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Dating & Self Improvement Advice


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    The Trauma Bond Test‼️

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2026 13:20


    Are you trauma bonded with your ex?Learn what a trauma bond is and what it isn't from relationship and breakup coach Vincent Bos.

    Dumper Power Decline

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 20, 2026 16:20


    If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup, you need the scales of power to be equal. Today's podcast discusses how over time, the dumper's power and value will likely decline back to a more even level.

    The Dumper Stage You Don't Want To See

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2026 18:11


    Here is the least spoke about, but most important of the dumper stages your ex could likely go through. If you want your ex back, you need to hear this.

    When Your Ex Will Feel Worse Than You

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2026 16:49


    This is when and why your ex will feel worse than you do currently. If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup, this is important.

    Make Them think About You All Valentine's Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 11, 2026 15:49


    How to make someone think about you all day on Valentine's Day. This might be an ex, someone new you want to date or a partner in a current romantic relationship.

    Dumper Sadness on Valentine's Day

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2026 18:06


    Does the dumper feel sadness after the breakup? Today's podcast will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back. This is the reality of the dumper experience on Valentine's Day.

    Dumper Mindset 1 Year Later

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 6, 2026 17:21


    What does your ex think 1 year after the breakup? When a dumper ends a relationship, what is their mindset after a long time has passed?

    When No Contact Doesn't Work‼️

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2026 17:21


    Sometimes using the no contact rule will not get your ex back. Today's podcast explains when using no contact might not be the best move.

    Words that Shock and Upset Dumpers

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2026 20:41


    If you're a dumpee and say these things to your ex, it could do more harm than good, especially if you want to get your ex back after a breakup.

    Dumper Frustration After Time Passes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2026 17:53


    After time passes, your ex the dumper might get frustrated. Here are things you need to be careful of as a dumpee, if you want to try to get your ex back.

    Breakup Recovery Myths

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2026 15:45


    If you've been dumped, you will need to go through breakup recovery (whether or not you want your ex back). Here are some myths regarding going through breakup recovery.

    So Your Ex is Dating Someone New

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2026 17:14


    You're a dumpee and your ex is dating someone new. Here is what not to do, if you want to try to get your ex back. Are they in a rebound relationship?

    Your Ex is Doing THIS at Each Breakup Stage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2026 18:09


    This is what your ex the dumper is doing at different breakup stages.

    What Dumpers Don't Tell You❗️

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2026 18:44


    Your ex the dumper likely didn't tell you the things discussed in this podcast. Breakup secrets exposed!

    Why Dumpers Regret After Months and Months

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2026 16:48


    This is why dumpers are more likely to regret the breakup after months apart. This will help if you're a dumpee and want to get your ex back.

    What Your Ex is Trying Not to Think About

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 17:26


    Does your ex the dumper think of you? If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup, you might be surprised to know the things your ex is trying not to think about.

    This is When Dumpers Pull Away The Hardest

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 18:44


    If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup, this is when your dumper pulls away the hardest.

    Attachment Styles Explained as Animals (It's Uncomfortably Accurate)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 10:59


    Attachment styles easily explained as animals. Secure attachment, anxious attachment and avoidant attachment styles explained.

    What Dumpers Do When They're No Longer Sure

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 16:51


    When your ex the dumper feels unsure about the breakup, they do this!

    When Regret Turns to Doubt For The Dumper

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2026 16:33


    Dumper Regret vs Dumper Doubt. What does it mean regarding your ex's feelings after a breakup? Can it alter the chances of getting your ex back?

    When Dumpers Start to Regret the Breakup (It's Usually January)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 2, 2026 16:01


    January can show a spike in dumpers regretting the breakup. If you're a dumpee that wants to get their ex back, this can help.

    Why Your Ex Didn't Reach Out on New Year's (Dumper Psychology Explained)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2025 15:47


    It's New Year's Eve and your ex hasn't reached out. This is you ex's psychology as for why they haven't.

    This Year Was Terrible❗️ I'll Tell you Why That's Great❗️

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2025 14:51


    Life Coaching to help if you feel this year has been bad and why next year can be better as we approach New Year's Eve. This could potentially be regarding a breakup or 'ex back' situation.

    Missing Your Ex? Christmas Message

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2025 10:36


    Do you miss your ex? Breakup Coach Vincent Bos gives a Christmas Message to dumpees.

    Why Silence Hurts More After Months Apart at Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2025 16:59


    What happens if by Christmas, you have been apart from your ex for many months? Does silence hurt the dumper and dumpee?

    When You're Replaced & Realize You Never Knew Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 19, 2025 13:36


    When you feel replaced and that you never knew your ex, this can be a difficult time for a dumpee after a breakup.

    How to Move On When You Still Want Them

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2025 19:54


    How do you move on when you still want your ex back? Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains.

    The One Thing That Determines Whether an Ex Comes Back

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2025 18:08


    This is The One Thing That Determines Whether an Ex Comes Back after a breakup. Coach Vincent Bos explains.

