose. What You'll Hear: Real-life examples of business programs that effectively merge community support with company goals. The importance of authentic culture in negotiations and business exits. Practical tips on empowering employees and instilling a sense of ownership. Connect with Brian Follow Brian on LinkedIn Buy Now The Book: Beyond the Hammer: A Fresh Approach to Leadership, Culture, and Building High Performance Teams. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most salespeople know how to pitch. Fewer know how to handle the moment everything shifts. In this episode, sales expert Lance Tyson joins Kwame Christian to reveal the exact skill that transforms average closers into elite negotiators. You'll learn: – How to recognize the hidden moment when a sale becomes a negotiation – Why objections aren't problems—they're opportunities – The deadly mistake most salespeople make when pressure shows up – And how to build guardrails that protect your profit without killing the deal If you've ever lost a deal you thought you had, this episode will show you why—and how to fix it. Connect with Lance Tyson Buy the Book: The Human Sales Factor By Lance Tyson Follo Lance on LinkeIn Tyson Group Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
You've been told to "network" to get ahead. But what if that's actually holding you back? In this episode, Andy Lopata joins Kwame to challenge everything we think we know about networking. Discover why most professionals waste time with tactics instead of strategy—and how real business success is built on intentional, strategic relationships that nobody taught you to build. Connect with Andy andylopata.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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What does it take to genuinely connect across cultures, identities, and worldviews? In this episode, we sit down with my friend Melisande Kingchatchaval Schifter to unpack the mindset and skillset behind powerful human connection. Having lived on multiple continents, worked across sectors, and spoken several languages, Melly brings a rare global lens to the art—and strategy—of bridging difference. We explore the essential skills behind meaningful connection—trust, curiosity, and communication—and how they can be cultivated by anyone. Melly shares insights from boardrooms to grassroots movements, showing how cultural fluency and emotional intelligence can drive collaboration and results. Melly is an executive leader with a global track record in shaping inclusive corporate strategies, international policies, and social impact initiatives. Her career spans Fortune 500 companies, global nonprofits, and international organizations like the World Economic Forum. She's known for turning complex social challenges into actionable strategies that strengthen both organizational performance and societal impact. Whether you're navigating a multicultural workplace or simply looking to build stronger, more authentic relationships, this episode offers practical insights and inspiration to help you connect with greater clarity, empathy, and confidence. Connect with Melly https://www.linkedin.com/in/melisandekingchatchavalschifter/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What does it take to genuinely connect across cultures, identities, and worldviews? In this episode, we sit down with my friend Melisande Kingchatchaval Schifter to unpack the mindset and skillset behind powerful human connection. Having lived on multiple continents, worked across sectors, and spoken several languages, Melly brings a rare global lens to the art—and strategy—of bridging difference. We explore the essential skills behind meaningful connection—trust, curiosity, and communication—and how they can be cultivated by anyone. Melly shares insights from boardrooms to grassroots movements, showing how cultural fluency and emotional intelligence can drive collaboration and results. Melly is an executive leader with a global track record in shaping inclusive corporate strategies, international policies, and social impact initiatives. Her career spans Fortune 500 companies, global nonprofits, and international organizations like the World Economic Forum. She's known for turning complex social challenges into actionable strategies that strengthen both organizational performance and societal impact. Whether you're navigating a multicultural workplace or simply looking to build stronger, more authentic relationships, this episode offers practical insights and inspiration to help you connect with greater clarity, empathy, and confidence. Connect with Melly https://www.linkedin.com/in/melisandekingchatchavalschifter/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Join me for an insightful LinkedIn Live session where we delve into the art of negotiating with kids and teens. Ever wondered how negotiation principles apply to children? Is it even feasible to negotiate with a teenager? We'll be addressing all these questions and more. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Join me for an insightful LinkedIn Live session where we delve into the art of negotiating with kids and teens. Ever wondered how negotiation principles apply to children? Is it even feasible to negotiate with a teenager? We'll be addressing all these questions and more. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Your paycheck isn't just a number — it's a reflection of what you believe you deserve. But most of us were never taught how to ask for more. In this raw and practical episode, LinkedIn journalist and Gen Z voice Gianna Prudente joins Kwame Christian to expose the emotional barriers that keep people — especially young professionals — from negotiating their worth. You'll learn how to reframe the conversation, build your career story, and walk into negotiations with confidence, even if you're scared. If you've ever felt like you should just be "grateful" to have a job, this episode will help you see the cost of staying silent — and give you the tools to speak up. Let's talk Offline Podcast Follow Giana Prudente on LinkedIn Let's Talk Offline Podcast Gianna's weekly newsletter: https://linkedin.com/letstalkoffline. Gianna (http://linkedin.com/in/giannaprudente) and Jamé (http://linkedin.com/in/jamejackson) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Your paycheck isn't just a number — it's a reflection of what you believe you deserve. But most of us were never taught how to ask for more. In this raw and practical episode, LinkedIn journalist and Gen Z voice Gianna Prudente joins Kwame Christian to expose the emotional barriers that keep people — especially young professionals — from negotiating their worth. You'll learn how to reframe the conversation, build your career story, and walk into negotiations with confidence, even if you're scared. If you've ever felt like you should just be "grateful" to have a job, this episode will help you see the cost of staying silent — and give you the tools to speak up. Let's talk Offline Podcast Follow Giana Prudente on LinkedIn Let's Talk Offline Podcast Gianna's weekly newsletter: https://linkedin.com/letstalkoffline. Gianna (http://linkedin.com/in/giannaprudente) and Jamé (http://linkedin.com/in/jamejackson) Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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They won't listen. They won't budge. And every argument feels like running into a wall. Sound familiar? In this episode, Kwame Christian breaks down exactly how to deal with stubborn people in negotiation—without losing your cool or wasting your time. You'll learn why trying to “change” them never works, how your own ego might be making things worse, and the smarter strategies that actually move the conversation forward. Whether you're facing a tough client, a rigid boss, or just someone who refuses to compromise, this episode gives you the tools to outsmart—not outshout—them. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
They won't listen. They won't budge. And every argument feels like running into a wall. Sound familiar? In this episode, Kwame Christian breaks down exactly how to deal with stubborn people in negotiation—without losing your cool or wasting your time. You'll learn why trying to “change” them never works, how your own ego might be making things worse, and the smarter strategies that actually move the conversation forward. Whether you're facing a tough client, a rigid boss, or just someone who refuses to compromise, this episode gives you the tools to outsmart—not outshout—them. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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What if the real reason people overlook you has nothing to do with your skills—and everything to do with how you show up? In this powerful episode, Kwame sits down with Jamé Jackson—storyteller, actor, fashion journalist, and LinkedIn's resident voice for creatives—to uncover the brutal truth about presence, authenticity, and why faking confidence never works. Jamé shares how she went from feeling invisible to building a brand that speaks volumes before she says a word. From ancient Greek to fashion runways to corporate boardrooms, she's mastered the art of negotiating without pretending to be someone else. If you've ever felt like you're playing small, struggling to be taken seriously, or unsure how to show up as the real you in high-stakes rooms—this episode will change the game. Because before anyone buys into your ideas, they have to buy into you. Connect with Jamé Do you have any burning questions about work? We want to hear them! You can email us your questions at letstalkoffline@linkedin.com. Let's Talk Offline Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
What if the real reason people overlook you has nothing to do with your skills—and everything to do with how you show up? In this powerful episode, Kwame sits down with Jamé Jackson—storyteller, actor, fashion journalist, and LinkedIn's resident voice for creatives—to uncover the brutal truth about presence, authenticity, and why faking confidence never works. Jamé shares how she went from feeling invisible to building a brand that speaks volumes before she says a word. From ancient Greek to fashion runways to corporate boardrooms, she's mastered the art of negotiating without pretending to be someone else. If you've ever felt like you're playing small, struggling to be taken seriously, or unsure how to show up as the real you in high-stakes rooms—this episode will change the game. Because before anyone buys into your ideas, they have to buy into you. Connect with Jamé Do you have any burning questions about work? We want to hear them! You can email us your questions at letstalkoffline@linkedin.com. Let's Talk Offline Podcast Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Most negotiation failures start