    What Happens After They Replace You Too Fast

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2025 11:26


    What happens if your ex replaces you quickly? If they monkey branch or get into a rebound relationship? This will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back.

    5 Attraction Secrets That Make People Notice You Instantly

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2025 10:37


    Coach Vincent Bos explains the attraction advice infographic. This will help if you want to try and attract a new girlfriend, boyfriend or ex.

    Why Your Ex Misses You MORE At Christmas

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 12, 2025 16:58


    If you're a dumpee it can be useful to know why your ex the dumper will likely miss you more at Christmas.

    Why Some Exes Come Back… And Others Don't

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2025 18:39


    Why do some people get their ex back, but you haven't? Do they return?Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains why this might be the current situation for a dumpee.

    Why Your Ex Still Hasn't Reached Out… Even After All This Time

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2025 17:41


    Why hasn't your ex reached out after so long? This podcast will help people experiencing the no contact rule and wanting to try and get their ex back.

    What Your Ex Thinks After Months Apart (5 Emotional Stages)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 3, 2025 18:25


    The emotional stages your ex will go through. If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back, you will likely wonder what your dumper thinks, what are the dumper thoughts and dumper mindset months after your breakup?

    Why Avoidant Exes Pull Away and Why They Come Back Later

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2025 16:16


    Coach Vincent Bos discusses why Avoidant Exes Pull Away and Why They Come Back Later.

    If They're Silent Right Now.. THIS Is Why

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 28, 2025 18:02


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains why if your ex the dumper is silent right now, this is the likely reason.

    Click if You're Going Through No Contact

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 26, 2025 11:12


    Do you need help using the no contact rule? Breakup Coach Vincent Bos has advice for dumpees going through no contact after a breakup.

    Secret Tricks to Unlock Dumper's Remorse - Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2025 17:49


    If you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back, you might be wondering if your dumper might feel remorse for the breakup. In today's podcast, I discuss dumper remorse and the secret key to unlocking it.

    THIS Attracts an Avoidant - Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 21, 2025 14:38


    Coach Vincent Bos explains how to attract someone with an avoidant attachment style. Maybe you want to try to get your avoidant ex back, or perhaps you want to attract someone new who has avoidant traits. This is how to do it.

    Texting Your Ex After Months Apart

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2025 17:46


    After months apart, should you text your ex? What should you text your ex? Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains the best text your ex advice.

    Dumpee Speaks❗️Gives Hope 2 Years After Being Dumped❗️

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2025 42:37


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos talks with a dumpee two years after being dumped. He has since been a dumper himself and discusses things from both dumper and dumpee mindset.

    Do This After 6 Months of No Contact‼️ Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2025 16:58


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains to dumpees what they should do after 6 months of no contact if they want to try to get their ex back.

    Dumper Problems After Three Months of No Contact - Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2025 17:19


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains that after months of no contact, these are the problems your ex the dumper will likely face.

    BLACK FRIDAY! Coach Vincent Bos Announcement‼️ Life Coach - Relationship Coach - Breakup Coach

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 11, 2025 2:33


    'Black Friday' Special Offer on my audio coaching service until the end of November 2025. Email me for more details.

    Why Your Ex Monkey Branched❗️ Mindset of a Monkey Brancher‼️Breakup Coach Vincent Bos

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2025 18:41


    Do you think your ex is a monkey brancher? Should you try to get your ex back after a breakup if your ex has monkey branched? Breakup Coach Vincent Bos discusses monkey branching goals and the mindset of a monkey brancher.

    The Painful Reality For Your Ex in November - Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2025 16:07


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains if the dumper is likely to have an easy time after the breakup in November. Today's podcast will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back. This is the reality of the dumper experience.

    No Contact After More Than a Year❗️ Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2025 16:42


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains the chances of getting your ex back after more than a year of using the no contact rule.

    When Your Ex Feels You're Indifferent - Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2025 17:07


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains If your ex sees you're indifferent, what happens? This will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup. When your ex sees you aren't bothered, these are the likely results.

    Dumper Thoughts After Months of Ghosting - Breakup Coach Vincent Bos Explains

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2025 19:13


    Breakup Coach Vincent Bos explains the likely dumper thoughts of your ex after months of ghosting. This will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back.

    Stop Pursuing Your Ex and Watch What They Do Next - Breakup Coach Vincent Bos

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2025 16:37


    What happens when you stop pursuing an ex? THIS Happens When You STOP Pursuing Your Ex. Today's podcast will discuss the likely results of not chasing your ex after you've been dumped. This will help if you're a dumpee and want to try to get your ex back after a breakup.

    Should Women Sleep With 100 Men❓Vincent Bos & Misty O'Hara Discuss 'The Hundred Man Plan'

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 24, 2025 37:30


    Vincent Bos & Misty O'Hara Discuss Misty's book 'The Hundred Man Plan'.Vincent's Website - https://www.dateme.tipsMisty's Website - https://www.mistyohara.com

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