before the conversation even begins In this episode, Kwame sits down with Seth Freeman — NYU and Columbia professor, corporate lawyer, and author of 15 Tools to Turn the Tide — to reveal the single most practical negotiation tool you've probably never heard of: the TTT Grid. Together, they break down: Why elite negotiators rely on checklists (and why you should too) How MasterCard's top dealmakers use this 4-column framework The “Golden Minute” technique that instantly lowers tension A 10-letter mnemonic that saved a dentist, a Congress bill, and a merger You'll walk away with plug-and-play strategies that work in the real world — whether you're leading a high-stakes deal or just trying to avoid getting steamrolled. No fluff, no theory dumps — just powerful tools that win. Follow Seth Freeman on LinkedIn Buy Now Seth's Book: 15 Tools to Turn the Tide: A Step-by-Step Playbook for Empowered Negotiating Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Most negotiation failures start before the conversation even begins In this episode, Kwame sits down with Seth Freeman — NYU and Columbia professor, corporate lawyer, and author of 15 Tools to Turn the Tide — to reveal the single most practical negotiation tool you've probably never heard of: the TTT Grid. Together, they break down: Why elite negotiators rely on checklists (and why you should too) How MasterCard's top dealmakers use this 4-column framework The “Golden Minute” technique that instantly lowers tension A 10-letter mnemonic that saved a dentist, a Congress bill, and a merger You'll walk away with plug-and-play strategies that work in the real world — whether you're leading a high-stakes deal or just trying to avoid getting steamrolled. No fluff, no theory dumps — just powerful tools that win. Follow Seth Freeman on LinkedIn Buy Now Seth's Book: 15 Tools to Turn the Tide: A Step-by-Step Playbook for Empowered Negotiating Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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You're not being ignored because your ideas are bad — you're being ignored because your delivery is forgettable. Buy the book: Speak, Memorably: The Art of Captivating an Audience by Bill McGowan In this episode, Emmy-winning journalist and communication coach Bill McGowan joins Kwame Christian to expose the hidden mistakes even smart professionals make when they speak. From meetings to pitches, presentations to interviews, you're probably missing key moments to influence — and you don't even realize it. You'll learn: Why “winging it” is sabotaging your credibility The 3 parts of a message your audience always remembers How to craft punchy openings, unforgettable closings, and sticky metaphors What “theftosterone” is — and how to protect your ideas from being stolen The truth about authenticity (and why faking it isn't always bad) Whether you're a leader, speaker, or content creator, this episode will sharpen the way you speak — forever. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Negotiate Anything: Negotiation | Persuasion | Influence | Sales | Leadership | Conflict Management
That's the rule Sharmin Ali lives by — even when it almost killed her. Buy now the book Bitch, Stop! Please . . . : An Entrepreneur's Journey of Innovation, from Chaos to Clarity by Sharmin Ali In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Sharmin reveals what it takes to walk away from Google, build two multi-million dollar companies across continents, and face the brutal cost of ambition. We go deep into the art of negotiating exits, building trust from scratch, and why most people fail — not because they lack talent, but because they never learned to hear themselves. If you've ever felt like you're too intense, too chaotic, or too much for the system you're in... this episode is your permission to go all in — without losing yourself. Connect with Sharmin Ali sharminali.com Buy now the book Bitch, Stop! Please . . . : An Entrepreneur's Journey of Innovation, from Chaos to Clarity by Sharmin Ali Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Blame is easy. But real power? That comes when you take responsibility for your part — and invite others to do the same. In this masterclass with Sheila Heen, we dismantle the blame game and show you the negotiation move that changes everything. Connect with Sheila Heen: Follow Sheila on LinkedIn Buy the Book: Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most triadconsultinggroup.com Help Yourself Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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If no one's following you, it's not your message — it's your mindset. In this raw and revealing episode, change strategist Pam Marmon exposes the hidden forces that sabotage even the smartest visions: fear, control, passive resistance, and the lie we keep telling ourselves — that change is just “hard.” You'll learn: Why employees resist you, not just the change The subtle ways leaders micromanage without realizing it How your need to “get it done” is killing your influence The three forms of resistance and how to defuse each one What real listening looks like — especially when no one is talking Why every failed transformation begins with the wrong belief Whether you're rolling out a new initiative, rebranding your business, or simply trying to get your team to care — this conversation is your crash course in becoming the kind of leader people want to follow. Because if your people feel like change is happening to them, not with them — you've already lost. Contact Pam Buy the book "No One's Listening and It's Your Fault" Marmon Consulting Pam's LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Negotiate Anything: Negotiation | Persuasion | Influence | Sales | Leadership | Conflict Management
If you think empathy makes you soft, you've already lost the negotiation. In this masterclass, psychiatrist and bestselling author Dr. Judith Orloff dismantles the myth that empathy is a weakness — and reveals how it can become your sharpest strategic edge in business, leadership, and life. You'll learn: Why emotionally detached “logic” leaders burn out — and how to fix it How to disarm aggression and navigate conflict with strength and clarity The difference between performing empathy and actually living it How to lead teams without shame, ego, or bulldozing ideas When empathy can fail — and how to spot narcissists before they exploit you Tactical ways to respond when you're out of time, out of patience, or totally disagree Dr. Orloff shares practical, actionable tools from her book The Genius of Empathy (with a foreword by the Dalai Lama), including strategies for tough conversations, emotional self-protection, and leading with intention — not intimidation. If you want to be respected, trusted, and heard — this episode is your blueprint. Connect with Judith judithorloff.com Follow Judith Orloff on LinkedIn Dr. Orloff's Shop Order Now The Genius of Empathy by Dr. Judith Orloff Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
Negotiate Anything: Negotiation | Persuasion | Influence | Sales | Leadership | Conflict Management
You don't have a “difficult people” problem — you have a perception problem. Most of the tension you feel with others doesn't come from who they are — it comes from how you're reading them. In this masterclass episode, Kwame Christian breaks down the psychological patterns that make certain personalities seem “impossible” — and shows you how to turn frustration into collaboration using practical, repeatable strategies. You'll learn: The 5 personality traits you must understand to lead and persuade anyone How to quickly assess someone's behavior — without labeling or judging Why your best leadership tools stop working with certain people (and how to adapt) How to handle pushback, coldness, or resistance without losing your cool A real-time script for giving feedback without triggering defensiveness Why emotional control, not charisma, is your most persuasive asset How to reframe every tense moment — even with bulldozers, skeptics, and cynics If you've ever said “I just don't know how to deal with this person,” this episode is your playbook. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Most people think they're bad at negotiating. The truth? They're just not noticing when the negotiation begins. In this episode, professor and global negotiation expert Suzanne de Janasz joins Kwame to reveal why missed moments — not missing skills — are what keep most people stuck. Whether it's asking your partner for help, challenging unfair dynamics at work, or speaking up about the “small things” before they blow up, negotiation is happening everywhere… even if you don't see it. You'll learn: Why timing is strategy — and why ambushing never works How small annoyances become big problems when you stay silent How to evaluate if something is worth negotiating — or worth letting go The invisible labor women take on without realizing it Why sarcasm, snark, and silence are all signs of negotiation avoidance A simple mindset shift to start recognizing negotiation opportunities in daily life If you've ever walked away from a conversation thinking “I should've said something…” — this one's for you. Follow Suzanne de Janasz on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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They read you before they hear you. In this episode, Dr. David Matsumoto—renowned psychologist, judo black belt, and expert in nonverbal behavior—reveals how your body language shapes every negotiation before a single word is spoken. You'll learn the critical difference between nonverbal behavior and nonverbal communication, why observation is your most underused superpower, and how to project confidence without faking it. Whether you're in the boardroom or on the mat, this conversation will change how you see others—and how they see you. Contact David Matsumoto, Ph.D. Humintell: https://www.humintell.com/ Follow David on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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In this episode, world-renowned chef and entrepreneur Robert Irvine reveals the turning point that changed his leadership forever. He built his empire through grit and command — but it wasn't until he embraced empathy that everything truly leveled up. Robert shares the raw, behind-the-scenes lessons that reshaped how he leads people, grows businesses, and connects in high-stakes negotiations. If you think success is just about pushing harder, this conversation will flip that idea on its head. chefirvine.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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People don't trust who you are—they trust what they feel around you. In this powerful episode, Kwame Christian sits down with Shawn Anthony—entrepreneur, talent manager, and host of School's Over… Now What?—to reveal the hidden mechanics behind trust, influence, and real connection. Discover how Shawn turned his ability to connect people into a six-figure side hustle and then a thriving media business. From the boardroom to the podcast studio, Shawn shares real stories and strategies about building credibility, creating opportunity through generosity, and using podcasting as a tool for persuasive leverage. Whether you're trying to grow your brand, gain buy-in, or lead with confidence, this episode shows you what actually makes people believe in you—and what quietly pushes them away. Connect with Anthony podpromax.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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If self-promotion makes you cringe, you're not alone In this episode, Emmy-winning journalist turned communications coach Jessica Chen shares a new, smarter way to stand out at work — especially if being loud, flashy, or self-congratulatory just isn't your style. Drawing from her book Smart, Not Loud, Jessica explains how to build executive presence, advocate for yourself, and get noticed for all the right reasons — without betraying who you are. She and Kwame explore why common workplace advice doesn't work for everyone, how cultural values shape confidence, and what it really means to be assertive on your own terms. Whether you're naturally reserved or just tired of being told to "speak up more," this conversation offers a refreshing, actionable path to visibility, respect, and career growth. Connect with Jessica Follow Jessica on LinkedIn Jessica Chen's Services https://soulcastmedia.com/ Podcast: Communicating Confidently With Jessica Chen Buy the book Smart, NOT LOUD: How to Get Noticed at Work For All the Right Reasons Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Most feedback fails not because it's wrong — but because it triggers defensiveness. Buy the book Let's Talk: Make Effective Feedback Your Superpower by Therese Huston In this episode, cognitive scientist and author Therese Huston joins Kwame Christian to reveal the brain science behind effective, non-threatening feedback. You'll learn why even well-meaning feedback can backfire, how to prevent emotional resistance before it starts, and what most managers get completely wrong when delivering hard truths. Whether you're a leader avoiding uncomfortable conversations or someone who wants to build a culture of trust, this episode gives you practical, research-backed tools to speak up without sparking conflict. Discover the subtle shifts — from leading with listening to stating your intentions — that make feedback land with clarity and care.
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Two of the most powerful men in America—Elon Musk and Donald Trump—just had a very public, very personal falling out. What caused it? And more importantly, what can this teach us about trust, loyalty, power dynamics, and how relationships break down when interests collide? This is not about politics—it's about people. In this non-partisan breakdown, negotiation expert Kwame Christian unpacks the deeper patterns behind the Trump-Musk conflict and reveals the hidden strategies you can apply to your own life. Whether it's a business partnership, leadership team, friendship, or marriage—these lessons apply to everyone.DISCLAIMER: This content is brought to you by the American Negotiation Institute, a non-governmental, non-partisan organization. Our mission is to help people communicate more effectively and resolve conflict with confidence. We use high-profile moments like this one to spark learning and growth for everyday people navigating complex relationships.In this video, you'll learn: Why track record matters more than promises in evaluating trust How conflicting interests—even among allies—can predict future tension What happens when two alpha personalities refuse to take the backseat How to map out hidden interests in any high-stakes relationship How to protect yourself from sudden breakdowns in trust and loyalty If you've ever been burned by someone you thought you could trust—or if you've wondered why power struggles seem to emerge out of nowhere—this video will give you the clarity and tools to navigate those dynamics like a strategist. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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You don't need pressure to persuade — you need the right question. In this episode, Yale professor and bestselling author Zoe Chance joins Kwame Christian to share the most practical, science-backed influence strategies used by top leaders, negotiators, and communicators. You'll learn how to apply her signature "magic question" in real conversations, how unfair forgiveness can increase loyalty, and why most people misunderstand what real persuasion looks like. Zoe also breaks down why kindness isn't weakness, how to influence without manipulation, and what Hollywood gets completely wrong about negotiation. Whether you're leading a team, managing conflict, or just trying to get through a difficult conversation, this episode will help you shift from force to connection — and become more influential in the process. You'll discover: The 4-word question that changes everything Why empathy builds more commitment than incentives A reframe that helps you handle resistance with grace The mistake most people make when trying to sound powerful If you've ever struggled to be persuasive without losing yourself — this one's for you. Connect with Zoe Follow Zoe Chance On LinkedIn Buy the Book: Influence Is Your Superpower: The Science of Winning Hearts, Sparking Change, and Making Good Things Happen Zoe Chance's Website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Everyone talks about getting buy-in—but how do you actually do it when you have no product, no team, and no traction? In this episode, Marc Howland breaks down the exact strategy he used to build Breadless from scratch. From convincing a co-founder at a barbecue, to earning community trust through gym pop-ups, and finally closing $1.1M in funding—Marc reveals the step-by-step process to go from rejection to real support. If you're struggling to get others to believe in your idea, this conversation is your blueprint. Connect with Marc Breadless Company Follow Marc on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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They smile, they compliment, they even laugh at your jokes—but something always feels off. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with NYU psychology professor and best-selling author Tessa West to uncover the real danger of workplace frenemies. From subtle mixed signals to the science of stress, you'll learn how these ambiguous relationships drain your confidence, distort your judgment, and quietly sabotage your career. You'll also discover: – Why consistency matters more than kindness – The behavioral cues that reveal discomfort and distrust – How to collect real data on your workplace relationships – What to do when a "nice" colleague is actually your biggest obstacle If you've ever walked away from a conversation feeling confused, second-guessed your instincts, or felt tension with someone who's "never done anything wrong"—this episode is for you. Connect with Tessa Buy now the book: JOB THERAPY FINDING WORK THAT WORKS FOR YOU Follow Tessa on LinkedIn https://www.tessawestauthor.com/ Buy Now the book: JERKS AT WORK Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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They judge you in milliseconds — before you say a single word. And if your presence doesn't match your message, you're not just being ignored — you're being dismissed. In this episode, Kwame Christian sits down with presence expert Evan Weiner to explore the hidden science behind how people experience you — and why that can instantly boost or sabotage your power in negotiation, leadership, and life. From physical presence and aesthetic identity to the neuroscience of dopamine and status, you'll learn: Why your style, posture, and polish matter more than you think How to build presence that defends your reputation and commands respect The surprising way your body language could be creating “communication dissonance” What to do today to become instantly more persuasive — without changing who you are If you've ever felt like people don't take you seriously — or don't listen no matter how well you speak — this episode will shift the way you show up forever. Connect with Evan Weiner www.evangweiner.com Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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What if the key to commanding respect wasn't about proving yourself—but about being yourself? In this inspiring conversation, Elena Kohn, in-house counsel at AdventHealth and co-author of Women in Law: Discovering the True Meaning of Success, joins Kwame Christian to unpack the power of authenticity in high-stakes environments. As an immigrant, first-generation lawyer, and mother, Elena shares how she stopped chasing the image of the “perfect professional” and started embracing her accent, humor, and humanity. Together, they explore how self-deprecating honesty, emotional maturity, and quiet confidence can transform tough conversations, negotiations, and even courtroom dynamics. This episode is a masterclass in how to show up fully as yourself—without shrinking, without posturing, and without apologizing. Whether you're a lawyer, leader, or just tired of feeling like you need to wear a mask to be taken seriously, this is your permission to be real—and still win. Buy The Book: Women in Law: Discovering the True Meaning of Success Women in Law: Discovering the True Meaning of... by Han, Angela (amazon.com) Follow Elena on LinkedIn Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!
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Is your fear of being seen as "too much" keeping you silent? Kwame Christian sits down with assertive communication expert Ivna Curi to dismantle one of the most damaging myths in leadership and workplace culture — that speaking up means being aggressive. You'll learn the four pillars of true assertiveness, how to balance confidence with warmth, and why staying silent often creates more backlash than setting boundaries ever could. From high-stakes roleplays to actionable scripts, this conversation is packed with tools to help you communicate clearly, respectfully, and powerfully — without becoming the villain in the room. If you've ever held back for fear of being misunderstood, this episode is your guide to showing up fully and being heard. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life! Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn negotiateanything.com Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!